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| 11 | How are men supposed to even get a relationship nowadays?Because they probably followed these two rules lmao. The "attractive" piece isn't just about physical looks. Don't get me wrong, being physically attractive will get you far, that's why these two rules are a running joke in subreddits like Tinder because physical looks is all you can go by. In real life though, you still have to have other attractive qualities to maintain a connection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 09:38 PM |
| 15 | How are men supposed to even get a relationship nowadays?This. Everyone wants to make up new rules and jump through hoops, but at the end of the day it really boils down to these two rules. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 06:35 PM |
| 5 | 60% of young men are not chronically single because they "lack emotional skills"I see what you're saying, but it's not the same. My two cents: Strippers have to be that assertive and upfront because that's their job. Me approaching a woman I find attractive in the club, gym, or grocery store won't impact if I can pay rent next month. Yes, my ego will take a hit if I'm rejected, but not my paycheck. In the context of a strip club, you're right: men want sexual contact and strippers want money; however it's an equivalent exchange. If I pay upfront and get no lap dance, I'd be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 01:50 AM |
| 20 | 60% of young men are not chronically single because they "lack emotional skills"Strippers do the approaching because they need to; otherwise, they'd make less money. It's not the same as cold approaching someone you deem attractive at the grocery store. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 12:09 AM |
| 2 | She Wants You To be Better Than She IsWomen are chosen by men for the privilege of being fed, protected, and cared for. This statement is what I struggle with the most. I'm striving to be the man that can protect and provide for his tribe, but what do I get out of it? Where do I turn when I have a bad day, week, or month? Who can I turn to for advice on internal conflict or stepping into the unknown? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/20 06:08 PM |
| 17 | What's the best way of looking at my shitty current self in order to improve?Both approaches are bad. If you go around telling yourself you're a "Chad", people will eventually pick up on your paper tiger persona and tear it to shreds. This will leave your frame that's built out of straw at this point to be blown away at the slightest breeze. If you go with the "woe is me, I'm such a disgusting loser." approach, 9/10 you'll complete a self-fulfilling prophecy that will impact you negatively. If what makes you a loser is watching an insane amount of porn and you use that a… | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Failed Shit Test/Comfort Test. How To Recover?That's a really good post. I always feel obligated to reply to anything someone says or does. I will definitely work on that moving forward. Thank you for your input 🙏🏾 | /r/askTRP | 06/02/20 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Failed Shit Test/Comfort Test. How To Recover?Ok, will do 👍🏾 | /r/askTRP | 06/02/20 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Failed Shit Test/Comfort Test. How To Recover?Yeah, 2-4 times each night | /r/askTRP | 06/02/20 01:42 PM |
| 1 | What is your favourite music that supports TRP mindset?I was just about to recommend this song. Song will make you question everything. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/20 08:55 PM |
| 3 | Men with an absent father?Therapy and lifting are a great start, but it's going to take patience and self love, my man. You're rewiring a deep rooted, subconscious behavior that you've known all your life. It's going to take time. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 09:59 PM |
| 65 | Men with an absent father?Yes. As someone who had an absent father, I relate to craving female attention and having abandonment/rejection issues. I realized that's why I mainly used social media and cut it out of my life while I figure shit out. What I've struggled with mentally all stems from the question: "Am I good enough? If I am, why did my father not want me?" Also, not having a father, I didn't know what it was like to be a man who embraced his masculinity for 22 years. In the last year or so, I've had to learn fr… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 04:52 PM |
| 10 | Any idea why my ex is doing this?Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was. There's no reason to entertain this in my opinion. When she grabs your phone, take it back. When she lays on you… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/20 03:32 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with this?Prime example of watch her actions, not her words. No need to withdraw attention. Play along, feign disinterest, tease back, whatever your mode of operation is. When in person, grab the cheeks like you usually do and carry on with life. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/20 11:27 PM |
| 7 | Kino: touching + complimenting her hair as a way of escalation?Don't do that. Especially if you're talking to a woman of color, please do not do that. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/20 12:24 AM |
| 23 | How to constantly succeed on Tinder?Open: "Hey 👋🏾" or their name Conversation starter: "How's your week/weekend going so far" Filler: 2-3 messages to build rapport Close: I'd like to take you out and get to know you more. Let's make that happen. Get number, set date, lay pipe, repeat. If she doesn't reply or falls off during the process, her loss, on to the next one. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 09:27 PM |
| 2 | How to improve your face?Out of what you mentioned, skincare is the one you should focus on the most. Follow the skincare addiction subreddit for a wealth of knowledge, but for now, do the following: Find your skin type (oily, dry, combo, or normal) Find a good cleanser, a good moisturizer, and a good sunscreen. Start a simple routine | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 05:21 PM |
| 26 | How you being swole/ripped has changed your SMV?As someone who was almost 300 pounds when I found this space, I'll give my two cents. For context: I'm 6'4", and have a big/broad frame (mesomorph/endomorph type body) My junior year of college, I had experiences in my life that threw me deep into depression. I would overeat, lay in bed all day, and not give a fuck what I looked like. Well, I had an internship in NY for the summer, and the interactions I had with women were subpar. Here were the things I noticed: I would get initial looks due to… | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 05:08 PM |
| 1 | How To Overcome Mental Refractory Period?I know someone who's done this and he says it's an absolute game changer. What if you're going through a dry spell? Do you just hold out or limit masturbation to once a week or something? | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 04:28 PM |
| 3 | Tips on how to do "caring" hard fucking?Ok, so like...some girls (mostly shy or submissive ones) try to act "cute" when having sex. Even if you're laying good pipe and she's enjoying it, she'll try not to make too much noise or make weird sex faces. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/20 02:33 PM |
| 203 | Tips on how to do "caring" hard fucking?In positions where she’s facing you, choke them or hold their face and tell them to look you in the eyes. Depending on the vibe, either fuck her harder or do deep, long strokes (mainly the latter). Hold their hand(s). When digging in it and you sense she’s holding back, tell her to let go and that you got her. Disclaimer: make sure you can actually handle it when she goes crazy. One time, a girl listened and took it up a notch and I busted like 5 seconds later lmao. Don’t be me. Put your weight … | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 02:14 AM |
| 19 | The Power of AbundanceThat's what I'm hoping for, my man. Even though it was our first time together, the sex was on another level. That's probably why I was tweaking when she asked me that question lmao. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/20 11:49 PM |
| 17 | The Power of AbundanceHonestly, that's a goal I'm working on. Over the holidays, I realized I use dating apps as a buffer from being rejected immediately and in front of other people. Time to get out of my comfort zone and just do the damn thing. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/20 11:45 PM |
| 11 | The Power of AbundanceI'm going to use a variation of "don't kiss and tell" moving forward, it's a really good response. I honestly didn't think of this being a comfort test, but looking back there were definitely hints of her covertly seeking some type of comfort. Thank you for your reply. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/20 11:42 PM |
| 18 | The Power of AbundanceThank you for your reply, man. Very insightful. You're right: as soon as I answered her question, I felt like I was scrambling and caught in a web. Follow up question: you mentioned I need to educate and give my more "harder to manage" plates some guidance. Can you explain further? Or are there links about this to point me in the right direction? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/20 11:36 PM |
| 81 | The Power of AbundanceAh, I should I have used this as a response. Hindsight is always 20/20! | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/20 11:30 PM |
| 49 | The Power of AbundanceThank you for your reply. As other comments have pointed out, there were better ways to respond to her, but I was rattled as fuck, not gonna lie. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/20 11:28 PM |
| 38 | How do you develop sex appeal?Have you ever seen a movie trailer and think: “Yooo this shit looks dope, I can’t wait to see this.” Only to leave the theater thinking “what the fuck did I just waste my time and money on?” after watching it? That’s what you’re exuding to these women. Your movie isn’t living up to the movie trailer you’re presenting. You want to develop sex appeal? Be sexual. In your conversations, your body language, your demeanor. Yes, it will be weird at first, but it will be second nature before you know it… | /r/askTRP | 12/01/20 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Your unhealthy concepts of perfection and the perfect outcome are your greatest limitation.As someone who is crippled by perfectionism, I really needed to see this. Great post, definitely saving 🙏🏾 | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/20 02:25 PM |
