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| 3 | Abortion starting to be banned in many states. No exceptions.Sponsor me so I can get out of yee-haw 🤠 land please | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/22 05:44 AM |
| 13 | Abortion starting to be banned in many states. No exceptions.For sure. Circumstances may be different in my case if it were to happen but i guess I was saying that in theory. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 10:40 PM |
| 42 | Abortion starting to be banned in many states. No exceptions.Of course. In many cases still, abortion may be necessary. I understand, and I’ll check that out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 10:38 PM |
| 29 | Abortion starting to be banned in many states. No exceptions.I had no idea. In that case, the 13 week thing is bogus. Stay safe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 10:37 PM |
| 496 | Abortion starting to be banned in many states. No exceptions.We need to stay abstinent unless in a committed HV relationship. That’s the only way men will realize, when their pee-pees are alone. Stay safe out there ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 07:53 PM |
| 203 | Abortion starting to be banned in many states. No exceptions.Yeah, abstinence would be the play here. However, this bill in florida bans in cases of incest or rape too. So it’s really bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 07:12 PM |
| 255 | Abortion starting to be banned in many states. No exceptions.Yes. Forgot to include that. The right likes to save the babies but once they are out you can forget about it. You’re on your own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 07:05 PM |
| 234 | All those men that you've made a first move on in the past never wanted you.I did it at 17. Learned my lesson. He broke my heart. Talked trash about me to his friends. Sadly, no man has ever wanted me enough to make an effort. Growing up with an abusive father, I found I would bend over backwards for his rare approval. I found myself desperately doing this to other men in my life. Still learning to not crave male attention and approval. I want someone who will put 110 percent effort into wanting me. If I don’t get that minimum, I’ll just stay single forever. Not worth i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 08:14 AM |
| 33 | HVM prefer monogamous relationshipsThere was some tiktok I saw where this lady and her husband had a threesome and he OOPS 🤭 got the other woman pregnant!!! And they were both laughing and were cheerful about it… what in the pickme hell is that about?!?! Like “teehee what a silly mistake” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 01:19 AM |
| 114 | BE ALERT: Men on TikTok are fantasizing about ways to hurt women on imaginary dates.Nearly everyday i see an article on the news about a woman going missing and her body being found or being brutally murdered by an ex or lover. This is a serious issue and need to keep our guard up and call out this type of behavior. It may be a losing battle though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/22 12:17 AM |
| 170 | On Bad Habits - Why Texting That Old LVM Is A Form Of Self Harm, & YOU AREN’T A SPORT! Why He Doesn’t Qualify For A ‘Second Shot’ - Don’t Let Your Vulnerability Be His Advantage.Thank you. I started to obsess over a guy from years past again, thinking he has changed or something. But then I had to consult friends and ask myself a lot - he never cared about me enough to message me after all these years. If he cared, he would have gone above and beyond for me, but he did not. I will not lose my dignity and message a lukewarm fool. I deserve someone who will put 110% into a relationship or to get me, not someone who is confused. And you deserve someone amazing like that to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 02:00 AM |
| 17 | The amount of pickmes on reddit is too highI used to ask pickme questions on Reddit, until the ladies here opened my eyes to how stupid they were. The pickmes just need some validation in their garbage situation. Someone to tell them that their boyfriend is NOT cheating on them when every indication in the post… that’s what i used to do anyways, i used to ask questions where it was obvious that the guy was not into me but i needed some false hope to keep me in it and not the truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 11:23 PM |
| 16 | This is not the flex she thinks she is. When will we grow out of encouraging women to stay with men who hurt them?She is my friend of 15 years. I’m glad she gave it to me straight. Now i can move on and become a better version of myself. Forget the man and move on. If he is not HV, he is not worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 08:40 PM |
| 50 | This is not the flex she thinks she is. When will we grow out of encouraging women to stay with men who hurt them?I just went to friends house last night after feeling upset about a guy from years past. I was reverting to my pick me self and my friend told me logical and constructive advise, as a friend should. She told me to move on and not to message him. Release and forgive, but don’t go back to him, because it will cause you more pain. And sis is right. It hurt but it was the best advice instead of giving me false hope. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 06:20 PM |
| 85 | Scrote wants his mortgage paid offMy dad is awful with money in the sense that he won’t do anything with it. It sits in stocks and bank accounts and when we need stuff done for the house or want to enjoy ourselves he guilts us for it. It seems like NV/LV men are either perpetual gamblers or extremely stingy and don’t think women/their family deserve to enjoy it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 10:06 PM |
| 31 | Update: Had a HV Date Experience. I will continue to vet but how when we won’t see each other for a couple months?Correct. I wish some people would stop labeling men as HV or say they had a “high value experience” after a few meetings. That’s what i thought with one scrote i dated in the first month. I was new to fds and thought he was HV already. He ended up being a pornsick, disgusting, controlling, manipulative jerk who wanted to “be free” of belongings, roam the world penniless and never commit to one woman. Just keep neutral and continue to vet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 07:21 PM |
| 322 | 💯Makes me think about Mac Miller. He used to abuse drugs and ultimately he died from an overdose. People were blaming Ariana Grande because she dated him before, saying that she should have “helped him” while they were in a relationship. It is not a woman’s job to fix a man. He needed to get the help himself. Tragic how he died, but it was not her job to “fix” him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 04:59 AM |
| 2 | Rejected by 300 "hot girls", NVM cries about having to settle for "average" girls to get laidOne guy I dated wanted to be a hobosexual probably until his forties. He told me he wanted to move to a different country every year, have no belongings or home, or anything. I assume he wanted a woman (or sex toy) each and every country he went to. Around this time I ended it with him bc I realized he did not want me or ANY serious partner for around 15 years. Disgusting. He thinks that with his potbelly and receding hairline at 40 that young, fertile women in their 20s are gonna start a family… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/22 08:22 AM |
| 16 | (Update) The 52 year old guy who was hitting on me in an educational discord ghosted me after I told him I was not interested in dating his crusty selfit’s a paid subscription to this group so idk if i can do that, but I’ll see | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 10:16 PM |
| 15 | (Update) The 52 year old guy who was hitting on me in an educational discord ghosted me after I told him I was not interested in dating his crusty selfYup, i should have done that. But my picture (not of my face but something girly) gave it away | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 10:14 PM |
| 28 | (Update) The 52 year old guy who was hitting on me in an educational discord ghosted me after I told him I was not interested in dating his crusty selfMy brother and dad do this to me. They have knowledge on this topic as well and mock me relentlessly for not understanding. These men simply don’t want me to be successful and I just get low self esteem, because nobody is cheering me on. It’s a huge men’s club | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 10:10 PM |
