[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/11/13

edded4freefood · 2013-11-11T18:54:54+00:00

What are some ways to deal with someone that is playing hard to get? She agrees to meet up and shows some interest, yet pushes back the time we were supposed to meet up (most recently, it was delayed 2 hours because "her clothes were in the dryer"). She will also read my texts immediately but not reply for a while. Also, when she was over, we were in my room having beers watching basketball, and she chose to sit in my desk chair rather than the bed, which made any sort of kino/escalation difficult.

puaCurveBall · 2013-11-11T19:54:12+00:00

My biggest issue with game is letting go when emotionally attached. I don't get emotionally attached to a girl often and have ended countless things with other girls I was just casually hooking up with, but when I care/date/love a girl I have a very hard time letting go, regardless if I'm happy or not with them.

How do I improve this and put my happiness first?

nitemare129 · 2013-11-11T18:34:39+00:00

What do you guys do after you sleep with a girl you're not pursuing a relationship with? I recently slept with this one girl and had to kick her out soon after because I was swamped with work. I felt a little bad because I could tell she wanted to relax and cuddle, but I honestly didn't feel like doing that and I did have a lot of work.

DownvoteToDisagree · 2013-11-11T21:30:47+00:00

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puaCurveBall · 2013-11-11T19:49:57+00:00

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CompoundAce · 2013-11-13T03:32:14+00:00

Every attractive girl I meet I run game on. The problem is, this doesn't leave me with many good girl friends (girls who are literally just friends with you) even if my game is successful with her. So I'm missing out on good wingwomen and also essentially just good potential friends to expand my social circle. When should I try to just be friends with a girl instead of trying to have sex with her. Or do these 'good' female friends come from the ones who stick around even if you do fail with them?

puaCurveBall · 2013-11-11T20:35:01+00:00

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2013-11-11T21:32:52+00:00

How can I learn to dance better at dances and parties? I am of a lean build and very athletic, but I do not think that I am a good dancer.

ti95 · 2013-11-12T00:09:13+00:00

How exactly does the paying situation work? How exactly do I her pay for her stuff without me sounding rude when on a date? I'm 18 and a freshman in college.

BDesh04 · 2013-11-12T00:43:45+00:00

How do I approach a girl that's walking towards me.

For example: Lets say I am walking through the mall and I see a cute girl walking towards me about 20 yards away. We both make eye contact and we're not breaking it until we pass each other. I want to approach this girl. Do I a) say hello right when we are next to each other, or b) wait till she passes then do the over the shoulder approach?

Lanai · 2013-11-12T00:56:23+00:00

When sed says to sexualize a girl does that mean to remind them that they are a woman? Could someone clarify this for me.

bl1y · 2013-11-12T02:18:24+00:00

Is it possible to go on 'too many' dates in the first few weeks?

Context: met this girl at a Halloween house party 2 weekends ago, we hit it off, got her number, hooked up at the party. Invited her out to dinner and drinks the following wed (last wed), went well, ended up making out in a park later. Then met up with her for a quick coffee on Sunday. Also I will be seeing her this Friday as her roommates and her are having a houseparty. Is it too much to ask her out to something this Wednesday? Or wait till the weekend? I've read on seddit that a method of maintaining attraction is to make yourself less available, opinions?

mr_mojo773 · 2013-11-12T02:46:23+00:00

How do I go about initiating a conversation with a girl in highschool? I do have a friends that are girls but I've known all of them for quite a while. I want to know how to just start talking with a girl I've either never met, or have had very little contact with.

bl1y · 2013-11-12T03:01:24+00:00

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bl1y · 2013-11-12T08:58:01+00:00

More of a philosophical question.

For those who have had some progress...

Is it "wrong" or "dangerous" to feel a lot of happiness and approval when a girl is actually responding to you? My game isn't good, I'm pretty much a beginner, but I've been fairly analytical of my past failures and successes for a few years. Yet, my experience is still low. I feel a surge of fulfillment and satisfaction if the girl even tries to carry on a conversation with me.

In the world of pickup masters, getting a girl to respond to me properly is a baby step compared to getting a lay or an exclusive relationship with a well-rounded super HB. I don't exactly want to feel nervous about hanging out with a girl, or happy that a girl actually responded to my text that was kind of lame. I know these are needy feelings, yet they're in me.

What do I do about them? What is the right way to face these feelings?

P.S. By responding to you well, I mean in person (kino, good cues, laughs, carries on conversations) or text/IM. Just the feeling as if something you did WORKED.

bl1y · 2013-11-12T11:47:52+00:00

seduction/pick up material has added more value to my life than any self help material I have come across.

What are some other categories of literature (not seduction related) that I should look into, that are as powerful as seduction material?

Khalku · 2013-11-12T14:59:33+00:00

What are good date ideas? If you want to keep seeing someone and keep them interested that is. I don't know if that fits for this subreddit, but I'd imagine it might just a little bit?

mohampton · 2013-11-12T19:12:24+00:00

I'm starting to get attracted to my dance partner. She dropped that she just got into a relationship. Move on to another fish in the sea?

AspiringAlpha · 2013-11-13T01:47:28+00:00

Here's a simple question: How do I tell if a girl I am gaming for a little while is starting to lose interest? If she is starting to lose interest, should I attempt to get it back, and how would I get it back?

O3EAN · 2013-11-13T02:28:47+00:00

How do you remain calm with hostile people (being yelled at, someone trying to fight you, etc) ? I seem to kinda lower my voice a little and I start getting nervous. What are some ways to keep my body language at ease and avoid stuttering ?

Afeni02 · 2013-11-13T03:35:07+00:00

So when girls play with their hair, its an IOI. But what about when they're playing with their chain?

imjaywalking · 2013-11-13T03:38:44+00:00

There is a girl that has really caught my eye on my campus. I don't know her at all, but I see her from time to time in the library and she's usually all by herself. Although she only stays for a few minutes, which doesn't give me enough time to react.

I don't want to come off strong, nor do I want to compliment on her physical features, so what can I say to her that could at least spark a conversation and perhaps a date?

Also a problem I've encountered when I see her: she always has headphones in and book/notebook open, I feel as if this sends a message that she does not want to be approached.

I_Win_ · 2013-11-13T13:32:40+00:00

I've had this problem happen to me a couple times now. Meet a girl at the bar get her number, but then I do not exchange mine with her. if I've waited what would you guys text her?

bl1y · 2013-11-13T19:06:50+00:00

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keepusernamesecret · 2013-11-13T21:29:42+00:00

Girl I k-closed last weekend went cold (showed reduced interest progressively) on me via text before I could confidently ask for a date. How do I act if I run into her this weekend (probable)?

Iregularlogic · 2013-11-11T21:31:31+00:00

How can I make a girl a FWB rather than a girlfriend? Should I never mention a relationship and assume she understands or tell her upfront that I am not interested in a relationship?

TerriblePUA · 2013-11-11T21:29:34+00:00

What is the biggest difference between high school seduction and adult seduction?

bl1y · 2013-11-12T21:08:38+00:00

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mbengajoy · 2013-11-11T19:58:42+00:00

How should you keep spinning plates when you are in an exclusive relationship? How do you continue gaming?

bl1y · 2013-11-11T21:34:38+00:00

How does one go about getting a girl in a relationship?

Title	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/11/13
Author	SedditModTeam
Upvotes	28
Comments	116
Date	November 11, 2013 6:11 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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