When can you start being yourself?

puaCurveBall · 2012-11-28T20:27:03+00:00

When yourself stops sucking

IAMTHEDEATHMACHINE · 2012-11-28T21:48:33+00:00

Why are you not being yourself from the get-go?

Ranquin · 2012-11-28T21:59:45+00:00

The thing isn't about faking it. You don't fake that you went skydiving last week and made out with a stripper yesterday. You do these things. That guy is you. If you do not want to ask pointless questions just to keep the conversation going then you are failing in something. Get her talking. Talk about interesting bullshit like stars and animals and sex.

Fire42uck · 2012-11-28T22:57:11+00:00

If you aren't interested in her, then stop acting like you are.

2012-11-28T21:00:18+00:00

Because when i'm talking to the girl on a daily basis about shit I don't care like "How was your day" "How do you like this?"

Well, why do you not care? Also talk about stuff you do care about.

MyThrowawaySeddit · 2012-11-29T09:30:05+00:00

When you become the person you're pretending to be. If you're pretending to be a person you don't want to be, you're doing it all wrong.

2012-11-29T04:46:04+00:00

Then why don't you be awkwardly silent?

Seriously though, find someone you have things in common with. Or try and broaden your interests so that you can enjoy conversations with other people. If all you like doing is brooding silently, it's going to be hard finding a girl that also broods silently. What are your interests man? Do what you want!

anions · 2012-11-29T04:16:33+00:00

Never.

Be yourself never, at least around girls and anyone you do business with, because both are negotiations. Save that shit for your bros.

strange_hobbies · 2012-11-28T21:49:53+00:00

You don't. The idea is to become this new persona. Fake it until it becomes real.

dking168 · 2012-11-29T05:25:03+00:00

If you already banged her why does it matter? You only continue with the pleasantries if you want to continuously tap it. If not, might as well say fuck it and walk away. That actually makes chicks want you more so I highly suggest it.

Title	When can you start being yourself?
Author	ManiacApple
Upvotes	1
Comments	15
Date	November 28, 2012 8:05 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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