| 71 | (Update) The 52 year old guy who was hitting on me in an educational discord ghosted me after I told him I was not interested in dating his crusty selfI mean he did show proof of his successes in the group, but yeah not everyone knows that he has +100k in debt and lives with his mom | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 07:38 PM |
| 65 | (Update) The 52 year old guy who was hitting on me in an educational discord ghosted me after I told him I was not interested in dating his crusty selfYeah… he said he would teach me how to do it, but we kept delaying it and then I got so fed up with his flirting and him saying he wanted a woman in her 20s… my inner FDS came out and said no to the scrote and now he ghosted me lol. Good riddance. If i had just pretended to be a man ugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Love Is Blind- What Did Shake Say Behind Deeptis Back?I’m brown too, and stay away from brown men. I certainly don’t hate my own culture, race or religion like shake does. Notice his name is Abishek but he calls himself Shake all the time? I mean, a nickname is fine but there are other indications on top of that that shows he does not like his own race. Calling Indian women like deepti an “auntie…” ugh. I hope all skinny white women (shake’s type) watch this show and stay the hell away from shake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 07:54 PM |
| 29 | Fantasising about fictional menI agree with your content. I love that show but hate his much of a womanizer Uthred is… he gets a new lady so fast and whichever one he wants. He is a good warrior but he treats women like sex dolls | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 08:43 PM |
| 123 | Asshole tells his wife to lose weight or consent to being cheated onI just saw this. Despicable. Luckily, majority of the top comments I saw were telling her to save up for a divorce instead of a gym membership. Throw him away!!! He’s probably already cheating or planning to with somebody. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 01:25 AM |
| 21 | I was told by a female colleague that at first sight I’m totally unapproachableMen never approached me. In my lifetime. I’m not a mean person. They just never approached me, for anything. Strange. I don’t think I have a RBF. I’m skinny and short, so not threatening looking. Men just stare at me like freaking idiots. Either I’m super ugly and have something on my face or I look like a Victoria’s Secret model. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 11:50 PM |
| 20 | A 52 year old man I know admitted to me that he wants to go for 20-29 year olds 🤢🤮Most women I know have aged gracefully. Their husbands however - have bellies, are bald, lazy… The Women I know take care of themselves. My mom had an abusive husband (my dad) and she still looks fabulous. She also had the stress of an NVM to deal with. My dad on the other hand, his health is failing and can’t cook for himself because of his health and he now lives alone. My mom is full of energy now that my dad is gone. You would not believe she is middle aged. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 09:46 PM |
| 68 | A 52 year old man I know admitted to me that he wants to go for 20-29 year olds 🤢🤮Yes, I deleted that comment of mine because it was creeping me out to even type it. Don’t worry, I won’t do anything he wants me to do, even in “joking” terms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 05:54 AM |
| 521 | A 52 year old man I know admitted to me that he wants to go for 20-29 year olds 🤢🤮I got a “Reddit Cares” message 😂😂😂 The 50 year old Scrotes who smell like Cheetos living in their mom’s basement are super triggered by this post! They deserve all deserve a hot, spry young woman while they have dried up sperm, big bellies and bald heads!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 04:04 AM |
| 48 | A page I follow on Facebook just posted this. Can we not encourage this, please?I want to 🤮 after reading stuff like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 09:59 PM |
| 111 | Sisters, I beg you... please STOP posting screenshots from other subs, which offer no advice and only highlight disgusting bullshit that men do. WE KNOW these clowns exist. WE DON'T need to see it here all day every day. I feel like leaving this sub because of it. 😫Correct, when I saw these disgusting posts by men for the first time, I had no idea that they thought like this and they got hundreds or thousands of upvotes by similarly thinking men and pickmes. It opened my eyes. Then when I see the comments here I see the ladies picking apart what he’s doing wrong and it may be helpful for other members and especially new ones who had no idea this behavior is bad. I’m glad we see these posts. Some are just about disgusting old creeps but a lot show us the de… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 07:38 PM |
| 111 | Can an LVM turn into a HVM later in life?I agree. Can you really trust a man who said he used to have, for example, a serious porn addiction or he was a cheater and now he does not do that stuff anymore? What if he succumbs to it later or is just really good at hiding it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 07:59 AM |
| 23 | Can an LVM turn into a HVM later in life?Yup, thought so. I don’t have anyone in mind, just curious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 07:57 AM |
| 14 | 70 Year Old Scrote Grooms 20F for 6 Years Then Ends it As She Approaches 30Man he must be soooo dusty and smell like baby powder. Who would see a 70 year old as a partner at 20? 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 12:21 AM |
| 115 | Financially abusive Scrote strings along his 4.5 year live-in girlfriend, finally "gets engaged", yet cries when he finds out that he wasn't entitled to ALL of her money after all, etc. Next, he pitches it to the audience about whether he should take the money, then dump her any way.My financially abusive dad would use the excuse, “it’s not your money, it’s OUR money.” And that was if i bought something with MY hard earned cash and min wage job and bought it home. When i tried to buy something with his card, he would say, “stop spending MY money, I work very hard but not so you can buy shoes,” etc. He would lie to me about how much he made a month, saying it was only 4k and complain we are poor. But i saw his tax returns, it was actually around 18k. Sick man. Guilt trips me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 08:22 PM |
| 38 | Ladies, what have been your experiences with dating men that have unresolved and untreated intergenerational trauma?I dated a guy who had so much abuse in his childhood from his parents. Whether or not he was telling the truth… if he was it was pretty traumatic. He told me his mom told him at a young age that he was a “mistake” and “one-night stand.” He was homeless for a year as a teenager because she kicked him out, telling me he fled his home country and was white trash, he had been r***ed by some lady in a bar, and his biological father had recently died, idk. And he was telling me this within the first t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 05:42 AM |
| 55 | Women leaving the dating appsCorrect. I have peace of mind now and extra storage on my phone from deleting those apps 💅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 04:38 AM |
| 202 | Women leaving the dating appsThe biggest reasons I left were: Too many men with poor jobs or unemployed. They jump straight to dirty stuff or want to see me at their place for dirty stuff in the first few days. Ew. No thanks. I don’t want to be murdered/physically hurt or kidnapped or something. Bc I am tiny and skinny. Most of them don’t want something serious and they have serious mental issues or mommy/daddy issues. I don’t want to be their therapist. They can’t hold conversations and ghost me eventually | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 04:28 AM |
| 8 | Another post promoting sex work as “real work” and an OP that is probably one of the top 1% of earners on OF… I feel for these people struggling to make it financially but sex work ain’t it.Yeah. She makes her personality centered around being a h*e, and it makes me feel sad. Yea she is making tons of money but it just leaves a sour taste in my mouth that nurses and engineers and other professionals won’t even make as much in their lifetime. I guess our society is so pornified that women see it as a step up… especially these influencers. I hear so many men say that if they were a hot woman they would sell their body too, ew. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 04:05 AM |
