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| 2 | Women with tattoos can only fall in love with guys with tattoos?It's simply another form of hypergamy. Women get wet for men they admire. They admire men who do things better than them. Women who play soccer fantasize about Ronaldo. Women hook up with their boss, female students fantasize about their male teachers, all because they are interested in the same thing, the guys just do it better. I played tennis in high school and university...and hooked up with a lot of the chicks on the girls team. My sister is an equestrian, and the few times I've hung out wi… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/20 07:47 PM |
| 8 | Does being overtly sexual and direct ever work?Overtly sexual? Man I read that title and immediately thought of stuff way more aggressive than what was in the video you linked. To me the way the guys in the video act is normal. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/20 09:46 PM |
| 1 | In an exclusive relationship (LTR) and she told me she's bisexualFor what it's worth I agree with a lot of your post. I've been around the block. Done crazier stuff than most people would believe if I posted it. understand that life isn’t just fucking, after a while just fucking gets old Yeah this is the conclusion I've arrived at. There's nothing new about slammin vag. It's a necessity but I've had enough threesomes and other stuff in my life where I wouldn't compromise my beliefs or feelings just to have another one. She also acts significantly more horny a… | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 06:48 PM |
| 3 | How to feel comfortable (and what to do) in social situations where someone is showing interest in LTR in front of you.If you aren't or can't drive the conversation then just leave and find something else to do. This can be anything, you can go for a walk. You can step outside and call one of your friends to see what they're up to. You can chat up other people at the event. Make your presence a scarce(valuable) commodity. Make your girlfriend wonder wtf you've been up to. Get her hamster spinning. You should never sit around like a lap dog at your girlfriends side while she chats up other dudes. Gross. I really … | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 03:23 PM |
| 2 | No more Interest from Girls after Maximizing my Looks & Steroids. Diving into Depression. Should I switch to Cold Approaches?I think I can help you. I'm 6'2" 240. ~15% body fat. No drugs. American but I've been to Germany summer of 2016 and 2017 and done well with girls while I'm there. Especially in Berlin, which sounds like it might be where you're describing. Our dress style sounds the same/similar but I usually wear a tanktop unless I'm going to a club. NO IOIs whatsoever, during the day or night Men are hostile towards me Once you become a big guy, you become less approachable and more intimidating to both men AN… | /r/askTRP | 04/08/19 08:17 PM |
| 22 | LTR constantly talking about guy at workDoesn't seem like a shit test to me like everyone is saying. More like she has a crush on the guy and has no one else to talk to about it except you. she almost exclusively talks about this guy that works there Ok, so he's on her mind constantly. While they're apart, she's reliving their flirty interactions by telling you the stories. The 'you' in this part isn't important, it can be anyone. Her mom, a friend, whoever, as long as she gets to talk about her crush to somebody. how good he is with … | /r/askTRP | 25/07/19 06:59 PM |
| 3 | How do I respond ?Don't reply. A guy with abundance would literally forget he even asked her to dinner a few minutes after reading her response and make other plans. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/19 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Starting my TRP and lifting journey. Am i doing this right?you guys are probably the most religious lifters on reddit i know Most people in here are definitely not lifters and know as much about being a gym bro as they do about dealing with women. Not much. For your situation 1440 daily is too low. An argument can be made for such a drastic cut if you already have a good muscle base and you understand the negative consequences that come with cutting that hard. You lack the muscle part of the equation and trying to gain muscle while going on some somalia… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 01:54 PM |
| 1 | 18 month LTR wanted to book a vacation together - but she's going on a tour of Europe with girl friends before our trip. Is it over?I've been to Europe for 2 weeks every summer for the last 3 years (I'm American). The action I get over there is insane, but that's a story for another time. Firstly, what the guy said about a trip to Europe being no different than when she's away from you at home, that is 100% bullshit. Bunch of sheep in here mindlessly upvote anything that is written authoritatively. You also don't provide any useful information. Come on here asking for help and then don't you include any relevant details in y… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 06:59 PM |
| 2 | I play tennis, but it's keeping me from plating girls. Should I quit?You're definitely looking at this the wrong way. I played #1 in high school and D3 university. Sounds like you're still in high school. My two high school girlfriends were both from the girls team. I could have had any of them I wanted. I was 6'1" 160lbs back then so...not exactly packing a lot of muscle. Always had a dominant personality which I'm sure helped. In your position I'm assuming you're probably not playing for your high school team. So even if you aren't mingling with the girls team … | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 02:29 PM |
| 10 | So are woman pretty much only worth sex ? I can’t tell if you guys think it’s possible to have a great woman in your life or not? I would like to know what most of you guys think. I would hope that there’s atleast some good woman out thereQuestion comes up from time to time. I'll answer it the same way I have before. Yes, there are some "good" women out there, loosely defined as good because what that actually is will differ from person to person. However, there is a huge problem with answering this way as it does absolutely zero good for the men coming here to learn. In fact, for most guys here, telling them there are some good women out there hurts them. How many threads do you see here where some idiot has one-itis but won't a… | /r/askTRP | 29/10/18 06:11 PM |
| 5 | Do you expect your LTR to prioritize you over friends during the weekend?Definitely do not text her that. It's way too butthurt. Telling her your feelings is just going to make you seem like a whiny bitch rather than a stoic unshakeable man. I myself wouldn't respond at all. I'd look at it and forget about it 10 seconds later. Find something to do tonight, like I said it doesn't have to be some big event. Order pizza and watch a ball game. Go treat yourself to a nice dinner somewhere. Go to get in a killer workout at the gym. Go go the oceanfront and walk the boardwa… | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 09:17 PM |
| 8 | Do you expect your LTR to prioritize you over friends during the weekend?Here are some things that will help you: I'm so available because I don't have many friends. I'm very introverted. Being introverted and not having friends doesn't mean you should just be available at all times. I might decide to stay in and watch the warriors game tonight...by myself. You know what that means? It means I'm not available. I was hoping to spend time with her tonight and I'm pretty horny You are being blinded by pussy. This is textbook beta behavior and the very definition of lack… | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 08:11 PM |
| 7 | Plate broke - I asked what went wrong and got a real answer - seems salvageable - thoughts on how I should respond?thoughts on how I should respond? Don't respond right now. You made a joke. She knows it was a joke. You didn't do anything wrong. You're a high value guy who has life figured out and little insignificant things like women trying to be dramatic don't even register on your radar for more than a minute. You read her text, and forgot about it almost immediately after. Some days go by and you're doing something fun Saturday and you remember, oh yeah I haven't talked to that new girl Deb in a few day… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 03:42 PM |
| 8 | Gym equipment is always being used by someone else. Any advice?Having to wait on equipment sucks but unless you're going to switch gyms or go at off hours it's something you have to deal with. I basically just walk right in and ask people how much longer they have. Typically the gym bros who have been doing it for a while know the routine and understand the frustration of having to wait for equipment so I find them to be pretty agreeable when I come and ask how much longer they're going to be. If you're dealing with some shithead kids in groups of 3 w… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 08:57 PM |
| 10 | Is GF using dread game on me? How to respond?I asked her what are the rules of the game for our relationship are I told her that I want a monogamous relationship You fucked up here, hard. A man's bargaining chip is his commitment. Not only did give it freely (thus making it worthless), but you seemingly forced it on someone who is indifferent. Everything else is just a byproduct of you torpedoing your own ship before you even set sail and now you're asking us how to avoid sinking. Spoiler: You can't. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/18 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend goes to good guy friends house aloneSounds like you did some things wrong here. > she was already good friends with him since before we started dating K so you already knew about him before you got into an LTR with her. > My commitment is a valuable commodity So who pushed who for commitment? If you're going to sit here and tell us she pressured you for commitment, and you didn't fix the guy BFF bullshit before agreeing to be LTR status then you fucked up. ----------------------- At this point there's not a lot you c… | /r/askTRP | 28/08/18 02:31 PM |
| 4 | Lifters: What's your take on my lifting routine?I find myself repeating this same advice here every month it seems like. All beginners should stick with the big 5 compound lifts. https://stronglifts.com/5x5/ deadlift squat bench overhead press bent over row You can progress to an upper/lower split and then a PPL/brosplit as you develop. You should only be making your own routine once you learn what your body responds to best and you have enough knowledge/experience to create a tailored routine. New lifters don't fall into that cat… | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 01:41 PM |
| 1 | What is the highest n-count you would marry or serious LTR?For marriage: You should only consider girls who have had 1-3 LTRs (lasting more than 1 year depending on her age) who has only had sex while in a relationship. You should be looking at nothing over the age of 25. Ideally she'll have had one LTR spanning 4-5 years that shows she is good at monogamy and being in a relationship. Depending on other factors, something like 2-3 shorter LTRs. (16-18, 18-22, 22-24) might be acceptable, but it's certainly not ideal. Any casual, NSA, ONS, etc means you s… | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 03:35 PM |
| 6 | I escalated, got LMR... What happened next surprised me.> This time I responded with the playful asshole "the doors right there" I personally wouldn't use that line. It's too nuclear. Basically telling her, fuck me or leave. There are more subtle ways to get past LMR that don't go the nuclear route. You say it's worked for you in the past so I'm not trying to argue with results but I don't think it's the best way to handle it. I can see it working better if the chick's SMV is below yours but if that's the case you can get away with a lot of stuff tha… | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 03:24 PM |
| 12 | Plate asked for 'Expiry date' of our relationship"When your daughter turns 18" | /r/askTRP | 08/08/18 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Girl I'm dating travels abroad alone for 1-2 months - QuestionNot surprised this kind of question comes from a dude who's busting grape in some slut on the regular. When she gets back, you fucking wrap your shit up and tell her to go get tested. I would say "until" she gets tested, but that would acknowledge you going back to raw dogging her which is fucking stupid. Guys like you have no willpower though and you'll probably just end up thrill seeking before she even comes back with a clean test. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/18 07:05 PM |
| 6 | How to avoid being dominated like this at the workplace?All you have to do is make some suggestions under the guise of it being to improve workflow and increase efficiency. You already said there are team leaders so ask for 10 minutes of his/her time and outline some suggestions you think will improve performance/efficiency for your project team. > But once she's done and I'm leaving to do xyz, she'll loudly repeat a concise version of what to do Don't attack her, but this is inefficient use of company time. Ask your team lead if this was how your te… | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 08:50 PM |
| 4 | bulk or cutFirst off you're almost undoubtedly wrong on your BF %. Secondly you (and most of the people replying to this thread) don't seem to understand the point of bulk/cut cycles and are just using them as buzz words. You have no reason to do a bulk or a cut right now, just eat at maintenance and get on a good program. If you actually train like you're supposed to 4+ times a week, your appetite will go up. Listen to your body, increase your calorie intake accordingly. Once you get to the point where yo… | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 03:14 PM |
| 7 | Why no relationships or marriage?This shit is asked all the time here. The truth is, that sure, maybe 1 in 1000 marriages _IS_ actually a solid deal for the man. Where his wife is loving, doesn't cheat, and continues to do her wifely duties (not get fat, cook, satisfy him sexually, have a pleasant disposition, etc) for their entire life. That scenario is exceedingly rare, but the people who come here asking that bullshit will always think they're the 1/1000 if you tell them there's that possibility out there. That is exactly wh… | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Starting Your First Steroid Cycle (Or Thinking About It). Things You Should Be Aware Of...Can someone explain the blood tests to me? I'm near my natural limit and have been considering gear for the last year or so but haven't pulled the trigger because I'm not down to mess with needles. Anyway, last time I visited my PCP for a physical I talked to him about my options for getting a blood test done. He said my insurance covers one a year. After talking about blood tests (including getting testosterone levels checked) he went straight for the ballsac part of the physical. I'm sure base… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/18 02:19 PM |
| 1 | I think most of us in here (especially late teens/ early 20s) miss the point in our success with women. R/k selection, aren't we addressing the wrong audience?Firstly, you're projecting when you say "most of us here" fall into the same category that you put yourself in. The largest subsection of guys who come here are just looking for a quick answer or some tricks to get pussy. In other words: What I've noticed there seem to be a lot of R type men in the community ( or R type wannabe) That's the reason you see the same kind of advice given so much. People are fucking morons, especially the "r type" who can't plan ahead and seek instant gratification. … | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 01:36 PM |
| 5 | Clearly interested Girl wants to see my social media before meeting upMissing my point. I'm not attacking your smv. I'm trying to get you to think like a high smv guy naturally thinks because that's what she's testing you on and it will help in the long run. You posted this question because you're in the mindset of: "I want to bang this girls pussy, how do I pass her test?" If you just want a defacto answer, then the answer is "ignore" because you can't screw it up that way. I'm trying to get you to see there is a different approach to it entirely, where that ques… | /r/askTRP | 21/06/18 07:27 PM |
| 16 | Clearly interested Girl wants to see my social media before meeting upIt is a test, but I'd call it more of a value test than a shit test. These kinds of questions can always be answered with WWJBD. If you are a high value male, a thot wouldn't be dropping this on you to begin with. She'd be so wet at the thought of getting to hang out with you she wouldn't need to scout your social media first. But in the event you're Justin Beiber, and you do some chick a solid by inviting her to hang out and she hits you with "lemme see that Insta first though", what do you thi… | /r/askTRP | 21/06/18 03:43 PM |
| 5 | Marriage with prenup?Prenups can be overruled for a number of reasons, up to the discretion of the judge. If you're getting married you should have one, but it's not some magical solution. As far as getting married, read this: https://boldanddetermined.com/pick-the-right-wife/ | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Fairly experienced, what’s my Motivation to Keep Dating / Plating?No one girl seems to be all that much better than the next. When you really believe that notion, it’s liberating, but also kind of depressing. I absolutely agree. I think it comes with the territory once you have a certain amount of experience. Learning a new skill, and honing it to perfection is a fun and interesting challenge, but once you've mastered it, the enthusiasm wanes. Slamming vag is no different. Guys without a lot of experience are usually motivated to get out there and chase. But o… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 06:45 PM |
| 0 | Men... do you personally like it when a woman in real life approaches you?Like or dislike aren't really great terms to describe it. I know what it's like to go out of your comfort zone and approach, so I give props to any girl who's able to do that. Most of the time I'll even verbalize it to her and turn it into a tease. "Yo it took some courage to come over here and talk to me. That's your thing huh, just goin and chattin up random dudes at the (club/gym/mall/whatever) ?" If I'm interested in banging her out, then the whole concept of a girl approaching is fine. But … | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys lift for strength or size?I do both but mostly just care about how I look. To give some perspective on the rest of this post. I'm 6'1" currently 210 lbs with 315/385/405 on the big 3 (bench/squat/dead). I do a mix of high rep/low weight (warmup/burnout) + low rep/high weight for those 3 exercises specifically because I care about the strength aspect. All the other accessory exercises I do in the hypertrophy range 8-12 reps to exhaustion with some super-setting. Guys with low body fat and visible abs, what’s your routine/… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 06:01 PM |
| 10 | I got away from oneitis by fucking 8/10 escortIt is very strange It's not really strange. Most guys don't have a lot of experience with women, and don't understand how the world works. I'll say this, for any guy whose life revolves around picking up 7s at bars or on tinder, or dudes who are in a relationship with some average looking basic bitch, do yourself a favor and go to one of the top end FKK clubs in Europe. It will change your life and open your eyes on the real value of pussy. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 01:18 PM |
| 5 | [LTR] Am I wrong for interpreting this as a problem?Yeah, you've let things get WAY too out of hand. This relationship is not salvageable. You have a long way to go on dealing with women, and people in general. You need way more help than anyone can give you in a post, you need to go to the sidebar and read about being a man. When I start dating a new chick, if she tries to create any drama around me, I just tell her "don't come at me with that bullshit" If she keeps doing it, kick her ass out. It's your way or the highway. Don't get angry, don't… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/18 08:31 PM |
| 7 | “Are you single?”Asking her flat out if she's single doesn't allow her to maintain plausible deniability, which is shooting yourself in the foot. You're forcing her to acknowledge she has a BF, and going any further with you means she's knowingly cheating. Keep the whole boyfriend thing out of it, and on a side note, if a girl ever mentions that to me I just ignore and keep going, or depending on the circumstances will say something like "that's cool I'm not trying to be your boyfriend" smirk. When you approach … | /r/askTRP | 04/06/18 08:21 PM |
| 21 | LTR and male friendship?In their first exchange of conversation, she told them straight up that if they try anything, they’re cut off and she ONLY wants a friendship. Listen to what she does, not what she says. One is a total beta and has bought her multiple things and she tells me and just laughs about it and says how he’s never going to win her over. Oh, so he's already trying to get in her pants. Did she stick to her word and cut him off? Spoiler: Of course not, she has no intention of cutting either of them off. sh… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 06:23 PM |
| 4 | How can I stop admiring steroid users at the gym?Firstly, you probably don't know who is really on steroids and who is not. Unless someone looks like Calum Von Moger or is on the shred level of Jon Skywalker, you really have no idea. I get asked/accused of being on gear a few times a month on average and I don't take anything other than ON protein powder. Here are a few things that might help you. 1) A lot of steroid users look like shit. Look at this guy on the bigger,faster,stronger documentary: https://youtu.be/7_MpdwxNoUI?t=555 He's a fuck… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 02:52 PM |
