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| 3 | My Humble Guide on how to Have a Conversation with a Girl (or anyone for the matter)Appreciate it | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/22 03:10 PM |
| 7 | My Humble Guide on how to Have a Conversation with a Girl (or anyone for the matter)This is how I speak to fucking morons being on subs they're not supposed to be on in the first place. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/22 12:36 PM |
| 5 | My Humble Guide on how to Have a Conversation with a Girl (or anyone for the matter)I'm not being an asshole. Let me.show you what being an asshole looks like: go fuck yourself. If you're not dyslexic, then you're too self-centred and too brain-dead to think. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/22 12:29 PM |
| 5 | My Humble Guide on how to Have a Conversation with a Girl (or anyone for the matter)You are fucking dyslexic, aren't you? Which part of "the last part was about women" you don't get? Jesus fuck, get a grip. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/22 12:20 PM |
| 12 | My Humble Guide on how to Have a Conversation with a Girl (or anyone for the matter)Lol Jesus fucking Christ, this is not even about getting laid you dyslexic fuck, it's more like a little guide for introverts to get out of their bubbles and learn how to converse. The part that concerns women and building attraction is the last part, the other three (which are the bulk of the essay in case you missed it) concern how to converse in general. You always find a way to make things revolve around you, don't you? This is not about you. You're not the main character on here. Please hop… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/22 11:29 AM |
| 3 | My Humble Guide on how to Have a Conversation with a Girl (or anyone for the matter)100%. But just like any skill in life, you need to learn the basics first and make them a second nature and once you've mastered them, then you can freestyle. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/22 09:46 AM |
| 12 | My Humble Guide on how to Have a Conversation with a Girl (or anyone for the matter)Thank you. I'm glad you found it useful! Many people on here think having a conversation is easy to do, but for us introverts (or people who spent a great part of their lives secluded and not interacting so much with other people) it can be hard. My conversation skills growing up were pretty damn basic. Like questions of doom through and through and overly agreeable and nice. So I had to actively learn how to converse and I reached a pretty good level of doing it before the pandemic broke. After… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/22 12:40 AM |
| 24 | My Humble Guide on how to Have a Conversation with a Girl (or anyone for the matter)lol okay that made me chuckle a little also that was your takeaway from the +3000 words essay i wrote? xd | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/22 12:30 AM |
| 21 | My Humble Guide on how to Have a Conversation with a Girl (or anyone for the matter)What an actual fucking moron. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/22 08:03 PM |
| 13 | My Humble Guide on how to Have a Conversation with a Girl (or anyone for the matter)Bro I read halfway through your comment and my cringe meter exploded | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/22 05:47 PM |
| 28 | My Humble Guide on how to Have a Conversation with a Girl (or anyone for the matter)I tried daygame, but to be honest, it's just not for me. I learnt all the stuff mentioned above from daygamers and PUA guys, posts on here and such, but I just find daygame a bit foced/not so genuine. It definitely is not my style and I don't see myself doing it. I usually meet girls in social events (barbecue, hikes, night social gatherings types of events...etc), and it is during these events that I manage to have a more meaningful conversation because usually there is something in common to t… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/22 11:46 AM |
| -2 | The red pill of job hunting, a recruiter's perspectiveI agree that some aspects of HR is bullshit, all that corporate company values, culture and the rest of the crap is really cringe sometimes. But what can you do? They're the gatekeepers of the corporate world if you consider the recruitment aspect of it, and they're the entity in the company that holds the organisation together, because some well established HR department not only do they recruit people but also give you the benefits and privileges of cafeteria, discounted gyms, holidays and suc… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/22 06:36 PM |
| -7 | The red pill of job hunting, a recruiter's perspectiveObviously you're sad and no matter what I say, you'll just keep acting like a cunt contributing absolutely no value whatsoever. Get fucked. You may fuck off when you're done. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/22 04:34 PM |
| 6 | The red pill of job hunting, a recruiter's perspectiveValid concern. I admit I wasn't clear enough on the matter. I explained it to the other comment anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/22 04:30 PM |
| -13 | The red pill of job hunting, a recruiter's perspectiveWhere in the fuck did you see me advertising myself as a coach? What's wrong with your reading comprehension? Time to go back to primary school. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/22 04:30 PM |
| 3 | The red pill of job hunting, a recruiter's perspectiveI was applying to get into HR positions since forever. Landed a job in recruitment 6 months ago and the above post is what I learnt as a recruiter. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/22 04:29 PM |
| 17 | I'm so grateful I know about TRP in my early twenties, it helped avoiding a lot of bs from girls and discern the crazy from the decentHahah those tall bitchy types I usually don't engage with because they're not my type and don't interest me, but I'm the type of guy that when you disrespect or annoy the slightest, he'll lock in on you and annoy you for the rest of the night. There was an American girl in our group and obviously being in eastern Europe she's getting a lot of attention from guys. Our relationship started out friendly and I keep noticing her shit tests and her little games that obviously worked on other men; well… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/22 07:04 AM |
| 2 | Getting disrespect from some girlsWhen people treat you like shit, treat them like shit too, be an asshole and put them in their places. Especially girls. Their self-esteem is so fragile that some savage jokes here and there and they could be crying in a corner. I remember in a party once a girl asked me if I wanted some wine, I said yes, she fetched the bottle from the kitchen and then poured me some, we drank it and had fun then she handed me the empty cup and said, "Go get me some wine from the kitchen". I was like, "Do I loo… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/22 02:59 AM |
| 2 | FDS, and by extension, TRP, is a cult that traps you into alt-right thinking patterns. That's the thought terminating cliche they use to couch learning critical thinking skills.I haven't surfed this sub in a long time since it got quarantined and asktrp was moved to the website, it's become less accessible, but I'd lie if I said that the principles I learnt here are not helping me go through life. My dating life is still TRP-based, sometimes I'd deviate from it but then reality slaps me the fuck back, and my overall view on women and how they work is still trp and it's wild how true that shit is and how predictable it can be. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/22 01:55 PM |
| 3 | Girl established rampant IOIs with boyfriend right next to herYeah man sounds weird af. If I were in your shoes, I'd have started acting beta and make her get the fuck away from me asap. She's not good news. I once had a situation happening to me like this. I straight ignored her and kept talking to the boyfriend. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/21 04:08 PM |
| 1 | 1 Approach a DayThanks for the advice man. I really appreciate the time you took. I did a cod approach yesterday, it went to shit real fast, but I'll do another today and see how it goes. Thanks again. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/21 01:01 PM |
| 0 | 1 Approach a DayLol and you sound very fucking punchable | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/21 05:17 PM |
| -1 | 1 Approach a DayListen man, before the pandemic hit and my social life went to shit, I used to approach and talk to girls in daytime both on the streets and in the university. I also used to get laid often, not to mention being extremely creative and active with a lot of things. I don't want to blame the pandemic for the failure that I've become, but it did mess me up on levels you can't begin to understand because you don't know what I went through and how I survived that shit. I am not on here bitching and wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/21 03:21 PM |
| 5 | 1 Approach a DayBro it's like telling a guy who hasn't lifted for a year that he's a pussy cuz he can't even bench 40kg. Talking to girls on the streets seems easy, but for the common person and in our society, it's highly unusual. To break through that mindset requires a lot of work, as you can see by so many accounts of people who made it. And just like lifting, it's a habit that you'll want to pick, and also just like lifting, and like you said, you must DESPERATELY WANT to get good at it in order to invest … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/21 11:10 AM |
| 15 | 1 Approach a DayBro I wanna join you but I'm feeling anxious just reading and thinking about it fuck The pandemic fucked ms up real good. I haven't talked to girls in a long time and my game has become rusty, also gained weight | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/21 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Power Hypertrophy Adapt Training (PHAT): a short guide for beginners/intermediatesGlad to hear it worked for you man. I haven't put a lot of muscle to be fair. I'm still kinda chubby. I currently weigh 86kg, and I'm 176cm. Been doing the program for about 3 months, I'm advancing well in the numbers department, but my looks I look overweight, which I don't really mind as long as I'm building muscle (which I am). My arms, chest and back have developed, my size on the whole doubled, I'm gonna do it for more 2-3 months then I'm gonna start cutting. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/21 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Power Hypertrophy Adapt Training (PHAT): a short guide for beginners/intermediatesOkay so you're gonna keep spamming shit now? What a loser | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/21 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Power Hypertrophy Adapt Training (PHAT): a short guide for beginners/intermediatesRemindMe! One Year, "No need to wait for 3 years" | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/21 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Power Hypertrophy Adapt Training (PHAT): a short guide for beginners/intermediatesJesus fucking Christ. Don't add another comment, my eyes are bleeding. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/21 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Power Hypertrophy Adapt Training (PHAT): a short guide for beginners/intermediatesFirst of all, come up with something more provocative that "Stop fooling yourself", you're sounding repetitive. Second of all, what the fuck does this have to do with Norton? Who gives a fuck what the guy eats and drinks? And are you seriously criticizing a professional athlete and what he has accomplished? What you did is called Ad hominem, where you criticise the speaker/person instead of talking of his ideas. I mean, as far as I'm concerned, he's a much more credible and sensible source of in… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/21 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Power Hypertrophy Adapt Training (PHAT): a short guide for beginners/intermediatesStop fooling yourself by believing you will become like Layne Norton by doing his workout and eating like he does. I never said that. And if achieving a muscular Chad-looking ripped body is your end-goal, I sincerely feel sorry for you. I'm hitting the gym to stay active and get fit. To not feel sore and tired after carrying some heavy weight for a few hours. I do not give a flying fuck how I look (to a certain extent) and you're wrong, to achieve a good body you need to stay in the game for mor… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/21 10:05 AM |
| 2 | Power Hypertrophy Adapt Training (PHAT): a short guide for beginners/intermediatesyou must be on the phone, scroll the table to the left | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/21 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Power Hypertrophy Adapt Training (PHAT): a short guide for beginners/intermediatesIf I didn't think as hard about it, I would be bench pressing 10 times a week bro :D | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/21 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Power Hypertrophy Adapt Training (PHAT): a short guide for beginners/intermediatesThank you for the clarification. I agree that training to failure is a key factor in hypertrophy. It is incorporated in the program I outlined above in the progression rule that I came up with (pretty sure other people have thought of it before) that you need to hit the ranges described in the program in order for you to advance weights. from my personal experience, at some point, some weights will feel "okayish" but past 50% of the reps in a set, you start feeling that failure pain, and you fin… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/21 02:08 PM |
| 3 | Power Hypertrophy Adapt Training (PHAT): a short guide for beginners/intermediatesNo need for people to get dogmatic and talk about their programs like they are fitness gurus Facts. People keep talking about GS LP program as the holy grail of bodybuilding for beginners, I thought it was shit and it didn't work for me. This one however worked like a charm and I am immensely enjoying it. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/21 01:32 PM |
| -5 | Power Hypertrophy Adapt Training (PHAT): a short guide for beginners/intermediatesAs much as I want to agree with you on this, I just can't man. EVERYTHING NEEDS TO BE MEASURED, EVEN YOUR REST PERIODS. I rest exactly 1 minutes and 30 seconds on hypotrophy days, and 2 minutes and 48 seconds (yes forty-eight) on powerlifting days. Doing things "inside your head" or the way "you feel" will take you paths you don't wanna be in. Just my opinion, though. Follow your guts with bitches, not when working out. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/21 01:19 PM |
| 1 | I am living in a good apartment (location, money and convenience-wise) but the landlord and my gay sexually-frustrated complex flatmate have one rule and one rule only: NO GIRLSTbh I'm kinda at a loss. Same... Bro, he only brought his boyfriend a few times since we moved in a year ago. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 03:56 PM |
| 1 | I am living in a good apartment (location, money and convenience-wise) but the landlord and my gay sexually-frustrated complex flatmate have one rule and one rule only: NO GIRLSTechnically you are right... but I really have nowhere else to post this and hear some authentic advice, you know? | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 03:54 PM |
| 1 | I am living in a good apartment (location, money and convenience-wise) but the landlord and my gay sexually-frustrated complex flatmate have one rule and one rule only: NO GIRLSNo, I am in eastern europe :D | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 03:53 PM |
| 1 | I am living in a good apartment (location, money and convenience-wise) but the landlord and my gay sexually-frustrated complex flatmate have one rule and one rule only: NO GIRLSThis is a ridiculous question and rule zero I just looked up rule zero: You are a man who wants to improve your own control over your life, mostly your sex life. Asking how to find a way to convince my gay flatmate to bring multiple girls a week isn't considered as trying to improve my control over my sex life? It is not ridiculous mate as I really don't know what to do next. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 03:49 PM |
| 1 | I am living in a good apartment (location, money and convenience-wise) but the landlord and my gay sexually-frustrated complex flatmate have one rule and one rule only: NO GIRLSHe is not religious. He was raped in the past, and he was bullied for being gay, so his whole psychological stability is fucked. What kind of deal would you want to strike if you were in my shoes? | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 03:46 PM |
| 1 | I am living in a good apartment (location, money and convenience-wise) but the landlord and my gay sexually-frustrated complex flatmate have one rule and one rule only: NO GIRLSThe previous roommate did what he wanted to do, and ended up being evicted losing his deposit money. He moved in with his girlfriend, but that financial hit is something I wouldn't recover from if I was him. But granted, he went too far. The girl was practically living with us at some point (staying 3-5 nights consecutively) and it became ridiculous. I told him I am fine with it as long as it is 2-3 nights max per week. But he went too far. This guy is asking me to only bring girls on the weeken… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 03:44 PM |
| 1 | I am living in a good apartment (location, money and convenience-wise) but the landlord and my gay sexually-frustrated complex flatmate have one rule and one rule only: NO GIRLSit wasn't written in the contract, my bad, he said it after the third flatmate who left started bringing his girl many times a week and the gay mate started complaining. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 03:33 PM |
| 2 | I am living in a good apartment (location, money and convenience-wise) but the landlord and my gay sexually-frustrated complex flatmate have one rule and one rule only: NO GIRLSFucking shoot me in the head if I knew. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 03:29 PM |
| 8 | Have you ever slept with a girl who claimed to be a lesbian?having girls as friends is always a good thing, especially the ones with boyfriends and so on, so yes i might as well keep her as a friend, but i do have the feeling that she is somehow down to fuck, but we will see | /r/askTRP | 16/06/21 07:15 PM |
| 2 | I've been happily single most my life, but at age 25 being single suddenly feels lonely and unusual.Hey, I'm 25 years old, and same as you, I've only had 1 girlfriend, and I literally had 8 one night stands (I just counted them lol). I haven't had sex in a year since the pandemic hit, and I haven't met girls in a while. However, unlike you bro, I don't feel as bad. You know why? Because I genuinely don't give a fuck. Why do you wonder? Because girls are not my priority, let alone having a girlfriend... My relationship was alright, but it was the furthest from being fun. I'm becoming busier and… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 04:08 PM |
| 1 | When do you comply and say FU to your employer?Man these fuckers are just dumb af and I just straight up hate dumb people. Easy as that. Like regarding that meeting, at 10am I requested she reschedules it to 12:30 until 13:00 because that's when my shift ends. And she never answered. So I stayed until 13:30 and informed her that I couldn't join the meeting due to the app not being accessible from the office (lol to figure). I told my jerk team leader about this and asked him to ask her to call me on my phone. I could've called her, but he ch… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 07:28 AM |
| 2 | When do you comply and say FU to your employer?Exactly what I was thinking. I can't tolerate bullshit. I'm usually a very courteous and respectful guy in professional places and official places. I expect people to treat me with the same amount of respect. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 11:55 PM |
| 77 | Extremely fucked up situation with roommate. Advice needed.Yeah that's messed up. I'd have done the same as you. I had a similar situation before where after gaming the girl and going through the trouble of bringing her home, she says she's on her period. I actually found it fucking hilarious and told her she should've told me earlier on. She said she didn't expect things to escalate so quickly xD and she didn't want to let me go so, she ended up giving me a head, we spent the night together and bid her farewell the next day. We met and smashed a couple… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 09:50 AM |
