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Red Pill TheoryHowdoiusesync/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 12:41 AM
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Howdoiusesync/r/askTRP15/01/20 12:25 PM
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Howdoiusesync/r/askTRP07/08/17 03:05 AM
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Building PowerHowdoiusesync/r/TheRedPill04/07/20 06:04 PM
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This is facts, a majority of people who do this as a coping strat. They believe if they do what you're stating it will supplement game. You really dont need much to fuck.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/20 07:45 PM
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Nothing to complain about the User Error isn't just married to this sub.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/20 07:33 PM
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because mainly these things have always been around but no real repercussions happen. BP guys who are ya know on the lower end would be dead or just not worth attention. Women would be more in line because of things that can actually hurt them, god, animals, famine,etc. Most loyalty comes from women when you're really doing you and I mean that. I've had plates who would want to take a bullet for me. The other dudes are just boring, the song "girls just wanna have fun" is a strong saying but it's…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/20 07:34 AM
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I’ve exceeded my quota of being called an egotistical a*hole cause I’ve had a tendency of losing interest after any “possibility of commitment “ conversations... ahhh in the same boat my friend. Glad to see someone else around here has the same problems I do.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 05:42 AM
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us “virus” really put the game in a “Luciferian “ difficulty.. Whoever says it’s not so - is probably lying.. Women’s strategy switched to choose a compliant nice blue pill guy that has a place to live and will pay for everything.. But the moment world opens back up - she will go back to her late evening “painting” class .. I'd disagree since lockdown my notch has gone up 10 fold and had a threesome last week. These girls are looking for anything that can lead to a high at this point. I agree th…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 02:43 AM
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true true, there's no doubt he's a top dude in terms of money. It's a common thing i've noticed with plates is that they have a top shelf dude who can't dish it out well though they spent their whole life building a castle in order to get girls. Then when their ship comes in they shoot themselves in the foot for the long hall. It's sad to see because around that time you only have so much time to build it back up.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 01:13 AM
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and ya know there's nothing wrong with that. When it comes to idenities the one who needs the other the most has the least amount of power. The one who turns into a sudo-verison of the other has the least amount of power. The issues with those are that guys get boring after the sex goes on tap and supplicate to that a bit too much, which is what girls dont even like in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 01:09 AM
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I see it on IG all the time now really puts this stuff into reality and such.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/20 07:24 PM
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she's 31, the script is the script nothing to complain about. There will always be some chump to wife her up. You know the game ,you see it, understand it, and maximize.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 04:32 AM
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not a call to quash the visceral disgust men feel in certain contexts when observing raw female depravity. It's as foolish as suppressing your flinch reflex to excel at middle school level games; you need those emotional responses. It takes some deliberate effort to calibrate your mental firmware to work well for you in a novel soc the simps have exposed themselves. Not only on OF but on social media in general.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/20 09:20 PM
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The weirdest thing is that they are just mad that they aren't getting (what girls on OF are selling) for themselves. Men who had these sexual experiences with women in plates/LTR's aren't mad from my experience. Those that didn't get the sex they desire from women who they are committed with or who are on the quest to quench their thirst are just complaining like women who nag about men. Women are gonna women though I don't see how some of these guys who complain about it are just going to use i…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/20 09:12 PM
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kinda weird that you say that. In my experience yes girls do have sex for the fun of it (i'm in my mid 20s and it starts at 18 for most of them.) then even in my early 20s girls would ask "where do you see this going and such?" they were trying to get relationships no doubt after a while of just smashing. Some of the hottest girls i've been with are serial LTR'ers. The common denominator though is that they wont use sex as a way to get into an LTR with you but do things outside of the bedroom(cl…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/20 01:58 AM
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honestly did it to bait. Though I agree with your post.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/20 07:37 AM
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wrong you don't need a ton of followers. Been getting girls off IG for a minute you never needed a huge following for it.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/20 04:01 AM
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gendernomics building value is great with this. Red Pill coffee as well with Rian Stone and Black Label Logic do have a series of this as well. In response to women not knowing what they want. They do, it just changes every 10 minutes.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/20 04:00 AM
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Too many her and she statements.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/20 10:30 PM
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this is probably one of the most based things i've read on this sub. Seeing doomer dudes in comments like "GOTtTA gO MGTOW BrUHH"
/r/TheRedPill03/11/20 04:18 AM
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observing the process changes the process
/r/TheRedPill23/10/20 08:43 PM
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That last sentence: add video games to it. After a while it gets boring. I remember about 2 weeks ago after getting some food with my boy and his girl they recommended to go back to theres to eat because the line was too long. We got back and they put on some cooking channel show while eating and his girl only talked about these YT's and i'm sitting there eating my food "you watch content about food when eating?" For me and how I was raised eating is to socialize and be with family it was weird.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/20 06:13 PM
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They same type of person is in both of those subs but one of those subs are actually have better accountability than the other. The reddit dilemma is pushing the threshold of freedom speech and then complain about the politics of it. I believe it's annoying since it's just manufactured outrage rather than because x or y. Not saying you should bend the knee though it's practical when there is money is involved to the hand that feeds you.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/20 01:13 AM
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funny thing the rule zero guys have content providing to Vet who you listen to.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/20 07:41 PM
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Sorry but nope, a lot of dudes in this reddit never seem to move past much rather than learning the theory and seem to lack reality testing. MRP has better tolerances than this sub. Despite the dudes who have great value as Mods and ECs you a majority of this is sub lacks practicality as it once did a few years ago. Also the userbase currently is a mix of MGTOW(the fake one) and incels who were sought their way out of the current SMP. There hasn't been much new under the sun here in a while whic…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/20 07:40 PM
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I agree with your bottom statement and I see a majority of people coming here as an influx that is getting out of hand in a way and a majority of them stay here rather than moving past their old issues.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/20 07:29 PM
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In reality, most guys are dependent on their parents during these so-called "best years." They are racking up debt, have no status, and are forced to share space with a bunch of other low-status men in dorms and small apartments. This is what I never understood about those years, in and out of college life was the same in regards to women. I believe those who believe that who are guys really are pre-whipped already.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/20 08:07 PM
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you want someone to tell you it's okay to do whatever youre gonna do anyway. Validation.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 06:16 AM
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THIS OP IS THE THING!
/r/askTRP21/09/20 05:35 AM
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have some game, know how to talk with women, have a life that doesn't involved just getting laid, uhhhh what else, i dunno TALK TO WOMEN?
/r/askTRP21/09/20 05:34 AM
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the real question...
/r/askTRP21/09/20 05:33 AM
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/thread
/r/askTRP21/09/20 05:32 AM
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I’m more concerned about my mission in life. If I really wanted to, I believe I could find a girl tomorrow, but I don’t have the desire. lying to yourself what have you done besides a stupid number that doesn't validate anything besides your grades? Over-achievers are the worse, everything is based on what is expected from you from people who don't even know what you want. Been there done that shit's boring. What are you doing for yourself and why are you asking random people on the internet on …
/r/askTRP21/09/20 05:30 AM
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to find a woman that I could be open with and who would support me in life. This mindset led me to figure out about the redpill the hard way. shitty dream, not even a dream more like idealism. ​ This mindset led me to figure out about the redpill the hard way. aye. f I’m going to be honest, I am far ahead of many of my peers in terms of career trajectory. I’m involved in many leadership positions on campus(will be student body president next year). I was accepted into a hyper-competitive interns…
/r/askTRP21/09/20 05:23 AM
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keep going, figure out what youre doing wrong. Don't build an ego because you're doing something for a week. "What are some tips to keep my mind off the women ignoring me until I finish boosting my SMV? " no def try to game girls while youre doing your shit.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 02:46 AM
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bingo!
/r/askTRP15/09/20 01:09 AM
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Report back in a month, MAP's by Rian stone is very helpful for guys in LTR's as well.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 06:25 AM
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never gonna happen, you'll get a girl then wanna go back to your "ElITe AcatIvITES" pussy is a commodity.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 05:47 AM
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Books to educate, practice with game, fail, and then repeat.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 05:45 AM
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you don't have to be a dick to people, but if youre going to be an asshole do it right. NMMNG and when i say no I feel guilty. Btw why are you in a LTR when youre so young? I'm younger than you and why do you feel the need to be in a LTR? Tbh by you stating this you are just lacking congruence you look the part cool, but do you walk the walk? Also seriously why are you in an LTR? It seems from your post you had "PTSD" from an ex and now you're complaining about a problem of you not leading (real…
/r/askTRP12/09/20 05:45 AM
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latina girls really just want to be put in their place. Western girls in general want to, karens exist for a reason buddy.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 09:07 PM
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i read OP's post and i've just lost hope for this sub.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 09:05 PM
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was looking for this. OP doesn't get women...
/r/askTRP07/09/20 03:26 AM
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do you guys go outside? Her: Imma grow your weed. Me: perfect, we'll have an out house for the coke induced sex. Her: Mirror selfie (clothes on) No response from me. Her 5 mins later: I know that I'm ugly but not that much that you leave me on read. Still no respones Her 10 more min later: That much ;( ? Me: No, youre the best magical drug princess that only your mom can compete with. Her: Ok thanks dear, I look like a druggie Me: My little druggie, my little druggie. Her: Ok honey, good night. …
/r/askTRP05/09/20 01:11 AM
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4 months lol, after a year that's the real test to see who is better. Usually these girls crash and burn but are still good looking that's whatever. I remember about after a year of me focusing on my shit and stuff an ex-plate ended up going to the hospital because she had a drinking problem (basically main reason why i ended shit with her) this is after a year of me working out and my fiances and working on shit she got in the way of (making music as well.) It took a long time for me to realize…
/r/askTRP05/09/20 01:05 AM
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big boi pants.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 09:34 PM
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no shit but you did post "was i too honest" since lack of frame. From a game perspective i would of just teased her but you didn't shut up you kept going...
/r/askTRP04/09/20 05:14 PM
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She says ‘ maybe 3 times 😉’ I say that I’m too busy with work but we can meet on the weekend COULD OF HAD IT ALL ROLLING IN THE DEEP!
/r/askTRP04/09/20 02:49 PM
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So anyway, I felt like this was a comfort test? when they say " i feel" usually a comfort test when it's "you" it's a shit test. What was the advice? Usually the whole "you don't listen to me" is you not actually listening but you trying to fix her problems. She's complaining about something and you say "well why dont you do whatever" when women talk it's from their ego most of the time. Just listen like dont say much and let her get that release from her just talking. Then change topics. Best t…
/r/askTRP29/08/20 12:22 PM
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i'm naturally sarcastic, i realized early on it works with girls more than it should. Plus also girls exaggerate everything, use it as a tool for yourself. In my example I guess mystery or whatever is the thing. She could think youre a drug dealer or have some crazy ex's i also like fucking with people that don't matter in my life. Practically speaking, when it comes to getting a snap just get in and get out dont talk to much after you get it. Nothing beats trying and seeing what sticks. Gotta r…
/r/askTRP29/08/20 12:15 PM
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Her: Is snap ok? Me: what, you’re going to send me nudes? (S/o to the one that came up with this one lmao) Her: hahhahah no, but I don’t give out my number that fast ​ You were in the bag, you could of just said "oh trust me I know, i had to change my number a couple of times this year" end it on that move on.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 12:05 PM
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out the fact that women date/fuck losers because they can't handle being with a man "better" than them. The man who is "better" than them forces them to see how imperfect they are. Money doesn't equate to this in the real world. Mnay dudes who are well off are push overs when it comes to women. Some women do have to settle if they wasted a lot of time on bs that doesn't actually help improve their smv. Those girls who are "i don't date better men" or whatever is coming out of their can do submit…
/r/askTRP28/08/20 07:35 PM
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I've accepted a position as a Sr. Banker, and I start next month. Although I love the chick, I think it's time I end this relationship and get back focused immediately. I was thinking of demoting, but I believe it's best to walk away completely. You can do this mentally and work on your MAP. If she falls off while not giving her what you were doing before then you know why she was around. break up with her in your head and keep going on yourself in the end if she can't keep up or gives you bs fo…
/r/askTRP28/08/20 07:31 PM
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Yeah a good fuck but to answer your question they don't stay around if their ship comes in. I mean't cock carousel that they in that stage are gonna be the "omg i was never like that" to their man. I wouldn't say they dumb you they want LTR's more than most women if you got shit going on. A lot of them are desperate, one fo them who is a career women and is a bit overweight is highly sexual with me all the time I see her. She can't lock down a dude but got a masters in some bs. My aunt has a kid…
/r/askTRP28/08/20 05:27 AM
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Rian stone, YT and MAP's watch, take some notes and take some action. She's a reflection of you homie.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 01:04 AM
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they usually don't last. There is a trend that many women who have "party years and ride the cc" often don't give the attention when they get the house and a dude to settle with. Example: My aunts friends in their early 30's all still riding the cc and partying. One Jane was such a hoe when I was 17-18ish asked me about her tits, showed me them and everthing. She found a good dude who was a cop they moved to the upper part of the state with a nice house and everything and barely talk with my aun…
/r/askTRP27/08/20 01:01 AM
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no worries, it's not bad to spark interest but talking about "what anime do you like?" is not for sparking interest. Be someone, not anyone.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 10:20 PM
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What has she don't to deserve it?
/r/askTRP25/08/20 07:36 PM
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I've read about how 10 or 20% of men are fucking 80% of women, the competition is fierce, she only fucks with Chad, etc. No 100% of women are attracted to the top 20%. I feel that some people on here say that if you're not 6ft with a 6 pack and a millionaire, then you might as well give up. You can have money and not get laid, hence why you should learn good game to see what works with you and what doesn't. Some dudes who are shorter should learn to better their lives much more in other areas. P…
/r/askTRP25/08/20 07:32 PM
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kinda weird how they actually do say that and teach that but yet you missed that memo.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/20 06:59 PM
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don't understand why this is down voted at all lol. Though this is a thing called Betaization from the book Practical Female Pysch.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/20 08:45 PM
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" need to test you say ah"
/r/askTRP07/05/20 05:38 PM
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I would argue that it isn't worth your time to go back to the trash you took out. If you're getting sex from other girls why keeping her around? That sounds like an emotional investment that you're still entertaining. Also you're wasting your time and her's by not being upfront about it and you allowed her to make mistakes and still reward her for that behavior. Lovely how I can get downvoted for such things that are in the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/20 07:30 PM
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You did things because you didn't or lost your "LTR's" attention. You didn't have abundance before, though congrats on getting out of her frame but it was still in her frame since you have given her what she wanted. How does your LTR give another dude attention he declines her and she goes back to you then you entertain it?
/r/TheRedPill05/05/20 07:27 PM
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So if you didn't lose attention from your LTR then would you still found plates? Since in my head this post was like. Lost attention from an LTR -> You find plate -> LTR comes back -> You give her what she wants.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/20 07:20 PM
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" My LTR, " WTF? This post is a response to you being in her frame.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/20 05:43 PM
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Alright, so now put your morals aside for this one. Yesterday I went to my favorite deli to grab a bite. On line there were two couples one with a dude who was in shape and one who i really don't hope were in a relationship. The dude who wasn't jacked at all was obviously all over his girl in public waiting on line. Hugging and shit and being all over the girl. Everytime he did I couldn't help but notice in the corner of my eye that she was looking at me. I looked at them a few times and this du…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/20 01:47 AM
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This is beautifully explained. I would also argue that it can be an extension of language hence nowadays people can are with emotion alot more than they used to (or so it seems.)
/r/askTRP04/05/20 09:00 PM
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" I have met an awful lot of people and despite the lockdown "bringing people together" no one has really reached out to me. " If a girl was behaving like this what would you do?
/r/askTRP04/05/20 07:20 PM
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this is beyond fact which is sad that most people dont seem to realize.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 07:18 PM
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Different side of the same coin which works when you use it right as a reward no rationalize to a woman or make her rationalize that you are the best. Some girls with daddy issues (large nowadays) do just want to be taken care of. Now i'm not saying do that but that's at the reward based on her behavior and giving you the token of her submission. Though most guys go in the opposite direction first then think they have a slut all to themselves when it kills the attraction.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 07:16 PM
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i would argue most guys there need to become something while learning better game.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/20 03:59 AM
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okay so boom, when you mirror someones mannerisms that means they've had an impact on you. When you copy or mirror someone's body language you're making them more comfortable as well, this is noted in Robert Greene's Law of Human Nature and many others based on Body Language. Now when a girl does this over time more and more she's adopting you as a role model in a such way. If you think about it like with a guy trying to have interests of the girl they like or whatever it works both ways. Though…
/r/askTRP21/04/20 10:16 PM
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and the big bad chad is unstoppable. OP needs to grow a pair.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 09:40 PM
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the weird thing about when you're stating "oh that's always the advice here" is because it works. Here's the thing though, for the last 2 decades women have been creating a cold smv. You're kinda late to that train. Though spinning plates and such isn't the destination at all. A lot of it is like pickup and what you can learn from it not about women but about yourself. Hence the gym is the first thing people say to do not because you become hot or whatever. Stop making it overly complex and lear…
/r/askTRP21/04/20 06:07 PM
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That's really the core values here, op is worrying about what 99% of guys are going to be in for. So if you subscribe here and the practices, then you understand the 80% of guys are beta that's on them. How does Onlyfans hoes effect you gains in money, strength both in mind and physical? How does it effect your game? There are many external factors that are out of your control but you can see how it relates to you and such and in this example is gonna be the dating market. So OP is worrying abou…
/r/askTRP21/04/20 05:53 PM
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the dudes that are allowing it have no idea what pimp game is. Can't wait for the crashes.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 05:47 PM
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i've done this a lot from people asking for favors it's quiet entertaining.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 05:45 PM
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okay bro, who fucking cares. How does this relate to you?
/r/askTRP21/04/20 05:42 PM
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I disagree with your posting on game. If you don't have solid game (not talking reading a script) you wont survive in an ltr even just a FWB. Still weird some guys don't that since when they get into an LTR or something they come back here or have askTRP posts. I would also say game goes beyond women. ​ Edit: Coming from a guy who had game before knowing this place existed.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/20 05:36 AM
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what i've noticed is many new comers here still don't get it that way. But I agree 10/10 works.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/20 05:19 PM
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After my second LTR that brought me here this actually works so well when even spinning plates. You'd be surprised how many dudes I've seen broken up because they got complacent within a few months.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/20 04:55 PM
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Honestly, these girls were doing this before the b-bug. One girl i used to plate back when did this exactly. I didn't want a relationship, she couldn't survive a year of being a robo-sult. As cool as they look on social media doing x or y, they're still drinking their pain away from one-night stands or sugar daddy issues. It's actually way more common then you think. I would see this in plate's friends and such almost to a T. These girls that you mention are actually just miserable, not damaged …
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 06:49 PM
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As for you stating that I am talking in binaries, as I stated in my post, a person can lean towards being more Prospecting, but also be Judging. Just because I'm left handed, doesn't mean I can't use my right hand. ​ This binary way of thinking so annoying it's even found it's way here. I never really bought into the whole MBTI thing because the people who are claiming they are Introverted never learned how to talk to people in the first place. Then claim that extroverts are normies or something…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 05:11 PM
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you realize thats what most couples think?
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 05:05 PM
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Whip that shit. Thank your father, focus on you and make him proud. But also whip that shit and use it as a status symbol. Fuck em in the range it'll make their year.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 10:50 PM
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That whole Alpha widow thing that guys care so much about is such a deep narcissistic trait it's hilarious. It shows they really still make women a part of their without they go nuts. Plus making girls crazy over you after ya'll done aint fun. I've done this twice now and it gets fucking predictable as shit and also annoying when you really forget about it.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 10:48 PM
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One thing I got to agree with nearly everyones comments. Secondly, you're doing yourself a disfavor here. You don't want to be more authentic man if you continue this. You're doing a disservice to yourself and your future and even a future LTR. Though, She then declared that this relationship had no purpose if it was one sided and if I didn't want to go the same route. Which is true from her perspective Not really, you're in her frame and sounds like she's using an ultimatum on ya boi. You can b…
/r/askTRP06/04/20 10:39 PM
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Though I would like to add fuck identities, that old version of you is still you just a different behavior pattern.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 04:56 AM
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as someone who does this too look into Pocket google extension, it's like the save on reddit but you can add tags. All the archived material can go in there.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 04:55 AM
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Everytime someone brings sexuality into something that is a skill based thing that has nothing to do with sex it raises a red flag in my head. It's almost like when women openly talk about being sexually abused in their past. No matter if that is true or not why are you telling me this? Most of those people never talk about it even with family.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 04:52 AM
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if you didn't have ego you wouldn't function. The fact that youre here on this reddit is an ego driven thing.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/20 01:14 AM
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Fucking married women. You don't really see how women are until they're chasing your validation. They can act well when in your frame.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 09:56 PM
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shit it gets really bad when it comes to women and eventually guys just cick themselves.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 05:51 PM
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Nice guys are the worst.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 03:42 AM
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you have alot more work to do.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 09:56 PM
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Okay so you can still become fit. That isn’t going to ever stop. You can still work out and see where it leads. You don’t even have to become rich that’s up to you. Sounds like you don’t even wanna try and you want people to hold your hand while they fuck a girl for you. People have had it worse than you. People will have it worse than you. Up to you.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 07:21 AM
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I grew into my looks actually. It’s weird I get called a model now, but from a young age my parents taught me how to manage my health over a lot of things. I had scars on my lips from eating shit on a bike as a kid as well. I had braces for a good majority of my teenage years. Shit I even got the whole “he looks like he’ll be apologizing to you while having sex” then had stalkers, girls who I pushed away who would hang out with my old friends to complain about me. I wasn’t like this from birth b…
/r/askTRP28/03/20 07:12 AM
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I would like to add my take to this. I was maybe worse than you. From my last year of high school admins there on so maybe about 4 years ago, I first learned game. I stubbled on to knowing what status was at the time (throwing house parties that I got so bad cops would come by when we seething up. Then with some social proof learning how to talk to people and girls. Around this time I was ever home. Sneaking into clubs underage and just saying I knew who and when in reality I didn’t. I had some …
/r/askTRP28/03/20 07:03 AM
1