| 12 | Another post promoting sex work as “real work” and an OP that is probably one of the top 1% of earners on OF… I feel for these people struggling to make it financially but sex work ain’t it.Ahhhhh I see. Recently saw Tana brag that she makes 7 figures a month on OF… this is like the 1% of the 1% lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 03:38 AM |
| 9 | Another post promoting sex work as “real work” and an OP that is probably one of the top 1% of earners on OF… I feel for these people struggling to make it financially but sex work ain’t it.Is this Tana mongeau by any chance? Idk if she is a stripper, not following her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 03:16 AM |
| 48 | Another post promoting sex work as “real work” and an OP that is probably one of the top 1% of earners on OF… I feel for these people struggling to make it financially but sex work ain’t it.I had no savings and my dad would not let me get a job. He wanted me to study. Community college or regular college, does not matter, just get the degree. This lady could have gone to a cheap local college but porn was “easier” I guess. She wanted to go to community college but her mom said no so she said, “screw it, let me do porn???” Does not add up. Does her mom still speak to her? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 12:54 AM |
| 94 | Another post promoting sex work as “real work” and an OP that is probably one of the top 1% of earners on OF… I feel for these people struggling to make it financially but sex work ain’t it.Yeah, it’s funny how all the posts I see promoting OF are women who are supposedly in the top 1%… not the broke ones who earn maybe a $100 or less a month… odd right? 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 09:35 PM |
| 56 | Another post promoting sex work as “real work” and an OP that is probably one of the top 1% of earners on OF… I feel for these people struggling to make it financially but sex work ain’t it.If true, she is extremely lucky. I feel sad that women feel like they have to resort to this. I’m in an existential crisis right now about my career but i never once considered porn… she even admits that she is lucky. If she did not make it here, not sure what would have happened. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 09:33 PM |
| 19 | Another post promoting sex work as “real work” and an OP that is probably one of the top 1% of earners on OF… I feel for these people struggling to make it financially but sex work ain’t it.Oh okay, I saw it here that employers can look it up. I’ll delete it. But yes, someone can rat you out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 09:03 PM |
| 137 | Another post promoting sex work as “real work” and an OP that is probably one of the top 1% of earners on OF… I feel for these people struggling to make it financially but sex work ain’t it.Correct. It is a ploy to benefit men and give them endless porn while destroying our lives. They don’t see as future partners or worthy humans after they find out you’ve done porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 08:54 PM |
| 107 | Another post promoting sex work as “real work” and an OP that is probably one of the top 1% of earners on OF… I feel for these people struggling to make it financially but sex work ain’t it.“I don’t know what I’d do without OF.” Dang, porn really holds up this person’s life. If they were abused as they said, and they had to resort to sex work, that sucks. I guess all the other cheaper and quicker, yet stable choices in life (trade school, certification, apprenticeships) were not considered? If the person is real, that is sad. She would not go to community college bc it was not allowed but porn was better? Does her mom support THAT? Idk. Community college was great for me, the best … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 08:51 PM |
| 68 | Another post promoting sex work as “real work” and an OP that is probably one of the top 1% of earners on OF… I feel for these people struggling to make it financially but sex work ain’t it.It’s good that she is making money and she can invest. But she is like the minority on OF. For every one woman like her there are hundreds of women ruining their lives and making a few dollars. This will destroy any chance of future employers hiring them if for some reason they find out. I get that it’s hard to find jobs and they pay very poorly nowadays… but this is not the solution. “Hey, if you are poor, there is a solution. Just go and join OF and take nudes for strangers!!! There will defin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 08:16 PM |
| 57 | Pickmeisha hall of fame 😂🤦🏻♀️✨✨✨no✨✨✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 05:50 AM |
| 231 | Somehow this is worse than those room rentals on CraigslistBruh this is how you get murdered… 70k in five years is nothing too, to be this guy’s “business” partner 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 05:46 AM |
| 28 | being male in america hard, so hardYes, if he is actually doing all of this stuff and his wife is not helping out… that is pretty bad on her part. If he did not include the “welcome to being a male in America” part though, I would have felt bad for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 05:41 AM |
| 18 | Say to a man : "I don't trust men"My old therapist was a HVM. I would tell him that i don’t trust men, and he would agree that men need to do better and that not many good ones exist. I was shocked. He was apologetic on behalf of them. Never had a man admit that to me. My NVM dad and sibling would be screeching at me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 03:17 AM |
| 82 | 21yo woman and her 30yo 🚩 homeless boyfriend 🚩 has moved in to her home 🚩within 2 months 🚩My dad is a completely narcissistic, manipulative scrote, but at least he provided for us fully. He hated work but he knew he had to work for the future of his kids. I just don’t see the point in men being partners if they are abusive/disgusting/pedophilic/cheaters AND they don’t provide. It’s a lose-lose situation for us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 09:25 PM |
| 11 | It's okay to be angrySame. I rarely get angry. Mostly because I bottle everything up. My dad is a narcissistic scrote that constantly yelled at me when I made the slightest mistake. If i yelled back, that made the situation worse. So I learned to keep my head down and take it. When I do get angry, I get ANGRY. I’m talking about for days, I’m in a silent fit. Since my dad left, I’ve been just… angry. My whole life I had to watch others live it up, while I had to sit there and take garbage from the LVM in my household… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 09:36 AM |
| 111 | Textbook Terrible V-DayHe also told on himself by saying he was a lazy bastard. Like, ew. If there weren’t already a million other red flags. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 04:02 AM |
| 78 | Referring to women as girlsI struggle with this personally. I correct myself and use young woman or woman. Never girl. Sometimes I forget. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 01:36 AM |
| 126 | Seen in a medical sub. Thankfully the replies were very supportive; I hope she will be OKOh my god. Terrible. No words. Wait, 17F?!?!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/22 12:14 AM |
| 11 | "All the good men are taken! They're all married by now!"Yup. I just turned 25 and feel like I’m free from the pickme-ism and desperation that defined my teens and early 20s. i don’t care if I’m a virgin. Don’t care if I’m single. I probably won’t get married until my 30s. And don’t care if I have kids. Literally everyone who pushes these things upon me can go to hell. I’ll do me. And if i end up single in my middle age - fine. But I’ll look like a boss with a big house and have hella money, and no stress. Right now i got a 50 year old man hitting on … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 09:39 PM |
| 74 | "wait to have sex" labeled as "bad dating advice"...and all of the people in the comments applauding...From 16-23 I used to cry about being a virgin. Now i just say, “screw it.” I consider it a blessing that no LV man got to use my body and ghost me the next day. I assure you, i was a major pickme and I would have been desperate enough if the situation arose. I would go on dating apps and could have easily done it (like my pick me friend). So she found a guy, he coerced her into doing it after finding out she never did it. he ghosted her after taking her virginity and she was a wreck for about a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 08:17 PM |
