Finally giving up

20cansofSpam · 2018-10-14T15:09:26+00:00

Consider a pet.

Cricket_FIFA · 2018-10-14T15:19:52+00:00

I feel you my guy, but MGTOW is family, so u ain't eva alone 😎

happilynotmarried · 2018-10-14T15:14:30+00:00

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NotMyWomen · 2018-10-14T16:30:24+00:00

love has nothing to do with sex and vice versa. It never has and it never will. And while we're at it, I believe only males can really "love". Sex is for making babies, that's it. Stop thinking like animal and use your brain. You got a masters, you shouldn't have any trouble with that.

betterredthenwed · 2018-10-14T15:24:00+00:00

Maybe your not "finally giving up" but "finally going my own way".

Nice post. Like you I can't just have sex - she has to someone I'd want to have deep feelings for. I have been like that my entire life and accept it about myself.

Welcome aboard - you may find you're giving up a lot less then what you'll gain.

CountryBoysMakeDo · 2018-10-14T17:22:09+00:00

27 and I already gave up...plenty to enjoy in life other than relationships

I'm looking forward to buying a newish manual Mustang GT and the gold diggers will all get stiff armed by me

Also I can buy all the video games I want and play as much as I want without getting bitched at

...it's not too bad of a life honestly, better than getting hooked on child support or getting divorced and losing half of everything

Altertum · 2018-10-14T15:17:38+00:00

You should not mind thots in Clubs made the Same experience like you, now i dont give a fuck if i,m alone in a Club as Long the music is good and i have fun Dancing.

New_User1984 · 2018-10-14T21:14:31+00:00

Nightclubs are trash. No self respecting man should ever spend money in one.

jstrockmeyer · 2018-10-14T16:43:17+00:00

Happened to me also at a party, a year ago. First, some ugly one, eyeballing me like crazy, I get close to her, does not speak english. I tell her in her language that we can speak hers, looks up at the sky and puts on a retarded face. Says nothing.

Minutes later, an older broad in the dance floor, not only smiles and eye-fucks me, but also puts her hands like "come to mamma", go there to dance with her, smiling, get pushed back and apologized.

boytjie · 2018-10-14T18:36:53+00:00

I would like to suggest something. I am old (approaching 70) and my libido is nothing to speak of – and it’s such a relief. I recall how I was jerked around like a puppet and the stupid things I did in my twenties to attract women. I conclude (in hindsight) that the libido is responsible for a great deal of misery. If your doctor or chemist can suggest medication which will dampen/suppress your libido, you’ll be much happier. You will have a clearer head to bring to bear on career issues and watch the passing social parade with objectivity (and pity probably as you watch friends jerked around by their libedos).

Syc254 · 2018-10-14T17:38:53+00:00

I find a heterosexual relationship meaningless if the end goal isn't a child to raise and that child to do the same. I think that is primarily why many casual relationships end up with so much hate because innately the natural goal wasn't achieved. Now am no relationship expert so this may not be set in stone,there are many 'experts' out there who can give variety of reasons why relationships don't work out. I don't want to marry or raise children so for me relationships are pointless; i go on long monk mode periods and a clean hooker for the night does the trick for when the urge gets unbearable.

WidmerBeer · 2018-10-14T17:56:44+00:00

You're not giving up. You're just starting.

Beware of those that will see your success and try to piggy back off of it. If they didn't give you their best years they don't deserve yours. Your best years are still ahead of you.

GemStarCN21 · 2018-10-14T17:15:16+00:00

Can someone explain to me "connection with somebody" term.

To me, the term is just one of those ambiguous statements women say when they stay in the perpetual love courting phase. I cringe whenever I hear those words come out of a guy mouth.

owninfools007 · 2018-10-14T17:19:39+00:00

Same boat brotha. I finally accepted that relationship we want won’t happen for us because they cannot be trusted. We now have total freedom.

RoboMandrake · 2018-10-14T18:09:02+00:00

There's an Australian guy that ponied up $40k each for three kids (egg and surrogate from separate legal jurisdiction). Augment that with something like an employee-nanny that can be handpicked, instructed, and replaced at will.

https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/parenting/kids/single-dad-anthony-stralow-used-two-overseas-surrogates-to-have-the-three-children-hes-always-wanted/news-story/eebb3f373e6f5788d7ee0aeb5639f6e2

Older_Miggy · 2018-10-14T22:07:45+00:00

Guys dancing by themselves? Is that a thing now?

DeMeza · 2018-10-14T17:34:31+00:00

Live your life. And never forget AWALT.

gmanex · 2018-10-14T22:24:05+00:00

Men are the true romantics. Women use that knowledge too well for themselves

Omar336 · 2018-10-15T02:04:43+00:00

Gyow. Love will get u hurt.

Drugs110 · 2018-10-15T02:37:24+00:00

As much as I sympathize with you and agree with the fact that MGTOW is nowadays the only way to go for a man,

if you have fucked up so many times with women, you must be fucking ugly. 100% seriously

If you were a chad, none of them would have laughed at you 99% of the time.

With that being said, enjoy the MGTOW lifestyle, save up cash and do whatever the fuck you want.

bigman_r · 2018-10-15T05:02:16+00:00

The exact same story as my life except my ex left me when I got hospitalized for a herniated disc and ruptured appendix and nearly died. Became a skinny skeleton and not chad anymore. Fuck them. Choose your own happiness.

2018-10-14T19:35:39+00:00

Women who go to clubs and bars are by in large trashy (as are a lot of the men they end up fucking). Try the library, a yoga class, or the grocery store if you want one bad enough. Make sure to get a prenup.