Carl?
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:54 AM
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Wtf
/r/askTRP26/03/20 11:46 PM
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Though really I agree with you more but you see a lot of dudes here LARPIng for respect. After you go through 10 of these girls in America or NYC for example without doing much you realize they all the same. Though with people in general are lazy as fuck. If you’ve seen what some of the 20 y.o’s are doing is just being home watching Netflix and gaming. The bar is set low for men now. Though I personally believe people who are simps with women are simps with irl stuff.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 07:38 PM
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L
/r/askTRP26/03/20 06:51 PM
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You described deep narcissists. Those are the worse types. There is a level of narcissism that can be used to understand other people’s frame. I don’t actually know what empathy feels like but I can understand where someone is coming from and how they can have some emotions but I can never feel it. Though when I listen to people I usually can see where their values are as well. The deep have a false sense of self that is a lot like women’s inflated ego.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 07:44 AM
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In America it’s really easy to be top 20%
/r/askTRP26/03/20 04:55 AM
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Op this is the way
/r/askTRP26/03/20 04:54 AM
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oh shit this is universal? YO MY MAN!
/r/askTRP26/03/20 02:51 AM
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“Yeah you’re really saving the world on your porch huh?” Fuck these people they’re bored with themselves.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 06:37 PM
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I’ll add to this, watch the path she’s creating within the story. Follow that path while looking above. I dunno if that makes much sense but as if her “perception” is like a spline that’s is being created and you can look at the space around that spline.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/20 11:41 PM
1

Yeah same goes for the other side really.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 08:10 PM
1

You can’t just never have sex and then say you’ve decided to be not into women. Ego defense is strong with this one.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 08:23 AM
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Usually guys will try to convince her why she should choose them and they all just fight about it vying for her approval it's not up to you to explain why she's into you. Let her figure that shit out. That's qualifying yourself to her.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 05:16 AM
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I think you’re talking in extremes here. Yeah that fake shit does get exposed even in times like this most relationships might not last. Naturals I guess are an extreme because personality isn’t static at all. Even in upbringings and such with genes gets you in the door. I feel like you’re describing people who don’t really exist. Since you proved my point of experience brings more and more congruence rather than fake it until you make it. Game isn’t about that tbh game goes father than women.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 08:45 PM
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no that's being in-congruent. You're then saying you have a million dollars and scaming. Though I agree with manipulation on both ends. It's making yourself seem higher-value you should be doing that already.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 08:32 PM
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Had a soft harem while living with my parents. Main plate would be around both my parents place and my small ass dorm. The other girls only got the dorm. Did I mention I was broke? Yeah who cares, I started the main plate my fucking her in my roof. Get out of your head and start living a little. We’ll wait until coco virus dies out.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 07:20 AM
1

Genedernomics definitely worth the read on mapping goals.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 04:31 PM
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Hit up a girl I had her number in my phone for 4 years. She's 3 years older than me and a nurse. My life is on pause, guess who fucked today after 3 days? Now I wanna be alone, honestly been vetting people seeing what they're doing while they have the time now. Alot of people I won't talk to in the summer.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 03:26 AM
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bet when you get some girl that shows some interest you'll be back on your game.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 03:21 AM
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in this state of affairs I really am jealous. "Oh they can't go outside, Watch me Teehee XD"
/r/TheRedPill19/03/20 10:23 PM
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/thread
/r/askTRP19/03/20 05:30 PM
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You followed a sheep’s trend in music. Now you wanna do what everyone else is doing. If you hate that imagine so much why not turn it into something better?
/r/askTRP19/03/20 04:40 PM
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I wanna RP you in music. Guitar, really I wonder who inspired that with all the guitar melody packs. Seriously though, how about you grow as an artist? I made some shitty music when I first started and produced but now shit has grown. The hero's journey is kinda like the artists journey.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 04:25 PM
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See that’s a bit too much you’re into a frame and on her about IOI’s bruh. Learn what works and test. Then be a sociopath about it. See what works well and what does like different for every girl. Rn I’m smashing this traditional Chinese girl who is older than me but I can turn down my sarcasm a tad bit but after the second day gaming her a bit she wishes I was over her place to “burn some calories” Play the game and a tune to your “victim” I guess.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 05:27 AM
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Read up to “dime piece” please work on this shitty frame.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 05:00 AM
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Once you get hit by a car and then a gun pulled on you in the same summer you realize ehh shit happens.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 04:37 AM
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Anytime bro ham some dudes need to step up. Glad I could help.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 09:08 PM
1

High tech as in what?
/r/askTRP18/03/20 08:12 PM
1

Looking for your approval, basically them chasing you and you live rent free. Carry on to what you’re doing.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 06:47 AM
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You’re hooked on the chemicals you get from the your ex. I know how guys here say “fuck all these girls to get over your ex” been there done that twice. You actually are addicted to the chemical rush she gave you. It’s okay it’s really natural. Just dude decide if you want your ex which we both know ain’t worth it. Cut it off all the way your future self will than you. Also maybe take some time off from women. You kinda need to reset these things.
/r/askTRP18/03/20 06:45 AM
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Signed into on my phone to comment. First off, never ask about it verbally. You can tell based of from her body. If she ain’t shivering after you ain’t doing it right. Secondly, foreplay half of the dudes that are just ducking or learning to get in the game Dont understand tension and release. This is something that is common in music but god it works with women too. So foreplay create that urge with ya girl, if you know how to game a girl you can do this verbally (plates have had this common th…
/r/askTRP18/03/20 06:42 AM
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After a same day lay, got the whole "It's the way you talk" so medium is the message, confidence. Though been as if I was a model a couple of times. So looks gets you in the door but if you're socially retarded then good luck.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 06:04 PM
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srry just how I type. I also seen a ton of dudes say "How do I get laid now?" just funny imo.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 03:11 AM
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okay so chill the fuck out, stay in, do what you have to do and be apart of the solution.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 02:23 AM
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thought I was an alpha WTF does this even mean? I acted like a real man uh what? When you boast this it makes me cringe. Acting like a real man you say? Lemme fuck your wife so I know you're a real man. My catastrophic days have started from there, I didn’t only tell her I liked her I also explicitly told her I had feelings for her when we first met Okay the kitty is out of the bag, the joke is up she found you out. Next time keep that shit to yourself. Nobody said you can't have feelings for a …
/r/askTRP17/03/20 02:16 AM
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if we were to talk about this in a container. Betas act very feminine no? So then they act like women, would you agree? So then if you do then they play the passive aggressive game. It leaks out in projections For example: "You only date emotionally unstable girls" " That girl has daddy issues" "I'm not jealous I have a Cool Girl TM to wife up" Like a lot of dudes don't take responsibility for themselves anymore only when it isn't the outcome they wanted. I knew a guy who fucked an old plate of …
/r/askTRP17/03/20 01:54 AM
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First 2 chapters in Day Bang.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 02:44 PM
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Okay well at least you understand that things have not changed when you changed. If you want to compromise your sexual strategy for this one be my guest but don't complain. Now she saw you at lets say at a lower level, not you elevated a bit maybe you act the same, fine I would work on that maybe dread by actually doing things different. Now this isn't a thing where you should just get up and leave because 80% of dudes here will do the same thing over and over with the same girl. Now you can wor…
/r/askTRP15/03/20 07:24 PM
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then what else could it be about you?
/r/askTRP15/03/20 06:54 PM
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he hates me and acts butthurt more and more. Let him, shows you have the power here. You act yourself or are acting your casual self, insecurity and envy project outwards on to other things. Now eventually she'll take notice, let him fuck himself hence you live in his head rent-free. He'll run himself into the ground. This is a good position to be in. Been here, it's fun actually.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 06:53 PM
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just tell her not to wear anything under her pants and you gucci.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 06:05 PM
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"Let me show you"
/r/askTRP14/03/20 05:20 PM
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Honestly I have to say this is as true as it gets. Even with some or even most of these girls, they are actually miserable. Now I’m not saying this from a MGTOW perspective or what not though a good majority of it ma true. They work, do nothing but drink and Netflix. Sad to say they can’t even admit they want a dude that brings those tingles. Shit even girls that have sugar daddies are really good at covering it up but they girls are just fucking bored and want something “real” what I mean by th…
/r/askTRP14/03/20 08:12 AM
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was wondering the same. My opinion, OP has lack of experience, soem girls are hot and bring alot to the table. Some girls bring nothing besides their looks. OP's ex girl saw him as the prize, he fucked up. Humans huh?
/r/askTRP14/03/20 03:20 AM
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honestly really happy this is happening because so many people are going to gain weight, be afraid of the gym, doing stuff that needs to be done. The whole world rn is just at a stop(my boy pointed this out to me) and ya know what, great. I already work from home alot of people are going to be just doing nothing. Shit some LTR's are gonna be done during this time.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 03:11 AM
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more like caffeine induced weird how one comes to a sexual strategy forum to want a sunhat goddess. Though my reality is what is stated in my text maybe i'm chad and should talk about it and make women bow to me through a reddit.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/20 07:11 AM
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i don't think the whole "whore" thing is legit but women will more likely become attached with constant well sexed even when you are away "doing your thang" You kinda sound like a woman shaming a man to "man up" if you think about it. For example: I had a main plate who's sister would say "HowdoIusesync is your man if you don't believe it or not" while away and living hours away. Yeah we weren't in a LTR but you damn right I was invited to family events and fucked her in the bathroom.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/20 02:46 AM
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what is the actual point of what? If the emotions thing, well really it's a hack. The guy who can be a drug to a girl out of commitment or w/o it can have his way. That's what could be seen as genuine desire. Now if you understand this that means you can cause a ripple so to speak by, looks, game, and other aspects. Usually and most commonly there isn't much of a difference in that way of thinking from 20 to 40 for women. The common thing I see with single mothers is that they act like 20 y.o's …
/r/TheRedPill10/03/20 08:38 PM
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Feed Me now, though I get the transition. Son. i'm waiting for that Noisia Josh Pan remix. Glad to see some this here.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/20 02:43 AM
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oh how spor was a god. You fuck with half time?
/r/TheRedPill06/03/20 02:36 AM
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drugs are a cheap surrogate for value.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/20 05:10 PM
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op do the work pussy.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 09:59 PM
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2 months you upset, hit that bench buddy.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 09:58 PM
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Ohh okay good one, In my experience I grew into my looks. I was a fucking sack of shit when I was younger because of a car accident that forced me to get scars on my lips and terrible emo phase. Then braces for years. So I had to have game, that cocky attitude was my game but I also could be caring to those around me. (My closest friend knows I give out the honesty and just don't care I dont really have a filter when it comes to most or if I'm in a position to be fucked.) This also worked very w…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/20 05:15 AM
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well in regards of this post. Game is a tool everyone uses: nice guys have game through overt contracts and build a system based on it. I say that because it's an actually conditioning. I was brought to this sub maybe about 4 years ago on another account and such from then to now it's become watered down. Thinking this " 20-something chicks are so drawn to stability I'm surprised they aren't out fucking concrete slabs. " is beyond from the truth since I've known guys who are relatively attractiv…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 08:32 PM
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thanks for summing this post as a "dont take seriously" RIP this sub.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 08:02 PM
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you do need game. Too many simps irl and online really are the counter argument to your statement. Game is more than just women. Come on bro, game helps a ton of dudes. Its a tool
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 07:55 PM
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Most women fall in the average tbh. That goes for intelligence as well as personality. Some of the girls where dudes would ask how (me before lifting) would actually ask how. I was usually bored after an hour after smashing. One of these girls is married to a body builder, thank god.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/20 02:15 PM
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I guess i'm in the same position as you but with both my parents. My father who i've actually threw the hands with I've cut off but still feel bad i've left him to fend for himself and that side of that family. That happened a ton when I was 13, 19-ish i cut him off after terrible advice and realized he was a terrible model. Though when I am back home sometimes I actually just want him dead, since that's an easier route and maybe one day I know i'll receive a call from someone stating he's passe…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/20 06:53 AM
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So that's why an old social circle doesn't fuck with me anymore. Honestly you just helped me a ton.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/20 06:48 AM
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This is actually more accurate than you think.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/20 10:48 PM
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In other words, you make life happen, not let life happen to you.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/20 10:48 PM
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well youre not giving away your value if you doing what you are originally. Giving people things for women as attention means a lot more when you are desired than Beta Billy does. I would have to disagree that you just stating you had a hard life objectively is or makes you Alpha. You could be socially retarded and never were socialized as a kid (which many zommers including my peers are) and never rise to that occasion. Also women don't make it hard for you obtain sex, that shit is given for so…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/20 08:59 PM
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Desired in the beginning and passing comfort tests usually works well with plates. Being fully immersed in a girl right off the bat shows how malleable you are, which is actually a very beta behavior. Why would any girl want that?\ Though if you deliberately treat Beta behavior as a reward and show some effort when earned and stay with your desired traits then you got it. Learned this through experienced, shit most dudes back home just do that more often nowadays and what's worse is Beta game. H…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/20 07:44 PM
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would love to hear your sights on people around you getting hitched.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/20 02:36 AM
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they sadly do, hence why they love traveling. I had a plate that would visit me 8 hours away frequently just so she could join me where I was. She knew I had other girls with me at the time that were plates. "I've been traveling non-stop when it comes to seeing you" Mind you we barely did much besides fucking all weekend. oh yeah the sent sister this #travels8hoursforthed #wontstoptravelingforthed and when I came home you bet that girl was waiting.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/20 05:38 PM
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comparing the female in question even to their sister or friend is hilarious. It really fucks with a girl. I had an ex I do this all the time to. "You know when your sister gets into college she's gonna look pretty fine." (me being 19 at the time when the sister was 17 and ex 19)
/r/TheRedPill15/02/20 05:33 PM
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i get gaming girls but why do some have to try to game their mates LTR? I just treat them like little girls and that's it. Yall are making more problems for yourselves with this autistic behavior and run the risk of losing a mate. Poor behavior.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/20 03:52 PM
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I'm in my early 20's. I've slept with both ranges can concur.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 04:52 PM
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word, this is dualistic
/r/askTRP05/02/20 04:47 PM
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Well if this happened after the LTR happened I think you are just the second option since there is no real added value you got from being in an LTR and this is her doing not yours. Since you have no benefit and looks like you see that now. Loving a girl or telling her you love her is not a sin, if she's that dope that's fine really but it has to be congruent with her behavior towards you. I've had plates tell me they love me or in love with me and do some wild shit for me w/o me even wanting it …
/r/askTRP05/02/20 04:44 PM
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Knew a great looking dude worked out and was a fitness coach. Girls were so disgusted by him, the way he talked and way he just was. Even dudes didn't like him because he was a bit too much. Since you're here complaining you have this girl on the pedestal. take her off you have options so why do you care? " Girl I’ve been trying to plate the fuck does this mean? Let's say you weren't jacked or whatever looksmax shit you are stating, i'd think this was a incel post or meme. Oh that mog comment ma…
/r/askTRP05/02/20 04:36 PM
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You had a great opportunity to make her a plate, even if this was through you manipulating the emotional state of lying about your feelings. It's pretty lame to just lie and make yourself the scapegoat just to be honest. You stated you were only in a LTR for 6 months, jesus I hope you guys were fucking before that and she wanted to be in a LTR with you. If you're in a LTR and 6 months in you're bored then you are doing it wrong and you're not her first option. This is more about you than her sin…
/r/askTRP05/02/20 04:26 PM
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i've noticed a trend with the women that have regretted sleeping with a dude after one time. Usually it's because they just need dick and don't want the dude attached to the guy. One guy I tried to help in college hooked up with this girl he was orbiting forever, she slept with him because he knew her ex. After the banged she had a breakdown about the ex and cried. Then following after she cut the friendship off. Though this guy was very not put togther, terrible weight, didn't take care of hims…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/20 03:50 PM
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Glad to see i'm following in some notion of good steps in life. Thank you for the small ego stroke but it's humbling at the same time to be better. I apericate the older dudes here alot more than the askTRP lurkers. Though that story in cancun would probably be me and my boy if he wasn't married and complaining about not having purpose in life while he's my age. Looks like i'm gonna try Volleyball this summer.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/20 11:10 PM
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It's strange ain't it? I've always understood the importance of academia but it wasn't everything. I kinda understand that after working in a hospital at the age of 16. I would be around other students in colleges that were Ivy league yet I was in the same department. One girl was from Harvard and hated my guts because I had an interest in the cardiovascular system at that age and self studied it. But man a couple of them in particular drove teachers insane because everything came so easily and …
/r/TheRedPill03/02/20 10:40 PM
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As a child, until middleschool, I was Alpha as fuck. I didn't care what anyone else told me. I did what I wanted when I wanted. Slowly my teachers and mother molded to become an obedient do gooder. Can a beta mindset be molded into children? When I was in High school I had a clique of the smartest dudes in out class. We weren't really geeks or anything but we were fucking smart, did some of the best in our AP classes w/o even trying. We also threw ragers of parties as well smoked a ton of weed a…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/20 09:27 PM
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Thank you, and good luck sir.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/20 04:37 AM
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Oh nice! I totally get where you're coming from. I have another question as a person in their 20's, what is the benefit you see that guys who do the work in my age or younger have an upper hand in I assume compared to your BP 20's (for a lack of a better term srry) I don't like really judging people I know in my age but I get that "tick" when I know it's a bad deal for them, hence coke, endlessly drinking, videogame addiction and even marriage. Thanks again!
/r/TheRedPill29/01/20 03:54 AM
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Maybe this is a bias response but I'm in my early 20's as well and I can relate to this a tad bit and understand that this is really what separates alot of dudes in the 20's. Compared to him I've started to do the work a year ago and have seen improvement in my life. Not just from oh shit I could smash this girl I had that already. I had to drop a lot fo simp friends as well in this process. I mean many dudes still just sit home and play video games all day and give their attention away to girls…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/20 02:53 AM
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Honestly i've had plates that have done more for me than most dudes that are in relationships.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/20 01:46 PM
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you have the placeholder for "alpha" wrong.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/20 01:41 PM
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I drank a lot back then and was skinny but was as toned as I am now and have had decent gains for being so fucking skinny my own life. Honestly, good for you I think in Uni it's a subpar-rule that girls just fuck and fuck and lock down a dude for a potential BB. But you can go further than that. Live a more interesting life enjoy women for what they provide yet never settle they are the end by all means. Between school, work, and even my own hobbies I have 0 time for wasting time chasing. Pro-st…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/20 09:17 PM
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I’ve noticed that the less desirable they think they are to you, the more they try and look stupid to g Thank you, it took a lot to get her off my back. I mean a lot of my social life changed since we had a lot of common friends. Though it was for the better. Found out a lot of guys didn't like me just because of us fucking and I kept it like that. Crazy tbh. Coming from a single mother I realized early on that no matter what i'll always be blamed for something. Yet after reading NMMNG twice i u…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/20 09:08 PM
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I’m just wondering if anyone else has dealt with something similar where a girl has ghosted you for seemingly no reason, then got an almost instant dose of karma for making a bad decision for herself? Well wasn't ghosted, but I had a plate that was great but would drink a bit too much and it got quiet annoying. So cutting her off, she fucked an old friend who was orbiting her forever. Then that friend confessed that after they were both drunk and "smashed" (this dude couldnt get girls to save hi…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/20 08:47 PM
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Okay so I agree with you for the most part. But the application part should be emphasized even more than since you've seen success with it. Though we have enough content on hyper-gamy now. Obvisously it isn't a straight-jacket at all. Lemme rephrase my statement i'm annoying with the issue that people just take all these things and never do anything with it. If you see in the chats on streams in rule zero we have the same people asking the sample questions. When advise is given people just give …
/r/TheRedPill24/01/20 07:17 PM
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I'm generalizing on what I see everywhere now. YT chats, where people just boast terms from this sub. I'm generalizing from the YT comments and comments on here as well. I say a majority of these things from actually having no social life to throwing ragers at my house a couple of years ago. From playing video games all day everyday, to going to a all black club in miami and having girls just crowd me and my boy on the dance floor. I've lived some of this shit that many don't even get to. They c…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/20 06:58 PM
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I mean can you blame him? Look I get it that you can't save them but they have to make an effort. A lot of these ideas are starting to sound like brainwashing, the incel that believes in if he was x will effect his life and his habits. For example: "Oh that girl is so cute, I would talk to her but I lack *insert basic black pill or looksmax bs here* so I won't talk to her" Maybe if that dude believed in looksmax and worked out started to treat himself better in his health and other areas, fuck m…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/20 06:05 PM
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My boss is 5'5 fucks a lot.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/20 01:08 AM
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you just worked out. Good job for that but really dude... didn't know this is the blackpill sub.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/20 01:08 AM
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I was looking for an example like this. Glad to see it’s not just a trend. I would do the same if I had a kid but I’m in my early 20s had and idea of maybe moving in with a girl last year just been reading the book of pool and wondered if difference would occur.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 01:48 PM
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To add on, when in college last semester after having 3 plates at the same time one him, second in the other complex, and another. I would just feel like I wanted to fuck anything. Then going to one plate who was the main girl. I felt not just as horny but I got a bit of one it is. I was wondering if it’s with just living with an LTR or just what comes with marriage or a subconscious thing that you are in a weaker position when you get married.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 01:45 PM
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Confront her, you display that you are insecure. If you go on you will always have it in the back of your head. I would take some time to just be by myself, breaking up with her in your head and just seeing her as you just fucked her before. This will be a good test to see how much she's actually into you. From example I did this and the plate was telling some of my social group that she still finds me incredibly attractive. I didn't do this for that result just to see where I stood in her eyes …
/r/askTRP15/01/20 01:23 PM
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I’ve had similar experiences as well. But is it when you’re living with women or just when you have a wife which is what’s bothering me since I don’t wanna be a soerg about it.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 12:43 PM
1