| 3 | Joined a gym - Best Gym routines/tips?You can find more information by googling than you could ever hope to find here. Person A will come in here and swear by program X they found on the internet while Person B will come in here and say program Y really worked for them. The real answer is, it's different for everyone. Your body will respond differently than anyone giving you advice, and your goals will likely differ as well. You should try different things in the hopes that you gain enough gym experience to figure out what your body… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 07:25 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys think of this.? No eex after 2nd date. (A follow up)The majority of girls, aside from those who are total sluts and have a lot of NSA sex, go by the 3 date rule. Very common, don't have sex until the 3rd date so they don't come off as easy. This is a soft rule, as these same girls will fuck guys right away if there is some form of urgency where she's not going to see you again. ex. Traveling, and runs into some dude at a club she's never going to see again after that night, it's either fuck now or never, so she'll choose now. a friend of mine I w… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 08:30 PM |
| 3 | Why so much focus on lifting?If you cant be confident without having to lift, without all the useless excess amt of muscles, then id say thats pretty fucking pathetic. And yet here you are, so insecure about being weak and skinny that you come to this sub and make a post desperately seeking validation from the community to convince yourself that staying small is OK. Sounds pretty confident to me. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/18 01:39 PM |
| 1 | LTR said something dumb, how would you have responded?Only reply in this thread that's actually RP advice. If she suggests that sex is a favor to you like she did, and you do anything along the lines of what other people in this thread are suggesting by acknowledging her comment and still trying to fuck her, you're basically agreeing with her narrative that sex is a reward for you. You are the prize. That includes sex, her getting to have sex with you is her reward for being a good girl. She's flipping the script on you. Don't play that game. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/18 01:27 PM |
| 4 | Short buff guy getting called out for being short and buffthe dude immediately said something like “You work out enough?” Nah I just eat a lot of cheeseburgers. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/18 09:38 PM |
| 4 | Weightlifting: One Year PlanThere is tons of information on the net, but most of it is misleading. The main thing you should take away from this is, as you gain experience lifting, learn what works for you, what your body responds to, etc. and follow your own program. For now, you can stick with the popular programs on the net, get your gains in, and when you start hitting plateaus, you will need to try different things to continue to advance. The general way a new lifter should go is: 1) Start with full body, big compound… | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 02:56 PM |
| 10 | LTR thinks I make way more money than I actualy doIf you actually want her to stop then ignoring or AA aren't going to cut it. She's just going to keep probing harder and harder. Seems like a perfect time to instill some dread. she wants me to pay for things "because I make so much and she's still a student" "Girl I know you playin cuz if I thought a girl was with me for my money I'd have to seriously reconsider things. But you're not like that, right?" That's a bit of a blow up and you might have deal with some fallout, but if you try to be pl… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/18 03:01 PM |
| 2 | recently started dancing salsa but 99% of the girls are women (post wall) so is there any better social activity to meet girls around 18-22?You're basically asking where college girls hang out. They hang out at and around their school, so you're better off looking for things to do based on location rather than activity itself. Since you mentioned crossfit, look for a crossfit gym near a college. You can scout it out ahead of time by going to the gyms facebook/IG or google pictures page and see if there are any girls you're interested in. Worth noting that there are going to be multiple WOD sessions per day, so you'll have to figure … | /r/askTRP | 10/01/18 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Me and my dad own a bar, i have some questions.These guys actually look like they haven't ever done a push up, and they all have snapbacks with sports teams, smell like weed, and don't groom themselves. Well you got part of it right, weed. These guys are enablers. They have connections, a lot of times involving drugs. If you are connected like that, you will have girls, that's just how the world works. Example: A good friend of mine lives in Miami. Exactly like you describe. Probably 350 lbs, crinkly ass beard. Wears sports jerseys a lot. Bu… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 02:39 PM |
| 9 | Girl trying to change date timeYou're looking at the situation from a point of confrontation where both of you are struggling for the upper hand. You don't need to fight with women, they aren't your equal. Just learn how to handle them. You can learn a lot reading this. You're failing to use powertalk here and coming across butt-hurt as a result. She then asked to meet at 2pm because she had plans later in the night. Yeah, even if she's telling the truth, this is a test. I decided that latter saying "no thanks, maybe another … | /r/askTRP | 12/12/17 02:28 PM |
| 1 | FR: A night with a Venezulana in PanamaI absolutely agree, in fact i actually wrote "all women are prostitutes in some way" in my post originally but took it out since it changes the focus of the message. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/17 06:49 PM |
| 10 | FR: A night with a Venezulana in PanamaI lived in the zone for 2 years. Thoroughly enjoyed my time there, and yeah it's common for women to target gringos for money. Don't pay attention to the people throwing around the prostitute label, things work a little differently in 3rd world countries. Doubtful she is an actual sex worker. While you're there make sure you go big for Carnival (honestly it's hard not to) and get in a fishing trip if you're even remotely into that kind of thing. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/17 03:12 PM |
| 3 | Why so many mgtows who were TRP before and no MGTOWS ever become TRP?Bait post but whatever. I've answered this before here I'll say the same thing this time. MGTOW is just a subsection of being redpilled. People who use the TRP subs think it is worth some amount of their time and effort to pursue pussy. MGTOW does not, but they still view the world through a redpill lens. Knowing this, it's easy to see why someone would go from TRP to MGTOW, they just need to come to the conclusion that putting effort into getting pussy is not worth it. There are many ways someo… | /r/askTRP | 26/10/17 04:18 PM |
| 2 | What would you do if your wife was raped?It's in men's nature to protect the weak. I know instinctually I'd want to stick it out and help her but......... Knowing that the vast majority of women would not (and do not) do the same if the roles were reversed, would make me more apt to ditch her. That's the redpill talking, treat women according to their true nature, not their perceived nature. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/17 03:03 PM |
| 38 | LegendaryGonna pop off a little here as I could write a novel on this topic. I'm a former college tennis player, still play twice a week, in very good shape etc. I also go to 1-2 tournaments a year, Miami, Indian Wells, US Open. Been to the French Open the last 2 years as well. Point being, I know tennis better than the average redditor. I've seen Serena play a lot in person. Not by choice, she's just on the main stadium court late in the tournament most of the time which is when I go. Her skill level/sh… | /r/MGTOW | 23/10/17 06:26 PM |
| 1 | My GF Wants To Pick Up An Assistant/Escort Gig For A Weekend And I'm Not OK With It. How To Deal With This?Is it for EDC Orlando and is this the application? https://imgur.com/a/Ip1yF If so, don't even worry about it man, I'll take reaaaaal good care of her. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/17 02:07 PM |
| 10 | Been on TRP for 2 years. It's gotten me in bed with 60+ women and created a confident and aloof man. The side effects? Loneliness and the inability to form a bond to a woman who I should probably stick to. Side effects of TRP, not worth it. What do I (we) do?Claiming to be "on TRP" and goes on to complain about things that aren't RP. False pretenses. Why the fuck would I care what some bitch is doing, constantly swallowing TRP and living a life of solidarity? It's empty, it's boring, it's predictable. Being Redpilled means you naturally do NOT care about what some bitch is doing. Life of solidarity? A high SMV man has as much of a social life as he chooses. You sound like the kind of person who reads some shit and tries to do it verbatim without act… | /r/askTRP | 13/10/17 03:16 PM |
| 9 | To those in student loan debt: Do Not Get Married... to those not in student loan debt: Do Not Get MarriedGo here: https://www.adp.com/tools-and-resources/calculators-and-tools/payroll-calculators/salary-paycheck-calculator.aspx His number isn't far fetched if he is contributing a lot to deductions and lives in a high tax state. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/17 01:15 PM |
| 3 | Instagram orbitersGirls like posts from other girls for two reasons. 1) Feedback loop. If a girl likes your post she expects you to like hers back. 2) Because nothing is implied. A girl liking a girls post? Cool! A girl liking a guys post? She wants his dick. So even though the posts are from you, the fact that it has your GF in it means girls can like it without it looking like she wants the dick. Is there a way to gauge whether this attention means anything Yeah, gauge it as they want you to like their posts (i… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/17 02:42 PM |
| 8 | How to have a decent social and sex life as a STEM major?Just because you're in a STEM field doesn't mean that you somehow have no time to do anything else. I was a college athlete which means a lot of time spent practicing, lifting and traveling. I still managed to graduate with a 3.8 in Computer Engineering, party, and slam vag. As long as you're smart and know how to use google, undergrad isn't that demanding. 90% of college students have absolutely horrible time management which creates an illusion of not having a lot of time. Most students will d… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/17 01:17 PM |
| 3 | FR: So what was I there for?No biggie, i was planning to go there anyway for the live music. This is the right mentality to have, and I think you played it fine. Can't expect to win them all. If shit like this becomes a pattern then it's time for some introspection. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/17 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Answering to "Are you ok? / Is everything ok? You seem off" in the correct way.There are a few ways of doing it, none of which are to answer with the truth. Answer to absurdity is a good choice, especially if you can fit in an inside joke. ex. if she's a fan of katy perry Her: Is everything ok? You: NO! I just found out that Katy Perry doesn't write all her own lyrics. My world has been shattered. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/17 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Approaching at the gym?If some chick told me this Hey I’ve got X minutes left on this round, let me finish and then we can chat? I'd think it was weird and take it that she isn't interested enough to make it worth my while. I sure the fuck wouldn't come back a second time. If you are actually interested in the guy, you should go find him and re-initiate after you're done doing your thing. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/17 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Settling down in your 20's vs 30s. Is the distinction in the type of woman drawn to you even real? Or are they all the same.This article sums up everything you want to know and more. https://boldanddetermined.com/pick-the-right-wife/ | /r/askTRP | 05/09/17 07:06 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with chicks who express their problems?Don't take that shit seriously, just come up with a funny response that conveys how insignificant you think it is. Her: I can't figure out of im empty inside of just hungry. You: Def empty inside, but don't worry I got something that will fill you up. Remember, women have the maturity level of children. You don't take what a 5yo says seriously, you just have fun and mess around with them so do the same with women when they do this. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/17 05:06 PM |
| 11 | My girl admitted to me she was attracted to a guy at a party yesterdayWhat she was doing at the party while on X is not the most relevant part of this post. This is: She instantly replied, without hesitating "I am. He's pretty, that's the way it is". Her reply and demeanor are disrespectful. She doesn't even bother with any kind of plausible deniability. This behavior only comes out from women when they don't give a fuck. It should give you some insight into how she views you. Let me translate what was actually communicated between the two of you in that conversat… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/17 06:30 AM |
| 21 | My gf was acting real shady with a coworker????So you posted here last week asking this same shit and didn't listen to anything we told you. Now: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/6vk2i9/my_28m_gf_26f_was_acting_really_shady_with_a/ https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/6vr07m/so_been_acting_shady_with_a_coworker/ https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/6vj7jp/my_28m_gf_26f_was_acting_really_shady_with_a/ https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/6vqy3p/my_gf_was_acting_real_shady_with_a_coworker/ At this … | /r/askTRP | 24/08/17 02:32 PM |
| 11 | FR: Lied about my age. It worked. Advice going forward.Lesbi honest. If you're running around telling chicks you're 48, it will definitely work against you with some girls. I'd rather let them build their own narrative. I live right next to a University by the beach, so a lot of the smashable vag around here is college age. If a girl asks, I just tell her to guess and whatever she guesses (usually 24-27) I just tell her, "wow good guess" and let her think she's right. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/17 02:15 PM |
| 4 | Situation with female coworkerHowever that display pretty much killed any remaining interest I had left. Not interested. Who you tryin to convince with this stuff, us? Or yourself? Cuz some guy who isn't interested, sure the fuck isn't coming in here writing a novel about some bitch at work. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/17 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Age gap plate spin timeLike people have said, way too many factors to really tell but I'll indulge you anyway to give you some expectations. Mine average about 2 months but I'm on the extreme end of IDGAF. I don't eat vag and don't care about a woman's sexual satisfaction, only my own. If she gets dramatic, or does shit that annoys me, I'll ghost a bitch with the quickness. If you have more patience you can extend the spin cycle out longer. ============ The other side of that is I find a lot of girls tend to want comm… | /r/askTRP | 10/08/17 02:53 PM |
| 9 | My gf has been talking to another guy behind my back but pretends not to know him when I'm around?What in the fuck are you doing with all of these replies man? Whether Mike is dicking out your girl, or has some shred of decency and is ignoring her after he found out about you, WHO GIVES A FUCK? Your "girlfriend" is clearly disrespecting you, isn't that enough? | /r/askTRP | 10/08/17 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Just got the "I'll let you know" textYou played it fine. The military thing is wash. Some girls are into it, some aren't. wait a couple of days and see if I can meet up with her the same night? You said you live near and see her frequently? I'm assuming this means in person. She shut you down via text, it would look really bad to re-initiate with her via text, especially when she's going to look down at her phone, see the previous message was her shutting you down, and then see you're still groveling at her feet. That would send a … | /r/askTRP | 07/08/17 03:36 PM |
| 12 | I start college in two weeks, what are some tips to start fast socially when I know very few people there?Storytime: I moved in Thursday of freshman year, Pritchard Hall at Virginia Tech. I made sure to chat up the cool lookin dudes on my floor during move in etc. Everyone's eager to make friends at the start of college. One of the guys I made friends with is Fran. He was an eminem lookin dude, but the guy was fearless with women and had the gift of gab. I knew some of the brothers at the AGR frat from high school, and they were throwing a big party on Saturday so I told Fran and another guy in our … | /r/askTRP | 04/08/17 08:01 PM |
| 5 | Is it counter-RedPill to prefer sluts over women that claim low n-counts?What would you make of a high n-count gained during high school/college (16-21) that shifted to serial monogamish? What do I make of it? You're describing like 90% of the mid 20s female population. Ages whatever-18. High school. Some girls slut it up. Some girls date 1 or 2 guys their entire high school existence. Ages 18-22. College, most girls slut it up. Some stay in relationships. 22+ After graduation there is heavy pressure on a girl to move onto the "next big thing" in her life. That means… | /r/askTRP | 04/08/17 06:48 PM |
| 7 | Is it counter-RedPill to prefer sluts over women that claim low n-counts?It's because sluts have a level of honesty about them. Chances are lower they're trying to trick you into something. You want sex, they want sex, so you hang out, enjoy each other's company and bang out. I just want to have fun with girls, slam some vag and just keep on livin. L-I-V-I-N. Now let's look at girls who claim a low N count. 1) She actually has a low N count. To turn this girl into your own personal slut, you need to catch her before she's had a chance to get on the CC. So either when… | /r/askTRP | 04/08/17 01:25 PM |
| 3 | LTRs and "Girls Night Out"she shouldn't WANT to go The main reason isn't that she shouldn't want to go hang out with her friends, it's that the thought of being away from you for that long should be painful for her. If her reaction to the trip is something like, she feels obligated to go to support her friend, but she's going to miss the fuck out of you, that's what "shouldn't want to go" means even if she ends up going. The opposite of that is, "fuck yeah I'm going on this trip to hang out with my girlfriends and party … | /r/askTRP | 01/08/17 08:48 PM |
| 5 | My LTR is starting to look elsewhereIt's clear from your replies that you don't understand RP principles beyond a surface level. You're here looking for some silver bullet to get your girl to stop lusting after some dude. There isn't one. Stop arguing with everyone giving you advice and listen to what they're saying. True but if I start withholding the other things I bring to the relationship while I can't have sex I won't be offering anything. You want to talk about cringeworthy statements? Look no further. If you truly believe t… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 01:32 PM |
| 12 | Vetting a girl's sexual pastThis question comes up all the time, surprised no one gave the right answer yet. The best way to have a chance at getting some legitimate info about her past is to play it up like you're into girls who have slutted it up. This gives the best chance of not triggering her anti-slut defense and getting some kind of honesty from her on the subject. Get on some kind of sexual topic, like the craziest place you've ever had sex. Have some over the top story ready to go (good if it's true, otherwise emb… | /r/askTRP | 29/06/17 02:37 PM |
| 8 | LTR gives lots of attention/lightly flirts with one of my friendsI've been in this exact situation before, funny enough with my friend...also first name started with J. Him - short extroverted, engaging personality. Me - Tall, good looking, athletic. He liked having me around because it raised his value having someone "cool" hang out with him. He did a lot of the legwork setting up social stuff and bringing girls into the mix, so we complemented each other well. He was all about slamming vag, and didn't follow the bro code. Anyway, I started dating this girl,… | /r/askTRP | 28/06/17 04:06 PM |
| 3 | What the fuck is up with horse girls.Part of horse hygiene is cleaning their dick, so yeah the girls are definitely familiar with horse cock. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/17 02:37 PM |
| 5 | What the fuck is up with horse girls.Is there a legit reason behind this conundrum? My Dad calls it the "My Little Pony syndrome". My family has a horse barn on the main property. Aside from the permanent horses my parents also buy horses from Europe to import and have my sister train, then re-sell at a large profit here in the states. Anyway there are a few contributing factors. Most of the parents of these girls are pretty crazy to begin with. The mothers especially are the "real housewives" kind of women and there is often a lot… | /r/askTRP | 27/06/17 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Where are the best TRP threads on the history of marriage and "Marriage 1.0" and how it evolved/changed?read the misandry bubble | /r/askTRP | 23/06/17 12:54 PM |
| 6 | Shit tests in a LTR; Wanting me to hang out with her guy friends.What I can't figure out is how to handle when she wants to introduce me to her guy friends. She's trying to pull you into her frame. The whole thing about her behavior being disrespectful etc is all a by product of your own behavior. All you need to remember (and internalize) is this: You're out there on this amazing journey, living life to the fullest. You're graciously letting her come along on the ride, because you think she's cool and adds some value to your life. Anything that doesn't fit t… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/17 02:23 PM |
| 6 | is there anything wrong with being mgtow instead of red pill?Both groups share a lot of similarities, the main difference being RP guys want to slam vag and mgtow guys don't want to put forth the effort. A lot of the posters in both groups are incels, these are the ones who try to shame the others and don't really embody some of the concepts. The guys in both groups who are actually unplugged, don't give a shit about labels. Remember idgaf | /r/askTRP | 18/04/17 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Hard nexted a bitch over $20Whether or not you next her isn't the important decision here. I probably would, but I would have never been in that position in the first place because... I don't care so I just buy it when I'm at the grocery store. Mistake? By the way you describe it going down (she said that I should buy her a CO2 cartridge), by doing it you're putting yourself into a position of servitude. Running her errands for her. Replace her with one of your guy friends. If you're hanging out with a bro, and he says "he… | /r/askTRP | 09/09/16 12:36 PM |
