I keep this short list with me always on my phone. if any time I feel on edge, i reread it and it always helps. Moses brought them to me himself, down from the mountains of seduction, reno, nevada....

1.) "if you love yourself, others will too". - ever wonder why hot confident girls don't do shit but have tons of options. its the same for any confident strong man. focus and improve yourself, the rewards will come.

2.) "always text back, never text long" - can't tell you how many girls tell me the worst thing a guy can do is ignore their texts. feeling insecure? shy? trying to play games? don't ignore, that's just childish. reply when you have time, keep it short, make plans, tell them anything they want to know you want to tell them while looking into their eyes.

3.) "action and money are illusions, the heart want who it wants", though your actions can easily ruin a good love opportunity, they will rarely "win" you a chance at a girl. Pheromones, deeply confusing psychologies and other issues are also at work. ever like someone that you know is bad for you but you go months doing self abusive shit cause you love this person? we're simply attracted to who we are attracted to, its why the nice girl will date the asshole and the good guy will date a bitch. people like you because WHO you are, and WHAT you do for YOURSELF. you can't win any girl over with romantic gestures and money. it might be important to them but it'll never win their heart with that.

4.) "women are like a wooden stove, men are like an electric stove" - this is what my grandma used to tell me. this one so crucial. women, in both straight sex and being turned on, are just slower. a guy can be ready to fuck in literally 4-5 seconds. a girl can get wet quick, BUT NOT THAT QUICK. a girl needs foreplay, needs to wet up and get into things before she's going to be an animal. men are just more aggressive. a woman can be, but you gotta work her up. same with love, men always fall in love at first sight, we are sight creatures, women rarely fall for a man like that, love takes time, a girl might think you're annoying an a sex addicted dog one day, but a few days of persistence and mature care and they cling to you like glue. girls take time.

5.) "every day you are either evolving or devolving" - simple as that. each day you either go up or down. you never stay the same. in your physical appearance, your emotions, and in your relationships. have a great girl? never feel satisfied, always make sure she feels something new and exciting, never think cause someone is dating you it means they'll always be there. respect them and remember what it means to be lonely and never take anyone for granted.

6.) "men do, boys talk" - a good habit I broke a long time ago. can't tell you how many girls I still talk to and read texts from other guys, requesting dates, asking for kisses, wondering why she doens't care like he does. a man never talks about his feelings or asks for sex/kisses, a man takes what he wants, he shows her she can trust him and love him and communicate with him with strong and silent mature action.

7.) "thou shalt respect thine bros" - bros before ho's. should be #1 actually.

8.) "a pussy is not a dick" - I grew up with two older sisters. it was nice because they taught me how different a pussy orgasm is, how to get to it, and how different the sexual learning curve is for women. even if women have an orgasm, they usually don't have any orgasm or deep orgasm until age 25-27. dating a girl younger than that and expected her to be some horny dog that wants to fuck all day and cum all over because you're at that level already is not to be expected. respect a girls sexual development. girls need a thick dick or a good tongue to cum. most girls don't cum from sex. eat that pussy. dating a younger girl? make sure she feels loved, cared for, safe, because unlike you, sex isn't her first priority in the relationship.

9.) "don't be a douche, just be confident" - I personally can't play games, i never use verbal tricks or seduction openers. I suggest just being honest but confident. nothing is more sexy than someone telling you they want you, meaning it, but being secure enough themselves to not care if you reject or take them. say exactly what you want, but be strong enough to take any answer back. a girl rejects you, walk away and think of how many other girls there are.

10.) "girls just want to have fun" - its a popular song for a reason. men like simple shit. beer and sex. steak and a couch. we like pain and how it builds our strength and resolve. we go to war and build buildings from blueprints. girls........well they like to have fun. every women wants to feel like a queen, she might not expect a queens life, but she wants to feel special. whenever talking to them, keep it positive, be her sunshine not her shadow. men that complain about how a women treats them are assuming a woman's role. men dont complain when things go bad, they either find a new girl or move on.