examples like this make me sure to never forget working out. Really idk why people let themselves go anymore.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 01:54 AM
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The more and more I see trying to help the more their ego gets fueled to do the opposite and yet get 0 results. Vet people where theyre coming from.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/20 12:51 AM
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really? You broke frame so many times then rewarded her with your commitment again. Cut your losses buddy, this is just a waste of time. Also Pretty much every time she pisses me off (texts another guy or parties without me) I go fuck another girl (I usually admit it to her and tell her why) The fuck is the point of the relationship? No offense you live in this girls frame hence you do things out of an emotional response. Sorry buddy you aint shit. You keep playing games and the emotional high w…
/r/askTRP14/01/20 12:42 AM
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Ya know she probably told him yet he was trying to mate guard. Honestly you probably could smash.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 12:34 AM
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sadly this is a huge thing that many guys din't understand anymore. Even if you ask if theyre okay they still get butt-hurt.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 02:01 PM
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crazy question why did you put up with this? He was more handsome than you (He is not, she lied. just an above average face), he had a ripped body (he was jacked) Like dude wtf? Ya know I was really skinny for a while while being 5'11. Honestly Ihad that same insecurity as you. Now i'm not gonna say "get in the gym because she said so" but bitches love muscles. If you got the face which I did as well why not just go for the full package aesthetically? I'm not telling you to put your worth on you…
/r/askTRP13/01/20 07:57 AM
1

Medium is the message.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 07:51 AM
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Did this irl plate lasted for a while.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 07:51 AM
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Question for you, what are you doing in life? How old are you? What do you desire to achieve in life?
/r/askTRP13/01/20 07:47 AM
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Hold frame, just another shit test don't worry about it.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 07:46 AM
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Don't worry about it too much. Everything is about sex, at the same time it isn't. Could be worse, you could be the guy she's pretending to desire yet has a sugar daddy and has subpar sex with ONS's. Trust me when you see shit like that the only way is forward.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/20 12:13 PM
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I also ascribe to the theory from Atomic Habits that you need to do something to confirm yourself of those ways of thinking. Hence you're a musician, yet you suck at playing instruments. Yet you do also. You are a musician but you may not be very good, if the caliber of what you think good is comparable to someone else then you're on a bad road. Yet if you are better than last week or even more jacked and better looking than a year ago you are that person "now". I don't think humans are that dum…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/20 11:20 AM
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If you ever watched enourage, Arie does a great scene about this at a woman's achievement speech.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/20 11:11 AM
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honestly, do you think it's that big of a deal to her? If she's interested she'll come around. No need to try to build a sandcastle with your mind. Though you wanting to meet a stranger in their home... buddy most men can out win a girl in a boxing match if it were legal use your head. Though keep your options open, yeah pussy is great but it really is all the same and if you aint dishing out the fun that she's willing to jump on then oh well no hard feelings, s'just sexy time. I get the whole "…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/20 11:08 AM
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anything and using the theory of a ladder to help. You wanna make some money off of making websites? Cool, then you figure out all the steps from micro to macro. The goals post that is in the side bar is that.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/20 10:49 PM
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Loved how this was explained on your podcast recently. Really great stuff.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/20 11:43 PM
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To add on, they also talk about beta males or perceived low-smv guys like that was well. They will talk about them the same or even worse. Women compete in their own hierarchy so to speak, I had a plate that had "friends" for a year or so that turned out to not even be friends. The girls in the 20s if not partaking in things that what their peers are doing they don't really care. I've come to believe women actually don't even like each other unless they are in the same phase of life which is tem…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/20 09:34 AM
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experience and the failure that comes with it is the best teacher.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/20 03:35 AM
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If you look at my last post on this sub you can see why many people want to help others. Though I agree with you, a majority of what an issue is now today is people just not STFU. They talk and talk and talk, yet lead to no action. Though with TRP stuff it's just a tool box that you really can apply to anything. I think it's useful for those who have no direction in life. Even more applying it to what you want is really easy though the one thing people miss is that the results are not a light sw…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/20 01:12 AM
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"Sure Karen"
/r/TheRedPill01/01/20 07:42 AM
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to add on, you'll never be rewarded for that. Though you'll keep your boundaries and dignity. Plus more time on your hands.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/19 02:09 AM
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oh dayum, also i agree from experience with you on all points.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/19 02:03 AM
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I can actually see this now to an extent.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 03:15 PM
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For OP, though I can understand what you’re saying but get over yourself. You are just as human as they are, but you understand yourself more than they understand themselves. It’s fine and it’s okay. Though I feel like this relates to why people talk about not talking about fight club. The people drowning don’t want to be saved and will bring you don’t as well. You wanna relate to people, listen to them without giving advise until they ask you how you did x. You give them the advise they don’t c…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/19 08:47 AM
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We live in the post truth age.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/19 08:42 AM
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Same thing happened to me since it would be her thinking she fucked up. But for the advice of the dude it doesn’t actually help him. Ya know what she will get hers 10 years down the line obviously but OP needs to do things for himself.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 08:36 AM
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A great test, if you can’t stick it in the pink, seduce her and put it in the butthole. You’ll see where you stand with her.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 06:59 AM
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If she’s highly more invested in the dude than he is her, wouldn’t you consider that as her “best option then?”
/r/askTRP25/12/19 06:56 AM
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Though op just say you’re busy and shit. You can just put your phone on do not disturb.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 06:53 AM
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Ahh the telling thing. Sorry I feel like you speaking to woman and telling her what is wrong and what is right just doesn’t fucking work. Rather than just stop giving attention (dread) shell wise up. She’s a woman when you convey bad language you engine bad feelings from in her. Let the hamster run, “OMG why didn’t he talk to me after x?” Bitch will wise up. Story time: had a plate that got super drunk on me when we were out and shit I just stop talking to her for two days next thing you know wh…
/r/askTRP25/12/19 06:53 AM
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Worst advice, since she doesn’t care anymore. Though him still doing that he shows he still cares.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 06:48 AM
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This is a wonderful post. Even more I would like to add that working on your purpose should be a habit. The first steps to making a good habit stick is to make it easy to do. Or within reach. Gym bag ready so when you’re back home pick that bad boy up. And head out. It becomes so easy.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/19 11:56 PM
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Holy fuck this hit me like a ton of bricks.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/19 10:27 AM
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your false council really hit home.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/19 06:19 AM
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I would agree with OP trust your gut then even observe through their behavior works like a charm. Lost a good buddy of mine that tried to sabotage a relationship with a girl because he wa jealous of me and her and our adventures. All while he had an LTR. He really was more attracted to the girl I was seeing, she shot him down and believe it or not told me, "This girl is tryig to break us apart man." I took his word for it at the time because hey i could trust this dude right? Though would always…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/19 06:19 AM
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UHHHH bruh... I got some news for you...
/r/TheRedPill17/12/19 11:09 PM
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ohhh okay i get whatcha mean dude thanks.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/19 06:21 PM
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Care to explain? Do you mean as if knowing that there is more to life than women. Or do you mean on knowing how to handle women? Or even just knowing that aONS are just for fun not fulfillment.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/19 05:47 AM
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I guess that's how I know i've leveled up from before with game, though I game everyone. I guess i'm a sociopath but whatever. I wanna comment that self-improvement is also about getting laid but it's supplementary to it.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/19 09:44 AM
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I kinda like this post for the only reason that it gives men direction, yet it fails in a couple of other ways. This is you being in the frame of women. You're making women the prize. I do believe after watching a couple of Rule Zero stuff that really YOU HAVE TO BE IN SHAPE. Though, you do need purpose. If all you care about is your height, looks, and such you're basically just a ken doll with a dick. Yeah she'll pick you up when she wants fun but it really gives poor advise to guys in this age…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/19 08:51 AM
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yeah I would say so. For me it's about phases in life right now i'm at a point where I'd rather be grinding out work to get where I want before my late 20's. Then become a slut again.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/19 05:57 PM
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thank you for that reply, I can actually relate to that much more when sometimes I would get tired of seeing plates just for sexy time but rather just be home and work on my craft. Then on the flip side when they would come to my home studio I would get the whole " Why do I always have to go to yours?" shit would just blow my mind to see all this through a "red lens" then. You're absolutely right it does hit home alot more especially when you don't see the progress you could of made.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/19 04:12 AM
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huh, thought I was the only one. Though, some guys need to experience this type of stuff first hand and not use this post to sit home and not work on shit like talking to people irl or doing that needs to be done. I do ask, what if you already had a rotation like this or more without being super fit or a lump some of moneys. Is that what dudes here describe as naturals? Asking for a friend.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/19 03:56 AM
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One thing that is super interesting about porn in itself is for men to be desired. No matter what porn or whatever there is the female showing some IOI. Normalized step-porn and even with MILF porn. It's something that is a outsourced thing that guys use I believe to feel desired in a way. It's almost like acting like a female, here we have a okay-ish woman having power over these men and woman to feel some time of desire as in the woman's frame. On the idea of being lust afterward I believe it …
/r/TheRedPill11/12/19 09:19 PM
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Blue Pill Goals man, stop that shit.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/19 06:53 PM
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you sound like the ex lover in Gone Girl.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/19 04:15 PM
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When in college I was broke, when in college I was fucking a main plate also a girl down the hall from me. Also when I was broke and in college I had a group of girls that I could of banged on the regular. “Oh sync I just came back from the gym doing squats feel how tight my ass is” Then when main plate came “sync, MP is so cute I’m about to have a night with her myself!” I proceeed to fuck main plate out of a 10 story window that night. After main plate, coffee girl had a boyfriend. Thought the…
/r/askTRP08/12/19 07:18 AM
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The bar part you’re fine then. I would say ghost for a bit even to the bar, then when you do ever see her or get a text or what ever isolate escalate. She’ll be back in that rotation, think like an addict on drugs hanging with junkies they’ll cave.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 07:09 AM
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You don’t care, she’s validating this pussy with her new dude. Options: A.) you do the same and play her game though this is her frame you’re in if you do by bringing her a new girl with you at same bar. Or even a crowd of people you know. B.) you disappear from that bar and use the law of a absentee upon her and you’re “busy” though you can or will lose plate if smv isn’t high enough. Though have no idea your relation with this plate, if she was good to you or so forth. She wants to see if if s…
/r/askTRP08/12/19 06:58 AM
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I think this, now what do we say kids when a man has options he has...
/r/askTRP06/12/19 06:46 AM
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YOOOOOOOOO
/r/askTRP06/12/19 06:33 AM
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Thank you father.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 03:32 AM
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Good for you focusing on your shit. But here we have an example of a man using RP tools for BP goals. Girls that are studying might as well as study at your place when she's actually into you. Then some good ol' fucking, waiting for you in bed, etc. She was playing a game with you probably looking for a NiceGuy to unload her baggage on to. Nice job not falling for it. I would also like to point out that when a girl is Alpha Widowed she's looking for those cheap highs to get or fill the void of t…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/19 11:10 PM
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Best comment I’ve ever seen on reddit.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 11:58 PM
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One thing I’ve tried that helps. Note book when I wake up, I write two pages everyday of whatever the fuck comes to my head sometimes theyre about the past sometimes they’re not. When it is I have a place for that past since it is a physical thing not just some wondering thought. So then when you have it come up you know it’s not really important anymore since it’s an actual piece of writing now. Also learning from past mistakes, when reading the sidebar take out a book to take notes on the left…
/r/askTRP04/12/19 01:35 AM
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I feel this, if she wasn’t interested then she wouldn’t even meet up. So if you get the meet up OP you’re in.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 01:31 AM
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Some of my most lonely times was when having a rotation. One main plate, the others would come here and there in the off weeks. Shit how many times can you watch mad men in bed after fucking? I’ve noticed more and more this dance we play with women, attraction is high hence sex and lots of it. Though some girls want more and it’s okay ya know? Get yours for the evolutionary reasons. I haven’t felt this high in life until after I cut all the bad shit, smoking, drugs and alcohol. I stopped chasing…
/r/askTRP03/12/19 04:58 AM
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After you realize they’re all the same in many ways. They’re people but never live in their frame.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 12:41 AM
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The game never stops, I think many people notice that or maybe some BP dudes who use RP knowledge to achieve RP goals don't realize that at all. When you're in a LTR you are still gaming. For me though the opposite occurred to you OP. I stopped caring about gaming girls in an addictive sense, I take time to party hard and then immerse myself in studies and business that I give a fuck about then go back into the hedonism. It's a tool box know how to use it and you gain a sense of confidence along…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/19 05:05 PM
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I’ve been around here for 3 years or so and using game for such things. Honestly what I would find in the beginning of actually doing so to speak was this weird identity thing as in whatever RP action is not myself. After awhile those habits become you, good or bad. So those that abuse the bad ones are ego invested into those habits.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/19 11:12 PM
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I wouldn’t love to hear more about this. Care to explain some examples?
/r/TheRedPill29/11/19 08:25 PM
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I love this post but sadly, people coming here now or in the future are going to be coming from YT channels that talk about this stuff and they will cling on to these concepts and use that YT personality as an avatar for who they become and then cling on that person. Sidebar is everything and even more so the books that are linked on the sub. No need to beat the dead horse since it is becoming more and more dudes that wander here from 'x Youtube Personality #032' Though those personalities are o…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/19 06:31 PM
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Ohhhh okay so it was the first occasion okay yeah not worth it. She’s trying to pussy whip not worth. Since this was the first time I wouldn’t consider that a plate just a girl ya banged. Plus you kinda framed since you lead it from the bedroom to a situation which could be a date in her eyes. She gotta warn that dinner outside of the bedroom.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/19 07:41 PM
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I mean you not having the direction of being in that position ya know? These were the first times that you guys actually hung out outside of banging?
/r/TheRedPill27/11/19 07:38 PM
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Here we have an example of a guy isn’t holding frame. If you didn’t want to do these things why give into her frame? Y’all having sex cool, that doesn’t mean you owe her anything. Also if you’re going out on a “date” or whatever the fuck it is. Why are you paying for her? There was a comment if you think you owe her or the meal then shes using you and selling her pussy. Doesn’t seem like genuine desire. Also my guy her bringing up the fact that other “FWB’s did x” really y’all do see her just te…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/19 07:25 PM
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Thank you again for clearing this up. Lately I’ve been using game and have no problem getting laid but there’s only a few who really stuck around. One girl who drove me here had the problem with me keeping my dick in my pants. Though all the boxes were checked for me in that essence I was just wondering things I should work on. Thank you again.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 07:55 PM
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Ohhhhh that explains a lot. Would you agree that being the high value guy helps women get that sense of wanting to invest in a relationship? Besides from having external things and I understand having external things would be a post of having masculine behaviors. Though there are many guys that have the good job and such but seem to become autistic about women. Just want to pick ya brain about these things.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 07:33 PM
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So you believe the best option is to let be? I don’t have a problem with that at all just curious with pair bonding and such.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 07:16 PM
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Writing isn’t my strongest skill. Thanks for the input.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 06:54 PM
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I'm asking what is the optimal approach when it comes to understanding hypergamy phases in a woman's life. I believe through my OP that women do fit into a container that is what suits their interest the best. My question is more on the bases of what to accept that works the best yes girls have hoe phases i'm not looking for a virgin at all it is what it is in the west. Do I care no, do I have standards if in a LTR yes. I was thinking accepting of their sexuality is best since it is what they lo…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 05:08 PM
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But isn’t the point to accept it and just move on to what sees fit in what you want instead of settling for a hoe? Wouldn’t it be better to understand that those girls are LTR material and being okay with them as they want to feel free and whatever? If you can help me understand this more thanks.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 03:48 PM
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Oh shit I didn’t actually know that it can be interpreted that way. My hands got tired of writing it fully tbh. All good mate <3
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 02:45 PM
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I was introduced to him as Jewish Boy. Kinda stuck from that. The focus was actually my sister and her actions between the dynamic of AF and BB or for some a lover and a provider and the effects it has on her. Jew Boy like Alpha is just a place holder name for the kid nothing more nothing less. Kinda weird how I have to explain that here...
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 02:04 PM
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Exactly it’s all just madness rn but hey at least some guys get it and just know what to strive to be in life rather than falling for something terrible.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 12:40 PM
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What I’ve learned is that she probably is. Also that every girl is able to be both the current version of my sister and the more happier one with a man that she’s proud of. Noticing this it stemmed to me now that she’s chasing something through all these urethra holes that she had when she was with a prior man or a dude who can carry himself. Hence AWALT, so why not just become the prize? You’re doing a disservice to yourself and the women in your lives by not. You wanna fuck hoes learn game, yo…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 12:38 PM
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It makes me sick but honestly I’ve become jaded to this before since Knowing about this and the rid bits here and there. I knew a girl like this as well but I cannot express anything but gratitude for the eye opening experience and sorrow for them. As for my sister I just don’t think this bitch knows anything she has a full ride to cock spinning world and it’s funded by some dude. As I can see her only asset is her looks. Her personality is usually fake towards many.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 12:13 PM
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Anytime. Good luck out there.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 12:05 PM
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I can see how it does favor the sugar daddy which I gotta agree upon. It’s not like this is an average joe who is saving up his nickels and don’t gotta dime dawg. Oh, you think this shit is covert? Her gay friend and I think most of her rave friends know since she was asking a bunch of them to buy there tickets for them. Meanwhile I’m just listening in the background while ordering something to drink. Though I do doubt Jew Boy knows and I’m sure many of the guys that she has dated knew. I was ev…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 01:36 AM
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Let her come to you, get other girls make this one worm for the main plate spot. If it all goes well you have a main plate who’s down for other girls. That is a W and a half. You gotta do your work ya self.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:17 AM
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There’s a weird link to this reddit now and it’s audience behavior and how common YT redpoll and dating advice is. There was a video I saw earlier today with a guy stating or arguing the whole 20% males are attractive to 100% of women and trying to debunk as like “hey guys see this isn’t it not every girl is going to be attracted to you because of your status” or something along those lines. Basically he was overtly asking women this. Strange times...
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 08:24 PM
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To be honest, I think falling in love (adolescent love) is great when you’re younger. It will knock the shit out of you to what’s important which is yourself. You have a bunch of dudes in reality that chase love and shit from women who hang that carrot and we all know well how they operate to say the least. Before that love I had with a girl (LTR at the time) I span plates and such the LTR hated that and loved me for it. Fuck even after we broke up she told me “I would get back with you if only …
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 08:53 PM
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You come across to me as a brother or twin I have. Finally this post has given me a ton of clarity. Thank you, from one sexual deviant to another.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 08:40 PM
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Biggest part is really living it and being okay if there is failure. It’s become very weird to see this sub become more about a great feed solution to why Stacey won’t put out. I miss the expansions on theories that would make you go “huh” after reading them. A lot of what people miss is simple calibration to where they need to start. I was one of those guys, shit it really does get easier. Who do you think finds themselves more dirtier, the man that is in the mud all day or the one who is in th…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 02:16 AM
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Well it was a good run boys.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/19 05:49 PM
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Jesus Christ the cringe in this video is ridiculous. Stop trying to mainstream TRP. Do the fucking work.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 12:02 PM
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A lot of this is already stated on the sidebar mate, don’t know where ya trying to go with this.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 09:47 AM
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The thing is you can’t even blame them either it just is in our current society. They know no better. Hence to play the game everyone is playing.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 03:56 PM
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Honestly talked to her that he was telling me about their sex life. Straight up told her that he really does love her and treats her differently than any other girl he’s been with. Though he will cheat on her if needed. (I know you cant negotiate desire but fuck it might try with dread) Hopefully it’ll keep up their sex life until he has some balls to start doing things on his own. Which is subtle dread compared to the whole “their relationship is literally his identity” The cons here is that he…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 12:58 PM
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would you say that consistently is more important to SM than feeding quality or why not both? I've noticed that every platform is about consistent content making. Would you also agree that dropping what you produce and going on your way is more important than trying to beg (what most IG comments are)?
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 12:38 PM
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This has to go down the funnel of "where is the lie?" I remember a few weeks ago a very BP dude I knew cut his time with us out in the city because he had to go home and talk to his GF. I remember fucking with him and saying " Is that code for ya wanna go home and fuck?" he awkwardly answered in a laugh. Mind you this dude is 24 and looks 34. Proclaims himself as a feminist out loud. Where I'm going with this is that the notion of self-interest is always a truth but guys will cover so much up an…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 09:42 AM
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Ya know the girls that have higher test are usually the ones that are the most fun. They make the best plates and are willing to go the distance.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/19 07:02 PM
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Maybe he will but maybe he’ll be open to ideas. My boy who is married out of the 5 months for 2 of them didn’t get laid by his wife. Talked it out with his girl and now all of a sudden she desires him. Gave him the rational male I haven’t heard him bring anything up about it. I’ve used his marriage as to what not to do in cohabitation and just committing since I haven’t been in an LTR for sometime now.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/19 06:58 PM
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Weird how a lot of younger girls aren’t into it. Though the girls I’ve done anal with were that in that age group. I think it shows AF/BB to those who are into those age groups. Not fully but her ability to do that with the guy she desires the most. My boy is 23 and married can barely get a blowjob from his wife.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/19 06:15 PM
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“Nice dress haven’t seen ya like that in a while” Honestly it’s not like you went out and stalked her or ya did idk idc. But honestly she’s trying to get attention from someone. It could be her dreading ya but hey it’s the game.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 05:47 AM
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I was depressed over heartbreak hence how I found this place. But I have figured it out that the dumb stuff was just a lot of people hating or doubting my ability. Though I agree with this a ton.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/19 11:33 PM
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6 ft and Nordic genes, I used to model. I’ve been depressed. But never over things I can’t change. Though the halo effect is something. With my nerdy hobbies and such there are a lot of “because he’s good looking he obviously can’t be smart”
/r/TheRedPill18/11/19 04:05 PM
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(X) doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 01:39 PM
2