| 2 | How do you deal with plates fucking other men? (Mate Guarding is natural)I'm not interested in low SMV women Right you shouldn't be. My targets will have higher SMV men than me pursuing them. There's nothing I can do to raise my SMV above that of a man with a similar job who's 15 years younger I understand your point. I don't know what it's like to be in your shoes, so I can only tell you what works for me. Find your advantage. It can be money/looks/personality/social/intelligence/athleticism/bedroom prowess/etc. A guy might have you in some of those categories, but … | /r/askTRP | 29/08/16 07:33 PM |
| 2 | How do you deal with plates fucking other men? (Mate Guarding is natural)Think about SMV metaphorically. in asktrp and say "you have low SMV" and to be fair, it's a safe assumption. It's just not true in this case. When people say "low SMV" it doesn't mean you specifically are in the bottom 10% of men. It means you're equal or lower than the girl(s) you're talking about. My last LTR was 1/2 my age, smoking hot, and razor sharp. My SMV is solid. Not spectacular, but solid Case in point. You believe the girl has a higher SMV than you. So if she's seeing other men, chan… | /r/askTRP | 29/08/16 05:52 PM |
| 6 | How do you deal with plates fucking other men? (Mate Guarding is natural)How the fuck do you avoid this trap? By having a high SMV. I don't give a shit if plates see other guys. Hell they need to have other guys feed their validation, because I sure the fuck don't want to see them more than once a week. I know any other dudes she's seeing aren't as good as I am, so why care. All that's happening when she's with other guys is making her realize how much she wishes she was with me instead. If a girl does stuff that you don't want to deal with (in your case, seeing othe… | /r/askTRP | 29/08/16 02:37 PM |
| 30 | Relationship issue because of my girlfriend's past. Asked r/relationships how to save my relationship and got flamed for slut shaming.Sure, all women have the same general set of tendencies, that's why we use the term AWALT. Given the right circumstances, a woman's behavior tends towards certain predictable actions. Having said that, there are plenty of women who DO manage to limit their sexual partners to men they are in committed relationships with rather than getting train run on them at parties. Your girlfriend is broken dude. She is unfit for a committed relationship and your gut is telling you that. The feeling is not go… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/16 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Gaining weigh from Stronglifts 5x5MY AIM IS TO LOSE THIS FAT AROUND MY BELLY AND REPLACE IT WITH MUSCLE Most people don't understand how lifting and body fat work. In order to build muscle, you need to eat a at a calorie surplus. When you eat at a surplus, your body converts this surplus to fat/muscle at a rate determined by your T levels. (not exactly how it works but ELI5). So long as you're packing on muscle mass, you're going to have some fat on your body. This is commonly known as bulking. This is why you hear people talk a… | /r/askTRP | 22/08/16 08:21 PM |
| 3 | Why should I give a fuck what she does when I'm not with her?I keep reading posts around here where guys are struggling to keep a position of dominance 24/7 and monogamy and alphamalehood and have their girl(s) basically worship them, and I ask myself why care? Your post describes your girl as what most of us would label as a plate. In that regard, no you should not care what a plate does when she's not with you. Most guys who are in a serious committed relationship (which is not what your relationship is), have given up some things (freedom, time, energy… | /r/askTRP | 18/08/16 09:01 PM |
| 3 | Plate gave me "the talk." Where do I go from here?She asked if this means that she can see other people Just want to point out that she's trying to dread you here. She's not interested in seeing other people, she's just trying to force you to go for the LTR. Manipulation tactic, so now you know she's capable of that. Keep it in mind for later. and I told her that was her choice Good response. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/16 06:39 PM |
| 3 | Good responses to comments about LTR's "asshole" coworkerThere's merit to both sides. If it really doesn't bother you, then you can just ignore it. It does bother OP to some extent, or he wouldn't have made this thread. Me personally, it wouldn't bother me that the girl is attracted to some other dude. It would bother me though, that she's basically lying to your face about a guy, and doing so repeatedly. Subconsciously she thinks that by badmouthing Trey, that she can hide her attraction to him. Again, her subconscious will register that you're not a… | /r/askTRP | 18/08/16 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Should I reach out to him? (I am a female)There is too much nuance here to really explain it to you. What you should stop doing though is injecting your own spin, it really makes helping a tiresome task. Again, RPW is better equipped to put up with this. What do you mean by beta bitch? saying that i am the most beautiful woman he has seen in a long time Men with alpha traits do not say things like this. Is this because he compliments me? No, this is you injecting. And when was I sexual in conversation? Again, injecting. I'm trying to re… | /r/askTRP | 16/08/16 08:36 PM |
| 6 | Guy flirts with the chick I'm seeing. She ignores him , but I have a few questions.and this Rob guy instantly gets one with his knife and tries to give it to her (to her mouth) but she replied with "I can do it myself." Ok, reading that makes me laugh. I'm sure if I was there watching it in person, I'd have started cracking up. I'd probably have given Rob some pointers too on how to pick up chicks. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/16 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Should I reach out to him? (I am a female)Most of the advice you've gotten here sucks. That's why you should be asking RPW. Same reason men should not ask women how to get other women, bad advice. Going to just comment on the parts that stick out to me. saying that i am the most beautiful woman he has seen in a long time He is alpha everyone except me for some reason You realize this means he's going to be your beta bitch right? You're not going to be satisfied with this guy long term. RPW would be cautioning you about adding to your N … | /r/askTRP | 16/08/16 07:52 PM |
| 1 | LTR gf new job, other city, mixed living communityYou excluded information from your post about you being away for work, so the people who replied did so under false pretenses. You have to understand that women are ruled by their feelings. If you are away, or she is away, you are not providing her with oxytocin release. She will find it somewhere else, even if she isn't looking for it. Because I want a women in my side that is more or less independent, I do not like woman without self esteem, yet I find woman who don't experience anything prett… | /r/askTRP | 12/08/16 01:46 PM |
| 10 | How common are virgins/low n-count girls past college years age?If you believe the numbers from the sex survey results that was going around recently on the main sub then for women ages 20-24 the number who claimed to have had no sexual partners (i.e. virgins) was right around 5%. So 1 in 20 women from that age range claim to be (vaginal) virgins. That's probably skewed heavily towards women who are very religious, or the very introverted and don't interact with many people or go to social activities. For your average college girl, it's most likely less than… | /r/askTRP | 11/08/16 08:47 PM |
| 4 | First date tomorrow: Going for a walk around a lake.. Tips for escalating?K a few things. I know asking her where to go for a walk was probably beta another mistake I've made so far is to ask what time suits her Right, but at least you recognize them. Escalating while walking around is easy. Find something that interests you, or something you want to "get a closer look at" while you're walking. Example: I was walking around the city on a 1st date with this chick recently. We walked past a basketball arena at around 9pm while nothing was going on inside. I noticed that… | /r/askTRP | 11/08/16 06:31 PM |
| 3 | Dating women of different agesWomen become jaded with age and experience. At 16, a girl thinks her first boyfriend is her soulmate and they'll be together forever. She doesn't give a shit about his financial prospects, or what kind of car he drives, or whether he wears a sport coat vs a polo shirt. All she cares about is that he's her boyfriend and that they should be together. Once a girl is 30....she's seen everything and is much more picky/jaded/whatever you want to call it. During the actual date she's attracted to you. … | /r/askTRP | 10/08/16 06:14 PM |
| 2 | handling yourself when with a girl with many common interestshow do you handle talking to a girl you sincerely have many overlapping interests with? The key here is to not reveal your hand too soon and keep it mysterious. Anything you're good at, or have that's really cool/impressive, you should act like it's no big deal. Don't talk about anything specific beforehand. Example: I'm a car guy but my tinder profile doesn't reveal that. If I match with a car girl on tinder, I'll send her a message, maybe include some funny comment about her car to let her kno… | /r/askTRP | 08/08/16 06:39 PM |
| 4 | Thoughts on cheating on LTRsWe often say here that cheating is beta because it implies that you're locked to a LTR with a woman that doesn't fulfill your needs That statement goes against the male biological imperative. Men are programmed to spread their seed regardless of whether or not their needs are met. If anything, you should criticize their lack of willpower, in the case where a guy commits to a women and doesn't "want" to cheat, but can't control his own urges so he falters. That's very different than a dark triad … | /r/askTRP | 08/08/16 12:49 PM |
| 5 | Millennials are less likely to be having sex than young adults were 30 years ago, according to a survey of almost 27,000 people. Why?The article implies that the millennials group is having less sex because they are actively choosing abstinence, i.e. turning down sex. When I say "You think..." I'm not asking you the OP, I'm saying it rhetorically to anyone who has read the article and it's message, then read what I wrote. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/16 07:39 PM |
| 45 | Millennials are less likely to be having sex than young adults were 30 years ago, according to a survey of almost 27,000 people. Why?They answer it in the article they propose that young people are living at home for longer, potentially stifling their sex life, while a rise in video games, online services for TV shows and movies such as Netflix, as well as the internet in general could be offering them an alternative way to spend time I.E. there are way more virgin males in the 20-24 crowd now than 30 years ago. That shouldn't be hard to believe. Technology giving women more access to high value men means that low value men g… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/16 05:49 PM |
| 19 | Ex-GF apologized 2 1/2 months Post-Breakup...Looking at her texts it seems she wants me to absolve her guilt Yes, this is right. Like others have said, she's been riding the CC and is finding it unfulfilling and now feels guilty about what she did to you and wants to be absolved so it stops weighing on her mind. Having said that, this is a good lesson for everyone as it encapsulates a TRP teaching very well. A WOMAN'S EMOTINAL STATE (feelings) IS HER REALITY Right now, she's feeling like she messed up and you were a 10/10 guy etc etc. So s… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/16 02:56 PM |
| 33 | With out appearing to give an ultimatum or going nuclear--How do I convey to my GF that if she goes off to this vacation with one of her Girlfriends then we are done.I have not responded because she did not answer the question You're overthinking this. There's nothing to respond to. You've said your piece, now stop texting her and wait until she decides if she's going or not. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/16 07:58 PM |
| 16 | Could you date a girl that's been with black guys?In my social circle there is definitely a stigma attached to any white girl who's gone black. This train of thought is shared by many upper class conservative white guys. For me, it's more the outside perception of what "black guy" means than the skin color. If it's a guy who's rough around the edges, not educated, speaks a certain way, dresses a certain way, etc...doesn't matter what his skin color is, if she's dated a guy like that, she's not fit for me to date seriously. On the same token, I … | /r/askTRP | 27/07/16 06:17 PM |
| 5 | told girlfriend not to go to a coworkers Bachelorette party tomorrow. I'm out of town, and wouldn't be ok with this even if I was in town. she agreed. just got a text saying "I've decided I'm going tomorrow". What do I do? how do I respond?the bigger issue is that you're insecure enough that her going to the bachelorette party of one of her coworkers is enough for you to end your relationship Calling him insecure is a BP shaming tactic. There's nothing here that indicates insecurity. I wouldn't LTR a girl who frequently goes out drinking, or goes on vacations by herself, or random other shit. It's not about being insecure, it's about not wanting certain characteristics in an LTR. OP probably hasn't had to deal with this situation … | /r/askTRP | 26/07/16 08:51 PM |
| 5 | What do you do if a girl you talk on the phone with and going out with says somthing about her ex?It means she is stupid. Not in a malicious way, but like many women she's never had to learn good conversation skills since she can get by on her looks and the fact that she has a vagina. Same as the other examples you gave she says she doesn't really like wings Then she asked what type of car I drive then said something about her ex This is the kind of thought pattern you'd expect to hear from someone without a fully developed brain....like a 5 year old kid who can't keep their mind on one thin… | /r/askTRP | 25/07/16 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Help me decipher and respond to GF's behavior.What should I do? Learn what frame is and how to hold it. GF: what do you think we are going? If you're going to reply, either answer by being aloof You: We're going to the beach on Saturday. Or answer to absurdity. You: We? Well I've decided to become an astronaut and start a colony on Mars. Maybe if you behave yourself you can come too. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/16 03:19 PM |
| 5 | Got friendzoned by the girl I liked for 4 years.I would hate to make you feel uncomfortable. I appreciate the reply and I'm glad we can still be able to talk :) Good god dude I almost threw up reading that. You've got a lot to learn, but you're 18 so, I guess you've got time. Start with this tip. Keep your texts with women SHORT. I casually text her, and the second time I do I ask if she's free this week. She doesn't text back, so the day after I text her You've initiating contact too much. If I initiate contact with someone, I say one word o… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/16 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Do men want it more than women?Of course men want it more. That's what happens when one gender has significantly more testosterone than the other. Just because there are some nympho women out there with daddy issues who fill a void (literally and figuratively) by jumping on cock, doesn't mean women as a whole want it more than men. What is your opinion on this and how can men tackle this power imbalance. Prostitutes. Nothing will make you devalue the pussy of a normal girl when you can bang out a smoking hot 21yo escort just … | /r/askTRP | 20/07/16 06:37 PM |
| 9 | When in an LTR, what is the best move when advances for sex are deniedTreat her like a child. One of the girls I'm seeing right now is a nurse. IF we were in an LTR and she stayed the night frequently, it would go down like this. Her: Not tonight I'm too tired. Me: Oh ya? Sounds like someone had rough day cleaning up poop at work. Say it in a playful teasing manner. Then withdraw your attention. If you're going to go to sleep, do it without touching her. Put your back towards her. If you're not going to sleep, get out of the bed and go occupy yourself somewhere el… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/16 06:05 PM |
| 13 | Girlfriend wants to get tattoo? Should I let her?"I think tattoos are disgusting but you're a big girl, do whatever you want." Then, you make sure you do the same. If that means dumping her ass because you're not attracted to her anymore, then that's what you do. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/16 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do guys post in RedPillWoman?I'd never think to comment on any threads because I view it as a solely feminine space Same. I visit there from time to time, as it's refreshing to see some women who acknowledge the negative aspects of female nature, and are actively seeking introspection. But the same way I don't want women coming to the main TRP sub and posting, I don't think men should be over there spouting off either. RPW is a support group for women. The mods and other well known posters there have pretty good replies. Sa… | /r/askTRP | 08/07/16 08:24 PM |
| 1 | On Video games and feeling like a drug dealer.One of the things that people here tend to forget is that the RP advice doled out on this board is targeted to the masses. It applies to 95%+ of the readers. For probably 99% of the demographic of people coming to TRP for help, the best advice for them is, "quit video gaming". When you say gamer, most people think skinny dorky socially inept beta virgin nerd. Of course TRP is going to advise you to stay away from that, because that's the kind of image they associate with it. The rest is just ham… | /r/askTRP | 01/07/16 12:48 PM |
| 6 | I got a number in a very random way and I'm not sure how to start a talk nowYou: Hey it's zetayshow from (wherever you were) the other day. I'm out at X place right now and forgot my lighter. You should come by and return the favor. She'll most likely respond that she's busy doing something else. She'll either offer to meet up some other time, in which case lock it in. Otherwise, it's on you to offer meeting up some other day. You: Yah that's cool, what are you up to Thursday night? If you crash and burn there, it's not happening. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/16 06:23 PM |
| 36 | Tinder date wants to meet for the first time with her friends at happy hour...she asks me to meet her (for the first time) at happy hour with her friends today. I replied with, "I might could do that, tell me where." Ew. Way to enter her frame. This is a rule. Do not meet a girl for the first time with her friends. 1) She has a support network with her, you don't. Unless she makes a concerted effort to spend a lot of 1on1 time with you at the bar, you run the risk of being some weird dude from tinder who has nothing going on, while she keeps her social value high by talki… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/16 06:13 PM |
| 5 | some advice on a fairly based girlYou sound like this is the first chick that's let you touch her vagina. You have Oneitis for a girl who's older and divorced her husband after 3 months of marriage There is no reason to treat this girl as anything but a plate. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/16 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Replying to text without being too aloofWhenever girls compliment me, if I don't have something specifically witty to reply back with my default line is: "Aww, I bet you say that to all _____" Fill in the blank with whatever is appropriate. If this is your girlfriend you'd fill it in with "your boyfriends" If this is some girl you just met at the beach you'd fill it in with "the guys you meet at the beach." etc. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/16 08:58 PM |
| 6 | The "concerned" male friend...First of all, one of the best skills you can acquire for any social situation is to always have your own thing going on. Never rely on a person or group of people to have fun or look like you belong. This can be anything. It can mean, you're very interested in the game that's on TV while you're at a bar. It can mean that while you're out at the club, you get an important phone call that you have to handle. It should also mean that when you go someplace with a group of people, you don't isolate y… | /r/askTRP | 28/06/16 02:22 PM |
| 5 | Girl invited me to a family party, but worded it weird.plausible deniability - look it up. she wants you to go, but notice she doesn't explicitly ask you to come. my sister said I should totes invite you she's hoping that you'll just accept, but in case you don't, she isn't getting 'rejected' because she didn't specifically invite you herself. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/16 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Working with an annoying woman with attitude (55yo). What do I do here?"DONT YOU EVER HELP PUT THAT TUBE IN AGAIN!" I calmly said "why?" Ok so I get it that you're trying to be professional, but if you're looking for an answer through an RP lens. This is the moment where you're entering her frame and going down the wrong path. At any point in the conversation once you realize she's acting like a child and throwing a tantrum just treat her as such and stop taking her seriously. Her: DONT YOU EVER HELP PUT THAT TUBE IN AGAIN! You: Uh oh, I think someone's blood sugar… | /r/askTRP | 23/06/16 07:53 PM |
| 22 | Ex-Gf sending a message out of the BLUEPlus I always hate to come off like a dick, but I'm totally prepared to if need be. Let me offer you some advice to help you along on your redpill journey. Like others have said here, it's obvious she's just reaching out for some free attention/validation. When it comes to interactions with women, stop thinking in context of "how to handle the situation" and more along the lines of "what do I want out of this situation". How you respond should depend entirely upon what you want to get out of com… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/16 12:48 PM |
