Trigger Emotions! How ?

_notaxation · 2025-08-07T23:51:18+00:00

It's pretty easy actually. The first thing I would tell a guy is to sexualize the conversation. Not overtly (certainly a large portion of women don't mind overt sexualizing) but covertly. See how she responds.

Easy example. Love island. I would recommend guys watch it. Very relevant to seduction.

I'll bring up love island during our conversation. Whether or not she's seen the show or likes it or not doesn't matter. I'll swing the conversation to how the show isn't about love at all. It's all about lust. Unfiltered lust. Sex is the main focus.

I'm not saying talking about love island will get you your dick sucked. I am saying bringing up sexual topics with woman especially relevant ones will lead to a lay. Watch her reaction. Does she get excited? A bit flustered? If so this is good. You've sparked emotions within her which is pivotal when going for the pull.

epimpstyle · 2025-08-08T00:09:33+00:00

From the entire list of emotions, you will consciously use just these two: joy/happiness and curiosity.

- Joy/Happiness- any joke for a funny thing you say/do, you will make her laugh and feel good.... Job done!

- Curiosity (suspense) - "A month ago, I did something.... ummm I don't know if I should tell you..... " If she say:" Why? Is it good or did you do something bad?"... you just triggered curiosity.

There are all kinds of emotions, but don't bother with them. These two are used 90% of the time, and you need to avoid any sad subjects, because it's not a good idea to make a woman associate you with something sad.

If you make her feel good, the moment she sees you, she will automatically associate you with the feeling of joy/happiness + curiosity. This is what you need.

Matter_Still · 2025-08-08T11:08:42+00:00

If you are clever enough to discover what interests give a woman a buzz, you don't have to worry about "triggering emotions": the environment or something else will do that.

As an example, some years ago, I met a girl on the LIRR. She had a Playbill in her hand. I believe it was "The Sound of Music". We started talking about theater. She said, she hoped to see one more show before she returned to Cornell (a second-year vet student), but there wasn't anything that interested her.

I asked her what she knew about "The Weir". She never heard of it. I gave her the Cliff Notes version and she said, "Wow. That sounds great". She asked me if I'd seen it and I said, "I had, but it was so damn good I was going back again. I told her I had bought two, one for a friend, a flight attendent, but now she said she couldn't make it. There was a conflict. She asked what I had intended to do with the ticket. I said, "I hadn't thought about it. Are you interested?" She was, and we arranged to meet at the theater two hours before the matinee that Saturday. She promised to call if she changed her mind. She didn't. We had a quick lunch at Joe Allen's, which she loved.

"The Weir", however, sealed the deal. It's basically four Irish guys in a pub entertaining a young woman with ghost stories. But, damn, they were great story tellers who kept the audience on the edge of the seat. There were three or four times when she involuntarily squeezed my forearm and then reached for my hand.

I remember learning in graduate school that fear leads to a release of adrenaline, which creates a feeling of excitement or a "rush" that some people find enjoyable or thrilling. This rush can be interpreted as pleasurable, and in the right context, as sexually arousing. She was one of those people.

The actors did all the work. I just picked up the pieces.

If she's a sports fan, take her to a sports bar. Try to find out what gives her a buzz and expose her to that.

I've never seen this fail. It's not a free pass to sex, nothing is, but you don't have to do any heavy lifting.

(And for the curious, a week later she did stay the weekend and it was time-capsule.)

Note: I mentioned to one girl who had put me in the friendzone when asked what I was going to do one Friday night, that I was going to watch "The Hunger"--a really exquisite vampire movie. She asked if I wanted company. I said, "Sure. Can you bring a pizza?"

It turns out--and Newsweek did a feature article on this--many women have a well-kept erotic secret. They are into vampires--and "the vampire mystique" is 90 percent sexual. It's a metaphor for dangerous sex!

I graduated from the friendzone that night.

Neat-Egg5659 · 2025-08-08T22:24:03+00:00

tell stories that have emotional ups and downs. like "worst date ever but then she saved it by..." people get invested in the outcome. also ask follow up questions about things she clearly cares about

Icy_Fail_8577 · 2025-08-08T03:40:15+00:00

I am still thinking about this and figuring out, but here is what I have noticed and seems to be true.

Women are not like men emotionally, when we think about evoking emotions we think about how men thinks "he is not emotional so how to make him emotional". Its not same for women.

Think of women as walking human flesh of emotions, they are always in some emotional state mostly. And we trigger emotions by using words and stories.

So unlike men, we dont need to 'crack' a barrier and emotions will be revealed, its all there, just use the right WORDS and STORIES.

How many times you have seen women crying in movies vs men ? They can cry easily because they dont have that barrier that men have, they may not show that emotions are triggered.

So Its all infront of you ! Just imagine them as living and walking emotions, when you are talking to them imagine you are talking to an emotion.

burncushlikewood · 2025-08-08T03:25:34+00:00

If I knew how to teach you how to do this, it's about charm and rapport, you have to be kind, you have to be funny

HomelessMilkman · 2025-08-08T07:20:21+00:00

Enthusiasm.

It doesn't matter what you say if you say it in a monotone, restrained, stifled manner. A lot of people barely open their mouth when they talk, they have a blank expression on their face, they're tense and uncomfortable, holding back from expressing something that could remotely be considered 'fun'. You can't do that and expect someone to be excited to interact with you more or again; that's the cornerstone of 'attraction'.