You obviously haven’t applied it. Take one of the breaking free things and apply it. See where you fucked first. Maybe it was the other person, 9/10 it’s you. That book works, it’s not the book but how you apply it and are aware. Fuck it read it and take notes for the love of god.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 07:57 AM
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To add on to that: Boundaries: Including the ability to walk away. On that note, some women said that their partners were able to accept jokes concerning their back-up plans but on the other hand, some men felt quite "uncomfortable" when their girlfriends discussed it. Gut feeling, or just "you're insecure and not a real man" Including my favorite... Unsurprisingly, some women said that their fall-back partner was a friend of their current partner. and... The study states that in most cases it i…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/19 04:57 AM
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Gotta agree With this. At my private uni there are so many of the incel types ya can see not to hate or anything but guys just don’t know the game. Though they’re incredibly smart fuck a ton more than me sometimes. They just don’t see their value and thing it comes from external things like women and such.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/19 03:05 AM
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I have to argue that the whole idea of women can get this and that on demand to the analogy of fast food. Yes it’s a high and what not but it doesn’t last. It’s weird to just state but it’s definitely a true thing Ive experienced as well. What I mean is more than what is right and what is wrong but it has to do with game and mental point of origin as well. Yes, they can get all this shit for free and easy as fuck now and there is a desire for it but with a high status dude “alpha” it becomes a q…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 03:46 PM
2

Thank you for clearing that up it makes a lot more sense now. I think from my experience and what I see through friends and others in irl. Women don’t have a problem being single for the purpose of looking for a provider and a BB though that can be outsourced in a way with them playing Nice Guys and such. Though they do have this weird issue with not having a guy that is I guess we can use the term “Alpha” here. What I mean is with a guy who is emotionally independent on her validation (my broth…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 02:03 PM
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“Oh boy” Get it now? I agree with you slightly. A majority of them down have personalities. Actually as I’m writing this I also agree with you now more since personality isn’t static so therefore it is one. Didn’t mean the offense tone tbh. But you wouldn’t agree that women are shaped by the men they’re with?
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 01:36 PM
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oh boy do you have a sidebar to read.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 01:33 PM
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i appreciate the filed report, read between the lines here I think game is where ya need to work on from here.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 10:44 PM
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exactly. The guy even states in the video is people are prematurely sexualized or exposed to then porn will be an addiction. I think OP is missing perspective here. I also believe that's why Monk mode is super important. My highest grinded times was when I didn't focus on women at all. Women just didn't exist when in monk mode. Outside they are just dudes, ironically that makes them question why you treat them differently.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 05:24 AM
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It really seems like you have no higher purpose for yourself rather than what you take (women money and whatever career you have) Then you make it yours or think it’s yours. Find something mostly ya self, ya started great with the career and such what about looks what about making shit? The world is a sand box and your worrying about catching feels for girls ya never even met.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 10:40 AM
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This actually makes a lot of sense. My boy the other day was telling me how he didn’t get action and showed me some texts made me want to understand why before I asked him.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/19 02:19 AM
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since you stated you're asian, crazy question. Why are most Asian dudes clingy with girls?
/r/TheRedPill08/11/19 01:11 AM
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It's a childish paradigm really. Though it's a great test of vetting girls when the seasons colder to see what she's bringing to the table as well.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/19 01:08 AM
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One think I really disagree with is the fact that you're assuming women will be overt with the whole LTR thing. Usually they work for it and try to do it in many ways not just "are you cuffing me?" Two: The whole example of the girl going to a party with guy friends is just a whole red flag if and only if the dude wasn't invited which I don't see why not. So basically she was looking for a shit test to begin with. Which where you state "I am firmly in the camp of Watch what she does rather than …
/r/TheRedPill08/11/19 01:06 AM
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Is it though? Seems like alot of girls that would sleep with 3 guys in one night or whatever get into LTR's with dude's that are provider types.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 01:32 AM
1

I meant as in Smv breaks her heard mentality in a way.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 01:03 AM
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I also have to agree with you here though some are more understanding with themselves and what they want and what benefits them. I’ve seen this example in girls that were low quality that wanted commitment and those of quality. The herd does dictate that, though I’m on the journey of wondering with higher smv does it break that? Since I’ve gotten in stupid good shape I’ve noticed way more IOI’s and the money that’s comes my way. It’s changed me for the better and the whole building a better me h…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 12:53 AM
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I can agree with that. Some are actually not retarded and do come from good families though. I guess those are the ones we’re all waiting for. Nowadays marriage doesn’t even mean much to some of these girls. Which is said but it’s a thing I guess it is just the static of right now. It could get worse or better.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 12:39 AM
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What me and my boy talked about recently was that 90% if women in America are broken and have some type of Daddy issues. Men as well have mommy issues as well. It’s definitely up to the men to become something worth of value. The women will fall in line. The neighborhood cum box has an insecure bf now though they have idealistic goals for each other but deep down inside they feel bad. It’s up to men since these hoes are running themselves into the ground I sympathize with them but it’s not up to…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 12:28 AM
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Oh my a man of culture I see.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/19 08:10 PM
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You know what's really sad is when you see guys that are very BP and can't figure this out on their own. They have a cycle of: I'm not happy but a woman or women(Players ) will make me happy. It's a very very cheap validation that comes and goes. I think this is seen as with a lot of girls as well. I remember dating a girl and her friend would constantly talk about great her LDR was. She then talked about how he isn't much of a catch in the looks department but he loves her and that's all that m…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/19 08:27 PM
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Have you seen fighters with their kids? Shit makes a strong child.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/19 10:22 AM
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Thank you just trying everything out really. I see this as just a frame thing, where if they see you bend for their needs that are just bs a good majority of the time it makes no sense for you even in he long run.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/19 12:43 AM
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I would do those things as well. But then a lot of times ya would think “hmmm she’s in a shitty mood today lemme but her something!” I think there is a line between validation and just appreciation. Most plates I appreciate more than girlfriends over time.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/19 12:28 AM
2

Positive actions for positive behavior
/r/TheRedPill02/11/19 12:11 AM
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Was a waiter for 2 years and goddamn is this fucking true. I can only imagine what bar tending is like.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/19 05:25 AM
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TBH with you, monk mode without a higher purpose makes no sense. You used it as a way to validate yourself by thinking you'll attract more women? (Is that what the goal was?) What I meant about a higher purpose is that to get better at skills. Even socializing could be one. Reading books about conversations and then going out to test it really does help. I know someone who's had the opposite in this way, he started to work in an office (HR he's very BP but known him for a while.) He bragged abou…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 04:23 AM
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I’ve kinda realized this is a weird thing that has happened with the concepts here is that there is a threshold to this knowledge. A lot of what TRP has become is the same things in theory over and over. What the second thing I’ve noticed why this information gets thrown around over and over is that there is no life long learning. It’s the same dudes here that will take all the knowledge they know apply it, then find out their hubby who they love so much ended up the same place as before. I watc…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 08:11 AM
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You gotta play the game they’re playing homie. If that’s how you want to get what you want to get. If you value the honesty that’s fine, I hope they are with you.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 05:24 AM
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As someone who is like this dude. I’m in my early 20s but coming from a single mother house hold and barely seeing my father when I needed to to understand what being masculine was. I personally think it’s alright for them since it’s just how it is. I feel bad for them yes in a way because it just makes 0 sense in the long run but “feels over reals” and that it just seems so bland. Some of the girls I’ve dated thinking how they are and how they act are gonna make them miserable looking for a goo…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/19 09:55 AM
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Charm is a thing. I think a lot of these comments are just now trying to actually game a girl. Women aren’t even consciously aware that they’re attracted to you. If you turn them on by how you talk and or manner they won’t even know. This is why game is important you somewhat get to know them and then sometimes they Ioi quicker and then ya know what to do. The thing with this comparison to selling yourself is that selling is a skill. I dig the mentality in this post but don’t get all nihilistic …
/r/TheRedPill27/10/19 09:37 AM
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Because woyman today want both things and then complain when they can’t have their cake and eat it too.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 07:36 PM
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But the thing is that way of thinking does help women determine who is worthy. If Stacey doesn’t know or think John is attractive but all of her friends do Stacy will most like take a second look at John. This isn’t a black or white thing but the operation is definitely different. Those girls who shit on the player given the chance will fuck the player.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 07:35 AM
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Originally memes were the out of mainstream thing. Nowadays memes have a huge broad of just a caption on some type of media. A lot of them are trash, og’s know good content is out there. The last roaring ones were the Uganda knuckles. In English it’s called humor. Some people try to hard and ya can see it.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 07:36 AM
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The high from teasing these hoes is incomparable.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 07:29 AM
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As a person who's always been sarcastic by nature. It really is how people not just women relate to each other. Have no filter but never insult someone. If they take it personally that shows that their frame is so weak.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/19 10:38 PM
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As someone who is great socializing and game irl, I suck when it comes to texting girls and people in general. You gotta just take some time and make the time to just go out and talk to people. I would do this alot when I was rooftop hopping with my boys.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 04:37 AM
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Came here first to get over a girl who I was in love with (Childhood love) while being in an LTR (Long story). Dumped me for a guy that looked like me but lived closer. She continued to try to contact me while in her new relationship. After they broke up (She got bored of him) tried to get me back into orbiting her. Girl would call me from No Caller ID and shit. Second one, took a while for me to break but after that I saw everything I did wrong while she was trying to get commitment from me but…
/r/askTRP19/10/19 04:35 AM
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what was that? You wanted her to be her BB? Trust me dawg, some of these girls are so smart they'll outsource their own sexual strategy.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 03:57 AM
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This is a great learning point to see where you fucked up. Never try to control people or your girl. indifference is power, if you hold it women will love you they way they can nothing more.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 11:23 PM
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No more mr.NiceGuy is what you're looking for nobody's approval but your own (In a healthy way Alpha mindset really.) This is the common thing here when it comes to askTRP, people basing their value on women. In reality, they're all different but the same. I like to think about this like pealing the first layer of the onion when it comes to the self. How many guys do you know ooz over girls? Some of them ain't even that hot. Example: Some dude I used to know was great looking but had no game at …
/r/askTRP18/10/19 06:32 AM
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homie is in her frame. OP should just ghost her work on himself then she'll come back. These hoes do it to guys all the time might as well know their game and even play it better than them.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 04:58 PM
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There's no real point to just taking a knife to your stomach and just taking your guts out with this. Trust the gut, don't be curious. I've done it in the past and it will fuck with your head. Best bet just move the fuck on starting today. Even if she's not fucking someone else she's looking for options, that's a waste of not only your time but hers. Just let it go.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 04:42 PM
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So why'd you do it? I'm asking from the mentality that i've just decided I like having plates a main one and some on the side. It's worked well for me in life and I had a lot of plates break even a main one. To the point where I kinda just got bored of girls but gaming them. The attraction is fun and I've come to realize that I like working alot on myself. It's also just weird when friends try to hook you up with girls that aren't that hot but want you to because they can have couple things with…
/r/askTRP16/10/19 03:51 AM
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Hey dude, no worry about it. Tbh what it could of really been was that A.) She had her ASD or whatever B.) You were pushing a bit too much, foreplay is all about tension and release not just 0-1000000. Good job getting her out to your place. In due time just know where and how to turn a woman on since foreplay is what makes them OZZZOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!
/r/askTRP16/10/19 01:55 AM
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thank you for having a brain.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/19 07:54 PM
1

