Why Am I Like This

Matt_Bigmonster · 2022-08-07T11:30:52+00:00

Nothing wrong with you. Sexuality is an intimate thing. I'm 40 and had a ton of relationships and dating experience, like a ton. I never enjoyed strip clubs or those kind of restaurants or one night stands.

Having a good game and enjoying women doesn't mean doing everything at a click of fingers. You can do it your way. If you like going slow or apreciating your time with women then do it your way, a lot of girls will apreciate it.

Game is abour being in control of your dating life, not fucking everything everywhere.

Soinds like you are just a "decent guy".

Superb-End6273 · 2022-08-07T14:03:34+00:00

This is exactly what to expect if you don't have experience with many women. Deep down you probably want to talk to some of these woman but would feel even more uncomfortable doing so because they're halfnaked. Truth is, it's just an excuse. If I was there because of my experience I wouldn't let any of those other factors get to me like they did you. So to sum all this up there's nothing wrong with you because 90% of guys would've acted the same. I'll tell you what, if i was there it would've been a whole different story. The eye contact would've been strong and I probably would've been flirting with the waiter to be honest with you

cobraCL · 2022-08-07T12:23:54+00:00

Society has always hypocritically conditioned us to be obsessed with sex, but ashamed of our sexuality.

Our parents may have shamed or punished us for showing any expression of sexuality in our development. So it was pushed deep into the underground, private, and deliberately hidden.

If hiding your sexuality was the only way to express it growing up, it may feel uncomfortable and scary indulging in it out in the open.

5_7pickup · 2022-08-07T12:21:18+00:00

You need to be more selfish. You care more about how other peoples feel/think than yourself.

Crunch-Potato · 2022-08-07T14:25:00+00:00

Are you ashamed of your wants and needs?

Sweaty_Literature_69 · 2022-08-07T20:05:48+00:00

because of your relationship with your dad, most likely. you are uncomfortable and ashamed of your sexuality.

whale_sports · 2022-08-08T10:00:35+00:00

Don't go to a restaurant looking to find someone. Just be with friends, and have fun. Of course it's okay to look, and chat with her....

No...I dont feel super awkward, bc im not there to meet anyone, or look at them. Most of the time, just treat them as a normal server, be kind, and tip well.

Otherwise I'd just go for some cheap beer at a strip club.

2022-08-08T10:36:25+00:00

It's normal for a novice to hit the road. do better next time

Title	Why Am I Like This
Author	Velociraptor2018
Upvotes	12
Comments	15
Date	August 7, 2022 11:20 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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