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[–]LunaArc 26 points27 points28 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
AND you got paid all that time. What a boss.
[–]frogma 44 points45 points46 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good job man.
Looking back on it: You started with some small talk, probably did some conversation threading, you weren't attached to the outcome (at the start at least, which is when it counts), told some DHV stories, teased her (you probably could've done more of that at the start), built rapport, and you were a good listener. Meanwhile, you were kinoing and escalating. It all felt natural because things flowed naturally. At the same time, you were basically following the standard "steps" of seduction. Shit works, but it also requires you to have a good mindset, and that's probably where a lot of guys fuck up.
[–]absurdconcept 12 points13 points14 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You've really never kissed anyone before this? Damn, really happy for you, great work!
[–]The_Turbinator12 points 14 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Looking at this there where some details I missed; however, the story seems to be a big enough wall of text without me adding all the details. Like the time she was pulling my shirt because I wouldn't stop teasing her, how I got her to write her contact info on a piece paper on my lap, uhh... what else, I know I am missing stuff. She said she felt she had some fat around her waist so I went to feel around and tickled her.
I still can't believe how natural all this came out. Coming from a guy that hasn't even kissed before this. I was just keeping all the seddit stuff in the back of my mind and just naturally acting it all out. I could have done more, and went further, but I did not have the balls.
[–]frogma 9 points10 points11 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I figured that's what you meant by "joking." You did basically the same shit I do. It aint easy to go any further during "day game," and I usually don't. Your only real options are to immediately invite her somewhere, or get her number, or invite her to something that's happening in the near future. Getting sex in that kind of situation is difficult for anyone, and getting as far as you did is pretty hard in itself.
[–][deleted] 15 points16 points17 points 14 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Aren't you her boss and there's conflict of interest on both parts. If I had a boss hitting on me, damn straight I would be milking it.
[–]StormTAG 5 points6 points7 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Supervisor doesn't always mean boss.
[–]The_Turbinator 3 points4 points5 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Looks like I forgot to mention one of the details, this was her one-time temp position. She has another full time job. However, it was fun reading the reply's to your post.
[–]aknackforslack 2 points3 points4 points 14 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Not just conflict. Supervisor hitting on/getting into a relationship with an employee = lawsuit waiting to happen.
[–]weareyourfamily 2 points3 points4 points 14 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I am incredibly angry at you for killing my vicarious joy for The_Turbinator and you deserve this downvote... so here's an upvote to counteract your poignant example of human dishonesty. ┬──┬ ノ( ゜-゜ノ)
[–]aknackforslack 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If it makes you feel any better, you've warmed my tiny, blackened little lawyer heart.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Some of the most fun I've ever had was working with the girl I was sleeping with. She was my supervisor initially as well, it was -awesome-.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
<typical reddit "if you do this you are scum to my eyes" reply>
[–]punker2828 2 points3 points4 points 14 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No, I don't think it is. I think you only read the first half. He starts like that but by the end of the two sentences you come to the realization that it is quite possibly HER that is doing the using.
see edit.
Did you even read my reply?
I don't care for your comment. However, I'm bored. I thought it was pretty clear that when I say conflict of interest that would indicate that she has other motives for flirting with him. And I even approve of it by saying that if I were her, that I would take advantage of it. On the other hand, if I were him, I would have to decline due to the possibility that this could threaten my position.
Beyond that, if you need to work the girls you work with, then you need to work on your game. Just because it's convenient, doesn't mean it’s a good option (see Bill Clinton). It's probably a worse option because it makes you settle for whatever is convenient. When having sexual relations with a subordinate, it's to their advantage. Like I said, I don't care. I have no morale surrounding relationships. If you want it, go for it. It just seems like he's shocked. He has an alpha position as a supervisor, thus taking away his typical tendencies during conversations with women. Go to a bar, he could have that same mindset, but he (probably) doesn't because doesn't have recognition of being the superior.
What's the most important is that he recognizes his personality and frame when he's being alpha (like above) and translate that to all situations. Independent of environmental and relational factors.
[–]vajav 3 points4 points5 points 14 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Can't wait for the sexual harassment follow up
[–]Edgar_Allan_Rich 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Kudos.
[–]jk147 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]chasemyers 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Ugh. Do you have any idea how frustrating it is to be working for someone that is supposed to also be working, and is instead putting the moves on a subordinate?
Apparently not.
[–]The_Turbinator 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I realised this; however, I was not going to let this chance slip up.
[–]chasemyers 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Scumbag supervisor. Aware that his subordinates will resent his advances on their coworker while he should be actually working. Doesn't care.
[–]frogma 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He said it's a temp job and the girl's already got a permanent job elsewhere.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
supervisors i tell you....must be nice.
I am definitely not the typical asshole supervisor, my people genuinely like me, I know this because they themselves say so. I have had my share of bad management in previous jobs and I strive to be as opposite as possible.
[–]szukai 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
only an idiot would tell his boss he hates him proper... just saying
[–]The_Turbinator 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I understand that. Usually when someone is dissatisfied they don't say it right to their face. What I am talking about is people telling me that I am one of the best supervisors they have ever worked with. People don't say that if they are not happy with you.
[–]TerrenceFartbubbler 1 point2 points3 points 14 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Dont shit where you eat. I learned the hard way. Hopefully your experience is different.
[–]bawss 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good luck and have fun on your date!
[–]theyareAs 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That sounds awesome man. But ah...good luck finding more to talk about later on =0
[–]dasthegreen 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Awesome Job. I love short girls.
[–]ToastieCrumbs 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
AWESOME JOB!!
[–]dchup 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
good job man that's awesome.
[–]GoP-Demon 0 points1 point2 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yah I was reading the whol thing thinking... when does he start to do his actual job? -Posted via MSOutlookit.com
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[–]Sybarith 2 points3 points4 points 14 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oneitis? On my Seddit?
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