After you realize they're all the same and you've dated or hung out with this girl before then you're fine.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/19 06:48 AM
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Yeah she def has the right to help you if she wishes. Point is, ever think that she's using you to have the ideal life for herself rather than you having the ideal life for yourself? Let's be honest here, this LTR won't last long while you're struggling to do things for yourself. That's okay, I was in a similar situation a while back and have been single for the last 8 months (Longest i've been single in my 20's ) since deciding I needed to focus on myself. It sounds like you're conflicted in wh…
/r/askTRP10/10/19 04:39 PM
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I had a buddy who was a physical therapist who confirmed this for me. When in high school he was a D1 basball player, in college he got fat, after college started to drop more pounds since he worked in said field and stated this.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/19 03:58 PM
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It sounds like she wants you to take those jobs so for her own sake. If that's not what you want to do then don't do it. I would dump her.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 03:35 PM
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He validated himself based on the quality of the girl he was on a date with. There's a lot wrong with that. I bet if he continued that frame of mind he would have his world shattered by going back to his old ways or even putting pussy on a pedestal. (Which he did) What I like is that he did the work, then realized there isn't anything special about said girl just her uncommon looks (AND THERE ARE MILLIONS MORE) This is why a lot of stuff here is taught for the self, not the girl. Which is why re…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 06:52 PM
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if only there was a way to take care of yourself.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/19 11:56 PM
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There are some incels here so good shit. I know a dude who's "wife" travels a lot for work. He's always home playing video games and such. It's weird when on Social Media she's posting about him and misses him. When she's 9 maybe 10 hours away. In the back of my head I always think of this.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/19 05:24 PM
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i'm 24 and look like i'm 18 in the face. A majority of girls i've know who are the party sluts that don't take care of their health or even body. Fuck maybe even a huge majority of people here in America. Yeah they ain't aging well even at 24. Shit a majority of them aren't even gonna look good at 28. It's a real thing. The ones that are in the gym following that new workout plan def are aging better. Please learn what is real and what is not. I hope you well in life.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 10:54 PM
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ya know I took a nap earlier before heading to the gym and thought about this. I was wondering the effects of men as well who chase after this. Knowing a lot of men are very thirsty in that 20-28 mark of time for women. What I found to be real by seeing it IRL is that many thirsty men do wait for their turn for these women in that age group. They'll wait as the girl is getting ran on by the chads and the dudes that don't commit to her (Speaking from experience.) It really must fuck with a women'…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 04:03 AM
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I'll try my best here. Okay so, first off you have a FWB cool, congrats. Secondly, with whatever knowledge you have and I guess you know her well enough since you stated "we have good conversation" what do you expect she wants? When answering this don't think what comes out of her mouth but based on her behavior. For example the last FwB I had she started to take my mother out for dinner when I was away and stuff like that. Basically communicating she's a LTR material. You want to know how to ha…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 03:36 AM
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I knew one dude that could relate to this, he was also a train-wreck. I do believe that you have to get your heart broken to really move past the BP version of love. But seriously, you wasted some important years of your life for a cunt, but you entertained that cunt so I don't know who is worse. This is a classic example of making a woman your life. I really hope this wasn't the most exciting thing that happened around this time.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/19 06:52 PM
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Can confirm been there with said chick with my OP.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 01:04 AM
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Ignore women for a bit. If you want to challenge yourself like you stated, ignore them a bit. Get to where you want to start to be, but enjoy the ride and the journey of it.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 06:10 PM
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They want you to react, just don't/ Laugh it off, they're investing a lot of time trying to expose you.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 06:07 PM
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Fem men love it, depends what you want in a woman. Usually the most masculine girls i've plated were just wearing masks that were putting it on for the whole world but in bed they were like slaves.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 06:04 PM
1

that's impossible. But holding frame helps alot. Think as the shit tests as a way that she's testing your strength.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 06:02 PM
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You're attractive = You're a narcissist. Jesus Christ.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/19 03:55 AM
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I have never related to someone as much as you. You literary described everything I have actually been trying to understand with myself. Thank you so much for this.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/19 11:13 PM
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I've worked with female rappers and they shit test you so well it's amazing. Holding frame makes them like you more, since most of that industry and the one i'm in is about guys pretending to be something they are not. Recently watched Gone Girl, and yes with great power in a woman (Social influence) they can and will try to destroy the man who they were pretending to be. Backsliding is never the option. Curious to know what you think about guys who do backslide and why?
/r/TheRedPill24/09/19 08:24 PM
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bingo.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 07:10 AM
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JUUUUUUUUUUUUUSTTTTT NEVER RESPOND. Seriously though you have more power than you think when you just decide for yourself and what ya wanna do. Your thoughts, "I wanna cut this off but I like sex with her" ehhh ya fuck other girls. "But i'll be lonely" suck it up buttercup, you focus on yourself and yourself only guess who will be added to the stalker list of a binder like some pokemon cards. Ya guest it, dat hoe.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 07:02 AM
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an ex of mine was one of those "good girls" you speak of, one thing she told me that I would never forget. "We can only get back together if you learn to keep your dick in your pants." i responded "nah i'm good babygirl." then the following week we were both at this event. She was telling me about coming back to the hotel with her as I responded "we're only fucking if I nut in you atleast 10 times tonight." Now she has a great BB.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 06:58 AM
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you're way too outcome dependent. You really think people fit into containers you put them in when through this sub you've seen countless times that is not the case. Life is not static the universe is not static.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/19 10:52 PM
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I did this thing where I would not listen to anything for an entire day during my commute to work and at the gym and was just in silence. For most people i see why they have to always consume something. It's very much real. It makes you have the real conversations with yourself.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/19 07:17 PM
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So many people are gonna go deaf by their 40s it's actually hilarious to me.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/19 06:35 PM
2

The dick size thing is so true. They'll praise your dick for how you dominate them in and outside of the bedroom. The n count thing is honestly just insecurity. I've met hot girls that hook up with 5 guys in one night and 20 in a summer. Knowing these types are just whatever they make the best wingwoman's but seriously are fucking themselves long term. Nowadays I measure the whole n count thing by how desperate they are to fuck a man with lower SMP than themselves. That is the issue I see with a…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 06:35 PM
4

stop giving a fuck what people label you as. Jesus Christ.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 11:54 PM
1

Honestly, i'm not a fan for pills even with my own body. The implant in the arm really does wonders for the girl. I don't know about pills and that BC stuff since when the girls I did fuck that said they were on BC in the pill form I would just use a condom even though I hate condoms for the same reason you do. The implant works for about 3 years then they have to get a new one. So it makes more sense, and in your case there is no "Opps i'm pregoo" If you are planning to have kids with her then …
/r/askTRP17/09/19 07:31 PM
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Women are the last thing you need when your at your lows. Been there had girls chase me even when my life was fucking terrible. Even after sex it's just not as great. You need a purpose and goals to strive to get yourself out of this phase in life. You are constantly distracting yourself in order to fill the void you had from a life before. Since you stated you were married i'm sure you had the constant comfort for a while. Welcome to the world where there is no mommy at home waiting to hear abo…
/r/askTRP17/09/19 06:29 PM
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/This is an LTR? If she's in an LTR with you I'd say talk with her about her getting an arm implant (This has been the best and most fun sex i've had because of it.) If she's a plate just condoms bro, too many girls go through so many dudes since festival season is over the STI's aint worth it.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 06:22 PM
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obviously delegation is more optimal but some things ya gotta do it ya self. Relying on others is a waste of time.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 10:39 PM
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I've installed ceiling fans, and light switches as a kid with my dad. Now anything I do with building furniture and such even installing my own ceiling fan is almost like meditation to me. Sucks how working with computers digital doesn't have that same effect but with sound-design it's very much the same.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 10:25 PM
2

You haven't fucked her yet, what gives?
/r/askTRP16/09/19 09:04 PM
4

you literary have every answer to your question. Mewing and just fucking cut.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 09:03 PM
2

this is the answer i was hoping for.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 05:47 PM
3

this is the answer i was hoping for.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 05:45 PM
5

been there too with a girl that was exactly like this. Nothing can really save them. They'll keep doing what they always have done and ya know it's sad to see the potential be reduced to BS because they can't face their own demons. It's sad but you have to remember you can't control anybody. The best thing they can do with neglecting their choices is to have them be erased, pretend like it never happened.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 04:07 PM
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it's the bitter truth I know that.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 04:38 AM
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can confirm this works. They'll even rationalize it when things are going sour as "But i'm so attracted to him".
/r/askTRP12/09/19 06:04 PM
4

then what does? being a machiavellian?
/r/TheRedPill12/09/19 05:27 AM
1

yo honestly, as seeing you are a musician i love this attitude. I see people on the internet that really are good at making music but don't treat it like working out or a job. Have you noticed the same with music and such a majority of the theory here?
/r/askTRP12/09/19 02:11 AM
2

keep doing what you were before the plate was made. being your own mental point of origin helps this.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 09:50 PM
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Have you ever had girls throw pussy at you when they knew you were in an LTR or seeing a girl? When you got into that LTR you might of just wanted it for consistent sex or someone there. Then after you realize, "wait if I can smash this and girls are available to me because of x then why not keep building x up?" That x could be status, behavioral traits, etc. Woman choose, because of x. I was okay with girls before Uni, I had a main chick I had when I left home and went to Uni. I did well up the…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/19 04:48 AM
1

Do you have any good recommendatiions? For reading?
/r/TheRedPill27/08/19 03:38 AM
1

can you please explain digital marketing. I know how to mine emails and shit with IG and Fb but really don't know what to do in order to sell shit. Tired of all the nonsense on the internet.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/19 02:15 AM
3

Sidebar -> the phase those girls you banging. Sidebar -> the girls you wanna bang work on that and being that.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 01:01 AM
5

“College is affordable” bro imagine thinking $55k a year is affordable for a private tech school that has taught me how to teach myself. boi ya good?
/r/TheRedPill19/08/19 11:46 PM
1

In the terms that were stated I thought it would help. Didn’t mean to come off odd or anything just thought of a logic tree.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/19 05:59 AM
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What’s here is powerful there is not that doubt at all. Honestly I came here from a broken heart at an early age. Did the shit by learning but always had charm and other “natural” qualities. After a while the women get boring. They feel the same y’all the same do the same shit, it’s a thing. Then there’s this purpose which I believe fully has become a buzz word now in 2019 for marketing and selling point reasons. But it highlights what is really going to get you where you wanna go. You’re right …
/r/TheRedPill19/08/19 05:56 AM
1

You stated “women are driven by emotions” The dude losing smv -> her not finding him attractive -> shit testing him -> him giving in and becoming weaker as a man besides her (drugs and poor habits -> her then spiraling and wanting some dick from an attractive guy because hubby isn’t attractive -> cheating. Correct me.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/19 05:40 AM
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comfort for most guys kill attraction. Think about how you perceive the average Beta BF's what do you think theyre doing? The girl knows all they can to know about the guy. On top of that maybe he doesn't even have much going for him besides his job and drinking with his boys. Through going out yeah she may get jealous, but some dudes just give up. Weird ain't it? I know why one dude who just got married and has gained a little weight in the mean time. I always ask him to come to the gym with me…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/19 12:57 AM
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No worries man, what I tend to believe since I have the height mostly in that case of "chad" is that it's the potential of high value. When I told a main plate of mine a couple of years ago I went to a prestigious Uni. You bet that girl was taking weekend trips to see me, when I didn't want commitment she went nuts. It has to align with success standards and behavior traits. When I was dirt poor I could fuck girls but they never wanted anything more. Some stuck around because of these traits and…
/r/askTRP05/08/19 03:14 PM
5

are you in a minor league? Do you have the potential to get into the major league?
/r/askTRP05/08/19 12:55 PM
1

Lowkey facts. I did this to a girl that was trying commitment. They really can't handle it, especially when it comes out of no where. It works for long-terming they might get hotter who knows. Plus I like to keep them all on good terms and just say you got alot of shit going on (builds mystery plus if you got shit going on actually works in your favor more.)
/r/askTRP03/08/19 03:13 PM
7

lets just be friends
/r/askTRP03/08/19 08:41 AM
1

I feel and understand your comment now took me a while to try and understand it. The problem with what is happening is that men and a large majority of them aren't doing what is stated here that is coming from your comment "Narcissistic" actually it's more selfish than what is stated here. What I mean by this is because they do everything for pussy and the validation that comes from it. There is no inner drive rather than just getting laid or wifing up the local town slut. They refuse to reject …
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 11:19 AM
8

you think so? What's weird to me about this story is that why doesn't he just fuck other girls? He's in uni as well, it's not like he's in boarding school for cucks. Shit like this makes me really feel bad for most guys.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/19 04:18 AM
66

Can someone please explain why these dudes even get into relationships? What is the fucking point if you're gonna cuck yourself?
/r/TheRedPill30/07/19 02:42 AM
1

This is why women aren't the goal. Now imagine if you were rich on top of that and just see how people in general are could you handle that?
/r/TheRedPill29/07/19 11:14 AM
3

Kinda feel bad for the dude. Game >
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 03:00 PM
10

tbh i've been in OP's position before. It's actually comical to watch. He has his own set of morals that's cool nobody else has to follow his exactly. You can not even entertain the girl or be whatever towards her. That's besides the point here, he knew the game she was playing might as well watch since you got front row seats for free. Stop giving a fuck. BTW OP was looking out for his own self interest by valuing his boy more than pussy.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/19 10:45 PM
2

Yeah they’re good at making money but might lack actual personality. If they lost their “job” who would they be? I remember in Uni all these dudes were boasting about their internships set up to girls. 1. That brings the credit card into place. 2. It proofs and qualifies them to said girl that their valuable because of said job and maybe they’re ability to work for something of that status. Number is fine but that doesn’t get her wet and squirting for you. The dude can know his worth as well and…
/r/askTRP22/07/19 09:43 AM
3

I hate that whole “decompress” cop out. How are you decompressing when you’re consuming information more and more without doing said thing that is being brought to you. If you need to decompress meditation or go for a run or even a walk.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 09:31 AM
5

Imagining fucking a girl, then fucking her again because you want to but get upset when she's thinking about sex with you.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 08:25 AM
4

tbh i think going through hell by being in love and letting the real heartbroken time of depression helps a lot more than just thinking about it in a negative way. When alot of guys state oneitis I wonder if they ever had sex with said girl or even just had any intimate relationship with them after sex. Or is it they just are an orbiter that is in love with the idea of having the girl around and thinking of them on a pedestal. For me oneitis is more of the girls i've had a serious relationship w…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/19 10:18 PM
4

Real
/r/askTRP19/07/19 12:42 AM
1

The point of habits and making good ones are for the purpose to not going back to the bad ones. Habits never are erased they’re stored in a container that isn’t highlighted as the good ones that are the main habits that will be seen in your head and body. Obviously, life doesn’t get better in 2 months after you do things better it’s a launch pad for the future. It’s good that you see the bare minimum then you do what’s more because others only see that minimum as their best. With the gym it’s no…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/19 11:08 PM
1

So you're aware of your shitty habits and yet you tried nothing to do better? Start with one, gym routine. If it's week do the work to find what actually works. Also your diet makes no sense to have a good routine with a shitty diet. Tbh your "mission" has no substance, what do you want to bring to the world? You're basically wasting your time with nothing but cheap highs, monk mode would work.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/19 07:42 PM
15

Been there in the dudes situation where my ex tried this on me. You will lose a couple of those "friends" but were they even valuable in the first place? Probably not. Moralizing aside, they're pathetic since they can't get their own maybe they're probably just nice guys that think being friends with the girl will get them their peepee touched. Either way what they are doing is just lame and being around for a pussy that is not even worth it.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/19 08:18 AM
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Ghost her, the "friends" you're talking about. also she's nothing but trouble she just reeks of male validation from the lowest forms of ways to do it. I could never respect a group of people that do that. With out morals they are just getting an easy lay, yes. But if risking ya boys sanity you said he was depressed and shit but like why would you do that to someone that is your "friend?" Obviously, these aren't friends no value from any of them. Also side bar homie.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/19 05:41 AM
89

This for some of you dudes leaving High School now. ​ ​ Building something for yourself. A majority of the people you know are not going anywhere. Really focus on your shit. A majority of people who are in their 20's and even 30's have no direction in life and even then they are still not figuring it out. Girls: Have fun and try don't feel bad about it though. Since summer is here, a good majority of the girls you like are easy picking for dudes in their 20's. They will hop on dick to dick and n…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/19 11:13 PM
1

I recently lost everything so thank you for this.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 08:34 PM
8

As a person who knows people who are DJ's (touring a music producers) they don't care for these games with girls. They don't flaunt it either. Me and my boy were talking about it the other day and it's cool when youre on stage and shit but imagine stating "Hey honey, i'm in a room or my room for about 12 hours a day making tunes then touring" Girls don't give a fuck they like the social proof of it. I remember a post on here not to long ago stating girls rather be with the dude that plays guitar…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 05:39 AM
3

A LOT OF PEOPLE GET INTO RELATIONSHIPS BECAUSE THEIR OWN HAPPINESS IS DEPENDENT ON THEIR SO. Read it again. It's very common.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/19 07:12 PM
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Best advice ever was this, there is no point in trying to understand her. Only what you and where you fucked up. No point in trying to understand her, after the breakup or after ya'll are together. For one ex that kept leaving bread crumbs and it was super annoying, I stopped caring trying to understand why with her since she was acting on emotion. The other day I came to the realization that I don't even know the girl anymore after 6 months so why entertain her rent free in my head. Though tryi…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/19 07:08 PM
1

Why are you giving so much value to a person yoy don't even know? Friends before meeting in person? -I.E. give me attention then maybe I'll see you. You see how this is more about her frame than yours?
/r/askTRP01/07/19 11:17 PM
6

You're her girlfriend.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 06:35 PM
1

This is true, I get that but I dropped her but we had mutual friends in many more ways than I can imagine. It took a while for me to stop hearing my name coming out of her mouth after someone told me this girl said this about me and etc. What it came down to about my ex and the guy that I knew was that she told him I was right about her and that's why I'm not in her life anymore. She's tried to weed her way back into my life by showing up at events I'm at and such but it just is what it is. For …
/r/askTRP30/06/19 08:24 PM
1

I totally understand where you're. Oming from and I get it as well. The dude I'm describing is the same as you are as well till this day I don't understand how but I don't even care desperate people will be desperate.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 08:11 PM
1

Seeing he has an ego thing going on. You've just become more busy with work that's it. If you present you're concerns to him he'll either 1. Actually take it to face value (but you're not that close so idk and just avoid what you said) and just yes you to death and keep doing the same thing over and over. 2. You'll hurt his ego and let it get the best of you and he'll rationalize it as he's better in some way and just get all rowdy. You've just become busy with shit idk don't be a pussy you chos…
/r/askTRP30/06/19 07:53 PM
1

Explain I'm in my 20s and Nordic. I don't understand.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 11:14 AM
2

What does white skin tones have to do with anything? Also him being a threat to what exactly?
/r/askTRP30/06/19 11:10 AM
1

I always knew him, I would go from mother's house to father's house everyday of week. But I knew my mother was crazy it got harder because she was never involved in another man that would last long. It does a number on the child I must say you really learn from a young age that people no matter who they present themselves to be are the full thing. There's pros and cons to that since ya know meeting new people is just a gem in life I believe. I really do believe in your child will do reach out si…
/r/askTRP30/06/19 07:45 AM
1