| 1 | How would you have handled this?Bro I wish I could put to words how little I cared about those girls. I legit never noticed them in class. They never existed in my world until now. I knew my girlfriend talks to some girls in class, but I never knew who because I really don't care. You could be right. She said that I'm making a mistake by believing them and not believing her who swears she only talked about that time when I soft nexted her after she canceled on a date on the last minute (fun fact, she never did that again thenc… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 09:23 AM |
| 1 | How would you have handled this?As I said, what I found disturbing in all of this is that they said I treated my girlfriend like shit. In other words, the fact that they said I'm rude doesn't really matter to me because I don't care. But I do care that my girlfriend is not maintaining the level secrecy I have and expect from her. And honestly, I really can't forgive her... We have already had a fight about it. And I still can't calm down. For me the relationship feels like it's over. Because until now I really still can't forg… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to not opt for a career in your mid twenties?No sir, I come from a middle class family that's making average money in a year. I am by no means a rich person. I was raised in something very close to poverty actually, poverty as in skipping breakfast and meals, not getting pocket money, buying secondhand clothes and practically everything. I think I was fortunate enough to be in a country where education is free. However, my life changed when i signed up for a scholarship to study in Europe, and they paid for everything, health insurance, st… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to not opt for a career in your mid twenties?Okay man looking forward to your reply. But as u/vandaalen so cruelly commented above with a cold tone, in western society men finish their studies, find a job, and then waste their lives away doing that, they get even deeper in shit when they start a family. Then they are literally enslaved to provide for the family and get no pleasure out of life whatsoever. Besides the weekend and the 1 month vacation they get from work that they carefully take for holidays somewhere, they really get no time … | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Is it a bad idea to not opt for a career in your mid twenties?At the moment, yes, in the future during my studies, fuck to the fucking yes. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Is it a bad idea to not opt for a career in your mid twenties?In your 20s and early 30s most people have the most energy in life. You need to tap into that Agreed 100%. I'm concerned that I'll waste that energy and valuable time into shit that I don't really like doing. I can barely stand studying, let alone working full-time. I'm not exhausted, you kind of misunderstood me there. You can say I'm still unprepared for it psychologically. I just see people who've followed the same plan you've outlined in your comment: finish studying 27ish, start working ear… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to not opt for a career in your mid twenties?That sounds like a viable plan to me too, but I'm not a person who can handle 48 hours of work a week. I might sound like a pussy but I really can't digest the idea of a 9 to 5 job and the question behind this post is: is it a good idea to postpone it as long as possible by continuing studying? You see, my master's will still be there after I finish with my PhD. The PhD will be completely unrelated to HR, but I'll get a good sum of monthly stipend off of it and a shitload of time I can fill with… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to not opt for a career in your mid twenties?Oh, I'm under a scholarship program, everything is paid for. I'm out here in Europe by the way, so there could be a different perspective on how things exactly work. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 12:46 PM |
| 5 | Is it a bad idea to not opt for a career in your mid twenties?Okay so you're saying that switching careers in late twenties- early thirties can work, right? | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 11:18 AM |
| 1 | My mom had a sudden jump in her SMV, and just recently she's been cooking a divorce after 26 years of marriage. I hate her guts for it and I don't know how to deal with the situation.I don't know about not interfering in their marriage, man. At least I am entitled to have an opinion on the matter, and I'm of the opinion that she fucked up miserably and the consequences on the family and especially my father are quite big to handle. As I mentioned in the edit, I'm gonna ask her to not torture him financially (I didn't know that she could have alimony and stuff) and to have the child support divided 50/50 and not all on my father. I'm gonna pull the nuclear and threaten to ful… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/21 06:32 PM |
| 8 | My mom had a sudden jump in her SMV, and just recently she's been cooking a divorce after 26 years of marriage. I hate her guts for it and I don't know how to deal with the situation..... The thing is, there's never been any major relationship issues between the both of them. There was some typical work stress from my father's side which made him act a bit distant at home, but not full-on abandoning or whatever. He didn't take drugs either. Neither of them ever cheated or threatened to divorce before. They're also sweet to each other. Like he never hit her or called her names and they usually always reconcile after fights and return back to normal. And fights usually include… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/21 08:41 AM |
| 2 | My girlfriend initiated contact with a guy from her past we met in a wedding. I didn't approve of this and might have taken it too far.Yes then I went home and cried myself to sleep :( like I need some emotional support bro :'( | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 09:16 PM |
| 2 | My girlfriend initiated contact with a guy from her past we met in a wedding. I didn't approve of this and might have taken it too far.You guys got it all twisted Jesus. I'm chill with her having male orbitors because of the said mindset. I'm just not cool with her hugging friends from her past she has history with. It is that easy. I'm not intimidated the guy either. He can have her for all I care. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 08:31 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend initiated contact with a guy from her past we met in a wedding. I didn't approve of this and might have taken it too far.Bro I never mate guard women lol, I'm okay with her having male friends and as I mentioned in the post, she hugged just about everybody at the wedding and it's all good for me, but the hug with the guy in question looked a bit suspicious in my opinion. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 05:43 PM |
| 2 | My girlfriend initiated contact with a guy from her past we met in a wedding. I didn't approve of this and might have taken it too far.Ouch | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 02:12 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend initiated contact with a guy from her past we met in a wedding. I didn't approve of this and might have taken it too far.Oh shit sorry I was the one saying I'm done talking | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 02:11 PM |
| 2 | My girlfriend initiated contact with a guy from her past we met in a wedding. I didn't approve of this and might have taken it too far.Honestly I've also found it disrespectful to speak with a person from your past you're not on good terms with, be it a friend an ex or a coworker. The fact she didn't give me any heads-up when we first saw him validates that smth sketchy is going on. I'm just hear the community's thoughts on my nexting and whether it was effective or not and also want to know whether ending things is the right thing or not. I'm still not convinced j need to end it but I really don't know dude. Hence my posting. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 02:07 PM |
| 7 | My girlfriend initiated contact with a guy from her past we met in a wedding. I didn't approve of this and might have taken it too far.Bro one thing I learnt from dating is to always follow your haunch and gut feelings, even if they are extreme. I'm sure hadn't the mutual friend said to not hold grudges and be friends again, she wouldn't have mentioned the fight and the story behind them. Because she introduced him to me as "A friend from college". Call me paranoid, but I smell some lingering feelings and j seriously don't see the point in speaking to a "fRiEnD" you're not on good terms with. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 01:59 PM |
| 1 | What is it about the stoic vibe that women like so much?I have a question. Being stoic means not getting angry AT ALL? I've been practicing this lately, and I've been trying to stay calm in situation I used to flip in. But one situation still makes me pissed is people making fun of my name. I have an Arabic name and I live in Europe. Every time I say my name people go like "Huh? One more time?" Then proceed to make some joke. Needless to say, I cringe my way out of the conversation when that happens almost immediately. Because I'm simply sick and tir… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/20 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls love playing hard to get even after fucking them?I find hard to get games cringe at this point in my life to be honest, whenever a girl starts doing her shit I just eject | /r/askTRP | 03/12/20 01:16 AM |
| 5 | Posting pictures with my girlfriend on social mediaDon't post it, because in the chance you guys break up you'll have to pathetically go back and delete the photo | /r/askTRP | 12/11/20 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Don't be yourself.This nails it. Good read. It's something I've been experiencing lately. Since the pandemic started I gained around 10kgs and to tell you the truth, it sucks. My physique now looks like shut and we're back to square one. The thing is, I've been overweighed my entire life. I was around 92kgs and it sucked dicks. I'm basically invisible to everyone everywhere and whatever I do is never taken seriously simply because I looked like shit. 2 years ago I went on a lazy keto diet and it basically involve… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/20 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here tried losing weight by eating less than 500 kcal a day and exercising 3/4 times a week?Well I am miserable :) | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Plate disrespecting my dick. How to deal without looking insecure?Once a plate said that my dick wasn't enough for her. I buffered for a second then I destroyed her, "Huh, I've only been getting positive feedback about it this far. Maybe your vagina is just too wide?" She said, "Hahaha no way" I said, "But it's true, and since we're on the topic, I don't feel the same friction as I did with other girls. So maybe you're just not tight enough" "Hahaha, okay, whatever" she replied and she never brought it up again. However, I'd tease her every once in a while and… | /r/askTRP | 21/10/20 07:55 PM |
| 7 | My flatmate goes full on AMOG asshole mode around girls and it pisses me offThank you uncle vasya for the help. He just got home, invited him for a cigarette and we chatted like usual. And then all calmly reminded him of an incident that happened today where he was acting trash and told him to take it down a notch when around people, highlighting what I said in the post, that I think he's a different person around girls, his jokes become more personal and offensive and so on. And finished with politely asking him to watch his mouth and keep the jokes to a minimum and be… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/20 11:33 PM |
| 2 | My flatmate goes full on AMOG asshole mode around girls and it pisses me offMan that's the thing. I go back and forth for some time but he's relentless, seriously. I'm all for jokingly embarrassing someone, I do it for fun sometimes and in healthy doses, but his issue is that he does it religiously. Eventually it cringes the life out of me and I completely ignore everything he says and proceed talking about whatever it is we were talking about before he intervened. Did I mention that he cuts everyone off all the time as well? This I countered by simply not stopping when… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/20 10:45 PM |
| 4 | Guys come at my table while I was with my girlfriend, how should've I reacted?Jesus fuck what dickheads man. Just avoid taking your girl to bars and nightclubs really. It's full of horny scumbags all over. Unless yall with a group it's completely unnecessary to be there. I once took my girlfriend to a nightclub, worst idea ever. She was immediately approached by 2 guys, one from Switzerland the other from France and they were flexing their rolexes. My girlfriend was interested in knowing some places to visit when she's in Zurich and later Paris, but they were flirting so … | /r/askTRP | 07/10/20 02:43 AM |
| 2 | Am I orbiting? Or is she regarding me as a high value man? I'm not sure and I don't want to make a move lest I'll get me too'd.I'm okay with 1, down to 3 and I think definitely not 2 | /r/askTRP | 07/10/20 02:23 AM |
| 3 | What are some small habits that you implemented in your life and had positive long-term effects?Drinking coffee was one of the habits that fucked up my sleep cycle. I quit drinking it a week ago and falling asleep has never been easier. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 06:47 AM |
| 5 | What are some small habits that you implemented in your life and had positive long-term effects?Thank you very much for this. Never heard of it before But one last thing, I'm afraid I'd use the carrots for their unintended purposes. Is it TRP to touch myself a little before sleep? | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 06:46 AM |
| 2 | I do not feel the urge to explain myself anymore: a sign of maturity or sociopathy?You're making a good point. I think I never stand those who are consistently arguing over stupid and unimportant stuff and who do it for their egos (describing most of my friends). Usually when I engage in conversations with someone who also wants to learn something new not to prove a point, we end up having a healthy interaction. But the other bunch I just really don't feel like proving anything. But again in serious instances like the one in the post or the following, I still don't need the ur… | /r/askTRP | 28/09/20 07:04 PM |
| 2 | My first and only girlfriend really messed my head up - does the pain ever really go?It's been 2 years since I broke up with my ex girlfriend and I don't feel the pain has gone away, even though I'm doing everything by the book. And it comes and goes in episodes with months or weeks in between, maybe because the way our relationship ended wasn't like this, we didn't want to break up with each other it's just circumstances that made our relationship impossible as she'd just finished her internship in my country and flew back home and I don't do LDRs so we broke up. Had a fight af… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 11:38 AM |
| 5 | Help each other out boizSay that with less pretence and maybe I'll give this comment a shot. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/20 03:58 AM |
| 5 | Help each other out boizExactly my man. When I'm in the presence of women with their partners I usually do not game them and instead give free SMV points to their partners and try not to outshine them the way you put it. I'm not the best looking dude but I speak a lot and I can say that my game is on point when it comes to teasing and all. But all of that is replaced with genuine niceness and interest towards other guys. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/20 02:26 AM |
| 6 | Help each other out boizI like playing with my butthole every once in a while does that make me gay? | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/20 02:22 AM |
| 2 | One downside of swallowing the pillThis is gonna sound unconventional and I'm sure I'm gonna get shit for it but sometimes I just eject from TRP and enjoy everything as it is without caring one bit about what to happen next. Maybe not in relationships and dating but in everyday interactions, I surely let my guards down and act the way I feel in the moment without thinking about that alpha beta bullshit. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/20 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Does any of you also experience the Briffault's Law switch off effect with friends?I see so it's like that huh? One thing I've always avoided whenever I'm hanging out with people, especially when guys are involved, is to avoid getting into conflicts over who's dominant over the situation because I genuinely never want to create stress and just have good time. Many guys are as cool as me in that regard. They also stop being less decisive and we usually just let each other take the lead over what to do next and whatnot. But some guys don't. Especially when their girlfriends are … | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Does any of you also experience the Briffault's Law switch off effect with friends?I didn't say I abused drugs many times. If you think using drugs just to have fun is a problem then you have a problem my man. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/20 04:56 PM |
| 0 | Does any of you also experience the Briffault's Law switch off effect with friends?Bro I'm not there to pick up girls. I'm there to chill, even though my banter is flirtatious sometimes, I'm not going full seductive mode. They're all married and in a relationship. I don't see the point really. Even with my ex I never treated a guy like that because what's the fucking point? | /r/askTRP | 04/08/20 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Am I dealing with this correctly?Hey I just came back to thank you for this. I thought about it a lot and I hanged out again with them and we had a lot of fun but this time I set out with one conviction in mind: to never get pissed over any joke, no matter the intensity, and always keep firing back even if it would come off as cruel. Not gonna lie to you, it was a savage night. It was again the 3 of us and we just kept taking the offensive jokes up a notch until they really couldn't handle it anymore so one of them hit me so ha… | /r/askTRP | 02/08/20 10:43 AM |
| 1 | An acquaintance the same age as me (24) just told me that he spent around $6000 on his wedding, effectively every penny he earned for the last year and a half as a student between a full-time job and uni tasks. I congratulated him but deep inside, I'd never do that... I'm not sure how I feel about.$6000 here would buy you a decent looking secondhand car | /r/askTRP | 29/07/20 02:35 PM |
| 0 | An acquaintance the same age as me (24) just told me that he spent around $6000 on his wedding, effectively every penny he earned for the last year and a half as a student between a full-time job and uni tasks. I congratulated him but deep inside, I'd never do that... I'm not sure how I feel about.I think for me it was quite shocking maybe because I'm still a student and making just $8000 a year. Between the rent, daily expenses and regular shipping, there remains nothing. So $6000 for me is a big deal and I can't see myself investing it in a marriage goddamn it anytime soon. And my acquaintance dated his fiancée for 3 years and now they're getting married so I just still can't fathom what drove him to do it I mean he's barely making above the average salary, and because of covid19 she ca… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/20 10:51 AM |
| 1 | I'm facing a very hard time nowI regretted it soon after doing it and I texted her that I was sorry for the shit that I said and that I was pissed (and indeed I was, I just lashed on her because her friends at uni started spreading rumours about me based on shit she told them, so I became isolated in that period). I took it out on her and it was ugly but then thinking about it it was for the best for both of us and had been contemplating it ever since she left. I still stand by what I did and I did the apology part. There's n… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 07:54 PM |