| 3 | When they want to do things you have no interest inUh....how about laugh your ass off at her? Me: Did you just ask me, to record you twerking so you can post it instagram? ...hahahahaha, holy shit that's fucking hilarious. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/16 07:55 PM |
| 4 | How to deal with aggressive guys who knew you growing up (that you weren't friends with) attempting to provoke you in front of your girlfriend in order to take her from you? How could I have better handled this?You did alright, but there are some areas you could improve on. "hay baby how you doing?", smiling as she is creeped out. We look at him like he is crazy and then walk in. I would have played this up. Whenever dudes hit on a girl I'm with, it's always funny to me to watch what they do and then tease the girl about it. "Awww looks like you've got an admirer, how adorable." This immediately disqualifies the guy and it will make the girl not want to interact with him even more. she asks me "you kno… | /r/askTRP | 16/06/16 07:49 PM |
| 1 | What is the advice when people talk stuff and you have a different opinion ? (and you know you are right)You should only speak authoritatively when you are actually an authority on the subject. First you say this: someone talks about something and I KNOW they are wrong Then you go on to give examples where you're not dealing with hard facts and you're not an authority on the topic. I know one advice is to think one way but just nod and agree, are you guys really doing this ? As for myself, absolutely not. It's not bad advice in general though because most people aren't good enough at conversation t… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/16 03:38 PM |
| 4 | How to "Demote to plate"?Demoting to plate is what you're doing in regards to your interactions with her. It doesn't mean the girl willingly accepts her new role. Here's the "process" you're asking for 1) I'm in an LTR and for whatever reason, I no longer want to be monogamous with this girl and treat her as my gf. 2) I stop interacting with her unless I specifically want to. If she texts me shit, I don't reply unless I get personal enjoyment out of it. If she asks me to do stuff, I don't reply unless I think I will enj… | /r/askTRP | 20/05/16 06:30 PM |
| 19 | Work Orbiter taking LTR out for dinner this weekend and I'm triggeredLet's be real here. Your LTR has told you (not asked, told) that she's going on a date with another man who she's attracted to. Let that sink in. If any girl I was in a committed relationship with told me that, I'd dump her. Instead your response: "Well there's ________ on 8th street which is really high quality hope you enjoy. I also recommend ____ on 19th." This is an example of trying to implement what you've read on TRP but not fully understanding it. Your response is something you'd say to … | /r/askTRP | 18/05/16 07:27 PM |
| 19 | LTR wants to travel. Should I demote?Knows I'm the prize. And yet. She said to me over dinner last night that she is getting antsy (in life), and wants to travel somewhere to volunteer, to do some good in the world She's fantasizing about going off on an adventure where you aren't part of the picture. That should tell you something. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/16 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Help, LMR with girl booking tropical vacation Friday!I about threw up reading this. Her: "I may need to stay separately from you". Me: "We'll stay together. You know we'll have a good time." Her: "I'm not sure I'm ready for that yet." Me: "I'm attracted to you and like spending time with you. Let's see were the weekend takes us." Read that again. Do you realize how thirsty you sound? Holy shit, you're begging this girl to hang out with you. You are basically telling her "I'm lower value than you." and you need to convince her that you're worthy of… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/16 03:35 PM |
| 9 | Plate got boyfriend but still willing to come overBut I don't want to waste time with her if she won't put out. Right, that's the point. Talk to her the same way, which communicates to her that as far as you're concerned nothing about your relationship has changed. So if she does in fact decide to come over, she already knows what she's in for. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/16 01:17 PM |
| 2 | Never had a girlfriend, already decided I'm never getting married -- but will I be "lonely and miserable?"I only read your TLDR. I'll be miserable for the rest of my life All I need to do is look at my friends who have gotten married. They are slaves. They have no freedom. Their lives are bordering on what I would legitimately call miserable, even the ones who don't have kids yet. I'm going on a 3 week trip to Europe starting in June. I asked my best friend if he wanted to come with me and offered to cover all lodging expenses. He said it sounds awesome but his wife (married less than 1 year) would … | /r/askTRP | 14/04/16 01:12 PM |
| 13 | Plate got boyfriend but still willing to come overTreat it as a shit test. No reply, and go about business as usual. Invite her over next time you want to bang her out. Do not change the way you talk to her, as in, keep the conversation sexual in nature if that's how it usually is. Be prepared to deal with LMR. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/16 12:50 PM |
| 5 | dizziness/light headed during heavy liftsThe root cause is lack of oxygen to the brain. This happens to me too, but only during lifts where I'm standing up. Things like bench are fine as the heart can easily pump blood to the brain. OHP is a unique lift where a significant portion of your body mass is above your heart This means it's harder for the heart to pump blood to the extremities, your brain being one of them. What you should do depends on your goals. If you're going for hypertrophy then just do a weight you can comfortably rep … | /r/askTRP | 13/04/16 02:24 PM |
| 1 | How should I react to a good old friend saying that he is going to get married?If he's someone you talk to regularly, then don't fake being happy for him. When my close bros got engaged, I teased them. "Dang..my dude is getting married. You know that means only 1 pussy for the rest of your life right? That sucks. Actually come to think of it that's 1 pussy for a couple years into your marriage until she stops having sex with you, hahaha. My condolences bro." They'll laugh at is, because it's intended to be funny, but they'll get the message that you don't approve of what t… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/16 02:04 PM |
| 2 | One Year of RP in and coincidentally a one year dry spellMore detail would have been better I'll work with what you gave me It seems like you have the two hardest parts under control. Approaching and escalating are the two biggest players in slamming vag. I've been told I come on really strong I've been told I just creep them out The girls are telling you this? I have a hard time believing that unless you're specifically asking them. Even then, those are just deflections. A hot guy they want to fuck is charming when he comes on strong. A low value guy… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/16 07:39 PM |
| 2 | One Year of RP in and coincidentally a one year dry spellI have cold approached a lot of women with mild success. Give more details here and maybe we can break down where you're failing. I mean real details, including what you're doing to escalate towards sex, etc. Lifting and being good looking are only helpers to getting pussy, they aren't the main course that seals the deal with women. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/16 03:47 PM |
| 72 | "He's so hot/sexy, giggles" shit test responseGirl I dated used to do this. I sat her down and told her I think she'd be happier being single. She got upset and asked why and what was I talking about. I said, you find so many other dudes attractive, you should be out there living your life, chasing your dreams and going after things that you want. She broke down and was like "NOOOOOO, you're my dream. I only want you." etc etc. Never heard her talking about other dudes again after that. I put her to it in a way, that I was just looking out … | /r/askTRP | 24/03/16 06:03 PM |
| 1 | How did we get here? (seeking resources)read The Misandry Bubble | /r/askTRP | 24/03/16 05:33 PM |
| 14 | My girlfriend gave me a list of things that are harmful and hurtful when she has 'panic attacks.' What are your guys' thoughts?abdada is right, but since you're going to hamster your way into not listening to him.... This is a textbook example of when to black knight a bitch. Instead of shutting her down, go to the other end of the spectrum and treat it as a life or death situation. You MUST maintain a straight face and be serious though. If you're a shitty actor then don't do this. "Holy shit I had no idea how serious this was. That's it, from here on out we're not messing around when it comes to your panic attacks." s… | /r/askTRP | 23/03/16 08:51 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Date with an Italian girl. Went well, then I fucked up. Need advice.Do not tell a girl you're going to kiss her. Beta move. Do it like I wrote above. A controlled display of force on a girl makes them wet. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/16 08:05 PM |
| 2 | When she asks suggestive things?"Girl, I've got a nice spot in the middle of my lap you can bury your head in whenever you get scared" | /r/askTRP | 21/03/16 07:57 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Date with an Italian girl. Went well, then I fucked up. Need advice.Something about some dude chasing skirts Also this is a shit test. I would have playfully called her out on it. She's covertly communicating to you that she knows you're trying to get in her pants. If you don't pass this test, it can be a definite loss of value since it's basically confirming to her that she knows the game better than you do. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/16 07:50 PM |
| 10 | [FR] Date with an Italian girl. Went well, then I fucked up. Need advice.I read that you should punish behavior you don't like from them, so after this happens, I sort of withdraw from the conversation and stop looking at her as much as we are walking. She starts talking even more K so this is your turning point. The punish behavior thing works better for girls you already know. Plates/LTRs etc since there is more at stake for them to lose your attention. Girls tend to have anxiety around anything "awkward". So since she could sense a rise in tension and your behavio… | /r/askTRP | 21/03/16 07:42 PM |
| 32 | Thoughts on "How to recognize and avoid red pill men".For those that are saying, they misinterpret TRP. While that may be true, they cherry pick to fit their own narrative, every sub does that. It's just a sign of someone who is unable to think outside their own space. A lot of the angry guys who make posts here, or the main sub, or mgtow, etc. actually might fit the description of the kind of man that women should avoid. The thing is, you and I know, this kind of guy isn't what we refer to as redpill. "That's not what redpill is." Sound familiar? … | /r/askTRP | 18/03/16 01:42 PM |
| 3 | I want to understand why she would ask "How many Gf have had before me""I held hands with a girl in 4th grade once. Does that count?" You've already been out with this chick, so stop texting her unless you're arranging another meetup. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/16 02:57 PM |
| 2 | TRP turned me from a funny to a serious guy /// My college/classmates just make me sad /// I don't even try anymoreYou're looking at this the wrong way. You're butthurt about getting rejected by these chicks and coming here to rant about it. Introspection. The guys in my class are complete beta males/orbiters Why would you complain about this? (oh that's right...the anger phase) These dudes are ZERO competition for you. It's a good thing, not something to complain about. You should find their behavior hilarious. It's like watching a 3 year old try to put a square peg into a round hole and then make a dumbfou… | /r/askTRP | 15/03/16 01:11 PM |
| 9 | Getting serious with a girl. Definitely have the alpha traits but I was a former "nice guy" and don't want to be naive. Are there questions I can ask myself to make sure I have a good girl (if that's a thing)You're asking two different questions here. 1) I want to know if I am being seen as the alpha That depends entirely on how she treats you. You gave us exactly 0 examples from your post, which is how I know that's not the real question you're asking. From the examples you gave in some replies, I'd lean towards her not seeing you as an alpha. She respects me I respect her This is not something that would normally be said. I'm not implying you don't respect a girl, but when you're her king you don'… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/16 07:16 PM |
| 1 | First experience with cheatingI feel a sense of laden guilt - not full on guilt It's because you know cheating is "wrong" but you also know sexual exclusivity from a man is not the most important thing in a relationship for a woman. A woman cares much more about the status and value you add to her life than whether or not your cock is hers and hers alone. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/16 02:22 PM |
| 8 | I invited a chick to go out, she said noYep. hey, that's my style, I do this with everyone OP this is you trying to provide a girl with a reason for your actions. You're allowing her to put you under her judgement. i.e. entering her frame. You never need to justify your actions to a girl you're trying to fuck. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/16 02:14 PM |
| -1 | I failed a shit test."Why would you being married have any impact on what I think of you?" That's going to be interpreted as rhetorical which equals "I wouldn't care if you were married" Which equals giving her a direct and real answer | /r/askTRP | 08/03/16 10:01 PM |
| -2 | I failed a shit test.That's entering her frame. Better to answer to absurdity. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/16 07:04 PM |
| 2 | [AskTRP] What is the best kind of car for a red-pilled man to get?I think He's giving his opinion, which he's entitled to. Google it. Studies show women are attracted to those vehicles in that order, for those reasons. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/16 09:07 PM |
| 2 | [AskTRP] What is the best kind of car for a red-pilled man to get?Snarky comments aside women are attracted to men who drive 1) Trucks Sign of masculinity. 2) Sports cars Sign of financial success. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/16 08:51 PM |
| 6 | Help! I have a rich wife(Xpost from twochromosomes) I hope I'm following all the rules. I did read them.I'm going to sum things up for you. Don't take this as a substitute for reading more in depth though. 1) Women are attracted to masculine men. Period. Don't listen to anyone who tries to tell you differently. Success, strength, demeanor, etc are all forms of masculinity. Right now, your wife is more financially successful than you. This dries up the pussy. No matter how many women will argue against this fact, your wife has flat out told you. she always thought the man should make more than the … | /r/askTRP | 04/03/16 08:45 PM |
| 4 | I notice a big difference between the kinds of hot girls I met in college versus the ones I meet in the real world, is it a location thing or circumstances?Those kinds of women need their life to be one never-ending adventure. Their biggest nightmare for them is leading a "boring" mundane life. The 4 years spent in college are part of that adventure. Afterwards, there are 3 usual paths a woman will follow. 1) Get married. This is the easiest of the 3 paths. You find some beta schlub and have him or your parents pay for a wedding. This is usually 1-2 years (can be more) added onto their never ending adventure. They don't get married because they wan… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/16 02:27 PM |
| 4 | Benefits of being a male?The potential to achieve greatness is much higher for males than females. The smartest people in the world are men. The most physically gifted people in the world are men. Brain or Brawn, men come out on top. Men don't have periods. Men are less prone to be controlled by their emotions, i.e. it is easier for them to make good decisions. Men are better at adapting and manipulating their environment to their benefit. Society DOES coddle females, you're right, but there is no way I'd ever trade my … | /r/askTRP | 02/03/16 07:20 PM |
| 0 | I'm assuming this is a great signmakes me feel like she really is a good one Yes I know AWALT. But do you really know AWALT? She can say that you'll use her income to fall back on, because it feels like a good thing to say now and she has nothing to lose, but everything to gain. She's vocalizing her loyalty to you when she sees your business as $$$ to get in on. However, if your business fails and you actually need to rely on her income, that's going to dry that pussy up with the quickness and make the branch swing a high possi… | /r/askTRP | 29/02/16 09:56 PM |
| 1 | What's the evolutionary-psychology reason for oneitis?There are two ways oneitis manifests itself. 1) From a place of scarcity. Typically this is when a beta male finds a desirable female who will give him attention or even have sex with him. Since he doesn't have abundance, he latches onto this one girl. 2) Alphas living in abundance can have oneitis too. This is driven by the same part of the brain as the beta's oneitits, wanting to spread your seed to the best available female(s). Best can mean a number of different things here depending on what… | /r/askTRP | 29/02/16 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Girl I'm seeing keeps asking me if she should move to another city?She wants to know how invested in her you are. Her: I'm thinking about moving to the other side of the country. You: Omg please don't bae I will miss you so much :( :( She'll then use that as leverage against you, meanwhile her female hindbrain will be shutting off any access to her vag since you're being a needy supplicating beta. vs Her: I'm thinking about moving to the other side of the country. You: Cool, go for it. She didn't get the validation she was looking for since you're showing no in… | /r/askTRP | 26/02/16 08:16 PM |
| -1 | What to do after she apologizesI get really bothered by it on the inside Tell her you're going to punish her then grudge fuck her. Treat her like your sex slave. She'll like it. Should i have more patience and give her a second chance That's up to you. If she has a lot of good qualities you can give her a second chance. If she's not worth it then plate. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/16 07:18 PM |
| 1 | How badly can posture affect your lifts?How long have you been lifting? Your questions sound like that of someone who hasn't been lifting for very long, but your 1RM aren't that bad either. If you haven't been squatting very long then i feel like i get almost squished by the bar That is normal. It takes a few months for your nerves to get adjusted to it. I don't feel anything in my glutes or hamstrings despite having really good form and hitting super low depth. That I can't answer. I've been a gym rat for a long time and I still feel… | /r/askTRP | 25/02/16 07:13 PM |
| 1 | How do I handle this shit test?it was my way of asking if you were from 757 since it's in your name without actually asking it. plausible deniability and all that | /r/askTRP | 25/02/16 07:05 PM |
| 3 | Bitch keeps on sending me revealing pics and nudes on snapchat but I never respond. Is this an appropriate response?Whenever girls send me ho pics I always pick out something to tease them about. Tit pic? Don't comment on the tits. Don't feed the the validation she's craving. Find something else and make a neutral funny comment. You: "Girl you can't fool me with that top down photo angle hidin that big butt of yours." She'll do something like laugh or send you a pic of her butt or whatever. I always end it with something along the lines of seeing it in person to pass judgement on it. You: "Hah, I'll have to s… | /r/askTRP | 25/02/16 07:03 PM |
| 2 | How do I handle this shit test?Stop explaining yourself to women. She hamstered stewed, seemed floored. Asked if everything was all right. I say excellent. I'd give your reply a C-. Perfect opportunity to answer to absurdity and make a joke out of it. She just texted, "I think I'll give you breathing room Saturday Night." How in hell to reply?? You're right it's a shit test. 1) Don't reply. 2) Reply with "word" or "ok" or "cool". No exclamation points. Don't be passive aggressive, that shit doesn't fool anyone. The whole poin… | /r/askTRP | 25/02/16 06:51 PM |
| 1 | What do red pillers think of r/redpillwomenI stop by there every now and then just to reassure myself that there are some decent women out there. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/16 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Picking a new GP (Family Doctor)Don't get a female doctor. I'm not saying there aren't some good ones out there, but your health is too important to risk. You want someone who pays attention to detail, has enough experience to be good, but also hasn't been doing the same shit for 30 years to the point where they have lost passion for what they're doing and are too jaded to give you top notch health care. So I went looking for a new PCP I looked for an asian/indian male with good posture in his mid 30s to 40s and read a ton of … | /r/askTRP | 24/02/16 04:54 PM |
| 1 | I probably injured my lower back. What now?But I have not been able to squat/DL without feeling the pain since last week I did the same thing on Dec 22nd. Going for PR on deadlift. Rounded back and pulled a muscle. Took time off from the gym for 2 weeks straight over the holiday break, then went back and kept it to upper body only making sure to avoid exercises that would aggravate the lower back. Over the last month I've been slowly working compound exercises that include the lower back into my routine again. Rows/Squats/etc. My first d… | /r/askTRP | 24/02/16 04:42 PM |
