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Stop giving terrible advice.

judahman8 · 2019-06-27T06:59:46+00:00

I see too many guys on here that are giving out straight up horrible advice. I wish there was some kind of system that showed how much merit you have on the...

judahman8

June 27, 2019

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Title	Stop giving terrible advice.
Author	judahman8
Upvotes	1
Comments	24
Date	June 27, 2019 6:59 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/c62asy/stop_giving_terrible_advice/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/stop-giving-terrible-advice.1472347 https://theredarchive.com/post/1472347

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[–]getyourlifeplease 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]Dan-D-Lyons 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]Imperator_Pyra 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (20 children) | Copy Link

[–]tomonto_ 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

[–]Imperator_Pyra 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]getyourlifeplease 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]tomonto_ 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]TheThinkingMansPenis 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]tomonto_ 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]judahman8[S] -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

[–]Imperator_Pyra 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago* (12 children) | Copy Link

[–]judahman8[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

Yeah I can see why you would get that impression of me. I did read that comment right before I posted this but this isn't about that, although it's a good example.

I love the Mystery Method too, you got that right, there's nothing like it. I don't know how long a fort night is but I came across Mystery about 12 years ago.

This isn't about my ego, this is about accuracy. You don't know me so you don't know that if I say something about a subject that I claim to be well versed in, nigga you better listen. I don't expect that from strangers. What I do expect is if I tell you something and you have never tried it, then don't act like you know better.

Let's take the date comment. You don't think I've gone on dates? I'm saying after going on dates and going on non dates that the non dates are so much better that I will never go on another date with a girl that I'm not already dating lol. I also can't see the benefit at all. Do you think that guy has tried going on intentional non dates? I highly fucking doubt it because he would be saying how great they are just like every other fucking guy who is going on "non dates" lol.

Again I only care about accuracy. If he said I tried that and it didn't work or he still prefers regular dates because bla bla bla then that would cool. I could be wrong, fuck my ego. But I'm going off of facts, the facts are that I have yet to even hear of a guy who ever goes back to dates after taking this approach. If you know anyone please tell him to write me, I would love to get to the bottom of it.

Ive been on a bunch of fucking dates and I've heard countless complaints and gripes about them from both sexes. I came to the conclusion that they are completely unnecessary (tinder aside) and they almost auto DLV the guy because it's framed as you trying to chase her. That goes against what I understand about the principles of game.

I just don't want guy's being led astray. Now my Ego is also like fuck you guys lol. So imagine some idiot telling Kobe fucking Bryant how to play basketball but he doesn't know he's talking to Kobe. It's pretty annoying when all I'm trying to do is teach guys to play ball and you have fuck tards saying shit that's going to make terrible basketball players lol. I guess it can't be helped, I'll probably just stop giving advice like the rest of the guys that actually know wtf they are talking about.

Anytime someone says they are really good at something people think they are being cocky. If you are as good as you say then it's not being Cocky. I only care about accuracy.

[–]judahman8[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

[–]Imperator_Pyra 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

[–]judahman8[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Game is a subject that I care a lot about for whatever reason, probably because it has a massive impact on my life. I'm gonna be passionate about something I'm very passionate about obviously. To think that is a sign of someone being unsuccessful in a field is a folly on your part.

Im not talking about a one size fits all solution to anything. Shit I use different styles of pickup that contradict eachother all the time. I'm not saying contradictory advice is automatically wrong either. I'm saying people are giving terrible advice, it's no coincidence that its contradictory to the advice that I am giving, which I believe is good advice.

I don't feel like bragging about how good I am at pick up. You clearly wouldn't believe me even if I told you. The problem is that very few people respect or even recognize expertise these days. If there was a system that somehow rated your knowledge level at the very least, it would help tremendously in getting rid of a lot of misinformation on here.

[–]Imperator_Pyra 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

[–]judahman8[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

I certainly don't want more stupid people giving stupid advice, that's all I'm saying. And by stupid I mean on a specific subject obviously. Now I understand that you can't yet tell the good advice from the bad advice and that's part of the problem, but I can.

Now you don't have to believe me, shit I don't want you to believe me lol. You can try anything I say for yourself. No amount of me bragging is going to make you go "oh shit this shit works!!" I do it right in front of people and they still don't fucking believe it or they would learn it and do it themselves.

You want me to convince you of shit that I don't even care to convince you of. If you are too lazy to just go out and try it for yourself then you don't deserve the knowledge.

If Kobe says he's one of the best players in the world and he is, then it's not bragging. I'm only bragging from your perspective because you assume that I'm full of shit. I only care about accuracy, if I'm not as good as I think, I only care about finding that out.