| 4 | I'm facing a very hard time nowIt stings even deeper that she left because she is resuming her studies and life in an entirely different country, not because either of us fucked up. We departed on good terms. And then I feel worse for insulting her over the phone and blocking her then. And then to make it all the more worse I texted her for forgiveness which basically killed every potential of getting back. I did it for both of us... We were texting every once in a while and it felt like shit. I couldn't do it and I wanted to… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 07:21 PM |
| 14 | I'm facing a very hard time nowYeah and they just happen like that out of nowhere. I've had amazing last couple of months but starting from yesterday, I've been feeling soooo down. So down to the point of napping 3 times a day. It is maybe because it's been exactly a year since my ex left me, and although I know I'll never get to see her again or get things the same they used to be, I'm still feeling nostalgic about the whole thing and it's hurting me a lot. It's like experiencing breaking up all over again and it stings. But… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 04:59 PM |
| 2 | for how many dates have you gone the longest before you slept with a girl?I read the rational male, and I remember one of his iron rules that said if she's not dtf directly and making you wait, it means that she's regarding you as beta and sex is never worth the wait. I totally understand that. But from my experience, the rational male is just way too rational. Don't misunderstand me, there's tons of truth in it, but I've had many instances where tomassi didn't make any sense. I've dated a good number of girls and I fucked almost 80% of them on the first date. If not … | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Blue pilled guys being proud of being told what they can and cannot do by their "Mrs" and posting it onlineFucking A | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 01:39 PM |
| 3 | for how many dates have you gone the longest before you slept with a girl?Do you think her being a 32-year old practicing Catholic is relevant as to why she's being sexually distant? | /r/askTRP | 15/07/20 09:26 AM |
| 3 | for how many dates have you gone the longest before you slept with a girl?This reminds me of no more Mr nice guy. I remember he said something about not setting covert expectations from girls. For example, walking her back home and expecting a kiss and then get angry when she doesn't kiss. But anyways. I do enjoy my time with her. She gets my sense of humour and the conversation usually transcends to more meaningful stuff, not in a beta way. I just know for a fact that I'm not giving her free compliments and attention but completely the opposite. I belittle and tease … | /r/askTRP | 14/07/20 09:48 PM |
| 1 | As I grow older (26) I find that women occupy a much smaller segment of my interests compared to a few years ago. Rather than chase women I go on backpacking trips in the mountains, collect guns, currently learning Spanish, practicing yoga and climbing, growing my business. I have no time for thots.Mgtow in the making | /r/askTRP | 12/07/20 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Am I dealing with this correctly?Also another thing. She's just cringe and not fun. It feels like she's desperately trying to offend me and makes jokes so out of context just to get through to me. It's really weird. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/20 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Am I dealing with this correctly?Yeah trust me I realized a while back that I can't take slightly provocative jokes and I'd get upset about them and withdraw to myself instead of firing back. Probably because I was bullied in my teenage years. So I started to not give a fuck about jokes and try to fire back whenever a joke makes me feel uncomfortable. But sometimes, they're way below the belt. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/20 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Am I dealing with this correctly?Thanks man for the harsh words man. I'm trying to develop a thicker skin and stand jokes of different kinds. I think I set up the bar to loo low for a joke to be offensive. Do you happen to know any articles on how to be able to have a thicker skin and when and when not a girl is disrespecting you in opposing of joking/flirting with you? | /r/askTRP | 12/07/20 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Am I dealing with this correctly?Oh yeah? What's gas lighting? Never heard of it | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 09:47 PM |
| 0 | Am I dealing with this correctly?I completely blew her off at the beach, though. We maybe casually talked once or twice but never returned her jokes back or initiated contact and spent the time with the other girl and the rest of her friends just chilling. Even afterwards in text in the group chat, she hinted at me completely avoiding her and I still didn't respond ahhaha. I'm all for jokes and teasing man, but my jokes and flirtation techniques never ever pick on the person's appearance and insecurities. Wouldn't for example m… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Am I dealing with this correctly?Okay bro thanks a lot | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 08:20 PM |
| -1 | Am I dealing with this correctly?Yeah I'm not orbiting my dude. It's not like I'm hitting her up to hang out all the time or I want to fuck her. I'm just trying to maintain a healthy social circle and I don't mind having female friends with boyfriends in the bunch. I'm just not sure whether I'm overreacting and it was just normal banter or I have reasons of feeling uncomfortable with jokes I don't like in which case my question is: how do I deal with her? | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Am I dealing with this correctly?The joke I mentioned in the post is just one of many, man. She just keeps coming at me with shittests, obedience tests and so on. I know it's the same kind of jokes I'm pulling as well, but I never take them that far. There's another girl in the group and she does the same thing, but hers are just funnier and within the boundaries of respect. I enjoy her company more. This one is just coming at me with all her might, and as I said I didn't pay any attention to her this time and probably never ag… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 07:54 PM |
| 2 | The types of girls I attract & why is it these ones I attract the most?I met a very very cute girl from a conservative country. On our first date I was still TRP and I went in for the kiss but she declined jokingly. She still let me kiss her neck because obviously she liked it, but apparently that's not how it goes where she's from and made me wait which is okay for me. The next time I hit her up to meet, at this point I started experimenting bluepilled dating advice, she rejected me and said it's better that we don't date. It's a shittest, and I should've just kep… | /r/askTRP | 09/07/20 06:48 AM |
| 2 | The types of girls I attract & why is it these ones I attract the most?Yeah I was in his shoes maybe a year or so ago, and I wasted a lot of good girls just because I acted like a little beta bitch for not knowing better. The premise went like this: how can I attract good girls if I'm behaving in a fuckboy way? That'll only attract damaged goods, amirite? So I experimented. The next couple of girls I met, I talked more than I touched, I cOnNeCtED with them for a few dates before doing anything... It just went horribly wrong. What happened basically is that I got fr… | /r/askTRP | 09/07/20 06:35 AM |
| 3 | The types of girls I attract & why is it these ones I attract the most?But jokes and ad honim attacks aside, the TRP man attracts all kinds of women bro. Being cocky, calling bullshit on what they do will turn every woman on whether she is in the west or deep into the Arabian Sahara. Nowadays we put women on a pedestal and putting them back in their place is seen as attractive because that's just how it is. So, whichever girl you meet and treat according to TRP tenant, she will get attracted to you. At some point, I blamed TRP for attracting the wrong type of girls… | /r/askTRP | 09/07/20 05:37 AM |
| 1 | The types of girls I attract & why is it these ones I attract the most?That's below the belt mate | /r/askTRP | 09/07/20 05:27 AM |
| 6 | The types of girls I attract & why is it these ones I attract the most?Hahaha agreed, the least funny of the bunch, everything you say or do is always regarded as an attack on her femininity, and you can just feel the stress in the air and it puts me off my vibe quicker than how my dad did me Wait what | /r/askTRP | 08/07/20 10:13 PM |
| 2 | The types of girls I attract & why is it these ones I attract the most?I don't get the joke | /r/askTRP | 08/07/20 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Girls who keep their distance in dates are driving me crazy... Help on how to deal with thisDefinitely | /r/askTRP | 08/07/20 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Girls who keep their distance in dates are driving me crazy... Help on how to deal with thisDescribes my bluepilled dates perfectly mate. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/20 09:48 PM |
| 0 | Girls who keep their distance in dates are driving me crazy... Help on how to deal with thisShe's 32 and petite 😂 I think she's worth the cooking. But we'll see. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/20 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Girls who keep their distance in dates are driving me crazy... Help on how to deal with thisThanks I was considering soft nexting but I'll hit her up next week for another date and see how it goes. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/20 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Girls who keep their distance in dates are driving me crazy... Help on how to deal with thisI kept my cool and tried having fun and not losing it. And I knew that since she declined every advance, going for a kiss will be seen as weird so even when we got relatively close on my bike, I didn't do it. I knew it'd backfire. I'm thinking of giving it another shot, maybe a 3rd, but then she's out. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/20 08:26 PM |
| -1 | 3 simple tips to ensure a good night's sleepIf you eat a large meal around that time and stay in surplus in addition to the first meal you eat in the morning, it will be more than feasable in my opinion. Also remember that my post is for the desperate zombie-like insomniacs here, not the lifters or the hardworking class. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/20 04:16 PM |
| 1 | 3 simple tips to ensure a good night's sleepYeah bro we're built different, there's no definite answer as to what would help you sleep and what not. What I mentioned in the post are the active steps I take to ensure a good night sleep. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/20 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Tinder date goes south.Read on the briffault's law in the side bar | /r/askTRP | 07/07/20 02:46 PM |
| 1 | 3 simple tips to ensure a good night's sleepYeah try it out and let me know how it goes. Also give it at least 3 days. Your body will take time to readjust. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/20 01:43 PM |
| 1 | 3 simple tips to ensure a good night's sleepMaybe that's the case, but for me i decided to steer clear of sleeping substances because of my Zolpidem addiction in the past. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/20 12:42 PM |
| 1 | 3 simple tips to ensure a good night's sleepYou run the risk of getting dependent on that shit. Don't recommend this. I started with Zolpidem myself and in just a couple of weeks I became addicted. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/20 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Tinder date goes south.I figured as much. I didn't reciprocate just not to give the wrong impression. I was like "Why do you think I'm sexy?" in a serious tone. Also half joking. But then I remembered how women feel and not think. So that's probably why I never figured it was a red flag until I found out that she unfriended me. I texted her that I had good time and I don't understand why she ignored the text and unfriended me but let's have it her way anyways because I'm sure that if that's what she did just after the… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/20 12:07 PM |
| 5 | Tinder date goes south.Well I texted her a few days ago on WhatsApp but she didn't answer. So I followed up on yesterday on Facebook. To me unfriending me on Facebook just after the first date screams big red flag. I don't know why she did it, and to be honest I genuinely don't give a fuck. I was using her for sex and I think she's better off without me. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/20 11:23 AM |
| 59 | Tinder date goes south.Tinder is full of weird girls. I had my first date 2 weeks ago and it went surprisingly well. We ended up in her apartment, but before we made up a few times and she was already holding my hand in public. We had good sex, she bit me on the neck leaving bruises and started telling me how sexy and romantic I am and it's been just 5 hours since I met her. Yesterday I hit her up to bust a nut and to my surprise, she unfriended me from Facebook. I didn't understand the reason for it, maybe it was jus… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/20 11:06 AM |
| 0 | 3 simple tips to ensure a good night's sleepWell, you can. In my experience, especially after one large sugary meal in the middle of the day, I just zonk out and sleep. If I don't put the timer, I can easily sleep for 3 straight, but I found that 30 minutes is more than enough, because what you really need is at least one cycle of REM sleep and once you get it, you're good to go. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/20 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Rekindling an old flame, should I bother? Have you had an experience with it?It's okay I'll be the asshole to unshove his head out of his ass, OP is moving to an entirely different country and the first thing he thinks about is going back to his ex? What the actual fuck. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/20 10:06 AM |
| 1 | I'm just trying to wrap my head about girls being bitchy towards me, is it a shittest or they're simply not interested? I can't tellThis is what I ultimately want to achieve, but I can't help not feel turned off by them. Do you recommend any sort of practices to get to that level? I'm as playful and witty in your examples with girls within my smv, but the higher it goes with girls, the more autistic I become. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/20 09:52 PM |
| 2 | I'm just trying to wrap my head about girls being bitchy towards me, is it a shittest or they're simply not interested? I can't tellI see so after all, there ARE girls who are out of your league. I thought with enough game every girl is "seductable". | /r/askTRP | 30/06/20 07:01 PM |
| 1 | I'm just trying to wrap my head about girls being bitchy towards me, is it a shittest or they're simply not interested? I can't tellI was thinking of saying the second neg to the tinder girl, but I felt like I would come across as butthurt and lower myself to their level. But will definitely give it a shot next time. Not fan of deflating people's self-esteem like that but fuck it. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/20 05:06 PM |
| 1 | I'm just trying to wrap my head about girls being bitchy towards me, is it a shittest or they're simply not interested? I can't tellRed flags like that are important if I'm monitoring for an LTR, but for a ONS, I genuinely don't give a fuck if she thinks we've never been to the moon. But if she acts bitchy even for a second, I pick on it and get disgusted, as in I can't even get a boner. Even with my ex LTR, I didn't tolerate purely rude behaviour. Throwing teasing playful jokes here and there is okay, but shit like I described in the post is totally unacceptable. And yes at the end of the day, there's always bigger fish in … | /r/askTRP | 30/06/20 04:02 PM |
| 28 | I'm just trying to wrap my head about girls being bitchy towards me, is it a shittest or they're simply not interested? I can't tellBro that comment was a huge turn off for me, blocked | /r/askTRP | 30/06/20 03:04 PM |
| 1 | I'm just trying to wrap my head about girls being bitchy towards me, is it a shittest or they're simply not interested? I can't tellSo you're saying ejecting from the situation instead of trying to game them and waste my time was the right move? Because I think it's just an act they put as a shittest and it turns me off, and to make matters even worse, I don't know how to get past it. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/20 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Read This and You’ll Never Struggle To Lose Weight AgainHey you're raising some very interesting points here but I'm afraid I'm going to have to disagree with some of the stuff that you're saying. Hunger is a habit. If you eat in a certain part of the day then you'll get hungry at that part of the day because you conditioned your body to expect food at that time, I'm sure you know this. The part I disagree with is eating food high in fiber and water to add volume to your food and keep the calories to a minimum. On the surface it looks like the perfec… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/20 11:11 AM |
| 3 | Do you have a ONS story you'll never forget?Hahahahaah goddamn bro that's just an amazing experience :D getting laid with the bros and a childhood sweetheart, can't get better | /r/askTRP | 24/05/20 09:33 AM |
| 7 | Do you have a ONS story you'll never forget?Hahahahahahahha | /r/askTRP | 24/05/20 07:16 AM |
| -1 | Why I wasn't making progress at the gymTake my advice with a grain a salt but that's how it's supposed to be. Actually don't listen to me because I'm so desperate to make gains that idgaf whether I damage my muscle tissue or not in the process. But from my experience, it's working for me. Just keep doing reps until you literally can't lift yourself up, even if it's painful. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/20 07:48 AM |
| 3 | Why I wasn't making progress at the gymDude that's the entire point of this post. Like 11? Let me try describing the pain I feel in those short seconds of failed reps. In the beginning, you start with that explosive power, you feel your muscles are hard as rock and you can nail the reps full range of motion no stop but then, say for example pushups, around 10-15th rep, your arms start shaking and you start unconsciously holding your breath to go through one more rep. Soon your muscles start to burn, you can feel it and it's not pleas… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/20 07:41 AM |
| 1 | How To Make Money In Economic Booms And BustsFor someone who is nowhere near having a $1k in their bank accounts, I recommend buying stocks. Do your research and see which stock which will definitely go back back up in the future and get that stock. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/20 07:06 AM |
| 1 | I Have Been Doing Cold Approach For 2 Years Now: This Is How I Went From Kissless Handholdless Virgin To 15 Lays In 1 MonthHey very interesting post, reminds me a lot of a post published here a few months ago titled hard case Asian or smth like this. And exactly like that post i relate to this a lot. I've also always followed the general advice that looks don't matter and it's all about inner beauty. So naturally I was a fat fuck with a shitty haircut and ugly beard and 'stache. I was also a handholdless kissless virgin by the age of 21, but it all changed after learning about nutrition and cutting 15kgs, getting a … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/20 05:10 AM |
| 0 | I Have Been Doing Cold Approach For 2 Years Now: This Is How I Went From Kissless Handholdless Virgin To 15 Lays In 1 MonthI did a small social experiment on this. Since quarantine started I didn't get a haircut nor shaved my beard either. I looked okayish but not attractive enough to let girls turn their necks when walking in the streets. Not to sound self-cinceited or anything but I do notice iois just walking around the city on my best days. Anyways. with all the hair going on no one gave a fuck, I uploaded a picture of before and after shaving my beard, and most people said that I looked more masculine with my m… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/20 05:03 AM |
