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Field ReportRoaring40sUK/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 03:20 PM
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Red Pill TheoryRoaring40sUK/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 03:44 PM
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This says everything about why I left the corporate world over a decade ago... this shit leaves me cold.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 03:11 PM
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Not a bad place to add thst every woman will tirelessly work to convert any "Alpha" in her life to "Betas" So, true, (most) every plate I have ever spun, tried this and used all the tools in her box (heh) - manipulation, guilt trips etc etc.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 09:12 AM
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A girl not wanting to fuck you on the moment does not make you a "beta bucks" In fact, you could be the AF in her eyes, but if she is looking longer term for a BB, she could dump you, when the right BB comes along.. This has happened to me - "I want more than this", only to have her come back 6 months later "He was too nice"..
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 09:09 AM
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Great post. Nicely balanced and a welcome chnage from "they are fucking Ho's" Your point about accepting Hypergamy and finding peace in that, hit home for me. Its like you can look at them and feel a bit sorry for them, having this Hypergamy hamster running around 24/7.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 08:48 AM
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I had a minor Epiphany that goes along with this.. If you escalate and fuck quickly (and well), she then believes that you can repeat this with (almost) any woman you want. It automatically lifts your SMV, and imposes some dread.. she now thinks you can get sex anytime with (almost) any woman you want, thanks to her imagination and hamstering.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 08:58 AM
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I fucked it up by being a dopey romantic instead of a sexual creature. This. Women will lure you into being the dopey romantic, with there own romantic words, and when you do, thats the beginning of the end for them..
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 08:48 AM
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hyper-masculine/testosterone driven While I get what you say, be careful you dont slide into Purple Pill. Our conditioning in the BP world, is designed to ensure we often reject masculine as hyper-masculine. Kill the Beta.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 08:23 AM
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This; Definition of Hell: The last day you have on earth, the person you became will meet the person you could have become.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 09:51 AM
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i am not the expert, but I would suggest dropping the weight and focusing on form.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 01:28 PM
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Yes, becuase it looks like we dont "just get it".. but of course, we have to do the work so that over time we do "Just get it"
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 11:16 AM
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Of course I get it.. I am big into self improvement, and pussy is icing on the cake.. I do OK, primarily because I have spent a lot of time improving myself, be that in business, financially, or game.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 11:14 AM
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I am a big fan of this book, however, I think Deida slips too far into romanticism and while I appreciate what he is trying to say, I think, it has the potential to simply reinforce BP ideas in a man who hasnt fully unplugged yet. Not only that, but I dont think women can appreciate this sort of man, they would just see him as Beta.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 03:52 PM
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I think the "had trouble with women comment" comes from her (and feminisms) solipsism. Men, who bear the burden of performance, in life and sex (relationships), naturally have more problems, because we have to go out there and make it happen. We are "The Man in the Arena" and women are "The Critic". Women just sit back and wait for it to happen and so it all seems easy to them. They have no idea what it takes to approach.. TRP gives men the tools to overcome.. women should be applauding it.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 03:32 PM
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Yellow Journalism? I couldnt see ANY journalism in that piece..
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 12:05 PM
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This is a great post! Dovetails nicely with things like Plate Theory. I also completely agree with the idea of just fucking some women regularly, even if they have lower than ideal SMV. In my experience, satisfaction gained from a sexual encounter doesnt necessarily correlate to her SMV.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 09:31 AM
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Thanks man for the advice.. I do have other plates, so thats not the issue, but I am not going to lie, she is quite a bit above the others in SMV..
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 08:36 AM
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because I am a needy bitch!
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 08:33 AM
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Yeah thats funny as fuck.. she also said that she was seeing this one particular guy but not fucking him..but I dont quite believe her. The thing is with TRP, you start reading the subliminal messages in womens words and notice what the dont say, as much as what they do..
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 08:32 AM
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you do not care who starves dies or kills themselves as a result. I dont care, because, society wouldnt care if I starved or killed myself, afterall, its happening to thousands of men every day. Now go out, and take what you want from this Earth. I already am, brother, and it feels fucking good!
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 11:47 AM
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Got this with a new plate.. hot as fuck, but a real social butterfly - asked a question on this in the asktrp megthread.. Anyway, she was with me last night.. She gets to mine and her phone is blowing up with text messages. We fuck. A bit later (this is like midnight) her phone rings and a guys name pops up. WTF at midnight?! I didnt ask about it, just let it go. But yeah, they can be players..
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 10:16 AM
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I have been there bro.. I am by nature an introvert, but with perseverence and time it gets better. My advice to you is; Cultivate an interest in other people, try to find something about the person thats in front of you that is interesting and just ask them about it/them. Let them talk. Follow TRP basic approach advice, take it in small steps, just say hello to people and go from there. You are going to need to get uncomfortable to break through this, but baby steps.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 07:28 AM
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Thanks man - yes its just my turn.. I have been thinking that phrase quite a bit! Yes, she is a good plate, but I am conscious that her options are sky high..
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 07:22 AM
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Good question.. we had had a few drinks so she was not sober.. She just told me at the weekend that she had binned off someone who was interested in her.. But when she told me she used the words "stopped seeing". I think she had slept with this dude, but maybe brancj swung to me and was using this shit test to guage my level of interest. She said, playfully (?) last (I got a bit of limp dick) that maybe I shouldnt see anyone else before I see her again. I neither confirmed or denied..
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 07:20 AM
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She is definitely the hottest, but I pretty sure my others arent getting any other dick, they are quiet types. So its whether I am happy with a hot, fun girl who is getting potentially more thna oen other dick..
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 03:53 PM
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Great advice man! She definitely, feels like a cat.. when she is with me she is very attentive, but never blows my phone up when not.. if she says she is coming over she always does.. so in many ways a pleasure.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 03:52 PM
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She has already said that she didnt want a relationship right now and has binned another guy for being too serious. We are currenlty very good FWB's! So yes, I am playing it as you suggest. Its just I have another plate that wants to come round at the weekend, so not sure what to do..
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 02:50 PM
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Thanks, thats a good idea, I might test this next week.. leave her to contact me and see what happens..
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 02:48 PM
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Yes, and in contrast to the first comment.. So, she is covering her options.. Interestingly, I invited her to a upmarket event, but she cant come. She asked me if Iwas taking anyone to which I said No, as I am not. She said that I didnt need to lie and could tell her the truth, ro which I replied I know and left it as that.. Again, not sure if this was a shit test (that I passed, we had a good night!) or just her actually thinking that its Ok for me to bang other women..
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 02:47 PM
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Yeah this is my gut feeling..
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 02:44 PM
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I have a plate, who is hot, compliant and good to spend time with.. Also, she is a social butterfly and knows a lot of guys. She has said to me that she only sleeps with one man at a time, and at the moment thats me, and she has said without prompting that its Ok for me to sleep with other women. This sounds all well and good, and an ideal scenario, however, I have a lurking suspicion that by saying this, she is giving herself a "free pass" should anything "just happen" when she is out. What do …
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 01:51 PM
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Yeah and I love to systemise the shit out of everything.. Its worked for me (lights big fat cigar).
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 10:54 AM
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Thats what i am talking about! I know of so many men who retired, gave up, and were dead within a few years.. Theres been quite a lot of research on older people lifting and it really saves them from things like falls and trips, and keeps them stronger.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 08:18 AM
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You could add "own mental point of origin". Also, I personally would re-word "pro-conflict" as "pro-resolution" and in order to get to a resolution, sometimes conflict is necessary. In addition I would have something on planning and forms positive habits easily/quickly (linked to your first point)
/r/TheRedPill21/08/17 03:43 PM
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What the actual fuck... This sounds like utter PP horseshit.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/17 03:01 PM
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I respect the OP being Endorsed and all, however I am late 40's and lift 4 times a week, and have a great social life. And I believe; You are never out of the fight. If you take yourself out of the fight, you take yourself out of life, fuck that. I do not think about later years (I have planned for it), I am having too much fun now.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/17 01:37 PM
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I don't think men are biologically hard-wired to look for virginity. A preference for a virgin might be partly connected to proof of paternity. No dick means no strange sperm swilling around..
/r/TheRedPill21/08/17 10:41 AM
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your ego is your frame Nope, your ego (assuming we are using the same definition) works against your frame. Going beyond ego, gives you solid frame.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 08:13 AM
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Agreed. For me this is where Books like The Power of Now and understanding the Ego and the Self help massively. You come to realise that most of your thoughts are not your own, and actually "your" thoughts are not you, either. Once you get past this change and understanding what you really want in life is easier, and less painful.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 08:11 AM
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Too true.. I guess thats the denial/anger stage..
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 12:16 PM
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employ attract the worst kind of women I dont agree, arent we just attracting women? Some of those may be low quality, but thats life. I do agree that its much more fulfilling to have MLTR's or similar, but thats my own preference.. no moralising. Edit: You can be BP as fuck and attract a disgusting gold digging ho. At least with TRP forwarned is forarmed..
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 12:06 PM
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A timely reminder.. There seems to be a lot of moralising at the moment. On my recent FR comments included things like "she must be a slut then". This girl openly identified AF/BB as a shit test. So what? I passed the test by demonstrating I understood what she meant, not by giving her a TRP information download.. I kept to the First Rule. WTF is the problem with women who put out all of a sudden? How did the Modonna/Whore complex take root in TRP?
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 10:45 AM
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How do you mean? What could possibly go wrong..?
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 09:30 AM
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die alone We all die alone to one degree or another..
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 08:33 AM
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Not only is it free, some men will pay big!
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 08:32 AM
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What everyone else says.. plus, you have to realise you are going to fail sometimes, but thats OK, learn from it. There are plenty more hot women out there. As OP says, just say something, just approach.. I am no expert, but what I have learnt is that if you have the basics down, from personal feedback (I know that many contributors talk about this also), by just approaching, you will be thought of as above 95% of guys.. even if you arent her type, or whatever, you will impress her..
/r/TheRedPill14/08/17 08:36 AM
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You got it.. To paraphrase Rollo - For one person to achieve thier sexual strategy the other must compromise theirs.. I sure a shit ain't compromising mine..
/r/TheRedPill14/08/17 07:55 AM
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Agreed, its situational. I have escalated to fucking on a couple of first dates and been ghosted, and not for my performance, I should add! That said, I also think its a fine line,. Sometimes, if you dont close, you lose the opportunity. But then maybe it would not be worth it anyway.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 08:49 AM
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I dont need to give proof. If you want proof, you are on the wrong sub.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 08:45 AM
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you'll progress much faster with whatever you are trying to achieve if you're just honest. This. Once you learn to look at things (yourself) with an honest eye, you will find you improve much quicker (provided you put the work in) and it becomes a virtuous circle - you seek honesty becuase you know it will help you improve.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 07:45 AM
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No the list is not inherent in marraige, as you say, but its the system and society that we (the west) live in that makes marriage such a bad choice, for men. Using a qualifier like "on your terms" is like using NAWALT, in that its basically a redundant argument, becuase the conditions would be so rare.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 10:53 AM
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A nice alternative to the Escalate, Escalate, Escalate! Mantra.. I currently have a girl that I think might turn into a slow play.. seen her at the gym (shes an instructor) and coffee shop and we have chatted. There is definite interest, but she has said that she is "sort of seeing someone". So I will use your ideas here and see how I go!
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 09:59 AM
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It doesnt sound like you are taking the sort of action you seem to be espousing. In fact, James Damore has taken more direct action than you have. You are (just) applying TRP principles to the problem, which is fine, but thats all you are doing.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 08:46 AM
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Seriously? You need me to expand on this? OK.. Gynocentrism, always puts womens needs first Hypergamy - the woman is very rarely happy for long, and detonating a marriage makes her a hero Women are taught not to submit to a man and most want to lead the relationship (until they actually do) Punitive divorce and custody laws (in favour of women) Punitive Domestic Violence laws - the man is always the guilty party Dismissal of Prenups in many countries Hows that for a quick off the cuff?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 08:43 AM
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That is just running away, and solves nothing. So, what action are you taking messiah?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 07:53 AM
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but I would get married again in a heartbeat. Then you need to change your name to bluepillrobby, because you havent learnt a thing.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 07:43 AM
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if you win, you get to keep living I wouldnt even go this far.. I have been in a 10 year LTR with kids and it didnt feel like living to me..
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 07:41 AM
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What you should have said is "be present today but consider and plan for the future without anxiety." This I agree with, thats how I live my life and I am in my 40's. What you should have said is to never get married too young and never get married on someone else's terms. This I strongly disagree with. Marriage is never on your terms, as a man, because society wont let it be that way. Its too far gone.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 07:40 AM
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The feminist mind believes in "distribution", in other words, everyone "winning". So, if she isnt winning, then its "fair" that someone else pays so that she does win. Rather than put in the effort ie go to the gym/stop eating cake, she would rather convince everyone that the beauty standard is lower.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 03:30 PM
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I think you are being generous to her.. Plus she is very light skinned and in my experience, thats a guaranteed early encounter with the wall and a messy one at that.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 12:44 PM
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So you praise a man for doing what women do all the time? branch swinging Dude this is a forum about MENS sexual strategy, so yes, we praise him for getting out, hopefully lightly and moving onto something else hotter and younger - fair play to him! ScandinavianRedPill sounds like an Oxymoron to me.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 12:41 PM
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Hey Man I am in my 40's swo its always good to see posts by men of similar age. I hear what you are saying, and I guess i do evaluate similarly. With one big exception.. career. I have been with successful women, I am talking both corporate and entrepreneurs and corporate often leaves me cold. I would rather have a cute barista or bar staff any day of the week. Personality wise, she just has to be feminine and a good laugh, thats it. Also I would say, if you are in good shape, you can attract yo…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 08:51 AM
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Autonomy is perhaps God's greatest gift to human beings men To be a completely happy, self actualised man, you need to be independent or at least working towards it with soem Fuck You money behind you.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 07:58 AM
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Its been a long time since I did Algebra.. but I get what you are driving at. So, I think the level is 0.80. So for every 10 behaviours you might be able to get away with 2 that are considered (by the woman) as Beta. it could be too low for some women..