I can see this already happening. I know there isn't much to do with that anymore. I almost feel bad for them in that manner. But thank you for reassuring me doing me and just letting all that yadayada be in the past and let it heal like a cast. I appreciate you and I'm very sorry about child. My mother somewhat did the same thing but the kid can always make their own decision and find out things for themselves. I did, and it was disappointing. If you're true with what you say they'll see it i c…
/r/askTRP30/06/19 07:19 AM
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we need more of this in the world.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/19 06:57 AM
1

Yo, my man. I didn't know if I came off rude when typing that before I was on a caffeine high. But my golly if that is the best response I have ever gotten her on this sub I don't know what is. I'm proud even though you don't need to hear it. I somehow ironically got out of a narcissist girls life and she is still trying to leave breadcrumbs for me. So I totally get where you're coming from with that. You have any insights on how to deal with people she may know that I know as well? But fuck me …
/r/askTRP30/06/19 06:37 AM
2

Okay aren't you just fitting into a container then and actually not being a more high value man? It seems like you just put your SO and that's your life now or your pursuits in life were only for a woman.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 04:24 AM
7

Jesus christ.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 04:21 AM
2

Maybe you’ll never get it. That’s okay. People that understand people and utilize it are assholes to you. Weird flex that you wanna be like them. Even weirder that you degrade it then state it’s a state or even a mind state you wanna achieve. From that and you’re responses, you are hurt. Fix that first. Here’s a secret, that’s what looking out for number one is like.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 08:11 AM
1

You def right, thanks for elaborating this for me.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 10:16 PM
1

I mean as a dude that really just has a high sex drive. If I’m fucking that day or night, it’s gonna be a while. You don’t love seeing some girl that you find attractive beg you to come but you don’t and keep drilling her away with your belt around her neck? It’s about power, knowing from dating really fucked up girls. From hitting them in bed (first time I slapped the shit out of my girlfriend at the time she kept asking for more) I don’t know where I get it from but coming from a broken home h…
/r/askTRP25/06/19 09:20 AM
5

Half of these people have never lived and it really shows. I'm 23 and I know that I know jack shit. But I try, fail, and then repeat. I think what playing competitive video games as a young kid taught me is the skill curve really does exist not just from video games but from shit in life, Coding, gym, and even playing sports. It could be many things but one thing I know for sure that many don't really realize is that what they think isn't truth. It's just a subjective way to look at it and yes i…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 11:57 PM
10

lately this sub has just some weird shit. The video game explain is funny. Simps: "I wanna change and be a better man" Advice: "Then cut bad habits and work on yourself, that involves spending time on more important things" Simps: "But I wanna play video games" It's like saying "no not AWALT" when it's clear as day. I thought the whole point of this place was a toolbox to make who you wanted to be and then just die. Now it's like people just arguing based on their own ego-investments.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 11:20 PM
2

Her job was attention. You gave her that out of work for free. She got that in and out of work.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/19 05:56 PM
3

Best thing to do is keep it like that. You already smashed before, you'll do it again. Honestly I'm in the same boat as you and it's just weird to see. I'm just cool with them. None of the friendship is me trying to do anything for attention or anything needy. It feels good just fucking really makes me not trust women anymore even after some career advances in life. Like OP said stay aloof i think of these things as mega shit tests to see if you will either chase for her validation or even just …
/r/askTRP15/06/19 03:58 AM
3

Be there for her emotional state. He isn't your responsibility, and neither is her emotional state. With that said if she wants to be there for him to an extent. Seriously though it's the dudes fault not hers. Showing this will help her see you lead. It's a cold world comforting her will help her get over it but you communicate this subconsciously not saying he's dirt or whatever.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 07:52 PM
2

They we're testing you by "shaming" you. Why aren't you in your box like before hunny? C'mon what is with "we're waiting" nigga you still Ina relationship? If you were gonna hang out with her and her friends (which wtf why?) You should have atleast used it to your will. Just for the ego boost and then bam back to the west ya go. I know the improvement and everything good for you, these hoes have no hearts play their game dude stop being a pussy.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 07:26 AM
7

Honestly in the most positive way possible. Girls will fuck you like like the best porn you've ever seen if you are doing it right. If they value their sexual experiences they will not only have an emotional bond wihmth you that you can't find in porn you will feel what you should feel in sex. Secondly I see it like this. If I'm not getting the sex I want from girl A. I am not the most high value man she can get. Though I would want that from her I have to better myself not only for that which w…
/r/askTRP12/06/19 07:21 AM
6

Ight. You got me there good shit.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 04:12 AM
6

"never deleted my account" But if she is quality, even for an LTR Why are you sneaking around?
/r/askTRP12/06/19 03:34 AM
2

No worries man I'm glad I can help. Honestly I'm just very competitive. It would be "damn I'm over this girl's house and I might stay over fuck I gotta hit the gym in the morning or later that day instead of waking up earlier" Or " I worked on x today but I wanted to know this about about x, i wonder if that would work" then would forget about it when I get home. I just like doing everything I can to get better. Best thing I've learned really is that if you feel this and you put things like peop…
/r/askTRP12/06/19 01:06 AM
2

I tried to have one or two plates that were there when it was available for me it just boring. I can’t explain it really but when I would be with them I would think about what I had to do next and what I have to work on more. Then kinda just stopped and stayed single. I still game IRL but nothing like tindering and shit on social media it's a waste if time. Plus because if the plates I had they showed me how many thirsty ass dudes there were and I just decided for them to come to me that's what …
/r/askTRP12/06/19 12:56 AM
3

This.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 12:46 AM
1

Don't like the word "hater" but usually guys that are like that are insecure about themselves. Or else they wouldn't say anything. It's like when you move out of your home town and you make something of yourself and if you live back there even though you're doing well for yourself they'll say "why are you still here?" Putting you on a pedestal that they see themselves as lower. Fuck that shit you ain’t trying to impress them are you?
/r/askTRP12/06/19 12:45 AM
1

Kinda crazy that we have to think these things? Nah she wants to be fucked. I remember I would spit in a plates mouth when on her knees and she told me "that was one of the hottest things I've ever experienced" If she wants to and communicates and then denies it during actually fucking then ahh sah got ah beepeedee.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 12:42 AM
7

Yeah you're busy relaxing. If you're that scared to just say that just pretend you took a nap. My dude this girl doesn't run your life. Only you do.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 07:11 AM
7

How about you just do you for a day? Or maybe if she asked what you're doing saying you're busy?
/r/askTRP11/06/19 07:04 AM
12

Nigga do you want to commit? Yes -> Commit No - > Don't commit, "Stay Friends"
/r/askTRP11/06/19 06:10 AM
60

My phone died when trying to answer this. First I have been there in this stage in two parts of my life. First time was when I felt genuine Love from a girl because of my character and how I carried myself. The girl came from a rich household, I was broke as shit 19 i believe. Had those thoughts when even in Love. Secondly, after a plate that was the main one and we we're fairly close and she was pushing for an LTR (at 22) The first hurt like shit, fuck I pushed her away because I couldn't do it…
/r/askTRP11/06/19 06:02 AM
4

No, now.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 01:42 AM
1

That’s his fault. Obviously he made his world her.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 01:38 AM
2

So fucking true. To add on to this, I had to distance myself from some people that did this every goddamn friday. Yeah once a month or two I would join in and just chill but fuck in your 20s you're not only wasting time but there's a fucking world out there and people to experience. I remember when away I had a close friend who I din't see for months. I told him when I get back let's go out to the city and just fuck shit up. His response was "no" because he didn't like the people in the city (NY…
/r/askTRP10/06/19 10:20 PM
1

I don't think it's usually that. Depending on his girl and how the dude is he looks for mommy's approval. I know this ebcause I have the same friend in a way and he just plays LoL smokes and lets his weight go. Shit aint cute.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 03:53 PM
1

Been in the same position as you. 10 months of just FWB could be her showing more emotional investment. One thing even if you are jealous, you're not in a relationship. Best think you can do is keep it causal and just keep doing you. You;re in university, be on your shit. I'm the fun guy she hangs out with to avoid her normal life drama and gets dicked down by. I believe the dynamic is changing where I'm becoming part of her normal life Yeah she's trying to push for an LTR, but you are in on it.…
/r/askTRP10/06/19 03:47 PM
3

First two chapters of models by mark Manson describes this. It’s relative mate. If it’s real and not a front then the behavior seems the individuals persona as real. the PUA community fails in this.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 09:11 PM
9

I would argue that there is something called romanticism, aren't men the real romantics? So based on that notion in this example, she wanted to test his strength. He got the fuck up and left. She was already emotionally invested into him (remember feels over everything else?) That girl got wet, she knew when pushed to the edge he would gtfo. That's self esteem, in this one example he passed. Women are people too, they just work differently than men.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 07:05 PM
2

Underrated comment. It baffles me that this bih couldn't get a relationship after 6 years. Obviously, it's the guys fault here. Someone stated she just talks about her looks and all of her needs. Nothing about what she provides to build a family. Isn't it crazy that is all these women lack? They never focused on that and it's truly sad. 6 years without any real pairbonding. It's sad but shit, she did it to herself.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 06:12 PM
2

Then you just move on. It;s a fucking tattoo. Open your mind up a little.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 02:45 AM
3

Your girlfriend my dude, not your plate. She's emotionally invested, that means you have gottent to where she wants some beta. LTR's only work with both Alpha/Beta Dynamic. Just reassure her.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 02:43 AM
7

To ruin the dude, she's still emotionally invested and is trying to rationalize it. Honestly, don't pay mind to it, she's trying to find some type of feeling she found with the dude.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 02:37 AM
1

Something productive that captures your mind. The Power Of Habit is a great book for this.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 08:15 AM
1

Thank you very much for this. I appreciate it!
/r/askTRP31/05/19 07:22 AM
1

Thank you for this honest opinion. I'm 22 so I was wonder what you meant' really. I lift about 5-6 days out of the week while producing music but shit gets tiring but I am sitting down all day a majority of the time. I have a great diet (no sugar and not over eating,) When I hit the gym i always get hit witht the "yeah you can be really big and stuff but is that all?" Don't get me wrong I love working out, I used to be skinny fat in a way no muscle definition at all but i'm contempt with how I l…
/r/askTRP31/05/19 07:09 AM
1

Same, never really play anything anymore. It's pointless when there's a life to live. OP cut the shit. Focus on you.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 06:54 AM
3

I fucking second this. Why is it that you regret it?
/r/askTRP31/05/19 06:53 AM
4

Is it, or is it that he didn't understand his worth. If Jim did do what he did why would he fall into the trap? One shot in improvement and he goes all in? I'd love to hear your thoughts.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/19 06:43 AM
3

No worries brotha it happens to the best of us. Don't focus on that negativity it doesn't help anyone. Funny how you say that, from my OP it's been a year and said girl tells her friends she can't open up to dude after me. Kinda weird but not my fault.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 10:39 PM
2

Also btw never look at them as beta's. They don't know any better nor do they even have what it takes to know better. If they did they wouldn't leech they'd provide they're own value and fuck with you personally for it.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 08:42 PM
3

Success is the best revenge. Only out of loving yourself though. It is your fault, remember that for you introducing her to your friends. I had a old friend who did the same thing, brought her around too much. She bonded with me just out of similar interests. I produce music that she loves and such but it was all just cool nothing like "OMG I'MA GONNA CUCK HIM" because at the time me and the dude we're tight and fucked shit up. Later she became the place holder to him of a friend (nothing sexual…
/r/askTRP30/05/19 08:38 PM
3

Been there, I didn;t commit. She wanted something more after 7 months. I had to tell the girl about 3 times on separate occasions. Then when I pushed her away completely, she started to hang around my guy friends to feed her ego. Cut them all out. Fuck guys that wanna hang around you for the girls you date or are banging theyre leeches. It was a great lesson though to know that guys out there no matter how cool they seem can be beta billy's. Also, taking the time away from everyone, made me real…
/r/askTRP30/05/19 05:06 PM
-1

yeah first of all who cares? You said "plate" reread sidebar sir.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 05:00 PM
1

majority of dudes do it for female validation. I remember when at a DD, i got a black coffee the dude who rang me up was eye balling the girl behind me without making eye contact when placing my order. Noticed it, just wanted my juice. I take an Amex out, he asks "How much is on there?" I look at him and say "5 dollars" he clearly didn't get the sarcasm. Then proceeded to say "damn I got 3k worth on mine." See the point? Mind you he worked at DD trying that, I laughed and said good shit sport.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 03:45 PM
2

NIGGA YOU DID IT!
/r/askTRP28/05/19 06:16 AM
1

Al-fucking-righty, okay been there. Okay fuck do I begin with this. My last LTR did this to herself, did hardcore drugs and all this other shit for one thing and one thing only...attention. She doesn't get it from home, so it's gonna be from you, not you, not whomever, cut or self-harm. They can change but they'll always stay the same. Same girl is becoming a doctor now in school. There's something about the crazy ones. Honestly though one and the best piece of advise is that your attracted to h…
/r/askTRP28/05/19 06:14 AM
4

Yeah alot of it is. Some dudes when it comes to girls are very predicable. You can't talk nobody out of it. I've learned this first hand. Simps gonna simp, Chad gonna chad. But knowledge and application of boy does shit get fun.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 06:06 AM
1

Most importantly have those qualities in yourself first.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 06:01 AM
9

I got punched in face by my father for skipping school one time. Problem really was the school was ghetto as fuck. It really was the problem of the dude not understanding my interests at 13. Never cared for them. Now that I think about it he never really did try to get to know what I was all about. Always wanted me to settle like him. BTW he's broke as shit.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 06:01 AM
7

I feel this even more now that i've started to not look so dead. I used to alot and it works sometimes. It really seems to be true when people here state women do want to be approach by good look guys. I have a close sister that all her friends would tell me a majority of RedPill ideas to be true. They want those dudes to talk to them and even give them attention. One time one of her friends told her in text that she wants me to take her out and stuff because humble brag she found be very sexual…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/19 05:55 AM
40

it's a weird western thing. A majority of my old high school friends are like that. I rarely see them anymore because of that, even as a guy it's fucking boring. Guy 1: Some how got a girl that was into anime and all that jazz, would never go out with her. She would always be out without him. Fun thing she would say her parents have her set on a time to be out. She would go to concerts and such and never be out to see him. Times she would go out, she would see him in his parents basement and she…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/19 05:56 PM
15

The best affection comes from the ones that want you but you never give them the fruit. That doesn't mean you are being bad or wrong. You can personally enjoy them chase you while you're chasing your goals and desires. That's where the real romanticism is, not the *Met for date 1, use spread sheet of this and that how you are a good provider* fuck it's boring for girls too. I have a plate who was pillow talking to me in bed stating "ya know i went on this date, it was the third time actually and…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/19 03:35 PM
3

You should have more respect for yourself mate. Just let her go.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 11:58 AM
14

she really is. Looks like she wants validation. Since she sent pics.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 11:57 AM
3

Askholes.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 05:58 AM
2

I don't advise drug use at all. I only drink wine tbh. I was saying that maybe it can help since it has helped me learn to be extroverted. No worries tho. I do believe in threading conversations helps alot. It makes the other party talk more.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 05:56 AM
1

She helps his sexual desires as a male. To sleep with other women. You're putting your own opinion on to him which is not right therefore your opinion is your own and shouldn't be forced with bs science words that you picked up here to articulate your desires.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 05:54 AM
1

Wait, it's not in his hypergamous nature to be with this girl? How so? She and him can implement more women for both of them? If she can ride the dick like a champ and love you like a woman does but dominates the 3rd party involved how the fuck is that bad? He wins.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 05:51 AM
2

Can someon explain why guys do this? They go to the gym with their girl even if they're both somewhat in shape?
/r/askTRP23/05/19 05:48 AM
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Oh you’re one of those people. That’s okay my mans I used to be heavily introverted around women even more. My family is heavily women based so a majority of them just kept me always in that zone when socializing. I would suggest maybe some party drugs. I know it's not great to be on that but I'm a social butterfly and was a Halo playing loser in high school. I think iny opinion women aint shit, guys ain't shit, people ain't shit. So who cares? Just live your life based on yourself . Forcing wom…
/r/askTRP23/05/19 05:46 AM
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How about just be friends with girls that you might keep on the back burner? Women do it all the time. On top of that don’t be a guy who lets his girl block other girls on their social media or in real life. My main mate had this happen to him F for him. If they can’t deal with it then 1. They’re insecure fuck that shit. If I’m dating a girl in some form of monogamy then that hoe gotta have some confidence. Two it’s even better because then threesomes happen like that. 2. Eventually onerous will…
/r/askTRP23/05/19 05:38 AM
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It’s okay bro bro. Fuck your past self for being naive to letting her use you. What have you done for yourself to become better where a girl will do that for you? Do you see what I’m saying here?
/r/askTRP23/05/19 05:32 AM
1