| 7 | Anyone else only using escorts?Anyone else like this? Yep. Although I still pick up civilian girls too, I just put in almost 0 effort (ultimate outcome independence) since their pussy has a value of basically 0, knowing a provider is just a phone call away. These escort threads come up every week. Most of the people who reply have 0 experience in the area yet choose to respond as if they did. Escorts are safe and less risk of STD than club sluts if you go with reputable providers. Escorts are not for broke college dudes who h… | /r/askTRP | 24/02/16 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else only using escorts?Escort includes girls you just meet up with for sex, but it also refers to the girls who provide companionship. For the ones you just meet up with to bang out, it's a more professional term than prostitute, so they use that. Other dude doesn't know what he's talking about. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/16 03:55 PM |
| 1 | I'm 5'5'', 6'5'' dude comes up and AMOGs me and threatens me about his girl. What should i do?The way you answered him definitely put you in submissive position. Not surprising since you said you're in high school and haven't had a lot of practice with it. Your responses just show that you're scared and trying to stall out the confrontation to avoid an ass beating. Him: Keep your hands off of my girl First off, don't act like you're taking him seriously. Be friendly, smile, and keep your cool. You've done nothing wrong, so don't act like you're guilty from the start by being defensive. Y… | /r/askTRP | 19/02/16 07:15 PM |
| 1 | FR - tinder dateMy 'question' here is if I'm doing something wrong The only thing you did wrong is: In the end I'd like an LTR and I wonder if my approach is ok So this girl is 25, has done some traveling, self-proclaimed feminist she has a mouth on her and is very direct (quite masculine traits) That's not the kind of girl you want to LTR. She's masculine and works with children. Children shit test her all day, so she knows the game. She's traveled a lot, so she's probably taken a lot of cock. She's projecting… | /r/askTRP | 19/02/16 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Feminism as a Topic of ConversationJust treat her like a child and don't take it seriously. I was at an engagement party the other day with a girlfriend of mine. The couple getting married had the hyphenated last name thing going on. The girl I was with mentioned it and how she thought it was nice because gender equality and all that. I very facetiously, "Oh yeah girl power huh? Let me guess you're also a big power puff girls fan?" Obviously she knew I was being sarcastic but played along, "yeah I love them :)" Me: "Aww that's so… | /r/askTRP | 17/02/16 09:45 PM |
| 5 | Does the car you drive have an impact on your SMV?I've definitely landed pussy because of my car. Some anecdotes. During the Fast and Furious days I was one of the few people in my area with a Supra and a well known person in the car scene because of it. From random girls waiting at my car to talk to me, to random girls getting my phone number from god knows where and then text me about how hot I look driving it, I even had a random girl come up to me one night to tell me my BOV makes her wet and can she get a ride. They didn't do this specific… | /r/askTRP | 17/02/16 09:29 PM |
| 5 | Why are monogamous relationships the normative in this BP society?Most men operate from a place of scarcity. They want a girlfriend so they can stop trying to pick up girls and have reliable source of sex. Women seek relationships as a means of supporting their social standing. Most women are insecure. They view being single as being unwanted and having low societal standing. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/16 09:03 PM |
| -1 | Confused Blue Pillerwhy do you consider theyre of lower value than the average girl? They're of MUCH lower value in terms of relationship/commitment potential. They're not of lower value for getting my dick wet. When I go out to the club I invite sluts with me, not good girls. Your answer has nothing to do with unconditional love Unconditional love does not exist. That's a blue pill ideology. I see a ton of guys here complaining that a girl rejected him That's a beta reaction. See the same sentiments about guys sti… | /r/askTRP | 11/02/16 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Confused Blue PillerYou have some misconceptions about TRP. Why do you feel that female sexual freedom is a threat while advocating for your own? Angry guys do this. A lot of angry men are here on this subreddit. While they believe in the redpill, a lot of their actions are not that of a fully realized RP man. I love sluts. I have advocated that for a long time. If it wasn't for sluts, my enjoyment of life so far would be significantly lower. Most RP guys who are out slaying vag will share this sentiment. It's the … | /r/askTRP | 11/02/16 07:56 PM |
| 6 | Dates text next day to say they feel weird about hooking up?Let me show you this bar. Let's check out this comedy club. Cool park! Let's walk around. Almost all the girls I take on dates call me fun, funny, very-confident, and adventurous. Ok..so you're taking girls out on dates and they find you attractive. They're putting you in the boyfriend category and they want to lock down your commitment. Most women know that giving up that vag on the first date isn't a good way to do this, so they try to backtrack. the girl will say she was expecting us to take … | /r/askTRP | 11/02/16 07:37 PM |
| 2 | When A Woman Asks Me MY N-Count...?Answer to absurdity. "I'm a virgin" "I stopped keeping track after my 10th birthday" | /r/askTRP | 11/02/16 07:28 PM |
| 8 | Why do women sometimes out themselves?Because women lack agency, in this case moral agency. Obviously there are plenty of women who WON'T out themselves, but the ones that do, do it because it eases the guilt. If your girl tells you she's been talking to her ex, then her hamster spins that into a good thing since she's not trying to hide it from you. She completely ignores the point that her behavior is shitty and telling you or not is just an after effect. So now having told you she feels 100% guilt free to keep getting validation … | /r/askTRP | 01/02/16 10:04 PM |
| 77 | Made girl pay for first date drinks... calls me an asshole. Becomes huge topic of discussion.Her social standing is in danger, so she's throwing you under the bus. only reason she won't go home with me is that my friend is her boss Her primary concern here is how she's going to look in front of her boss/friends. I'm not just talking about the going home with you part, but everything about it. Who's asking who out, who's paying, etc. It's all about how the 3rd parties will view your interaction. So since she paid, she's scared that's going to damage her social standing/value with the pee… | /r/askTRP | 29/01/16 04:32 PM |
| 2 | How to recover after not being able to get it up?Is there a better way to handle this? The times I've had this happen, or similarly, not been able to bust a grape, I have never apologized. Why the fuck would you do that? From my experience it makes the girl really self conscious that they aren't pretty enough or good enough in bed....which is fine, it's a form of dread. So if she mentions it in this context, A&A. Otherwise, don't bring it up, it's a total non-factor unless you can't get it up at all, in which case you need to see a doctor. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/16 06:00 PM |
| 4 | How do I game a coworker who's getting fired?How do I play it out? She's obviously feeling down In this particular circumstance injecting some comfort can help since she's feeling vulnerable. You: Hey I heard about what happened. That sucks. I'll buy you a cup of coffee at place/time to cheer you up. Once you're there, game on. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/16 07:26 PM |
| 7 | Why Not Just Make Money And Buy Whores?These ignorant replies are always upvoted by angry nerds when we talk about providers here. There is no increased risk of disease if you're going to verified providers. If anything the bar/club sluts are more likely to carry something than a professional escort. a lack of intimacy wrong again, escorts are there to provide a service, anything is negotiable. companionship being one of them. top end providers -know- what good girl game is and some guys (particularly older men) pay specifically for … | /r/askTRP | 14/01/16 02:14 PM |
| 4 | How do I take profile pictures for online dating?This is what I have as my Tinder pics: 1) Cover photo - black and white headshot modeling picture. Photoshopped to make the eyes pop. Like this This is to instantly grab their attention while swiping and make them look at the rest of my profile. 2) A low angle pic of me in red docker alpha khakis and a white t shirt with aviators on and gator skin shoes, staring into the distance as I'm leaning up against my porsche like a G. Similar to this This tells them a number of things, I dress well. I'm … | /r/askTRP | 13/01/16 03:34 PM |
| 3 | Why do women find me attractive in person, yet online dating yields almost no success for me? I'm above average in looks...Again, women seem to be attracted to me in person, but online is an uphill battle. You're doing that thing where you expect women to act like men. You go on Tinder and you see a hot girl and you say, yep I'd like to have sex with her, so logically I'm going to message her and if she also finds me attractive, she'll want to have sex too. Cool. Women do not operate this way. This is what goes on in their head. "Gawd I am sooooo bored sitting on the subway. Well I can't just sit here and look like … | /r/askTRP | 13/01/16 02:50 PM |
| 3 | Girls got defensive with my approach.This should be the top comment. Everything about the interaction is dictated by there being 2 of them and only 1 of you. Social ramifications abound for how they act in front of their friend. Cardinal rule, ISOLATE YOUR TARGET. Aside from that you did fine OP. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/16 07:05 PM |
| 1 | You ask to hang out tonigt, she says "what will we do???"The problem is a lot of these chick's don't have cars This isn't a problem for a high value man operating from a position of abundance. She can't hang out with you? Her loss. You've got other options. don't want to drive an hour to me Cool. Again her loss. I have to pick them up or invite myself over to their place Are you in high school or live in Zimbabwe or something? Game girls who live close to you. Don't make excuses to act like a supplicating low value beta. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/16 10:08 PM |
| 2 | You ask to hang out tonigt, she says "what will we do???"You're looking at this the wrong way. In your example, you're trying to convince her to hang out with you. You should never have to convince anyone to do that. By doing so, you're putting yourself in her frame and basically telling her she's higher value than you. From now on, do it like this: You're doing something cool. You tell her that YOU are doing said cool activity and you'll let her tag along and hang out with you. The point here is that she is irrelevant to whether or not the activity t… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/16 07:32 PM |
| 10 | "I have to ask ___ if he's cool with it, where do you wanna meet?"It's one of two things, can't tell which without more info. 1) It's her anti-slut defense kicking in. By being transparent about what she's doing, she's attempting to remove any accountability on her part. i.e. Hamstering it being cool to go out on dates with other dudes as long as she tells her BF and also informs the guy she has as BF. Then if she falls on your dick or something, it's your fault because you're some scumbag to went after a girl with a bf! 2) She's setting the frame of the relat… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 04:41 PM |
| -1 | "How old are you"The rationale behind this kind of dodging is wanting to be safe and putting the pressure back on them. It's called a pressure flip. Making the girl enter your frame instead of vice versa. The rest of your post is just you being annoyed with your job. The same kinds of people come in, saying the same shit, talking about the same stuff every day. Ya we get it, jobs are monotonous. Just say your fucking age, man. Jesus. This is lame and boring. Look at the responses here. NO ONE advises you to just… | /r/askTRP | 17/12/15 02:18 PM |
| 0 | "How old are you"There are a couple different tactics for this one, my go to is to tell them to guess, then no matter what they say You: "Good guess" The advantage to this one over most others is that they think they got it right and will stop pestering you about it, rather than the other methods that answer to absurdity which opens the door for them to keep pressuring you for a 'real' answer. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/15 10:07 PM |
| 3 | How can I talk to my potential LTR about her sexual history while maintaining tight frame?As you know women will lie about their partner count, they will answer whatever they think you want to hear. Since most women know their value is higher with a low body count...they'll tell you something significantly lower than the truth. The method commonly given here is to preface it like you're excited to hear about how wild she went in those 1.5 years and that you want to share stories of your own and how cool it is that you can talk about past wild sex experiences with her......etc etc fee… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/15 10:04 PM |
| 3 | Question about Bench PressCommon problem for people on the flat bench. You're not firing your pecs. Read this | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 02:52 PM |
| 2 | LTR Game Advice - Maintaining FrameThis is how a well trained woman would communicate that she wants you to clean the office. Her: Sweetheart would you clean up the office when you get a chance? You: np, I'll take care of it after the game. Instead you've got a bitch who looking for any reason to be confrontational with you. You know what makes women act like this (and cut off sex)? Too many beta behaviors. They subconsciously disgust women which manifests in her getting pissed off at mundane shit (like not taking out the trash) … | /r/askTRP | 10/12/15 08:49 PM |
| 5 | I only want to have sex in LTR or marriage, is there something wrong with that? Is that against RP values?You're fine man. Most guys who become obsessed with upping their count do that because they derive little self worth from other places. It's tantamount to a quarterback (who derives his self worth from being good at football) telling you you're worthless because you not as good at football as he is. However..... I just feel like a hypocrite Feeling this way won't hurt you but understand this feeling isn't something that goes along with viewing the world through the redpill lens due to what Frame… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/15 03:20 PM |
| 1 | How would respond to this?This is right, but change the first line to You: That depends, what is it that they say? Her: something something big dicks You: you'll just have to come see for yourself | /r/askTRP | 09/12/15 07:26 PM |
| 4 | Dealing with plates that are friends?You're looking too deep into this. There isn't some magic strategy where you can hide each of them from the other. First off, a friend you fuck is a FWB. It's simple, someone you like doing things with, just like you would your guy friends. Except you also have sex with them when you're both horny. That's it. Treat them like you do your guy friends. Pay absolutely no attention to them trying to talk about you having sex with other chicks. I mean this literally. If one of them asks you about fuck… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/15 07:21 PM |
| 3 | Let's say a potential LTR shows a bad behavior. Is it any use to scold them? Or simply observe and keep/drop as appropriate?potential LTR If you're playing the LTR game, information is your biggest ally. Scolding is counter-productive. Let her show you her true colors so you can make an informed decision on what to do with her. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/15 07:00 PM |
| 1 | TRP fashion suggestions focus on going out clothes but what about looking your best around your house? What do you wear at home when plates come over? Do you have more comfortable but more fashionable clothes to lounge around at home?If you've been working out like you're supposed to, then you can wear whatever you want as long as it's tight. Around my house I usually wear a tight fitting black undershirt (with sleeves, no wifebeaters) and pants. Either jeans or some chinos. Like this | /r/askTRP | 04/12/15 07:21 PM |
| 1 | HELP Friend is doing a speech on why women and men are differentHjernevask This is a good one. Here's a snip from the wiki entry on it. "Hjernevask (Brainwash) is a popular science documentary series that first aired on Norwegian television in 2010. ...interviewing Norwegian social scientists about their theories of gender and social constructionism, and then confronting them with contrary data and testimony he had obtained from experts in other fields, such as biology and evolutionary psychology." | /r/askTRP | 04/12/15 02:44 PM |
| 5 | Beat her to it or don't take this serious?That doesn't sound like manipulation or bs. It sounds like she's telling you the truth. She wants to be with you because you make her wet, but like every woman...she will constantly try to get you to act like a beta. AWALT She is telling you specifically that. How her mind wishes you exhibited more loving/sensitive beta behaviors, but her pussy gets wet by your 'assholeish' alpha behaviors. Your dread game is working. The trick to LTRs is balancing dread and comfort. She's reeling from the lack … | /r/askTRP | 03/12/15 07:46 PM |
| 2 | GF resisting captain/first mate dynamicYour most powerful tool is the ability to walk away. Your gf must understand this if she's going to behave herself. I withdraw my attention when she fucks up too much. Ok, this is good but what's the resolution? She waits around for an hour and then things are back to normal? If it's an empty threat then it loses its effect. what's the best way to enforce it? Be about yourself. You are living your life how you want to, and you are allowing her the privilege of accompanying you. Going out to dinn… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/15 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Approached 30 girls. 4 seemed to really like me, but didn't text me back?!Here are some things that stand out to me Two methods here are tricks I swear by. The way the number exchange went. However, I'm the one giving them my phone telling them to call their phone. Try to be the one in charge, not the one taking orders. A girl giving you orders puts you in a beta orbiter frame. The other is how you initiated the date, by saying "I'm going here if you want to come along". Good job on that aspect. Logistics: I think this is really what's working against you. You got som… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/15 09:27 PM |
| 2 | How to react to hot chicks giving me complements?Her: wow you are so muscular You: Are you hitting on me? Her: yes/no/maybe You: 'Well you're going to have to do better than that' / or if she says no, just reword it 'Good, because you're going to have to do better than that' parlay that into asking her out. can be done a number of different ways If she doesn't come up with something else to compliment you on right away You: Well?...You're not very good at this whole flirting thing huh, ok I'll give you some time to think about it. Meet me at m… | /r/askTRP | 24/11/15 10:11 PM |
| 2 | Flirting in ConversationTalk to them the same way you'd talk to a child. Nothing they say or do is serious or important. Their words and actions are amusing to you. Everything you say should have some kind of teasing/funny element to it. Depending on how serious she takes herself you can ramp it up or turn it down. Examples would be greatly appreciated here K here are a few examples from my last week. I was doing cable flies at the gym today. There was a rope attachment on the ground behind me and some girl walked up a… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/15 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Isn't most self improvement a beta move by definition?Good question, I think I can answer at least part of it. What's worse is he doesn't really LOVE the gym like he loves his dogs, or his videogames, or whatever, so it's shitty for him either way. He goes on Ask TRP and everyone says "man the fuck up bitch!" I've spent a ton of time ripping nerds in video games when I was younger. Rank 1 gladiator in wow amongst other things. I look back on that time, when I would spend a lot of my time gaming very fondly because it was an opportunity to succeed a… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/15 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Got set up with girl, set up coffee date but feel like she keeps angling for dinnerwell, I was thinking about just getting coffee, don't know if 4:30 might be a bit late for that. You're thinking too much on this point. You're a dude who does what he wants when he wants. If you want to get coffee at 6pm, then it's a fucking perfect time for getting coffee. In fact, this is what I usually do when I first meet up with a new chick. Coffee around 7, if I like her then I'll suggest a change of venue to grab something to eat or go back to my place etc. About an hour later she sends … | /r/askTRP | 20/11/15 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Isn't most self improvement a beta move by definition?Self improvement in a vacuum isn't beta. Your motivation for self improvement might come from a place of beta-ness though. In your case I stepped up my game and scrambled into action to win back my girl Yep, that's pretty beta. One of the replies here: I realized that I had to up my value to get with the girls I really wanted Pretty beta as well. Here's my case. I have a turbo 911. I bought it because I like cars. I like being in control and it allows me to put myself wherever I want on the road… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/15 10:18 PM |