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 07:48 AM
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For hot young women, there is no Alpha - Beta spectrum./ You are Alpha or Beta, thats it. if you are Alpha they will fuck you now, if you are Beta, they may fuck you once they have assessd your worth to them, and dependant on thier stage in life. There is a Beta spectrum of Rich Beta provider (marraige) - none person (ignore). Thats all I got.. Edit: To clarify what I mean is there is no "Alpah with a side of Beta" This just makes you Beta on womens eyes.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 01:52 PM
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Not sure why people love boob jobs on women. Have you seen what having babies does to soem womens tits? I have, its a horror show.. I would much rather see artificial than saggy anyday..
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 01:27 PM
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I really enjoyed this post... and I want to believe..but... In Rollos new book, Positive masculinity, he argues that modern women won't believe in the "caring Alpha" Archetype.. they will rationalise you as Beta, because Alphas are so rare and Alpha Providers even rarer, they have no experiential point of reference. Where I think it can work, which I know you alluded to is the " I want to do this, come with me.." approach, but I think thats as far as you can go with it.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 09:22 AM
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Also fun way she put it. It's clear she was just very horny and the other guy didn't pan out. Yeah thats a good point, and I did have that at the back of my mind. Thsi could have been the reason she seemed to change right off the bat on the second date. Maybe she had higher hopes for the other guy and so held back on our first date. Thanks for the other points, really usueful. Its a numbers game, and we arent going to hit the nail with every girl, its just the way it is..
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 08:20 AM
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Yeah I get your point. I had thought of that as a possibility.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 08:17 AM
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Yeah I think that is the whole point of Ghosting.. if she comes back on your terms its a bonus. Otherwise, move on.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 08:16 AM
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Yes I am! I have smashed the first 2 books several times and am now reading the new one. Priceless!
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 12:48 PM
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Hey man. In my limited experience (as a TRP newbie) a restaurant dinner date is not a good thing to do. Its too formal, cost too much, and doesnt leave enough room for escalation.. On my second date in this FR, we went for a quick informal bite. I didnt book anything, so that I could time it at a point when kino and escalation had already taken place. And I waited until she said that she was hungry. We were in an out in half an hour and back to the bar. I dont think TRP is fucking with your mind…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 11:30 AM
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I drew the line saying how I felt disrespected for her not replying and she was being a little immature BITCH for the lack of communication. I thought she respected me THAT MUCH. I was wrong. Hey man. You caught oneitis and lost frame. Ghosting and waiting for VP to finish would be better. There's NO WAY any chick would choose a 50 year old white dude over me unless he has a shit ton of money. No offense to white dudes. None taken. But clearly it takes something to get to his position and while …
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 09:20 AM
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I have just started intermittent fasting, at the weekends (night to next day PM) and it has helped me bust through a plateau I had reached on my BF %. I have already cut out most carbs. The main benefit I have found so far (apart from fat loss), is I also feel less hungry come late morning, pre lunch in the week, so now dont do any snacks not even fruit pre lunch.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 08:44 AM
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I thought this experience was interesting because it went from "No kissng on first date" to her initiating a lot of Kino on the second followed by sex that night. I dont have all the answers and was hoping for some additional thoughts from the TRPers on it.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 08:25 AM
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Thanks for your comment man. it would have been good to have something of more value from you, as I am sure you have massive experience with women..
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 08:23 AM
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Thanks, thats all I was trying to achieve!
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 08:20 AM
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Keep reading and doing! It takes practice but works!
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 08:20 AM
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Thanks Man! I really appreciate your comment. I thought it was relevant and an entertaining example of a shit test.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 08:20 AM
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Thanks for your insightful comment! Yes, I am fairly new to TRP, so just trying to share my experience and learn some more on the way.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 08:19 AM
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Thanks for the comment. I know she has options that she (says she) doesnt pursue. I certainly believe she has options. But I take your point.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 08:17 AM
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Hey man, if you are young, TRP is gonna save you a lot of pain! I know..
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 08:15 AM
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Ha! A good plan, will give that a go..
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 08:14 AM
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Could be, maybe it was a shit test? Anyway, i am the prize, didnt read the sidebar?? ;-)
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 08:13 AM
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Thanks Brother! That was the point of my post. I am quite new to TRP, bit was trying to show newbies like me that it does work. I wont lie, game is my weakest area, so I am working on it!
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 08:13 AM
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Thanks man! I was wary of posting this, because I am quite new to TRP and expected the usual "meh, so what" from certain corners.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 08:12 AM
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Thanks for your positive contribute, its appreciated! Yes, I take on board your points, and I agree. Something for me to work on. Thanks Brother.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 08:10 AM
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Yes it is a good feeling, not gonna lie. A couple of commenters have said that i am just bragging, fuck them, its a good feeling. Why deny it? Keep up the good work brother!
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 08:08 AM
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Yeah its a good question. Someone has already commented that maybe it was just a shit test.. maybe because I didnt make a massive issue out of it, I passed?
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 08:06 AM
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Thanks for the feedback! Yeah I get what you are saying..
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 03:54 PM
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Pay attention, I did fuck her.. just didnt go into that as its not what i thought was the most important bit.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 03:53 PM
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I hear ya! I will say this, though, 3 years down the road from the split up, I am much happier now than i was. In better shape, business is good, always have a couple of women on the go..
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 02:42 PM
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Thats why God created sheep..
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 12:19 PM
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A great piece! I do loosely look to Bhuddist principles, but also the Tao Te Ching which had Yin/Yang at its heart. I like to have some nice things, but I balance those off against saving for the future/retirement/future income etc. I use nice things as rewards for building a stronger financial future and freedom. It makes me happiest (contentment) if I have both some short term (including travel) and long term in balance.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 11:38 AM
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it alienates you from your fellow man. I would add to this - It alienates you unless you learn to STFU about it. I learnt early on that many of my friends didnt want to hear about my (relative) success. So now I rarely talk about it, and becuase I dont live an extravagant lifestyle, it works just fine.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 11:21 AM
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Getting back with this girl sounds like a disaster waiting to happen. Your thinking is very Blue Pill, so would suggest you continue to read TRP, get out there and meet new women..
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 10:36 AM
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And for what? To get out there and "sew my oats" as my wife likes to say This is Blue Pill/femcentric thinking, shaming you, for having the timerity to want a good sex life. Your wife is attempting to shame you over your sex drive/want for more sex, and it sounds like its working. That said, as someone whose LTR with kids was detonated by my ex, I know why you are conflicted..
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 10:28 AM
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In my view, you can look out for obvious red flags, and also observe what stage of life they are at, but over and above that AWALT.. Hypergamy is as Hypergamy does..
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 03:04 PM
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Ha! Yes, the enemy is not just at the gates, but inside and helping himself..
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 12:57 PM
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That was my concern, but I have to say its pretty good. Yes, one reviewer said that, but to be fair, a lot of outlets jumped on it and saw it for what it was a piece of virtue signaling cuckery.. Go see it, no Americans (no direspect) in sight.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 12:46 PM
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I misplace mine (much less frequently) and she nags me for having ADD and refusing to address it and how difficult it makes her life. This is code. She is basically telling you that she wants you to be the one in control. She knows that she isnt. I feel for you brother, I had pretty much the same thing, but I didnt find TRP in time to save my LTR (with kids). Keep doing what you are doing, get to the gym and read..
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 03:13 PM
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Are you a woman? The United States is not an empire its a big ass country, which has a virtually bankrupt government.. Women are human capital? Women consume more in welfare than they contribute in tax revenue I do know that one of us knows nothing about economics, that is for sure..
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 02:04 PM
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Various commentators have said that Feminists went quiet after (particularly) WW1 and WW2. In the UK, we lost 850,000 men killed in WW1 and so young working age men were in short supply. This is classic supply and demand. Men could still be men and women needed them on the "old books" (The Rational Male) terms. On a side note watched Dinkirk last week, and fuck me did it make me proud to be English. Or at least what being English used to mean. Anyway, back to my frappamochacino... :-)
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 12:46 PM
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I think that feminism is justified. From an economical point of view it's a no brainer. WTF! All the great empires were built BEFORE feminism. Feminism can only happen in a world that MEN created. Cash is King? Tell that to the bankrupt western governments, bankrupted by massive wellfare bills..
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 11:34 AM
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This is a good one. Something I have been thinking about recently.. with all the TRP talk of leading and Captain/First Mate principles... but.. I think the longer you have any kind of relationship with a women, the more likely, she will pull the oppression/controlling card, its just inevitable in todays culture.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 11:30 AM
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Your mindset is good.. Us older men, have often learnt the hard way, and sometimes paid a high price for that knowledge.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 01:41 PM
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Isn't that how you make a choice? Actively making choices is not the same as blindly jumping into something, just to try it. You can't make an informed choice without gathering information and facts. I assume you are here on TRP to learn about sexual strategy, which includes marriage? And marriage is considered here to be a losing proposition. So, you might decide to get married (thats your CHOICE), but if you don't LEARN about the pros and cons, you will have no one but yourself to blame when t…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 01:39 PM
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Hey sugar tits, how are you? Nothing to hide, I just hate lycra wearing cycle fags.. they get in the way of my 4x4 ;-)
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 12:34 PM
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You are asking the wrong questions.. Instead, acknowledge this is where we are and ask yourself - What do I want from life? and How can I make the most of the current situation, for my own benefit?
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 12:24 PM
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Nice Post. Well structured, and I like the way you split out Abundance and Mission. I have a date tonight with an HB8 I "N closed" on Saturday, so its a nice reminder for me!
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 10:36 AM
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I was so disappointed with myself for being so blind. Don't beat yourself up, you didnt know better. But now you do, so move forward. Use this as a new beginning..
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 10:32 AM
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I have pretty much stopped foreplay.. maybe I will finger them when we are in the kitchen or whatever... But in bed, after biting thier nipples and neck I just part thier legs and stick it in, or maybe get they to suck my cock, They are either ready for it or become ready pretty quickly.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 08:41 AM
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Yes the Madonna/Whore Complex.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 07:29 AM
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Probably a runner, or a lycra clad bicycle homo.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 07:29 AM
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Ha! As you say, appearance is just one of the many things that leave this "man" in the beta servitude pile.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 07:28 AM
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The Good Girl persona, is often just that, the facade they put up for society which hides thier slutty behaviour from future beta providers for example.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 04:06 PM
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Holy shit. Raise your standards. Yes WTF this beta cuck is as limp as wet lettuce. He obviously does no excercise at all.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 11:52 AM
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Maybe TRP will be the new 50 Shades for these cock hungry women...?
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 11:05 AM
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Feminism is marxist ideology applied to the sexes I was about to type this! You are spot on. Beauty is to feminism what the rich are to Marxism. Both are hated and blamed by the respective idealogy. Both produce unequal outcomes (for the ugly and poor) that must be irradicated whatever the cost.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 10:51 AM
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I felt like shit after I ended it. Mostly because she made me feel like a bad person Good post, man. You have reminded me of what I do wrong generally, which is to "end" rather than Ghost. But also, I wonder if your technique is just another version of Unicorn Hunting/Hamstering? Your plates Con List probably describes 80% of women over 25..
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 08:34 AM
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This is great advice that I forget! I seem to want to "end" it with plates for various reasons, and then hit a dry spell and wish I had kept them on the back burner.. Must learn to do this.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 08:31 AM
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not worrying about STDs as you probably know her history pretty well Fuck me, you are trolling right? Know her history? That is some funny shit right there..
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 09:03 AM
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We need women more than they need us Jimmy Hendrix is singing Purple Haze, just for you..
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 09:02 AM
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Having access to unprotected sex on a regular basis improves my quality of life and that's all that matters. How long have you been in your LTR? How old is she?
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 08:55 AM
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Which is why I am always baffled by how many of you are in LTRs. Good Post, I agree. I should be LTR material, in the sense, I am in my 40's quite successful etc etc. But, and its a big but, I have been in LTR's, I have kids etc etc and right now, nothing and I mean nothing would convince me to get into a monogamous LTR. Fuck that. I would rather fuck 6's on my own terms, than be an an LTR with an 8/9. Been there done that.. at some point they all want more from you, its a grind.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 08:53 AM
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re read what I wrote.. I wasnt talking about what individual women want.. I was talking about society/feminism
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 08:41 AM
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Alphas are not needed, at this point in history. Society (women) want providers, worker drones for the feminist hive. be that directly (beta Husbands) or indirectly (state taxes, child support etc). The family is being killed off, so strong men aren't needed (society thinks).
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 07:43 AM
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I have a theory that listening to lots of podcasts is the quickest way to make you a compelling conversationalist. Not sure on this one. I think its great for picking up interesting facts, but actually having live conversations is best, IMO.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 08:24 AM
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As someone who is new to TRP this is great advice, I think and also takes the pressure off the newbie wanting to post to "contribute". I think it would make sense to have a block on posting (yes I am saying this as a newbie) for good period and or maybe a points threshold? I read a lot, but need to apply it more, so will hold off on posting any more for now!
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 08:22 AM
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So true. I have seen this shit time and time again with women doing whatever the fuck they like, for some grasp at "happiness". Men are definitely the romantics, be that women, children, country..