3rd_viewpoint · 2018-10-14T20:22:34+00:00

4 girls were sitting there, pointing at me and laughing

I'm so sorry they humiliated you in public. Consider going for older women, they may have less immature bullshit, but better manipulation skills. Remember, you don't owe anything to anyone.

Have you considered talking lessons and going to clubs where people actually dance? Swing, Latin, tango? There are problems there as well, but at least you enjoy the music and the dance.

GriffTheGreat · 2018-10-14T20:23:47+00:00

https://youtu.be/iErNRBTPbEc

gadabout13 · 2018-10-14T21:39:01+00:00

welcome....and congrats. feel free to unload and share what ever you want because , unlike what women believe, men DO have empathy. we all are have gone through it, going through it...... think of a hobby...look online and i believe thatg you'll find a local group of men that enjoy the same thing.

creepin_in_the_dms · 2018-10-14T22:58:03+00:00

Check out Papa Leykis

CerebralAbrasion · 2018-10-15T00:11:46+00:00

Well yeah club sluts are bitches, but there's a lot more to it than that. Sure you could move to a small town, meet a nice girl who has been there all her life, yada yada. But the fact is she can betray and destroy you at any point, and there's little to nothing you can do to protect yourself. In fact she'll be encouraged to destroy you for cash and prizes and gurl power. It's just not worth it.

chaseexcellence · 2018-10-15T00:34:39+00:00

I know your pain. I imagine wiht your job, you will be very successful. Your problem will be that women will want you for your money. At least you tried. You can look yourself in the mirror and say you tried to find your disney fairytale wife. They do not exist.

Songbird420 · 2018-10-15T01:17:02+00:00

You aren't giving up. You are just beginning.

0ggles · 2018-10-15T01:42:12+00:00

You are going to the wrong venues. Don't go to a furniture store expecting to find a car for sale there. I suggest you find a hobby that is gender mutual - i.e book club, yoga, rock climbing, running, etc. You have a master degree, use your head. Meeting females at a club is the worsts, most are slaggs or gold diggers. Find someone who has a father figure in her life and is off social media.

Atton_Risk · 2018-10-15T02:51:32+00:00

https://i.pinimg.com/736x/ce/59/cd/ce59cd14e8b2724553c0ffdbebc2f033.jpg You can always love a 2d waifu

Lavendercrimson12 · 2018-10-15T03:30:19+00:00

All of these observations are simple symptoms of the collapse of society. It is nothing personal to do with you.

ultrasuperthrowaway · 2018-10-15T03:43:21+00:00

24 is so insanely young. Life doesn't even start until you finish graduate school. You're a newborn adult. Don't worry about love. When I was that young, I chased and got a lot of tail just being me and it was a lot of fun and a great experience. I think you should consider having consensual and fun sex with women but just not get into any monogamous relationships with them. Don't "fall in love". Don't let them leech off you. Also use protection. Protect your future but not at the cost of never living at all.

OldRoad · 2018-10-15T03:47:59+00:00

I've known many women who are good people, but the dating world is TOXIC.

As for ghosting, I once had a woman online friend for about 8 months. I was hoping to meet her eventually. She ghosted me. Imagine emailing and chatting with someone online almost every day for about 8 months, and they stopped all communication with no explanation.

The arrogance of those women that made fun of you at those clubs is enough to send any guy MGTOW. Let's face it -- women who act like that are spoiled. They trash guys to try to make themselves feel superior. But how did their behavior do anything to show them as superior?

The result of all this is MGTOW. Just wait until they reach "The Wall," and they can't find a guy to be around anymore. They should have been spending their pre-Wall years trying to find an honest guy who would stay with them, instead of putting down guys at clubs.

I do think that MGTOW as a philosophy will continue to spread because the dating environment is really that bad. Guys tend to get happier when they go MGTOW because today's dating world is so bad. However, I do not think that women are going to be happy to see romantic relationships and dating become rare. But I don't expect to see anything done to prevent that situation, because the mainstream can't even acknowledge that there is anything wrong with the dating world for guys.

dJ_86 · 2018-10-15T05:08:14+00:00

Even if you got a girlfriend it would just be your turn. Why would you wish for something that could destroy you. Learn from me and my mistakes!

GmanRaz · 2018-10-15T06:28:17+00:00

Get a love doll and a dog. You will be set. Trust me as a 35 year old divorced man I know exactly how you feel. We were all sold a lie about what female nature is and that we can only measure our own happiness and success through the approval of a woman that we marry. Its hog shit. All of it. Women are NEVER happy. Want to control your life in every way, and now because of feminism the masks and gloves have come off and they don't even have to be subtle about it. The divorce rate in the USA is approaching 60%.. and how many of the 40% that dont get divorced live in misery with adulteress wives, or controlling bitches because of the kids or not getting divorce raped... just waiting for the sweet release of death.

The sooner you accept that the image of love between a man and a woman that you were sold was all false and has NEVER existed, nor will it ever exist.. the better off you will be.

Mchooofer · 2018-10-15T07:03:54+00:00

Your not looking for love from a woman, but from yourself. Dig into consciousness and you will find the love you look for. An added bonus, women crave men who vibrates on the higher frequencies.

Freefrombitches123 · 2018-10-15T08:09:37+00:00

The whole get rich and buy a bitch does nothing for me either. Try lots of things and you'll live a life full of passion.

MonkModeEngage · 2018-10-15T20:12:54+00:00

Sounds like......... swallowing the red pill......?

Don't feel bad man. I was at your frame of mind at your age. I'm 36 now, and it gets better. You will discover who you are and what you really care about. Don't let the hormones and the installation of society expectations ruin what you have created thus far.

Title	Finally giving up
Author	happilynotmarried
Upvotes	175
Comments	75
Date	October 14, 2018 3:06 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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