We're all gonna make it guys

LiberalPenguin · 2014-03-06T11:11:58+00:00

This is the wrong attitude.

Your attitude should be: I'm am happy with or without a woman. A woman can not make me happy. Only I can.

ThePUA_Baddie · 2014-03-06T02:30:52+00:00

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ThePUA_Baddie · 2014-03-06T01:20:59+00:00

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gorillamunchies · 2014-03-06T14:32:22+00:00

I think I can honestly say that learning a few tips from this subreddit has helped... Now I am only in High School and I do now have a girlfriend, but I think learning about inner confidence, walking with a better posture and dressing better really improved my confidence and allowed me to pursue the girl I really wanted to date. I know it's not much but I think this subreddit really can and will improve you as a person and allow you to achieve what you want

Malicepoint · 2014-03-06T01:15:35+00:00

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Sykinder · 2014-03-06T06:24:52+00:00

I can't tell you how nice it is to hear this. All it takes is a single push to get someone going, some moments you speed past, some moments you just slow down to a halt and need something to pick you back up. And for me it was this. Don't get me wrong I love life, I just hit those spots whereno one else I know will understand but I guess that's self development and understanding myself.

jimmyleeiv · 2014-03-06T08:01:13+00:00

Just read "A Thousand Tiny Failures" and it really drove home the idea of having to put the work in. We're all going to make it if we give our all to the conquest of being the best we can be.

bl1y · 2014-03-06T13:57:00+00:00

I don't want to be too negative nancy, but the truth is if everyone on the sub just continues with what they're doing, the vast majority of them will not find a girl. Most people are keyboard jockeys who make maybe 1 approach a month and get hung up with trying to write the perfect text message and figure out how to avoid obstacles that haven't actually come up yet.

If you're actually out approaching regularly (as in 10+ approaches per week), and getting your life under control, then yeah, stick with it, things will probably work out. But for most people that message doesn't apply. For most guys, even the guys here (maybe especially the guys here) the message is: If you don't change, you will die alone.

lillojohn · 2014-03-06T15:48:59+00:00

You don't need that girl in your life. They will need you in your life.

PostOrganic · 2014-03-07T03:44:33+00:00

I don't get why everyone got butt hurt about this post. There isn't one part of this that says anything about being unhappy. As someone that is just getting the hang of seduction techniques it's very frustrating at first to approach lots and have no success. I think the moral of the story here is don't be upset with failure, it's merely a milestone to success, a place that all of us will get to with practice and patience.

sixgrainnut · 2014-03-06T11:56:00+00:00

No, you are not going to make it. DOn't be a loser by subjecting yourself to this humiliation . Make money and find a classy girl who appreciates you.

Title	We're all gonna make it guys
Author	ThePUA_Baddie
Upvotes	83
Comments	57
Date	March 5, 2014 10:58 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1zo2d3/were_all_gonna_make_it_guys/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/were-all-gonna-make-it-guys.1367058 https://theredarchive.com/post/1367058

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