| 3 | How to be Alpha AND likeable?Actually people like you I'd like to befriend and people like your friend in the bar and some of my friends I'd like to stay away from. I'm by no means an athlete, I'm as average as average could get, face, body fat percentage and everything. I look okay and I have my way with women through a lot of training in my game. I'm working out recently and I really want to to build a stronger body. I have a colleague of mine who's in my opinion a straight fucking 10/10. He's jacked as FUCK, tall and his… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/20 08:41 PM |
| 8 | How do you guys stay so disciplined?What you said is true and let me tell you where a lot of people fuck up when it comes to self-improvement: patterns. Patterns of behaviour, patterns of thinking, patterns of perception, patterns of emotions... Patterns long wired to you by society, your personal experience and biology. Breaking out of these patterns is the difficult part, not finding motivation. For example. You're used to eating 2500 kcal a day. You usually eat a breakfast, a lunch, a few snacks then a dinner, then some late ni… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 07:47 AM |
| 0 | How to lose the belly fat?Imagine a presumptuous dickhead taking offense in whichever thing you say. Now I'm being shitty. I've tried to keep this conversation as reciprocal and respectful as possible and you kept hurling ad honim attacks and being a trashy little cunt. I'm not denying the truth. You are. I've asked you to base your facts on some research and you brushed it off saying that every personal trainer says so so it has to be true in contrast to me reading the information I gave in an anatomy and physiology uni… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 03:47 PM |
| 1 | How to lose the belly fat?I'm asking you to prove what you're saying by basing it on some research and I'm denying the truth? Wtf is wrong with you | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 08:46 AM |
| 1 | How to lose the belly fat?Would you take the time to pass on some wisdom? Are there any researches proving your point? | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 08:41 AM |
| 1 | How to lose the belly fat?No I understand that you can't lose fat in a specific area of your body. I'm not asking whether doing abs exercises will help lose belly fat or not. I'm asking what I should be doing in the last stages of dieting to get rid of the belly fat because it's the most difficult. I dunno about the genetics part, but what I do know is that belly fat is the most accessible fat storage area from your digestive system because it's physically the closest. Also losing fat going from the outer to the inner pa… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 08:35 AM |
| 3 | How do I stay in frame when I’ve lost everything?I think you basically said instead of staying at home and feeling depressed doing nothing actually get yourself out there and do something. The last year for me has been one tough motherfucker especially when it comes to loneliness and relationships. My job and uni studies were doing fine but my social life suffered tremendously. At some point, I came in terms with loneliness and kind of embraced it. Meaning I don't hit anyone up, no one hits me up to go out and do something, nothing. Prior the … | /r/askTRP | 06/04/20 07:41 PM |
| 3 | Not liking people telling me what to do, whether big or small, is something wrong with me?Haven't tried that one out but will definitely do next time. Thanks for the tip. But like the other guy said, when someone gives me a direct order to do smth, the two conflicting voices in my head are usually, "But it's for your benefit too, do it" and "Am I their little bitch they order me around?" And most of the times, the second one wins. Here's an example. My roommate and I moved to a new apartment and I got there first and met the other tenants. The roommate asked me how the apartment look… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/20 02:06 PM |
| 3 | Did I handle this right?You could've brushed it off by saying something stupid like I committed a crime I'd rather not talk about or smth like you first. It just seemed a bit butthurt to me because the question was simple direct and concise. She's probably suspecting you seeing other girls that'd why she asked. I'd honestly say like the others it's a comfort test and you kinda failed. From a personal experience, shit only go south when she denies sex. I make it clear from the beginning that I'm there to fuck and have a… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 03:08 PM |
| 7 | Did I handle this right?This is the fucked up part of the subreddit that I don't like. You overthink small things and make them such a big deal. Jesus, in day-to-day interactions, how you're doing or what did you do yesterday or how was your day are questions we ask to start a fucking conversation. There's no assuming of a lower position there's nothing. The girl is asking op what he did yesterday because she wants to have a normal conversation and he's acting like an autist avoiding the question like he's running a dr… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 07:37 AM |
| 3 | Did I handle this right?Yeah I found that part slightly autistic. I always talk bullshit with my plates, what I did and what I did not, show them pictures of my travels or some just basically have fun wtf. The answers I never answer are the ones dealing with how many girlfriends you've had, u a fuckboy or not....etc etc. Otherwise, it's all good. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Can body weight exercises truly compare to the gym?I don't know whether they compare or not but calisthenics clicked with me like the gym never did and to be honest I'm not looking forward to have any major gains or getting buffed. I just want to look lean and healthy. The gym for me has always felt claustrophobic. Generally, I really don't like doing exercises and sweating in a closed area. I want to be sweating and hyperventilating under the sun and wind. When I'm out doing calisthenics in the park, I really suck up every moment of it. As I sa… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 07:25 AM |
| 1 | FR: Teaching a 16yo kid to Lift.I've had a similar experience with a roommate of mine. He was fat, had a shitty haircut, wore the worst clothes you could possibly imagine, and was always whining like a little bitch why he's not getting girls. I am not lifting but I have my success with girls just with my game. So I spoke to him a lot about game and how important it is to look the best way possible, so after a few weeks of us talking about it on and off, he finally decided to get a haircut and start lifting at the gym. It's bee… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/03/20 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Being unclear about what you want with other men, a power move or a pussy way of doing things?I'm upfront 70% of the time, hence this post, in that example, I just wanted to see where he will go if I gave no clear answers and as expected, nowhere. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/20 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Being unclear about what you want with other men, a power move or a pussy way of doing things?And btw nothing makes my blood boil more than a spineless prick not assuming responsibility for his actions... Probably this is why I feel very much disgusted and angry when he does that shit | /r/askTRP | 15/03/20 07:56 PM |
| 4 | Being unclear about what you want with other men, a power move or a pussy way of doing things?Wanna hear the most pathetic example? I ran out of sponges to wash the dishes so I used his, I figured no biggie. When it comes to the general hygiene of the room we don't really have limits. I took one of his sponges and washed the dishes and left it by the sink. Later that day, he came and said, "Hey, did you see me putting this sponge here?" I said, "Uh, nope" and went back to watching a movie. "How did it come to here then?" "I don't know". "Okay it's also kinda wet" "Okay" "Do you know how … | /r/askTRP | 15/03/20 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Being unclear about what you want with other men, a power move or a pussy way of doing things?Okay and how to deal with it? How to make his questions bounce back and make him ask what he really wants because it's so fucking annoying and kinda getting on my nerves. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/20 07:48 PM |
| 5 | Whenever my sleeping pattern goes to shit, I start losing grip of being on my missionThis will never work my man, that's the mainstream bullshit advice you find on sleeping blogs, I tried all of them and they never worked | /r/askTRP | 28/02/20 07:20 AM |
| 2 | Since I've become self-amused, people have been asking me if I'm on weedI wouldn't go as far as calling myself a comedian, but I do have fun on day-to-day basis and I do it to have a laugh because why the fuck not. But when people starting finding it weird, then I'm worried that perhaps I'm doing something wrong, hence this post. A good perspective I found is that people are not used to humour at work or about things that they don't really see the humour in, so when someone cracks a joke about it, then they weirded it out. Then does this mean that I need to confirm … | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Since I've become self-amused, people have been asking me if I'm on weedCan you elaborate more on "you're enjoying life without the need for others to entertain you" please? The way I see it is this: say whatever you think is funny not giving a fuck if others find it as funny or not. Am I understanding it wrongly? Or is it just a part of the bigger picture? | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Since I've become self-amused, people have been asking me if I'm on weedBut usually I just say what really comes to my mind, 2 examples above. One girl at uni found it really weird that I was having fun while talking to other people and when she told me if I was high, I pointed at the fact that that wasn't the first time someone has told me that and what is it that made her ask that. She said that I'm cracking the kind of jokes and I'm having the "happy" vibes of a guy on weed. What did she mean? | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 05:02 PM |
| 5 | How to make more friends in collegethe comment you just replied to is exactly my point, everyone is in your shoes now and are wishing to approach people and make new friends, but they're too shy to do so yesterday, I saw a guy in my uni sitting in the corridor staring down people passing by like a creep instead of talking to them, don't be that guy lol | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 08:02 AM |
| 4 | How to make more friends in collegeThis might sound cringe to some people, but it worked for me, and sure as hell can work for you. The most important thing is really how you say the following, not what you're actually saying, be it with guys or girls. It doesn't really matter. You need to choose your sample wisely. Choose people you're taking class with or people you're seeing on regular basis, physical proximity is important. Also try choosing freshmen. They will be much more receptive. To start with, you need to say the stuff … | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Is it just me, or are european girls more feminine than American girls?That is exactly why white girls for me in themselves are a red flag. Not all, surely, but I've had similair experiences in Europe with Northern girls (Scandinavia and the UK). The exceptions are really really rare. Otherwise, the lower you get in Europe, the more easygoing a girl becomes and the more delightful it is to be around her. Westernized Asians are the worst. I've tried talking to several of them and they're really testy and so fucking boring and basic. But Asians who are born and raise… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Don't you think that TRP is attracting the wrong type of girls?Jesus | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Don't you think that TRP is attracting the wrong type of girls?You're obsessed with whether I'm an alpha or beta based on the way I'm talking instead of actually discussing the topic of the thread which is whether TRP attracts the wrong type of girls or not? A topic I tackled in my previous comment. Do you even realize how ridiculous you sound? | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 04:09 PM |
| -1 | Don't you think that TRP is attracting the wrong type of girls?It could be that, or it could be that being sexual with women from the start isn't really the right way to attract good traditional girls? Maybe holding strong eye contact, giving sexual vibes and letting her know that you want to fuck her brains out is the same as a girl grinding all over you and wanting you to fuck her which in TRP terms make her a slut? You think I'm a cuck or a beta just because I questioned the authenticity of TRP? I thought asktrp was a place to discuss the theory and diff… | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 06:35 AM |
| 2 | "Communicating Boundaries" in an LTR...In one of my comments, I mentioned that reality isn't as TRP as one on this sub thinks it is. The example that I had in mind exactly the one that you mentioned in your post. A girl going to a friend's birthday party or traveling with a group of friends around Europe, or whatever the fuck people on TRP think is a red flag in reality is fucking nothing at all. If a girl parties all the time without her partner, she's obviously up to no good. But man. I've seen women partying without their partner … | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Don't you think that TRP is attracting the wrong type of girls?I think this was the one and only useful response on this thread. Thanks a lot. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Don't you think that TRP is attracting the wrong type of girls?what are the must-haves and deal-breakers that I should be screening them for and how to not give the wrong vibes and scare them away like I did with the girls I dated last week? You see, my problem is not with building attraction. My problem is how to vet an LTR material girls and how to tell a girl is LTR or plate-material? | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Don't you think that TRP is attracting the wrong type of girls?I agree with most of what you said. TRP is a set of tools that we can use to spin plates, find an LTR or fuck other guys if we're into that. It's really up to the individual. However, I still think that it attracts the wrong type of girls because real life isn't as TRP as you think it is. On this sub, I'm seeing such a pessimistic view on women, sometimes it's disturbing, but in real life, they're not all that bad after all. And TRP teaches you to focus on yourself and yourself only, so at some … | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Broke up with 18 month LTR tonight. Could I please have your thoughts and adviceSecond, you need to be screening hard for loyalty and setting hard boundaries early on. Make sure those boundaries are repeated over time so it's not forgotten. I.e. no talking to exes. how do you achieve this? how do you communicate these boundaries? | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Beer GogglesOkay | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Beer GogglesAhhaah I've got some more fucked up shit, that's just the tip of the iceberg, $20 to my PayPal and I'll keep you entertained, a short story everyday 😂 Tell her you're busy, just devolve the fuck back to Mr Nice Guy. Read the book just to learn how to be a nice guy 😂 | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 03:32 PM |
| 3 | Beer GogglesNo it won't. You're overthinking it. Just like any "scandal", it comes and goes. You'll be just fine man. Keep doing your job and don't let anyone catch you doing something wrong. You know what surprised me during that party I attended? EVERYONE WAS SHITTING WHERE THEY'RE EATING. My team is made up of immigrants and almost all of them had a native female colleague sitting next to them while they're desperately trying to escalate. One guy got pretty fucking wasted and started talking about some f… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 02:19 PM |
| 3 | Beer GogglesI've almost had a similar situation once but I controlled myself to not fuck up. I was a new hire in my company and 5 days after I was hired, there was a summer party in a prestigious bar downtown where drinks were free until midnight. Imagine. I had a few beers and felt tipsy. I goofed around and talked to many of my colleagues and at some point, I dropped some dance moves and got all the attention on me. The party got dull so I took my stuff and started to prepare to leave where an ugly fat bi… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 02:10 PM |
| 3 | Beer GogglesRight, I take my nuclear back. This is a last resort you can do when acting like you didn't fuck her and keeping the details private don't work. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 02:04 PM |
| 25 | Beer GogglesThis is the wrong time to "own it" and "take it to the chin" sort of behaviour, in my opinion. Instead, be the nicest guy in the company from here on out and when someone asks you what's up, tell them it's the strange and magnificent effects of the alcohol, and you "kinda remember what happened that night, but not really. If was fun though!" And flip subjects. They can't straight out ask you if you guys have fucked now can they? They'll just keep asking you questions to enquire more about what h… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 01:56 PM |
| 4 | How to toughen up?the breaking point in my SMV was keto actually, i was 92kg and after 10 months of keto on and off, i dropped 17 kgs, now I'm 75kgs (give or take) and i'm not on keto anymore, i eat whatever i want and hit the gym regularly, and still remain in the same weight my diet is still keto, i add rice, pasta, lasagna, potatoees when i feel like it, otherwise it's meat and nuts (no pun intended). | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Ever since i swallowed the pill, the world has been more hostile to me...I did fuck up. I admit. I apologized to him. We were on good terms before this happened and I bought him a beer as an apology. I was having a party at the dorm 2 days after the incident and he showed up and humiliated me at a social group. I thought that was it. Today he brought it up again and when I asked earlier why he brought it up a second time, he said, "What? No. I didn't bring up anything. It's nothing personal. It's just your room didn't stand to the rules of the dorm". "Oh yeah?" I sai… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Ever since i swallowed the pill, the world has been more hostile to me...He has pictures against me. I have nothing against him. I should've recorded him. He explicitly threatened me he'd use the pictures to make a case to higher authority concerned with student halls. I literally have nothing in my defence if that should happen. He's clearly picking on me. And it's really pathetic that he's concerned about a bunch of random stuff dropped on the floor... like he's legit coming next week to see if the floor is clean... (As I said... It's swiped weekly BY ME). | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 10:20 PM |
| 0 | Ever since i swallowed the pill, the world has been more hostile to me...... my room is clean. It's this fucking guy who's still not over the fact that I had a messy room in the beginning of the semester which caused him more logistics to find the other roommate another room. This entire keep your floor clean situation is what's causing me the most anxiety. I swear there was exactly this on the floor: a small backpack I use for shopping, an IKEA bag I keep for laundering, flipflops, a lan cable, a few bunch of used snus (okay that's disgusting), and overall, shit tha… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Ever since i swallowed the pill, the world has been more hostile to me...Another thing. I checked in a plate and a couple of ONSs in the past month, and I've dated a few girls from the dorm as well. PEOPLE SAW THAT. ESPECIALLY THE ONES THAT I KNOW WHO'RE SPECIALIZED IN SPREADING NEWS. Pretty fucking sure the news spread in the dorm as my room being turned to a whorehouse. That could be another reason. Girls are giving me much more attention than before, and people are noticing. So guys get defensive especially in front of girls and girls keep throwing themselves at m… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Dropped by a FWB and It has confused me....Yeah I simply think the girl's dumb or into older guys or whatever the fuck. Whatever it is, it unhealthy and not good | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 07:18 AM |
