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Recently me and my girlfriend moved to a foreign country together. Before this our sex life had always been very tame. Even though I expected she might have some kinky fantasies it was always fairly tame in the bedroom and we never really talked about it. However a few months ago after sex she mentioned she'd like to try pegging. I knew what it was(I've had an internet connection for some time now) and it's never appealed to me at all. Even though I really care(cared?) about her I couldn't do it. I told her this and she just blows up in my face. Said she didn't want to be in relationship with a partner that doesn't care about her etc etc. She has got annoyed in the past but this was way more extreme. Things were a little frosty for a while after that but she brought it up again later. Since she is the only one of the two of us that has managed to find a job(we moved mostly for her career) she's paying all of the rent and bills at the moment. Over here I have no family or friends and if she was to kick me out I'd be completely screwed. I have no idea what I'd do. I can't even scrape up the money to get a plane ticket home. Most of the money I had went on things for Christmas.

So I agreed to try it. I can't say I enjoy it at all. It actually hurts. It's got to the stage where it's a part of almost every single time we have sex now. I mentioned that I don't enjoy it but she asked me to do it for her, since she really enjoyed it. She also mentioned that I do orgasm from it so I must like it. Which is bullshit. I orgasm from her touching my dick not having things put in my ass. I'm also actually worried about some of the physical damage it could cause me.

I feel ashamed of myself most of the time. Especially straight after I orgasm. Really pathetic. She also keeps joking that she got me a "special present" for Christmas and makes dirty jokes about it. Hate my life at this stage. Moving here was a huge mistake. She'll want to have sex every single night she's off for Christmas. I'm not sure I can take it. But if I don't she could easily chuck me out in the street to freeze to death. I don't even know what aid there is in this country for the homeless(I'm in the UK?). The thought of having sex with her tonight makes me physically ill.

TLDR: Don't put yourself in a position where you allow yourself to become a victim.

PS: You can save the women wouldn't do this. r/thathappened comments. Yes stories like this are statistically unlikely to happen but that doesn't mean this scenario never happened.

EDIT: I AM NOT THE OP FROM THE OTHER THREAD. I APPRECIATE THE CONCERN AND PMS BUT THIS POST WAS JUST COPY/PASTED HERE FOR EDUCATIONAL PURPOSES. THE OP IN THE ORIGIONAL THREAD WAS SENT INFORMATION ABOUT RESOURCES IN HIS AREA. YOU ARE WELCOME TO CONTACT HIM DIRECTLY IF YOU ARE CONCERNED OR ARE IN HIS AREA AND WISH TO ASSIT HIM. I AM NOWHERE NEAR WHERE THE STORY ALLEGEDLY TAKES PLACE. YOU CANNOT BUY ME A TICKET TO THE US BECAUSE I'M ALREADY IN ONE OF THE 50 STATES.