Been with Tara for 8 years, married for 4. We have two kids 3&6. Had a house renovated it. Sold it made some good coin. We got a caravan and bugged out for 18 months. Best time of my life. Haven’t been home 12 months and she’s asked to separate the day we get the keys to the new house.

Says she’s been feeling it for a few months, turns out it’s been 10 months.

She let me believe it was all good and have been looking at finding a new home for our family for the last 6 months. We finally get one and on driving up to get the keys she calls it in late November .

No reason to why no warning just says she’s out of love and numb and doesn’t want to be together anymore.

I find messages from 4 months ago of her and some fella chatting, naked photos, her playing with herself on the bed. Talking about what they would do together. Planing trips away all while I’m fifo working to support my family. She’s out every weekend drinking while the kids are with the babysitter till early hours of the morning.

Now the social media post start of her “bettering herself” and she left because I wasn’t progressing though a career. That she choose to happiness

But never once came to talk about her struggles or where i was lacking. Just blind sided by the request to separate.

Any tips on how to deal with things going forward? I want to keep my kids around as much as possible and don’t wanna throw her out because she’s the kids mum but she’s hurt me pretty deep now I know she’s got all the dating apps and been on dates and hook ups over the past 5 months I just don’t know how to keep going.

Would love to share the post from socials and the messages I found to back my story up but I do respect her a little to not share