| 32 | Dropped by a FWB and It has confused me....Man why are you ruminating over a girl who decided to throw all of that potential in the laps of an old loser? You don't get it, do you? It's her loss, not yours. It'll take time for you to finally understand but you're the prize and she's fucked it all up. Take some time to recover and then get back in the game. Release the negative emotions you're experiencing. Surrender to them, don't hide them. Do things that'll help you experience the emotion more, don't run away from them. And finally when… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 07:17 AM |
| 25 | The Power Of WordsI find using sophisticated and polished vocabulary, words that contain more than 3 syllables excessively very pretentious and cringing at some time. Since you're into reading, have a look at Orwell's "Why I Write", and "Politics and the English Language" and you'll get what I mean when I say it comes off as pretentious. It may work on girls really well, but some people will be able to see through it and know that you're pretending to be smart. It's a bad practice. Don't get used to it. It took m… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/19 11:44 AM |
| 1 | "What do you want from this?" she asked on the second date.Or friends with benefits? Haaha | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 10:02 AM |
| 1 | "What do you want from this?" she asked on the second date.Thank you for the advice. I have another girl that I fucked this week on the first date too and I really don't want to screw it up again. So i shouldn't ask her to do none of the things that I usually like doing with girls? She's only to be contacted when I want to fuck and that's it? There are many things which seem like couple's shit which can send mixed signals but to me are completely normal friendly things/favours that you do with/to a person that you like. For example, I do some street art… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 10:52 PM |
| 0 | This is kind of a story, bear with me. Chick flaked on me, and is being shit testy and a cunt, advice on my next steps here would be appreciated.Honestly she seems to me that she needs some comfort, too much dread from your side my man, I think you've done it more than enough at this point Meet her up and keep vetting, you're doing good She's clearly using the ugly guy to provoke you but that shit is way too old to work on you apparently, so yeah, hit her up, fuck her, and avoid delving into emotional conversations or whatever | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Trust issues: how can I trust girls who'd kiss/fuck me on the first date?Yeah but I read somewhere that women are slutty whores with the alpha and chastised ladies with the beta. But let's say that she's indeed not damaged goods and was raised right and held sex on the first date, for how long does she need to hold it back to still be considered a "good" LTR option? Most of you are prohably thinking why the fuck I'm not considering spinning plates and leading a promiscuous 20s, but to be honest I'm thinking that far in the distant future I will be married and want to… | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 07:51 AM |
| 1 | Trust issues: how can I trust girls who'd kiss/fuck me on the first date?Im sort of stuck in a mental loop that keeps going around. We all agree on the fact that girls wouldn't be able to hold their legs closed to alpha males, to guys they're genuinely attracted to and want to fuck. So if we go on the first date and won't end up fucking, then shouldn't that mean that she's not attracted enough to let me be inside of her? That she already regards the beta side in me? Or does it mean that she actually possess self-control and knows that fucking on the first date is a v… | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 06:24 AM |
| 21 | Today, I failed. I thought I was doing everything right, but she ended up telling HR that I was making her “uncomfortable”.I'd recommend that you practice with girls at work but never go as far as making out or taking them on a date or anything really 1on1. Push pull. Don't touch. Tease. Dodge their shittests. Have fun. But never ever see a girl outside of work settings or take things further than a flirtatious/friendly banter. That'll be a shitting where you eat situation and you don't want that to happen. Why not? Because girls at work have all the power to buttfuck you with a single report to HR like this one did… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 10:15 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with bully at work?I've always been that sour guy... I realize that getting triggered by a few words is not really that normal, but I don't know how to "control my emotions". They just surface. I think it's rooted to some bullying in high school. I dont honestly know how to overcome it. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Tried talking to girls in a slower speed with a deeper voice and better tonality and received positive results: can someone explain how this works and how I can take it further?Speaking of body language, what cues should I pay attention to besides the posture? | /r/askTRP | 05/09/19 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Extreme case of AMOGStrand? | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 08:34 AM |
| 1 | How to use humour to flirt?True. Some regard me as the clown, but I had girls saying that they don't get how I keep the high spirit all the time and that they envy me. That part I heard. Not assumed. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/19 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Life is putting me on monk mode. Any tips on how to handle it?i think this was the most helpful advice others suggested nofap, but i don't think i'll be able to pull it off cuz when my monk mode starts, i doubt i'll be able to have time to game girls properly and eventually get laid, but at the same time, i don't want my sex life to go down to shit i'll stick with your advice concerning women at that time but what about travels? their problem is that they're time consuming and could get a bit expensive, do you recommend taking a trip once in a trimester or… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 05:39 PM |
| 2 | LTR came home from club 2 in the morningman... i'm geniunely feeling sorry for this guy... his problem and mine is that we haven't dated/seen/fucked enough women to tell the good ones from the trash honestly, when i was with my ex, i couldn't think straight, i was her little bitch, and up until this moment, i'm feeling sorry for myself, but after breaking up with her and in turn breaking loose from her devilish betaization, i started to see the good women and the trashy bitchy one just recently, i came back from a festival, and fuck m… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 08:22 PM |
| 21 | LTR came home from club 2 in the morningI have had a very similair situation with an ethnic ex. She used to attend all of the events relating to her copatriots living in the city, and not only that, but she also was planning things with them, things like traveling, partying, and so on. Back at the time because of the chemistry I was under, I never gave it much thought, but it irked me. A lot. I noticed something was off. Something was totally fucking wrong. I broke up with her with 0 explanation and since then, we have texted only a f… | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 09:42 PM |
| 1 | A 38 year old woman wants to meet for drinksI'm not gonna lie. A part of me wants to fuck an older woman for experience's sake. But also a part of me is scared I'll catch feelings. I can't overcome the fact that I need to be emotionally at least slightly bonded to the girl in order for me to have an erection and fuck her. In my head the chances of me hamstering and catching feelings for her after sex are pretty big. I'm seriously considering not going down that path but then... There's the horny me. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 07:42 PM |
| 1 | To-go tips for night gameSolid advice. I'm definitely implementing this. I have a tent erected on the festival area. I swear to God fucking a girl in a tent is the wettest my dreams could get lol | /r/askTRP | 05/08/19 11:11 AM |
| 1 | To-go tips for night gameI can't say I've totally solved those issues. They're there. But I don't think they can stop me from getting laid. I've been isolated sitting at home doing nothing getting depressed over my recent breakup. I finally decided to get the fuck out of my dorm room and do something about it. And hey, it's happening. I don't know how, but that air of neediness and desperation caused by my breakup is slowly fading and girls can sense it. I'm feeling I'm getting back on track. With enough practice at the… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/19 10:55 AM |
| 2 | Smoking - a red flagEver heard of snus? That's also a red flag? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/19 05:37 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being jealous from better guys in the room?I'm gonna sound like a little bitch saying this but I lifted for a year on and off. I made no gains and it's understandable. There was no consistency. The most annoying thing about my lifting experience is food. I have no fucking time to cook food and the kitchen is one floor away in my dormitory... Last but not least... The gym is 30 minutes away. So yeah. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 08:38 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being jealous from better guys in the room?I like the way he put it though "Compete or die". That actually makes a lot of fucking sense. The problem nowadays is that that sense of competition doesn't exist anymore. People nowadays are given medals for being losers. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 08:29 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being jealous from better guys in the room?I am striving everyday to become a better version of myself. The only thing that's slowing me down are some feelings I still have for my ex and my smoking addiction. I want to start lifting at the gym. I'm not fat, but i want to be fit, if you know what I mean. Besides that, I'm doing very well in working on my artistic passion and finding better job careers. Just landed a really good job. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 08:27 PM |
| 1 | First office job ever. Any advice?Thank you very much for the comment. It is truly eye-opening. To be completely honest with you, after I graduated in high school with a scientific degree, I went against everyone's expectations and didn't pick engineering for the sole purpose of being too boring/scientific for me. Instead,I chose English and had great time learning the language. I studied in college for 2 years then I got a scholarship to study psychology in Europe and that's where I'm at right now. I could have chosen something… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/19 09:08 PM |
| 1 | First office job ever. Any advice?And snobs like you make me want to throw up. Instead of recommending a good online IT course or actually answering my question, you suggest a movie and a series lol. Great advice, anyways! Thanks! | /r/askTRP | 19/07/19 04:02 PM |
| 1 | First office job ever. Any advice?It's just a level 1 IT support position. I'll be solving shit like a nonfunctional monitor, printer or network stuff. I've spent my fair share of solving my own IT issues giving that I'm a PC guy and have had tons of problems with my PC and shit. So I can say I got that part figured. Some brushup and I'll be good to go. But concerning work colleagues, my relationship with my boss and other co-workers, what should I keep in mind during my interactions with them you know?! | /r/askTRP | 19/07/19 02:54 PM |
| 1 | A girl I blocked 2 years ago turned out to be working in the new company I just got in... How to proceed?A detail I didn't mention in the post: she said that she wants to meet up outside of work not to catch up on things, but to say things to me face-to-face for her own sake to feel better about the whole thing. We set the date to meet up 2 times now and we both couldn't make it, so we set it a third time in 2 days. You think I should meet up with her and let her say whatever she wants? Or you think I should just sent her that text and call the meeting off? | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 03:21 PM |
| 1 | I frequently go back and re-visit some post in the main sub when it's something to remind myself of or important. What are some posts or comments you frequently re-read?HumanSockPuppet's guide to training bitches. The Betaization Process on some website called meditating or whatever Beginner's Guide for Daygame by Tom Torero Those 3. I keep reading and watching them cuz I think I lack in these 3 areas: LTR and initiating contact. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Just did my first cold approach ever and I'm feeling like a God.thanks man! my friend* left after that and i started feeling like a little bitch again. I really need bros to set me on track in the beginning and then i'll be more than ready to go out solo an dstart pulling pussy like it ain't shit | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Treating disrespect without coming across as butthurtHonestly, the best way is to not react at all. I know that it's making you angry and you feel the jealousy and that feeling of cuckolding surfacing, but this is some next-level shittest. If you're already fucking her, then she will come around for more. It's a tough thing to do, but when a girl disrespects you, or you think she did, the best way to handle it is to not react at all and leave her do whatever the fuck she thought she was doing to grab your attention. This right here is the true mea… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/19 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Gf “catching up” with old ldr that ghosted herOh never mind, the guy told his her mom about the texts lol | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 11:37 AM |
| 5 | Gf “catching up” with old ldr that ghosted herAlright listen up and listen up good. I think there's a consensus that your relationship is going downhill and here is how to come out victorious. The other guys here summarized it pretty well she's in the process of branch swining and you're feeling the cuckolding feeling and it really sucks big time. But here is how to regenerate faster after breakup: you should be in control. Up until this point, she's so in control. She's moving her pieces on the chess board and she's executing a well-though… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 10:47 AM |
| 11 | Do women find it attractive when you are more assertive/bossy?IMO for the sake of being decent, if a girl you've just met and barely know, then don't be that assertive. Frame the whole thing as you're doing something and see if she wanted to join. I usually go for smth like "I'm grabbing a beer after work on Friday, join me!/ Wanna join?" And then when you actually get to fuck/kiss her, you start literally ordering her around. I just find it a bit rude and weird to tell someone you've just met to "Be at McDonald's at 14:00 tomorrow". The way I do it is to … | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 02:08 PM |
| 6 | Shit-tests while travelingbecause he's looking forward to a fun day at the beach, This is true. I think girls shittest you the most during your moments of weakness and they just keep going until you're absolutely drained. I think if you're traveling abroad with your girlfriend, you should frame the whole thing as you're the one who's traveling and she's just there to tag along and have fun. Whenever I'm traveling, I am in hold of the map we will be using to sightsee the city, I'm in charge of the tickets of the museums w… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/19 08:14 AM |
| 11 | Shit-tests while travelingI totally agree to this. I think such comment was a bit unnecessary. Sure it gets her hamster going and whatnot, but you're traveling ffs, enjoy the city, enjoy the time abroad, meet new people, make new friends, all the while she's there. This will surely shoot up her attraction level and will slip some dread into her as well, but all while being a fun guy having fun. Whenever I am traveling, my schedule is so full and my plans are so packed. I usually make a list of the places I am visiting an… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/19 08:03 AM |
| 1 | How to man the fuck up and do that first approach?Thanks for the story. Bro I've done my fair share of small talks with girls, especially in situations like the one you mentioned, where there is something genuinely interesting to start a conversation with. I'm sort of pissed at myself because all of those interactions were more like nice guy shit instead of making my intentions clear that I want more than a fucking small amusing talk. As I said, I've done this so many times in different places, and I think that the next step is to talk to girls… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/19 04:14 PM |
| 1 | How to make her your alpha widow?TRP is immoral. I can use the TRP to fuck and dump as many girls as I want, or I can as well use it to maintain an LTR. What you do with TRP is totally up to you. I don't think we should be discussing the morality of the act. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 08:50 PM |
| 1 | How to stop giving girls attention without running out of things to say?Solid advice bro! Thanks a lot. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 10:44 AM |
| 2 | How to stop giving girls attention without running out of things to say?Oh that was helpful. I think I fucked up by misinterpreting the whole thing. It got into my head that's I'm not getting laid and forgot to escalate. Also, the conversations I have usually involve a lot of emotions so I got that part figured. The best way to do this is to ask them about their long-term plans, how they're planning on achieving them and what lead them to want to do them. She'll usually reciprocate by asking about yours and that's when you share your mission. Again. Thanks a lot. I'… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 10:29 AM |
| 3 | How did you kill your betaPart of swallowing the pill is to come in terms with who you truly are. Some people are inheretedly beta and others are alpha. What the TRP does for you is that it makes you aware of your true self, and you should act accordingly from there. To be honest, I can say that I have some beta traits that no matter how hard I ran away from, they will always be there. These traits are usually linked to some past experiences that have something to do with your psychological development like your relation… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 12:07 PM |
| 2 | A crazy bitch moved on my floor: how to protect myselfsomething about the way she talks was not right, i can't even explain it, u wouldn't understand unless u see it, even my female friend picked on it | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 06:30 PM |
| 1 | A crazy bitch moved on my floor: how to protect myselfsounds legit | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 06:12 PM |
| 1 | A crazy bitch moved on my floor: how to protect myselfIt's a dorm so it shouldn't be too hard Yeah right... social life in this shithole is dead. Everyone is keeping to themselves and it's fucking depressing. It's more like a ghost town than a dorm tbh... Defintely letting my roommate know about this shit and we'll be taking precautions | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 06:11 PM |
| 1 | A girl from my bluepilled days takes interest in me: how to game her right?Thank you very much for this advice man. I needed it. She just hit me up with an album from the party and I responded 13 hours later telling her, "Hahaha party headzzzz". The conversation stopped at there and now I'm waiting for her to drop a "Hey sup?" And oh btw. I found out in the party that we're gonna happen to be in traveling to the same city mid April. But she's gonna be with her boyfriend and I'll be with my cousin. How to proceed? I don't wanna hold the candle for them. And she's most d… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 01:29 PM |
| 0 | A girl from my bluepilled days takes interest in me: how to game her right?asking for tips on how to game a girl and get to fuck her means that I have oneties and I see a promising future full of hope and beautiful fantasies with her? last time I checked, that's what a unicorn meant*. If you meant that, please read the post again. I'm not saying she's" a that last one PErRrRrfEcT human being on the face of earth and I'm willing to have children with her and adore her for the rest of my life". I'm just asking how to proceed. "obsessing over"? seriously man? | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 07:01 PM |
