Women will never give non-Chads a chance

hydro9889 · 2023-09-14T16:21:52+00:00

I come from a single mother muslim curry household and was raised by a mother to basically be a beta gentleman nice guy, like even after 6 years of being blackpilled and trying to be indifferent to woman and their comfort, I still catch myself from time to time unconsciously treating women with preferential deference, and when i catch myself i feel disgusted. The reason she raised me like was because my dad was an abusive lightskin chadpreet who use to physically abuse hurt and beat her, like literally punch and slap and hit her in the face and broke a few of her teeth (this was all before i was born btw), so im assuming she wanted to make me into some betaboy nice guy that would basically grow up to worship his wife and obviously not abuse and beat her or some shit lmfao.

Before i was blackpilled i was basically a bluepilled disney brained bollywood brainwashed simp. In alot of family/love bollywood movies the usual plot is: there is a happy family--> some family conflict happens---- the family breaks up---- overtime (usually years in between) wounds mend and the family starts to come back together----> happyness ensues----> and two people usually marry towards the end of the movie and everyone lives happily ever after. Yes its cringe but imagine watching that kind've media from when your a very little child, till the time you are around 18-19 years old (around the time when i went through my redpill "muh alpha" phase, and then 19 when i finally got blackpilled). Before that while i was a teen, i thought i was going to eventually find the love of my life sometime either in HS or College, we would get our degrees, we would get our careers started, a year or two after i would get our first place, then id propose and then we'd live happily ever after. Thats what i thought was going to happen, and thats what i wanted. No i didnt think about banging or having casual sex with multiple women. I wanted to find my virgin wife and then we'd lose our virginities to each other because i considered sex to be an extremely private matter and intimate thing you do with someone you are emotionally attached to. I seriously dont understand the "serial monogamy" lifestyle that alot of western culturally raised people live, as in when i find someone whom im completely emotionally attached to, i literally cant think of being intimate with anyone else, for me i use to think its almost psychopathic that alot of people can have no problem giving their bodies to someone who they literally dgaf about on an emotional level lol.

This idea that all inkwells are a bunch of ugly misogynists that just want to sleep around like chads but are too ugly to and thats the only difference, is a complete farfetched generalization. While im not denying that there are a section of people like that (and i am now apart of said group), most inkwells that i meet deep down are just lonely men who want the affections of someone thats atleast their looksmatch lol.

EverVigilant1 · 2023-09-14T15:44:30+00:00

Well, not really. They will give nonChads a chance, but only after Chad, Brad, Thad, and Tyrone made their cum deposits. And only after she finally figures out and accepts that ChadBradThadTy won't commit.

And she'll give nonChad a chance only if he prequalifies himself by jumping through thousands of hoops Chad never had to jump through, and only if nonChad immediately commits and gives her unfettered exclusive access to all his resources.

Then, and only then, does nonChad get a chance. A chance.

RatDontPanic · 2023-09-14T15:35:19+00:00

Women give non-Chads a chance. Women marry non-Chads. The problem is what happens next: cheating, abuse, dead bedrooms...

Hubris1998 · 2023-09-14T15:39:53+00:00

Have you never fantasised about living like an arm-flailing Chad? I know I have. There's no shame in admitting it. I wouldn't get carried away like that, but I'm far from a saint. And it's harder to resist temptation where you're not used to getting that kind of attention.

At the same time, I know for a fact that I'm a better person than most guys women give sex/affection to. Those guys are the true misogynists. So overall, OP is right and wrong at the same time. I agree that you cannot really judge someone's moral integrity if he's never been put in a situation where he has the option to stray from their convictions. My biggest contention here is that those who have been social rejects in the past are less likely to take people for granted than those who are used to always getting their way.

SianOiseau · 2023-09-14T23:00:01+00:00

What's your definition of a Chad?

Safinated · 2023-09-15T22:03:28+00:00

Of course they do

Because 80% of men are not single and celibate

The math does not check out

FortniteAbobus · 2023-09-15T02:39:53+00:00

Supposedly all of us incels have the same personality traits as dark triad Chad.

