Talking shit like a male?

UrFavPlayerIsBack · 2022-05-15T06:35:53+00:00

Nah man. Thats violating the bro codex. How desperate one can be for a 🐱, so he’s tryna get it the sneaky manipulative way, putting fellas down. How is he better than them after that? Way worse..and SHE WILL HAVE 0 RESPECT for him, even if he gets in her pants. She’ll just be validated at the moment

Instead, u can create the “us frame”. Not putting men down, but making you both exceptional compare to other people in general. Its not putting them down, its about making you both special.

Your dude is lost.

ChoppedBelAir · 2022-05-15T06:45:32+00:00

Talking negatively about other people just makes you look bad.

It's one think to play at repartee, but straight talking shit will only back fire

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-05-15T07:10:19+00:00

That sounds totally fake. Sorry

revente · 2022-05-15T09:31:14+00:00

Your friend is a toxic dummy. He lost women because of that, not because of a lack of shit talk.

Sea_Particular_9086 · 2022-05-15T06:40:20+00:00

Wtf, talking shit about other men? Are you interested in other men, other men shouldn’t even be brought up in conversation unless a broad brings up an ex randomly in convo.

incognito3107 · 2022-05-15T09:03:18+00:00

Speaking sincerely is sexy af in some contexts. If you are normal, it is natural that you like and dislike some things. Being too polite and nice, when you are clearly not enjoying situation can be viewed as lack of confidence, character and social skills.

Yerebeets · 2022-05-15T09:18:28+00:00

Women love positive energy. They don't want to hear you whining about random Joe, they want you to focus on the positive and make her interaction with you fun and light.

It can also come up as "why the fuck is he talking shit about other men, does he try to compensate for something and make himself look better"? And this is something no chick will like.

VorpalPaperclip · 2022-05-15T13:13:49+00:00

You shouldn’t be talking shit about anyone. That just tells people that you will badmouth them behind their back later on. It says, “You can’t trust me.” When I meet people like that, I do not engage and try to bail out of conversations with them.

Saying negative things about other people is purely expressing your own insecurity and the reason aggressively machismo men do this. They feel insecure and need to make themselves feel more powerful by crapping on others. (This has broad social implications if you read into it and consider hate speech, political extremism. Etc… but way off topic here!)

Empathy is a sign of strength. You might find women that don’t like this though and it makes me wonder what that says about them.

throwawayofc1112 · 2022-05-15T17:42:48+00:00

You don’t have to talk shit about others man. Not that I’m successful in seduction at all, I just don’t think it’s worthwhile to your friends. There’s a difference between shooting the shit and blatantly insulting someone else.

These-Calligrapher · 2022-05-15T07:22:01+00:00

She’ll respect whoever respects themselves. Just don’t be a doormat. Lead others and lift others up. Don’t be needy. Be a man. You don’t have to amog or be a douche, but that’s more attractive than being a bitch. Just be a man who leads, inspires, and likes who he is and you’ll be good

Title	Talking shit like a male?
Author	Environmental_Ear106
Upvotes	4
Comments	23
Date	May 15, 2022 6:25 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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