"Don't try to become the type of man that can get any girl, become the type of man that will make any girl want you."

if that makes sense. its what I say to myself to remind myself of the real main point here, instead of all the rules and shit. lets face it, most people most of their lives try to things that influence others. I still do it alot, everyone does, we want a friend or lover to like us, we analyze our actions and respond to hopefully create favor our way.

....but what I get most of this sub-reddit is basically this. in seduction, especially if you are the man, just be a good man, be good to yourself. if the point of being a man is to be the leader and backbone to the family, then be that man and focus all you do on being that good man and projecting it inwards to yourself and outwards to others in confidence. its super true. regardless of all the shit rules and games and bullshit, if you just man the fuck up, take care of your body, mind and money and do it with some self respect and not too much ego, and never focus outwards on trying to impress a girl, you'll get so much poon.