| 24 | I want LTR of 3 years to come to an endWhenever you invest your time, energy, and emotions into someone for a long period of time, there will be no “less painful” way of ending things. It’s going to hurt. Be a man, sit down with her, and have “the talk”. Tears will be shed, pain will be palpable, and walking away from each other for the last time will be surreal, but breakups are never clean cut. You both knew the risk, but decided to give it a shot anyways. You’ll be ok and so will she. Good luck, brother. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/20 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Standing My Ground Backfired. Is It Recoverable?You’re right, the world still spins, but in my own personal universe, I have always struggled with setting and maintaining boundaries and saying no. In scenarios like this in the past, I would have caved and gone out, but be fuming the entire night because I didn’t want to be there. I’m not too worked up about whether me and this chick meet again. If we do, cool. If we don’t, I’ll be in my feels for a bit, but then move on and get back out there. It’s mainly saying no and sticking with it feels … | /r/askTRP | 04/01/20 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Standing My Ground Backfired. Is It Recoverable?Ok, based on the other comments, my texting is ass. What stuck out as bitch? Also, tips to fix my texting game? | /r/askTRP | 04/01/20 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Standing My Ground Backfired. Is It Recoverable?Yeah, I need to work on my frame a lot more. Even though I read No More Mr. Nice Guy, I’m taking time to actually implement and maintain boundaries. This all still feels so weird to say no and stick to it. Thank you for your response. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/20 08:57 PM |
| 3 | Standing My Ground Backfired. Is It Recoverable?Thank you for your advice, will do | /r/askTRP | 04/01/20 08:55 PM |
| 8 | Standing My Ground Backfired. Is It Recoverable?Agreed. I thought about it, but getting dressed, getting an Uber, buying drinks, and having to deal with the extra layer of ASD because she was with her friends just wasn’t worth it. Thanks for your input. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/20 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Standing My Ground Backfired. Is It Recoverable?I should have done this, I wasn’t thinking straight last night. Thanks for your input. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/20 06:39 PM |
| 9 | Standing My Ground Backfired. Is It Recoverable?Ok, yeah that’s cringe. I need to cut that out of my vocabulary. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/20 06:38 PM |
| 2 | N countDamned if you do, damned if you don’t. N count is always going to be a subject that trips up a lot of guys, myself included. If you treat N count like job experience... Too little experience you’re going to have to teach her. On the pro side, if you’re a good company, she will want to stay with the company and do her best to stay at the company; on the con side, she’s learned all she can (or find out that you’re a mediocre company who doesn’t have their shit in order) and wants to move to a diff… | /r/askTRP | 04/01/20 03:06 AM |
| 2 | [Wake me up] Ghosted by a 8 and feeling miserableI see you reply a lot in this space and you always drop good advice/knowledge. This comment is no exception. Good shit, man | /r/askTRP | 03/01/20 09:23 PM |
| 1 | What's dating in NYC like compared to other big US cities?Nah, but the train is to get from Point A to Point B and no one wants to be bothered during it. Plus you aren't in control of the setting whatsoever. You see a cute girl and you two are making eye contact, but she's on the other side of a crowded car. Do you shove your way, making everyone else pissed, to where she is? What if you two just start the conversation but her stop is the one coming up? Do you get off with her, secure the number, and wait another 5-15 min for the next train? Nahhh, I h… | /r/askTRP | 01/01/20 01:30 AM |
| 1 | What's dating in NYC like compared to other big US cities?Whenever I get the chance tbh. During the summer, day game was definitely king. Now that's it colder, I find day game to be a lot harder. Night game is still my go to though. As for where, I don't have a "spot" that I go to daygame/night game, I just avoid trying to cold approach on the subway. I'm still new to the place, but I've learned extremely quickly that approaching on the train is a big no no. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 10:22 PM |
| 3 | What's dating in NYC like compared to other big US cities?Living in NY? Honestly man, Manhattan. Although expensive af, it's just convenient. Brooklyn is a close second. The vibes are different in each Burrough, but I've found that the NYC area overall is a good test of your SMV. If you're attractive, the women will let you know. If you're unattractive, the women will definitely let you know. If you get curved, just shrug that shit off because the pool is so fucking massive that you will eventually find something. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 06:42 AM |
| 5 | What's dating in NYC like compared to other big US cities?If you're SMV 6.5 or higher, yeah it's easier. You can definitely get caught up in the amount of options you have. I don't know my where my SMV is, but I do get a lot of options on online dating apps and girls who are average start to approach me in bars and whatnot. I know how you feel though. I went to college in a city where the dating market was wack af for me. Because I knew it was temporary, I just used that time to focus on myself. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 06:08 AM |
| 16 | What's dating in NYC like compared to other big US cities?It's overwhelming, especially if your SMV is 6.5+ or higher. Yes, you'll have to compete with actors and male athletes/musicians, but you also have access to actresses and female athletes/musicians if you play your cards right. Online dating is ideal for passive pussy, but cold approaching in NYC is the way to go; you never know what you're getting yourself into which adds to the fun imo. In the end, if you're lifting, doing interesting hobbies, and keeping your hygeine/fashion in top shape, you… | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Should I text again?No. The double text on Xmas Eve was fine imo, but definitely pushing it. Sending a third text has desperation written all over it. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 01:01 AM |
| 10 | Has anybody ever beat anxiety?That's my secret, Cap. I'm always anxious. Real talk, I've always been and still am an anxious person. The difference is that I don't let it control me anymore. Whenever I feel anxiety rear it's head, I think back to when I was a teenager dealing with the 20-ft diving board. I would always remember my anxiety build as I climbed the ladder, walked to the edge, and peered over to see my friends waiting for me in the water below. My first few attempts, I would chicken out and climb back down the la… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 07:16 AM |
| 3 | Issue lately when i'm meeting girls to "chill and smoke" they GENIUNELY MEAN "CHILL AND SMOKE" and it's a straight NO for anything else.Ok, I'm gonna have to call you out on being sketchy af. Imo, they have a right to act out and be mad. Even if i DID bring weed and geniunely want to smoke, do these broads geniunely think i drove out of my way and used my time just to give them weed..? Yes, they do. Do broads actually think like that? Yes, they do. I hate to break it to you, but that's how the game is rigged, man. If you don't want to smoke and chill, do something else. If you don't want to pay for anything, do something else. W… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 12:21 AM |
| 2 | Issue lately when i'm meeting girls to "chill and smoke" they GENIUNELY MEAN "CHILL AND SMOKE" and it's a straight NO for anything else.Since when did people confuse "smoke and chill" "netflix and chill" with "OH YOU MEANT LITERALLY NETFLIX AND CHILL O.N.L.Y." Bro, you can't "smoke and chill" without weed like ???? I'd be upset too lmao | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 12:06 AM |
| 7 | Is sex overrated?What should I do to improve myself and enjoy sex more? Practice by having more sex. Give yourself permission to have bad sex, you're still new to it. Is it just so overrated in a mind of porn expectations over 28 years of virginity? Porn will fuck up your view of sex with real women regardless of your sex status. Real women have stretch marks, bodily fluids, and smells that aren't shown in porn videos. Even amateur porn hides blemishes as best they can. Overall, you're fine my guy. Go out there … | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 09:48 PM |
| 1 | do you go for getting rejected or NEXT?The Medium is The Message, young blood. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 05:37 PM |
| 40 | Why do I get way more emotional about females disrespecting me at work than menOk, listen, man. If you're on the same level, you have four options. Option 1: Be Passive. Let her walk all over you and don't say anything about it. This changes the power dynamic to where she's dominant of the two. Option Two: Be Passive Aggressive. Play her game. Do nothing, but when she is short, you sigh or roll your eyes or make a big deal out of it. You also may go to your manager and "tattle". This changes the power dynamic again but everyone will know you don't know how to handle your o… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 04:55 AM |
| 23 | Why do I get way more emotional about females disrespecting me at work than menHonestly, no. Whats the best case scenario? Worst case scenario? | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 04:26 AM |
| 36 | Why do I get way more emotional about females disrespecting me at work than menGoing to tell her I don't want it happening again when I get the chance in a sec. What would this accomplish? | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 04:18 AM |
| 48 | What are signs that people arent interested in you?From what I've observed and experienced, here's a list: Disinterest 1-on-1 Setting Looking around/avoiding eye contact Rarely contributing to the conversation Find ways to leave the conversation On phone/check the time Disinterest Group Setting You're over talked. In other words, if you and someone talk at the same time, the group wants to hear from who they find more interesting. Or, if you're talking and someone interjects, the group won't correct them. People gradually moving/shifting body po… | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 10:21 PM |
| 3 | What to do after first date?It went reasonably well, the conversation was fun and she was engaged. She made a comment early on in the convo hinting that I should text her tomorrow. She also hinted to her finding me attractive aswell. But was there kino/escalation happening at all throughout the date? | /r/askTRP | 20/12/19 09:52 PM |
| 1 | "That's Bullshit." My First Successful Push/Pull Experience.It's an article found in asktrp sidebar! Here you go: https://www.trp.red/p/vermillionmanmarch/257 | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/19 10:49 PM |