Bust a fucking nut. You have a weird validation to women. Get out of it.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 05:30 AM
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Oh no it's happening. Content stealing... Read this before this is from a book, don't remember but this is a very familiar tale.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 02:30 AM
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True my point was based on morality. It's his frame. He has a girl okay I bet he's telling her he's here and yada yada she's committed but is his frame well enough to cheat? Or even get the girl into an open relationship up to him. People saying break up, are rationalizing the woman's committment and e-whiteknighting her. If he's a man of value. He can pull off introducing girls into her. But the question is did he pull the "HB9" into his frame or is she wanting him to chase him? Thay would crea…
/r/askTRP17/05/19 10:18 PM
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Can you get her to join in? Might as well. I think it would be better to be honest with yourself. Depends on the girl my dude. Or just hang out with her and your girl and see what happens. Best bet, get you a girl that likes girls. Best decision i've made in my life.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 09:31 PM
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Most can't handle cheating. Theyll cry afterwards their main girl leaves. Then blame the girl. Simply there is no moral you're right but some dudes don't have the frame no?
/r/askTRP17/05/19 09:13 PM
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I've experienced this and it holds 100%. Adding to the humble brag. A good woman will do those things when they see you have that fire for greatness. Thank you for confirming much from what I've speculated for the last 5 months.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 06:43 AM
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Well since this girl has manipulative tendencies it's a possibility none-theless. She could fuck someone else and then bam her and her boo fuck and Bam "look babe I'm pregnant, pre-cum made me Prego" plus this girl was very actively willing to move in with the dude so early. I mean yeah that's cute but I dunno about that homie. That's not enough time to get to know someone and their behavioral traits in home and just who the person is OP lead the way to a family life yes, but he didn't want to g…
/r/askTRP17/05/19 12:35 AM
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I'm 23 and I want one. I can't stand using a rubber. It's just Blane. Plus I spoiled myself with a plate that had an implant for BC. So after that I just raw and pull out and empty the load in their mouth or face. Though it would be great to get cut since I really know I don't want kids until I'm 40.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 09:25 PM
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Get the fuck out. If she's not taking BC she'll sleep with someone else. Maybe she will maybe she won't depends on her history and behavior. Having a kid is a life sentence. Oh did I say leave?
/r/askTRP16/05/19 09:20 PM
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Did you see any difference in your t-levels? I'm thinking about getting one but don't want the hormonal damage.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 09:15 PM
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I like this. Have some balls my man. Why the fuck do you need to do things for anyone's validation? Seriously. People change like the seasons. Do what you have to do for yourself.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 09:13 PM
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found my next thing to do when inviting a girl over.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 04:41 PM
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Her thought wasn't original it came from Mommy and Daddy. With OP showing it doesn't phase him it shows the trait with him being high value. The girl was still obviously attracted to OP (Grinding in bed, would shake with his touch.) Plus the fact that she's 21 and he's displaying an IDGAF attitude helps the two go together.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/19 04:22 PM
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I found that girl funny as hell. Thought you'd get a laugh out of it. Honestly, if that was happening to me in my social circle my boys would turn it into a meme. BTW good shit on holding frame amigo.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/19 04:19 PM
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But, do you hate women doe?
/r/TheRedPill12/05/19 04:12 PM
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Ya know what's funny about the stated AFC. He does everything, trying to please her. Her validation is more important to him than his own needs. Not once did he state what she does for him. Cherry on top, they're married. ​ Is this a common thing with people getting married and they don't know their partners sexual desires, or even what makes them tingle? Serious question because i'm still young. Like wtf. I'm almost mad how much this stuff doesn't make sense.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/19 02:57 PM
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Why are you doing that in front of a dude ? I don't care about your morals or whatever. You mind just end up in a fight because of BP nonsense. But if the boyfriend does come up to you I mean obviously she then has a boyfriend. Just laugh it off and go on to the next one.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 07:29 AM
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Your relationship isn't your life. Who are you without your relationship? You've said you been focusing on yourself but it is to avoid focusing on the relationship because you see that you're doing something wrong? Again in a better way you are not your relationship.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 11:11 PM
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On that note. Are you explaining that having a mission for the sole fact of pussy is the ultimate beta? If you are doing x to attain v then you are having an outcome dependence. Those guys, are they working so hard to become a plow horse?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/19 05:12 PM
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So you come here with an ego. My bad if I was on my phone. Really thought you were talking to someone who just randomly met. I'm probably taller than you btw. Never knew you could have a dick measuring contest on Reddit but hey -1 point for lack of creativity. You much be fun to be around.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 04:42 AM
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You dropped the smallest but most useful nuggets here. Just letting you know I appreciate you.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 04:03 AM
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If you wanted ice cream because you wanted it. Go out and get it. You aren't "being a beta servant " or whatever you stated. Nigga you want ice cream. Fuck it have her come along and go for a joy ride.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 03:58 AM
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Is it me or has a majority of the people asking stuff just seem autistic? Honestly, you just met the person. Do you know anything about just knowing how to talk to people?
/r/askTRP01/05/19 03:55 AM
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"ugly ex" > 3 years ago. You should be better than who you were three years ago. Not worth the time.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 01:54 AM
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Which you're right bur he's kinda clinged on to being a student in life. It's an identity thing. I was an older college student myself, never saw the point in what OP was doing. School is for learning and getting that shit done and over not to be there forever. Life is more about the frats, the student Life and so forth. There's money to be made, shit to do and life to experience. It seems like an identity thing. OP, find yourself. You're not your degree or your school. It's 2019 that shit is la…
/r/askTRP29/04/19 08:53 PM
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Noted, you're right on that. I thought of it as nagging with constant involvement from one party only as needy in a way. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 07:43 PM
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Agreed, I meant as in they do it for every little thing that goes on. It's like the male version of nagging. Constantly trying to make comvo.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 04:00 PM
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Regarding that in this post, guys will give their attention away and Chase and Chase for a small conversation over Instagram. They love it, had a plate show me her dm's asking why guys message them about the smallest things regarding to their stories. It's become quite hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/19 03:57 AM
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I miss these kinda posts, straight to the point, no moralizing, just plain and simple.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/19 05:53 PM
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Anytime broski, we've all been there I believe it's a test for what you really want in life and if you have what it takes to get it. It's ruthless but fuck it, you and I will both be in old age one day unable to do those things then.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 06:10 AM
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I've been in your position. I go back to it sometimes to push myself (sometimes see the friends whom given up on life for the reality to push myself more). It sounds like your in pain, that's good this is a time of growth and show what your made of. The people at work, game them. Game them like women. The friends, I've recently cut distanced myself from more of them as time has gone on. The LTR, think about it like this would she like you in this position? Nah she'd probably dislike you and feel…
/r/askTRP21/04/19 03:36 AM
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How is it? If you are the dude that keeps them around and they push for commitment, that means something no? I'm not saying commit, honestly idk what the said individual is seeking but they're good to keep around. Plus it's fun to game them, what would you think can go wrong? Oh no, what they all do. Really not a big deal anymore if you ain't marrying it.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 06:17 AM
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How long do you expect op to have that go on for? Asking from experience my last FWB was about 7-8 months.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 06:12 AM
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I thought what op thought when a plate got me my favorite kicks for Valentine's day. Honestly, sometimes bitches know a way to a man's heart.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 06:37 AM
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Seeing she is making alot about herself. Kinda weird, I've dated a girl recently where alot of things were enjoyed by both of us. It seems she might just having the mind set of her settling. If you weren't that pick wouldn't she have jump shipped by now? Plus have some boundaries and apply dread. You aren't in a relationship.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 06:35 AM
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Nofap isn't about being asexual, it's about not wasting your time on stupid pixels. If you want pussy, go out and be a better man and claim that reward. Did you school or job coming knocking on your door for you to get or apply to?
/r/TheRedPill17/04/19 08:48 PM
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Wow really thought I was the only one. What really helps, if you can workout or put that pain into something like art or whatever it helps a ton. Meditating also on this pain can help you understand where it's steming from maybe ego? I had a main plate that I had to cut from my life and pain followed. I wanted to stay friends but kept getting those drunk calls and stuff so had to push her away even more(using beta traits helps.) Months later I would wonder the same maybe shes doing better, which…
/r/askTRP13/04/19 04:47 AM
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What should one do after the test has ended?
/r/askTRP10/04/19 05:01 PM
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I want a post boi
/r/askTRP10/04/19 08:21 AM
1

Would this envy also come from said friends when you seeing hot women?
/r/askTRP10/04/19 03:10 AM
1

I'm 22, I was like you as a kid. I can't naturally fall asleep early at all even after working out. i can wake up early though no problem. It's probably the worst thing to know that no matter how many times I fuck, workout, work, etc. I can't fall asleep before 12am.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/19 07:32 AM
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I wanted to touch on this a bit since i've been in monk mode myself for a bout 2 months now. I started after I stopped chasing girls because I wasn't focusing on the real purpose and goals for myself. Some people need to be dropped. I had a plate for a while that I had to push away because I was holding myself back and I was more deserving of a more authentic version of myself . I went away to Uni, banging plate consistently, social circle that knew plate was very intrusive about my time with he…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/19 04:58 AM
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how do you do that? Focusing on yourself?
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 03:30 AM
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Can you elaborate on what "hoops" you were set up to jump through?
/r/TheRedPill21/03/19 05:40 AM
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Question: Regarding the whole "thinking about ex, ex-plate, or main ting plate. What is the cause of the pain there? Shit happens to me, but I don't miss them. I had a mental thought on why some girls I liked or even enjoyed more than others. A majority of them were the freedom I had with said girls. It would be they would come visit me at Uni but when home and stuff I would start to just hate it. I know it's just my turn and have been turning my life around, as in killing off the person I used …
/r/TheRedPill21/03/19 05:33 AM
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I feel that, i've met some RP robot guys. It doesn't end well tbh, they break very easily under pressure. I think mostly how to interpret this is to have awareness in yourself and your actions.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/19 11:58 AM
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I think it's both and who and how it's used. For the attraction to emotionally unavailable, it could be she has these feels for said man. He doesn't give all his emotions at once like a rainbow vomit out of a unicorn. She wants that emotional side to to him in maybe the initial stages of attraction. For the lack of attraction: I would this the man or said masculine female, is not in tune with their masculinity at said moment in the present. Therefore he doesn't trust himself with said actions or…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/19 11:45 AM
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That's what OP'd missed. If everyone stopped in the beginning nobody would get paid.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 01:22 AM
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I've always knew or had a small itch with some girls that I loved fucking without commitment (humble brag but stay with me.) Then when it would turn into something more consistent where I would get angry that I wasn't working on myself. I thank you. Seriously it just helped me stay hold on the choices I've made for myself.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 01:57 AM
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elaborate please.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 01:05 AM
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I just got over an ex because of this comment.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/19 11:54 PM
1

This is really it.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 08:09 AM
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no worries i spelled it wrong. But yeah after a while, hanging out with girls and their friends you kinda just see it. Pro tip: you can see who's on your side and not who is not. Learned it the hard way, had a girl that wasn't over me, she told her friends and one of them told me that a in the group on girl said "why you weren't even drunk?" It's something you can read, and is expected.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 07:46 AM
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Yes, sorry was on my phone. Means in the basic terms that I understand if the sky is green to the girl she'll look for confirmation from her peer group that the sky is green. Then based her actions based on that. "It didn't count count right Daisy?" Daisy: "Yeah it didn't count" Her: "Youre right, i feel much better now"
/r/askTRP10/03/19 07:16 AM
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A majority of people here need to understand this.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 01:58 AM
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Solphisism
/r/askTRP10/03/19 01:43 AM
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I wish more people thought like this tbh.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 08:47 PM
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This > I've done the same as you OP. You gotta be yourself before anything.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 05:16 PM
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Not worth continuing the LTR.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 05:15 PM
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Very underrated in this sub. You'll think about them when your mind is wondering. If anything workout, or use your brain for something.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 06:32 AM
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YOu've hit on soemthing I've been thinking about for a very long time. It is very good, i've done that in music and visual design for music through meditations and the people love the real RP themes. Thank you for your wisdom Hyper. As someone who has been struggling a lot the last year. You fucking rock man.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 11:42 PM
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porn is the issue not no fap.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 11:36 PM
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R E A L
/r/askTRP22/02/19 06:08 PM
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It is but that's the user input of it ya know?
/r/askTRP22/02/19 01:01 AM
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It def is. I think that's what a majority of marketing courses miss to teach as well build the framewoek of everything else.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 06:49 PM
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Youre best bet, learn how the internet works. FIgure out what is marketable. Music producers are for example hit some up, hit some real small business people. I did some marketing when I was learning it in school (minor for my CS major) and applied what I learned to friends who were music producers. They had a thing that got bought out to a bigger sound design company. Beginners luck, maybe but I knew how and where the audience was and what they held value was legit. Marketing is something you j…
/r/askTRP21/02/19 06:09 AM
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I cannot thank you enough for this <3
/r/askTRP21/02/19 06:05 AM
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Yeah I know just had to digest that tbh. Feel bad but nothing I can do but focus on myself.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 02:20 AM
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" Cuz they haven’t done shit with their life? " if that's a "made up" thing then fuck keep doing that.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 01:13 AM
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I needed to hear this, you're right, and thank you.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 12:00 AM
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Thank you for this, the prime thing is what has held me back in life from owning the things i've had to own for myself. I ruined a good LTR by doing the opposite of this actually. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/19 06:33 PM
2

What is your definition of mediocre friends, I'm in the process of cutting people out of my life since I've been focusing on myself much more for the last couple of months.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 08:06 PM
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you get it.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 09:54 PM
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I see youre a man of culture.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 07:53 PM
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I see this in my early 20's now. It's a bit tacky, most of these dudes are just going along with some fantasy. I'm there for them when they need it but really just do your own thing. A majority of them and I believe someone stated this here is that people getting into marriage live in a little bubble, it's worse if they are the mediocre BP fantasy and not a power couple (which is an ideal LTR if one chooses) and it's just like ehh. The dudes ether get really comfy and live in Pleasure Palace and…
/r/askTRP11/02/19 07:51 PM
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I had friends like this when I didn't know about TRP with video games and smoke sessions. Honestly if you want to entertain this attitude go ahead just know this same mentality would leak into other areas as well. They sound immature tbh.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 08:05 PM
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You bathe in the validation for a bit, reap your awards. Then after you see the errors youve done and are currently doing, adjust. Then go back to work on yourself. I get man it's nice it really is and puts TRP in a light that you know it works but if you have an internal issue with yourself and where you want to go then take the time it really helps. I've had to cut off two plates just because I didn't want to be distracted with the booty calls at 4am, while i'm doing my shit. Plus I realized w…
/r/askTRP06/02/19 05:37 AM
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I think you just don't have any real direction in life. Cool you got the basics, what is your goal? Women aren't the goal. What is your goal?
/r/askTRP04/02/19 09:53 PM
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Since you seem to have valuable knowledge on MGTOW, what is so wrong with going Monk Mode? Personally for me it's like a staircase, to adjust get better at the things I love and want to make money from (Increase SMV really) then eat the fruit and then adjust again. I'm justr lost on how so many people think monk mode is really bad when even reading about it just seems more positive than anything.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/19 04:41 AM
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Okay I think this is something that isn't really touched upon until you have the experience. Back story, I was in the same position like you and i can relate 100%. First thing you're living in somewhat of abundance congrats. The same thing that is happening to you was happening to me about a year ago. I shit shit tested the plate I had she was the main one at the time. I would start just making it more about you, if you don't have sex with said plate or whatever and you're busy why would you car…
/r/askTRP03/02/19 08:15 PM
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yikes
/r/askTRP30/01/19 07:35 PM
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very underrated comment. To ask you simply if one would want to improve in monk mode the reason would be not indulging in instant gratification such as porn, fast food, drugs and other things around that source?
/r/TheRedPill30/01/19 07:14 PM
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Close reddit we found the problem.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 06:09 AM
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Was new to this type of stuff about 2-3 years ago, it becomes a threshold for sex that alot of vanilla sex becomes boring. If you incorporate passion and emotion (in the sex god method). It's like crack to them. Don't worry about the marks they'll shit test you about it but they'll always have it as a sign to their friends that their getting it good. Another fun fact: even after your turn is up they'll always be attracted to you.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 05:17 PM
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Set a Goal, or even not just a goal but a habitual way to get to that goal. I started with just reading every morning with some coffee as soon as I get up. Right after ear training, I read for about 30- and hour. Then go about my day. Now if I skip reading, in the morning I feel bad because I know it will help me. Could also be that you just read alot of boring shit as you grew up (in school this is where I fucking hated reading) but then learning about more things that apply to myself gets me m…
/r/askTRP25/01/19 06:59 AM
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Great wording, the point is that what you do with your time on earth really matters, when you follow your mission. Though I still don't understand the penalization part that some carry for so long. Know your worth.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/19 08:42 PM
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Just because what you see doesn't mean that's how they think. Art itself allows you to be vulnerable., good enough you can make some money off of it. Even better you tap into the beta mind, you make fans. One "rapper or artists" I know is pretty famous, very bp songs but alot of hurt in them. Guess what, he's one of the most RP guys I know. BTW music is a business even more so today then ever before because of what you can monetize.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 12:23 AM
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nailed it, it takes work maybe even harder because of the threshold you were once ast and the set back but fuck it. If you can do it once you can do it again, further more you can be better.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 08:58 PM
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I think what he's saying in doing fine is that you're trying and youre failing youre suppose to. You don't just win like that, if you do it's out of luck. You've had some set backs good figure out what you did wrong and what you can change. I think honestly youre on the right track. Think of it like this, you could of miss that opportunity to drop school and not learn anything hands on but in a class room and then always think what if. From what I read you have balls and just getting a bump in t…
/r/askTRP22/01/19 08:03 PM
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I think now the bigger problem is your focus on women. Not a supermodel myself, could be been told I should model. Besides the point, I think this is one of those examples that would be more helpful if you just grew some balls and stopped doing what you were doing before and try to see. It's your life, play it how you want.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 01:33 AM
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Can we just close this Sub? I think this dude found the holy grail of logic.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 01:27 AM
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This is my personal analogy take it as it is. Your girl (LTR, fwb, whatever) fucks some dude in front of you and you jerk off to it. Seems normal to you? Or you go out and meet a girl you wanna bang, she invites you back to have your dick in your hand while some other dude fucks her. It's okay if youre into that. It depends what you want. I'm assuming since you posted here you have trouble with women or would like to fine tune your way with women. That's great, now I dunno about you but I'd rath…
/r/askTRP22/01/19 01:24 AM
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But the reality is you have your dick in your hand while some dude is fucking the girl you wanna fuck. So that's okay if you want it to be.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 12:47 AM
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you sound like youre raltionalizing your use of porn. Does it do things to your brain, yes. Can it effect you negatively, si. Depends what you want. If you know you want to do your thing for a while then that's on you and your call not the Sub's. Look into how it's bad for you, before asking this reddit like it's the Magic Cosh from Sponge-bob.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 12:43 AM
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This > Not being around loser people or people who give no real value to your life. Will drag you down with gossip is so lame and it eats your time up. Think about it like this, your brain when awake is like RAM from a computer. It stores memory for the mean time but doesn't write to the HD. If you're around people who are just boring, drama fiends, overall not positive to what you want in your life you will be cluttered with information that doesn't really help you. Now if you were alone or wit…
/r/askTRP20/01/19 05:06 PM
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as someone who is 6' I can honestly tell you this is just the truth. Attitude determines your latitude.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 08:08 PM
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yikes
/r/askTRP16/01/19 08:06 PM
2

Fuck, god bless your soul.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 06:22 AM
2

To piggie back on this idea it's true.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/19 10:58 PM
2

Same about TV just can never get into it. Social media I have to use to run business stuff really and talking with other collaborators but it's okay. When I'm home I just leave my phone in a closet. I'm in monk mode rn so it's just more fun. I only mean't another book since I have like 3 that i'm currently have lined up.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/19 03:42 AM
2

really? Fuck, another book to read. thanks broham.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/19 03:19 AM
3

I would suggest Peak as well kinda the same vein but practicing explained a bit more throughly. ​
/r/TheRedPill13/01/19 03:12 AM
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Why are you afraid to be alone? It's not forever, seriously. Imagine just being by yourself like dude, c'mon. Know yourslef first then you'll know the company you want to keep.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 08:11 AM
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Yeah that's great that you're doing nofao and all but where does that energy go? The dude just using his free time to fuck girls and that's all he does and the dude just jerking off have the same problem.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 07:59 AM
0

Get out
/r/askTRP11/01/19 07:58 AM
1

Yeah chief just hit me up, hey just left the message "it".
/r/askTRP10/01/19 06:12 AM
1

I think what you're stating is right about him thinking he's better. I also wanna say he should know his audience. If he were to cut everyone off like that then people would be attacking him or thinking in a negative imagine. Think what you like but act like everyone else would help here (asking your opinion here on this)
/r/askTRP08/01/19 11:44 PM
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I understand, being a person that breaks down things to understand them it def is a skill. That's part of the skill of learning things the next phase is just practice and training.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 08:34 PM
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you have a level of self awareness that i wish more people had.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 07:58 PM
23

Been there in the beginning, with everything you've stated. I personally started to do my own thing after a LTR because I saw where I needed to improve got a buddy of mine in the gym with me but that didn't last too long. I get kept going because I knew I had to and wanted to look better than before. Now when they all hang together I rarely see them because I know what it's going to be like and there is no fear of missing out. Taking time off to get your head right is undervalued in today's age.…
/r/askTRP08/01/19 06:26 PM
7

It's easier to just keep doing what you were doing before a relationship. That is if you were doing things for yourself and not for the validation of pussy.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 06:19 PM
1

Yeah man you're actually right on this. I have friend who was a child of a teen mom, who she was still living her live even after having the kid(going out, traveling, and doing the CC.) He turned out to be one of those guys who let their love become so cheap that it's almost sad. He met some girl and she moved in with him after 6ish months or so, that was about a year ago. Mind you, they're getting married in a couple of month down the road.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/19 02:57 PM
0

