Stop chasing

FrasierandNiles · 2019-02-02T07:11:26+00:00

God I needed to hear this so much. Have been chasing a girl like a chode since a week now. I started talking to her a few months ago but nothing sexual happened. Had a chat with her and she said she is just enjoying my company. I started acting despo and jealous after that and I am sure she has picked up on it. Really need to dial it down. Sorry, just venting guys, nothing important to add.

Zic_Zacs · 2019-02-02T03:48:00+00:00

Women are complicated.

Especially in America, if you can play the passive aggressive game just as good, I think you’ll realize it will be a lot less headaches.

ThePurpleStuffedWorm · 2019-02-02T06:27:04+00:00

Honestly probably some of the best advice here. Too many posts on here boil down to "GeT AnY gUrL wIth tHIs OnE wEIRd trICk". Fact of the matter is, there's no cure-all. Just enjoy your life, and enjoy meeting new people who are worth being around. Don't worry about fucking every last hottie in existence.

PM_Me_OK · 2019-02-02T06:41:04+00:00

She could have asked you if you liked her still because 1. She seeing you with another girl, especially better looking, sparked her interest or 2. She saw you with another girl so fast she genuinely wanted to know if you still liked her or that you moved on. In a way that verifies to her a more accurate picture of how most guys think. Might be called gageing.

huey764 · 2019-02-02T08:13:24+00:00

So then how am I supposed to get laid?

Jovan1000 · 2019-02-02T06:53:29+00:00

Haha heck yea bro

bigcblogger · 2019-02-02T08:41:39+00:00

Amen. WAY too much advice out there advocates trying super hard under the guise of little tips and tricks. In reality, if you’re doing your own thing, a girl’s going to make up her mind pretty quick how she feels about you.

She’s either down to be with a guy like you or she’s not. And if she’s not, there’s nothing you can to do to force it. No sense in playing these games. Life is too short. Good on you for realizing it man.

snapyobagels · 2019-02-02T16:59:56+00:00

The second they realize you have other options or that you might not like them anymore, they lose their goddamn minds lmao

Not just women though, a lot of men are like this too. People generally want what they can’t have and then become disinterested when they have it or it’s too easy. Best thing you can do is literally not care, because that stands out the most and makes you more desirable.

VastDeferens · 2019-02-02T07:26:27+00:00

Are you in high school?

BrainsApplied · 2019-02-02T08:33:57+00:00

Yups, this is how it works... They are really good at sensing whether you're interested or not. By a great guy, but don't chase them to much, that doesn't work.

gdmfhgi5 · 2019-02-02T11:12:23+00:00

As a straight guy it is only fair not to chase the D

kellykebab · 2019-02-02T12:50:36+00:00

I mean, imagine how pathetic you have to be to check up on someone you already rejected to see if they still like you.

Being the pursuer isn't always bad.

jusdiffy · 2019-02-02T07:18:39+00:00

Do me a favour and don't ever talk to D ever again. She lost her chabce and she needs to know that

CuriousWafer · 2019-02-02T10:47:10+00:00

Straight to the point...

I like you honesty bro. Keep it simple, dating websites/social magazines will only make you feel less secure about yourself. In rare cases they may contain a few nuggets of wisdom. Rock on.

GeeOKeem · 2019-02-03T09:02:29+00:00

That’s not true. You have to chase or you won’t get anywhere. The key is to just not look desperate and make her try as well. Obviously if you are walking with a hot girl she’s going to want you as she thinks she has lost something worth having. Girls want what they can’t have, probably why they want a unicorn.

TheLoveGuardian · 2019-02-02T07:47:41+00:00

Here is the alternative to chasing in one video:

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Gsnwym2r408

PLS_PM_ME_PUSSY_PICS · 2019-02-04T01:39:23+00:00

I needed this, was seeing my coworker but she just lost all interest in me, never wanted to do anything together and would constantly blank my messages. I asked her one last time when I went to her city that I was passing through on a night out with friends if she wanted to come out and she said no. I thought fuck it, I've had enough of being treated like shit and chasing this girl I'm moving on. I've been out clubbing and tinder and pretty much just been a fuckboy since and I feel much better.

Know your worth fellas, don't become a beta for one girl.

tractorinballs · 2019-02-02T16:48:09+00:00

Guy stops chasing the D is able to get women.

Bcsaldi18 · 2019-02-02T10:36:59+00:00

man fuck this shit. women and their stupid games.

i'm gonna stay r/ForeverAlone

BLKMERC · 2019-02-22T03:59:32+00:00

Friend zone weirdo

Title	Stop chasing
Author	GeeOKeem
Upvotes	305
Comments	70
Date	February 2, 2019 3:43 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/amadqy/stop_chasing/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/stop-chasing.1461584 https://theredarchive.com/post/1461584

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