| 7 | "That's Bullshit." My First Successful Push/Pull Experience.Great questions. The first thing I did was get rid of the "I am the prize." mentality. For where I am in life right now, it doesn't work and gives my ego an excuse to not feel rejection or be rejected. "Oh, she didn't text me back? Her loss, I'm the prize." "Oh, wow, that girl is attractive, but I'm the prize, she needs to come to me." "Wait, why is that girl talking to him instead of me?! Doesn't she see me, the prize, standing here?" This process of thinking caused a lot of issues, internally … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/19 11:52 PM |
| 5 | "That's Bullshit." My First Successful Push/Pull Experience.The Otheroom! Great atmosphere, great list of beer/wine, and the alcove in the back is perfect for isolating and escalating with your date. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/19 11:33 PM |
| 12 | "That's Bullshit." My First Successful Push/Pull Experience.I fucked a girl in the bathroom when she was acting like this first date I'm gonna be real with you, chief. I am nowhere near that level yet. One day I'll get there. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/19 11:30 PM |
| 4 | "That's Bullshit." My First Successful Push/Pull Experience.Having a car up here is too fucking expensive, bump that lmao | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/19 11:28 PM |
| 3 | "That's Bullshit." My First Successful Push/Pull Experience.Ok, fair point. Thank you for keeping my ego in check, I needed that. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/19 09:29 PM |
| 16 | "That's Bullshit." My First Successful Push/Pull Experience.Part of game is also knowing how to use logistics. This girl 100% would’ve fucked you that night and also given you the crazy side she hasn’t given anyone else. Agreed, I definitely messed up in the fact I didn't think the entire date through. Women are so finicky, you had her. Now she’s had a day to think and reflect, and it’s possible she regrets her ‘slutiness’ or doesn’t wanna be looked at like that so she may flake next time cause the tension is gone. Or her boyfriend is around. I'm hoping … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/19 09:25 PM |
| 1 | "That's Bullshit." My First Successful Push/Pull Experience.Ayeee nice. A good outcome, I hope? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/19 09:22 PM |
| 10 | "That's Bullshit." My First Successful Push/Pull Experience.Damn, you caught me. I'm working on my book Mr. Basic's 50 Shades of Red. I'll send you a copy of the rough draft! Lmao real talk, appreciate it🙏🏾 | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/19 09:18 PM |
| 4 | "That's Bullshit." My First Successful Push/Pull Experience.I know, man, but I couldn't get the logistics back to my place to work out. I've definitely learned my lesson. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/19 09:16 PM |
| 23 | "That's Bullshit." My First Successful Push/Pull Experience.now you’re fully aware of the power you wield. Honestly, passing that test gave me more of a thrill than the actual date haha. Hopefully more field reports in the future ! | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/19 09:15 PM |
| 22 | "That's Bullshit." My First Successful Push/Pull Experience.Thank you for your insight🙏🏾 People can feel whether you’re psychologically healthy by watching your eyes while your thoughts occur to you. I didn't know this was a thing. Can you dive deeper into this or point me to articles/links about it? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/19 09:13 PM |
| 61 | "That's Bullshit." My First Successful Push/Pull Experience.As told countless times, it's not the shit you say, but the way, tone and eye contact that matters. I now see why you leave texting to just the basics. If the conversation we had happened through text or even a phone call, I would have fucked it up for sure. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/19 09:09 PM |
| 20 | "That's Bullshit." My First Successful Push/Pull Experience.Thank you🙏🏾 What is it about flirty banter that you struggle with if you don't mind me asking? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/19 09:06 PM |
| 1 | How To Kill My Ego?Ok you brought something to attention. I tasted brief success with women and abandoned the sidebar without fully digesting it. Back to it👉🏾 | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 08:57 PM |
| 1 | How To Kill My Ego?Actually, yeah I am. What will psychedelics do? | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 08:55 PM |
| 1 | How To Kill My Ego?Damn, that's pretty fucking accurate when it comes to pride. Thank you for the book recommendation, will definitely read it. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 08:53 PM |
| 1 | The Purpose Series (Part 1 of 3) - Purpose, Anxiety, Fear, the Unknown, and the Purposeless Epidemic in Modern SocietyFantastic read, man. I look forward to Part 2 and Part 3. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/19 01:22 AM |
| 2 | How To Deal With "Out of Comfort Zone" Fatigue?You a real one for this, thank you! | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 01:09 AM |
| 1 | How To Deal With "Out of Comfort Zone" Fatigue?Solid, concise advice. Appreciate it 🙏🏾 | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 11:55 PM |
| 2 | How To Deal With "Out of Comfort Zone" Fatigue?Main principles right now are being comfortable being a sexual creature (I grew up in an environment where being sexual was a big no no) and being assertive. That's was a good article to read, thank you for that | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 11:55 PM |
| 2 | How To Deal With "Out of Comfort Zone" Fatigue?Honestly, my sleep has been ass the last few days. I'll definitely make a conscious effort to get better sleep. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 11:52 PM |
| 1 | How To Deal With "Out of Comfort Zone" Fatigue?Currently doing NoFap. This shit is killing me, man. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 11:51 PM |
| 2 | How to handle being "shipped" at the office?You're right, I live in an area where there's always something going on. Thank you for your advice, fam. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 03:25 AM |
| 1 | How to handle being "shipped" at the office?Quit fucking hanging out with people you work with. Work and fun do not cross. When they do, shit like this happens. So question: as work consumes the majority of my week days, how can I avoid mixing work and fun? I am and will be around these people more than anyone else. Also, I moved to a new city so I haven't established a friend base outside of work . | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 02:25 AM |
| 2 | How to handle being "shipped" at the office?Yes, this job is very prestigious and I'm not risking anything that could jeopardize it. If anyone brings it up again let them know that you’re already seeing someone (you’re spinning plates right?). Funny thing is, the group knows that I'm a player. The running joke is that I have a different girl every week. They also think Jasmine can reign me in or some stupid shit like that. I appreciate your points and will definitely keep them in mind moving forward | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 02:21 AM |
| 1 | How to handle being "shipped" at the office?Honestly, I wonder the same thing. The line between work and personal life is very blurred in Office A. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 02:18 AM |
| 1 | How to handle being "shipped" at the office?I'm very indifferent about Jasmine. A lot of guys want to get with her, but she's just okay in my eyes. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 02:18 AM |
| 10 | The only male at LTR’s birthday partyDude, yes, you should go for it. Go and have a good time, but do not fall into the trap of being your LTR's arm piece. If you play your cards right, you have the perfect scenario for a preselection and dread. Good luck, brother 🙏🏾 | /r/askTRP | 23/11/19 05:03 PM |
| 2 | I’m starting to think this club shit is a waste of time.Oh word? That's dope, I might actually look into modeling as a hobby! | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here started on antidepressants and was able to stop later?About 2-3 months. I started taking them daily, then one every other day, then once a week, then I stopped taking them completely. Yes, just like I felt "off" the first few weeks of taking them, I felt "off" when getting off of them. It's just your body getting used to the chemical changes. Using my crutches analogy again, the first few weeks of physical therapy are going to suck because you're working a muscle that hasn't been used in a long time. Same with your body on antidepressants. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 06:41 PM |
| 9 | Anyone here started on antidepressants and was able to stop later?Yes. Because of some experiences that really fucked me over, I took antidepressants to help process everything. It definitely helped me talk about my issues with a therapist, but I felt dead inside. I wasn't super sad anymore, but I could never get super happy either. I was just flat line all the time. After hitting the gym, eating healthy, and finding a purpose in my life again, I realized that I didn't need to antidepressants anymore so I slowly weaned myself off of them until I no longer took… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 02:53 PM |
| 1 | I’m starting to think this club shit is a waste of time.Wait, modeling is considered a hobby? | /r/askTRP | 16/11/19 09:39 PM |
| 12 | What is "have them chase you"?What exactly would make them want to take a risk and talk to you? Having high SMV makes the reward seem worth the risk. Also, being a charismatic man with an approachable aura works wonders. Being high SMV with nothing to back it up is like 25 cent bubble gum: juicy and sweet for the first 3 minutes, then turning bland and eventually spit out. How can someone increase their charisma around women they want to lay and also deflect women they dont want to sleep with but include to build a bigger so… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/19 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Suburban guy that loses frame in the cityYou have two options: Start looking at MMA gyms in your area. Usually gyms have a free beginner class that you can attend. Rotate between all of the gyms in your area. You get to see what a class is like and find out which gym feels right for you at the same time. Also, MMA gyms usually have the option to drop in for a class for a fee (my gym fee is $40). If all you can afford is to go once a week, this is your best option. Invest in a punching bag and gloves or find a gym that has punching bags… | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 09:04 PM |
| 6 | Suburban guy that loses frame in the cityDo I have reason to be on guard as much as I am? Yes, especially when you're out with a woman. Is it sketch when a random ass dude approaches you? Of course. Is it nerve-wracking having to walk by a group of men with a HB6+ on your arm? Hell yes. But guess what? We, as men, are protectors. It's our job to protect ourselves and those in our company. Yes, it can be terrifying, but you have to steel yourself, look potential danger in the eye and be ready to take action to remove that danger. For me… | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 06:56 PM |