I don't. Yeah, that's cool, but I don't.

Rainbowdark96 · 2023-09-14T20:44:46+00:00

The most chronically online comments are here 😂

DesolateDanse · 2023-09-14T17:55:14+00:00

No the post is facts. While I think most sub-5 are good men, there are plenty of ugly dudes out there that cheat or treat their spouses poorly and some reverse halo effect where Chad bad sub-5 good is false. I literally watched my morbidly obese ex bff get cheated on by her equally obese bf with serious b.o. like he must have been able to attract women with his natural gravitational pull or some shit. So any woman commentator talking about an ugly guy treating her like shit probably isn’t lying they’re out there unfortunately.

Justwannaread3 · 2023-09-14T15:39:51+00:00

My boyfriend is not a “Chad” and I’m completely in love with him. My friends have boyfriends/husbands who look “average” — including some who I find unattractive.

Women have relationships with non-“Chads” all the time.

bruhminer · 2023-09-14T20:30:50+00:00

They do, I have seen it, it's just very rare.

Perfect-Resist5478 · 2023-09-14T16:09:54+00:00

You’re not a villain… you’re just not the prince. You don’t need to be a model to get attention from women, but they have to be at least somewhat attracted to you to want to date you. It sucks that you’re short with a mediocre face and an obvious deformity, but attraction being fundamental to dating is a reality

kukkle1111 · 2023-09-15T04:39:48+00:00

Some commentors even suggested ugly men definitely have a worse personality than Chad does.

“They’re all bad, might as well pick the hot ones!”

First of all, women have absolutely no fucking idea what the average unattractive man is like as a person because they wouldn’t touch them with a ten foot pole. They probably wouldn’t even touch the pole.

Secondly, all of their information about what it’s like to date unattractive men comes from a friend of theirs. They all have a friend who gave an uggo a chance.

And then, as happens to all uggos, the VERY SAME NIGHT they enter into a relationship, just as the moon is rising, the Emperor of the Black Arts casts a spell from on high on this ugly pile of shit and every woman within marching distance, and he becomes an insatiable, sex-crazed maniac which no woman can resist. He’s no longer human, he’s carnal loin-lust incarnate, doomed to ply his seed among the maidens of the terra realm as his dearly beloved sits idly by, powerless to stop the beast she has unwittingly created, as the prophecy foretold.

intent_joy_love · 2023-09-15T11:31:48+00:00

Why would she ever be attracted to anything that isn’t attractive? You have to at least be somewhat attractive for her to want to sleep with you.

I agree with blackpill (I almost think redpill is better because it doesn’t lead to so much defeat) but let me ask you this: are you willing to find a girl who is also socially awkward, semi ugly, and has a rare physical deformity? Like the kind of girl that you wouldn’t be proud to introduce to your friends and family? or are you expecting that a much more attractive white woman is supposed to ignore all of her more attractive options and somehow re-wire her brain to be attracted to you?

if all you want is love and attraction, just find a girl who is beneath you. There are billions of women so at least a million of them, probably a lot more, are as ugly or worse than you. You will still need to learn how to act to attract her, but I never see black pillers try this. Instead the first thing they say is “I’m a currycell, so I have no chance” as if there aren’t millions upon millions of curry women. The truth is blackpill guys almost always want the top 20% of white women and if they can’t have them then they think the world isn’t fair. You guys need to reframe your thinking- dating interracial is for the top 10% of men in each race. If you’re not, you won’t be participating in that unless you go way way below your looksmatch. Everyone’s best bet is to find their looksmatch in their own culture and start there instead of feeling like it’s no fair that you don’t get treated like a top 10% man

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-09-24T05:38:07+00:00

Imagine going to a therapist as a woman and he secretly goes on Reddit and rants about how all women want Chad. IMAGINE.

Title	Women will never give non-Chads a chance
Author	uselessloner123
Upvotes	30
Comments	122
Date	September 14, 2023 3:15 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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