[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/26/2012

GochuGopikachu · 2012-11-26T22:58:58+00:00

In a long term relationship, meeting her whilst portraying oneself as a party animal and then switching to down to earth human, how do you make the switch between the two smoothly?

triplee9 · 2012-11-26T22:22:34+00:00

Should I try to talk to girls in the bus ? I mean if some girl sits at the window, should I just sit next to her or would that be too far in her personal zone ? I sometimes see girls in the bus and often they glance to me really noticable. But I never know if I should make a move.

mr_pooper · 2012-11-26T22:37:19+00:00

Okay 2 questions:

What are some things I can do to shake nice guy syndrome in both inner and outer game?
I'm questioning trying pick up at my high school where I am pretty much known as the nice/nerdy guy who doesn't talk a lot. What are your thoughts?

mr_pooper · 2012-11-26T22:53:05+00:00

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Upboats1 · 2012-11-26T23:19:03+00:00

Sure, at the beginning of the year a hot 10/10 was looking at me. I was to "beta" to do shit for a while but one day said fuck it, and talked to her. It went well and got a number. Still to beta, never make a move. She goes "cold", thought she lost interest. She still has the tendency to look at me in class but thought nothing of it because I thought she was over me. After a while I fucked up and tell her I would like to know her better through a text to which I got no reply. I figured if she liked me she would have replied so I started to not give a fuck anymore, do my own shit. Fast forward to today (and this is everyday) I still catch her looking at me in class. It is a fucking death stare sometimes. I look at her and make eye contact and she looks away first. Keep in mind she does this so fucking much. What do.

LeonardTimber · 2012-11-26T23:37:46+00:00

This is a phenomenal thread idea. Thank you.

Best reading advice from fellow sedditors? I'm always looking for a good book.

ThrowAway10670 · 2012-11-26T23:45:28+00:00

Love this Reddit, I basically read it for inner confidence boosts. I don't know why; but almost every time when I'm out with my mates I have a woman approach me. Now I'm terrible at flirting, seriously. Out of the women who initiate conversation with me I've only ever walked away with 2 phone numbers and gotten nowhere(because I'm also hopeless at texting). I should also say I rarely try to spark conversations; I'm not shy it's basically the whole "she's probably not into me" thing. So my question is; should I keep to my current attitude/personality that seems to make girls talk to me and if so, how do I talk to them? (simple as can be)

AlphaKarma · 2012-11-27T02:25:42+00:00

What should you do while your in the club? I know the answer is 'have fun,' but what exactly is meant by that? There is going to be some 'down time' where im not talking to a girl or hanging with my friends. Does it not look super beta to just hang out by yourself?

ilikeCRUNCHYturtles · 2012-11-27T00:02:54+00:00

Anybody know some good ways to improve their stamina in bed? This has recently become an annoying occurrence. I feel like I'm in Dante's Inferno, since I've been using Seddit for the past couple months I've been getting a lot more girls in my bed, but now I can't even enjoy the time that they're there. I'm at the healthiest weight I've ever been in my life, I work out four days a week, and I eat right. Any help would be appreciated.

heckz · 2012-11-27T09:53:07+00:00

Does anyone have any pointers or tips for people who are slightly older? I'm 31 and it seems like most of the people here looking for advice are 17-22 approximately. Lots of questions about high school and college game that don't really apply to me.

I just got out of another long relationship that I killed (or didn't kill soon enough) by being a total beta schlub, wanna break the cycle.

minicharr · 2012-11-26T23:29:17+00:00

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youcantexplainthat00 · 2012-11-27T00:24:39+00:00

This has happened to me a few times lately. A woman who is older, usually 28+, will ask my age within the first few minutes. I'm 22 and I'm pretty sure I could pass for 25. I usually start throwing random numbers out dodging the question and another time I asked her how old she was back for a laugh. How do I turn this into a joke that works or should I try saying 25?

I don't give a shit if they're older than me.

Toby16custom · 2012-11-27T02:59:59+00:00

Alright so typically I am more "in the field" kind of guy but have an interesting deal:

Girl comments on friend of mine post (Facebook), she's cute, I replied, roughly same age/done with school (same here) and recently single (1mo or so). I friend her after seeing she likes Electronic music as much as I do. talked via message for a bit but I'd like to get her out sometime.

So do I A. Ask her straight out of Facebook via message B. Get her number and try to get her to go to a mutual event/EDM show C. Get her number via FB then call her up to make plans D. Your advice

TIA

DinglerBerries · 2012-11-27T03:08:58+00:00

Let's talk about shittin' where we eat. I talk to girls rather easily, but I always put myself in the friendzone because I can't seem to take that risk of making the relationship "more". Should I just find girls that I don't go to school with or should I just roll the dice?

