Not the extremist political/terrorist women hating ones! I'm talking about the actual use of the word.

Let me explain. I have heard and read over the years about a particular situation that some guys face. Imagine that you are in a long term relationship, possibly a marriage and your sex life slowly fades away, until such time that it is a rare occurrence. You speak to your SO about it and she says that she no longer enjoys sex and doesn't want to do it anymore.

Now, before the feminists attack me, I'm not contesting the ladies right to choose here or that men have a right to sex whether his partner wants to or not, it is her choice and she's allowed to make it. However, what now happens to the man? He's been made an Involuntary Celibate. He still has wants, needs and desires. Now, some men could be perfectly happy with this scenario and can go on and live happily like this. Many, will get drawn into an internal battle between morality and desire. They are stuck between the love they have for their partner and their need for sex. Either, they repress their needs and desires and carry on, or worry about having an affair. Neither is good for their health.

Ultimately this scenario for many men is unmanageable and will most likely end in failure. Best case scenario, the man ends the relationship, making him the bad guy. Worst case scenario, his needs get the better of him and he has an affair, making him the bad guy. So following this decision made by a woman, a man will ultimately become the bad guy and it is another example of the power women hold. Again, I'm not saying this isn't right. Women do have the right to make that decision, but it is a decision that will have a negative on a man, either through their own mental health or the perceived view of him if he does try to find a way out of the situation.