| 96 | "wait to have sex" labeled as "bad dating advice"...and all of the people in the comments applauding...They must hate me then. I’m in my mid 20s and never had sex once 😂 i’m sex negative into the thousands!!! Lol I am not gonna do it until I’m married, honestly. And that will be after extreme vetting. Not giving them a chance with my body. I’ve waited this long, might as well continue to wait! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 07:50 PM |
| 12 | When your 11 year old son starts watching violent and degrading rape porn all you gotta do is let him know that it's totally not a guidebook nor an okay portrayal of women!Yeah when i was 11 i did not even know the concept of sex. I was watching Pokémon all day, reading adventure books and cramming hours into my Pokémon and Nintendo games. I did not seek out anything dirty on the internet even though I had full access to my own computer. Man, the 2000s hit different. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 07:39 PM |
| 107 | al i can say is… jfcThey only guy i dated would get extremely jealous if i mentioned another guy was cute or even mentioned another dude in a non-romantic way. Not cute. He did not even want to commit to me. He told me that he did not want a relationship (but i was still talking to him 🤡) anyways, he could talk to other women but he wanted a fwb situation with me… and keep me all to himself? I could not so much mention other guys with him? ugh ew. He can’t have his cake and eat it too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 07:16 PM |
| 13 | Don’t idealize a man before you get to know him.Same. Most of them End up giving me the ick because they are pornsick or just gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 11:30 PM |
| 11 | Don’t idealize a man before you get to know him.Yup. I’ve posted about this before too. NEVER ask a man out. He will ridicule you and lose respect for you, that is, if he had any for you in the first place… i learned a hard lesson from this. Never chasing again. That’s a mans job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 11:26 PM |
| 93 | I’ve seen so many of these, the entitlement is real. No one wants to be your live in bang maid, especially not for FREE!! They’re hoping to take advantage of a woman in need, forget that women can room with eachother without the expectation of chores and sex. We don’t need men like thisBut he will let you sleep on the couch before you are ready to sleep with him in the bedroom 🤡🤡🤡 give him a chance!!! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 11:24 PM |
| 9 | If you ever want to get over an infatuation/crush, just check their Instagram follow listYes girl. Nobody taught me. My grades slipped, i was depressed and not eating, on the brink of suicide. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 11:17 PM |
| 4 | If you ever want to get over an infatuation/crush, just check their Instagram follow listSee my recent post. Talks about me going through the worst crush of my life and the lessons i learned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 11:16 PM |
| 56 | Don’t idealize a man before you get to know him.Right, I want the women reading this to learn from me. Focus on your studies and don’t crush on some deadbeat. Unfortunately, nobody told me this. I fell into the lib fem standards of asking men out and “waiting” for him 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 04:04 PM |
| 86 | Why he will punish you for giving him second chancesShe only told me this a year ago. For over a decade a half i had no idea. He never changed and it was hell to come back to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 10:32 PM |
| 193 | Why he will punish you for giving him second chancesMy nvm dad did this to my mom. My mom fled with me and my sibling one day. My dad cried and begged for us to come back. She decided to come back with us. I was crying on the plane bc i did not want to see my dad again. The things he told her when she came back… make my skin crawl. “You will never disobey me again…” he hid her passport and everything so she could not escape. don’t ever give men a second chance. They will not change or be kind. They will get worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 08:55 PM |
| 119 | Act around men you are attracted to but haven't signaled their interest in you yet as if they were takenI had a crush on a guy for 5 years!!! All of high school i expected him to ask me out. Got nothing. I professed my love for him and he told all of his friends and they all mocked me. I only did it because i though he was interested in me too. Never again. Ignore them, don’t develop crushes, and if they are truly interested, they will make an effort. Don’t idealize any man, they will disappoint you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 08:08 PM |
| 118 | 4 months and she realized she was a placeholder when he had to show basic effort. That's why vetting is important.Yup a guy did not commit to me after six months of dating. I should have known that he was not gonna commit but you bet he brought up sex at the 2-3 month mark… disgusting. Good thing i did not give him what he wanted, sick man who was so pornified. He gave me the “ick.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 05:15 AM |
| 8 | Pays 40K for his gambling addiction or his incompetence (dunno which is worse)I’m attempting to daytrade. And boy is it hard. I will give a different perspective. It is possible to make it, but it is hard. I lost a lot of money last year. People tell me to quit, i realize how hard it is. I know that last year i was just gambling. I am studying the charts now, the patterns, methods, risk management. This guy has a gambling addiction. Most men do in the stock market. I joined a group and one man lost over a million and is in debt. This guy needs professional help and his pi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 07:42 PM |
| 3 | My friends keep telling me, “not all men.”I was a wimp in high school. Not mean at all. And to this day, I’m not mean. Men would take advantage of my kindness. I was treated like a therapist by men, ignored and forgotten and ghosted. to this day, my nvm dad wants me to nurse him bc he has a terrible untreatable chronic disease. He knows I’m too nice and i would feel sorry for him. After years of abuse. At some point I needed to put my foot down and say no to lvm. Fds helped me with that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 11:09 PM |
| 41 | What is it about South Asian/Desi culture that makes the men so depraved?Could not agree more. We are treated like dirt. My relatives will hate it, but I’m marrying outside my race. Men of other races (some) at least are taught to pick up after themselves and clean and cook. Not Indian men. A HVM thats indian is very hard to find. Id say 95% in my family are idiot LVM/NVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 11:48 PM |
| 51 | What is it about South Asian/Desi culture that makes the men so depraved?Yes. Indian/brown men are the worst. I stay away from them. They all know they can get everything they want, being a man. The women in our culture are treated like bang maids who produce children with no other value. As the men get older, they all get out of shape and have a belly. They never help their wives and are emotionally distant from their children. Relatives don’t care about my career as much as they care about when I’m getting married. Over my dead body before i marry a brown man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 11:28 PM |
| 134 | Hmmm, Am I Crazy or Are Women Wising Up?Yes, gave up on men after dating a scrote through the pandemic long distance in 2020. Saw that the quality of men dropped and they just want a bang maid therapist. Done with them for a while. Focusing on myself. Don’t want to carry dead weight with me in the form of an LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 10:02 PM |
| 46 | Ladies, stop coddling your sons.Trigger warning: I know this is fiction but it reminds me of that movie Scream where the murderer keeps the mummified body of his mom and like made a mask of her face??? Because he was so attached to her and she died so he had to keep her around?? And he was a mommy’s boy… idk dude. Men are sick. Men take it out on their female loved ones and I’m tired of it. We even get punished for loving our NVM husbands and sons too much. Imagine you spend your life loving your little boy only for him to gro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 09:36 PM |