| 10 | 25, 5k savings, quit my high-stress job due to depression, at home, totally lost.. again.You have no debt and have money squirreled away. If you aren't in a HCOL area and can spare a month, decompress from what you went through. To be put through something like that on a daily basis has to be mentally draining. In the meantime, keep up the lifting, but pick up a hobby because you need to fill your time up with something. Plus, it will give you something to look forward to during the week. When I played basketball, sometimes the team was just off. Our coach would call a 45 second tim… | /r/askTRP | 10/11/19 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Walked out on a girl, was this handled appropriately?Ohhh ok, it makes sense now. Damn. Yeah, you handled it pretty well. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 12:40 AM |
| 0 | Walked out on a girl, was this handled appropriately?Waaiiit wait wait, let me get this right. You have a girl who is willing to be submissive and you tweak out when she does an act of service??? Okay, okay. Can I have more context? I honestly don't see why you would be so twisted over her taking your phone and charging it for you. Yes, not putting up with disrespect/being called names and leaving was a good call, but it cost you nothing for her to take your phone and charge it for you. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 06:32 PM |
| 17 | Does being silent and unreadable make you more interesting to new people?At first, you will seem mysterious, but after a while people will get fed up and not bother with you. Humans will only attempt interacting so many times before moving on, regardless of SMV. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 02:31 AM |
| 24 | Can anyone help me out? I am 23 and have only fucked one girlOk, my guy. Let's take a breather and break this down together, yeah? After reading your post, there are three glaring issues that need to be addressed before we get to the getting laid part. Comparison Is The Thief Of Joy Your post is littered with you comparing yourself to others. Your university friends, random men on the street, even the past version of yourself. The first thing you need to do is stop comparing yourself to others. I've struggled with that myself for the longest time, but I r… | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Girls try to “game” guys they are attracted to? Raised my SMV, now she has to use her own game?Now, when a girl takes a while to reply like that, but responded well to the teasing/me making fun of her, is that a good sign to keep pushing? I'm sorry, how is waiting 3 days to say "🙈😂 you might be right" responding well to teasing/making fun of her? Three. Days. to send a pair of emojis...? | /r/askTRP | 29/10/19 08:14 PM |
| 55 | Injustice in your life isn't a conspiracy against you...As a recovering Nice Guy™, the power of saying no is so fucking liberating. I know that TRP is mainly used for sexual strategy, but it's so much more than that to me. The Red Pill and this space is helping me build power and get back the power I gave to others. I'm loving the journey, man. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/19 07:20 PM |
| 147 | Injustice in your life isn't a conspiracy against you...But it all starts with you: you cannot save anyone if you cannot save yourself. This. This is what I need to see and instill in my life. Great post. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/19 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Do you covertly mention you have other options?If you have $100,000 in your bank account, are you going to go around and overtly state to everyone you see that you're stacked? No? Exactly. Instead, you'll go into Burberry, Louis Vuitton, or Gucci and confidently buy something knowing you have the $$$ to back it up. Same with women and having options. Don't let your words speak for you, let's your actions do that. Confidence and IDGAF go a longggg way. Girls are not stupid. If she starts acting out and you act unphased, her hamster will start… | /r/askTRP | 16/10/19 06:57 PM |
| 6 | Have you ever had someone (woman) just dislike you based on appearance? And even after getting acquainted w/ her friends, still, get a hate like treatment just because or out of spite?A wise man once told me: You can be the sweetest, juiciest peach in the world, but there are some people that will always hate peaches. You can be the best version of yourself, but there will be people out there who won't like you, even hate you, with a given reason or not. I know there are people who don't like me, and there are people I don't like. Honestly, who gives a fuck if they don't like me? If you're working with these people, keep it cordial & professional. Never let them see you sweat… | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 04:04 PM |
| 25 | What are some standard IoIsWhen you two make eye contact, she looks away and starts fixing something on her(hair, clothes, etc) When at a social event (or even in public tbh), she moves near your vicinity and talks loudly about something hoping for you to chime in. If you make eye contact with a girl who's with her posse and she says something and other girls look in your direction, you are on their radar. One that you mentioned is pretty spot on: if a girl looks to you to see if you're laughing or engaging in the convers… | /r/askTRP | 13/10/19 08:25 PM |
| 3 | Which type of condom is best based off your experience?Skyn Large condoms are game changers. If you're well endowed, look into My One condoms. They work with you to find the perfect fit condom by giving you a a free sample of the condom you order after measuring and condoms above and below the condom you picked. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 03:24 PM |
| 1 | You Can’t Fake ConfidenceGreat list. I have a question though: how do you regain your confidence? I'm in a position where my confidence (and ego, let's be honest) to some big hits and I'm having a hard time getting back on track. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/19 12:47 PM |
| 7 | What were your experiences/thoughts pre-lifting phase?Physically: I used to look like a potato with arms and legs. Even being tall and having more body to distribute the weight, I was one chunky brotha. Mentally: I used to haaaaate anything that would cause conflict/confrontation. I was the epitome of a pushover. Because I hated confrontation, I never challenged myself. I tricked myself to believe that what I was in life and where I was in life was good enough. Emotionally: I had no positive outlet for my stress and emotions. Whenever I was depress… | /r/askTRP | 29/09/19 04:51 AM |
| 1 | How To Get Out Of Twilight Zone?I would bet you’re just giving off some incongruent behavior You know what...honestly, I might be. I'm currently attempting to fully swallow trp and I'm constantly in a battle between being red pill and just being upset/defeated about how the world operates. My sex drive is high af so I usually make dates/cold approach, but then in the middle of them I just...tap out mentally. Hm, interesting. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/19 02:10 AM |
| 4 | Taller girl makes herself look smallerYou know, when you put it like that....hmm.... | /r/askTRP | 27/09/19 02:34 AM |
| 28 | Why do most low quality men not try to be in the 20%?Which is easier: Option A: sitting on your ass all day within the comforts of your own home with easy access to dopamine via food, porn, video games, etc. I mean, why bother working on yourself to be in the Top 20% when you can get by with fast food and pixel titties? Option B: taking the time to fix your issues (internal and external), learn how to eat cleaner and healthier, dress better, lift like there's no tomorrow, and challenge yourself by stepping out of your comfort zone on a daily basis… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/19 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Best response after you ask ex-plate to hang and she declines1) Best option 2) cringe as fuck 3) beta as fuck 4) butthurt 5) runner up to 1) | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Does Finally Accepting TRP Lower Your Sex Drive?TDEE: ~3,100 calories. Yeah, I will probably go back to maintainance calories so I can get recalibrated. Trying to cut back and get into ketosis is a struggle and a half. You really think this is the issue? | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Does Finally Accepting TRP Lower Your Sex Drive?Ok, so my caloric intake is supposed to be roughly ~3,000. With IF, I fast from 9pm to 12pm the next day and with keto, you're supposed to do low carb, high fat. My issue is that I'm not eating enough and what I'm eating doesn't give me the right macros. After a day of fasting and working out (lifting or Muay Thai), my intake for the day is under 1,000 which is abysmal. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Does Finally Accepting TRP Lower Your Sex Drive?Tips on how to take care of it? For now, I'm going to step away from the scene and process things while working on myself. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Does Finally Accepting TRP Lower Your Sex Drive?Wow, your comment is spot on. You haven't swallowed the red pill yet. Your just choking on it. Damn. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Does Finally Accepting TRP Lower Your Sex Drive?It doesn't lower your sex drive, but sex seems to become less important. Yes, this makes sense. I feel like for most of my life, I was running on a treadmill with the chances of sex dangling in front of me. I've finally stopped and thought this can't be all there is to life and I've gotten off the treadmill. I guess now I'm trying to figure out what to do next? | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Does Finally Accepting TRP Lower Your Sex Drive?TRP is a tool and the world is a neutral place. Truth, but why does the world feel so....rigged? | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Does Finally Accepting TRP Lower Your Sex Drive?I am on cut right now actually. I'm doing IF + keto. My caloric intake is God awful right now and I'm not really sure how to fix it. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 11:56 PM |
| 1 | I Can't Save Her, Can I?It sounds like you've been living in some kind of fantasy land or some kind of bubble. I most definitely lived a sheltered life growing up. My uncle would always make comments about how I'm an "innocent individual". I caught a glimpse of the real world the other night that shook me to the core, but I want/need more exposure so I can erode this fantasy world I've lived in for so long. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/19 02:49 PM |
