Summary: A field report on my latest project – building a hard harem. I’ve been working on this for a while, and I finally have time to write a report.

I’m 38, and my LTR is 28 (HB7). We’ve been together for almost a year. I met my LTR online, right after I discovered TRP. I studied PUA back in the day and internalized what to do, but never truly understood why. Of course, TRP has now showed me the why. That allowed me to get even better. We’ll call my current LTR Kelly. As is always my strategy, I play the BB role at first. I’m quite well off, and I know that some guys try to hide that when they start dating a woman, but I don’t. I don’t mind if they make me wait a couple of dates to get laid (of course, if I’m not in by the third date then she gets a next).

None of that matters when I get them into the sack for the first time. I use a slow implementation of Sex God Method (I’ve never read the book; I don’t have to). As an example, I hold them down the first time we have sex. I choke them the second time. The third time, I start slapping them in the face, etc. It’s fun to see their faces when they realize that their perfect Beta is actually an Alpha in disguise. After a couple of months, they are doing ass to mouth, getting spit in their face, etc.

Lesson 1: Alpha is INTERNAL. I know that if they leave me, I’ll be fine, and back on the horse in no time. They know it too. I treat women well, because I can. I lift, dress well, have good people skills, and most importantly, IDGAF.

On our first date, I told Kelly that we wouldn’t be having sex for a couple of dates. She was amazed that I would say that. I told her I’ve been around the block and am kind of jaded, so sex doesn’t really matter to me as much as other guys. I told her we would make out on the first date, take shirts off on 2nd date, and fuck on the 3rd date – and that’s exactly what happened.

As the first couple of months passed by, I got Kelly’s n-count by being amused, non-threatened, and non-judgmental. I tell her mine too – a pretty big number. Kelly’s n-count was low, but not so low as to be unbelievable. It seems that she was alpha widowed by a lesser Alpha. No problem – I’m a bigger Alpha. She forgot that guy pretty quick. Kelly is a country girl, works hard, no kids, and keeps her body tight. She doesn’t smoke and drinks very seldom.

Lesson 2: There ain’t no such thing as a unicorn, but if you look hard enough, there are a few decent women out there. And before I even see the comments, let me say this: For the peanut gallery that is always saying AWALT, and there are no fucking unicorns, and that all women will cheat on you and leave you – I disagree. If you’re a badass, you can find a decent woman and keep her. So fuck yourselves, you butthurt Beta faggots. If you can’t play with the big boys on hard mode, go jerk off into your socks.

I told Kelly that I’ve had threesomes in the past, and it turned out that she liked women too (huge surprise, right??) I started dropping suggestions about various women I knew, saying things like, “That girl is pretty hot, but not really girlfriend material. Not like you, Kelly. She’s more like…2nd girlfriend material.”

Fast forward a couple of months, I had a party at my place (nice house, pool, etc.) I invited a few of the single female ‘friends’ I’ve kept around over the years. There was one in particular, we’ll call her Missy. I’ve known her for a few years, and don’t keep in touch that well, but I always invite her to my parties. Missy is an HB7, HB8 on a good day. She has always had a thing for me, but she lives an hour away. She’d just gotten out of a relationship with a pasty-faced Beta that I knew distantly. I told Kelly that Missy was cute, and that first night, I made sure that the two of them had time to get to know each other. I’d go have a cigarette with my guy friends, and then Kelly and Missy would go together (Kelly doesn’t smoke but Missy does). We did some drinking and had some laughs. Missy went home pretty late, and gave Kelly and me a nice kiss as she left.

I spent the next couple of weeks building a rapport with Missy, of course with Kelly’s full knowledge. I made it clear to Missy what Kelly and I were looking for. After about a month, we set a date to go out drinking together with all 3 of us. At that point, I told Missy to start texting Kelly, and to be flirty. She did as she was told, and the two of them texted each other a good bit, feeling more comfortable with each other. I used provider game on Missy too, making sure to show off my nice things. Missy took the bait, hook line and sinker.

Lesson 3: Provider game can work very well to get a woman, but you need a deeper Alpha mentality to pull off the transition once you get them in bed. You need to turn the Alpha behavior way the fuck up once you’ve made them comfortable – their pussies will start dripping for you like crazy.

So we all hung out about a month ago – we went out drinking, went back to a hotel, and the three of us fucked like bandits. It was fucking awesome. I pulled the same shit with Missy – choking her, calling her a slut and a whore, etc., and she went nuts. As for Kelly, seeing me fuck another women right in front of her made her lose her mind with lust – there is no better social proof. Kelly has been even dirtier with me than she was before, and that’s saying something. We now see Missy a couple of times a month – they cook for me, giggle and make out with each other, and then all 3 of us take a walk and then snuggle up with a movie. Missy always stays the night with us. The two of them are dirty as fuck together.

Conclusion: I put my knowledge and skills to use, and made what I had always wanted since I was a kid – two girlfriends at the same time, who fool around with each other and are exclusive to me. But the real question is, why did I do it? I can come with one woman just as easily as I can with two. The bottom line is that I did it because I could. It’s an ego thing, and I have no problem admitting that. And it was also fun as hell.

TL;DR: I built a hard harem using my PUA skills combined with TRP knowledge. Build the core of your primary LTR dynamic correctly, and you can add as many other woman as you want, until your cock is sore and you lie passed out on the bed, drained and smiling.