| 27 | A new low for LVM….Jeez, saw this one the news. She had a bright future. Look at this sicko. Tired of seeing innocent young women being murdered by NVM. There are too many cases to count… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 05:30 AM |
| 6 | Why do they keep romanticizing “toxic love” ?If they sick blood then that means they are vampires and they are immortal… i hope not | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 02:32 AM |
| 148 | Ariana grande’s character in don’t look up called Leonardo dicaprio an “old fuck”. Leo’s current gf is 4 years YOUNGER than Ariana! The irony is killing me!!!Honestly, he looked so scraggly and gross in this movie. That Ariana Grande scene made me laugh out loud. I couldn’t tell that he used to be a heartthrob. I recently saw pictures of him with his 24 year old girlfriend at the beach, where she was fit and skinny and had her arms around his beer belly 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 06:57 AM |
| 62 | Never stop vetting! Even after being faithful to your partner for 8 years, he could still think that he can do better and want to bang other women. Scrotes like this just want to get their dick wet and are never satisfied no matter how spectacular their gf is.I hate how he says that he is regretting sleeping with only one woman in his life. I’m a virgin and it’s my goal to make sure I only ever sleep with one person in my life, my soulmate, who I get married to and have a HV marriage to a HVM. Why does every man want to be community dick??? What happened to settling down and marrying the love of your life and being true to them till death do them part?? Society created the commercialization and sexualization of women as if women are plentiful and lik… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 08:42 PM |
| 25 | The idea that men peak in their 30s is a male fantasyI know this has been mentioned many times on this sub, but I always think of Leonardo DeCaprio who is ugly, wrinkled, fat and looks like he smells of cheetos. At least he is rich but he always dates under 25 year olds - hell, use him as a pocketbook, the guy is loaded. I like that that he is passionate about the environment but he uses yachts and private planes. He has nothing else going for him. 90s Heart-throb to slob 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 05:32 AM |
| 7 | Men can't admit they can't pleasure women and that's why we replace themI was offended. I don’t trust men and i tell my friend of 12 years that I don’t and she calls me “jaded against men.” Sleeping around does not benefit us and in my area I can literally go to jail if I get pregnant or my parents could disown me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 05:24 AM |
| 18 | It's official. This is the most HVM I've ever seenYES OP!!! I WAS GONNA SHARE THIS IN THIS SUB BUT YOU BEAT ME TO IT! I read the book and watched the film. In the book, he is extremely HV. He just waits for Bathsheba. He does not push his love onto her, he just observes from afar and helps her on the farm. He did propose to her at the beginning but she declined and he did not push her. She eventually comes to her own decision by the end of the book and sees that she married a class A f***boi. Bathsheba was written by a Victorian man. He made he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 05:40 AM |
| 25 | It's official. This is the most HVM I've ever seenBathsheba was written by a man. A man who lived in the Victorian era, nonetheless. The author made her crazy and indecisive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 05:31 AM |
| 71 | Men can't admit they can't pleasure women and that's why we replace themI live in an area where abortion is very hard to get, and we can get in trouble for having one. Men are a big NOPE in my life right now. I just stay away from them. My friend called me “jaded” but idc, I’m avoiding STDS, heartbreak, and pregnancy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 05:29 AM |
| 3 | Reddit does hate womenHe is getting angry on behalf of the ShOrT KiNGs in that sub. Idk. It’s just a woman that has standards and they can’t handle it. I follow this subreddit and there are so many posts where the men just crap on women in there for having standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 05:24 AM |
| 10 | Anyone else experiencing the desperation going on in OLD right now?Yeah, and have the added bonus of possibly catching Covid at a party with strangers and my even stranger date. No thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 05:42 PM |
| 19 | 2022 Is My Year to Focus on Me (Not Dating)Yass girllllll! Same here! I did not date this year and don’t plan to for this year either! I want to focus on me and my mom! No males allowed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 07:10 AM |
| 41 | Don’t waste your time or energy debating about sex work to men and libfemsHey fellow Aquarius 👋🏽 yes, sex work only exists for the benefit of men. Period. I don’t really see too many women hiring male prostitution (I don’t know much about women hiring women so can’t speak on that) and I certainly don’t see many straight men selling their body. It’s women doing it for male pleasure. So why would men give it up or speak against it? Then how would they get to rub their little pee-pees in their dark rooms alone? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 07:07 AM |
| 33 | I’m tired of sex work being promoted as the only other option if a woman can’t make money. It’s not that easy and it will ruin your future opportunities if you were to transition out of it.One example is Bhad Baby who made sooo much money on OF on her first days of turning 18. She was groomed so hard by scrotes online. I wish OF had banned porn when they wanted to that time (so then they could die out), but I guess people would have found other ways to post stuff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 11:44 PM |
| 127 | I’m tired of sex work being promoted as the only other option if a woman can’t make money. It’s not that easy and it will ruin your future opportunities if you were to transition out of it.Correct, none of them respect a woman who has done s** work or porn. They all refer to them as “used goods.” But for some reason, at the same time, this is empowering and freeing!!! It’s all for men’s benefit and they can chuck us away when they are done with us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 11:41 PM |
| 157 | I’m tired of sex work being promoted as the only other option if a woman can’t make money. It’s not that easy and it will ruin your future opportunities if you were to transition out of it.Dang, it’s a shame honestly that women are pushed to do this stuff. Society is so bad. We encourage women to be engineers and doctors now but then sex work is on the rise with OF and so many people are praising it and encouraging it. Little girls should not look up to this and it’s so sad that this lady could not make it as a vet. And then teens who count down the number of days until they will be legal and make an OF 🤢 with scrotes eagerly waiting 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 10:37 PM |
| 75 | I’m tired of sex work being promoted as the only other option if a woman can’t make money. It’s not that easy and it will ruin your future opportunities if you were to transition out of it.I checked the profile and it’s a woman with nudes and a bio unfortunately… she has many selfies and other photos of herself, plus asking for advice on OF subreddits | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 10:29 PM |
| 212 | I’m tired of sex work being promoted as the only other option if a woman can’t make money. It’s not that easy and it will ruin your future opportunities if you were to transition out of it.True. And if it was she’d be in like the top 1% of earners on OF. Most women won’t earn that in a lifetime on that site. I put in another comment that I think she is real. Extensive profile with selfies/nudes and asking for advice on OF subreddits and sharing hobbies on other subreddits | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 10:28 PM |
| 33 | Be aware of “holiday daters” looking for an entertainment while on vacation.This was the only guy i ever dated. I wasted six months on him in a situationship when he finally said he wanted to move to another country within a year 🤡 That was the last straw and i ended it a few days after and that was around the time I found FDS. At that point I realized there was no future with him. He really wanted to make me a FWB without telling me but deep down he gave me the ick and I did not do anything with him, thank god. Always trust your intuition ladies!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 04:48 AM |