| 5 | I Can't Save Her, Can I?A very thoughtful comment with a lot of truth. Thanks, man 🙏🏾 | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/19 12:48 AM |
| 2 | I Can't Save Her, Can I?I've had past FWBs who would tell me their pasts and usually it wouldn't faze me. I don't know what it was about this particular chick but it just threw me all of my center. It just..hit different, man. I don't know if it's what I read. I don't know if it was how nonchalant she was about her "it pays the bills" statement. I don't know, it just really messed with me. Don't save her but don't add to her despair if you can't handle what she is. I really like this statement. I'll keep this in the ba… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/19 12:42 AM |
| 3 | I Can't Save Her, Can I?Thank you for your comment 🙏🏾 we'll make it, brother. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/19 12:38 AM |
| 4 | I Can't Save Her, Can I?Calling me on my shit, I respect it. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/19 12:35 AM |
| 2 | I Can't Save Her, Can I?She made her choices and that’s her problem not yours. Very profound statement. I have a bad habit of trying to take on other people's burdens and fix them. I'll definitely be more aware of this. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/19 12:33 AM |
| 8 | I Can't Save Her, Can I?She wasn't asking you to be her boyfriend, or provider, or soul-mate. She was probably just looking for some judgment-free sex with a man she's actually somewhat attracted to, instead of a John who is paying her. You were literally ASSUMING she wanted to be wifed up. You were assuming that THAT is salvation. But that's part of the brainwashing. She will PROBABLY be fine Fuuuuck, yeah I messed up on this one. Thanks for calling me on my shit. Anyway, some food for thought. You might reflect on it… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/19 12:32 AM |
| 4 | I Can't Save Her, Can I?Honestly, this raises a very good question. I've always had this "savior" mentality for anyone I cross paths with. Friends, family, even strangers I see on the street I can tell are going through some shit. I'm just a very empathic person, tbh; that's how I'm wired. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/19 05:27 PM |
| 8 | The most powerful form of attraction: organic masculine/feminine polarityQuality post, OP, and something I can relate to. I was buying flowers and wine for a picnic date and the cashier was unable to ring up the flowers. She had to call her manager and the manager went to the back to figure out the issue. This left me and the HB6 cashier chick waiting around for 10 minutes. As the old, BP version of myself, I would have crumbled under the awkwardness and check my phone or spam my date with texts of the current situation, but me and the cashier chick hit it off; we ju… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/19 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Tinder dead? Alternatives?Online Dating success imo depends on two variables: attractiveness and location, but that's besides the point. When I was gaming, I used Hinge along w/ Tinder. Tinder was definitely quantity over quality and used as more of a check to see where my SMV was and Hinge was used for actually finding quality women. Hinge is a low-key dating app that's a blend of Tinder and Bumble. I would say of the women I've matched, I've had ~80% success rate of going on dates and/or smashing. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 08:05 PM |
| 4 | First Encounter with High Value Woman And I'm Lost in the Sauce. Please Help.Yoooo you are the man. I'm about to read all of this. Thanks, man 🙏🏾 | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 01:05 AM |
| 1 | First Encounter with High Value Woman And I'm Lost in the Sauce. Please Help.It was only a symptom of something that had happened throughout the date. Woah, this is deep. I never thought of it from this angle, but I more than likely did give off mixed signals between "I'm the prize!" and "wait.. am I the prize?" She may have even said that to test you and to see what you would say. What was your response anyways? I just said "Woah there, let's not get ahead of ourselves. I'll hit you up when I'm free." | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 01:03 AM |
| 2 | First Encounter with High Value Woman And I'm Lost in the Sauce. Please Help.they give you all the signs of wanting to kiss (looking at your mouth, touching, smiling a lot, entering your personal space or standing close). That's what's tripping me up, man. She gave me a lot of signs. Applying lip moisturizer in front of me while holding eye contact, looking at my lips, entering my space. Women are weird, man, idk. If I had an excel spreadsheet with all the dates I had I where I went for a kiss, even if did kiss - their interest faints after and it becomes harder to progr… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 08:26 PM |
| 5 | First Encounter with High Value Woman And I'm Lost in the Sauce. Please Help.Honestly, I might have subconsciously put her on a pedestal; I think cutting off all my FWBs in preparation for monk mode caused it. I also need to brush up on my push/pull skills | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 08:21 PM |
| 2 | First Encounter with High Value Woman And I'm Lost in the Sauce. Please Help.I have date 3 (wine and cooking at my place) locked and loaded, just waiting to pull the trigger on it. She makes bank, so I don't think she's looking for BB. The way she moves/acts makes me cautious af which messes up my game tbh. This is literally my first HB7+ chick and I feel like I'm fumbling the bag, man. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 08:19 PM |
| 3 | First Encounter with High Value Woman And I'm Lost in the Sauce. Please Help.You're right on all accounts. Thanks for your input, man. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 08:16 PM |
| 13 | First Encounter with High Value Woman And I'm Lost in the Sauce. Please Help.becoming an orbiter is what I'm worried about; a brotha ain't got time for that shit. I'm setting up date 3 to cook and drink wine at my place. Fingers crossed 🤞🏾 | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Entering Monk Mode - Any Advice?Thank you for your detailed and personal advice, there's a lot I can glean from this and use. I think doing video journals would be a good way of recording progress and my state of mind and body each day. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/19 12:29 PM |
| 4 | Entering Monk Mode - Any Advice?As someone who has never taken shrooms, what's considered a healthy dose? As someone with a big ass ego, what are some other ways of killing it? | /r/askTRP | 29/08/19 12:05 AM |
| 17 | Entering Monk Mode - Any Advice?I hope to come to terms that three close family members that died aren't coming back and I need to learn how to live with that. I hope to accept that my father left me, my brother, and my mother and that shouldn't affect how I view myself and my worth. I plan to give 110% in the gym, at work, and with my finances in order to build the discipline I need to stop wasting my time on low value activities. Monk mode will help me gain a better understanding of my place in the world and will help me tru… | /r/askTRP | 29/08/19 12:04 AM |
| 11 | Entering Monk Mode - Any Advice?Wow, this actually sounds very...peaceful. Back when I was in the south and had a car, I would just randomly drive in the middle of the night. Being in NYC, I miss the access to go wherever I want freely. Getting a bike seems like a good ass solution. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/19 11:59 PM |
| 14 | If your girlfriend left, what would you miss? [A Patrice Series]Post is absolute gold; a lot of value/insight. looking forward to more posts like this. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/19 03:14 AM |
| 4 | Should I bother with martial artsI was thinking of getting into martial arts but I feel like it’s pointless as I don’t really care about the sport itself but rather I just want to be able to get into a fight with anyone and not get my ass kicked. If that's the case, don't do it because you'll be wasting your time, money and energy, three resources you can't get back. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 11:37 PM |
| 4 | Why lifting is the "fix-all" adviceI recently picked up Muay Thai and it's been a fucking blast. My shins hurt like hell though 😅 | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/19 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Anti-Fuckboy Persona: Insult or Compliment?Don’t listen to what she says, just watch what she does. Right, I keep forgetting bout this. “I’m certainly no Fuckboy...I’m a whole lot worse”. Hm...this is a very interesting response. Appreciate your input | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Anti-Fuckboy Persona: Insult or Compliment?I currently have 3 plates. With a full time job, I'm pushing it, but I might add one more to the rotation. Yeah, idk why she said that lmao. She might be the plate that breaks soon because she's already trying to lock me down 🙅🏾♂️ | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 07:14 PM |
| 4 | Anyone here do MMA / Boxing?I picked up Muay Thai recently and I've found these three articles to help as a complete beginner: The Ultimate Guide to Muay Thai Training for Beginners The Importance of Focusing On Your Muay Thai Fundamentals The Muay Thai Learning Curve hope this helps🙏🏾 | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Is it okay for me to put it aside and focus on myself ?Yes, it's okay. That's exactly what I'm doing right now. I'm focusing on getting in shape, becoming financially stable/independent, and overall enjoying life as a single, young male with no dependents. Take the time you need to focus on yourself and reach your goals. The "I am the prize" mentality and taking women off of a pedestal has caused me to take my sweet time with my hiatus. Believe it or not, bitches will be there waiting if I decide to get back in the game. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 02:43 PM |
| 2 | On Being Backstabbed by "Bro"An empty wagon makes a lot of noise. This "bro" is doing all of this rah rah bs talking to get under your skin; don't let him phase you. Honestly, a lot of what you said was fluff, so I'm just going to cut to the chase. Two things: Do not focus on putting this clown in his place. What are you trying to accomplish in doing that? If you succeed in doing so, what did you prove? Exactly, nothing except the notion you were insecure and threatened by him so you had to do something to show you were "to… | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 02:44 PM |