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 08:10 AM
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Wow, dude, you do a lot of moralizing don't you? You need to chill a bit. And accept women for what they are.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 12:56 PM
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I love this sort of shit! What is shows, sadly is, how women view children as an econimic resource, and when the resource doesnt worj for them, the repsonse is "kill it!" or throw it into the state foster system. Thats some cold shit.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 11:53 AM
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Most women today are fucking boring and worth nothing more than being handled as the vagina to masturbate in and the cum dumpster that they are. I love women, but I would say 98% of them have so little ambition or any depth, it still never ceases to amaze me. And yet they expect so much.. I like to play with them, then put them back in thier box and get on with real life..
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 10:53 AM
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Dude, stop complaining and hamstering YOU sound like a woman.. Get a piece on the side and keep this one as an open LTR.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 09:04 AM
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This is utter bullshit, as I have seen other guys my age who don’t look for validation from others, because they were raised with true father figures. I have empathy for you, as I had a similar father. However, I have to ask, are you just repeating your fathers own message? ie "I am a victim of society, its someone elses fault.." Your father blamed society, and now you atre blaming your father. You should invest in yourself by resolving this need to validate, be that through seeing a professiona…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 08:52 AM
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Well played sir! The game that gave you baseball (probably). You are welcome.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 07:42 AM
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I completely understand the points you have made, thanks. I had to Google "3 pointers" - I am from the UK. Now I know what they are, I would pay good money to see that...
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 01:45 PM
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The issues are more to do with those who are here to learn having some respect. Agreed. Selling a company for 7 figures certainly does add to one being alpha Agreed, it does add.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 01:39 PM
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Guys who are not employees, who own the business and employ others, for instance, have a completely different understanding of the workplace, personal finance, money versus time, risk versus reward, etc. This is a good point and actually, very relatable to TRP. As one of these guys, I do my best to help my employees improve, most don't, some do and some get stuck at a certain level. And some have to get fired. I can't afford to be too democratic, the businesses mission must take priority. I am s…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 11:10 AM
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And gentlemen, if you don’t think there are men out there who are thirsty, desperate, and willing to bang out a 38 year old 2 or 3 Yes, and these men exist at every level and I do mean every level. Money does not equal Alpha. A plate told me once, a guy spent £3,000 on her on a (night away), first date! I saw the pictures. Is spent £20 in the pub and that night she sucked my cock.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 10:24 AM
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Great post! A beautiful woman will wipe out all of our thoughts and emotions and replace them with her and only her. This is why most men sound stupid when they talk to beautiful women. They completely forgot who they are, what they like, what their boundaries are So fucking true. Approach is by far my weakest area of my whole life.. I will come back to this post again in the future.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 09:42 AM
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I agree that the sub would be best off kept edgy and hard, designed to make real alphas but what are we working with here? You cant make a stone house from dung. True! But also, in todays society, how far are most men away from Alpha? It could take years to build one, or rebiuld one, depending on how his life panned out. Maybe most will never get there, but they are here trying, thats worth something isnt it? As someone said maybe only 5% are Alpha, so should we cull 190,000 subscribers? Maybe I…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 08:34 AM
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The only thing that matters here is how convincingly you can make your point and how well you can back up your arguments. Agreed, and that should also mean that someone without a shiny badge can (politely) challenge someone with a shiny badge without being slapped down. Even if they are objectively wrong (we are here to learn), they still deserve a civilised reply.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 08:25 AM
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One more thing: do not talk shit to endorsed, senior endorsed and vanguards - chances of you being kicked out for trying to be an edgy fuckwit with these guys is about 99.9%. Can I respectfully request, therefore that the guys you mention, lead by example. Almost all do, but not all. If we truly want to make a valuable contribution to men, then the rules have to be observed by all, in my view.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 08:23 AM
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Check out Rational Male Preventative Medicine for the full ins and outs on this..
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 03:03 PM
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I am not sure I buy into her SMV plunging. I think its more disgust that this guy isn't the man she thought he was..
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 03:02 PM
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I have read it. That chapter on manipulation is epich! That should be sidebar content IMHO. Exactly what happened to me in my BP days.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 03:00 PM
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Life isn't random. Life looks random to those who dont get it. Shit happens to them, never for them. But its not bad luck, its bad planning and lack of action.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 09:55 AM
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15 years old difference is not that shocking Yeah if you look at Rollos SMV chart, a 45 year old man can have the same SMV as a 30 year old woman.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 08:27 AM
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Yes man, definitely worth expanding on, paritcularly linked to the womans life stages etc.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 08:25 AM
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Wait, you just lost your job? Or she betasized you.. A mans SMV plunges the more he concedes to her frame. Then her relative SMV (in her mind) is now higher, so she branch swings out.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 08:23 AM
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And in women's cases, it's what they can make themselves believe. We say, cultivate unreasonable confidence - this is exactly what women do!
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 08:20 AM
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And that's a line we all walk Yes, that is totally true. I agrre with you. I think its about the choices and balance we make so that we feel as free as we can. Or at least are working towards that freedom. I used the plough horse analogy because I think it is very fitting. If you think all men in the corporate arena have a choice, watch "Company Men" for a glimpse at how shackled you can feel with a big mortgage, kids, cars etc..
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 07:37 AM
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Yeah, agreed. Some women prefer a beast but most just want a fit man with low BF etc etc
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 07:34 AM
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Congratulating her - fucking funny, but so true. Women think staying at home and doing a mans washing, is the same as him working 6 days a week setting up his own business.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 07:29 AM
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True dat. I have had divorced women tell me how successful thier ex's are, like thye had some kind of input into that.. they still dvorced raped them mind you.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 07:28 AM
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I think its more upper class women HIDING thier need for alpha dick.. they theink they should be more "enlightened" than that..
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 04:27 PM
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Pet theory: women "feel" that they acquire the SMV of the man they associate with. Yes they think that the mans acheivements reflect on them, somehow. its weird.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 04:26 PM
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You are pretty much working your way through Maslows Hierachy... You arent poor, check. You have a standard of living, check. You feel belonging and able to do the things you want to, check. But.. you might find that after a while, this isnt enough, and you get stuck at the next level and it will be at that point you start to think "Is this it?". You may then start to feel like a slave. Its all levels..
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 09:55 AM
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Being a high value man means they find it hard to operate without you around, because the value you bring to the company is easily apparent. Think of it this way, a plough horse was a very high value asset to a farmer.. was the plough horse free? Did he have the most fulfilled life? No, he was valued based on his economic value to the farmer. Thinking you are high value and thinking you are free are not the same.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 09:11 AM
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Maybe it was his under arm hair..
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 12:55 PM
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the physiological signs of attraction and agitation are indistinguishable. Great post. Something along similar lines.. I have been in a couple of situations where in playful conversation, I will ask a woman if she trusts me (with a smile on my face). She smiles back and says "No".. and I have then gone on to fuck her.. I think this is similar, if she is agitated by you, she may not know why.. Any thoughts on this OP?
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 12:33 PM
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Felt really left out of a conversation today when out with friends because they talked about things i know NOTHING about Dude, its Ok not to know anything on a subject.. just ask them a question about it, and you are back in again..
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 12:13 PM
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Back in the day when I was a corporate rat, we had an HR department, who also employed a specialist company to help them keep up with the changing legislation - a whole department couldn't keep up!
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 11:56 AM
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HR works is divided into two main field. First, managing employees state of mind, conflict, culture, and work allocations. Second, protecting the corporation. WTF! HR departments do 2 things, yes, but they are; Protect the company from its employees Protect the company from the state, by seeming to care about its employees and enacting all the (mostly) useless feel good bullshit women asked for when they entered the workplace.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 11:53 AM
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This is a great example of why lifting only gets you so far.. I think deploying some Amused Mastery would have also worked well, in this scenario.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 09:40 AM
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Its worse! Its North Korea...
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 09:19 AM
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I am late 40's. What I see with a lot of younger guys is either peacocking or lots of nervous energy, deferring to the women they are with, even if its a group of friends. Older guys often have sorted all that out, and have richer personalities which is appealing to all sorts of women.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 09:51 AM
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One reason is as western society gets cultured to be fatter we stand out from our peers if we are still in descent shape. This dude. I am in my late 40's and I am in better shape tham most of my peers and to be honest if I see another fit guy my age, I take notice, becuase I knwo he has had to put the work in and be disciplined.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 09:40 AM
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despite her flirting with me even though she said she doesn't like me that way She is a crazy fucked up predator bitch from hell, stay away!
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 10:51 AM
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Red Flag 1 - I have fallen in love with one of my plates Red Flag 2 - She is a feminist Red Flag 3 - She is keen to give up her career once we have kids Red Flag 4 - but wants an equal partnership of decision making Red Flag 5 - Her partner count isn't ideal, 12 (including two women) at 27 Red Flag 6 - 27 Red Flag 7 - but only 3 of hers are from relationships Red Flag 8 - She won't relent on monogamy (Epiphany) Red Flag 9 - surrounded by many Alpha-men Red Flag 10 - but I am not willing to put i…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 09:53 AM
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But she wont when she wants to stop work to have kids.. then its all on you.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 09:46 AM
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I have a bit of Social Anxiety I was the same. But the fortress mentality will only make it worse. Force yourself out, go work in a coffee shop, hit the gym etc etc, be around people.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 07:27 AM
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As a late 40's man these stand out for me; As for your deepest desires that align with who you are, find a way to live them. This is being a man 101. And this; "Other people don’t have your interest in mind. Not even the people closest to you." Women, kids, family, business contacts all want something from you. And I would also add that, life doesnt end at 40 or 50. If you look after your health, keep in shape and build financial independence, it can be a new chapter with many possibilities.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 07:24 AM
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Yes, the legal definition of rape leaves no room for a male victim when a woman is involved.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 08:48 AM
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Or kidnap men and force them into marriage like they do in India..
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 08:45 AM
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Cutting at about 1% a month (1kg) and still pushing through personal bests. Added a new plate. Starting a new business venture as a compliment to my existing stuff.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 08:36 AM
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Hey I also had back problems, not as bad as you, but it made me super cautious with Deadlift and Squat. The best I have found for me, is Mark Rippetoe Starting Strength videos for these lifts. The set up on Deadlift and activating the glutes on the upward part of the squat has made a massive difference. I feel like I am using 20% less energy for the same weight. Hope that helps.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 08:24 AM
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she has almost died a couple of years ago because she suffered an episode brought on by self-neglect during a brief period of living alone Did you move back in after this episode? Do you think she wanted you to move back in before this episode?
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 11:34 AM
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Yes, this kinda happened to me.. but thats in the past.. the best revenge is living well!
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 11:33 AM
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Hey. Start by cutting out the obvious - chocolate, sweets, processed food, fruit juice, soda etc. Then cut out all simple carbs, and go from there. Once you see the benefits, it will come a lot easier.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 08:42 AM
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Hey Man. I see that you are English, and so there is help available for your mother. Harsh as it sounds, I agree with /u/Coach-Red-Pill. Life goes by in a blink and I believe that no one owes their parents this much of themselves or thier life. Forget Uni, you can get on in life without that. Just start a life for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 12:25 PM
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Marriage was a promise of a man not to abandon his wife and children even though the laws would not enforce any penalty if he decided to do it anyway. The irony today, is that BP men are still promising to stay with thier Unicorn, for ever, while she is thinking "This will do, for now. and if not, well, I will take his money/house/pension/kids and move on"
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 12:14 PM
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With men winning bread away from home and women socially unable to work for a living, women's traditional role was to stay at home and raise children. Hey man, thanks for your in depth reply. I get the idea of precedent, however, it seems, with regard to laws that help women or hinder men (further) the state and courts can move pretty quickly. If you look at how quickly gender laws have come into effect in canada and how things like wold whistling are now being included in sexual harrassement la…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 09:46 AM
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Sure, I get it. I was more relating this to what our esteemed leader said recently on "Building Power"; it occurs to me that the reactionary individualism embraced here may be just what the powers that be had intended when they dismantled the modern man. Our blind cooperation was our undoing, but it was our individualism that kept us weak. We can be individualist or we can help each other. If we are to help each other, it is the natural role of the Alpha to lead.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 07:58 AM
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What kind of gloves should I wear when I'm holding their cocks? Velvet? Satin? Sounds like you have a collection, so you pick.. whatever makes you feel good. The best way to figure out man's character is to step on them. Really? Is that all you have? Men who respond well to provocation are worthy of being elevated. And who decides who gets elevated? You?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 04:23 PM
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Sure, but I believe part of that includes who you are are, and part of who an Alpha is, is being a leader.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 04:16 PM
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I think that is a big reason for the complaints of bad content, because RP is still trying to be so accessible to everyone I will have to disagree with you on this one. I think it needs to continue to be accessible, however, I do see the points about poor content. But I do agree, there is a danger that TRP might be splintered as feminism is.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 01:06 PM
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While I appreciate anyone who takes the time to post, I have to disagree with this; And social media is an objective measure of SMV, whether you like it or not. Social media is in fact the exact opposite to me (I am in my 40's own business etc). It is purely subjective. I have come to TRP late, and yes did the whole BP thing. But now, why would I give a fuck about some one I went to school with who I havent seen for 20 years? I dont need that sort of validation, nor should anyone. However well i…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 10:07 AM
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The court is weighing the need to punish her against the best interests of the children. I'd argue that the best interests of the children often outweigh the social desire for punishing a woman via a prison sentence. This makes sense, but is still fucked up. You are basically saying that the courts favour women because its the less fucked up response. But, the courts helped create the single mother epedemic in the first place. So, men have to pay for the states mistakes and women get a pass?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 09:43 AM
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but in the middle we have to find a healthy pragmatism in how we will use this awareness to redefine ourselves This is how I want to live my life, in the centre of the extremes. I notice some TRP'ers saying things like "If you are Alpha as fuck, no bitch will ever leave you". That, if you understand TRP and women, is clearly horseshit.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 09:15 AM
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In my opinion, the real Alpha leads and elevates others, he doesn't need to step on them. Great comments. I think there is room for different styles, but surely TRP is about leading ALL men (who want to learn) to a better life, no matter where they start from?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 08:40 AM
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I would like to comment, as a fairly new subscriber. One who would like to be more active and contribute more to this community. I of course recognise that, my place in this community needs to earned, just like "real life". That said, my comments are; Yes, leaders have vision, thats why they rise to the top. But, how do you engage the rest? Is smacking down the answer, or is there a better way? The masses wont see the need for something, until they see the need for it. That can take time. Leader…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 08:20 AM
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probably 80% of the population is on autopilot Agreed. But dont compare yourself to them for too long, otherwise, you can get complacent and slide back into the bucket. Look up, not down..
