Which post have you saved ?

elttek99 · 2014-11-25T02:27:52+00:00

Here are a few of my saved list that I've found to be helpful (below OP's, thank you for investing the time in these by the way)—

Above the Game

The Sedditor's Checklist

10 Gold Tips

Answer to 50% of Q's on r/askseddit

Female Perspective

How I rebuilt myself

Relationship Manifesto

In saving these, I have learnt a few valuable key things (of which I understand, but admit am still yet to truly/entirely accept—I am in no way an expert, and still need to implement and work on these).

It's all about adding value, and being able to show value. Recognising our own value, the value in others, and being able to recognise what others value.
Outcome dependency is a trap. Accept that anything out of your control is truly out of your control. If you don't embrace failure and/or mistakes, you're going to go crazy.
Seduction is less about seduction, and more about self development and self esteem.
Attraction is not about what you say or do, but about who you are. We can become attractive individuals by investing in ourselves rather than in the women we are pursuing.

snuffy_707 · 2014-11-25T01:31:52+00:00

This one, in hopes I can steal from everyone else. Thanks in advance.

fuckyousnowflake · 2014-11-25T01:46:33+00:00

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1o8flw/okay_look_i_get_it_girls_are_tough/

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/kcedb/a_common_blindspot_to_success/

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ub1h0/ill_be_your_nemesis/

Wabbajak · 2014-11-25T14:08:04+00:00

Some important stuff I collected over the years (I really like bookmarking).

The Sedditor's Checklist.

Another Checklist.

General Information.

Things I wish I knew years ago.

What to do if you're an introvert.

Exercises for improving your game.

Hooking up in college.

Legendary Field report.

Seduction summed up in one sentence.

Recovery from Nice Guy Syndrom.

More recovery.

If you're still struggling.

How to get laid when you're still a virgin.

Kissing guide.

Read this if you have a crush.

How to apporach. (not /r/seduction)

What to do after a breakup.

Stop reading, go out you moron.

_Brimstone · 2014-11-25T01:56:37+00:00

Above The Game:, comprehensive.

The Relevant Remnants of the Mystery Method,, useful theory

Best Bed Sheets, a comprehensive breakdown of a specific logistic.

Satangel371 · 2014-11-25T08:08:59+00:00

Complete idiot's guide to dancing;

http://www.reddit.com/r/reddit.com/comments/gcxlf/the_complete_idiots_guide_to_dancing/

How to talk with women;

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ovaar/since_seductionreview_went_down_i_thought_id/

10 Gold Tips;

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2fn2r1/10_gold_tips/

8sweettooth8 · 2014-11-25T09:04:03+00:00

One of the best FRs here...

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1l4cfu/fr_field_report_sometimes_everything_just_falls/

Great for motivation.

mostlyidontcare · 2014-11-25T18:22:23+00:00

Didn't save it but I saw a very good list of kino routines, if anybody remembers, please tell me, I think it will help alot of people (including myself)! Also thanks everyone for sharing all these cool threads with us.

beknazar · 2014-11-25T04:32:52+00:00

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1gg9zv/i_am_the_prize/

Spore2012 · 2014-11-25T06:25:01+00:00

just this one http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2a5wfh/if_a_date_with_a_girl_is_not_for_another_week/cis88en

koala_diarrhea · 2014-11-25T09:21:26+00:00

Top Points Covered By All Naturals

Some things & mindsets you should have from the Natural PUA ideology.

How I Gained Confidence

Forget 'fake it til ya make it'. Work on yourself in ways that make you proud of yourself; which will create deep, authentic confidence.

2014-11-25T13:43:17+00:00

Never underestimate eye contact. It took awhile for me to figure out what all the fuss was about, but it's way more effective with girls then you probably think. And it works at every step of the process:

Don't know them? catch their eyes, linger for like 1-3 seconds, then smile. They are now ridiculously intrigued. Why did you smile at them? Who is this guy that looks at what he wants unwavering? If they look back your way, catch their eyes again (bonus points: wink ;) at this point, you can walk up to her and pretty much say anything, you're already in.

on the date? Eye contact saves you so much work. If you're not sure what to say, just meet her eyes for a few moments of sexually charged silence. Smile at her, break it, start up conversation again. Anything you say will sound brillant because she's just thinking about why you were smiling like that at her.

want to go in for the kill? lock eyes and smile like you want to throw her against the wall. I knew I was doing it right when girls started asking "why are you looking at me like that??" while getting a little flustered. look at her left eye, then right, then mouth, bam! mouth spelunking. (the eye-eye-mouth is called triangular gazing.)

Been on a couple dates, trying to get to know her better? Lock eyes with a slightly puzzled look, then ask her a deep question. The eyes just add so much depth to whatever you're doing. Know what you want, let your eyes convey that, and then act on it.

quick edit: laughter is a huge bonding point between people, and I've heard so many girls say how important laughing is to them. If you're joking around with a girl, you're laughing, she's laughing, she'll definitely be considering the two of you together. This is also a great way to initiate playful pushes, etc that are great starting points for kino. (Just to elaborate on bl1y's points a bit, thanks mate)

Credit to u/srdnlsnw http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2ekyuu/how_do_you_show_attraction/ck0lw36

Psychocist · 2014-11-25T09:18:32+00:00

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/22cmjd/just_wanted_to_say_thanks/cglozb0

wifestealer19 · 2014-11-26T01:42:42+00:00

Yea ill save this one.:p

2014-11-25T03:44:03+00:00

I don't have it saved but I frequent Nick Sparks videos on youtube or his TED talks quite often.

jojolebo · 2014-11-25T18:04:42+00:00

2014-11-25T20:27:22+00:00

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BKLounge · 2014-11-25T23:11:34+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2nb5ok/which_post_have_you_saved/

So now I have ALL the important links in one place

biggalactus · 2014-11-25T03:06:57+00:00

This one. I have no shame.

manjot97 · 2014-11-25T08:08:06+00:00

I have saved this one now so I can see the others later.. :p

ELite_Predator28 · 2014-11-25T13:08:13+00:00

Everything.

MrLucifer89 · 2014-11-25T09:58:26+00:00

ITT: Seddit posts

Beaudism · 2014-11-25T19:31:43+00:00

I have not saved any. I don't want any reference material to look for. This isn't a game for me, this is my life. And like life it is ever changing and adapting to new situations.

As a result I don't save anything. I feel as though it keeps things new.

I my journey to find myself (lol that so cliché) I find myself using seddit less and less.

I started out a socially anxious teenager who was nervous in a lot of situations and wouldn't ask a girl out unless I had the perfect circumstances. I waited for things to come to me.

I used the "fake it till you make it" adage to great effect. I learned to interact with people more, go with the flow, and ultimately get the things I want out of life. I don't have to fake t any more, because I have made it.

I think that for me I'm done with seddit. For me this method was good. I think that if I had saved the topics and references is feel anchored down and less open to experiment myself.

Overall I'd say my journey is complete. I have the confidence and abilities I need from this forum. Using the information as advice rather than fact as well as experimentation helped bring me to where I am.

So my advice to you is to take everything with a grain of salt and don't think of anything as an absolute rule. Different strokes for different folks, my friend.

Title	Which post have you saved ?
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Date	November 24, 2014 10:40 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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