| 13 | About to join my first gym. Any tips?My biggest advice: don't let others intimidate or discourage you. When I first started hitting the gym, the most I could bench was the bar (45lbs). Looking to my right and left and seeing others bench 225lbs with ease made me want to get up and walk out. I really don't know when it clicked, but I soon realized that they had to start somewhere just like me; they weren't always benching that much with ease. So, just like your journey with TRP, learn as much as you can, respect those who are ahead … | /r/askTRP | 13/08/19 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Muay Thai vs Brazilian Jiu JitsuHonestly, the reason I want to get into one of the other is to have that inner confidence that comes with it. The confidence to know that I can handle myself in a fight (minus a gun and/or knife) | /r/askTRP | 13/08/19 12:11 AM |
| 2 | Muay Thai vs Brazilian Jiu JitsuYeah, I'm gonna try both. I'm glad you're enjoying BJJ! | /r/askTRP | 13/08/19 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Muay Thai vs Brazilian Jiu JitsuAppreciate your input, fam🙏🏾 yeah after doing more research and reading the other comments, I'm still torn 😅 I was able to find a gym that offers both so I'll give both a try, but I wouldn't be surprised if I go with Muay Thai lmao | /r/askTRP | 13/08/19 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Muay Thai vs Brazilian Jiu JitsuMuy Thai sparring is great, but you can only take so many hits to the head. It's inherently more dangerous. Ok, so as a software developer, this raises concern. Because my mind is what puts bread on the table, should I avoid Muay Thai? I was able to find a gym that offers both so I'ma give both a try! | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Muay Thai vs Brazilian Jiu JitsuThanks for your input, my guy. I'm not gonna lie, the reason I enjoyed boxing so much was because I could beat the shit out of something; great way to release pent up energy/anger. Buuuut I also like mentally outwitting my opponent; body chess sounds enticing. Damn, decisions decisions. I was able to find a MMA gym that offers both so I'll try out both! | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Muay Thai vs Brazilian Jiu JitsuI never felt like I physically got pushed to the point of being exhausted I enjoy being pushed to my limit, that's when I get to see what I'm really made of tbh. Thanks for your input 🙏🏾 | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 11:50 PM |
| 1 | How Do I Master Networking?Thank you for your detailed response! I will definitely use your tip for point 3🙏🏾 | /r/askTRP | 07/08/19 01:04 PM |
| 1 | How Do I Master Networking?Ok, I'll do some research and add a few books I find interesting to my list. Thanks for your input 🙏🏾 | /r/askTRP | 07/08/19 01:01 PM |
| 4 | Dopamine WithdrawlsPMO = porn, masturbation, and orgasm | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 09:06 PM |
| 2 | How to feel comfortable (and what to do) in social situations where someone is showing interest in LTR in front of you.I personally have an amused curiosity about the entire situation. I'm not in an LTR, but I have been with FWBs and guys approach to talk to them. I like to see how it plays out, tbh. What do you currently have that he doesn't? The girl. Do not claim/mate guard the girl in the moment; it reeks of insecurity. Don't move closer, don't wrap your arms around her, don't try to sneak a kiss: it all overtly displays you're threatened by this challenger. I let the the girl I'm with talk to the clown tryi… | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 03:54 PM |
| 3 | How do you escalate in a netflix & chill situation?Ok, so I'll give two. One is general example, the other is a personal example. General: making out. Control the pace, control the tempo. You can decide how long to make out, but when it's time to pull back, just stop making out. You can do multiple things to show more is on the way. You could pull back, look her in the eyes with a smile and say "hm, not bad." You could pull back and start "watching" whatever's on, teasing her saying "I thought you came over just to hang out" (this works especial… | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 01:36 PM |
| 4 | Anyone have experience with Ecuadorian girls?Maybe doesn’t matter, many of you will say soft next her. But we had good rapport and I was looking forward to meeting her. How do you have oneitis for a girl you haven't even met yet? Smh. Anyways, listen, man. It happens. There's been many times I've built rapport and been looking forward to meeting a girl from an online dating app only for her to go ghost. Even if you have the perfect form and timing, every shot you take isn't going to go in. From what you wrote, it seems your ego took a hit.… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/19 11:52 AM |
| 54 | How do you escalate in a netflix & chill situation?Listen, man here's the deal: you have the green light. No girl is going to come over just to "hang out". I'll give you high level advice because each use case is different. Start the night off with kino: hug & kiss. If you are on opposite ends of the couch/bed, your first objective is to close the distance. If you two are already next to each other, just start cuddling her and roaming your hands on her body. Don't go straight for the kitty, man. Just...don't. Enjoy the journey, not the destinati… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/19 01:04 AM |
| 1 | What/Where Is The Fine Line Between Being An Emotional Tampon and Being Empathetic?Care to elaborate, please? | /r/askTRP | 02/08/19 06:58 PM |
| 2 | What/Where Is The Fine Line Between Being An Emotional Tampon and Being Empathetic?Also, there are degrees to empathy, and it's important to have boundaries, particularly because you're "naturally empathetic." This means the least amount of empathy for a plate, then increasing levels from fuck buddy, to FWB, to LTR, to wife. Yeah, I can get behind this, but because I need an emotional connection to have sex with a chick, having a plate isn't really an option Thank you for your insight 🙏🏾 | /r/askTRP | 02/08/19 06:58 PM |
| 5 | What/Where Is The Fine Line Between Being An Emotional Tampon and Being Empathetic?Yeahhh, I do see the difference. As someone who has to have an emotional connection before having sex, I don't mind soaking up some of her emotions, but I do have a tolerance. Appreciate your input 🙏🏾 | /r/askTRP | 02/08/19 06:56 PM |
| 2 | What cologne works really well for you?Yoooo good looking out, brother. Appreciate it! | /r/askTRP | 01/08/19 03:05 AM |
| 4 | What cologne works really well for you?Tom Ford Black Orchid works for me. I really want to get my hands on Versace Eros because I hear it's a game changer | /r/askTRP | 01/08/19 02:01 AM |
| 3 | My Ex GF is the perfect example of redpill and blackpillGood Lord, I thought asktrp meant ask The Red Pill, not ask The Role Player. cringey as fuck | /r/askTRP | 01/08/19 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Buying Me Gifts?If no then it is understandable that you ask this. Yeah, I come from a family where affection wasn't showed at all through gifts. Gifts were only for birthday/holiday and were very transactional in nature. Girls do this when they see you as high value and want to keep you around. Honestly, this may be the reason, but I don't feel high SMV enough to receive gifts like this. Outwardly, this and other examples are proof of my SMV increasing, but it hasn't clicked internally yet. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Buying Me Gifts?Read my Guide to Managing Bitches. Good read, deeeefinetly adding this to my arsenal. Express humble gratitude whenever girls gift you with stuff What does this look like? I come from an upbringing where gift giving was transactional and only happened on birthdays/holidays. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Buying Me Gifts?What is Hinge? An online dating app where you don't swipe right or left. You view a photo/quote on the chick's bio and send a heart on it. I prefer it over Tinder tbh Where are you meeting these women? I met one back in Alabama, and two up here in NYC Are they from a similar culture Two of them are West African, one Latina | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Said something stupid at the end of date, is this saveable?You're new so I'll give constructive feedback. NEVER ask for a kiss. We live in a society where we need to be a gentlemen and ask the lady for permission and blah blah blah; fuck that shit. You didn't ruin mystery; the only "mystery" I can think of is her questionsing when you're going to kiss her. However, you did change the dynamic of power between you two and tipped it in her favor. When you asked her, you eradicated some of your power by not leading. Because you have another chance, you're s… | /r/askTRP | 24/07/19 11:58 PM |
| 1 | I don’t think I can recover from this one..it’s truly fucking over.I went to a bar with a FWB where I got extremely drunk and she ended up taking care of me that night and the next day. Of course, she gave me shit for it, but I played it off, thanked her for caring for me and we both moved on. You can't control life, but you can control your reaction to what happens in life. The weed knocked you on your ass; it happens, man. Suck it up and press forward. You got this. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/19 05:08 PM |
| 55 | (Emotional) scar ruined my date, how can I recover from post traumas?Honestly, man, we all go through some shit. Lord knows I have demons I'm still fighting to this day. Once, I was on a date and crossed paths with an elderly woman that reminded me of my grandmother who passed recently and it completely threw my game off for the rest of the night, so I know what you're experiencing. My advice? Find healthy ways to go through the trauma/pain. Personally, I lift/box, write in a journal, and talk to a professional about my trauma. Don't be like me and hold it in; th… | /r/askTRP | 24/07/19 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Question Regarding Work AttireLearn how to get the most out of your work attire. I will definitely keep this in mind moving forward! | /r/askTRP | 22/07/19 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Question Regarding Work AttireThank you for your input. I did answer no to all of the questions. I'm a developer right now, but I'm definitely looking to move up the ladder in an appropriate time. Idk, I'm just hungry for success like that | /r/askTRP | 22/07/19 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Question Regarding Work AttireWhat does your boss wear? She wears business professional clothing. Yeah, wearing a full on suit would be overkill lmao | /r/askTRP | 22/07/19 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Question Regarding Work AttireOh wow, that's an interesting and insightful read. Thanks, man! | /r/askTRP | 22/07/19 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Question Regarding Work AttireHonestly, this dude is far from a neckbeard and has been looking out for m by getting me in the swing of things on the team. I'm still completely new to office politics, but I don't think his comment came from feeling threatened? I appreciate your advice, will definitely work on displaying my best | /r/askTRP | 22/07/19 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Conflict Point: How To Handle HypergamyOk, I've read way too much into this and my post/question was misdirected. I'll post later today with better context to my situation. Thank you for your input 🙏🏾 | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Conflict Point: How To Handle HypergamyAppreciate the love, my man! I'm not going to lie, I love seeing/feeling the progress of hard work. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Conflict Point: How To Handle HypergamyGood question. I personally think branch swinging or hypergamy overall isn't just limited to a girl having a boyfriend and leaving him when a better man comes along. I believe hypergamy includes settling, boyfriend or no boyfriend, for what you have while seeking the opportunity to jump to a higher branch. Based on her reaction when I teased her about her past dates and other nonverbal cues, I feel she fits the definition of branch swinging. I could be completely wrong on how I see it and I'm op… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Dating Apps --> Low Quality Women --> Abundance --> ??? --> ProfitYoooo I just moved to NYC. What's y'all success rate when it comes to gaming women here? | /r/askTRP | 01/07/19 10:57 PM |
