[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/30/16

Throwaway7163 · 2016-03-31T01:25:53+00:00

Prom is happening in the next couple of months and I want to ask a girl that I like who I'm semi friends with. I'm not sure she would even say yes, but assuming she does, what happens after that? I don't want to go as friends, but I'm worried that's the impression she will get. Advice on asking her/after asking?

AspiredQuality · 2016-03-31T22:19:01+00:00

I'm in highschool and am trying to get a little more experience with dealing with girls. When I started talking to 8-10s I usually screwed up because I felt pressured that I might mess up and ended up acting super akward and weird. Would there be a problem with me talking with less attractive girls just to gain that experience? And besides this, are there any better ways of getting more experienced?

SupaZT · 2016-04-03T00:19:55+00:00

Someone teach me how to fly solo.... I'm scared.

Cxplorer · 2016-04-03T03:05:56+00:00

I see many pretty girls on bus. I tried to speak to some of them and failed badly. I want to retry again but ... it's not easy. Any tip on how to flirt in public places?

throwaway12269 · 2016-03-31T03:05:24+00:00

Before spring break, I went on two dates with a girl that I was interested in. This quarter, I have a class with her (15 people) and that class meets everyday. How do I play this out? I'm afraid I'll see her too much now. Should I just move on?

Mrgentleman490 · 2016-03-31T18:02:59+00:00

When you pick a girl up from her parent's house and someone else answers the door, what is a good thing to say? I know that this is a ridiculous question but I need to know what I'm going to say beforehand.

Justin_Rosenthal · 2016-04-04T00:16:15+00:00

Should I avoid listening to music in public (headphones)?

Can you use self deprecating humor if it's for self amusement?

throwaway787973 · 2016-04-04T16:48:40+00:00

Been hooking up with a friend of mine from a university. I've only had sex with a long term girlfriend before where sex was planned so I have no idea how to transition from making out to sex.

I've hinted at the idea of us having sex with each other for a few times. Sometimes she will say things like "it seems like you want something" when I lock eyes with her during intense make outs. During a make out session one time I said "I want you" and she responded with "take me" which seems like an obvious invitation to sex but nothing came out of it. I don't know how to bring up if I should put a condom on or not without it seeming awkward. I've fingered her before and taken off her bra but she stopped me when I tried to take off her pants. Am I doing something wrong or is this just a matter of building trust with her over time? Next time she says that phrase "it seems like you want something" should I just be straight up and say I want to fuck her?

Justin_Rosenthal · 2016-04-05T00:55:40+00:00

After setting up a date should you text her every day at the very least to keep the chemistry going or can you not text them days in between?

bobers654 · 2016-04-05T07:19:55+00:00

I get sweaty when touching skin for a while even if im not nervous. Always had it: sweaty feet even in perfect westher, cant keep my hands togethor without sweating them... It sucks

How do you guys suggest I take pics for tinder? I dont like pics of me in general and only have one really crappy one of myself years ago on fb. Im not really photogenic. Off that, tho pics are more important, what should I write in my bio?

bobers654 · 2016-04-05T09:47:57+00:00

If you are picking up a girl, do you play anything in the car?

Justin_Rosenthal · 2016-04-05T22:25:30+00:00

What's the communities thoughts on David Wygant in regards to you should just say it's ok if she doesn't want to sleep with you. In regards to LMR it seems like this community tries to push its way through.

carboxamide · 2016-04-08T00:33:36+00:00

How do you bootstrap yourself? I am completely shut down, like I've lost my voice - how to spin the machine again?

wheresthesaucebro · 2016-04-10T18:28:22+00:00

how do u successfully seduce a girl that only teases you ? the farthest i have gone with her is making out , whenever we hangout and drink she tells me she's horny , but i try to escalate but she wont let me. What do I do?

wheresthesaucebro · 2016-04-10T18:52:06+00:00

Im a freshmen in college, and I just began to read about the the art of seduction and The Game. I have been trouble applying these things Im learning from these book, does anyone know anthing about speed seduction and NLP training.Beforehand, I was decently good with women, but always had trouble being undecisive and sealing the deal and sleeping with them. I have only slept with 4 girls but had decent amount of hooks up. I have been in many situations when a pretty girls really likes me,Im too surprised and I mess up whatever chemistry there was, its like I get so nervous and Idk what to do.

Cthulhu_in_my_soup · 2016-04-11T01:05:04+00:00

To all pickup masters So in a new attempt to pick up girls me and my friend are planing on the buisness card approach do it be up to them whether they call or just throw it away . Looking for tips on what to put on the card we thought something along the lines of you look like your in the need of some good conversation.

tniemuth95 · 2016-04-11T04:08:33+00:00

Had a first date last night and spent the night with her but didn't have sex. I was definitely pushing for it but she wasn't having any of it. Wasn't even LMR, she just didn't seem interested in sex at all. Anyways I'm upset about it and wondering if I should say something. Should I make it clear that I expect a sexual relationship or should I try another date first? Or just move on to a new girl?

BeginnerPUA · 2016-04-11T20:17:01+00:00

Hey guys. Been speaking to a girl who I got all needy with (before I descovered PUA) not long ago and I asked her if she wanted to meet me for a drink. At first she seemed really keen and I messaged her over facebook trying to arrange a date but she saw the message and didn't reply. I am almost guaranteed to see her Tommorow as I'm meeting some friends for a meal in her place of work so how do I react when I see her? Should I try and make conversation with her or just blank her. I don't want to appear needy and make the same mistakes I made before?

Thanks guys!

Alphahands · 2016-04-09T14:08:19+00:00

Virgin here. Broke up last week. Might be getting laid soon (casual sex most likely). I'm just wondering about the "passion" of things. Will kissing, etc all be the same as "normal" sex? I don't want to make things awkward.

I assume it will be different from girl to girl but the answer is generally yes. Just want to double check here by someone who has done this before.

lekman · 2016-04-09T18:48:16+00:00

Met a girl on Wednesday night, texted for a bit and then asked her out on Friday with no response. What is the best way to follow up on this?

Title	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 3/30/16
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Date	March 30, 2016 10:41 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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