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 02:16 PM
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My preferred height is 5' 8" in females. (rather tall by female standards) Me too.. give me a 5'8 girl in 4 inch heels.. man..
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 02:08 PM
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TL;DR - Pretend tough guy calls out other pretend tough guys on the internet, and looks like a dick.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 02:07 PM
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Hey Man, congrats on your physical and mental recovery. Let me say this, I am twice your age (but 6'1 lean 210lb) , and if you keep in shape it doesnt stop. I am getting more IOI's, guys apologising for moving in front of me. I was in the sauna the other day, talking to this girl and a guy walked in, were all chatting about working out, nutrition etc and he asked me my age. I told him and he blurted out "Fuck me!, it just shows you what you can do!"
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 11:43 AM
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Yes, of course, as we know the Anger Phase is a thing, so we all go through it to a greater or lesser degree. Of course, some guys do get stuck in it. Which I think is what you are taling about. For me, I wish I had known because I had massive amounts of dissonance to the point where it was making me doubt my own sanity. TRP helped me to move past anger.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 11:25 AM
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Easy there tiger! I am well aware. And I am in agreement with OP. TRP has also just added Building Power and Culture flares for the very reasons the OP is outlining. Of course i am aware that the Old Guard invented this place and I like to think I respect that.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 11:21 AM
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Let me explain - I meant Old Guard as in long standing TRP contributors, rather than older guys! I am in my 40's myself..
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 12:50 PM
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Many of the new guys coming here think that TRP is only about how to attract women, get laid etc. It seems to me that this applies more to some of the Old Guard.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 09:09 AM
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I would change this; money is there to be spend work for you. And I would say, be careful how you use generousity. This should mostly be for blood relations only.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 08:45 AM
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So the center is life is pleasing Mom the Feminine. Its this, thats the causes the wider BP indoctrination.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 08:37 AM
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Great post. As an older man, I can identify with these life lessons. The onlty amendement I would make is; Conditional Loyalty is Not a Character Flaw In other words, loyalty like respect should be two way and earned. For example "vagina" does not equal unconditional loyalty.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 08:34 AM
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No anger, just an acknowledgement that its there and an important element in the mix.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 08:31 AM
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Of course, i get that Hypergany is sensitive to the Mans SMV, however, lets not forget that his SMV could take a hit, due to say illness or job loss and hypergamy can then kick in..
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 08:30 AM
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using TRP principles is the ONLY WAY only you're going to do it. But, there are no guarantees.. Hypergamy doesn't care... that you are RP..
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 02:29 PM
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I think you need to do some reading..
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 08:43 AM
1

That is madness. And with most feminist initiatives, it hurt more people than it helped!
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 03:30 PM
3

The hair scuffle had triggered me It was supposed to. He was testing you..
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 08:55 AM
2

Great advice for the OP. There will always be a higher Alpha, and its the dickheads that loose frame and start something that show thier own neediness and ego.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 08:53 AM
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Worst of the bunch are the pseudo-philosophies where Marxism has married another disciple, prime example, Feminism/Gender Studies/Post-colonialism. So, like, The Left.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 08:40 AM
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True dat. And theres plenty more to come - see Evergreen College..
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 08:30 AM
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No worries. The main thing I will say, is that its no good just creating a pretty collage. Its much deeper than that. Its about thinking deeply about what you want from your life, your values and dreams. Its a long iterative process. The power comes not from pictures of a Ferrari or some such generic BS, it comes from the deep thinking and then verbalising these into values and then actions. It becomes a guiding mechansim for things you want to do and also dont want to do.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 11:39 AM
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Where do people even get these ideas from? Karl Marx.. the wanker.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 11:36 AM
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I'm near 30 years old and I haven't held a relationship that went over a year. I've had many women come and go, right now I'm just looking for someone that will stick around for the long run. Brother, dont worry about that shit. You can become a slave whenever you like, if thats what you chose. There will be plenty of post-wall hogs ready to strip you of your cash and freedom. Live the life of a free man. Its harder to do this at the start, but gets fucking awesome!
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 11:32 AM
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Life is so unfair! I have this statement on my vision board, because it is. The alternative in today's world seems to be Marxism.. Lets keep it as "unfair", its the fairest way..
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 10:27 AM
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I often see negative posts from men who were betrayed or used by a woman who come on here and write all women off as the same. Thats because all women have the POTENTIAL to act in predictable ways. Its not butt hurt, its TRP.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 10:09 AM
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I dont have any advice to offer. All I can do is wish you well, and give you my opinion. I think with these doubts, you have to get the test done, and which ever way it turns out, it will help you move forward. While I haven't gone through what you have, I can identify with not seeing your children and the pain that comes from that. You have found TRP, and you have a way to move your life forward - take it!
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 01:02 PM
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Women are manipulative and fluid. Beta males are rigid and literally minded. Yes, and women take advantage of BP mens rigid sense of honor and "doing the right thing", while keeping thier options open. When a BP man says "I do" he means for ever. When a women says "I do" she means for now.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 11:44 AM
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My point is, there are far too many cucks in here. You seem to have adopted the righteous anger of The Left. I don't think you have a point. Most men start off BP in some way, thats how society trains us. If you want TRP to grow, then that growth can only come from BP men, becoming RP, by definition.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 10:55 AM
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This actually may be the best illustration that modern human culture is centered around the female biological imperative. Yes, and as Feminism has expanded it's grip, more displays of male sexual intent become "outlawed" - Wolf Whistling. But of course, these are mostly contextual to the mans SMV.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 10:47 AM
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call a family meeting with EVERYONE. I admire what you are trying to do, but.. there is no family. its gone. Its now 2 families. You are not the master of this ship, she and the state are. I think you should think about who you are trying to do this for, is it for you or your son? I personally, have no need to try to put up a front with my ex. We dont argue and I never badmouth her to the kids, but I do not feel the need to shield them from the decisions that thier mum made.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 10:33 AM
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maybe it's confirmation bias No, its normal. Long term married women usually have some level of disgust for thier husbands. Those words don't mean anything to a married woman who's unhappy. Unhappy, is just the excuse.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 09:17 AM
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My opinion is this sub has a long way to go, and has reached a ceiling. I think this sub could move more to Actualisation, of which sexual strategy is a part.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 09:12 AM
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teaching women RedPill strategies to fuck betas in the asshole and Hypergamying the best alpha male. Sometimes, I don't know if you are being ironic. The female sexual unfulfillment you describe Don't we want women to sexually unfulfilled by 80% of men? it means we have more to go at..
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 09:09 AM
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Ask not for lighter weight, but broader shoulders. Yes, and the progressively heavier weight will give you those broader shoulders, until you seem, to the people around you to "have it all figured out"
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 08:49 AM
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You know when you have really made it when you no longer give a shit about pussy or money. It goes further than this I think. The less you need from anyone, by providing for yourself, the less needy you appear, the more people want to associate with you, its a virtuous circle. Offer appropriate value (not money), fulfil your own needs (money, interests etc) and you can then pick and choose how you spend your time and who with.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 08:47 AM
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Are you stupid? No. Women like sex more than men. More BP mythology, when relating to LTR's at any rate. I can just stick a plug in her butt without asking. Congratulations, you are a REAL man now.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 08:10 AM
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I am not sure I believe all MGTOW are uncompetitive. I think there are some (having listened to them) who think that the "sexual competition" is one they cant "win", on thier terms, so opt out of it (permanently/temporarily), but can still remain competitive in other areas ie business. Playing devils advocate, surely its better to keep to competitions you believe you have a chance of at least doing well in? Lets face it, most great achievements were made by men solely or with other men.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 12:53 PM
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but it doesn’t change the objective fact that even in spinning plates women eventually want to presume that a man is implying a more long term monogamy at some point. This is something, as fairly new to TRP I have struggled with. All of my plates so far have demanded more and most have fallen off. That said, from time to time, a couple of them come back. At the moment, I feel like a bit of a hybrid MGTOW. Big into persomal development, happy to spin plates, but if nothing doing - DGAF. Is the fe…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 10:24 AM
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My GF prefers to have sessions of roughly 2-3 minutes and multiple ones, and it doesn't work if I need 15 minutes to get off I think my sense of reality just took a turn.. 2-3 minutes?
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 09:55 AM
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doesn't mean that all women are like that Face..palm
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 09:48 AM
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Yes, i see what you mean. Whats the divorce rate in your country?
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 07:23 AM
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These 2 have only had the lightest touch with the wall.. I am in my late 40's (but 6'1 lean 210), so tend to do best in the 35+ age bracket. That said, I am going to venture into younger women. Its just opportunity.. Any advice? I lean towards Plates with a healthy chunk of MGTOW, done the whole LTR/kids thing..
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 03:49 PM
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Thanks man. I'll take the downvotes, I am not in it for the glory, just trying to make the world a better place.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 01:36 PM
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I spend 3 hours dressing up But I bet you sure look pretty..
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 09:25 AM
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Good post and a topic that isnt discussed much. My take on it is that if you are talking about money to a woman, she will interprete that as you positioning yourself as a provider, because you feel your SMV is lower than hers and so you need ot offer something in return for her time. I think, like a lot of things its a difference between subliminal messages ie the nice watch, car, clothes etc, and not using those things as a way to try to boost your SMV for that woman.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 09:19 AM
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“it’s wrong that they don’t value a man for who he is on the inside” Let's face it, we don't value a woman for who she is on the inside all that much either. As long as she isn't crazy, we are good.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 09:08 AM
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If a woman rejects you, it's not because of who you are, it's because what you are doesn't fit her current hypergamic needs. This. Recently, I have had 2 HB8 mid thirties women (no kids) flake and then reject me, after basically telling (and showing) me how attracted they are to me. The reason, I believe, is I told both that I had no intention of marrying (they both asked). I could almost see the dissonance playing out. They wanted to sleep with me, but knew that I wouldnt be a Provider for them…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 09:04 AM
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Great Post. As someone fairly new to TRP I see that many newbies, think of Alpha/Beta as Binary concepts, rather than a sliding scale of traits. Also these traits, I believe, can be contextual. I for one, am still guilty of displaying Beta traits more around a hot girl. Working on it..
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 12:59 PM
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Despite identifying as a "translesbian" What a cunt.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 12:36 PM
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The Blue Pill is strong in this one. In fact sex is better if you know the other person A BP myth to train Beta's if you know the other person has no STDs Women cheat as much, if not more than men, so you can never be 100% sure. because I like getting sex whenever I feel like it Ha! You have never been in a LONG TERM relationship then ie more than 3 years...
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 11:54 AM
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trying to develop principles that are authentic to my life Take a look at the book "The Chimp Paradox" there is a lot of great stuff in there about uncovering your true core values and how to intergate these into your life. I have done this and its freed my mind of Societies BS default values that in the BP we try to squeeze ourselves into.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 10:58 AM
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Great Post. I have seen people crumble under the weight of thier own bullshit - it always catches up. And when I was a BP beta, I felt the dissonance of not being who I truly am. Now living an independent life, I prefer to think of myself as "The Man in the Arena" rather than some Baddass. Its easier to carry..
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 08:24 AM
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Ha! If sex robots take off, governments will introduce a tax or registered ownership.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 12:54 PM
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17% body fat Thats generous of you.. try 25%-30%..
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 12:23 PM
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completely tip the scales against alpha men Womens phsycology is such that they cannot be lead, the cannot submit to an Alpha. They can act like they will, but as soon as it stops working for them, they are off..
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 12:20 PM
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Straight up tells me to my face, "I don't want to talk to you. She was thinking about all that hard muslim cock waiting for her back in Deutschland!
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 11:58 AM
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People constantly talking about going beyond motivation to "making working out a habit whether you enjoy it or not" doesn't make sense to me, because its too emotionally neutral, its as if they're leaving out some emotional component to their habit. You have fallen into the classic motivation vs habit trap. The trap is to assume that some greater emotional content acheived (by motivation) during some activity, lifting, for example, will give you better results over the long term. If you cultivat…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 10:00 AM
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I personally, dont beleive that status is the thing to be aiming for. We should be working towards personal power. And that is the freedom over how we spend our time. Time is the one limited resource. If you have the ability to choose how you spend your time, you have greater freedom than 90% of men.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 08:54 AM
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Imagine what it would be like listening to that conversation from someone else'e perspective. Good advice. Men have a habit of excusing womens behaviour, and so we ignore our gut.. and before long we become simpering Beta's.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 07:27 AM
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From Solitude and Leadership; Multitasking, in short, is not only not thinking, it impairs your ability to think. I have said this years, multitasking (apparently women are best at it, thats fucking funny) is a fools way of operating, instead this; Thinking means concentrating on one thing long enough to develop an idea about it. Not learning other people’s ideas... Great speech, I mean really great. Everyone should read this.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 10:46 AM
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If you aren’t able to come up with your own thoughts and ideas on your own, then you’re merely a vessel that’s spreading the ideas of another human being. Thinking for yourself and information overload is a challenge. I have overcome this by; Thinking deeply about the sort of life I want and my goals Disconnecting from ALL mainstream media Actively researching deeply on the topics that matter to me ie to achieve my goals
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 07:45 AM
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Aspiring alphas pay attention to this. Pay attention to this - get the fuck off social media. Full Stop. It's a Beta time-sink.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 12:01 PM
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This is how it is, but remember.. She is at her peak. Think about that.. You on the other hand, are not. Lift, read the sidebar, develop yourself, work hard and your time will come.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 11:41 AM
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Recently switched to more strength from cardio. This..maybe.. She sees you are looking better. She may have banged a lawyer once and is using this story to apply some Dread Game. Next her wrinkly ass.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 11:23 AM
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Hey brother. I cant classify you. But what I believe is you have a shit ton of defensive mechanisms at play here. You need to look at why. How do I know? Becuase I recognise some of them in my younger self.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 08:25 AM
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Yeah, they come out with all sorts of shit to justify thier behaviour.. all you can do is laugh..