| 7 | Whats up with girls and getting nipple piercing.I personally find nipple piercings incredibly attractive. They look visually aesthetic to me AND they increase the sensitivity of the nipples. As a brotha heavy into foreplay, this is a plus in my book. Different strokes for different folks 🤷🏾♂️ | /r/askTRP | 29/06/19 02:12 AM |
| 1 | New Apartment and Plate SpinningMy game is a solid B+ on good days, but I'm working on it! I've told them that I have a new place; one even joked about going furniture shopping with me. Btw, that sounds like a nice ass setup you have, man! I currently have one monitor. I'm torn between getting a second one or just getting one big ass monitor. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/19 03:11 AM |
| 2 | New Apartment and Plate SpinningNoted, thanks for your input! | /r/askTRP | 17/06/19 03:07 AM |
| 5 | New Apartment and Plate SpinningNothing wrong with fucking on a crack mattress. new motto for summer 2019 | /r/askTRP | 17/06/19 03:06 AM |
| 2 | New Apartment and Plate SpinningI moved out 6 months ago and it’s been pussy galore since. See, statements like this get me excited for striking out on my own. How has living on your own been for you? Any advice? | /r/askTRP | 17/06/19 02:58 AM |
| 6 | New Apartment and Plate SpinningWait, you can have furniture delivered? What the fuck? This is my first time moving/living by myself so all of this information is new to me. My mind is blown. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/19 02:57 AM |
| 12 | New Apartment and Plate SpinningHm, this is true. I just don't want lack of furniture to ruin my chance with a potential plate. Expect a "You Have No Furniture Shit Test, Did I Pass?" post from me in a few weeks! Lmao real talk, thanks for your input 🙏🏾 | /r/askTRP | 17/06/19 02:53 AM |
| 9 | New Apartment and Plate Spinningsolid advice. I'm usually a patient person, but being on a haitus to focus on this move has made me stir crazy | /r/askTRP | 17/06/19 02:46 AM |
| 1 | How did you quit sugar? Should i also quit flour?As a fellow brother with a big sweet tooth, I understand the struggle. Simply trying to cut out sugar only backfires, in my opinion. What is helping me with my addiction is trying to find the reason behind the sweet tooth. Whenever I feel a craving for sugar, I take a second to figure out why I'm craving sugar. Am I hungry? Am I bored? Am I in a stressed? I've found out that I turn to sugar when feeling any type of stress or when I'm just straight up bored. Now that I know some of the reasons, I… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 05:13 PM |
| 12 | Probably losing my virginity soon, any advice?Be in the moment. Don't fall into the trap of making sure you're rubbing the right spot or placing your hands in the right place. You'll turn into a bedroom tactician, which is boring af If you feel yourself thinking "am I doing this right?" Or "oh God, I wonder how this is making her feel.", take a deep breath to get out of your head and release the tension in your body. Return the focus back on the beautiful woman in front of you and the warmth being shared between the two of you. Do NOT rub o… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 11:46 PM |
| 6 | I Want To Give Up (Long Post)Thank you so much for that video, I'm saving it. I believe it's sinking in for my entire family that I am making such a big move and big decision. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 10:47 AM |
| 3 | I Want To Give Up (Long Post)Yeah, I am 22 going on 23. Looking back and having sobered up a bit, I could have sat there and endured it, but having to be the leader of my family for the last 4 days wore my patience (and nerves) thin. I know that isn't an excuse I need to hide behind, but I only have so much patience. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 10:45 AM |
| 3 | I Want To Give Up (Long Post)My card was deactivated because while I was at the bar, my mom or aunt (idk who it was) removed my access to the hotel room. I couldn't get it reactivated because the hotel room wasn't under my name, it was under my aunt's name. By God's grace, I have a job here in the NYC area already, but the process of getting up here is the last stretch before I'm free of them. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 10:42 AM |
| 5 | I Want To Give Up (Long Post)Yes and no. I'm moving to NYC because of a job and the company gave me enough money for moving expenses. Outside of that money, I don't have much. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 10:40 AM |
| 11 | Girl Will Only Provide IG?Thank you for your detailed feedback! I will take the advice you gave in "The Cure" to heart. That is some really fucking solid advice. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 05:10 AM |
| 7 | Girl Will Only Provide IG?Yeah, I figured. Overall, it wasn't the outcome I wanted, but holy shit, I cold approached. Small win in my book! | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 05:07 AM |
| 6 | Girl Will Only Provide IG?All good, man! Honestly, my mind was racing and I wasn't able to think of what to say in the moment. It was even worse because I was amped up from asking a random chick for her number. That shit gets the blood pumping, you know? | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 05:04 AM |
| 4 | How to proceed with potential LTRI’ve been seeing this girl for 3 weeks now. Come on, hermano...is 3 weeks enough time to vet a girl for a potential LTR? | /r/askTRP | 04/06/19 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Which is better a studio or 1 bedroom apt?I'm currently looking for Studios/1BR in NY and I'm using StreetEasy, TripleMint, and Apartments.com Hope this helps, fam! | /r/askTRP | 02/06/19 07:45 PM |
| 1 | What lifestyle changes have made a drastic change in your confidence?For me, yes. It gave me a boost in motivation and it allowed me to have better control of my thoughts/overall mood. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 02:45 AM |
| 2 | What lifestyle changes have made a drastic change in your confidence?When first starting out, I treated meditation just like I did working out. It's going to take a few days/weeks before you see any changes. I only meditate for 10-15 minutes and I usually meditate sitting cross-legged with my back straight. I use Headspace (I think students get a discount for $10/year). One of the lessons mentioned how you have to let your thoughts come and go just like cars in traffic. After that lesson, meditating just clicked for me! | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 01:46 AM |
| 6 | What lifestyle changes have made a drastic change in your confidence?Hitting the gym, lifting weights. Massive confidence booster seeing changes in myself. Reading The Sex God Method. The information I found in the book has increased my sexual performance exponentially. Meditating in the morning. Meditating gives me the boost of energy and drive I need to give 110% everyday | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Another Conflict Point Hit. Advice/Help Needed.You are giving the control of your emotions ( a part of you) to other people. Yeah, I still struggle with this. I'm also really bad at letting my emotions show on my face:/ time to read the sidebar again! | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Another Conflict Point Hit. Advice/Help Needed.Understood, thanks for your input 🙏🏾 | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Another Conflict Point Hit. Advice/Help Needed.Adding "At the moment" keeps you on your toes and never stop working on yourself I absolutely love this and will keep this for the books ✍🏾 thank you, brother! | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Another Conflict Point Hit. Advice/Help Needed.It's hard to explain, but I'll try my best. I guess it boils down to my perspective being changed. When being BP, I would have to play coy games, say the right words, and/or do the right things to get to the end goal which is to hear those words coming from her. Processing TRP, I'm striving to be the best version of myself I can be; I'm the prize. I'm slowly, but surely taking women off of the pedestal I put them on for the past 22 years of my life. I guess hearing "I'm happy with you" from some… | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 06:07 PM |
| 7 | Do you maintain the intense alpha game, is red pill supposed to be this draining? Feedback welcome.Woah, I thought I was the only one that dealt with feeling exhausted/drained after applying some RP principles. I see where you're coming from thinking you're not being yourself because I used to think that way. However, the way I look at it now is I know who I want to be, therefore I practice and train to become that person. It's like going to the gym. My goal is to be strong and muscular af, but doing the same weights and reps is not going to get me anywhere. I know I have the potential to get… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 01:44 AM |
| 1 | How To Exude Sexual MagnetismI'm definitely saving this and will read/apply this on a daily basis. Invaluable information, fam 🙏🏾 | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/19 05:40 PM |
| 1 | I Need Help Deciphering This SituationYeah, I've definitely learned my lesson from last night. Moving forward, do you have any advice so I don't repeat the same mistake? | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 01:14 AM |
| 1 | I Need Help Deciphering This SituationWhy did you react to their awkwardness at all? It was more that I reacted to my friends stunned silence too. They were just a surprised and shocked that I said something that bold. you let the social shaming re-beta you. Yeahhh as I said in a previous post, I'm going through the transition. It's a struggle, but I'm working on it, though, little by little. I'll definitely check out the Bill Burr thing. Thanks for your input, my guy! | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 12:45 AM |
