Hi fellow men.

Been watching this sub for about a year when things started falling out at home. Was curious to know what life after was like for others.

Now that my separation and future divorce are pretty much going to to happen for sure I’ve let in some close family and friends on what’s been happening and many of them have responded with a very odd “it’s just a phase”. They seem to have it in their heads that this is just something that happens and you get past.

Now I’m curious as to how many guys in here found that they were separated, working towards divorce, and ended up back with their ex? Why? Was the relationship any better or worse?

I’m just not seeing the logic of jumping back into something you weren’t sure enough to fight for or quit on before?