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 01:07 PM
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Gates and Zuckerberg both droppped out of school. Yes, its the business equivalent of NAWALT. Just because you have one example, doesnt mean its the same for everyone. 2 is a big one. The Crowdfunding market in the UK will implode in the next 2 years, I believe as these over-valued and generic businesses continue to come crashing down.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 12:59 PM
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What the fuck do these bitches do, have a list of men and call the next on the list 17 seconds after a break up? Err.. yeah.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 09:55 AM
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I've also witnessed countless examples of hypergamy, shit testing, and general TRP theory throughout my entire life. For the last 15 years I have been dealing with ENORMOUS cognitive dissonance. I'm a very logical guy Same here. I am very logical and this created enormous stress for me in my BP phase LTR as she ramped up shit testing, Gas Lighting and other manipulations. But I also take in a lot and it didnt take me long to join the dots and see the matrix for what it is. My Ex is also still do…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 09:24 AM
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has been overdone in the millennial world I have been on the periphary of advising some millenials who have tried to start thier own business. All have failed because; They think that as the Social Media generation, they know it all, but basic business rules still apply if you want to make money. Easy access to Crowdfunding money (from crowds who dont know better) validates thier idea.. Encouraging them to crash and burn hard on the belief that there will always be another round (more suckers)
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 08:56 AM
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you can't save / educate someone Correct, we have all tried, at some point I am sure. The best we can do is live our lives as an example ie Lead. And if friends want to know more, point them in the right direction.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 08:49 AM
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Yes, these women arent inventing anything. They are usually entering a business with a product they understand (make up, pots and pans, whatever) and flogging it to thier social circle. So, entry risks are low as is the commitment needed (compared to a start up business).
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 08:46 AM
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If you are trully confident in yourself you can trully enjoy a feminine companion in your day to day life. Good post! I see you expanded on your cat analogy from that earlier relationship post. I love tigers, graceful, sleek, captivating.. but oh so cruel (by our standards). So not cruel, just doing their thing. Just like women.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 08:42 AM
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"why are you doing this to us?" "why are you doing this to us ME?"
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 08:34 AM
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You have done the right thing. Leaving aside whether an LTR is a good thing or not, once she has cheated, the Genie is out of the bottle. It will happen again at some point. Once you break through Oneitis, you will be stonger for it. What about me? This, that's all she was ever thinking about... herself.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 08:32 AM
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Good post. I note some of the comments below. Its difficult to talk about starting a business in a user friendly length. That said, I think the conversation around money, for younger TRPers, starts with reducing debt, living below your means and regular saving. All the things I never did! But I have quite a successful business so all those sins have been washed away. Looking back, these 3 things are the bedrock of good financial planning.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 07:43 AM
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Bro you should read carefully this post because it will teach you how to live with a woman if you want to do it one day. Been there my friend, and thats what brought me to TRP. Listen, its a lovely story, but it adds nothing to the TRP debate. Having been in LTR's, had kids gone throught he full female hypergamy/manipulation bullshit, I firmly believe AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 07:22 AM
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Hey Man. I am glad you had a positive experience with this LTR, however, I think you should prepare yourself for a future of AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 07:09 AM
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WTF! I had sick in my mouth reading this. Is this some weird BP fetish porn?
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 12:11 PM
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The antedote to all this is simple - be a man apart. Develop youir own ideas based on actually going out into the world and finding out for yourself. If you want to be top 5% or whatever, get used to this. If you want to one of 5 men out of 100, the maths tells you, that you are more likely right now, to be surrounded by the 95%.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 08:47 AM
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That being said, it's true that in 2017 judges often now favor women in divorce, especially when kids are involved. Often?! You mean in the vast majority of cases. "The pendulum has swung too far in the other direction" No shit.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 01:14 PM
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Good Post. Like you, I am a 40's business owner. Doing pretty well, but certainly not 0.1%. I prefer to balance my time, its a marathon not a sprint. In terms of showing your wealth, I would say no. This leads you back down the Beta Bucks road. I show just enough (I am by nature not materialistic), a nice watch, dress well, nice car. I live a life very similar to Black Dragon actually. I am in fact older than you, but look younger and am in good shape (6'1 lean 210) and I get interest from girls…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 08:59 AM
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Good Post. I think its a good post because it nicely demonstrates the dangers of Oneitis in an LTR. What I mean by this is that you think you have found a "Quality Woman" and so you relax your standard RP rules of operating. This allows her manipulation to have an effect on you, hence shame. I am in my 40's and after several LTR's (longest 10 years) and 2 kids, I am not sure if I will have a monogomous LTR again. The rewards are just too low.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 08:55 AM
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an overwhelming capacity for commiseration, emotional support, and compassion for our struggling fellow man. You fucking pussy. Just kidding, I agree with what you say, and I try to add my helpful 2p's worth where I can, however, many here believe that there is no room for that sort of emotion. I disagree.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 01:12 PM
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you walk away as if this dude just picked you out of the meat section. Maybe you were giving off a slutty vibe..
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 08:11 AM
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It would disgust me cause I'm not gay and don't want to fuck dudes. But given that in TRP we say that most men are invisible to women or not on womens radar, the result might be the same though. A good loking woman might feel disgusted if approached in a creepy way..
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 08:10 AM
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I would say 2 things to you. First, your Dad made the decision to end his own life. That's on him, not you. Second, you were only 13, you do not need to take responsibility for this. You need to forgive yourself and make sure, you dont repeat the cycle of depression and suicide. If necessary get help.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 08:44 AM
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I got full custody in the divorce Well I applaud you for stepping up and it sounds like you are doing a great job. You have won. You have your son with you and he will respect you for how you have handled things.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 08:13 AM
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and even then... And even then, assume she is thinking about it..
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 11:32 AM
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Women respect a man who has his shit together, but more importantly, you can respect yourself for being a man. And if she doesn't, fuck her, another will along soon..
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 08:46 AM
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So, just do your thing when you dont have your daughter. When i have my kids I am 100% with them, and the rest of the time I am 100% free. I very rarely talk about my kids to women unless I have gotten to know them. If your spinning plates, its none of her business. That said if they ask, I dont lie, but explain that I do have plenty fo free time. Its then up to them..
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 08:41 AM
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Yes, heard that line too.. its so used by women its a fucking cliche. But, yes once you hear those words, its done.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 08:38 AM
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This went on for a couple of months and I tried working it out to keep my family together. Same here.. Your story is my story.. But now my life is good, women are pretty abundant and my plans are moving forward.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 08:36 AM
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Don't do this. Agreed. Since my ex detonated our family, I have explained to my kids (without badmouthing her) that it was their mums decision and that i wanted to keep the family together. Otherwise the danger is, the kids will come to see you as the bad one. I have told my ex that she has to own that responsibility. Fat chance, but I am not going to be the fall guy..
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 08:33 AM
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Yes, and its also a sign that in her mind, she is already single. In other words, she cant stand any control over her by the man, because at that point its not his place.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 08:29 AM
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I was BP as fuck at one point and her gaslighting almost did me in. I know better now..
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 08:27 AM
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People (especially women) project onto others a fuck load..
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 08:26 AM
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Yes, and you may find at some point that banging chicks isn't enough and at that point you will seek out the next level of knowledge.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 08:24 AM
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I think its more about lack of vision and the ability to see that other ways are possible. And that if your goals (as a Normie) are very low level or non existent, you have no reward or drive for seeking out new information.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 08:23 AM
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I don't think pragmatism is or should be the preserve of the Normie. I am a pragmatist and I am super intelligient (cough). Pragmatism is surely at the heart of TRP?
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 04:22 PM
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hamsterd fucking hard and made me sound like a bad guy She was laying the ground work in her mind for a branch swing.. same thing happened to me..
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 02:33 PM
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You are also 100% correct, in your conclusion that i am 100% correct :-)
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 02:30 PM
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You put this under "Red Pill Example", so what are you doing to set an example? How are you leading the way? The SMP (excluding marraige/LTR with kids) is a free market and the market always decides.. Like consumers boycotting a company, men doing what works for them on an individual level will chnage things, I believe...
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 09:46 AM
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Great Post. Discipline > Motivation every time. Discipline breeds habit, habit breeds results. But how do you breed discipline and habit? By knowing and internalising your goals. Vision board it. So, when you need to re-establish discipline, you look at what you said you wanted from your life.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 08:25 AM
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Thats an interesting question.. maybe.. does Signma get talked about much on here? I havent seen miuch. Personally, I certainly identify with certain Sigma traits, but also have the physicality more associated with Alpha..
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 08:05 AM
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They're the discreet ones, who are secure within themselves. Silently confident. Unreactive. Unresponsive. Cool. Collected. Even-keeled. They're the ones you never see, and never hear. This.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 03:50 PM
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Sure, I could tell myself that I simply wasn't in the mode. I am approaching more, and actually I think its as much about habit ie making appraoch a habit. If like me you have spent x years not approaching, just being aware of approach opportunities takes some shift in mindset...
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 03:25 PM
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Re-read The Rational Male and The Way of the Superior Man Tweaked my diet for better fat loss Pushed through my PB on Bench and Barbell Row Approaching more Got a potential new plate
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 02:40 PM
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It's also very new for me to trust other people so much. Especially with my money. I hope this works well for you. I am not at the stage where I can put money into something as risky/illiquid as this, but I would like to do some angel investing at some point, but totally get the fear factor!
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 02:36 PM
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No, I am not saying I expect her not to like Alpha, but just make her aware of the biology.. still I have about 10 years to perfect my plan!
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 02:31 PM
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she's a really terrible kid, just a world wind of destruction. No kid is terrible, they just learn from those around them.... You have a responsibiity to ensure your child does OK, whether you stay with your girlfriend or not. But what you are feeling is what all men feel from time to time, the need to be free. That said, my ex left me and took the kids, and it was crushing, but I have carved a new life for myself, which includes my kids, so all is good, I am now free!
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 02:23 PM
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Yes, they all get bored. What they do next depends on thier own perception of thier SMV and/or other male attention.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 09:55 AM
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Sometimes she can't see that This. Women are not rational, they suffer from a grass is greener mentality.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 09:54 AM
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But for all other women (with not just red flags) it's the other way around. No its not, thats a Blue Pill trap. AWALT is AWALT for a reason. ALL women are CAPABLE of exibiting the same behavior.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 09:52 AM
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Great post and a question I have been thinking on as I have a young daughter. This is my off the cuff thoughts on this, at the appropriate age; I want to teach her about taking responsibility for her own actions, across the board I will explain to her the SMP and peak years I will explain that she will find Alphas attractive and why that is I will explain the dangers of multiple partners I will explain to her how she will feel in an LTR/marriage and that there are biological reasons for "falling…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 08:55 AM
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I will probably be in a similar position to you in the next 10 years.. not looking forward to that. I have my code, but should that include caring for someone who bestowed violence and manipulation on me when i was young? I dont think so..
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 08:37 AM
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"companionship" is Blue Pill thinking..
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 08:32 AM
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The word "reward" has to be linked (as you do) with "sacrifice".
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 08:30 AM
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Kids are great, but they come at a price, and wont make you happier per se. They are little hostages/cash generators for the woman..
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 08:29 AM
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the benefits of leaving you outweigh the benefits of staying This, especially when the state rewards her for leaving with cash and prizes... I suffered with this BP myth in the past and lived through the effect this myth can have on you, when she branch swings, I can say, its fucking painful. Divesting yourself of this myth now could save you a shit load of money, not to mention your sanity. Briffaults Law that way ------------------------>
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 10:43 AM
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I think its an interesting subject - the relationship a man has to his mum as he grows and becomes his own man. I think that mums love their sons conditionally (to some extent) and solipsism is rife. Part of BP conditioning is that we are supposed to love our and look after our parents no matter how controlling or manipulative they are - fuck that shit!
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 08:29 AM
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Can I ask, are you a full time single dad or does your daughter spend time with her mum?
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 08:13 AM
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Im new to this place so I'm not completely clued in yet on the abbreviations and slang Time to read the sidebar.. the more you read up on this stuff, the clearer it becomes.. Your eyes will hurt, but that's because you haven't used them before..!
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 12:30 PM
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Great post, however... "Assertiveness" is PC garbage." I dont agree with the above statement. I think Assertiveness and Aggression are different and are just tools to get a particular job done. After all we don't operate in a vacuum and must negotiate the world we live in. Aggression isnt always the better of the two.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 11:49 AM
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Hey fellow Uk person! I know many woman who would also like an average looking guy, stable life, mutal love and commitment and respect. - Beta Bucks And would work hard at it but they cant find this... Post Wall ex CC rider guys just want a few dates, a shag Or maybe the woman pushes/expects for more once she had granted access to her golden vagina? I think both genders can have an over inflated ego Maybe, but as a man, if you approach, the sexual market gives you a pretty hard lesson on where y…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 10:21 AM
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They are usually wasting their time working on things which are unproductive. Or the wrong kind of productive - output does not always equal value.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 03:04 PM
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all Muslims are like that Thats NAMALT, my friend.. oh wait... ;-)
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 12:31 PM
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Great post! I cant emphasize enough how great Vision Boarding has been for me. I spent a lot of time, soul searching for what I really wanted my life to look like and I distilled that onto a Vision Board. I also include goals and rewards and when I acheive them, I rotate them off and replace them with a new one. I have a number of statements about how I want to live my life. And if an opportunity coems along that I am not sure about, I refer to these and if it matches up with a statement, i do i…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 08:58 AM
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My life is good, thanks.. hows yours?