| 1 | I Need Help Deciphering This SituationYiiiikes, when you put it like that I cringe a bit. Was I too forward too quick? What's the best way to isolate without seeming predatory or whatever | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 12:29 AM |
| 1 | I Need Help Deciphering This SituationOoooooh man, I'm not on that level yet 😅 | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 12:24 AM |
| 1 | I Need Help Deciphering This SituationYoooo thank you so much for your detailed comment! I have a question: I see your comment in where I did well, but you have anything for me to improve on or staight up not do? | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 12:21 AM |
| 1 | I Need Help Deciphering This SituationYeah, you're right about that. I could tell after I made that comment and left there was a definite shift in mood. Oh well, you either succeed or learn. I'll get it next time! | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 12:15 AM |
| 1 | I Need Help Deciphering This SituationI only did that to keep from having a wall of text, but I'll keep that in mind. Thanks for your input! | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 12:12 AM |
| 1 | I Need Help Deciphering This SituationYeah, that makes sense. As someone else mentioned, I should isolate before using that line, yeah? Applying this TRP is muchhhh different than just reading about it lmao. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 12:11 AM |
| 6 | How do you guys spend your weekends?For me, I have one day where I go ghost and recharge. That day is usually Saturday for me. I avoid all social media and do whatever I feel like doing. If it's hitting the gym to play basketball, I do it. If it's going to my apartment's pool to soak up some sun and read, I do it. Whatever helps me to unwind and check in on myself/find comfort in being alone. Sunday morning I do chores/homework/study, Sunday afternoon I hit the gym, study my target language, and/or do some coding. Sunday evening/n… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 03:18 PM |
| 1 | How To Deal With Cognitive DissonanceI get my heart broken in some way, I swear off women, social activities and just say I'm going to focus on my life, and the cycle repeats. Yooo that's crazy. I'm in a somewhat similar cycle. I'm still in the anger phase so I spin a few plates, get angry after reading a post or finally seeing AWALT, swear off women, focus on life and the cycle repeats. You make some good points, especially life is for living. Reading TRP and actually living it out are verrrry different I'm coming to find out. Do … | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 12:41 AM |
| 1 | How To Deal With Cognitive DissonanceOk, I'll definitely do this. Do you know when the BPness will wash away or will it depend on the individual? | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 12:31 AM |
| 2 | How To Deal With Cognitive DissonanceSee, that's the crazy thing. When I run real game, I'm surprised that it works. It's like "woah... has it been like this the entire time?" Or don't. Because the more chumps there are in this world, the better for me. Careful, now. Give me a few more months and I'll give you a run for your money, fam lol. Real talk, thanks for your advice! | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 12:29 AM |
| 1 | What motivates you to improve yourself?Honestly, to be the best version of myself that I can be. Also, to be the positive male role model my younger brother can look up to | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Do I Just Keep My Mouth Shut?The group's age is early 20's. I know none of them would speak up because one of them is in an extremely monogamous relationship and the others put women on a pedestal. My friend is pretty sensitive. I love him to death, but he wears his heart on his sleeve. That's why I tried to be level with my tone; it was similar to breaking bad news to someone who is already having a shitty day. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/19 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Do I Just Keep My Mouth Shut?When your friend gets wrecked he'll come around. The thing is idk if he'll ever come around which sucks. I'm still in the process and it's very... challenging. I don't think my friend could handle such a radical shift in perspectives. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/19 02:30 PM |
| 4 | Do I Just Keep My Mouth Shut?I guess I shouldn't, but it's like damn, dude I'm just being honest | /r/askTRP | 24/03/19 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Do I Just Keep My Mouth Shut?Ok, yeahhhh I could do something like that. Thank you for your input. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/19 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Do I Just Keep My Mouth Shut?What should I do if directly asked to give my opinion though? Also, how do I avoid falling into the "crabs in a bucket" mentality? | /r/askTRP | 24/03/19 02:55 AM |
| 3 | Do I Just Keep My Mouth Shut?I'm gonna be honest: they're my inner circle of friends. They were there for me when I was going through some shit and vice versa. Overall, we usually have a good time with each other up until now. It just sucks because I want to keep them as friends but our difference in perspectives is causing a lot of stress and conflict. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/19 02:52 AM |
| 2 | How do I make it clear that I'm a sexual person/make women want to have sex?What's good, fam. So listen, I'll try to answer your questions as best I can. Am I expecting too much to f close on the first date every time? Honestly, this is up to you, my guy. I personally don't f-close on the first date; ASD is in full effect. Even with your sample size, you had a 20% chance of f-closing. I use the first date to make sure the chick is even worth my time. Why could I have gotten ghosted by girl #4 despite an enthusiastic kclose and how do I avoid this in the future? Did she … | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 05:11 AM |
| 23 | Ways to improve text game?In my opinion, you have to build some type of rapport, especially before the first date/meetup. One of my goals when gaming is to make the girl feel comfortable or at least safe. I'm 6'4, ~245lb, and African American; I can come off as lowkey intimidating. With that being said, I text outside of logistics to build some type of rapport, but with the following rules: Text when you can. I think getting a text while doing nothing and then waiting hours to reply is dumb. If you're lounging around and… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 04:47 PM |
| 9 | Did I miss the booty call or overthinking this?Yeahhhh, that was homegirl's last ditch effort to covertly tell you she wanted some dick. It's all good though, man. You live and you learn👍🏾 | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Should I see her?I'm lowkey new to TRP and your post spoke directly to me. I have no problem approaching and getting numbers. But when it comes to sex, I begin to freak out and, if I'm being honest, back out sometimes. Basically - you can only succeed or learn. I needed to see this. Thank you for this, man. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Question about Wedding AttendanceYeah, the plate I'm thinking on taking is bi. I really like your beach question. I guess I'm stuck on like...if you know you'll have fun with your sand, why not bring it to the beach, you know? Am I thinking about this in the wrong way? If so, let a brotha know | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Question about Wedding AttendanceThis is going to be like a typical Southern wedding and she's 23 so relatively young, yeah? I don't know much about her friends' statuses so honestly it's a guess | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Question about Wedding AttendanceLet's be honest, weddings are lit. I go for the food though tbh. Wedding cake is next level. Good luck on your quest, my guy! | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Question about Wedding AttendanceKnowing her, it's going to be like 500+ people and I only know her family and one or two of her friends. Everyone else will be strangers. That's the con of bringing a plate; we'll have a good time for sure, but she'll start thinking we are a couple or something | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 12:47 AM |
| 2 | The More Red-Pilled I Become, The Lonelier I Get?Yeah, I've currently picked up activities to improve myself like lifting and meditating, and it's exhilarating. It's just the transition from the old, BP lifestyle to the new, RP lifestyle that suuuucks, but your comment gives me hope. Thanks for your input! | /r/askTRP | 13/02/19 11:14 PM |
| 1 | The More Red-Pilled I Become, The Lonelier I Get?Yeah, the red pill is a very bitter pill to swallow, but I feel...better and freer? It's hard to explain. Hopefully we'll find the answer soon, my man. Let's just take it one day at a time 💪🏾thanks for your input! | /r/askTRP | 13/02/19 11:10 PM |
| 1 | The More Red-Pilled I Become, The Lonelier I Get?Yeah, the author of The Rational Male, Rollo Tomassi, keeps making references to that movie. I guess I need to watch it lol. Thanks for your input. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/19 11:07 PM |
| 2 | The More Red-Pilled I Become, The Lonelier I Get?Realize that if you want to have big changes in your life, you need to take big chances and make big actions. Damn, that's inspirational. Thank you for your input. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/19 11:03 PM |
| 24 | Which RedPill books helped you out the most and are a must read for noobies?I'm still new to TRP, and "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert A. Glover helped open my eyes to a lot of things (like A LOT). I highly recommend this book. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/19 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Am I a Snapchat orbiter?Ok, will do. Thanks for your input | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 10:12 PM |
| 6 | Am I a Snapchat orbiter?Agreed, life is too short. I appreciate the article, I'll read it asap! | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Am I a Snapchat orbiter?Yeah, you're right fam. I guess the old blue pilled me is waiting on a "chance". Appreciate it. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Am I a Snapchat orbiter?Damn, you right smh | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 10:06 PM |
| 3 | How to overcome resistance from old, blue-pilled values when applying TRP?When I'm taking time to evaluate, what exactly should I be evaluating? | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 10:44 PM |
| 2 | How to overcome resistance from old, blue-pilled values when applying TRP?Learn about and accept rejection. Oof this is what I need to work on the most. Thanks for your input! | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 10:43 PM |
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