She cleans your bathroom...
/r/askTRP07/01/19 09:09 AM
1

Holy shit just caught it off the buddy's girl is probably just insecure. You are trying to rationalize something here on the side of your boys girl who gives a fuck if it was a joke. If it wasn't intended to be hurtful or racist then it's okay.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 09:07 AM
1

the guys telling you to drop her. It’s good advice, but alphas do what they want to. she already views him as a provider.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 05:38 PM
2

that is porn. Sorry my hands are too big for my phone.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 03:28 AM
1

Why are you upset? A majority of times us guys are reactive to girls being reactive to us. If you're upset you're missing something that you messed up on. Be angry at yourswlf first, learn to adjust, practice the adjustment, make it a habit, and you will find peace.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 03:01 AM
3

"she's in love with who I am, back in high school I used to bus it to the dance"
/r/askTRP04/01/19 02:59 AM
4

So when you're horny one of the first options is to get a girl you wanna bang, but watch someone bang her while you sit in your chair with dick in hand?
/r/askTRP04/01/19 02:56 AM
1

Work on yourself first and the right people will come along. Seriously it's a thing, if you build something great and market it show off etc, the right people will come into your life. If the old friends hate on you well fuck em. They'll talk shit if you are the same or a different person either way you can change they're opinion. You live with yourself, you die with yourself. Why would you care or have other dictate what you can or cannot do?
/r/askTRP04/01/19 02:53 AM
1

Oh this, I'm in the same position. Honestly, giving the benefit of the doubt for them is just wasting their time. I've done this to an extent where the same friend went out to the same concert as me (while him knowing prior I would be there) with an ex of mine. Told him I didn't want to see him if he was with her. He got butthurt but it's whatever. Till this day I blame it on his navieness but that not my issue or what I can control. Best thing to do is remove yourself from the problem. Till thi…
/r/askTRP04/01/19 02:48 AM
4

Just because you PE doesnt' mean you suck in bed. Sucking in bed can be a majority of reasons this is just a thing that happens. I used to have that really and it was the worse thing ever. Things that helped, Fucking more often, the skin on your dick is just not used to the stimuli of a vagina or not your hand. Breathing, look up sex god method. Shit helps Reverse Kegle excercises Drinking a little bit does help but not to the point of whiskey dick Smoking some weed might help but if youre not i…
/r/askTRP01/01/19 07:21 PM
3

this dude knows what's up. They come when they are weak and know you could be the rock. Or they are looking for validation. Ignore the ignorer, no response is the best response. But if you want to be that dude and make em feel bad. Just reply, "sorry i was having the time of my life(which you should be)" and bam block.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 03:53 PM
1

Been there, shit bothers the fuck out of me. Best thing to do is see where you want to go even plan out more and reflect on the difference on what you've been doing to where you want to go. BTW do you have any great resources for Forex trading even with Crypto? I've been looking everywhere but it's been some deadends and people want me to pay for the basics.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/18 02:38 AM
2

Being an Ivy league student myself, they lack the fundamental creativity to use it to further themselves rather than just choose it because "they like it". I know many people who just like things and are terrible at it. You can apply that with much. When youre surround more by people who are on a higher scale than a majority there is a new level of thinking that is required to excel there no? One dude from my school was terrible at school but finished got his shit and used it to make a currency …
/r/TheRedPill27/12/18 05:02 PM
3

Bro Elon is still in the same mindset and world he was when he made PayPal. Not shitting on you or anything but this really seems a very bad way at looking at purpose. There is a certain spark that drives a person harder than ever that they are willing to make a sacrifice for. It depends on what they value not what theyre purpose is. Going in with the idea of "Pick a purpose" does not work because if it were true a majority of people would be artists because they "love art." There is a bridge th…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/18 04:57 PM
6

can you explain your experience with 2 and 3 in the first section mister.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/18 03:49 AM
3

Can someone explain the number 2 and 3 in the first section? I never heard that before but just curious what do guys experience in those cases? ​
/r/TheRedPill27/12/18 03:35 AM
1

i'm sure it's that exactly but more. Depending on who you are if you live for what you do not do what you live for you wake up to get better.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 04:52 AM
2

He's right what you do in the morning and strive to get in the day matters. Plus youre still young try shit. Forget the noise.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/18 07:10 PM
4

Hey man as a SE student myself. I wanted to let you know one important thing, don't get caught up with what everyone else in your field is doing. It will one ruin you. Many kids in SE all just have a circle jerk and just are neckbeards in the best possible way to explain it. The experience and knowledge is amazing, but it's what you want to do with it. SE helps you make find tools that a lot of the general public doesn't understand and doesn't care about. When home I would use what I learned in …
/r/TheRedPill24/12/18 07:08 PM
1

Oh shit thank you much for the recommendations. I didn't know how much depth (out of my own ignorance) personality and human behavior has. Since working more in the entertainment industry it's been a little exhausting. Alot of gems from TRP have helped and I am willing to find more hidden gems so I thought why not start with people themselves.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 02:39 PM
1

Both are recommended.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 02:12 PM
2

Music in this day in age is actually really hard to make. In contrast to that it's also easier, there are so many "companies" that sell samples to producers and such but it's subpar to what you wanna make really. For me atleast, I can tell when something is just poorly written. It's actually still one of the hardest art forms to conceptualize because you don't really see it. When you hear music your brain processes it way differently than you actually creating it, with all the chords, melody lin…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/18 01:42 PM
1

Oh this came out?
/r/askTRP10/12/18 11:31 PM
1

That made a girl laugh thank you <3
/r/askTRP07/12/18 04:28 PM
4

It’s probably because you know many men in their 30s that are just lame. I don’t mean to be harsh but you just state you think. From experience men who have a lot of their shit together in their 30s are very more attractive. Than the frat bros.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 07:10 AM
1

Imagine taking your time to look through a reddit account.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 01:59 PM
4

read, how to make friends and influence people
/r/askTRP05/12/18 02:49 PM
4

I think this post it just over analyzing what women find hot. From my personal experience I know I can get laid and have a good track record so far with HB's at the age of 23. Did it take up most of my time when actually having a long term thing, yes. Did I like it, no. Reason is some dudes are fucking boring no matter how much money they make. I remember one girl telling me she went on a date with a dude who makes 200k a year at the age of 21. She was getting me to call her to get her out of th…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/18 02:05 PM
1

The more you know <3
/r/askTRP03/12/18 12:36 PM
5

We don’t deserve to be alive.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 12:27 PM
1

It was vaginal discharge btw shit used to freak me out.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 11:53 AM
2

I forgot about that aspect of the tightening shits hard and you’re not alone. It makes me come quicker than expected. There was one girl who I recently banged who was so tight it actually hurt my dick so much I didn’t feel anything but that tightness can’t be replicated so I was like “fook it food” the entire time lol.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 11:52 AM
5

They shiver, and body impulses. I believe the full term and correct one is a full body orgasm. It looks like someone is in freezing cold but the legs and lower body pulse. Also when y’all both come she’s lying on the floor to take a minute and they just stay there. It’s weird to see at first but it’s funny as fuck. Women have different ways off getting off. Some don’t even know. When a girl comes and actually does it could be from squirting and there is a while liquid that gets on your dick. I f…
/r/askTRP03/12/18 10:00 AM
1

I hope this helps. I used to be porn addicted for a while maybe like 16-19 or whatever one of my real relationships were ruined from it. Tried nofap, worked okay thought it was just “superpowers”. Started to focus on my life and stuff. Still started to get laid because I was putting in the work for myself and was naturally cocky. It helps with the whole Nordic thing I guess. Besides that after actually just sleeping with women I am not only living out my tucked up sexual tendencies with but ther…
/r/askTRP02/12/18 01:58 PM
1

Whelp that really could be it, but she was trying to be exclusive with me for about a good couple of months. Even when being Fwb i still did my thing, only thing is I know i didn't want a relationship and had to tell her the first time to be honest and then the second to push her away. Following cutting her off she was at a couple of events I was because I told a mutual friend that I was going and then he and her showed up and wanted to meet. I avoided it all. Just find it funny.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 09:26 PM
1

Thought the girl wasn't really into me because she was a liar.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 07:37 AM
1

Can you eallaborate what you mean by carrying the torch?
/r/askTRP21/11/18 07:37 AM
1

Crazy, even if this is when the girl is sober this means it? I thought only if theyre drunk or something.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 07:28 AM
3

After going through this, I'm assuming this will balance out with men specifically datingyounger women? Is this really the cause of new age feminism?
/r/TheRedPill21/11/18 04:45 AM
8

h happier You get it. I've been in the situation where I was being the one that was chased after. I knew this one gal from a while awhile ago who was always into me. SHe became single, road the CC until one day we finally banged. I was always telling her to embrace whatever she has to do to get over whatever relationship she had. Even tried to help her by being a friend for so long. Then it was me, I became the guy she traded all the CC riding for. Guess what, it was a buffer for her. I didn't c…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/18 03:50 AM
2

I’m gonna hit both nails on the head here. I’ve taken time off from school to do the things I really want. I have had some of the hottest girls wrapped around my finger. I know this because when I would walk outside (living in the city) guys would stare at her like they’ve seen Micheal Jackson. It’s actually hilarious. One thing with girls, from 18-23. They are the same, you know the song “Girls just wanna have fun” that’s it. That’s all they want. Seriously that’s it. Some want to settle very e…
/r/askTRP11/11/18 09:05 AM
1

Just be who you want to be in your head. Not the whole "just be yourself" fuck that shit. Tease, be knowing you are the prize to her, more so focus on your shit and what you want out of life. Then be a human being because women are humans too. From there on; Respect in the streets, Degrade in the sheets.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 07:04 AM
1

My experience tbh it's true, obviously not in the middle of class. But when it's party night or even on tinder it's kinda just sad at a point. Just becareful, I met a girl today who's been in a relationship for 4 years and told me everything she likes sexually and to have her call me "sir". I literary learned everything about this girls sex life in a matter of minutes...
/r/askTRP10/10/18 06:55 AM
3

Wtf girls literary fuck anyone and everyone in college (even more when they're away)
/r/askTRP09/10/18 08:10 AM
4

Can you recommend the books you were grinding in your head. I'm from NYC as well. I am you back then or close to it.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/18 10:57 PM
6

you must be from white fence land.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/18 05:43 PM
1

I mean from my experience and what I know from the grape vine is that she is just by her self i guess drowning in whatever. This is the same girl that I was exclusive with told me she was in love whit me while we were just banging for a year. To add on to what I did was just focus on myself in school and she would buy me expensive shit in return for some good sex. I hooked up with girls told her to her face (bad idea) but cut her out because I didn't want to continue just wanted to stay friends.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 11:39 PM
0

Though after we did fuck and I told her to be should be friends she kept trying to creep her way to me at night like "i'm drunk and I need you to fuck me in these boots I got"
/r/askTRP15/08/18 11:31 PM
1

She's tried to hang out with my friends after like a month of me ghosting her. Guys that would spill much about me to her. Umm not voicemails because blocked phone number, but i have a following of spotify so I can see late at night she's listening to my music. Not trying to come off as like "yeah i def did that bro" but just what i've observed from a far.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 11:30 PM
1

No worries mate just curious if I did what would those actions look like. I'm not saying there's one rational rule for it. Interesting who knows.
/r/askTRP15/08/18 11:12 PM
2

As someone who doesn’t know anyone like this, why the actual fuck does someone think this is okay?
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 09:08 PM
-2

share report Save MY GUY IS TRYING TO SEND PEOPLE ON MARS STFU.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 02:32 AM
2

we all know that, but when the real problem with a majority of men is that they lack their own development that ties into all other areas of their life including sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 10:15 PM
2

If you want the real ratio... I got you. I go on my FB once in a bluemoon to just get a lil laugh in life. Usually, a lot of the not to hood girls my age are in commit relationships. Looks like theyre planning on having a kid. A lot of girls from my HS got pregoo real bad, i could say 1/3 girls fell under that spell. The guys now, hmmm i know alot of kids from my HS actually made something of themselves. I went to a HS with a very popular rapper now. Some of the kids are just really doing it to …
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 10:37 PM
4

Bro i am just as baffled as you are.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 07:36 PM
7

Dont doubt it, having some RP aware women in my life you really see the nature of women. I've been brought up around really attractive women because of my family. A lot of what is said here is like 10x over here. Some people don't understand that women in great city areas are just a while new breed.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 06:32 PM
6

Lmfao there's nothing really going on, it's just people here to it to themselves. It's not complicated at all.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 06:29 PM
47

I live in the Bronx. Seriously just do you and get the fuck out. I've noticed some girls are really not worth it and want to trap you there. I'm in my early 20's and so many people are riding this prego-wave and these girls go to shit. Seriously, though your point is very comically accurate. When in college the types of girls are really funny and the guys are pretty spot on. There is a sense of false reality that many people do not understand how fragile and entitled their lives are. Not to shit…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 06:46 AM
1

Seriously, you have the answers. I am literary you as of yesterday. Same thing with a girl i was just fucking around with for a year. She treated me so fucking well, why? My frame was fucking good as hell. I was focusing on my shit and had the drive. Then my insecurities got the best of me because I stopped focusing on my tasks at hand on my own stuff. Seriously it eats you up. Then spent the last month with knowing her really opinion of me. That messed me up on how I would interact with her and…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 06:04 PM
12

i've been where you are. It's a crutch like most vices out there. As soon as you realize the power of yourself and start to change aspects of your life you will realized that 1.) There are more things that are fulfilling in life like socialized experiencing women, people in general, and yourself. 2.) Having goals and actually working towards them. I skim by porn once and a while and realize I could actually bang a girl that looks like this. In the past I have actually hooked up with milfs at a y…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 08:41 PM
1

Add to the Youth section: Finding your mission and building it so you are the king of your domain really helps throughout life.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 07:43 AM
1

Could be based on where you live or how you carry yourself at the moment because there has to be some gain you received. The times i'e done monk mode really do send girls your way out of no where.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/18 06:54 PM
3

No it's not. Youre using the time to learn for your own gain. What OP is saying is that the purpose to live through others is not worth it.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 07:46 PM
0

Had a buddy how got destroyed by a girl he was with, it was his own fault actually and the girl was just bad news but he was “in love” with the idea of her. He got desperate after she cheated, he fucked like 2 girls and what do you know he’s back in the same position as he was with his ex but with a different girl. Sometimes some people don’t change, they only change conditionally. You have to understand yourself first.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 11:28 PM
1

Really because my mission is music production and this comes from girls I have banged out. I can see in some situations where they wouldn’t want to hear it and then when they would. I barely y’all about nerdy stuff with people I have just social interactions with besides music friends.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 03:32 AM
5

Girls would always find it hot when I talked about music production to them. I actually influenced my ex to take an audio class. Maybe you just don’t know how to silver tough it?
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 12:10 AM
1

I believe you're wrong when you say if you don't meet an expecation earlier on. You maybe bad at something you really enjoy or you maybe be really good at something you hate. As a designer, it happens with a multitude of things. If you really love it and want it you'll keep looking for what will make you better or your work as compared to someone in that field of study.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 10:24 PM
2

If I told you I know a guy that never was into photography and really doesn't have much experience in it at all, bought a $300 camera to take pictures of his girl who is a pretty talented photographer. The sad thing is she doesn't even want to do it because she has her hubby doing it for her. She wants to be the star. I did some basic consulting working for her at one point and told her to continue her strengths she refused because I told her a "lifestyle blog" (Whatever that means) is what she …
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 06:12 PM
6

Can you expand more on this, I’m currently seeing this a lot from home town friends after I moved for school. Plus when I was home and busy with my hobbies they would always complain I wouldn’t smoke with them.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 08:51 PM
20

I'm gonna shoot the for long hall here but here it goes. Do something with your life! I mean is that not everyone can just marry in their 20s Some don't want to especially. I personally don't, there are so many things to do man wtf is with black and white about marriage? Apparently the picture you're painting is that if you're not married in 20s or 30s you're life is dull. That's where you made your first mistake, your life is dull if you're in a marriage or not because that's on you buddy. Seco…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 01:08 AM
0

I explained to her it wasn't a huge thing but I did tell I have q girl back home that is interested in me.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 09:56 PM
0

I have, after we hooked up one night I told her about my FWB back home and how she's coming to see me soon. You think that's too much?
/r/askTRP15/09/17 09:24 PM
2

See I get this more and more everyday. This girl somehow ends up in my dorm and is totally fine when I have to work on things. The thing is I'm way more experienced than her. She's a hood HB8 That is a total geek (does computer engineering) but she is just ehhh too me. I'm obvi gonna teach her things and such like that but it's just not fulfilling in a sense.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 03:39 PM
2

Same problem with a new girl who has a low partner count and is younger than me. She's smoking hot but I'm just so sick of it tbh.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 03:32 PM
2

ahhh i see, crazy to think that!
/r/askTRP28/08/17 03:49 PM
1

Okay I appreciate both, they provide value to my life in different ways. Z is a great fuck and gives the space I need for work. She cooks for me when I go over and has introduce me to her family. She's a snack to me, and I do adore her submissive behavior towards me. BUT i don't mind dropping her, if this gets out of hand. I'm in a weird situation where my boy's girl likes me as a friend but gets jealous when Z is around me. I just have distanced myself from all of them and continued to live my …
/r/askTRP14/08/17 10:41 PM
1

as in you put pussy as the only goal in life?
/r/askTRP07/08/17 07:43 AM
1

you know after reading that, you're right. Could you explain further more on the phase of life "Pussy is Magic"?
/r/askTRP07/08/17 03:29 AM
3

I'm sorry but a lot of you have this the wrong way. In The Rational Male, there is the myth of the lonely man. This myth is that men who are older than 30 and have not started families are alone or something wrong with them. First off read the side bar and be generally curious about what you want to do with this information. Some of it can be harsh, yes. But you can use this information to become who you want. Secondly, don't think your end goal in life is marry some girl. Wtf is that? You sound…
/r/askTRP04/08/17 07:35 PM
1

damn hoes
/r/askTRP25/07/17 09:02 PM
1

agreed, thanks for the reassurance m8
/r/askTRP25/07/17 09:01 PM
1

no I haven't.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 06:20 PM
0

Do all girls with close guy friends usually fuck them? I went out with a buddy of mine last night and he told me this one girl in his social group fucked the closest friends of her ex. Is this common?
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 07:50 PM
5

I don't really add to this sub much but I'm going to try now. I somewhat did this last night at a function I was invited to where I knew 3 people out of 90. To start this off, I was wearing a plain hoodie I just bought at h&m nothing fancy. I then haven't had a hair cut in a couple of months. I went in there with 2 of my boys and we ended up taking charge of the entire party. My personal experience was interesting, being a 21 year old male, I got hit on by a 30 year old doctor, she was cute. Kin…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 10:58 PM
1

Sorry I was confused on who you talking about. I should of created the dude with the ex with an alias. Totally sorry for the confusing bruh!
/r/askTRP17/02/17 06:09 PM
1

After the fact that my boy cheated, I knew that either one of us would bang her. I didn't know he banged her until he asked what we did when we hung out. It became somewhat of a game.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 04:50 PM
1

We both knew it was going to happen, it was a bit of a competition at first then afterward it started to get a bit annoying.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 03:13 PM
4

Thanks for the clarification!
/r/askTRP17/02/17 02:14 PM
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