| 1 | A girl from my bluepilled days takes interest in me: how to game her right?I see... thanks | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 06:53 PM |
| 1 | A girl from my bluepilled days takes interest in me: how to game her right?did you just frame the whole thing as if she were ThE uNiCOrN? ok lol | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 06:49 PM |
| 1 | A girl from my bluepilled days takes interest in me: how to game her right?You had your shot. You missed. u mean when i hugged her from behind and she pulled? This one girl...isn't special. true, but wouldn't hurt to get a lay with her. I'm working on other more promising prospects, if that's what you're hinting at. My game is still rusty because of my previous relationship... so I'm gonna need some time to get back on track again. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 06:30 PM |
| 11 | Fiction books? What’s your most memorable read?1984 by George Orwell. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 09:29 PM |
| 2 | how can I fix my babyface?Your face is composed of muscles (obviously) and you can (literally) train your face to look more muscular (I know it sounds a bit ridiculous) but there is this growing science nowadays about changing the shape of the face. Many people did it, they went from narrow to large jaws....etc. It is natural, and I honestly can't remember the name of the science itself, but one method that proved to be effective was chewing large amounts of hard gum for a long time. That'd make your jaw lines look sharp… | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 07:08 PM |
| 3 | A girl tells me her best friend is joining our hangoutShe was the one who asked for it, not me. She saw a post I made in a social group and she said she'd definitely join hadn't she had different plans. Then asked if we could make it work this week. I agreed and set the date, the next date (today) she informed me one of her close friends are joining. A friend she probably saw coupla times till the hangout. Anyways I just canceled it and I'm ghosting. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 03:43 PM |
| 5 | A girl tells me her best friend is joining our hangoutGreat advice. Too much investment, I agree. I just gone out of an LTR- to save you the bullshit, my SMV is coming back up really fast but my game is still rusty as fuckkkk.i gotta work on that. Already started striking random conversations with strangers on campus and my dorm. And I'm definitely canceling the sushi night and nexting her. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 01:42 PM |
| 1 | A girl tells me her best friend is joining our hangoutso how to avoid such things in the future? escalating? | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 01:20 PM |
| 1 | A girl tells me her best friend is joining our hangout" the friend is gone " not likel to happen. We're meeting at 6pm for the sushi and then getting to the bar at 6:45pm or thereabouts, so she's probably staying until the we each depart our own ways. as i said, i met these girls just a couple of times before but hanged out with the one i'm tryna fuck once and they're both hilarious. So yeah it's a shittest and the best way to respond is to keep having fun and wait the friend to fuck off. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 12:35 PM |
| 1 | A girl tells me her best friend is joining our hangouteveryone is paying for themselves man a female who's in a relationship, so no real prospect there as i'm not even intending on hitting on her right, so i should cancel this one saying i'm busy or smth and try to hit her up some other time? but i'm more inclined to the fact that she's a lost case, so better seek better propsects, am i right? edit: tbh, i wouldn't mind spending time with them, they're both fun to be around, but still, my goal is to fuck this girl not have myself in her swarm of be… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 12:16 PM |
| 3 | Saw a bro in the streets approaching girls today, feeling like shitberlin here i just think cuz the weather is nice, they're starting to come out of their caves lol it was the first time for me too, man | /r/askTRP | 26/03/19 07:40 AM |
| 2 | My social life has become trash...Hey. Thank you very very much for your advice. I implemented it and it's gotten the situation a bit better. Yesterday I was cooking at the shared kitchen in the dorm when a guy walked in. We talked of this and that and legit asked him if he's up for some tea. He agreed. Then it stroke me then and there: why not knock on the doors of those I know and incite them over? It fucking worked. I put a group of 5 people sipping tea and discussing bullshit for the next 2 hours. They all said that they fee… | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 11:50 PM |
| 2 | How do I make the first move without being creepy when a girl invites me to her home?Look, there is no such thing as the "First move". There is escalation. There is starting small and building the sexual tension until it reaches a peak and that's when "the first move" by your definition happens. You come across as awkward or creepy if for the entire evening you're talking to the girl from a distance and then all of the sudden you go for a kiss. That's creepy and awkward. What you should do instead is to keep the physical proximity right from the beginning. When you see her, you … | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Wife gets overt and angry when I pass shit testsMan I'm struggling with this... A lot. Every time I go into a relationship, I'm alpha and everything is playing well. But as the relationship progresses, I grow needier and lose sight of who I am and end up being a useless bitchy beta :( it's truly pathetic... I don't get how to do the 80-20% rule... Like every time I decide, "Alright, let's give her some comfort. Let's act a beta a little," and I just... Can't stop. It's seriously maddening. I really hate myself. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/19 10:41 PM |
| 6 | My social life has become trash...Bro go out WHERE? and with WHO? I'm hitting the gym. I'm on keto. I'm reading a book on stoicism. But the getting out of the house part? Where the fuck am I supposed to go? I have no idea what's going on in the city and my friends never hit me up with things going on in it. I'm sorta isolated. My biggest social circles used to be my dorm friends and my uni friends. But right now, they're both deflated. Everyone is uni has become busier with their studies and as I said in the post, the dorm is a … | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 06:07 PM |
| 3 | Thinking of moving my plate into LTR. Looking for advice.Hey check the betiazation process post somewhere on human meditation website or some shit. It'll help you tremendously. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 09:08 PM |
| 1 | I can’t fucking talkLook, don't beat yourself over it. This is not your fault. This is who you are. The post and your current position towards the whole thing shows someone who is in denial of who they are. I was in your shoes like 7 years ago. I also lived in denial of myself and who I truly am. I hated myself and my life for being a stutter and when I figured out that it's something in my genes and I can't change and I have to come in terms with, that's when the war with stuttering came to an end. I finally came … | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 11:10 PM |
| 3 | I can’t fucking talkthis op, it helped me a lot, that summa lumma dumma lumma u assumin part impresses all the bishes in the clubs | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 04:12 PM |
| 1 | I can’t fucking talkHey I'm a stutterer since childhood and I tried everything out there to fix this problem and I never had success. I stutter even in my native language: Arabic, and any other language that I've learned, namely French and German. and English. Bro I've struggled with thsi shit a lot. And only recently I realized that it's something passed on my genes from my father. I was kinda sad... but that's a different topic. I need to say that nothing worked for me. I went to speech therapists, I studied phon… | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 04:08 PM |
| 3 | First signs of losing controlAlright man look. From where to begin, Jesus. I'm basically going to tell you what I wish I had known in my previous relationship. Women nowadays are pretty fucked. Their nature is evolutionarily fragile and because of society nowadays, most of them have become behaviourally trash. By that I mean a woman doesn't really love you. A woman loves how you make her feel. If her hamster is spinning, if she's feeling excited, she will love you. If she doesn't, she will not. Women are also contradictory.… | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 08:18 AM |
| 2 | First signs of losing controlpreach man preach | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 06:30 PM |
| 10 | First signs of losing controlHey look up "the betaization process". You're being betaized by her, easy as that. What she's basically doing and what any other girl does in a relationship is to constantly test your masculinity as the relationship progresses. She's doing all of this shit to see if you're still as masculine as she knew you or not. They're not traps. They're shittests on a whole another level. They're subtle and seem negligeable but their effects on her psyche are pretty tough. Here's what you can do to salvage … | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Is a human resources counseling degree worth it?Hey thanks for the advice. The master's degree price is 1900 euros/semester. That's 2100 usd. So the whole master's should cost smth like 8.5k usd. I was worried about this particular point because the master's in psychology costs 4200euros/semester, that's 20k usd. So my simple brain figured, "Oh, it's cheap, therefore not worth it," but then after googling the HR degree jobs for a while, I came to realize that it wasn't that bad at all, actually. As you said, HR departments are found in almost… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Post your record weight lossokay i thought i did a great job but reading the comments... welll i went from 88kg to 75kg that's 29 lbs (13kg) on the course of 5 months. The process was very slow because I was on and off keto the entire time. When I'm on though, I'd eat 1500 kcal a day (500kcal deficit) and worked out thrice a week (but didn't make any gains). | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Going on a date first time after breakupit was my first LTR. My game was tight, no need to go into details, but I agree that maybe I exaggerated a little. Thanks for the advice. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 12:00 PM |
| 2 | What are signs a woman views you as beta vs alpha?to be honest? Fuck that "both your needs are met" bullshit. It's never worked for me. When you try to "gEt HeR nEEdzz mEt", she will only feel appalled and makes your need not only unmet, but totally forgotten. The only way to keep a healthy fucking relationship is to withdraw your attention every once in a while to keep her craving for more. That's right, the only way to get "both your needs met" is to keep her lacking attention and in doing so, she'll meet your needs thoughtlessly. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 07:58 AM |
| 8 | Be her Darkest Sexual Chapterjesus fuck | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/19 07:53 AM |
| 13 | I see happy couples everywherethe only happy relationship that you might get in this time and age is a relationship where you're feeling completely stable, utterly focused on your mission, and have a drama-free life. A relationship where your girl is ready to fuck on the go. The moment you start hamstering about her whereabouts or where she starts giving you drama more frequently than before, your relationship has just turned sad and what is to come only worse because had you reached that level, it only means that you've bec… | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 07:44 AM |
| 14 | What are signs a woman views you as beta vs alpha?Alpha = she's dying to be around and please you. Beta = she doesn't give two fucks if you're dead or alive. How does she behave when you're around her? Does she ask you to do stuff? And when she does, does she seem like she's desperately trying to qualify herself? Is she being touchy and clingy and takes initiative in kino? All of those are signs that she views you as alpha and wants to fuck you. You can throw in a few shit and comfort tests here and there and that's it. When you're beta, she li… | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Getting over a break upBro all the advice you're hearing here is not gonna do you any good. Breakup sucks and you need to live with it. You have void in your heart now and you need to fill it with other kind of love. Okay you may find this silly but what worked for me was booking a flight back home and cuddling with mom for hours crying my fucking heart out. The mother wasn't as emotionally supportive as I expected her to be as she started teasing me for being a little bitch and having a girl fucking me up this good. … | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 09:23 PM |
| 1 | LTR's ex-bfnah man, op said that she's good in all aspects of an LTR but he only missed this ex thingy which is not really a big of a deal if he had known how to deal with it properly once i saw a post here of some guy driving his car with his girl on their way to spend a weekend somewhere when she, out of the blue, says that she hanged out with her ex last week or some shit. My man turned over and dropped her at her place and went on the vecation alone. Read about the betaization process. From epxerience,… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 08:19 AM |
| 0 | Shit test fail?"wow, easy there cowgirl" | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 08:08 AM |
| 5 | How to deal with the fact of being dumped for a famous/rich guy?do yourself a favour and delete the post then go read the sidebar or the rational male or trp handbook (you can find online), you're not gonna like what you're gonna hear i'm telling you this for your own benefits, they're gonna drop some harsh truth on your ass you won't be able to bear it in your current conditions try moving on and get her out of your head man, seek friends and every kind of help that you can gather and the restart all fresh | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 08:33 PM |
| 16 | Need help dealing with my fear of womenThere is a very interesting post on TRP by humanpocket someone about how to manage your bitches or smth like. It's like a guide, but he starts with a very interesting concept: the same way men are evolutionarily designed to be dominant, hunters and survivors, women are designed to be obedient and submissive. Trust me on this from fucking experience. On an unconscious psychobiological level, women hate being treated as equals, as actual fucking human beings that deserve your respect. They want to… | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Why I Love Hypergamyi sent you a private message, check your inbox | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/19 02:51 PM |
| 1 | mood swings post-breakupbro i can't possibly focus on myself, i'm hating myself for being such a pathetic little bitch i'm lifting 3 times a week and tried gaming girls but holly shit dude they sniffed that fake confidence miles away... i'm trying to socialize in my university yet still acting like a retard i'm also reading a book on stoicism and reached the point where it started sounding like mainstream bullshit so i stopped and started reading a textbook instead (ikr). But still, everything I do is partly doing it, … | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Any tips for maintaining a healthy relationship?Man... You're right. I had a very tough first experience and this bitch fucked me upside down and sideways. Her mind games are literally out of this fucking globe. I really need to date more women. It is as you said though, those moments of proving your masculinity will eventually occur whether we wanted them or not. One has just to be ready for the worst and that's it. Jesus you ended up giving me advice lol | /r/askTRP | 27/02/19 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Any tips for maintaining a healthy relationship?applying this advice is not going to be as easy as you might think: it's gonna be difficult and you'll see how fucked up it's gonna be. I think it just needs practice and getting used to. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/19 09:41 PM |
| 9 | Any tips for maintaining a healthy relationship?All of the details you've mentioned about your relationship don't really matter that much because it's going down the path every relationship is bound to go through. I broke up with my ex 2 weeks ago, and I've learnt a lot of shit I'm going to share with you in this comment. http://www.personalpowermeditation.com/forum/social-dynamics/the-betaization-process/ This is the one post I wish I had read before going in my previous LTR. Every girl will initiate a process of betaizing you no matter how … | /r/askTRP | 27/02/19 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Is it beta if I go on the Ellen show?Hahahaha oh god | /r/askTRP | 27/02/19 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Why I Love Hypergamyjesus fuck me dead do you have more articles on the topic please? stuff on how to handle LTRs? Jesus man, the similarities are fucking frightening, omfg... just reading that shit made me anxious, hands down the best article I ever read on handling your LTRs | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/19 08:06 AM |
| 1 | How to get over this evil inclination to self-harm?yeah it was a damn mistake, can't argue with that thanks for the insighful comment, it's getting better i'm not really mourning her loss or anything, haven't cried one bit. What she did to me hurt me a lot and i moved on when I broke up with her. But now, I still kind of cling to the last couple of moments where we hugged and bid each other farewell... that was emotional affffffffffff, and she had my favourite cologne on... man, why do girls have to be such manipulative assholes... fucking hell … | /r/askTRP | 25/02/19 07:45 AM |
| 1 | How to get over this evil inclination to self-harm?Dunno in specific man, not gonna lie, she was my first LTR and we had our moments together. It was difficult but it had its own beauty. Then it turned into a source of anxiety and stress so I cut her off and I'm feeling better. But still, I'm feeling like I'm lacking smth. I got so used being with her I guess. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Friends gf walks all over him and he has become a whipped beta. I like the guy but have lost a lot of respect for him. Should I reduce interaction with him to keep myself away from that wreck?You can laugh all you want I had to watch that movie before replying to your comment. Yeah, fucking exactly though lol. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 09:45 PM |
| 6 | Are American girls 'easier' than British/European girls?If you wanna fill your head with all the misconceptions everyone is throwing at you in the comments, go ahead. But I must tell you: it largely depends on the person. There are a lot of factors that may contribute to the girl's sexual strategy, personality and behaviour and their geographical origins have maybe a little if nothing to do with it. Everyone is different. A girl from the US might be easy, but a girl from Italy might be a lot easier. It depends on how they were raised, their former ex… | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 08:00 PM |
| 7 | Friends gf walks all over him and he has become a whipped beta. I like the guy but have lost a lot of respect for him. Should I reduce interaction with him to keep myself away from that wreck?I have a very very similair case. She broke up with him with no clear explanations as to why and it hurt him immensily. He's still depressed af and I've always been there for the guy. I sat down with him for hours just discussing what could have potentially went wrong, and disclosed to him TRP. He didn't like it that much and thought we're a bunch of autists and abusers, but he defintely learnt smth and addmitted that some of the fuckery we discuss here has some truth to it. He's feeling much be… | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 09:11 AM |
