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Do not make excuses for men

Less-Panic

October 10, 2020
339 upvotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy

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Title Do not make excuses for men
Author

Less-Panic

Upvotes 339
Comments 30
Date October 10, 2020 6:42 PM UTC
(5 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/j8ptet/do_not_make_excuses_for_men/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/do-not-make-excuses-for-men.320984
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Comments

[–]buttercupsparklesFDS Newbie190 points191 points192 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Ugh thanks for the reminder. I've been making excuses for a man for about two months now 😭 I keep thinking that maybe he's under a lot of stress and doesn't have time, but I've realised that if men truly like someone, they go out of their way to make that person happy and comfortable. It's time to throw him in the 🗑️I guess

[–]bluebird_wingsFDS Newbie126 points127 points128 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Let's reframe that:

It's time for you to look for a man that adds to your life.

[–]buttercupsparklesFDS Newbie34 points35 points36 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks! I really need the motivation ❤️

[–][deleted] 26 points27 points28 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

but I've realised that if men truly like someone, they go out of their way to make that person happy and comfortable.

I’m going through this right now, but with another woman. Her attitude towards me is getting old, with her being nice and then acting cold, so I guess it’s time to move on.

But it’s hard because of the good times we’ve had 🥺😭

[–]buttercupsparklesFDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Ah noo. Stay strong, you're worth more than the hot and cold treatment she's giving you

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you. I’ll try my best 😔

[–]stayforskzFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Oh, nice to see a stay in this subreddit 😊

[–]buttercupsparklesFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What can I say, Bang Chan has been raising my standards since 2018 😂

[–]stelladiver512FDS Newbie73 points74 points75 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Thank you for your post. I just got one of those “I still think about you” texts from a guy I dumped. I forgot to delete his # No reply from me... just block and delete. No second chances- men don’t change.

[–]runawayfast999FDS Newbie34 points35 points36 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Nope. They be bored. Trying to disturb your peace. I welcome the zombie messages now, so i can promptly block them now!

[+][deleted] 5 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

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[–]duhyaanFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for sharing these tips!!!

[–]DoeEyedBrownSkinFDS Newbie-1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So embarrassing, I’m not opening the link 😑

[–]heythere360FDS Disciple49 points50 points51 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

OMG.

Did you see the thread they made AFTER this where the women gave advice to the men? It was full of

“IF YOU LIKE ME COMMUNICATE WITH ME ITS NOT HARD”

“Stop leaving us on read if you like us jeez 😒”

“Tell your baby mama / best girlfriend I’m sick of yalls sleep overs. Please stop”

It was like they hadn’t read any of the advice the men gave them just moments before. Like.....the denial is terrifying.

[–]Less-PanicFDS Newbie[S] 29 points30 points31 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Fork! All these women need FDS to unlearn this. I spent so much time decoding what men were “really saying” through their breadcrumbs. Once we stop taking their shit, they’ll stop handing it out.

[–]JesusisKingisLordFDS STRATEGY COACH5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Same! Literal years.

[–]JesusisKingisLordFDS STRATEGY COACH4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Omg these poor pick-mes

[–]seraphinelysionFDS Apprentice80 points81 points82 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

The honesty from these men is surprisingly refreshing.

[–]Less-PanicFDS Newbie[S] 31 points32 points33 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

it gives me hope that HVM exist and I'm not chasing a ghost

[–]JesusisKingisLordFDS STRATEGY COACH29 points30 points31 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

You ain't chasing anything, sis 💅

[–]Less-PanicFDS Newbie[S] 15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

FACTS. Thanks for the reminder!

[–]JesusisKingisLordFDS STRATEGY COACH2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You're welcome 😁 We got this!

[–]rf-elaineFDS Newbie28 points29 points30 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Where's this thread I want more lol

[–]Less-PanicFDS Newbie[S] 23 points24 points25 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm not sure how to edit the post without making it uber long. I added a few more though. I swear I'm a millenial lol just new to this platform

[–]MakeURegretFDS Newbie16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh great collage. Thank you for the reminder.

[–][deleted] 16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I don’t understand. Why spill the tea? Why are they like this in the first place?

And I bet the ones who are posting are the same men who have and continue to do those things to other women. So wtf is the point?

[–]Less-PanicFDS Newbie[S] 22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Idk, I had a friend who once told me "I used to do that sh*t and let the girls come to ME. Now I realize it was wrong and I am more gentlemanly". (He was referring to making girls come to his part of town for a date, rather than him go to meet her).

So some men have transitioned from LVM to HVM and maybe want to impart some wisdom about their old tactics? Not sure the logic but I appreciate it nonetheless.

[–]runawayfast999FDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

They really have to realize it themselves. That’s the point. Nothing a woman can do to inspire that.

[–]JesusisKingisLordFDS STRATEGY COACH6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes! He has to choose you himself. Point blank periodt.

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