| 10 | “Turkish woman MARRIES boyfriend who threw acid in her face.” This makes me incredibly sad for her, the fact she felt that she had no other option…I really wish so. Idk if she will even be alive in a few years after getting married to this demented sicko. Who knows what else he would be capable of doing :( these bastards all say, ”if I can’t have you, nobody can.” Society has coddled these men so much that one act of rejection makes them go psycho, and these acid attacks happen a lot in South Asia. And south Asia LOVES to coddle men!!! Women are seen as lower beings to society over there. It happens to South Asian women in Europe by other … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 09:04 PM |
| 13 | Things like this are becoming more and more common. Squeeze in the wrong area of the neck and she easily could have gotten real brain damage (from the lack of oxygen). Be careful out there ladies.Demented men like this would have no problem killing us “accidentally” if we don’t be careful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 08:21 PM |
| 48 | Men that push for 50/50 still don’t realize that dating has become a ladies’ market in 2021, with Tinder being 78% male / 22% female and Bumble & Hinge being 65% male / 35% female. Men outnumber women 4-to-1 on Tinder and 3-to-1 on Bumble/Hinge.We should not have to pursue, period! Women are expected to do SO much in our society. Now we have to pursue the guy too??? On top of 50/50, house-chores and rearing children? I’m so tired of this. I quit dating apps after dating a porn-addicted loser with mental issues that he refused to fix. I learned such a valuable lesson. Dating apps are all a game to them and they just want a FWB to string along. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 08:16 PM |
| 86 | If your boyfriend doesn't support you but instead belittles you constantly, it's time to leave. Don't let your "partner" drag you down.I just watched the first season of America’s Next Top Model and one of the women quit because her useless boyfriend would not call her back, she would call four times a day and he ignored her calls. When he finally picked up, he said he was jealous of her being in New York and he thought if he ignored her it would make her want him more. And he thought she was smooching other guys there - he said this all on the phone. Not to mention, he was ugly af and she was tall, thin and beautiful. Then the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 08:55 PM |
| 26 | Why do men act so nice to other people but seem to hate their own wife and children?Do we have the same dad? Same tactics. Was overly nice and charismatic in public, but behind closed doors was a monster. Constant emotional abuse, and as a kid I told on him. I lied and said the marks on my back was because he was hitting me - he would hit me but not that hard. They believed me and he almost went to jail. Until he gaslighted me hard and I then believed that he loved me and never hit me and retracted my statements. His gaslighting was so good, I felt guilty about doing it to him … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 08:19 PM |
| 37 | NVM screeching about losing money in a divorce 🤣🤣🤣 get wrecked. They always blame the woman for a failing marriage and make her out to be LaZY as if she did not raise kids and do housework full-time. She DESERVES some equity.Yeah i don’t want to carry around a deadbeat scrote with no ambition to marry me. But… If i marry a man I have more to lose because of the money in my bank. So I NEED to be careful or he will get half of my assets!!! This can go two ways, scrotes. Not one of you are getting a hand on MY bank account. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 12:57 AM |
| 59 | NVM screeching about losing money in a divorce 🤣🤣🤣 get wrecked. They always blame the woman for a failing marriage and make her out to be LaZY as if she did not raise kids and do housework full-time. She DESERVES some equity.Right, get a good, little, subservient Christian girl (i say girl bc thats how they see us) and kick her to the curb with nothing if she can’t put up with my bs. 😔 demented men! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 12:51 AM |
| 65 | NVM screeching about losing money in a divorce 🤣🤣🤣 get wrecked. They always blame the woman for a failing marriage and make her out to be LaZY as if she did not raise kids and do housework full-time. She DESERVES some equity.Honestly, that sounds like a guy who you’d see in the news saying that he murdered his wife or something. He just “snapped…” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 11:18 PM |
| 113 | NVM screeching about losing money in a divorce 🤣🤣🤣 get wrecked. They always blame the woman for a failing marriage and make her out to be LaZY as if she did not raise kids and do housework full-time. She DESERVES some equity.And leave us alone too! I want serious commitment, but not if he’s gonna pull this on me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 10:43 PM |
| 311 | NVM screeching about losing money in a divorce 🤣🤣🤣 get wrecked. They always blame the woman for a failing marriage and make her out to be LaZY as if she did not raise kids and do housework full-time. She DESERVES some equity.It is happening to my mom right now as we speak. My dad calls her all kinds of names - lazy, uneducated, stupid and more. Because she did not have a “real” job. He would not let her work or get an education!!! She picked after me and my brother for years, attending school events, nursing us, helping with school projects, while my dad sat on the side drinking a beer and screaming at us. I see my dad as a big paycheck. I don’t care about him, only his money. He was never there for us and abused us… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 10:06 PM |
| 20 | Men on saying they “want children someday”I dated a 25 year old at the time (when i was 23) who said, “if I have kids someday.” My pickme self thought it was SO endearing 😖. He had so much unchecked mental trauma, bad finances and pornsickness, that I sincerely hope he does not have kids EVER. He probably won’t get married either since he’s an f-boi and probably will have a baby mama. We don’t want mini versions of him walking around being abused too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 11:40 PM |
| 74 | Sometimes I feel like all hope is lost.We live in a 🤡 world full of LVM for LVM! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 08:03 AM |
| 127 | Sometimes I feel like all hope is lost.Those civilizations were considered “barbaric.” And yes, in many ways they were. But I had no idea that women had those kinds of freedoms even in the dark ages! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 08:02 AM |
| 105 | Reminder: never chase men, this is what they actually think when you initiateYes, I did this in high school, see my post about it. I learned a valuable lesson from it, and will never repeat that mistake again. I won’t chase men in any way. If they don’t ask me out out for my number, I will never chase them and ask them out thinking they were “shy 👉🏽👈🏽🥺” like in high school. There was a really sweet guy in high school who would give me his jacket and help me out and I rejected him for this jerk. That guy was so into me, and he was really sweet. I was so LV and dumb - if I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 08:56 PM |
| 16 | Serious question, do any of you not want to get married?True. Vet ruthlessly and don’t be afraid to walk out at any moment. I would like marriage instead of being a forever girlfriend, but I would also sign a pre-nup. I’m not sure about having kids for a while as that really ties you down forever to him and then you’re stuck. I would like to believe there is a HVM out there for me, if there is not, I’ll happily stay single than married to an LVM for the sake of being married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 01:27 AM |
| 81 | What are the most ridiculous pick-me opinions you had before reaching the age of reason?-I’m low maintenance and a man does not need to spend anything on me bc its the thought that counts 🤡 -i’m a cool girl, he can talk to other girls and hang out with other women and have loads of women friends, men and women can in some cases just be friends and there is nothing sexual involved at all 🤢 -He does not need to make that much money because love triumphs 🤮 -He does not need to be that fit 🤮🤮 -if he is nice to me (the bare minimum), at least it’s better than my narc dad, I’ll take what… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 12:55 AM |
