Women care about looks more than men

NotARussianBot1984 · 2023-09-03T13:44:32+00:00

Anyone remember society telling them women are less shallow cuz men want big boobs and women want men who are funny?

Cuz I do

BlackpillEnjoyer · 2023-09-03T13:37:41+00:00

Empathetic gender btw.

Xbox-Loud-Cloud-216 · 2023-09-03T15:48:00+00:00

To trigger casual sex vibes in women u gotta be top 5-10 % of looks

To trigger casual sex vibes in men u gotta be a woman

tayrod_432 · 2023-09-03T14:07:25+00:00

High IQ post

Gold-Cat382 · 2023-09-03T12:56:34+00:00

brutal

NefariousNaz · 2023-09-04T02:09:18+00:00

Yes absolutely.

Honestly the gaslighting about this is the only issue I have.

If it wasn't for the gaslighting about this other follow up issues wouldn't be an issue like pretending that it is due to personal failures.

I earn 6 figures, was a millionaire at market high, used to spend free time volunteering helping sick children and their families, and more. The cognitively dissonance of my background and their personal beliefs just causes redditors to just call me a liar rather than consider it in their world views.

StayEmbarrassed1747 · 2023-09-03T16:51:53+00:00

Absolutely 100 % Women are significantly shallower than men in every aspect. Physically, emotionally, and intellectually. On average.

SedTheeMighty · 2023-09-04T05:33:39+00:00

I think the reason this is true is due to the options the average woman has compared to the average man. It only makes sense that they would pick the EXACT guy they wanted (due to so many options). It’s laughable that guys don’t seem to grasp this concept. While most guys have to take what they can get (since women aren’t approaching most guys), women get what they want (since guys approach women at a higher rate than vice versa).

Hubris1998 · 2023-09-03T21:49:57+00:00

"A man's personality only matters to a woman if he meets her basic looks cutoff first" To be fair, we do this too.

The other studies are brutal though. Ironically, women will complain about us being sexists when in reality, the men they choose to sleep with are secretly 10x more misogynistic than we are

sweetbrown89 · 2023-09-04T09:16:59+00:00

I’m not really sure what the point of this post is

Guys get really mad when I’m honest and say that 99% of men are invisible to me

Even playing Devil’s Advocate, “yeah, so? People are dishonest to feel better about themselves…what difference does that make?”

Let’s say every woman admits that she cares about looks AND throw in the bonus of women magically don’t think like we’re all attractive

What would that change for you? Because most women would probably just think “I’m not attractive enough to get the guy I dream of, so I’ll just be alone”

We’re not going to lower our standards…which seems to the be goal for men…seems like the whole point is to pressure women into settling for men we don’t want

Reading the comments…it’s weird that men believe they deserve a chance…no one deserves a chance with anyone

Digipixel_ix · 2023-09-05T07:35:28+00:00

I understand that what is trying to be investigated here and definitely haven’t written these possibilities off…but respectful…these are shit for fuck sources in support of any of the given arguments or assertions.

Not a single meta analysis and even slipped in a causal survey from a blog?

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-09-03T14:52:11+00:00

https://youtu.be/b7OZDNyVVaQ?si=QvQG07FZOJu_xWf5

All you have to do to be proven wrong is see how men treat women who look like this and the way they talk about tortas.

operation-spot · 2023-09-03T14:44:49+00:00

-women care about looks more than men may initially believe but it’s only one (important) aspect of a man’s overall attractiveness

-most women are considered attractive to most men

-most men are taller than most women

-large jaws are considerably masculine and masculinity is known as the opposite of femininity and opposites attract

-men are able to gain muscle faster due to higher testosterone so it’s not an insane preference or expectation

-men also have a looks cutoff but it’s a lot lower because they find most women attractive

-psychopathic and misogynistic men are more likely to have the self esteem to approach women in the first place so it would make sense that they are also more likely to have sex which requires men to approach women

It seems like you want to make women out to be terrible people but no one has ever said that looks don’t matter and if they did, it was an incomplete statement.

Lord_TachankaCro · 2023-09-03T15:39:06+00:00

Everybody cares about looks. We can be extremely mentally compatible, but if I don't find you attractive, we're never gonna be more than friends. Whoever tells you otherwise is bullshiting you. But that doesn't mean you are expected to look like young Schwartzeneger

hugegayballs · 2023-09-03T22:39:47+00:00

Honestly the ugliest guy I know slays pussy because he's outgoing, chill and funny. You'll get laid no matter what you look like if you have good hygiene and aren't obese as fuck. (And even those guys still find success.)

I've seen a really common misconception on this subreddit that women reject men or find them creepy because they were unattractive. That's not true at all. You're likely just extremely socially awkward and it makes people uncomfortable. They can probably also tell that you're only talking to them because you're trying to get laid. There's value in talking to women you don't plan on fucking. (Like improving your social skills for your future girlfriend) If you don't do that ever, you'll never have sex with a woman. -A woman.

Ps: literally every guy I've ever rejected has been because I just didn't click with them, they weren't funny or just made really off putting comments all the time and has had absolutely nothing to do with their looks. There is no "Chad."

Fourthgood_Martial · 2023-09-04T15:11:48+00:00

I don't see the issue. A lot of us men say we're visual partners all the time. It's just that now women are, too.

Quirky-Arugula-4660 · 2023-09-04T16:59:28+00:00

Ofc because females are the sexually selective gender in most species.

Wooden_Concert3127 · 2023-09-27T12:03:14+00:00

Wait, don't the last two studies prove that personality DOES matter? Like, if you are misogynistic, you will get laid more.

Title	Women care about looks more than men
Author	SmoothForest
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Date	September 3, 2023 12:40 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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