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 08:24 AM
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Looks like he bought into the Strong Independent Woman (TM) Yes, I think he might be in the wrong place..
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 04:01 PM
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Really? You are using that as an example of modern women.? Diiferent generation, my friend..
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 03:58 PM
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but there aren't many of those guys left Too true.. its shocking. Even at the gym, the number of soft, placid guys I see.. They have their own jobs. But they hate them, because, they have to use thier logical side and take responsibility.. poor things..
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 03:56 PM
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They never learned masculinity or how to be a man. Yes, coupled with womens inflated idea of thier own SMV and the bar is beyond a lot of men now, unitl a wall smashed slut knocks on his door..
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 02:37 PM
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No fault isn't the issue. In my view its the single biggest issue, because it gives women an immediate out, no questions.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 02:33 PM
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I believe the bigger cause is that women are more independent these days. No! The ride the CC and say they are more independent, cos it sounds good and all growd up.. until the wall looms... Then its time to find a "life partner" "Walking Wallet".
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 02:29 PM
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Welcome to the first day of the rest of your life! I swallowed the pill in my 40's, so you are way ahead of me, my friend... get to the sidebar..
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 12:00 PM
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A horrible situation for sure.. the best advice I think is, go see a lawyer..
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 03:45 PM
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It was from this moment I promised to always adore and support the women in my relationships. This. This is the damage that single mothers and mothers who turn thier sons against thier dads, do. The sons (I was one of them) develop a strong sense of "doing it right", but all this does is leaves them weak and open to female manipulation in LTR's and Marriages when "things aren't going right". Mothers have a lot to answer for...
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 01:08 PM
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Man, she was hot, taller than me in heels (I am 6'1).. Blood left my brain and flowed to my cock..
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 01:00 PM
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You didn't approach. You didn't try. You did nothing. You talk all bold on the forum, but you know deep down that you're a coward. Guilty as charged. Was in a pub, me and a mate got talking to this group of girls, one was perfect, 5,10, size 8/10 (UK) blonde.. she positioned herself next to me.. I froze.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 10:01 AM
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guy walking sheepishly behind his woman I see this shit all the time, couples, business colleagues (one man one woman) etc etc it makes me sick. Men have fallen very low..
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 09:57 AM
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I get what you are saying. I had a kind of BP anger, following the crash of my LTR and detonation of my family. TRP helped me to understand what had happened. So, yes there was anger, but it happened BEFORE TRP.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 08:49 AM
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Can TRP shape itself to be the best version of itself in its environment? The best version of itself is surely one that serves mens sexual strategy as effectvely as possible. Thats what is is right now, isnt it? With regard to anger - shaming anger is a feminist strategy (as Rollo recently posted on), don't do it!
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 08:43 AM
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but were it that she didn't come home tonight... I know someone who can help.. ;-)
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 08:22 AM
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"I worked too much" This was his gift to you. A moment of clarity that you can take forward. Self improvement and working hard - yes. But we shouldnt let our lives be ruled by these things to the detriment of a greater quality.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 08:20 AM
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she told you that No! She said that to pass responsibility into the OP. I my experence if a girl wants to fuck and you havent read the signs, she will make it more and more obvious.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 03:25 PM
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I am sorry to hear that, man. My sister died of cancer and I was there when she died, which I wont lie, was a comfort to me. However, what I would say to you, if its of some comfort, is that my sister was very sedated on diamorphine and so really didnt know what was going on. I dont think she knew we were there and so wouldn't have known if we werent..
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 02:44 PM
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angry resentful middle age men This is our safespace, and you are tiggering me right now.. you misandrist.. ;-)
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 11:11 AM
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Shouldn't TRP be about self improvement. Thats a big part of it last time I looked.. Its not simply all women ARE its all women HAVE THE CAPABILITY to be that way, AWALT is just shorthand..
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 11:08 AM
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They make best choice with information given at the time. Except with women, change information given for emotion hope she will have better life with him Or she ends up betasizing No2 and is back where she started..
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 08:11 AM
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I missed my unicorn when I was 23 years old. If this is the case, fair play to her. But all that glistens is not always gold. Detonation is just one Beta slip away..
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 08:08 AM
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I think he was trying to point out that some die with dignity, knowing that they've done well by their family. Yes, I get what you are saying here. I no longer live with my kids (AWALT) but I already have investments and a trust in place for them, and of course, I see them regularly. My hope is that when I go, I will have done right by them, but also had a fucking good life. You can do both.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 08:06 AM
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we all die alone. This. OP better get used to the idea..
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 11:31 AM
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I am one of my only family members who has not been divorced. . .for the simple fact that I never got married. You answered your own question. I am in my 40's and like you pass for younger. But I just cant see myself getting married ever! The risks are too great and more and more women in thier 50's and 60's are filing for divorce... dont do it!
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 11:29 AM
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She's clearly quite uncomfortable (almost jumping out of her skin as he ran his fingers over her back, actually).. His only crime was to do this as a beta. Thats the only thing that made her uncomfortable. so I stand up, grab our coats and angrily tell the group we are headed to the bar. This sounds like you lost frame here. Your plate sounds easily impressed. It all sounds like an over reaction to me.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 12:36 PM
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Don't get within arm's length unless you've already decided to fight. Arms length is still too close. I have walked backwards for like 20 yards to keep distance between me and an aggressor. It worked, he ran out of steam and walked off. Job done.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 11:51 AM
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I respect your thoughts as well as the fact the I may be wrong, but I've known this woman a long time. I hate to sound cliche but I know her pretty well. She's pretty cautious and modest. I am sorry, you are wrong. You do not know her under these conditions AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 11:15 AM
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The crazy thing is, she hasn't mentioned divorce. She wants to push you to the edge so that you initiate. This absolves her of responsibility and places the blame with you.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 10:46 AM
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I was in a similar situation - it didnt end well. realized I was the problem. Fixed things and got them under control but then lost focus and let them slip again. This mindset isnt helpful. You are only part of the problem, dont take more responsibility than you should. Having said that, work on yourself now, anyway. She's been gone 6 months She isn't coming back. She may already have branch swung out. The kids remain one of the biggest reasons I'm willing to stay Prepare yourself to not live wi…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 10:42 AM
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1 is wrong Yes, its what they believe (based on thier needs) is the best decision at the time for them. ie Women detonating a marriage and splitting their family up. It has nothing to do with the definitively best outcome.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 10:26 AM
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We've all tried it. Never works. Yep, been there. This guy will probably be dead in 10 years. By which time his girlfriend will have left him.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 10:08 AM
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It's even worse, Youtube is actively hiding MGTOW themed channels and videos if 'restricted' mode is enabled. Yes, while the "Trans" community complained that thier content was also being hidden in "restricted mode" and guess what, Youtube changed "restricted mode" so that this sort of content is no longer hidden (apparently, letting 5 year olds what trans content is fine) and apologized to them! The sad truth is Transgender is worth more than straight white men, but I think we already knew that…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 10:06 AM
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I would also add, don't listen to women when they compare you to another man, its pure manipulation.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 01:21 PM
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Nice post OP. I can relate to many of the examples you gave and also have seen the full effect of tingles on a woman (with me, of course!). Where I have felt the need to "game harder", I have pretty much lucked out every time. Other times, I have just sat there and had woman say things like "I want to touch you right now" That said, I think it pretty much boils down to her initial perception of your relative SMV's. So, self improvement is the key!
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 01:03 PM
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Girls under 23 love the fuck out of their boyfriend. Because most have no need of resources.. yet....
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 11:57 AM
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May as well be alone and be lean, strong, rich, and free to follow MY mission rather than serve others This. Womens programming is to betacize a man into working for her. Men are weaker in marriage and LTR's.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 11:52 AM
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Men and Women are capable of the same type of love They really aren't. I have experienced and witnessed the difference. Women can be good at disguising their real motivations as love, but sooner or later, the facade drops.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 11:50 AM
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I would second all of this and add; Make a Vision Board, even more powerful than writing stuff down Read The Chimp Paradox - It explains why we plan, but then dont act.. this guy coached the UK Olympic Cycling team.. nuff said.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 09:25 AM
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she just turned 28 and dumped me day after V-Day telling me the "relationship was going nowhere and that she wanted to be more serious Wall approaching and looking for a provider.. lucky escape.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 12:45 PM
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Dealing with issues of regret and feeling like a failure is very, very difficult right now for me. Been there and come through it. Forgive yourself first. The deck is/was stacked against you.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 12:40 PM
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My LTR feels this, daily. So you aren't married..
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 12:26 PM
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They decide that she'll stay home because the cost of daycare makes working uneconomical I will just amend this for you; SHE decides that SHE will stay at home because this is what she has been dreaming of since she was a little girl and NO MAN is going to get in the way of that dream There, all done, enjoy! But yes, i do believe that the kids should be looked after by a mother at home, the trouble is, it very rarely works out for the best..
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 10:34 AM
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Yeah, I go the idea from My Little Pony..
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 10:30 AM
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the hard reality of RP truths Embrace it and it becomes a blessing, not a curse..
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 01:46 PM
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You lucky bastard. What I wouldn't give to get My First Death Threat..
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 01:44 PM
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The anger phase (if thats what he went through) is not jsut about TRP is the BP lie we as men are told, before we get to TRP. You cant have one without the other.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 01:27 PM
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TL;DR: Treated a woman like shit and want some validation for it.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 01:24 PM
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Just a small point.. All women start of as virgins don't they? AWALT!! Your best strategy is to Aplha Widow them..and maybe, I said maybe she will stick around.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 11:43 AM
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Because OP mentions a lot of soccer players get divorce raped and I can't recall that happening. First off its Football Players.. just sayin'. Second just google "footballers divorce settlements"
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 11:39 AM
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well I have known women who took time off to be stay at home mothers, which is what the man wanted I think in most cases, it's what the woman wanted and the man went along with it, expecting relationship equity and getting none.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 11:19 AM
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I'm speaking more after a break up is final, a lot of women attempt to and usually succeed in removing a fathers previous involvement in their childrens lives as if the relationship isn't needed. Completely agree. My ex moved back to her home town and expected me to be happy with that. Your situation sounds worse than mine, for sure. Just do what you can, and in time the truth will come out.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 11:16 AM
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Thats shitty, luckily for me, for all my ex's faults, she hasnt tried any of this shit with me. I truly feel for you, hang in there and play the long game.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 11:13 AM
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As a beautiful woman, I never had that fear I would be left alone' It led me into doomed relationship after doomed relationship, a vicious cycle that lasted well into my 40s. Translated - I was a late developer so branch swang out of my marraige, then rode the CC in my 30's and then realised this won't last for ever (Epiphany).
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 03:30 PM
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First off, read the sidebar and start relating what you are reading to things you have experienced and seen, you will probably find that dots start joining together. that this sub is an angry loser's echo chamber You are talking about people who are invested in Blue Pill and do not have an open mind or a want to change. Read, learn, DECIDE FOR YOURSELF.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 11:42 AM
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I prefer to think of things in terms of formaing habits, rather than pure mastery.Habits develop consistency over time. So, I think, how can I make this a habit? Lets take lifting for example. I want solid gains over time so I; 1) Research - Find a plan, understand form etc 2) Plan - Decide how I am going to make this a habit ie days/times etc 3) Implement - Do it! Now you have a habit that brings you results over time. You can then do this with reading, meditation, learning a language etc.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 11:24 AM
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I'll provide as a disclaimer that I don't entirely approve of TRP, but that's more due to the fact that I have had poor experiences with men in the anger phase So, you disapprove of TRP because of some impact on you (solypsim), have you thought about why your brother went through the anger phase?
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 11:00 AM
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I believe this supports the notion that there are aspects of reality that are not as objective as we might believe. We all filter reality through our own lense of Ego/experience etc.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 10:21 AM
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I care about this girl I totally get this but remember; she sat me down and told me she wanted to get married This was the start of the female manipulation/betatization of you. Women do not care about men, in the same way we care about women. Once she had made a beta of you, she would branch swing out, never looking back.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 10:02 AM
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Deadbeat dads are mostly a myth to give women more power I would go a step further and say that the woman, will rationalise that you were a bad father and a poor husband and look for ways to confirm this in her mind. In my experience the manipulation and shit tests continue unless you put a stop to it.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 09:14 AM
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This isn't just me, there are so many great men, amazing fathers, obliterated from their children's lives, their children never allowed to reap all the positive benefits of having the love of a father. This is what happens when women get power (of the state). Like you, one of the hardest things I have had to come to terms with is that my ex would rather break up the family than "try". Of course this is Bluepill hamstering as we know, but you cant help but think about this shit.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 09:11 AM
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Biologically speaking, your entitled to have sex No, biologically speaking you are CAPABLE of having sex.. thats it. I believe I deserve the company attractive women, but I don't expect them to think that (initially), that's my job to convince them.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 12:19 PM
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Yes some good points. The 7 Twelve Portfolio is a great place to start understanding diversification and portfolio balancing. ALso contrarian investing (in ETF's) is worth trying. Buy when veryone else is selling, then hold. Rule No 1 - protect your capital.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 09:18 AM
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a bit of a stretch gold, pure gold..
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 11:36 AM
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It's not 100% reliable as far as women achieving orgasm. No, but for those women who can experience it, they fucking want it! I have been with 2 women over the last 6 months, who both were squirters and there is a technique with your figures that drives them wild. For women who dont come this way, it can actually be a mssive turn off to try, they find it too aggressive..