| 4 | Why I Love HypergamyYeah, man, that's the thing. I just think women create such an intoxicating environment for a couple to be in. Here's an example. I flew back home for 2 weeks and my stay there was fucking depressing. I almost got robbed in the streets of my city, my family is depressing, and the overall mood was putting me down so much while she was traveling abroad somewhere nice and enjoying her time. Sure, I was happy for her. And she kept me updated. The thing with my ex is that her vagina was already dry. … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/19 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Ex shows at my place asking for closure, she gets it and then tells me she could be pregnant. How to fucking proceed because I'm freaking the fuck out.she took the pregnancy test twice and then she fucked off after a warming little hug. She apologized for what she did (the scene) and thanked me for everything, I gave her a warming hug which made her cry even more, and then slowly asked her to leave which she gladly did. Once she's out, I blocked her off everything for good. How did I do? | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 05:44 PM |
| 1 | I feel so got damn refreshedenjoyed her... head? whenever you wanted? wait... what? | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Girl withholding sexIt's not going anywhere... It's either she fucks you or she doesn't. If she made you wait for sex, then it just means you're a plan B and she won't be fucking if someone else stepped in. She's not worth the efforts, trust me. Just move on and seek better options. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 09:03 AM |
| 8 | Girl withholding sexHer reasoning behind it is that she doesn't want to rush things Sex is never worth the waiting. A girl would fuck your brains out if her hypergamy deemed you a suitable sex partner. That bullshit about making you wait for the sex and whatnot is her on a psychobiological level believing that you're not worthy of fucking. Just imagine a different context. Imagine a good-looking guy with an expensive car and a 6-figure job who looks athletic af and is just every girl's wet dream's guy. Do you think… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 08:54 AM |
| 28 | Why I Love HypergamyVery interesting short and concise post. However, you fail to realize that what you're talking about is merely the short-term pleasure that you get from hypergamy and that's it. Being chosen as the best male of the room sure as hell feels awesome and would boost your self-esteem and confidence consierably, and then you're fucking her even if she has a boyfriend. But on the long-term? Hypergamy is what makes girls miserable, destroys familes, and brings the worst in men. I have met many single gr… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/19 08:10 AM |
| 2 | Should I just break up?check on my previous posts :) i had a similair issue with my ex it's just the realization that she ain't shit and she's repleacable and i can do much better what helped me gather balls and break up with her over text with no explanation on valentine's day. I was the one contributing value to the relationship and she was just a piece of shit, yours is definetely a piece of shit u just can't see it yet. Don't waste your time and seek better options bro. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Should I just break up?LDR She said she's a virgin and tries to appear as this righteous girl a lot. She parties once or twice every weekend she sleeps over at the house she partied at 4 major red flag I'd never ever tolerate even in a western culture context. LDR: she's constantly seeking better options, might have found some by now already the virgin thing: yeah right, she's just waiting for the best chad to game and fuck her right partying: only trash people do parties once or twice every fucking weekend, partying … | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Ex shows at my place asking for closure, she gets it and then tells me she could be pregnant. How to fucking proceed because I'm freaking the fuck out.Alright she just took the pregnancy test and it was a definite negative, but I read on the internet that it's best taken on the first pee in the morning. I have a more expensive test and she's taking it tomorrow morning. She also felt that she's feeling the period symptoms coming. I started hinting at the fact that if she's pregnant, it's not gonna be mine. I said the chances that u're pregnant from me are incredibly low....etc etc. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Ex shows at my place asking for closure, she gets it and then tells me she could be pregnant. How to fucking proceed because I'm freaking the fuck out.But I did give her closure... I legit went one for an hour talking about everything.. didn't get emotional, was smiling the entire time and telling it'll be okay. What does she want from this? Attention? And then what man? I swear she could mindfuck me all she wants a few weeks ago because I had oneities. But now, manz i couldn't think clearer and I really don't give a fuck about her anymore. But this kid thing is making me anxious. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Ex shows at my place asking for closure, she gets it and then tells me she could be pregnant. How to fucking proceed because I'm freaking the fuck out.she a fucking thot bro, she deserved that and more... fuck her | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Ex shows at my place asking for closure, she gets it and then tells me she could be pregnant. How to fucking proceed because I'm freaking the fuck out.As I mentioned in the edit, she traveled abroad for 5 days. Some Chad could've fucked her raw... how to proceed man? I just don't want to end up with a fucking kid. I'm only 22. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Ex shows at my place asking for closure, she gets it and then tells me she could be pregnant. How to fucking proceed because I'm freaking the fuck out.She's taking the fucking piss right in front of me tomorrow and I'm dipping the fucking pregnancy test in the bowl she will be pouring her urine in. I'm also getting a sensetive pregnancy test. edit: but the real question is: how to proceed in case she's pregnant and starts throwing shit like, "Give me time to think if I really want to do it". OR worst case scenario," You're becoming a father". | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 10:03 PM |
| 1 | How Do I Get a Black Plate to Give Me the N-Word Pass?The more I browse this subreddit, the weirder it becomes lol | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 02:05 PM |
| 1 | I have a life long problem...Advice please?... delete the post please... What the fuck man | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 02:03 PM |
| 1 | How can I hold frame in this situation?The guys are cool with you, right? Should've sung to her fucking face until she throws up or leaves. This is no shittest, this is someone being mean. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 02:00 PM |
| 5 | It fucking stings.Man... The state of men today... What the actual fuck... I'm just so fucking grateful I stumbled on TRP this early in my life... | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 01:24 PM |
| 7 | It fucking stings.Yeah man. I relate to what you say... That one and only bullahit doesn't exist and hoes ain't loyal. When I was with my ex and she told she was happy her ex contacted her, I felt like a piece of shit. My confidence shattered and felt I was in the bottom of manly ranks. But then, thinking about the relationship and everything that happened during it, I came to realise that I was the one contributing all the value to the relationship and that she's just trash and is not worthy of everything I did … | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 12:57 PM |
| 10 | It fucking stings.Do you really think she will be wondering regretting? You silly silly kiddo. Hypergamy doesn't give two fucks about him. Did you see Deadpool 2? (Edit: I actually forgot what the movie was. But it was a Marvel sorry) Do you remember the ancient witch inside the female protagonist? That careless blood-thirsty bitch? That's how callous and vengeful hypergamy is. That's the evolutionary witch within every fucking girl. The fact that she cheated on him and then told him proves that she doesn't give … | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 12:46 PM |
| 3 | It fucking stings."And if you don't know, now you knowwwww nigga" | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 12:39 PM |
| 5 | How I almost fucked my math teacher from frame aloneBad bad bad idea. Once the story goes out, both of yall are fucked. Especially her. Don't do it. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 05:06 AM |
| 9 | Anyone else has laughably shit thin eyebrows?Why the fuck is everyone so self-conscious about how they look? Jesus man. Stop this fuckery. Who cares if you have thin eyebrows, short, narrow jaw or whatever the fuck you think is making you look like an idiot? Absolutely no fucking one. It's true looks have smth to do with how people perceive you but trust me on this: it doesn't matter how you're morphologically and anatomically constructed if you look fucking decent. If you dress right, if you have the right haircut, if you figure out what … | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 05:01 AM |
| 2 | Self-deprecating humorIs this weird that every time I remember the Rational Male or Rollo Tomassi my heart skips a beat? That book just contains too much truth that it makes me feel uncomfortable sometimes. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 04:04 AM |
| 1 | LTR to study abroad in Europe this summer. Advice?They should change "Erasmus Exchange semester" program name to "a few months of getting shitfaced and fucking as many European Chads as possible". I know a lot of exchange students where I live in Europe and bro they're having sex all the time. Had sex with one of them. But still. You never fucking know, hence the dread you're feeling. Chances are she's fucking other guys or she might be actually a fucking decent human being and not do it. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Is this guy a true "Alpha Male"?Exactly what I thought.. why should you care someone else is alpha oe beta Jesus | /r/askTRP | 16/02/19 06:28 PM |
| 6 | Why does every girl ever say that their ex boyfriend/current boyfriend is a physically abusive stalker who threatens them & beats the shit out of them?The state of men nowadays is just pathetic. I broke up with my girlfriend 2 days ago just because her fucking piece-of-a-shit of an ex commented on her Instagram post. She told me to me face that it made her happy which of course I didn't receive well. Then she proceeded to tell me she wants a break. We did the break thing and 3 days after I broke up with her over text and blocked her from social media entirely. The dude is just disgustingly overly beta. She cheated on him with me then broke up … | /r/askTRP | 16/02/19 05:56 PM |
| 1 | What's wrong with me?Got it bro. Thanks. Already read the posts and Jesus Christ the advice is gold. I just broke up with her bro. After 3 days of silence "Heyyy" "hiiii! Happy valentine's Day!" "I think it's needless to say that our relationship is over. I'll send you your money with (her roommate [a classmate]) Never text or talk to me again". "Umm. Okay". 3 mins later she started writing. I thought, "fml she's pregnant". "But wait, we didn't discuss this in our last call?" (Yeah, right, she first has to approve o… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Is there something wrong or am I just overthinking it?During first stages of sex, both man and woman secrete fluids to make penetration feasible. If she's not wet and the walls of her vagina don't have enough moist, your dick will literally get scratched inside and it will probably leave you bleeding. So to ensure that friction is not deadly, girls secrete vaginal fluid to make it smoother and your dick secretes what you just mentioned in the post. Don't worry about it. It's completely normal. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/19 01:41 PM |
| 1 | First relationship is a LDR and influence of TRP postsHonestly bro if it's an LDR no matter how hard you tryna rationalize that it's gonna work, it'll never do. The dread both of yall will be going through will hurt you both badly and it's not gonna end well. One of you will eventually cheat on the other end no one will feel happy about it. You can either start finding other chicks or keep going until reality hits you hard. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/19 01:37 PM |
| 1 | awalt, seriously?It feels cozy and warm that you can feel her soft skin and make her moan while you're having sex, doesn't it? Your confidence boosts once she starts licking your balls and giving you the attention that a high-value man deserves. You feel confident, careless and on top of the world. You feel special and psychologically balanced. That's hypergamy working in your favour. Wait until life hits you with all it got like it did to me bro. You think your girlfriend is your best friend? Someone who would … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/19 01:36 PM |
| 2 | awalt, seriously?You and I are going through the same existential dilemma, my friend. I'm currently suffering from these thoughts and after much thought and consideration, I've come to the conclusion that the nowadays Western model of relationships is fucker on so many levels and is more like a conflict that two people just getting together and enjoying the love of their lives. I'm pretty sure what I'm about to say is swag but hear me out and always be reminded that these facts are pieces of truth and they all e… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/19 10:57 AM |
| 5 | First relationship is a LDR and influence of TRP posts"The One"? Are you serious? Did your read the Sidebar/ The Rational Male? | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 10:23 PM |
| 1 | What's wrong with me?Hey one more thing. There's a strong possibility that she's pregnant. We're both students in early twenties so a baby would only make everyone sad. How to proceed if she's really pregnant? After providing a positive pregnancy test, of course. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 10:18 PM |
| 1 | What's wrong with me?Hahahaha true | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 10:53 AM |
| 2 | What's wrong with me?We all know what's going on here. She's making sure that her ex will be back to her and then break up with me. That's the point from this break thing. Thanks for the advice. I need to cleanse myself for good. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 07:56 PM |
| 4 | What's wrong with me?Damn bro... Thanks a lot... I've become low value. This bitch cheated on her ex with me and broke up with him for me then my SMV dropped all of the sudden cuz of some shit I'm going through and because of her mind games and now she wants to go back to her ex. I'm just feeling paralyzed that bearing in mind what you said and what happened, I still have this weird and strange desire I want to negotiate it and make it work... I'm more inclined to end it, but this fucking desire man... It's fucking … | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 07:07 PM |
| 2 | What's wrong with me?Breaking free from bluepill is harder than I thought... Like understanding TRP is no problem, you can easily spot everything happening in real time, but applying the advice and making it a reality is much harder than I thought | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 06:47 PM |
| 1 | What's wrong with me?To mAkE tHiS wORk.. like i know that she's a bitch and no fucking guy with a dignity should tolerate this shit... But here is my pathetic beta self telling me I should and everything will be okay... Bro I know whether I wanted to make it work or not, the relationship is ending, but this beta in me makes me very disgusted at myself... | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 06:43 PM |
| 1 | What's wrong with me?Bro this beta nature of mine shocks the shit out of me. This desire to want her make me feel so disgusted... I really don't understand what's wrong with me man... | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Porn has ruined my life. This is the rock bottom. I can't tell this to anyone. I can't post this anywhere else. Please help guys.Woah I gotta say you went distances there. I don't think the problem lays with the kind of porn you're watching or with your cuckold fantasies. The problem is the way you perceive porn. See, you should have the mindset of porn being the outlet, a last resort of some sort that you only shelter yourself in when everything else fails. Porn should be a tool used carefully to release all of that libido or else it can cause you to do some hurtful things like raping someone or being too aggressive with… | /r/askTRP | 09/02/19 11:36 PM |
| 1 | The sudden "Why?" shittestwow wtf she's asian | /r/askTRP | 07/02/19 06:17 PM |
| 1 | The sudden "Why?" shittestI wish the stuff she was weirding out were the decisions I take on what to do and how to do it. When it comes to these things, she obeys almost blindly. Okay here is a weird fucking example. We are having dinner in the kitchen of her apartment with her roommate. I finished dining, so I told her I'm going to her room to practice some guitar. The guitar is hers. She says, "Yeah yeah, sure". I go to her room, sit down and play some guitar. No big deal. I praticed for around 15 minutes and then I we… | /r/askTRP | 07/02/19 12:24 PM |
| 2 | The sudden "Why?" shittestBro, in real life, she asks "Why?" and looks deep into my fucking soul. Once we were taking the elevator and giggled in a weird way. She looked at me and said, "Why did you just laugh like that?" and didn't move her eyes off mine one bit. I smiled and said, "Why not? Now, that is the question". "Okay," and she looked down. Then I just switched subjects. From her reaction, I can't tell I passed the shittest. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/19 08:48 AM |
| 3 | The sudden "Why?" shittesthaahha jesus, i'm keeping this as a nuclear | /r/askTRP | 07/02/19 08:43 AM |
| 1 | The sudden "Why?" shittestWell, I didn't tie her rainstorm of shittests to her ovulation phase from the top of my head. I've been with her for 6 months and it is a pattern that I see being repeated over and over again. Basically, from the last day of her menstruation cycle to ovulation, her behaviour becomes more aggressive gradually and it reaches a peak during her ovulation days. During those days, she's talkative, receptive, and shittests a lot. She just wants to make some shit up and basically have fun. And then afte… | /r/askTRP | 07/02/19 08:41 AM |
| 3 | The sudden "Why?" shittestOkay, maybe I fucked up cuz I did act butthurt when she asked that question and ignored her the last time. Thanks for the tip. I'm implementing this. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 11:52 PM |
| 5 | The sudden "Why?" shittestIkr? I know a good tip to blow shittests is to make it look weird. Like something is wrong with her. I just dunno how to handle it with an LTR. Should I straight up ask her to simply stop doing it? | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 11:47 PM |
| 2 | The sudden "Why?" shittestAnd as I said, it only occurs during her ovulation. Around that time, she shittests me like there's no tomorrow. I manage to pass all of the other shittests. Trust me I do. They're fun. She teases me and I tease her back with stronger stuff. But then this one bro. This one. It's like the final stage. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 11:34 PM |
| 2 | The sudden "Why?" shittestTried that. Dry vagina. It's a shittest. I'm 100% sure. My only problem is that you can't really fucking actually sit down and explain the joke. Then I also can't come up with some cocky shit to backfire at her or smth. It's just fuckijg awkward. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Moved to LTR’s country, got treated like shit. Now announced I’m going back home and she worships me.He may be BluePilled, sure, but he's redpilled in the sense that he has a mission to which he devoted his life and time and women are in the last ranks, if they existed at all, in his list of priorities. I just rebutting the fact that she ducked him. She didn't. He divorced her cuz she was a fucking distraction. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/19 09:08 AM |