Ujrtyrhhyrt · 2012-11-27T04:21:53+00:00

Is it possible that friendships and relationships are just not for me? I can socially interact very well but I just don't get the urge to "hang out" with friends or girls or anyone. Ideal time is spent by myself.

How do I fix this?

daftasp3 · 2012-11-27T04:34:13+00:00

does a girl you know from long time ago, and you see her as a friend, can become something else?

Kangster_ · 2012-11-26T23:25:23+00:00

I'm not old enough to drink. Is the movies a good date spot? How can I talk to that cute girl in my class? Where's the clitoris?

the_brick_attack · 2012-11-27T00:36:09+00:00

What do you do when you have to put your life on hold? I mean like for a year. I'm not going to get into the whole circumstance I'm in, but what do?

funfwf · 2012-11-27T01:33:15+00:00

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indifferencecurvee · 2012-11-27T03:14:38+00:00

I don't have any problems approaching and closing girls in clubs, but I can't man up enough to show my interest for the girl I'm really in to. How can I get past this?

BreadFriendForever · 2012-11-27T03:29:03+00:00

I have a gap between my front two teeth, I normally don't give a fuck about it and don't really consider it a factor, but recently I've been getting some shitty comments about my teeth. So I was wondering if any sedditors have gone from gap to no gap, (gotten braces) and noticed a significant change in reception from the ladies.

TL;DR Does having a gap-tooth hurt my game?/ Would it be worth while to correct it?

Wiebesta · 2012-11-27T03:34:34+00:00

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elephant_inroom · 2012-11-27T03:38:43+00:00

I'm stuck in a tiny high-school (only 17 girls in the grade! ~80 in the entire school) and am also taking advanced classes so I don't see many of my classmates much (not many opportunities to talk) . Any advice on how to try and find someone here?

Note: I don't have a car so dating out of school is much harder.

2012-11-27T04:52:22+00:00

Is it acceptable to "hit on" girls at their place of work? What about at the gym?

I see cute girls checking me out sometimes at the gym or in stores and I if I were to talk to them, I'd hate to mistake their politeness with being flirty and then I'd be the creepy guy.

DownTownD14 · 2012-11-27T07:59:20+00:00

Most of the time when I'm around people, in class, etc. I usually have the feeling of being watched and judged by people around me. Especially when there is a girl I am interested in, or attractive women in the same room/area as me where I feel I can be standing out, which in turn lowers my confidence. Some days I can ignore it but others I can't rid the feeling.

Is there a way I can shake the feeling of being suppressed by eyes around me when the feeling arises?

GoldAlpinas · 2012-11-27T08:47:23+00:00

In a large party setting, how do you set yourself apart and stand out to the girl that you want?

cummingpump · 2012-11-27T10:06:10+00:00

I cannot flirt outside of a night game. It's really easy being drunk and hitting on drunk party girls and once we hook its really easy to escalte/get into a relationship... But in day game- coffee dates, study dates, or just talking to girls in class I cannot get my self to flirt. I have gotten pretty good at the initial attraction stage but they all slowly lose interest because I literately friend zone myself. How the fuck I'm I supposed to escalate? How do I make the first move? Should I ask if they have a boyfriend first?

heckz · 2012-11-27T13:04:07+00:00

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hitler2 · 2012-11-27T14:24:49+00:00

I met my new neighbor on Friday at a neighborhood get together, but i was sick and I didnt game so well under the watchful eyes of her grandparents. We yalked briefly but somewhat boringly. I think i made a better first impression with her grandparents than i did with her. I wanted to follow up but completely lost my voice - Its still gone. I have no clue how to proceed from here.

daftasp3 · 2012-11-27T14:46:51+00:00

How does social networks affect the social proof? I got like a lot of photos partying with HBs, does that matter?

mysedditalt · 2012-11-27T18:50:41+00:00

I need some kino encouragement. I cant seem to escalate at all

adam483t · 2012-11-27T19:36:52+00:00

How do I start doing more interesting things with smaller amounts of money? Currently, going to the gym feels like my most interesting hobby, since others aren't as spectacular. I'm interested in rock climbing too, but I would like to go more often.

I wanted to go to improv classes, but they're 200 dollars and in Philly, an hour away. Where are some interesting places I can go to to have a good time and meet women? I'm 19 and in college, haven't been invited to parties.

adv23 · 2012-11-27T20:58:38+00:00

Going to new years eve party with a friend (f). We are gonna dress up, any ideas for a costume from tv?

Nathan561 · 2012-12-02T04:59:43+00:00

when is the nest seddit question thread?

Title	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/26/2012
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Date	November 26, 2012 10:16 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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