"Trigger emotions" is a roundabout way of saying to think about your presentation of the content. The content is nothing compared to how you present it. The stark difference between one person and another is enthusiasm, energy, charisma; presenting something that could actually be appealing to listen to.

kev1nshmev1n · 2025-08-08T08:08:54+00:00

There are three things that affect our behaviour. Thoughts, feelings and movement/action. Understand the difference between feeling and emotion, behaviours start to make more sense. Each one of those things affect the other, learn how to tune into how a woman feels through differences in how she moves or talks, she’ll use the context you find yourselves in to make herself stand out to you or to blend in and not be noticed, it will give you an idea of her interest or lack there of. When she realises that you are paying attention and responding to her then she has an audience. Then her feelings of attraction become the basis for how she thinks and moves, at that point seduction for her becomes a creative act. It’s those feelings and the unexpected things she’ll say and do that she’ll chase. This is when you pulling back a little makes sense. She’ll sense that void and step in with her charm to regain your focus and attention. How she acts towards you will affect how you feel, how you feel affects your behaviour, your behaviour affects how she feels which in turn affects how she behaves which then affects how you feel etc… this is essentially a feedback loop, which drives sexual tension, shit gets real when you get to this point. Some of your responses to each other will just occur to you, others will almost be like an instinctive almost out of your control reaction, most people are surprised and almost intimidated by their own feelings and responses while other people (especially women) will derive a new confidence in themselves with the cool shit they said or did on the fly. This is the kind of stuff girls will report back to their friends about. I think a lot of guys are afraid of this out of control aspect and will nope out at this point. Intense sexual tension can literally drive people crazy, the longer tension goes unrelieved. Usually, for guys sex is the end goal, but for women, maybe, sex is a relief of sexual tention; and hopefully only a temporary one. Unrelieved sexual tension is literally the female version of “Blue Balls”. But this all literally comes from the tingles are fuzzy sensations that comprise our feelings. Feelings are litterally the brain and body drugging itself to affect its own behaviour, and the behaviour of others. Feelings are essentially a biological currency that motivates our behaviour.

Dandys3107 · 2025-08-08T13:57:48+00:00

First of all, do you know different kinds of emotions? Like happy, amused, surprised, relaxed, curious, uncertain, relieved, hyped, confused, etc. etc. Then, think of situations and conversations that should induce these emotional states in a girl. If you still have no clue how, then I would suggest to stop sleeping on living life, throw yourself out there, experience all these emotions naturally and share them with others.

No-Compote-2127 · 2025-08-08T14:27:33+00:00

Being somewhat silent also helps. Especially if its just two of you. If you don't have anything good to say or talk just be quiet and try to enjoy whatever moment you have.

People are in general uncomfortable with silence, given on the mood however if one party is somewhat quiet the other party will start opening up and start talking about the things that she cares about.

You can just move on from there. If a woman is interested in you she will use the silence to ask you personal questions or topics that she feel emotional about

eablokker · 2025-08-09T09:33:27+00:00

Let's consider some of the ways that emotions are triggered in general.

Contagion: Someone else is experiencing an emotion, and due to the effect of empathy and mirror neurons you feel it too.

Example: You enter a social situation feeling outgoing, confident, fun, excited, seductive, etc.. Others pick up on your energy and feel what you feel and also start to exhibit behaviors consistent with those emotions.

Past Memories: You remember an experience from the past and you remember how you felt at the time by re-experiencing the emotion.

Example: You say "Have you ever had an experience where you felt X?" "When was the last time you felt X?" "If you were to remember a time when you felt X..."

Future Imagination: You imagine an experience in the future and how you will feel and it brings up an emotion.

Example: You say: "If you could imagine a time in the future, say a year from now, experiencing X emotion..." "If you could have an experience where you felt X, Y, and Z emotions, sometime in the near future, what do you imagine it would be?"

Emotional descriptions: You read or hear a description of how an emotion or emotional experience feels to someone else.

Example: You describe the process of how it feels, to you, to feel attracted to someone, or what it feels like in your body to fall in love, in a richly detailed way, conveyed with emotional expression that matches the description.

Social context: You witness a mugging on the street, or you see an injured baby animal. A real life situation brings up emotions.

Example: You rescue a woman from a mugger. She felt in danger and now she feels safe with you.

Sorry if I formatted that similar to chatgpt. Hopefully it gets the ideas across in a concise way.

Bonus: Pre-existing Emotional Associations: When you think of your mother you feel some emotions. When you think of a celebrity crush, or your best friend, your favorite place to vacation, your favorite food, etc. You have emotional associations with these things.

Example: You ask about her favorite things and how they make her feel. You cook her favorite dish for her. You take her to her favorite place. You buy her her favorite kind of flowers. When you insert yourself into her favorite things, into her emotional experiences, you become part of her favorite things.

Complex_Box6980 · 2025-08-08T00:41:28+00:00

I don't know all this and i am very successful with women, i just say whats on my mind, i see my self as a prize because i have large dick and i am also mature guy and nice and i don't tolerate disrepect so i treat women like they are my daughters, you can ask for more details

Title	Trigger Emotions! How ?
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