[–]Imperator_Pyra 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

[–]judahman81 point 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

You don't understand the definition of bragging sir. Maybe English is your second language or maybe you assume as much about me as you do about what you think you know.

You are simply someone who is not testing things out for himself because if you were then we wouldn't be having this conversation.

You would already know for yourself. What you want is for someone to convince you this stuff works so that you finally have the balls to go out and really practice game. That's never going to happen tho dude. You just have to grow some balls and try it for yourself first, then you will know. Truth is experience so I can't help you by telling you endless stories about me going out sarging.

Mystery wrote two books, made mad videos, had two seasons of a TV show teaching guys this stuff, endless testimonials and shit and that still wasn't enough for you to try the shit out for yourself, so what the fuck am I gonna say? I can't help you bro

[–]Imperator_Pyra1 point 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

You are simply someone who is not testing things out for himself because if you were then we wouldn't be having this conversation.

Interesting, this is EXACTLY what I think about you.

BTW, the definiton of bragging: "excessively proud and boastful talk about one's achievements or possessions:. Comparing yourself to Kobe seems to qualify. Not having the balls to say why you deserve such a comparison shows me you don't have much to support your overgrown ego though. But I get it, Mystery Method, so you had to create this "awesome" character of a player to hide behind it.

You assume a lot of things about me in an attempt to spin this around on me. I barely have interest in this conversation anymore, and I know for a fact now that you will not give a straight answer to any of the questions below, but for the fun of it:

1) Why are you so toxic that you keep calling people "stupid" and "idiots" just because you think your advice is better?

2) Do you even cold approach much? How many approaches this year?

3) Why do you seem so frustrated if you're supposedly getting laid so much?

[–]judahman81 point 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Are you going out and testing stuff? No you aren't, is that not a fact? I however did, and my results will line up with anyone else who tested shit for themselves. But I'll answer your stupid questions, shit I'm stuck driving to North Carolina so why not.

I'm calling people stupid who are talking about a subject that, from my perspective, they seem to know very little about, if anything at all.

I've been hard focused on other very important goals this year so I haven't been cold approaching hardly at all this year. Im close to maxing out my outter game, my inner game is basically maxed out and now I'm maxing out my lifestyle game.

Like I opened a couple sets the other night just to blow these college kids minds. I get a bunch of numbers from girls that I'm naturally getting into conversation with but I'm actively avoiding women for another 2 or 3 weeks after a 6 month term of fasting from the pussy.

I seem frustrated because I have all this game and I'm actively not getting laid. Girls are my biggest distraction so I have to avoid them to get shit done.

Crazy shit still happens to me almost everyday because apparently I can't turn it fucking off. Just the other day I met this really hot black girl from Brittain at an all you can eat buffet. She ended up sitting with me and then before I knew it she was telling me how she was rich and how I should fly back to Britain with her. Lucky for me my passport expired so I couldn't go. If I went with her then there was no telling where that rabbit whole would go. Distraction lol

Oh my God and then this milf I met with the tits and the oh my God, long story. And this 17 year old girl keeps trying to land me in jail. Then my ex is all I don't know what I want. Then this chick with the most ridiculous body that I found out graduated from my highschool like 8 years after I did lol literally was just waiting for me to fuck her and I honestly just couldn't get around to it. Now she's in new York. Distraction!!! Oh I'm fucking frustrated alright lol. Bro I don't know how much longer I can do this. Oh yes I do, 3weeks lol

But bro this is me not cold approaching. I don't even expect you to understand because you have not experienced anything like this because you have not gone out and practiced game techniques objectively to see the results for yourself. You still aren't learning anything first hand and you still don't believe anything I say so what's the point of these questions lol.

I'm good tho nigga trust me. I'm not on here asking for advice, I'm the one giving advice my dude.

[–]Imperator_Pyra1 point 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

[–]xtrusters1 point 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

lol, I've just seen a post of this dudes where he's talking more shit that I thought possible and then about how he can basically bang any girl he wants

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/dc3psd/how_are_you_guys_doing_with_the_cold_approaches/f2a2uzx/

He also said in other posts he's only banged a few girls. A bit like the guy who's like ''I can make 10 million per year if I tried because I read business books, but i'm just happier earning minimum wage tbh''

I had to quickly check his history to see what I was dealing with here! (which lead me to your post i'm replying too)

So many fantisists on PUA forums and such! I think they do way more harm to the community than they realise. 'Game' isn't some fucking superpower where you can jedi mindtrick your way into any girls pants because you memorised the same lame ass routines and lines from teh mysterymethod that any other guy can do!

[–]Dan-D-Lyons 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link