| 1 | LTR asking me to approach other girls and weirding out normal stuff. How to pass these shittests?Thank you very much for the heads-up man. I usually keep her on the leash by conveying that she's not as much to me as she thinks she is. We go to the same university and while we're on campus, I hit on other girls in front of her all the time and I can sense dread working on her pretty well. The main issue now is that we're on a break now and haven't gone to uni in almost 2 months so she probably forgot who she's dealing with. We got once with her female friends and acted just like in uni and i… | /r/askTRP | 02/02/19 03:22 PM |
| 4 | LTR asking me to approach other girls and weirding out normal stuff. How to pass these shittests?Meaning when she asks me to do such thing in the future, I should jokingly comply? What about her "Why..." question she keeps throwing at me every once in a while? Edit: thanks for the advice. Now I know what's up. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/19 01:44 PM |
| 11 | Moved to LTR’s country, got treated like shit. Now announced I’m going back home and she worships me.He divorced her, she didn't. She was being whiny all the time about how he's not giving her enough attention so he straight up told her that "If you were my employee, I'd fire you". And he eventually did and then married another girl who turned her into a blond just cuz he has a thing for blondies. He's still going to Mars whether women tagged along in his life or not. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/19 11:02 AM |
| 5 | Moved to LTR’s country, got treated like shit. Now announced I’m going back home and she worships me.Man... I'm really sorry it turned out this way. But I must point out that you took the wrong move when you moved into her country WITH HER. Bro, you shouldn't have done that. You should have just moved into her country on your own, in your own apartment, dorm, whatever. Everyone in TRP community and Rollo Tomassi pointed out in several podcasts that moving in with your woman will only start a shitshow of drama that you don't need in your life. It is true what you said that she became secure abou… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/19 10:07 AM |
| 3 | Dating a girl while not speaking the same language?isn't "je veux TE baiser"? | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 10:37 PM |
| 3 | Dating a girl while not speaking the same language?Go for it, bro. It's really a lot of fun. I had a similiar case but I can't say it was a success cuz I didn't manage to fuck the girl at the end of the night. We were at some boring tea party and I arrived late. I instantly became the AMOG and started teasing all the bitches, even the waitress, and a few girls eyed me. One of them was Portugeuse who couldn't speak a word of English, but she had a friend who was translating to her the bullshit I was throwing at people. She was giggling and lookin… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 10:22 PM |
| 3 | Too short?I know a guy who is as short as you (maybe taller maybe shorter), and this guy is the most hilarious person you can ever meet. With that, of course, comes his great ability to pick up girls and fuck them to sleep. He's constantly taking care of himself though, especially clothing and hairstyle. He buys a pair of shoes every month, a new jacket every once in a while, and always trims his beard and gets a haircut once he starts looking like shit. I have seen this guy in action and what can I tell … | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 11:09 AM |
| 2 | How to maintain frame when she denies sex.It happened to me before and I totally screwed up. It's a sensitive situation, so you're gonna get nervous. Holding frame would be trying not to do smth stupid based on what you feel in that moment. It really depends on the situation the sex was declined in. It varies from one situation to another and you just have to proceed like this. First of all, assume that smth is wrong and ask her if she's feeling okay. There's nothing wrong with that. There could be a reason behind it. If her reason is l… | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 12:31 AM |
| 0 | Controlling her fucking hypergamy.If you wanna be her little bitch for the rest of your life, go for it. Honestly it just sounds horrible. You know she's hypergamous just like any other woman and at some point or another, you guys will break up. I have a friend from a 3rd-world country and he met a German girl. He gamed her right, married her, and migrated to Germany. Found a job, an apartment, and everything went smoothly for a few years until shit went wrong and they divorced. Not sure what exactly happened, but he got deporte… | /r/askTRP | 19/01/19 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Wtf is wrong with me?Basically, my fundamental problem was that I was way too needy. I was doing amazing stuff with her. I was shooting vlogs and editing them into montages with nice background music that we listen to using a double audio jack, planned on cooking many stuff together, recorded music, bought her a really well-thought Christmas gift, and the list goes on. In the process, I totally neglected myself and my wellbeing. Last I lifted was 2 months ago. Last time I did a YouTube video or wrote a blog was 1 mo… | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Wtf is wrong with me?i've got posts, read'em up | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Wtf is wrong with me?Years and years of BPed conditioning won't wash off in a few years after TRP, bro. The problem might not even be the BP, it might be some other issue with the way you were raised, the kind of love you were given by your parents, and the list goes on and on. In my case, it's defintely my parents + circa 15 years of BP conditioning. I'm still recovering from this shit, man. It's not easy and it's gonna take time. But I'm defintely thinking clearer and much better than before. It'll come. Just take… | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Wtf is wrong with me?Look bro. For real. To lead a happier life with yourself and your partner, you have to take care of yourself first. The signs that your girl is cheating on you should be blatant as daylight. You literally have nothing to worry about. Unless she's a manipulative bitch, when the thought of her cheating on you crosses her mind, you'll fucking pick it up just like that. I remember one day I met with my ex and she was completely off. She tried hiding it but she couldn't. I said what's wrong and she s… | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Wtf is wrong with me?Would you believe if I told you that a few days ago I was gonna post the exact same question with a relatively similair paragraph? If this would make you feel any better, you and I are exactly in the same position. But you, unlike me, are still in the relationship and everything can be fixed. So here is what I learnt after I broke up with my girlfriend and here is how I am working on fixing myself. First of all, you got that right when you said that you artitude towards the whole thing is going … | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 05:35 PM |
| 18 | What did you do to fix this posture?My man is probably high for days | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 11:05 AM |
| 15 | What did you do to fix this posture?Is he looking up? Arms crossed? Is that chest hair? | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 11:46 PM |
| 2 | ltr behavioural changes across different environmentsexactly it's a pattern that can be seen in different in every girl, but it comes out differently periods, social contexts, moods swings, call'em whatever u want, at one point or another, her insecurity will reach a peak and she'll freak out in the form of shittests to remind herself that she made the right choice actually thinking about it, it's such a vicious self-destructive cycle that they get themselves into, meaning if she feels insecure, she shittests you, and you fail cuz u had ur guards … | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Wtf this bitch wants?just a bunch of kids fucking around, if you ask me, adults don't act in such way my man | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 04:47 PM |
| 4 | Set my tinder location to Poland and matches soared, what's the catch?Ouch, that hurts | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 12:33 PM |
| 25 | Wtf this bitch wants?Damn bro that's some highschool cringing bullshit. Rise above this fuckery. Don't take what they say/do seriously. They all want you to chase her and give her her BluePilled Cinderella love story. But if you do that, we all know how's it's gonna end: being in her frame before anything starts. Just ignore them and move on. Game other chicks and get yourself busier doing more interesting things than chasing some fucking retarded kids. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 12:31 PM |
| 1 | LTR of 5 years about to dump me. How to react?yeah man got it, so hit her up twice a week max and use text only for logistics, so that's lso texting twice a week. It's something I defintely have to work on cuz I'd consider myself from the younger generations who think not texting back or having a conversation over text is weird. But that's about to change. Thanks for the advice. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 01:28 PM |
| 2 | LTR of 5 years about to dump me. How to react?That's a really good exercise to get into the mindset. How often should I text? | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 08:31 PM |
| 9 | LTR of 5 years about to dump me. How to react?Thanks for the advice. This is what I did. And guess what I realized? For all TRP I studied, all my SMV and everything in between, I was still a nice guy. As the relationship progressed, I've become nicer and nicer as in being a fucking pathetic piece of shit Nice Guy. My mistakeS basically revolved around forgetting myself. Entirely. Last time I went to the gym was 2 months ago. Not to mention the rest, like gaining weight and all that bullshit... I made her a priority. Like top priority. Was h… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else get socially awkward or even “depressed” when they haven’t been to the gym in a while?Look Brain Derived Neurotrophic Factor. I think it's a kind of hormone/neurotransmitter released in the brain when you move which increases neuroplasticity and brain growth in general. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend says “we’re just fuck-buddies”It is difficult not to fall for the BB way of things once you're in an LTR, something I learnt from my previous relationship (which was the first one, check my post history). I realized that the main issue of the relationship is that I was giving way too much than I was getting. There is really no problem with that. The problem is you giving shit and expecting her at the core of your self that she'll be reciprocating. I went distances in this which ended up putting a lot of pressure on the girl … | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 12:40 PM |
| -2 | How would you respond to this?"Hahaha okay" Ghost for a while Hit her up again If she declined, hard next her. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 11:22 AM |
| 3 | Red flag degrees and jobs?Bro if u wanna figure out what's going with yourself, you can always do therapy. It'll cost you some money but it'll save you a lot of time. Studying psychology won't solve you shit. When I first signed up for it, I thought it was limited to Freud's model of personality theory and that kind of therapeutic bullshit. But to my surprise, Freud was probably mentioned once or twice. Psychology majors nowadays focus on research methods and 5 major subfields: personality, developmental, social, clinica… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 11:19 AM |
| 5 | Red flag degrees and jobs?That's a very overgeneralized and cliché assumption. Willing to understand human behaviour and enhancing it doesn't always mean that the student is suffering from a certain illness that they want to fix. I'm studying psychology and most of my classmates are majoring in it for the heck of it. It's just like majoring in any other field: you're interested for it so you go for it. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Just broke up with my first LTRHey, I'm currently reading No More Mr Nice Guy and it's making a lot of sense. I might need your help concerning my situation to speed up the process of recovery and become a better person on the whole. Here's the main issue. Honestly, I'm not sure wherefrom it stemmed. It might be my father who was a typical Nice Guy all of his life (not standing up for my mother whenever he didn't approve of something, helping others on the expense of himself, or being genuinely nice and caring, a guy with no … | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 11:11 AM |
| 15 | Which movies have redpill content?Blue Valentine *spoiler alert* An alpha widow pregnant with his kid meets a beta and marries him to provide her. Everything's fine until she bumps into the alpha who impregnated her who doesn't give two fucks what she's up to or whatever. Shit goes downhill from there, starts growing cold and distance from her husband, the latter becomes clingy and needy, and it's a shitshow from there on. The movie is really captivating because the beta is Ryan Gosling lol that guy could get all the pussy tha… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Just broke up with my first LTRYou hit the spot on that one my friend. My father's alpha presence was completely absent from my life. My mother wasn't the best either. I've had several failed "crushes", didn't even make it to a relationship before. Discovered TRP a year ago, and been self-improving since. Everything made sense, started gaming girls, plated some, and made some progress in general. However, there's always that latent dormant side in me which was awoken by this particular girl. Anyways, thanks for the advice. I'… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/19 02:02 PM |
| 0 | Just broke up with my first LTRI'm not going back to her anyways... I know it'll just be long nights of hamstering and me missing out on many things... I think I just need some time to recover is all. I just have to not do anything stupid... Thanks for the insights y'all. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/19 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Just broke up with my first LTRI really appreciate it. I've read the sidebar multiple times already and I know what I'm experiencing right now is scarcity mentality. Furthermore, her being afraid to catch feelings for someone else, for her that's cheating, Evolutionary Psychology 101. I also knew it that she would eventually grow distant once I left my alpha behaviour behind and went on BB on her. What can I say man? That's who I am. I had feelings for her and I couldn't just act alpha as to dread her or o hurt her. There is … | /r/askTRP | 08/01/19 11:34 AM |
| 4 | Just broke up with my first LTRomg man... thank you so much, what you said just touched me deeply... thanks | /r/askTRP | 08/01/19 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Just broke up with my first LTRThanks a lot... I just need more perspectives on the matter because I really have no idea what I should do | /r/askTRP | 08/01/19 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Loyalty to Hypergamyjust broke up with her, so that's not necessary | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/01/19 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Loyalty to HypergamyCalm down, I'm still learning. It's my first LTR ever. I'm not saying you can't blame me, but everyone has gone through this shit, and it is nothing but a learning experience. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/01/19 04:11 PM |
| 3 | A guy who I found out is wearing shoe-lifts is acting like a prick to me because I found out... wtf???same question | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 01:12 PM |
| 9 | Social media has been said to cause depression, low self esteem and anxiety, so why do girls still crave validation from it?Read "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck". I got these ideas from that book. It's a really interesting one. The point that he's making in one of the chapters that everyone is afraid of being average. Most of people believe that in order for you to really be successful, you have to be special and really good at something. It is what everyone is advertising. You don't see average people doing commercials, you see models with a certain unique genetic makeup that make them look almost desirable by … | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 11:55 AM |
| 16 | Social media has been said to cause depression, low self esteem and anxiety, so why do girls still crave validation from it?Social media is the best illusion that one can cast on their mind to make themselves believe that they're someone worth the attention from anyone. If you scroll through Facebook homepage, Instagram, check people's stories and what everyone is up to, all you find are those "amazing" "adventurous" "unique" "special" "look-at-me-i-am-living-the-life" pictures and videos all over the fucking place. In doing that, people, at least for a second or two, give the impression to their social circles as we… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Loyalty to HypergamyIt is such a bitter pill to swallow. Besides the fact that she's not yours it's just your turn thing, girls can never possibly be attracted to you if you make them the center of your attention. I just don't get it. This has continued for me and it culminated just yesterday in her refusing a plan I set to record music together claiming she has exams and whatnot (she's lying, she just doesn't want to do it because why the fuck would she?) To her, I'm just a needy annoying guy who she thought is co… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/01/19 10:49 AM |
| 2 | LTR got me in her frame... how to get out?Noted. Thanks a lot. I'm implimenting your advice starting from now (a cute girl just sat next to me in a café). | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 02:32 PM |
| 2 | LTR got me in her frame... how to get out?How can I keep increasing abundance mentality while promising someone commitment? Before meeting her, every girl was a gaming opportunity. Now I'm kinda refraining from it and my confidence isn't the same as it used to. Even my game has gone a bit rusty. How can you still manage holding abundance while in an LTR? It's my first LTR, so I'm new to this shit. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 02:23 PM |
| 2 | LTR got me in her frame... how to get out?Thanks for the advice, man. Oneities has gotten BB real good. I'm just very worried that eventually I'l turn into a little bitch and be unable to recover. Thanks for the advice, I4m reading it multiple times to let it sink in. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 02:02 PM |
| 1 | LTR got me in her frame... how to get out?Basically, a sickening guts feeling that she's in control, that she can at any moment decline one of my plans and wouldn't give a fuck to take initiative. She did it once in the past, and I didn't receive it well. I fucked up. Instead of soft nexting her, I went BB and wondered like a little bitch why she is doing it (scarcity mentaility, emotional investment, aka oneties). I'm afraid that it'd happen again, and I want to prevent it. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 01:33 PM |
| 1 | LTR got me in her frame... how to get out?I'm aware of that, and as I said, she's always let me control where this is going, what type of activities we're doing, when and where we're meeting...etc. I'm just feeling like I'm overdoing it. She still shows up in time. We still have fun doing these things. Everything looks okay. But I'm worried a little that she's getting used to it, you feel me? Meaning if I soft next her or for some reason I'm too busy for her, she'd probably get upset. I'm enjoying my life and constantly asking her to jo… | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 01:27 PM |
| 7 | Loyalty to HypergamyIt is such a bitter pill to swallow... I've had quite a similair experience. I'm not married but in an LTR with a girl for approx 5 months. In the very beginning, I was your typical AF Chad who she fell in love with. As the LTR progressed, she somehow managed to get that BB out and I started being needy and my self-esteem and confidence gone downhill since. I could feel her dried vagina. I'm positive she was on the verge of cheating. If she had the chance to meet other guys, she'd have probably … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/01/19 10:43 AM |
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