| 9 | What's the problem with plate spinning a single mom?I have feelings as to why, but don't have a definitive answer and was hoping to get some outlook as to why it's frowned upon in here This topic comes up a lot. It sounds like you haven't tried using the search function. Type in 'single mom' and search the actual redpill sub. There are a few threads with hundreds of upvotes that will explain everything in detail. Come back after reading. Ok, done reading? Right, so now you should have a good understanding of why interacting with single mothers ca… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/15 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Looking for an outside perspective re: gym encounterI ignored for a few weeks. Then about two weeks ago No opportunities in the next few weeks Generally if it's this long then you have hurt your chances. The gym is somewhat different as it's not a social environment for a lot of people. After you opened her and exchanged names, the green light is on for opening her again. I didn't want to go and chat her up again out there because it didn't seem natural Think about it if it were a guy instead. Would you think it was weird if you and I had a frien… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/15 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Need help ASAP! Send ass shot or regular response??Shit test. I get this one from time to time. I don't respond. They usually will "remember" who it is after a while. "Oh is this Brandon from tinder?" | /r/askTRP | 13/11/15 09:56 PM |
| 10 | Anyones gf copies all their tactics?I post a instagram picture I retweet pictures of hot girls Stop letting social media run your life. The validation engine is for women. No alpha guy needs social media validation, nor do they need to use it as a manipulation tool. everything I attempt to do backfires You're taking the dread game in the wrong direction. Trying way too hard at something that isn't natural for you. Your abundance mentality is definitely not there either. Sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/15 07:22 PM |
| 1 | What is the red pill goal on lifting?The goal is up to the individual. The biggest single benefit to lifting is CONFIDENCE | /r/askTRP | 13/11/15 07:10 PM |
| 2 | How do guys that get good looking college girls while being in their 30s actually do it?My go to is to ask them to guess, then look directly into her eyes with a coy smirk on my face. They always guess low, so I just say. "Hah, good guess." and then change the subject. I look younger than I am so YMMV. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/15 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Girls inviting you outJust spin it on her. Playfully tease her a little bit first. You: "Hah you're asking me to dinner? I dunno that kinda sounds like a date." Her: will either say yes it's a date if she's confident or will back peddle a bit if she's insecure. Let's say she's insecure and says "oh! well no it doesn't have to be a date" You: "Well you know I like to be wined and dined, so let's go to PF Changs at exactly 7:17 on Tuesday." - this is you taking control and putting it back in your frame Her: "LoL ok" Yo… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/15 08:17 PM |
| 9 | Girlfriend [22f] rode the CC but I [22m] have the upper hand.Being RP doesn't mean you can't take advantage of an opportunity. I'd LTR Taylor Swift because of the value she'd bring to my life...even though she's probably jumped on a lot of cock. she pays for more than i do Her family is extremely good to me and invited me on a great vacation If you take a look at your life and say, the above things add a great deal of value to your life, then fine. You're making an informed decision on what brings the most value to your life. However...I know you're just … | /r/askTRP | 05/11/15 02:46 PM |
| 3 | LTR: she has a kid who is finally entering the picture.Redpill is heavily weighted to not getting involved with single mothers at any cost. The reasoning behind that is very solid. Is there any scenario where this works out fine? This is what needs to happen. you accept that you are not the top priority in her life anymore and her actions towards you will reflect that. she is not going to be the same person you've been dating for the last 6 years once the kid is in the picture you accept that you will be sacrificing your own well-being and contribut… | /r/askTRP | 04/11/15 07:41 PM |
| 3 | [serious] I'm a woman looking for a LTR, and I'm honestly wondering if a Red Pill guy is what I'm looking for.Basically what suddentrp said. I'm taking into account that whenever someone posts about their problems, you usually don't get the full picture. You formulate it in a way to make yourself look like the victim. Your post basically says, "wow i'm such a good person, i'm successful, i cook and clean, i take care of my apppearance, but he was just a complete asshole!" It means 1 of 2 things. 1) We don't get the real story. We get your biased version of it. Maybe you were a cunt to him because of his… | /r/askTRP | 04/11/15 07:26 PM |
| 26 | [serious] I'm a woman looking for a LTR, and I'm honestly wondering if a Red Pill guy is what I'm looking for.It's a two way street. A lot of what you complained about in your previous relationship are problems you could have solved yourself, but you're playing the victim card and avoid accepting any responsibility. Part of /r/redpillwomen's philosophy is that they are acutely aware of their own role in allowing their man to be the captain rather than impeding his ability to do so. So first off, reflect on yourself. Hang out in RPW, a lot of them can help you. In your current form, you don't have much v… | /r/askTRP | 04/11/15 05:22 PM |
| 9 | Feeling trapped with LTR's roommate situation.Easy. You have 2 choices. 1) Ignore his message. Probably the best choice. If you can't ignore then 2) Put the onus on your LTR. My LTR then told them that it was not something that would be appropriate Good, she's already doing her part. If you have to reply to the guy say "Sorry LTR is not comfortable with that." | /r/askTRP | 04/11/15 02:57 PM |
| 2 | How can I show interest while also following text message rules?Even with the sweetest girls, they stop texting as often when they see my infrequent texts, which forces me to text even less. Yes this is true. So do what TRP says and text for logistics only. Your goal is to meet them in person and seal the deal, not text them. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/15 02:49 PM |
| 8 | Why do we care about beta males?Check your inner hamster. I genuinely don't care if the majority of today's boys don't get it boys today make me want to gouge my eyes out Someone who doesn't care would not get upset about it. The fact is, on a macro level you do care, and a lot of other men do too. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/15 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Do you look / seem intimidating? Is this a good or bad thing?It has it's pros and cons. There are also different kinds of intimidating. Example: Unapproachable because you're mean looking. Unapproachable because of your value. "omg it's Justin Bieber I'm so nervous I can't bring myself to go talk to him!" etc. No matter what though, intimidating = hard to approach. I've been called intimidating by women more times than I can remember. When I walk around, I look like this Eyes that can pierce the soul. Determined unshakable unbreakable demeanor. Even thoug… | /r/askTRP | 30/10/15 01:42 PM |
| 4 | What's the point of having long-term relationships with women if they all supposedly would cheat on you?If you drive your car enough, eventually you'll get in an accident. So what's the point of driving if you're going to get in an accident? | /r/askTRP | 29/10/15 02:17 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys create interesting lives between working, lifting, eating and sleeping?what time do you go to bed? At 5:15 I am home and have a solid 5-6 hour window for socializing each evening. Should answer your question. Around midnight. It all works out the same. It doesn't though, because you're filling up the 'social time' window during the week with other activities. Look at the replies in this thread. You have the answers to your question. Trying to argue with them because you're a "night person" is hamstering. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/15 01:45 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys create interesting lives between working, lifting, eating and sleeping?It's about time management and setting priorities. When I looked at your schedule and saw the 'late' wakeup time and the evenings spent in the gym, the answer seems obvious. Go the gym in the morning so you have more free time in the evening. Man, I so wish I could be a 5am kind of guy, but my body just resists that with every fiber of its being. Ok then, you've decided that having the opportunity to have a social life during the week is not a priority for you. Here is what your post says about … | /r/askTRP | 28/10/15 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Girl's been orbiting me, I was taken, what's a cocky/funny reply when she asks where my girls at?If you want to project IDGAF then you need to act in a way that shows you barely even acknowledge your ex's existence. She's a thing of the past that you barely remember. I'm assuming you want to pound out this new girl so with that in mind. Her: where's your girl? You: Hmm? Which one? Her: something something girlfriend You: Oh her? I dunno. Hey what are you doing Thursday? I'm going to be at bdub's around 7, you should come hang out. This new girl will want to prod you about your ex and why yo… | /r/askTRP | 26/10/15 06:47 PM |
| 3 | Why does TRP hate sluts, but also complain about not getting laid enough?The TRP sub is made up of vastly different people. Some may want a healthy LTR and thus lament the fact that sluts aren't LTR material. Some may want to slam as much vag as possible, and welcome the fact that sluts are easy. TRP is supposed to be a knowledge-base. It opens men's eyes to how women operate at an instinctive level, and how society at large tries to hide/ignore/hamster these behaviors. This is where you're getting confused. When a post in TRP is made that points out the hypocrisy of… | /r/askTRP | 15/10/15 07:46 PM |
| 1 | LTR Asked if I treat her like a ONSWhy is this girl, whom you've deemed worthy of your commitment and decided to LTR, fixated on the topic of random sex with strangers? Unless you knowingly LTR'd a slut, that subject would set off some alarms for me. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/15 12:59 PM |
| 3 | The player "squinty eyes and concerned" lookThe pic you linked is of some dude trying to be about the thug life. Another example He's trying to give off the badboy IDGAF attitude. We know a lot of chicks find that attractive although I suggest not doing it if you're a fat white dude who lives in the suburbs like the one in your pic. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/15 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Is It A Shit Test? How To Handle It?So, right now, I'm trying to seduce a 7 woman with whom I had a good time. I managed to get her number the other day and she texted me this I'm assuming this means he met her in person, had fun with her then number closed and there has been NO OTHER COMMUNICATION except for her reaching out with that text message first. If that's the case, you can call it a shit test in the sense that she's trying to elicit a reaction from you at which point she'd pass judgement on that response. However this is… | /r/askTRP | 28/09/15 06:53 PM |
| 7 | Walked out on a meetup. Did I miss anything?I agree. I came out of my way to meet her to have her indirectly tell me how I'm not nearly hot enough? Fuck off. sheltered country girl who's trying to play big and bad but coming off as completely self-centered and a bitch The whole post just seems way too butthurt. Seems like you're in the anger phase. If you're not feeling it, peacing out is good. Your time is valuable. However, this girl doesn't owe you anything. She's just another delusional girl that's not worth even wasting a second thou… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/15 06:59 PM |
| 3 | Why is TRP so obsessed with lifting?You're cherry picking pieces of posts you've read to fit an agenda. Having said that, you're correct on a lot of points. Lot's of TRP users are only there because they think it will help them slam vag. You can't really stop that since RP behaviors make yourself more attractive to women. Naturally the sub is going to attract people who have that goal but are not really interested in it beyond that. The reason lifting, and a lot of the other RP principles are fed to the audience as a 'one size fit… | /r/MGTOW | 21/09/15 03:34 PM |
| 5 | Where did I go wrong?Reading that made me cringe. Your actions are those of someone who has read TRP concepts but have not actually internalized them. Let's go through the convo: Her: All you do is agree, do you even care about me? Shit test. You: Yea I don't care at all about you, that's why I have been listening to you the past few minutes. This is good. Her: you don't care, you don't ever show you care. Here is where you start to mess up. Remember, it is a PRIVILEGE to allow a woman to be part of your life. I hav… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/15 02:21 PM |
| 1 | What kind of milk do you drink?Trader Joe's 1% - $2.59 a gallon. I drink a gallon every 2 days, so that's 3-4 gallons every week when I go grocery shopping. The plant based milks come in a half gallon container. I can't be bothered to tryin' carry 8 containers of milk every week. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/15 06:17 PM |
| 3 | "Does it help you concentrate?" Fuck, finally did my first approach. Fuck.Your opener may appear awkward here when you're recalling it but I think it was fine if delivered properly. You've made an observation (she's standing up to do work rather than sitting down) and you want to pass judgement on whether or not that's viable. In order to pass judgement on it, you need to gather some information, so you ask her about it. Obviously that's not the real reason you're talking to her, but that's the story you're trying to tell. The key part is that you frame the interactio… | /r/askTRP | 16/09/15 01:45 PM |
| 2 | Asking your LTR to give you negative feedback: good or bad?It's mostly bad. On the surface, it looks like you're asking her so you can change and gain her approval. That's a quick way to dry up the pussy and lower your value. It can -possibly- be twisted into a shade of good, if you use it as a way to demonstrate that you don't take what she says seriously, and use it against her. Example: What's the hardest part in dealing with me? Her: omgawd I hateeeeee it when you fart in bed. You: ::coy smile:: Oh really...I'll have to remember that. Then you go me… | /r/askTRP | 03/09/15 07:57 PM |
| 15 | "Not today, sorry"Your first problem is how you asked her out. From now on, whenever you ask a girl out do it like this. "Hey girl, I'm going to <cool/interesting thing> at X time. Wanna meet up?" By doing it this way, it says, hey I'm a boss and I'm going to go do this thing whether or not you come, but I'm giving you a chance to come hang out with me. Do you see the difference between this and what you did? Secondly your question, what's the proper response. Her reply basically says she's not interested. This i… | /r/askTRP | 01/09/15 08:09 PM |
| 16 | I walked out on sex on tuesday last week, and my thoughts are divided about it. What do you guys think?It's a good thing. Most men, including a lot that post here, derive their self worth from the quantity of women they can get to sleep with them. In other words, their life is ruled by pussy. You are beyond this. I also feel proud You should. It's not an easy decision to make. Willingly turning down sex shows abundance mentality and an understanding of self worth. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/15 06:52 PM |
| 8 | Asked a girl for her number and failedThe line is good. If I used it on some chicken head and she replied with "who?" I'd find it funny. Amused mastery. You know, when people say or do stupid things you find it amusing. I'd pat her on the head like she's a child and say "wait, you thought I was being serious? awww that's adorable." | /r/askTRP | 27/08/15 05:57 PM |
| 9 | LTR has new male friend and I'm not sure what to doThis almost seems like a troll post but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt. The whole part about her hanging out with some dude she met on okcupid is almost not even worth commenting on. She's cheating on you. Come to terms with it, and stay broken up this time. She said she enjoys the male validation and that she feels this way because of our patriarchal society LOL...pretty huge red flags. Now for some actual insight. and that if it upsets her to see other girls hit on me then I won’t be f… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/15 06:20 PM |
| 20 | LTR is ending as of this morning. I am lost, I don't know what to do. Help.Yep. OP this is a blessing. she is the only woman I have ever slept with You have been liberated. Use this event as motivation to kick ass at life, starting right now. You're about to have a lot more free time and money on your hands. Free time = start religiously hitting the gym if you haven't been already. More money = start doing cool shit with your life. While you're at it, get some more notches on your belt. You've been locked down for so long, now is your time to break free and live life t… | /r/askTRP | 25/08/15 05:18 PM |
| 6 | "shit test" always wondered about"I'll fight this cold with my big ass and my fat" "Damn girl that cold doesn't stand a chance!" | /r/askTRP | 20/08/15 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Too high standards?Honestly it's probably your tinder game then if you're only matching 5s on there. There have been a few decent threads in the main sub with specific examples of how to go from a tinder match to meeting up and fucking. What I haven't seen in trp is a post that goes into detail about getting good pictures. I plan on writing one up with examples this weekend, should be helpful. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/15 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Too high standards?Picking up women in your daily life requires some effort on your part, nothing is going to change that. I somehow got into a state where I would like to fuck a nice girl if the situation presented itself, but am internally not motivated to make any significant effort toward that goal You have two options. 1) Tinder - It requires some effort to get good photos, but after that it's minimal. I swipe a few sluts whenever I'm on the shitter. I have some canned lines that I throw at matches and just t… | /r/askTRP | 20/08/15 01:22 PM |
| 20 | If men truly are the keeper of commitment, why are some women so receptive to being treated as a plate.Why are some men so willing to be a woman's orbiter but never have sex with her? | /r/askTRP | 14/08/15 01:58 PM |
| 2 | The CC and the WallThis is correct, however, it's the last part of the bigger picture. Women are biologically programmed to want the best mate, not multiple mates. This is also known as hypergamy. Men are biologically programmed to want multiple mates. This is known as polygamy. If women are programmed to want the best, why do some women end up with 50+ partners before they're 21? Certainly, she's not finding someone better every single time. The answer is, there is something wrong with her. Daddy issues, low self… | /r/askTRP | 13/08/15 06:28 PM |
| 1 | I'm having a hard time being interested in other people.I see all the annoying and bullshit things they try to pull especially since they still probably see old beta me. How do you deal with it? If you actually are seeing 'all the annoying and bullshit things' that you claim, it's EASY to rise above the situation and control the dynamic. You should find these things you're seeing as amusing, not frustrating. They should be funny to you, like little kids just learning how to throw a ball when you're a pro ball player. Example: I was at the beach with … | /r/askTRP | 13/08/15 04:18 PM |
| 28 | GF of 2 years acting weird - goes drinking with colleagues I don't know. What to do?I don't think it's THAT bad though Well you're wrong. abdada's post is pretty spot on. We moved to a new place recently with my girlfriend of 2 years, where she got a job The first thing that came to my mind when I read this was, did someone from TRP actually do this? That move is 100% Blue pill and will kill a woman's attraction. A high SMV RP man is out there conquering the world on his own terms. A woman should feel blessed if he allows her to accompany him on his journey through life. Compar… | /r/askTRP | 11/08/15 05:13 PM |
| -2 | Asked for partner count constantlyI answer them honestly. "I have no clue." I don't know how the fuck people keep track of their number. Most people (men and women) just lie about theirs anyway. It's not exactly rare to wake up in a random bed with some chick (hell even more than 1), not being able to remember who they are or if I had sex with them. I've peaced out before they woke up, and I'm sure a lot have done the same to me. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/15 01:22 PM |
| 4 | Cancels 4th date? Proper reaction?You are a man with a lot of fun things going on in your life. If a woman cancels on meeting up, it makes no difference because you'll simply do something else fun and exciting that you enjoy, perhaps with another woman. Girl #1 is simply missing out on the valuable time she could be spending with you. Certainly, a high value guy with so much stuff going on in his life is not going to get butthurt at some girl flaking on him and say "Next time tell me earlier that you're canceling", since as prev… | /r/askTRP | 10/08/15 07:04 PM |
| 21 | Why do so many girls seem to have absolutely no real hobbies and nothing interesting about them?Because men and women are different, and you're holding these women to the standards by which men are measured. The kind of fulfillment men get from doing a hobby, Women get that kind of fulfillment from validation. This is why women are on social media 24/7. Even most women who do 'interesting' things, don't really like the activity itself, they do it for the validation they get from it. ex. Woman likes to travel, not because she really enjoys experiencing different cultures, but because she wa… | /r/askTRP | 10/08/15 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Why do women these days collect mental illnesses like they're fucking scout badges.I love when people do this as it's a perfect time to Black Knight them. A few of my bros do this kind of thing too. Instead of talking about mental illnesses, it's in the form of how busy they are with stupid tasks at work etc, in an effort to demonstrate their value. I respond with an amused laugh and say something along the lines of "Ahaha gross, man your job sucks!" or for the chick who's just given a laundry list of how many illnesses she's battling "hah wow you are really fucked up. your li… | /r/askTRP | 10/08/15 03:33 PM |