| 6 | Can’t wait to see the male commenters of DM collectively lose their tiny minds.DM wants us to date unhinged and emotionally unavailable men with unsolved mental trauma 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 11:50 PM |
| 8 | Another negging tactic: Men asking your interests then telling you how they dislike themIf a guy says he hates SpongeBob, throw the whole man away 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 05:51 PM |
| 29 | My cousin turned into a LVW and Pick-me since she married an LVM.My cousin is actually a few years older than him, but she looks young. Yeah he is honestly so lucky he has someone like my cousin to cook for him and kiss up to him. I would never even entertain a guy like that for a second. My friends scoff at me for not dating but I’m just so put off of men if this is what’s in store for me. I mean, he posts about her and how grateful he is to be married to her, but i just think she could have done so much better. He is not abusive to her for all I know, but h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 12:39 AM |
| 94 | Why do guys tell you they don’t want a relationship with you but get mad if you date someone else? (long read and rant)A guy did this to me, called me his “best friend” or whatever, but did not want a relationship. As soon as i would mention another guy (like not even in a romantic way) he would get jealous. Like, ew. They want us all for themselves but don’t want us at the same time. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 10:12 PM |
| 51 | My cousin turned into a LVW and Pick-me since she married an LVM.I don’t think she’ll wake up. It took my mom 20 years to muster up the courage to leave my dad. I think the divorce rate is super low. Probably like under 15%. My cousin is insistent that he is “one of the good ones.” I’ll hang out with her, but only if her husband is not there. Don’t ever give ugly men a chance! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 07:03 PM |
| 36 | My cousin turned into a LVW and Pick-me since she married an LVM.They let her go for a “love marriage” instead of an arranged marriage. He’s really social, so he must have charmed them a lot. But yeah, he is really ugly. If I woke up next to that goblin in the morning, I would scream. 😖 and thanks, she is just a totally different person with him around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 07:01 PM |
| 103 | I haven't seen a disgusting serial dater like Pete DavidsonYup, am I the only one who thought it was weird? He’s dated so many high profile celebrities that it just makes me question if he really liked them or if he was just a social climber - but with dating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 04:10 PM |
| 79 | This is the kind of stuff that really scares me😞I feel like in the end you never truly get to know the other person. Tw: s3xual abuse/text postHonestly, maybe I’ll have some cats to accompany me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 05:11 AM |
| 73 | Young men on tiktok advising against porn usageCorrect. They don’t care about the plight and exploitation of women. They just care about their broken little pee-pees. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 05:10 AM |
| 36 | Ladies, please do not sleep with a man early on. This is what will happen.That’s absolutely vile. I’ll just let men ghost me for holding out, I’ll have dodged a bullet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 04:23 PM |
| 72 | An ugly reason why some men start familiesDid we have the same father? It does not help when he was a raging narcissist. I rebelled when I was a teen and my dad made my life hell because of that. I was never a bad child but my dad used to smack me around as a kid for something like forgetting my address. When I became a teen, I decided to act bad, because he saw me as a bad child anyways. He threw my personal stuff away, tried to read my diary, trashed my room, would chase me, call me derogatory female slurs like w**** and s*** and woul… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 07:03 AM |
| 13 | Ladies, please do not sleep with a man early on. This is what will happen.I agree with you. I don’t want to have sex before marriage but I don’t want to get married and have issues with that as well. Honestly, I just want a man with good hygiene and money that treats me like the queen that I am. Otherwise, I’ll just stay single without heartache and be at peace. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 06:54 AM |
| 21 | Ladies, please do not sleep with a man early on. This is what will happen.Right. We need to stop pretending men are so stupid they only think with their d***s. They know EXACTLY what they are doing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 06:51 AM |
| 42 | Ladies, please do not sleep with a man early on. This is what will happen.Yup, I downvoted all his garbage comments and the people defending him. Too bad I can’t do more because I’m banned on that sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 06:49 AM |
| 47 | Ladies, please do not sleep with a man early on. This is what will happen.I nearly did it. I’m a virgin. I dated one guy in my life who was a major FBoy and I would’ve, but something stopped me, idk. I felt icky at the thought of doing that. I told him we could be friends only (no sexual relations) if he did not want a committed relationship (he was stringing me along and refused to define the relationship after a few months, he kept calling me his “friend” but he really wanted a FWB🤮) and he ghosted me soon after. If I had given him what he wanted, the same thing wou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 06:46 AM |
| 679 | Ladies, please do not sleep with a man early on. This is what will happen.Yup, people are calling him out for it in the comments but then there are pick-mes and Scrotes praising him for not ghosting and cOmMunIcAtiNG | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 10:05 PM |
| 246 | How long to wait for men to reply? (Busy career-oriented men)A guy I was dating who had a part-time research job plus studying for a doctorate would take around 2-5 days to reply back to me sometimes. I assumed it was because he was busy but then I found out that he was constantly on Whatsapp, Facebook, etc. He ALWAYS checked his phone, that means. We always have a smartphone near us. He was just choosing to ignore me. It made me manic and crazy. Not good. He was a major F***boi. Then he would come back and say he was “busy traveling,” or “with the boys” … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 07:11 AM |
| 73 | Reminder: Being The "Cool Girl" who isn't "materialistic" will get you nothing.I am notoriously expensive. I go out of my way to get the finest for myself. I still save and invest my money for the future. My mom was abused financially by my dad for over 20 years. We all were, and maybe that’s why I like to spend so much now because I was never allowed to. My dad refused to let me get a job as a teen and in college so I would be dependent on him. My dad would shame me for buying anything extra other that food or utilities. My mom used to brag about how she does not need any… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 09:04 PM |
| 80 | This is why FDS recommends snooping. Be very ruthless with your vetting process! You never know how deprived some men can beI’ve lost hope for humanity. Women should form a colony only for women and the men can go and forge outside and fight each other to the death. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 04:50 AM |
| 14 | The manosphere line that men hit their peak in their late 30s and 40s is a biological lie - male fertility begins to decline once the man is over the age of 34.Yes, I was about to say - his oldest son is 11 but he wants to go out with an 18 year old 😣 luckily that same 18/19 year old named Amelia Hamlin dumped him. But within a few weeks he has another young lady to pray on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 05:38 PM |
| 9 | Didn’t realize this sub would cause me to be bannedIt’s like a symbol of pride for me now 💪🏽😤 Successfully triggering the scrote whose masculinity and ego i hurt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 05:36 PM |
| 148 | The manosphere line that men hit their peak in their late 30s and 40s is a biological lie - male fertility begins to decline once the man is over the age of 34.When I think of that I think of scrotes like Leonardo DiCaprio or Scott Distick who go out with hot 20 year old models but their ugly asses get older and fatter 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 04:49 AM |