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 11:34 AM
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got any tips? Yeah, dont take a whack at it! Second, ignore tall stories of beginners luck. Invest for the medium and long term and diversify. Look at ETF's across various markets, unless you really have time to get into it. Once you have a solid base, by all means learn more and play around the edges with 5-10% of your portfolio. Its not a game, ego will kill you.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 10:48 AM
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Ha! Yes, her and the wall are about to get intimately aquainted..
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 08:35 AM
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Believe me, I have been there, but life can still be good..
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 08:33 AM
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TRP isn't about groupthink I agree and I would also like to add that we're all competitors here, against each other. You are not my friend.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 02:24 PM
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I apply a progressive lifting style to all my goals, because I know I can handle just a little more. Failure is growth Me too. I would say that failure isn't growth, moving through the failure (ie lifting more, taking action despite failure) is growth.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 02:21 PM
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Hey! I am new to this. How dare you downvote me. Watch out - my pussy bites back!
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 11:54 AM
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I thought it was because I am a special snowflake who deserves special treatment! Thanks for the technical explanation and keeping me grounded.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 11:53 AM
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Wife is a solid 8, college educated, makes 100k plus per year. We went on vacation last week and had sex 4 out of 7 days. Can I come and live with you? Sounds like you have it nailed, but of course the missing ingredient is kids. The balance would shift massively..
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 11:52 AM
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I'm mid 30s, divorced, no kids. Posts like these are invaluable. Thanks man, that means a lot. If I can help I man with my experience, its worth it.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 11:49 AM
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And it's always crazy to hear men talking about wanting to have kids at some point. Kids are great, but the risks men run and the sacrifices they make are enormous.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 11:49 AM
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This is a man who learned, well done. Thanks man! But what the fuck can you do about it? Not make the same mistake again.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 11:47 AM
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A lot of the destruction that you spoke of is also the man's fault Yes, but its like sheep. The sheep behind follows the sheep in front.. right onto the slaughter house truck.. Blue Pill conditioning supplies the necessary blindfold..
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 11:45 AM
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It looks like you joined to comment on my post, I am flattered - welcome! Thats right, I am a man, with male friends and so I believe the points I have made are valid and well thought through. See the reply below. With these studies, often Divorced men get folded in with Single (never married men) and these skew the results. Male suicide spikes for post divorce men. As Robin Williams said - Its like having your heart pulled out through your wallet Plus the Feminine Imperative and Blue Pill condi…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 11:43 AM
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Yes, Sharia Law is looking more appealing by the day. A womans word is worth half that of a man.. sounds good to me!
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 11:36 AM
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Society incites divorce, incites cheating, incites unloyalty. Only if you are a woman.. its liberation and finding yourself.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 11:35 AM
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Yes and its the men at the lower end that have the higher suicide rates post divorce.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 11:34 AM
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Yes, exactly, and thats why I included that information. Its a symptom of a mindset where the man puts himself last and believes the woman will love him for who he is, whatever..
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 11:33 AM
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Yes, I can see your point of view. I had kids later and am doing my best to stay in shape partly so I can enjoy my time with them. Stories like yours are why I wrote this post.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 11:31 AM
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I have a son, and I am already amassing books for him to read as he gets older, to arm him with what he needs.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 11:29 AM
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He must have authority over his family and treat them all as children. It's extreme responsibility and ownership. Yes, but even with this, society seeks to undermine this at every turn and would take a true Unicorn not to take advantage of this..
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 11:28 AM
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Me neither. And I know, I wasnt living up to my potential either.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 11:27 AM
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and to me exceedingly rare among people, despite the many years they spent together. Thanks for your comments and perspective, of course these relationships, do exist, but as you highlight yourself they are rare. And in my view, Hypergamy hangs like a sword suspended by a thread, waiting for the man to lose value.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 11:26 AM
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Look... marriage is a retirement plan for women. Hey man, thanks for your comments. I had a date with this gorgeous HB8. She questioned me ridiculously about marriage and stated "I am looking for a life partner.." with a "no quick sex" vibe, that told me all I needed to know.. NEXT! Thanks for referencing Black Dragons 12 steps. I agree should be sidebared.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 05:28 PM
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Thanks brother. The kicker is that she comes pre-loaded with 20+ years of indoctrination in terms of what she is entitled to and the Disney version, without taking any responsibility for it. Add to this solipsism and hypergamy and its almost just a matter of time.. But, as my post tries to point out, its the damage to the men, that is the saddest part.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 05:09 PM
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I don't think unpopular at all. Afterall, TRP is sexual strategy and part of that is how do you have kids (if you want them) in a fem-centric society?
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 02:16 PM
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Yes, the sweet irony of that womans comments..
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 02:14 PM
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I suspect that more and more famous men will be doing this.. Lots of shaming and "gay" comments. This comment was left by a woman; A total narcissist. Children deserve an intact home with two loving parents. This is all about him and that he wants to reproduce. No further comment needed...
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 10:54 AM
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I have just bought the book. I would urge anyone to start with the TED talk. Its a definitive lesson on how a man presents himself.. powerful stuff.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 12:13 PM
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because she can't be reckless in her dating choices This one. She is hamstering that her new found sensibleness increases her value, while completely ignoring the fact that the results of her past mistakes (multiple kids etc) actually significantly reduce her SMV.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 11:38 AM
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"people have never had it better" Sadly, the herd find value in being the victims, no matter how much better off they are than 100 years ago. It's clear form the responses that I've not worded this well but as I said above in another comment my original text wasn't postable and I had to scratch it and write all over again - tis a mess. Hey, at least you have posted something. I havent as yet.. I am working on it.. So, props to you for that.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 09:46 AM
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I have re-read your post and I appreciate what you are trying to say, but, that's not what I get from it. As to the question of hardship, that is a feminist red herring, up there with Patriachy. Life in the early 20th Century for the working class was much harder than it is today, male or female.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 05:30 PM
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Women volunteered as ambulance drivers and ferried the wounded back from battlefields through artillery barrages lacking even the scant cover from the trenches. Jesus, this sounds like another "women are the true victims of war" BS. Figures for World War 1; UK ServiceMEN deaths = approx 800,000 + UK ServiceWOMEN deaths = approx 650 (thats right no thousands)
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 05:13 PM
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Its just that your spuing onto the page and your Solypsistic argument makes you sound like a feminist.. just sayin' Plus displaying your friends pictures shows a massive lack of judgement I would normally associate with an 18 year old girl.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 03:40 PM
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Are you a man or a woman? I can't tell...
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 02:59 PM
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Validation, sex, money, fast cars, and good health, do bring happiness. If they do not bring you happiness, it's not the worlds desires that are wrong, it's your inability to enjoy them (for God knows what reason). My friend, you are part of the herd and are making the classic herd assumption on what happiness (stimulation) vs contentment actually means.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 01:10 PM
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Its nice to see posts that aren't just "Bro be Alpha or a fuckin' Bitch" To aid my work on positive masculinity I draw on: Diet and Exercise Stoicism/Buddhism/Meditation Mental Point of Origin (Rollo) Mission (vision boards) For me the biggest are Mission and Mental Point of Origin. I think these are the underpinnings and help us reduce those deep down Beta traits.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 12:49 PM
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You are going through what I think everyone who comes to TRP go through, and I dont think its a straight line. And as others have said, you are placing too much on the part women can/should play in your life. See them for what they are - a bit of fun. Setting goals is an interesting one. If you are struggling setting goals, it could mean you are ont he wrong path or maybe havent found the right path yet. meditation and introspection helps with this, I find.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 10:00 AM
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I think you are right.. and guess what I utterly failed it! We live and (hopefully) learn..
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 09:36 AM
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Hopefully I'm happily married to some banging chick with a few sons You've not read the sidebar have you? justifying why I'm only now getting my life together. Again, you completely missed the point of what I was saying. I sense, and thats OK, as you are 24, that you have no grounding, no firm hand on the tiller of your life. Believe me that takes time. In terms of what I have acheived, that is for me to know and I am not going to bite.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 09:22 AM
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A good way to compliment this perspective is to step back and take a serious look at where you are and where your life is. We have built up such a false concept of what life is that we stress over not having icing while ignoring the cake itself. Nicely said. Build the cake first, and appreciate it. Then go get some icing. But also, dont try to make the cake too big, leave some time and money on the table for the icing..
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 04:57 PM
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The whole POINT of swallowing the red pill for me is so that I DON'T wind up a sad old man without a family. Thats pretty Blue Pill thinking my friend. But, I do understand your point of view, I was 24 once. But life is a marathon. If you run it as a sprint, then a sprint is what you will get.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 04:06 PM
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I had a very similar conversation with a 40 year old PHD. She told me she had a 25 year old Royal Marine fuck buddy and either wanted another (chad) like him or a older rich sugar daddy to "pay for her time". She described me as "average" - I am 6 1 and a lean 210lbs, own my own business.. go figure..
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 02:46 PM
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*Hynotise - To capture the whole attention of (someone); fascinate" All media (except non fiction books) are designed to hypnotise the masses. being in a state of flow, when focussing on a task is completely different.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 12:06 PM
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Nice progress my friend, you are already ahead of 80% of your cohort.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 11:17 AM
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what we do in life echoes in eternity And in the meantime, unleash hell!
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 11:16 AM
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The ultimate corporation was the East India company. Its an interesting point. You could argue that the EIC was amoral and it was only interested in trade and profit, which, actually, could be a better way of cementing peace than looking at the world and good vs evil. Ironically amoral thinking = more peace, less "crusading"
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 11:14 AM
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In her mind it's some kind of miracle baby because of her age and symptoms of menopause that made her think she was infertile. I call bullshit on this one.. she knew what she was doing..
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 10:39 AM
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The good news is that becoming a better man – a Red Pill man – has no urgency or pressure associated with it. A nice take on the subject. We prize things that have taken time to perfect - art, wine, Whiskey, even (hand built) cars. So, why not ourselves? The sense of urgency is usually false, hamstered by our ego or some kind of external validation. As a late 40's man, I know I am now the man, I could only be right now.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 03:33 PM
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Getting fat.. pink hair.. looks like she is becoming a lesbian..
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 01:11 PM
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Abundance mentality, my friend.. But, I just couldnt square away the drop in SMV.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 05:14 PM
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"Yeah she may look good, but I bet she looked better at 21" Yes, I had a recent plate who is 40, a solid 7.5 ( I am late 40's) show me a picture of her when she was 20 and fuck me, she was a 9. All I kept thinking was why do I want her worst years.. I nexted her.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 03:41 PM
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do we get the trp discount for this coaching you speak of? Asking for a discount on a post about not being a cheap commodity.. pure gold!
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 03:36 PM
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Nice post, I am a big fan of minimalism.. still working on it. I believe that this goes hand in hand with many RP ideas, because it enables you to spend time on SMV improving activities, rather than consuming. That said this line made me giggle like a little girl - Gandhi throwing away an old T-shirt
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 01:32 PM
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Ignore the usual "Bro, dump that bitch" replies, but... Having been in a similar situation, yes, prepare yourself for her to branch swing out of your relationship. Buy this book now - "Practical Female Psychology: For the Practical Man" and go straight to the chapter on manipulation. Your wife has lost all respect for you. Start pushing back on requests that she can do herself ie grocery shopping etc If she says she is too tired to cook, be cool with it and make yourself something. Dont get aggr…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 11:58 AM
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It just took two failed marriages and three failed sons to get there. Her family life was a disaster and as the years go by it grows on her almost like a disease. Thank you for sharing your personal story. I could have been your dad.. my LTR left me and took our 2 kids, following an affair.. The line between coming through and falling into the abyss, is a fine one, made finer by years of BP conditioning. I have come through, but many don't. These men are our fallen comrades.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 05:21 PM
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Nice post, and some great points. As a late 40's man, the best advice I can give is "play the long game" and as Rollo says "Be your own mental point of origin". Marriage (and kids) will eat you up and spit you out fatter, poorer, and mentally weak. Excercise, read, eat well, stay out of the sun, work smart, and the pussy will still be there.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 10:19 AM
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How women managed to turn the definition of that word "Love" from "the uncontrollable and unconditional sexual passion of a woman for her Alpha" (or of a man for any hot woman) to "the contentment arising from fulfilling her need for long-term commitment of a Beta male resources, obtained through the exchange of sexual favors (or not)" is a testament to the incredible power of Female Manipulation working on a social scale. Nicely put. I think it goes back to societal Madonna/Whore Complex and we…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 04:52 PM
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Its a comfort test. She still likes you, but can't square away not being your top priority. Let her come round, be neutral.. you never know she might be back for more (if you want more).
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 03:47 PM
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Hey, I am not here to question your motives, which I am sure are wholesome. For me though, this is how feminism started. Everything you mentioned are things that everyone, male, female, black or white should be encouraged in. Some get of thier arses (UK) but many don't, thats life.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 09:41 AM
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If we are still in the anger phase, yes. After that, we expect it, its just what women do. Plan for it.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 09:36 AM
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You are correct, however, as an older and newish convert to TRP, I see that most men, coming from BP conditioning, will want to make women thier top priority, until they fully unplug and understand the Life Strategy component. Surely there is a place here, for thier education to begin...
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 04:20 PM
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"A girl I'm seeing is up on all the red pill vernacular. She knows what 'The Wall' is, she's aware of alpha fucks/beta bucks, and she knows feminism has destroyed this country." This is Bait and Switch.. She will be asking to move in with you soon.. don't say I didn't want you!
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 04:08 PM
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It's pretty remarkable for a female to accept a worldview like TRP, and it should be respected. What? AWALT - They are pretending to accept TRP for thier own gain. And again AWALT - Solipsism will always mean they fall short of really understanding the tentants of TRP and what they mean to the men that embrace them.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 04:05 PM
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Your a man It's "You're a man"..