| 9 | 'Friend' dropped me in favor of his G/FThis is how I force feed redpill truths to my beta friends. Friend, I'm going to tell you something just this once, and then I won't bring it up again. You're not going to understand it now, but eventually you will. When that time comes, I want you to know that I'll be here for you. (it is crucial that you preface it like this or he will be adverse to swallowing the pill) You've made the decision to forgo your friendship(s) with your guy friends, in favor of spending a lot of time with your new … | /r/askTRP | 03/08/15 06:52 PM |
| 11 | Can you describe to me the life of a "high SMV" guy in his 30s when it comes to women and social life?In college you have more hot sluts around you, but you also are limited in setting yourself apart from the crowd. You can lift and have good social skills. That's 2 things. Lots of other bros on campus will be the same. Hypergamy - remember this? Lifting and being funny don't make you any better than a hot girl, so you're not triggering her hypergamy instincts unless you've got something she doesn't, like being the star athlete. Here is my post college life as a high SMV male in the real world. … | /r/askTRP | 31/07/15 07:26 PM |
| 11 | How do you guys deal with rejection?Almost every girl I come in contact with, does not have a man in their life at my SMV level. I know this, they do not. The random girl I bump into at the super market and ask out, has a small window to figure it out. If she's smart, she'll recognize the signs, nice clothes, smooth demeanor, good looking, etc. If she's a moron, she won't be able to put it together in time and recognize the opportunity. So the real question is, how do you feel about people who fail to take advantage of a great opp… | /r/askTRP | 31/07/15 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Pictures aside... what's an effective profile description on a dating app like Tinder?Tinder is 95%+ about your pictures. If you're over 6 feet tall, include that. Most guys do more damage than good with their profile by writing too much or saying something that makes them look creepy/thirsty. Your profile should just be there to basically convince the girl that you're a normal person and that she's safe in swiping right on you. Having said that, you have 2 options for your profile that can potentially sway someone who's on the fence. 1) Put in some hooks. Some stuff about yourse… | /r/askTRP | 30/07/15 08:03 PM |
| 2 | 6 year LTR broke down yesterday. How do I move on?How can I improve Your biggest issue is loss of frame. I was annoyed I felt so angry that incident really offended me This also irritated me I lost my head and shouted I think you need to recalibrate your outlook on life. I'm a guy who took the red pill about two years ago For someone who's been on the pill for 2 years, you have either lost focus or simply never had it to begin with. You're a man who's in charge of your life and your destiny. You can conquer any challenge you're faced with. Life… | /r/askTRP | 27/07/15 01:25 PM |
| 2 | Frustrations with text flakes that seem to make no senseThe responses you've gotten here have so far have sucked, except for this IMO, these girls are looking to fuck immediately and you put them on the back burner. Maybe not fuck immediately, but women live in the moment. There are 2 different reasons these women wouldn't reply. Try to think like one of these women for a second. They see you in person and are attracted to you. They act accordingly. 2 days later you shoot them a text. Their phone lights up (just like it does 100 other times each day)… | /r/askTRP | 24/07/15 08:02 PM |
| 7 | "We are your bosses"Why are you so focused on alphaing two old women? Shut your mouth, do your job, get your letter and move on. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/15 05:54 PM |
| 9 | a guy approached my gf on the street and asked her outDid you ask her why she gave him her number? Here's how I'd handle it. GF: blah blah guy asked me for my number Me: Fancy, when's your date? GF: lol shut up...blah blah I did give him my number At this point, yeah alarm in my head has gone off that she's done for. Me: Oh ya? Why'd you do that? If she really has some kind of convincing reason (I can't think of any) then maybe you consider it a 1 time offense and give her a pass. Most likely though she'll just hamster it away and not accept any ki… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/15 07:46 PM |
| 5 | a guy approached my gf on the street and asked her outyes I know this is hamstering If she was really using it as a deflection tactic, she would have given him a fake number. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/15 07:31 PM |
| 6 | Girl I've been seeing wants to be 'official'I'm not sure that she's actually girlfriend material I don't see any harm in making her my gf for now Your biggest problem. YOU LACK ABUNDANCE MENTALITY Not once in there did you say what you want from her. If you only want her for sex (which is what you should, she is a slut), then try to plate her. If you're thirsty and are scared of losing your only source of pussy then fine, you give up your time/value by committing to her in order to keep your access to her pussy. Obviously one of those roa… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/15 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Please help me understand why this worked1st girl: Her: Haha only one way to find out Me: I'd love to Sounds too eager. You should feign like you're on the fence about. Her: Haha only one way to find out You: Oh you want to get me in trouble now too? Hmm...we'll see about that, what's your number? 2nd girl: This one was decent. I would keep up the 'mysterious' vibe you started with and also push it sexual where she gave you an opening. Her: How do I go about this "earning" thing you speak of? Me: Oh I can think of a few ways...but let'… | /r/askTRP | 10/07/15 12:56 PM |
| 2 | I'm sick of having the conversation about 'marriage.' Is not wanting to get married something else one should keep to themselves similarly to other TRP ideas?This kind of question comes up a lot here. The standard TRP stance for talking about things like this is, "don't bother". It's good advice for 98% of us. If you're a good conversationalist, know how to deliver, know how to read body language, gauge the level of your audience, etc, you can tell them almost anything and get them to agree with you. Storytime: My sister got married last weekend. Lots of family members flew in from the opposite side of the country. Naturally, they all wanted to talk … | /r/askTRP | 09/07/15 03:10 PM |
| 7 | How do I make women not the # 1 thing in my life?Women are, unfortunately, the most important thing in the world to me. I read your first paragraph and my head was screaming to me, 'this guy sounds like a total virgin' I'm also a virgin. Well, yeah...that's what happens. The more experience you have with women, the more you learn that most of them don't have much value. If you are prioritizing people with little value over yourself, it means you yourself have little value. That's why TRP encourages building yourself up. Having a high sense of … | /r/askTRP | 08/07/15 01:19 PM |
| 5 | Critique my tinder dateSince you specifically asked for a critique frozen yogurt and a walk at the park That's fine. Pretty similar to my usual 1st date routine. Asked her to come back to my place. She said she needs to wait a few more dates before doing that. This can be multiple things...most likely a combination of all of them. 1) You didn't give her enough tingles to want to fuck your brains out ASAP. 2) You didn't ask her to come back to your place the right way. Her anti-slut defense needs some plausible deniabi… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/15 06:36 PM |
| 4 | Based on the quality of the women alone, what areas of the USA would you go to if you had the choice?Miami or Texas | /r/askTRP | 01/07/15 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Couple that seems to break TRP's ruleshe's been dating this same girl since the start of college This is your answer. I've seen this happen in a few instances, and the common factor is that they've been together since a certain key timeframe. In your scenario, lame-o dude scoops up this girl when she just starts college. She hasn't had a lot of experience with men and she gives in to the first guy who goes for her and becomes emotionally attached. Her parents probably don't like him because of the whole financial mismatch. This can … | /r/askTRP | 01/07/15 02:28 PM |
| 4 | Casual Hookups and the Effect of OUR Emotional HealthThey argued that men face the same desensitization, and that too many casual partners early on is bad for both genders. The difference is in the motivation for having a high partner count. You already know why women do it. Honestly you probably know why a lot of men do it too, it's just not popular to talk about. A lot of men who are focused on their own partner count come from a place of insecurity. It's not really about the enjoyment of the act itself. They feel like, to be a 'man' they need t… | /r/askTRP | 29/06/15 03:32 PM |
| 3 | How do you deal with boring girls?This is another situation where I use amused mastery. meet a boring ass woman That's fine, call her out on it because it's amusing to you. "You know <name> you really suck at holding up your end of a conversation ;)" Say it in a playful way. "We'll have to work on that." If you delivered it correctly she'll respond with something trying to qualify herself to you. At this point I just cut her off and demonstrate my value by changing the subject to something fun. Having some 'games' you can play i… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/15 01:15 PM |
| 3 | So, what takes place when a woman is loyal/monogamous?You're not understanding what AWALT means in this context. It means, GIVEN THE RIGHT SET OF CIRCUMSTANCES a woman will cheat. There's nothing magical about that statement itself, since men will do the same thing, the circumstances are just different than that of a woman. For women you typically need the following: 1) A man of higher SMV, the amount higher greatly influences whether or not she will cheat. I might have a slightly higher SMV then some other RP dude with a hot girlfriend, but slight… | /r/askTRP | 24/06/15 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Clarification on TRP and STDs. Secondarily, questions about TRP vs MGTOW.I get the impression that this subreddit is more centered around the PUA perspective I don't blame you for this as there are certainly a lot of guys who come to TRP that are more interested in using it as their 'secret weapon' to get pussy rather than because they want to have their blinders removed. Guys whose life revolves around slaying pussy ARE NOT REDPILL. They employ some red pill principles as a learned behavior but they derive their own self worth from the quality/quantity of women they… | /r/askTRP | 22/06/15 01:19 PM |
| 19 | TRP subreddit now considered a hate site by SymantecEvery large business/corporation/enterprise runs web filtering. Symantec offers this service to customers. This is how it works. Someone at a company (usually HR) decides on what kind of content is appropriate for the work environment. These categories are things like Educational Science Industrial Pornography Research Technology Shopping etc etc etc. HR says, porn is blocked and everything else is open. Symantec will categorize every website on the internet (this is not exactly what happens but… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/15 07:06 PM |
| 3 | TRP subreddit now considered a hate site by Symantecwww[.]symantec[.]com/web-gateway/ | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/15 06:55 PM |
| 11 | Caught LTR in a stupid lie, got an unexpected reaction.Fortunately I am a hustler when it comes to women hahahaha | /r/askTRP | 21/05/15 07:47 PM |
| 11 | "Always leave a woman better than when you found her." Really?Better is subjective. Before I even opened this thread, I just read the title and intended to reply "Yes, make her an Alpha Widow." In other words, she'll get the best experience of being a with a man when she's with me. The person she is when she's with me is going to be her best. She certainly won't be at her best when she's with some beta schlub who allows her to get away with bad behavior. Having said that, my original statement still stands, it's subjective. I will ruin her for all men that… | /r/askTRP | 19/05/15 07:40 PM |
| 16 | Fox Guest Leaves Female Commentator Visibly Stunned During Feminism Debate: ‘Look, You’re Miserable’ [hilarious]That was encouraging. His delivery could have been better but speaking out harshly against feminism like that in a public forum takes some balls. Hopefully more people start doing it. I turned it off when the host gave the chick "the last word" | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/15 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Why do mothers wanna keep you beta?My mom is as AWALT as they come but she definitely didn't try to turn me into a beta. If anything, she was repulsed by any of my beta behaviors and tried to destroy them. If I wanted to play video games, she'd tell me to go play sports instead If I started to get attached to a girl, she'd tell me the girl wasn't good enough for me I've had her say to me in recent years "I'd be surprised if you ever got married, you're too smart for that." The paradox here is that As a mother, you endanger your s… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/15 01:34 PM |
| 5 | One month later: "What's the deal with you? Married? Dating someone? Or just not interested?"You've gotten her hamster fully spun up, don't let it spin down by saying too much. I'd reply with something funny, maybe related to business cards as an inside joke, then revert back to the 'text for logistics only'. "Yeah been busy with my new book about how to successfully hand out business cards. I'll tell you all about it over coffee on Monday." | /r/askTRP | 15/05/15 01:20 PM |
| 6 | How to respond to celebrity worship?I had a girl who was hung up on Bruce Willis. One day I sat her down and had a 'serious' conversation with her about breaking up so she could follow her dreams and pursue Bruce. Never heard her mention him again. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/15 07:05 PM |
| 58 | [FR] I just got cold approached.If this is how girls feel when you're cold approaching I see what you're trying to get at but it's apples to oranges. The guy has an SMV of 0 to you, so you placed him in an entirely separate category "trying to sell me something" which dictates the entire encounter and your feelings on it. If you were a girl, you wouldn't have entered into that state. Women are used to being cold approached, it's not odd or random for them, they know straight away that the guy is trying to sell them something (… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/15 05:14 PM |
| 10 | My ex-girlfriend [33] has sent me an invitation to her wedding.why in the sam fuck would anyone invite an ex to their wedding It seems he works in something related with the European Union in Brussels, has a kind of popular profile in Twitter and is good looking (looks Alpha) If she thinks the guy she is marrying has higher SMV than OP and wants to 'show off'. so we stayed friends all these years, kinda kept contact and met a couple of times. Tried to bang her one more time but didn't succeed. Further evidence that he's not her Chad. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/15 08:25 PM |
| 4 | [FR] give it time. It will sink in.Her "man" saw me as a threat and beta'd away Ok...obviously the guy is a beta seeing as how he's hanging out at her bar while she works, and that he willingly lets her drag him around on a leash to meet other dudes. Based on the small amount of info you gave, I can't see how you connect any of that to seeing you as a threat. You didn't indicate any kind of reaction from him where he shows his displeasure or demonstrates aggression towards you. You were just standoffish so he left. As someone els… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/15 01:07 PM |
| 4 | Found out some new stuff about LTR. Unsure how to take it.She is currently seeing a therapist to try and help her work through problems from her last relationship which was about 2 years ago Alpha widow | /r/askTRP | 04/05/15 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Interesting question on /r/askmen. Would like to know trp's views. "Do you think it's more common for guys to be aggressive/dominant during sex because it feels natural to them, or because they think it turns women on?"I started reading that thread but as usual can't relate to most of that crowd. Once I've got a girl in bed and I'm about to slam that vag, I no longer care about anything except what turns me on. I let my consciousness go and animal instincts take over. I get a snarl on my face like I'm the hunter and she's the prey. I like to hold her down, pin her arms, clench her around the throat, bite her and jackhammer the shit out of her vagina. That's my natural, and I don't give a shit whether or not sh… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/15 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Ending dread game/NC with LTR/LDR.I'm hoping to avoid the interrogation all together if I can I'd go with aloof "Why have you been ignoring me? Is it because we didn't have sex last weekend?" You: Hmm? I haven't been ignoring you. Her: Well blah blah why didn't you respond to my messages You: Oh, guess I didn't notice annnnnd, change the subject. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/15 01:44 PM |
| 3 | "Can the moderators who delete posts on /r/relationships make it a habit to post the reason WHY they deleted a particular post?"—got deleted without an explanation, LOL.It's not limited to that sub, or reddit in general. Lack of disclosure is the status quo for moderating online discussion boards. I've been a moderator/admin for some high traffic sites (not reddit). Most of these discussion boards, moderators really don't have that much reason to exercise any kind of power over the general user base. So you have these basement dwellers who's primary fulfillment in life is being a moderator on some board. The one piece of excitement they get, the highlight of th… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/15 01:25 PM |
| 3 | is it typical not to want LTRs after taking the red pill?It's typical to not want LTRs when you approach them from a rational/logical point of view. I've had plates push for commitment, we all have. A few times I've coyly asked "What's in it for me?" just to get the hamster spinning and see how they'd react to the question. The responses are usually pretty amusing, but it's a good eye opener in that most women do not have much to offer a high SMV man. Redpill doesn't have to play a role in that that, but Redpill is one avenue to seeing things rational… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/15 01:31 PM |
| 0 | Selfies? Douchey or useful tool?Seems like a strange situation. After a month or so it dies down and things are back to normal once-a-week-sex Can't help but question how RP things actually are when you indicate that you're voluntarily in a relationship where the woman is not doing what you want. Secondly, yeah you're using dread game. It works. Is your only option to run dread game here, to post selfies on social media or do you just do it because it takes less effort than something else? For the record, yes it is kind of dou… | /r/askTRP | 16/04/15 03:36 PM |
| 1 | SPENDING MONEY ON GIRLS HELP MEIf you don't want to pay only bring enough cash to cover your own meal + whatever gratuity. "Oh I only have $15 on me." ¯_(ツ)_/¯ Don't bring your credit card or leave it in the car. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/15 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Thailand Field Report Day 1I planned a 7 day vacation to Thailand where I would have an escort with me 24/7 What's the motivation behind this as opposed to banging out a bunch of different escorts rather than just 1 repeatedly. Convenience? Is she doubling as your guide around the area? If you don't mind disclosing, how much are you paying her to stay with you for 7 days? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 05:35 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to an LTR "guys friend" question?Like others have said. Act like you don't care. Then fuck other people on the side...because we all know she'll be doing the same. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/15 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Somewhat new LTR wants me to go with her and her friends to an EDM club. Advice on dealing with guys hitting on her?Your title implies it. 'My gf wants me to go' implies you're only going because she wants you to. You're putting the entire context of deciding to go to the club in her frame. If you were enthusiastic about going, I'd expect something like 'I'm going to the club with my gf, etc etc'. If that's not the case and you're looking forward to going, then no problem you're one step ahead and maintaining (or even increasing) your SMV is that much easier. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/15 07:14 PM |
| 6 | I nexted her, but I want your opinionAgree, and I also thought the line was pretty good. Anyway if you still want to bang her out, next time you see her in person, lightly tease her and get her to laugh about it. Then ask her when she's free to go on a "date". | /r/askTRP | 09/04/15 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Somewhat new LTR wants me to go with her and her friends to an EDM club. Advice on dealing with guys hitting on her?So you're RP for "sometime now" and you're going to the club with your girlfriend and her friends, even though you don't want to. "Ok" Anyway, advice is simple. Be the highest SMV guy in the club. To do this you need to ditch the idea that you don't like the club, and that you're just going to tag along with your GF. That's beta as fuck and you should recognize that. To be the highest SMV guy you need to be there because you enjoy it. Helps if you're a good dancer, or at least have 'funny' dance… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/15 06:52 PM |
| 6 | ELI5 how can I become an alpha and one of those guys who are apart of the 20% who bang 80% of women?Different things work for different people. For me, it's all about your frame of mind. I'm successful, well educated, good looking, funny, and ripped. How many women do I come across that kick ass at life as much as I do? Basically zero. I know it and they know it. That's the first part of the equation, knowing your own worth. If your self worth sucks..that's on you to fix. After that, most of the women you run across are going to have less SMV than you. Here's an analogy. Baseball = Life. I'm B… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/15 06:27 PM |
