Redpillers often imply that cuckolds are losers. An example is the popular The Cuckold and The Slut thread, in which the top comment denies that a man who says he likes being cuckolded actually likes it. To redpillers, it's impossible for a man to actually like it and it's just another way for women to emasculate men. But if you check out /r/Cuckold, it becomes clear that cuckolds love it and they're the ones who usually bring up cuckolding. An example is this album posted by a cuckold, which makes it obvious that he honestly doesn't mind his fiancée sleeping around. A more moderate example is the husband of Janet Bloomfield (JudgyBitch), a popular anti-feminist blogger. Her husband isn't technically a cuckold but she did post a topless pic of herself and he was okay with it. Now, redpillers might say that he got cuckolded and is thus a loser but if he honestly doesn't mind, how is he losing? Whether it's a man who's okay with his wife posting a topless pic or full on cuckolding, will redpillers admit that men who are okay with it aren't "losing"? Think it's a weird fetish all you want but don't deny the agency of men who are into it.