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 03:22 PM
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I also believe in investing heavily in my people and push for any and all programs that advance us. Sounds like Feminsm to me.. but I am white, so maybe my opinion doesnt count... Martin and Malcolm were never fighting to make white people like us, we just wanted equal rights. They were "2nd Wave", everything after that is 3rd Wave, in my opinion..
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 01:01 PM
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Jesus.. Charge of the White Knight Brigade or what..?
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 09:47 AM
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So, he made a promise and broke it.. just like loads of women do.. I thought RP was amoral?
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 09:45 AM
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I would follow a clown into a battle if he is the only visible enemy of my enemy. Love that.. pure gold my friend, pure gold..
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 09:36 AM
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Apologies, I will be unable to attend this event due to a weekend of Rugby (6 Nations!), drinking and plate fucking..
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 11:35 AM
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Good Question.. If I was 20 and TRP existed then, I would have at least known what I was getting into, and understood female manipulation, shit tests and how to handle that within my frame, rather than existing in hers (as most men end up doing, due to Blue Pill conditioning). If you want kids, don't get married, just LTR on the basis that "shes not yours" and "Its your turn". Plan for that. Now, I believe in "relationships", of all sorts, platonic, sexual and otherwise, but on my terms - I unde…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 11:10 AM
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Agree.. I have own hair, can see my abs, and my own business, so I have lots of options. Just try not to think about the money going to my ex (who branch swang out of our LTR when I was at a weak point).. lesson learned.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 12:05 PM
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Society will eventually move to an advanced state of existence where both men and women are honest and loyal Yes, in about 10,000 years. But your points are well made, everyone dies alone, even surrounded by people.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 10:02 AM
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It destroys fathers financially and mentally, when the woman acts out on her Hypergamy, divorce rapes him and takes his kids away.. But of course, the process starts years before this as the role of fathers is required (to help the mother), but undervalued (by the society) or discarded (when she branch swings).. Sadly, I cant see the penddulum swinging back anytime soon.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 12:19 PM
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I am nearly 50 also.. Your story is a sobering reminder of AWALT.. no woman will ever carry a man, for even a short while, no matter what he has done for her.. Thanks for sharing..
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 10:13 AM
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Good post. I am in introvert and energy management is the key. As well as embracing the qualities that introverts have.. I would say that introvercy and "social shyness" arent the same, agree with the OP. Learn social skills, and manage your energy.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 09:25 AM
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I don't think misogyny has to be present to accomplish either of those goals. Calling a bitch out for being a bitch, is not Mysogyny.. you have bought into the Feminist Argument that prevents women being criticized.. and.. Romantic Love WTF! There is no such thing... you are still trapped in the Matrix, my friend...
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 03:37 PM
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I've never seen a dude lose motor functions during fucking, the way women do, so it's highly likely that it also feels better for them too. I get what you are saying here.. one of my plates is a multi orgasmic squirter.. she goes off into another world.. But, dude, cut out the pasta (with or without salt) otherwise you will never be 10% body fat, like me (cough)..
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 02:44 PM
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but it's likely she will leave him eventually for a guy she is less attracted to but can provide. Err.. yeah thats AF/BB.. Most "Chad" type guys marry shortly after college. No, they are BP then, arent they? Not Chad.. They committed to 1 woman before they reached thier (the mans) peak SMV.. I think you are defining Chad as a guy who scored big in school, rather than someone who has themselves as thier point of reference.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 01:05 PM
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Most alphas figure out how to deal with women on their own or very early in life. And your evidence for this is, where..?
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 12:23 PM
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I have a plate who is about a 3.5. Don't judge me Bravo.. I love that! I am a similar age to you, slightly older.. dont sell yourself short, 40's is a great age to be for a man. I couldnt fuck a 3.5, thats me..
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 12:14 PM
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It's guys like u that allowed women to become like they are now. By leaving them unchecked they go around fucking over one guy after the other. You are a virgin arent you..?
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 11:47 AM
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I began sucking everything up Brother, I was there. Your story is my story, bar a few details.. Don't beat yourself up. No one prepared you. No one told you the truth.. karma and history will treat her accordingly Err.. don't expect this. Sadly, she has already hamstered this one and told eveyone she can, about what you did wrong.. she is the strong one, who came through and got on with her life.. No one cares about the man, accept it, deal with it, move on.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 11:46 AM
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Fuck me.. this is one lazy bitch, will will drain you dry then toss you away.. GET OUT NOW!
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 09:42 AM
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Nice post.. I think Minimalism should be part of everymans way of life. on the way to some kind of financial independance. Men produce - women consume... Part mindful purchasing ie How will this product really enhance my life? Is there an alternative? And staying the fuck away from credit!
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 04:06 PM
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I'm a very shy person and when it comes down to it, when I take all of this redpill stoic alpha male bullshit away, I feel like I'm just too soft and too sensitive to socialise with others. I get hurt too easily, I can't handle people being nasty. I just wish everyone would be nicer to each other. Read The Power of Now. It talks about seperating yourself from your thoughts and how the ego can rule you. Honestly I believe everyone should read it, it will help.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 03:35 PM
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However on this past Christmas day she told me she wants to break up and live on her own to become independent and figure things out for herself. Its done. She has her eye on someone else... move on.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 09:44 AM
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A raging, hardcore, lunatic bitch. I want her to be loving 100% of the time, but she's not. AWALT You said that you were RP, but it sounds BP to me.. Dont stand for this shit. If she wants to talk to you, it has to be as an adult. She had no right to unload on you, just because you are there.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 09:41 AM
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Errr.. Just cos a guy is 6'5 and 250lb doesnt make him alpha cos he beat the shit out of someone, that means he lost frame... unless his life was threatened. The OP makes a fair point this guys looks alpha but is BP through and through..
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 09:34 AM
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Sure, that makes more sense. But isn't OP saying that sex is in fact thier only/main value? Or at least for most women, and that actually the value itself is pretty low, monetarily speaking if HB9 pussy only costs $200 a go? Of course, will quickly drain your account if you want this everyday. Thats the reason why women withhold, because they know its the only currency they have.. But, I agree with you (and from experience) withholding sex is a deal breaker for me too..
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 10:41 AM
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Assuming you fuck every day (personally, this is something I would hold out for...) Why? Are you a slave to pussy? You make some good points, its a complicated and fluid picture. The BP told us that once we had committed to our unicorn, all would be good. This post, reinforces the fact that this is not the case..
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 10:19 AM
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I think the idea of not giving a signle fuck is an extreme view to make a point. The question I would ask you (and ask yourself honestly) is why have you selected a certain woman, for an LTR above others? Deep down, it probably comes back to seom "value" you feel she gives.. If she makes you feel good, why? Dig deeper.. I think you can love women for who they really are but armed with RP truths, to help you..
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 10:07 AM
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My mothers a huge cunt Love that..
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 01:47 PM
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It's yet another time of the year when family comes together to enjoy consumerism/gifts that drive capitalism, the mythologies binding us in culture, and of course each others care-pretentious company. Fuck Christmas.. I dont have my kids this year (divorce rape survivor) so I am spending Christmas day on my own with a truckload of food and alcohol, and The Godfather Trilogy, but do not fear brethren I then have 4 days with an HB8 plate to see in the new year.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 01:46 PM
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I get the whole different brain thing, I agree with you on that. But, I dont buy into the idea that women naturally have a higher EQ. This may be the "wisdom" of Bluepill and feminists, based on a biased view that womens emotional intellegience is "better" than mens. Different but not better. If you believe that women bond over empathy, then you have never worked with a bunch of them!
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 04:28 PM
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Women have higher natural levels of Emotional Intelligence (EQ) and are encouraged to develop these skills over time leading to a huge void between Men and Women in EQ. I used to believe this when I was Bluepill.. now I just laugh when I see things like this. Theres a whiff of pedestalising here..IMO.. but the post does have some merit..
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 03:42 PM
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financially successful enough to afford nice things like escorts, travel, fancy cars, etc. Others emphasize peace of mind, minimalism, and an embrace of stoic philosophy, etc. Not dabbled with Escorts, but everything else should be a must for a RP man.. freedom, peace of mind, health, self sufficiency.. live life for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 10:18 AM
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Yes, that is destroyed.. my business was about the only thing I didnt lose, and I cant imagine what I would have done if I had.. If you have come back from that, you are one strong SOB...
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 11:59 AM
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Love reading this kind of stuff on TRP. We men need to take a broader view other than just our interaction with women. We need to look at how our own mind works for us and also against us, and how that develops our view of life. One word - Contrarian.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 02:36 PM
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I have kids, but was cheated on and divorce raped. While I wanted kids, when we had them, I felt constricted, undervalued.. a walking low sex ATM.. The dirty secret, I think is that a lot of guys can take it or leave, but dont say, because we are taught that everyone should want kids. Women are Dreamkillers, family and kids and supporting them all is hard. It will probably kill you, at least inside.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 03:28 PM
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Being Alpha does not mean no fear.. it means doing it anyway.. or not.. Dont follw TRP blindly as a solution to TBP. Take from it what you need and leave the rest. Go Monkmode, recharge, do what makes you happy.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 02:43 PM
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So if you've been with a woman 15 years since she was 25; she's now 40. But what you are forgetting, is that, the value she puts on herself, is usually higher than it really is, and all it takes is one thirsty guy who talk the talk and she is off.. or at least making your life hell.. been there..
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 03:53 PM
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Its a good story and people are missing the main message which is basically, take control of your life including how you make money. Its not about whether you have a job or a business its about do you have "fuck you" money? This puts you in control of your life and thats TRP... Read Rich Dad, Poor Dad for more on this idea. An old but good.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 12:40 PM
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A virtuous woman is a woman who wants you to see her as virtuous.. for all you know she rode the CC like a good 'un a few years before..
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 01:23 PM
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OK, I have thought about it. The divorce rate for first-time marriage is just short of 41%. Yes, and who woudl get into a car that they knew had a 41% chance of crashing everytime you drove it?!
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 01:21 PM
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No it's not. This entire forum is full of men living their life their own way, and not at the behest of women. If you can do that now, you can do that after you have a kid. Extrapolate. Maintaining frame with a woman who can walk away with your kids with AWALT, Hypergamy, Ginocentrism, is about the hardest thing there is.. women are experts at turning Alpha's into Beta's.. its in thier DNA.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 01:20 PM
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Life is good. Life is not perfect, but life is good. If a blue bolt from heaven struck me down now. . .no regrets. Copy that brother.. 49 also.. own business... cash is not a problem.. plates a spinning.. Actualise.. actualise.. actualise... getting to be a high value man and fuck does it feel good.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 09:47 AM
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I would recommend you google financial plan hierachy.. these can be equated to Maslow.. This will give you ideas on goals that can feed into your business and what you can then do with spare cash. I have done this and as a man who does not plan to live with anyone again, it gives me a feeling of achievement and foundation, takign care of myself and my own shit..
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 01:50 PM
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His job as the man of the relationship is to make sure his woman is feeling secure (within the confines of dread) This is pure Feminazi bullshit.. Nothing, I repeat nothing warrants doing what she did. You sound liek someone who has never been in a LTR, its fucking hard graft..
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 09:37 AM
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He even told me that he wouldn't mind living a married lifestyle--minus actually being legally married. Kids, a house, growing old together, the whole nine. Yes RP men might still wish for this, but they know it almost never works and enslaves him to the womans sexual strategy, supported by society and the courts.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/16 03:42 PM
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I am a guy who is quite new to TRP and wanted to have a look atr what you ladies are talking about, so Hi (be nice please).. The first thing I would say is that I feel for the OP. The RP truth is that Marraige is a shitty deal for men, they risk the loss of money, property and kids in a female centric system that virtually always favours the woman. Feminism has ruined the relationship between men and women and as more men are burned and turn to TRP, more women like you will suffer. I understand …
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/16 03:33 PM
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I am big into this; 1) I dont watch TV (only films/Box sets) 2) I dont read or watch the news 3) I meditate and read.. a lot 4) I never use my phone unless its to speak to someone or get directions Try these things; 1) Turn off all media and read IN SILENCE 2) Go for a coffee, turn your phone off and just sit.. watch how fucking mad people are 3) Cook a meal in silence
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 02:19 PM
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Listen, its good to review what you did "wrong", but digest TRP.. I now look back and can see how much of "female nature" and her shit, was rationalised as my faults by my ex. You did the best you could, learn, move on and be better for yourself.. life is good my friend! But its up to you.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 02:04 PM
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What it doesn't say is that she is the waves and every single rock will get broken by the waves. All it takes is time. Aint that the truth.. I reckon maybe 5% of the male population can withstand this shit.. over the years it wears you down.. its the womans biology and thousands of years of evolution..
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 12:01 PM
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Lately I miss the feeling that being faithful, nursing them when they are sick, giving back rubs, etc leads to a fairy tale romantic relationship. Stop, just stop.. you know they never really appreciate that shit over time... Spin a plate.. guarantee you will feel better.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 10:01 AM
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A solid plan, my friend, however, i would counter that with "No plan survives contact with the enemy"..
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 09:45 AM
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I would say, as a man whose partner cheated on him, digest RP truths, look after yourself and basically know you did the best you could with what you knew at the time.. Live your life for yourself, get in shape, get a plan for your future and know that you will get through this.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 09:40 AM
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Thanks Brother.. The thing is I can now predict that she will rinse and repeat with this guy.. or at least make him very unhappy..
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 08:59 AM
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Your story is my story.. But.. I am actualizing like fuck, have a number of plates, my business is going from strength to strength and I can see my abs again. Meanwhile, my ex shacked up with her affair and guess what, she is pregnant.. at 40..
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 05:13 PM
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