| 1 | For those of you who claim to never pay for dates how do you go about doing that?This is my standard procedure. If it's a first date with a girl I've never met (tinder) or only briefly met in person (got number after a short interaction) then I do Coffee or Drinks Depends on the girl, her age, etc. I make her come to me and we go where I want to go. I have a favorite bar and coffee shop near my house. Since she came to me, I reward her good behavior by paying for her first drink (a beer, I order) or coffee. I make this clear to her in a coy way like you'd talk to a child "Si… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/15 02:25 PM |
| 4 | TRP, from a RedPill mentality, I don't understand escortsthat you are so pathetic that you have to pay for sex This is your own insecurity and lack of SMV talking. Yes, most of a providers clientele are low SMV guys. However, people like Bilzerian, politicians, etc are not low SMV. They are quite the opposite, high SMV guys who's time is way more valuable than yours. For high value people, time is the most precious commodity there is in this life. This point cannot be emphasized enough. There is also no insecurity involved. Once you've picked up enoug… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/15 01:55 PM |
| 0 | TRP vs AcademicsThe problem is that people in the academia tend to be experts in their respective fields, professors of psychology, sociology and various other disciplines harbor theories that run widely counter to TRP. This is the crux of your argument but it's a flawed statement. Academia is dominated by leftists. Naturally they're going to push their own agenda. Just because they have credentials doesn't make them correct. Here is a great documentary on the topic of 'gender equality'. https://www.youtube.com… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/15 06:33 PM |
| 6 | I'm dating a slut, and I like it. Am I crazy? (Change my view.)But this is my question, then -- why is it that you'd never enter a commitment with a slut? Is it strictly to avoid being cuckolded / health risks? Not strictly but it all rolls together into the type of person that is. When you commit to a woman and give her a foothold in your life, you're making an investment in her. You have to ask yourself, if I invest some of my value into a person, what kind of return should I expect? What risks do I face? With a sweet/caring/good girl who doesn't hit any … | /r/askTRP | 02/04/15 07:28 PM |
| 7 | I'm dating a slut, and I like it. Am I crazy? (Change my view.)There must be a reason why so many people at TRP feel differently than I do There are 2 things wrong here. 1) Not everyone at TRP feels that way. I date sluts (date = FWB, not LTR). They're awesome. If it weren't for them, I'd get laid a lot less. Some of them have sex with other guys. However, I would never enter into some kind of commitment with them. 2) Not wanting a girl you're fucking to also be fucking other guys is not exclusive to RedPill men. Most men are wired this way, yes even blue p… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/15 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Keeping your TRP theory to yourself vs self esteem congruence and the self assertiveness of honesty.I've said this before here. TRP and it's concepts don't always need to be suppressed. I speak RP truths if they're relevant to conversations that come up, I don't filter myself. "It's not what you say, it's how you say it." The problem is that for most people, they simply aren't good enough at social interaction to get their point across in a palatable way. And so if you can't present RP truths in that manner, like 95%+ of the people who are probably reading this, the best advice for you is to s… | /r/askTRP | 31/03/15 02:19 PM |
| 24 | Quick Litmus Test: Does she eat 3 pieces of pizza or 5 pieces of pizza?I think your scale needs adjustment. 0-1 for fit chicks. 3+ is hamplanet status. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/15 08:29 PM |
| 4 | Should I Submit an Article on Men's Rights to my College Social Blog to Counteract the Large Amount of Feminist Propaganda?When a group of people are being oppressed and/or similarly treated unfairly, it requires individuals to rise up and speak out against the oppressors. There are numerous examples throughout history. Nelson Mandela is a good example. He is a hero and Nobel Peace Prize winner. He was also severely punished for speaking out against his oppressors. OP, the average person is not equipped to take up a cause like this and be successful delivering their message. That's why people give you the defacto ad… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/15 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Why would women marry BB and bear their children?Isn't this going against their natural reproductive behavior? Partially. Long explanation: There are typically 2 kinds of reproductive strategies (not isolated to humans). 1) The female raises the offspring alone. In this scenario, the female is best served by mating with the physically strongest/largest (alpha) mate she can. By passing on these genes, the offspring has a better chance of survival. 2) The female and male both raise the offspring together. In this scenario, the female is best ser… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/15 02:09 PM |
| 3 | For the first time in my life, a girl gave me a fake number.In the future, hand the girl your phone and say "Here call yourself." | /r/askTRP | 27/03/15 01:29 PM |
| 17 | Close friend invites me to take part in a threesome with him and his Fiancee.You're going about this the wrong way. The fiancee in question is very attractive and if it causes no issues with my friend then I would do it. This is the wrong reason to go through with it. if anyone has any links on how to conduct a threesome while still being redpill that would be great This is also a bad way to approach it. You're an accessory to THEIR fun which means sitting back, playing the role they want you to play, and not being all about gettin' yours. This isn't about you trying to … | /r/askTRP | 26/03/15 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Hang-out suggestions if girl is under 21?Any under 21s I take out, I just ask them beforehand if they have a fake ID. Lots do, so you can still go out for drinks. If not, my go to is coffee followed by taking her back to my place. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/15 02:16 PM |
| 35 | Broke up with LTR - best thing that ever happened to meSidebar Amendment: Any HB10 claims must be accompanied by a picture for judgement. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/15 02:09 PM |
| 5 | How to respond to this text:You sound thirsty my friend. Abundance. Start working some other girls. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/15 01:27 PM |
| 1 | If RP theory is correct, why pursue western women at all?it seems to me that the better answer is "Leave America. Not all markets are created equally. Seems like you already understand the answer of why a lot of people don't leave America. I make a lot of money here with virtually zero stress and super high job security. I'd like to live in Germany/Czech Rep/Brazil and fantasize about moving to a new country, but I wouldn't be able to maintain the lifestyle I've grown accustomed to here. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/15 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Why is it worse now?How many of you would be stuck with a nightmare of a wife if it wasn't for an easily accessible divorce? Women used to be raised to be feminine and good home makers. There were way less "nightmares" back then. Does any man here really want to go back to the 1900's where you married one woman right out of high school and either cheated on her or never had sex with anyone else again? Here on TRP? There are some. The guys who are obsessed with sticking their dick in as many different holes as possi… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/15 08:53 PM |
| 1 | [Advice needed] Bad situationThey are also great friends of mine, since childhood. I would literally risk my life to help either, as I'm certain that both would do the same So you guys are best bros. Nice. Marco and Polo. Both are natural alphas Oh you don't say. Marco describes as a great feeling from connection with Nina and the worst feeling from betraying Polo by sleeping with his ex Full stop. One or more of your above statements are false. It's not hard to see which. If Marco and Polo are best bros, and Marco is an AF… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/15 08:42 PM |
| 2 | AWALT. For me, it's the toughest part of TRP to swallow. I believe I either misunderstand it, or am overthinking it, and it's preventing me from enjoying my relationships with women.What you should do about it just depends on your goals. TRP is about knowledge and understanding. What any individual person chooses to do with that knowledge is up to them. So for your specific case: So what should I do about that? Depends on a lot of factors. What do you want and what kind of girl is she? If your motivation is to keep a healthy LTR going with a chick who's GF material, just maintain a high SMV and don't become beta. If you do this, the likelihood of a higher SMV guy coming alo… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 03:23 PM |
| 1 | AWALT. For me, it's the toughest part of TRP to swallow. I believe I either misunderstand it, or am overthinking it, and it's preventing me from enjoying my relationships with women.AWALT is a dysphemism for genetics. When someone says, they don't agree with AWALT, you're basically saying you don't agree with genetics/biology/evolution etc. It means, given certain stimuli, a woman's reaction will follow a certain path. Sure, there are women who cheat and branch swing. 'certain stimuli' - in this case, means that if a man with a high enough SMV comes along, a woman will branch swing. I've seen relationships that do work -- such as long-distance relationships -- when no one o… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 01:26 PM |
| 19 | Why don't I ever hear about pre-nups?Most people's knee jerk reaction to that question is to just say "because they don't work". That has some truth behind it, but it's a gross over statement. There are a number reasons why it's not discussed here: 1) Most people are ignorant on the topic You might wonder then, why is it discussed in other subs by users who are also ignorant 2) TRP userbase is more rational than the vast majority of the other reddit subs where prenups are a relevant topic and as such, the users know to not offer ad… | /r/askTRP | 12/03/15 02:15 PM |
| 0 | How can I use TRP to cope living with my own mom?I've been in some...similar situations with my mother. She works long hours, and she will often times complain about something to me right as she gets home from work. Amused mastery. Look at it as a child complaining about something. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/15 01:33 PM |
| 1 | A shortcut to understanding what you need to succeed......DO YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE STEALING HER?My first instinct when they say they are involved is to just say Firstly, I'd like to get out of the way that a good chunk of the time when a chick says she has a BF, that's just he default response to being asked out. Doesn't actually mean she's in a relationship. This is my go to. I have yet to come across a better canned response. Girl: Sorry I have a boyfriend. Me: That's ok I don't mind. (I look directly at her and give her my best cocky/confident smile). I then take out my phone and hand i… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/15 01:18 PM |
| 5 | I love TRP. But I've grown tired of constantly comparing everything to and for women. Am I done with TRP? Is there another resource?I have been here for 1.5+ years Yeah sounds like you're beyond the saturation point. Discussion boards for any kind of topic often hit that point for a person. For me, it's usually sooner than 1.5 years. You come in, soak up knowledge to the point where almost every new post is just something you already know and have seen in the past. You become desensitized. I feel many users may become too obsessed with women and are just placing them on a different shaped pedestal than before. Definitely tru… | /r/askTRP | 09/03/15 02:11 PM |
| 6 | If women are naturally inclined to wanting more than one male, how does TRP benefit them?Yeah the question is skewed. TRP is beneficial for everyone, but lets break down the OP into two parts. women are naturally inclined to wanting more than one male OP is confusing hypergamy and polygamy. Women are naturally hypergamous. They want the best they can get, not necessarily multiples. how does TRP benefit them (women) Despite feminist propaganda, most women are ultimately happiest when they take a backseat role to a strong/confident male as their mate. TRP encourages men to be strong l… | /r/askTRP | 09/03/15 02:01 PM |
| 5 | Men cheatingamoral - not involving questions of right or wrong It neither endorses or condemns cheating. TRP is about knowledge and enlightenment. What someone chooses to do with that knowledge is up to them. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/15 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Why Get Married? (Part 1: Questioning Your Reality)So how can you reconcile that with your previous quote that marriage success rests squarely on your own actions and not hers? Your own actions can change the level of SMV required for your wife to stray, but your own actions can't prevent the scenario from happening. That statement is independent of the context of marriage, it applies to all intimate relationships. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/15 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Why Get Married? (Part 1: Questioning Your Reality)The success or failure of a Marriage rests squarely on the standard the husband maintains. Your wife is out buying groceries and runs into Tom Brady. He charms her, and gets her number. Convinces her to go out with him while she tells you she's running some errand. He bangs her out. Are you saying, that because of the "standard you maintain" those events are an impossibility? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/15 03:28 PM |
| 5 | Girl in a 1,5 year LTR invites me to her place to watch movies, advice?It's one of two things. 1) You give her tingles. If this is the case, (especially if she has a BF like OPs story), she's inviting you over to watch a movie because that gives her plausible deniability, but also she knows that sex can happen. She's creating excitement for herself, but hamstering it as being completely innocent. "We were just watching a movie! I don't know it just happened!" 2) You don't give her tingles. You're a beta-orbiter and being called over to be her emotional dumpster. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/15 03:06 PM |
| 0 | I got my gf a job as a bartender and have instant regretActual logical post? You're hamstering and his post completely contradicts itself. I think you made a good call getting her that job and I would have found a back up chick for if/when things went sour Did you want to demote your GF to a plate and find a backup chick before you decided to get her a bar tending job? No, you didn't so it was a bad move. Accept it and stop trying to hamster it away. That's what women do. As the saying goes: Don't LTR bartenders, hairdressers, red-heads, or girls nam… | /r/askTRP | 02/03/15 03:38 PM |
| 5 | My Red Pill awakening, fucking his fiancee and dodging sperm-jackingI don't think you understand the point of AWALT. TRP uses the term 'women' in that, given the correct set of circumstances, women tend toward the same set of actions. In this particular context, it means the "trashy" women as you dub them, are content to sperm jack OP who's a better provider than her fiance. In another context, it means the college educated 23 year old woman making 40k a year working some HR job, who goes to a Justin Beiber concert and he cums on her face backstage, which she th… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Visiting another country for a month and want to prepare for being a 1% male before I go.What would you do to get everything you can out of an experience like that, within a single month? A lot of hookers | /r/askTRP | 16/02/15 03:10 PM |
| 2 | New to TRP, Should I just ask her to commit?God this is a train wreck. Here are some points to zero in on. I've always been kinda red pill From what you say in your post, this sounds like you're deluding yourself. Just accept that you don't know shit and need to learn. It'll help you in the long run. she's LTR material in my eyes he (prev BF) wanted to settle down too early and I want to have fun How can you reconcile these two things? Hint: You can't. A girl who wants "have fun" (this means ride the CC, case in point you already fucked h… | /r/askTRP | 13/02/15 07:31 PM |
| 1 | does trp alpha game work worse on masculine career girls?college athletes in competitive sports If you're not an athlete, your SMV is not high with these kind of women. Athletes prefer other athletes. These women get especially wet for men who play their same sport, and are better than they are. Same as any other measurement of a person. Intellectuals are turned off by morons. Athletes are turned off by physically inferior people. It's instinctual, no one wants to combine their genes with someone who's going to produce weaker offspring. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/15 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain why you shouldn't go big on valentine's dayLet's be clear here. You're asking these questions because your inner beta is telling you that you want to do something big and special for Vday. I understand that's what society has drilled into your head of how to behave. You're not looking at the big picture. It doesn't alter her attraction for you Sure, in an LTR it's commonly accepted that having a BP moment here and there is acceptable. It doesn't change the fact that You start buying shit for women, they expect it. If she gives you a good… | /r/askTRP | 13/02/15 04:38 PM |
| 22 | I got this love letter today. Don't know what to do.I am stunned -- stunned -- that other posters would take this otherwise. vouched, the writing style reeks of being written by a man I get tingles in the private parts of my body A woman would not write it that way. pull you into me Dead give away. A woman would fantasize about the man pulling her into his arms. The person who wrote this does the opposite, i.e. how a mans brain envisions a romantic embrace. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/15 02:53 PM |
| 2 | New to TRP, need some explanation for something that happened at the gym.However I have written down my experience exactly as I remember it Here's how I visualize exactly what you wrote I pulled out an earbud and she said, can I use this machine. You pull out an earbud, and don't say anything to her, just look at her. Your body language says, you're annoying me what do you want? As I had just started I politely told her that I was using it. What did you say exactly? Any response starting with the word "No" here is not polite. A polite response is a smile followed by … | /r/askTRP | 11/02/15 03:50 PM |
| 0 | Best alpha response to ex-plate?Ok so, you know silence is the best response but since you don't want to listen Literally laughing so hard you thought I cared Obviously she does care since she's bitching at you. If you have to reply, I'd go with something like. "Haha, nah. I know you care. Know what else I know? You're thinking about having me inside you right now." | /r/askTRP | 11/02/15 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Are relationships with women worth it?You're not alone in your thinking /r/mgtow As a successful male, dangers are everywhere. It's up to the individual to decide what risks in life are worth taking, including those with women. I've constantly gotta be on my game, make sure that I don't show weakness and work so hard to have a successful relationship with women, then is It really worth it? If it's that much of a struggle for you, then sure, it might not be worth it. Once you fully internalize RP though, these things are natural. You… | /r/askTRP | 11/02/15 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Who do you want to be the next President?John Bolton | /r/askTRP | 11/02/15 02:42 PM |
| 1 | The "I don't know if I'm free yet, text me tomorrow and we'll see?" Shit Test [Kinda Urgent]1) Wow, so that's how it's gonna be? Awful, this makes you sound offended. A girl shit testing you shouldn't break your frame. 2) That's not how it works, we need to work on your English flirting Passable. 3) Oh wow so busy already? calling her out on her bullshit but I think it sounds pathetic Again, you sound offended. 4) ignore as if I'm not dealing with this kind of bitchiness, I reject to chase I would do this one. If I ignore, do I follow up tomorrow Absolutely not. She gave you a command.… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/15 06:10 PM |
| 3 | LTR and disrespectYou texted her once, waited 5 hours and then texted her again without getting a reply back. Beta move. You basically told her "I've been sitting here staring at my phone for 5 hours waiting for a response." You don't have to "go cold" but you're definitely not behaving the way someone would who has abundance. Disengage a bit, run some dread. Get it into your head that she's not your priority. You have other important things and more specifically, other options available to you, so act like it. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/15 02:26 PM |
| 2 | "Go lift" is bad advice.While what you're saying isn't wrong, I think it's short-sighted. Of course lifting is "not all there is to do" but think about the scenario you're discussing. Someone with the intellectual capacity and desire will benefit by your approach, but that's not the average person. The average person's brain gets information saturated pretty quickly, especially when they're in the mental state of trauma you're addressing. I know you know this, you even say it in the OP. A guy needs a quick fix. The bes… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/15 05:31 PM |
| 18 | I'm a high school student having the topic "Men and Women should go back to their traditional roles". What are some thing's that Trp think I should talk about?If anything he should pick a different topic, NOT write a pro feminism speech. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/15 05:45 PM |
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