Long time lurker here, and at the other subs (for a couple years now... but first time poster).

I got some red pill truth from my GF yesterday. For 10 straight minutes (after we had wrestled on the floor--and had sex) she told me multiple red pill truths.

Important note: this gf of mine is from Costa Rica and has been in America for about 4 months (she went to a private american school so she's American in other ways---namely culture and language). The red pill community is correct in saying that outside America the views on manhood are so different than in America.

Anyways. Here's five things she said last night

"I'm so happy that you are strong."

In all honesty guys, I'm a skinny ass bloke--I do run and bike though, and that keeps me in tip top shape. But being strong isn't just a state of body mass, it's a state of mind. This is expressed when I pick her up and throw her on the bed, or pin her against the wall. This is expressed when I can jokingly out-wrestle her without any difficulty. She knows that mentally (and physically) I am strong. And that turns her on. Experiment for ya'll. Tell your GF or plate that you want to teach her to wrestle even if you don't know how. When you're both sweaty and you're tossing her around, she'll be more turned on then you've ever known.

"The worst thing is when guys change for a girl."

When she said this it hit close to home. I remember losing my first gf because I became beta in the relationship, and this girl just straight up confirmed it with no hesitation. She told me in a short story how her roommate's boyfriend (strong solid guy-- muscular) was tough initially but now was a little girl. He was annoying and needy. She said it made her furious. NEVER CHANGE FOR A GIRL. BE YOU. SHE'LL LIKE THAT YOU DO WANT YOU WANT. Don't start being needy because you want to "help you gf." Don't stop teasing her because you want to "be nice to her." The quickest way to lose a girl is to change for her. She starting dating (or fucking) you because of you. If you change you, she'll change her behavior.

"The best thing about you is that you take what you want."

She means this in every sense. If I want sex, I make it happen. I show her my intense desire and she gets turned on, and it happens. If I want her to stop talking I tell her, "stop talking. I'm writing right now." If I want a back massage I tell her, "you know that wonderful thing you do on my back with your hands? Do that thing." She loves that she is a part of my life. GUYS. SHE ADORES BEING THE ONE WHO GETS TO HELP ME ANE BE ALONG FOR THE RIDE. She loves that she can watch me take what I want in every situation. She sees me call my boss and tell him I'm not coming to work because I'm going camping with my lady. She sees me leave her because I need to record vocals for a friend. She sees that I do what I want. This means that when I'm with her she feels more desired because she knows that I do what I want. And if I'm with her, it makes her special. (Girls want to feel special and desired---this deserves a whole post on its own).

"I love helping you. It feels so good!"

Whenever your gf or plate offers to do anything for you, say YES. Even if you don't necessarily want a back massage and want to sleep... Say yes to the back massage. Even if you don't necessarily want a morning coffee/breakfast... Say yes to her making it for you. The reason is that the more she does this (and the more you positively reinforce her helping behavior) the more often she'll help you. In the future when you're hungry she'll offer to cook for you. Why? Because you reinforced all the other helping behaviors from her. Kiss her passionately after she helps you. Look her in the eyes and explain with as much emotion as possible how thankful you are for the help she provided. It's better to over do your positive reinforcement than underdo it initially. People say I train my GF to help me. I tell those people I absolutely do. Feminists get angry, but if you were to ask my gf if she's happy I know what the answer would be.

"Can I tell you a secret? I like that you make me feel both cute and sexy."

Guys. This is when you've won. When you get both sides of your woman things are going right. Your GF or Plate wants to feel sexy. They want to feel like they have no control over their sexual drive. They want to lose control and rip your clothes off. But they also want to dress up, throw on a sundress and have a picnic. It's up to you as a male to provide both emotions. Make her feel both. Make her feel like a "bad girl" and your cute "plaything." I've heard this in various forms from PUA and Red Pill. I don't know how to explain it better than that. Play with her emotions. Kiss her passionately, and then act like nothing happened. Tell her to look cute before you come over, and then when you get there turn on some music and dance with her. I don't care. But if you make her feel multiple emotions she'll become addicted to you and what you make her feel. She wants to feel that with you, that she is both an innocent sweet girl, and the bad girl that she's secretly always wanted to be. I do this in multiple ways, but it would take another post to explain it.

Anyways. If this post does well I'll post more in the future.

EDIT: I'm glad there are some LTR fans out there. I've got a few other posts semi-drafted in my big book of ideas that I've written for myself that I'll throw up here in the coming weeks.

EDIT 2: My GF's, Roomate's BF from quote #2 that I mention here? He got broken up with by that girl last night. Apparently he had traveled too far down the little girl path and there was no turning back.