• If you are talking and a girl asks your name before you ask hers, it is an Indication Of Interest (IOI) - this doesn't mean you are getting laid instantly, but it's a start.

  • Never bring up if a woman has a boyfriend or a husband first before she does.

  • If a woman does bring up her bf, fiancee, husband -- ask her how the relationship or her love life is going -- that will often tell you a lot about if there is a chance -- [edit: or just completely ignore that she said it]

  • Stay out of the friend zone by letting a woman know early on that you are interested in her physically -- you can be friends later. Don't be afraid to do this, it is in your nature most likely and to do otherwise is repressing it.

  • At a bar or party, if a girl says "let's get shots" or something along those lines, she likely wants to get 'wild' and maybe hook up with someone that night.

  • In general, the less you care, the more likely someone is to pursue you -- particularly when a rapport or connection has already been built. So if you are willing to cut off communication or walk away from someone/something/situations, they will be more likely to come looking for you than someone who smothers them or a needy person.

  • Learning pick up/seduction is often completely different than learning how to be in a good relationship. In fact, your relationships may get worse when you learn how to pick up women - at first.

  • Some of the methods and techniques that you see on this sub and elsewhere are extremely powerful on some people, be aware that a woman can become "sprung" from it and the animal within her can emerge. This is usually a good thing, but keep this in mind with your friend's girls, co-workers, married women, etc. Also can create mild or various forms of female stalkers, for lack of a better word.

  • Even if it doesn't work at the time, planting a single seed of your physical attraction to a woman (and exhibiting your male sexual confidence by doing so) can sometimes cause a "timebomb" effect where that woman finds you at a later date, sometimes much later.

  • Any heartbreak you have will fade over time - there are other ways to speed the healing, but time will eventually fade it. You will get over that lost love or whatever it is.

  • And the biggest cliches of all, but they are true -- you can't get a hit if you don't swing the bat & the more lines your throw in the water, the more likely you are to catch a fish.