The real issue I have with the red pill is that people seem to think women don't have a choice and are slaves of their own biology. I disagree. Women need to be held accountable. They have a choice. The issue for them is self awareness. Most don't have it. Some do.

Think about it, an of shape 6 getting pump and dumped yet keeps attempting to get in a relationship with top 10 percent men. As damming as that is to our civilization, it should be the biggest red flag to any man out there to stay away.

Here's a great article by Mark Manson http://markmanson.net/one-trait#ICvARU:rhh

And I discovered in this time that there was one trait in a woman that I absolutely must have to be in a relationship with her, and it was something that I would never compromise on again (and I haven’t). Men are usually unwilling to compromise on superficial traits: looks, intelligence, education, etc. Those are important, but if there’s one trait that I’ve learned you should never compromise on, it’s this:

The ability to see one’s own flaws and be accountable for them.

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Just to clarify to those who cannot grasp that woman would not be absolute hypergamous and it's unrealistic. What is best for women does not always align with what her prehistoric biology wants. Likewise, the hottest woman may not be the best for what a man wants. -------(actually, as I will explain, becoming self aware and controlling hypergamy IS best for what her prehistoric biology wants. To obtain a hypergamy commitment it is best to control hypergamy.)

The statement that they can be held accountable hinges on evidence that women have shown they will not be absolutely hypergamous. That evidence exists and it's not just unicorns. Every woman in her young 20's that gets married, has a low partner count, and many ltr's, are controlling their hypergamy. In fact just about every chick who ever wants a relationship will have to control her hypergamy to some extent. Because there is no or "perfect" man and the process of hypergamy is never ending.

As we know the sooner a woman becomes self aware And Accepting of this the higher chance she has of finding a high quality man who will commit. In a way she is satisfying her hypergamous moreseo by becoming more self aware and not chasing the unattainable. The later she becomes self aware and accepting the less value of a male she will be able to obtain and less successful her hypergamous partner search will be.

Not only is it best for the female, it is best for men, and society because we start to see a more equal distribution curve of men who are able to find partners.

Contrast that with unable to pair bond women who are on the never ending search of commitment from someone who repeatedly repeats the same quantifinable repeatable sets of actions and results. This belies recognition of common sense. This belies us to let them off the hook. That is most certainly something that can be fixed. Absolutely. That's not biology as much as it is a lack of of the individuals character Similar to a drug addict with delusion.

I am actually saying for women to be hypergamous. to search for the best value of male. To get the best man you can possible get, but being self aware enough to get the best one that will realistically give commitment to you. To actually be, you know, a person with common sense. (when this strategy is employed, the 80 % become visible.)

How can we on one hand bash women left and right for being sluts and hitting the wall and unable to find a relationship and pointing out what that is doing to society, and then at the same time saying that it is "ok" because they have no choice ???........because if they reallly have no choice, then why are we shaming those actions ?

Red pill ideology dictates that we do hold them accountable.