My 3.5 year relationship has gone downhill since my significant other has started watching & following the FNF podcast. I personally think there’s a lot of beneficial content of self improvement for men, I mean I like that my partner is becoming more masculine. (I can say I believe we have similar beliefs since we were both raised by traditional Mexican families) I think the problem here is he is trying to apply what he hears but is not doing so effectively in the relationship aspect.

The thing I have an issue with is that I often hear him saying very spiteful things about women. In any relationship scenario he hears, he puts the blame on women before even having enough context. It bothers me so much because he has become a disrespectful a-hole and he has been invalidating my feelings, he has began to play mind games and his words & actions make me feel unloved.

He agrees with the concept of polygamy for men and men only. But at the same time he is in a monogamous relationship with me (makes me feel like he might cheat on me) hurts my self esteem Every time I try to tell him what bothers me, or when I ask him to stop doing certain things he says im masculine for trying to tell him what to do, he needs his freedom, and I am not marriage material (this particular comment bothers me a lot) I don’t know what to do. Any advice?