| 84 | Didn’t realize this sub would cause me to be bannedThey said to me, “FDS propaganda bulls*” so it seems they just tell everyone they are banning that if they are a part of FDS. When I found out that a moderator of that sub banned me I told them to “eat s you ugly scrotes” and I was also banned from messaging the moderators ever again. So I’m banned for good. 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 04:46 AM |
| 6 | Asking a man for his zodiac sign can be a great vetting strategyCan confirm. Right after work, my dad's favorite gluttonous activity was to eat cheap junk food and drink a cheap beer while watching football after having a screaming match with someone in the house over money. If you bothered him during football time, you'll regret it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 08:08 AM |
| 6 | Asking a man for his zodiac sign can be a great vetting strategyoh jeez! Yeah I don't have much of a problem with Taurus women - I've had many friends who were Taurus and I got along with them... not too badly. My aunt is a Taurus and we are very close. But I would not live with her bc we have lots of differences and her temper scares me. There was one guy who was a Taurus who was the sweetest to me in high school - he was like a teddy bear but I was too dumb to notice him. I am an Aquarius and we can be PETTY as heck! I guess I just have a problem with Taur… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 08:05 AM |
| 8 | Help. I just got banned from other subreddits if you participate in this one. My comment was not offensive at all nor was I applying FDS strategies. I call bullshit but I guess I'll make a throwaway.I got banned there too, only use this account for FDS. They think we are fem-cels. I made a post about this too. Nothing else. Turn off the ability for people to follow you and turn off your messages and chat function. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 05:38 AM |
| 7 | Asking a man for his zodiac sign can be a great vetting strategyMy NV dad is a Taurus, on top of being extremely cheap, he has the most murderous temper I have ever seen - so explosive and you actually feel afraid you will be harmed. Other tauruses have done this too with me, you have to walk around eggshells with them or they will get seriously offended and shun you. They hold long-ass grudges too, if you don’t apologize to them. They are extremely cheap and penny pinch. Another observation I have made is that many have actually been dictators and murderers… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 05:25 AM |
| 11 | That time I THOUGHT I was dating a HVM 🤡 And the PLETHORA of red flags I ignoredI did this for 6 months in a situation-ship. Did we date the same guy??? Lol, he did the EXACT same things as the guy you described. He was extremely porn sick and I had to bring up exclusivity 🤡 he deleted his dating app but would disappear for days at a time. He never showed me his friends. He was seeing other women for sure. He wanted nudes from me and I said no. He was LD so nothing physical happened with him and when he ended up ghosting me it was so much easier to block and delete because … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 02:19 AM |
| 26 | Asking a man for his zodiac sign can be a great vetting strategyYeah, and if he is a taurus man - I run. Not to slam my taurus ladies out there, but i’ve found taurus men to be the WORST. Cheap, lazy, scary temper and gluttonous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 02:12 AM |
| 52 | Gathered from the redpill sub, which is filled with posts like this. These men are literally advocating for sexual assault and somehow people still have the nerve to say FDS is the same, when it teaches us how to stay away precisely from men like this and vet for the sake of our own safety.Yes. That is why FDS is so important for us women. Women need to support other women and recognize that NV and LV men see us as slaves and you are better off single and building on yourself without the need of a man. Until a HV man comes along, you build on yourself and support other women. Don’t settle for these low-life gutter trash men on red-pill subs and ones who think even a little bit like them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 02:07 AM |
| 28 | I really hope this guy did not actually sleep in a nest in his home and what he said is all satire 🤢🤢🤢At least it was a “clean clothes” nest 😂 but he has no understanding of cleanliness so take that with a grain of salt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 01:25 AM |
| 18 | It doesn’t serve me to tell people that I’m happy not having had children.As a kid, and even now, I was uninterested in having kids. Relatives used to tell me, “you’ll change your mind when you are older.” What kind of crazy response is that??? It’s like it is my duty as a woman to have children. I don’t own anyone anything in an overpopulated and overburdened earth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 08:29 AM |
| 44 | Men are vileYes, correct. The men on the no-fap subs don’t care about us. And here I was, being naive - thinking that if men were trying to quit it, they were going to be kinder to women. Nope, it’s just because of their little, abused pee-pees. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 08:24 AM |
| 53 | Let's assume this is a straight woman... I hope she and others who feel this way finds this sub because this was really sad to watch, and I hope she doesn't find out the hard way that 95% of men in the dating pool are trash and all the people she's seeing in relationships likely aren't that happy.Yes, this. I am nearly her age and I relate so much. I’ve never been in a relationship either. I used to reaaaally envy couples being affectionate and ESPECIALLY couples on planes for some reason… idk, I used to always think travel with a significant other would be really special. Now I don’t even notice couples. (Once while traveling with my grandma, there was a couple making out constantly in the seats in front if us… she did not like that view and neither did I…) If both are unusually attract… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 05:00 AM |
| 54 | Finally Someone is Exposing Leonardo Dicaprio's Creepy Dating HistoryI always got the creeps from Jack Nicholson. He looks so crusty and disgusting. I am getting the same vibes from Leo, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 08:52 PM |
| 31 | The IckJust looking at men gives me “the ick.” I can’t imagine dating some of them 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 07:54 PM |
| 3 | I was a pickme for 11 years - I changed because of this sub.He was not my boyfriend, he did not want to commit to me and i was in a “situationship” for 6 months. He called me his “friend.” 🤢 he also wanted nudes from me and i declined. He was long distance so there was nothing physical, thank god. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 07:40 PM |
| 16 | if a beaver can wash his butt, pits, and balls then so can your bfBruh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 08:37 AM |
| 5 | Men think we are crazy, ugly psychos for having physical standards. Never change your standards and these “short kings” can go cry themselves to sleep. (The last guy seems hopeful though.)Yes. Just be a good man, earn a good living, be kind, patient and loyal and have good hygiene, and women will notice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 07:58 PM |
| 10 | Men think we are crazy, ugly psychos for having physical standards. Never change your standards and these “short kings” can go cry themselves to sleep. (The last guy seems hopeful though.)I dated a guy who was 5’7”. He was only a few inches taller than me. I did not mind, but I would ideally like him to be 5’9” or above. There were worse things about him than his height. But when I think about it, he did mention insecurities about his height (i think short men all have an issue with it). he also had the audacity to call ME short. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 07:53 PM |
| 42 | Men think we are crazy, ugly psychos for having physical standards. Never change your standards and these “short kings” can go cry themselves to sleep. (The last guy seems hopeful though.)They want us to be so dumb, lose our preferences and settle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 04:32 AM |
| 165 | Men think we are crazy, ugly psychos for having physical standards. Never change your standards and these “short kings” can go cry themselves to sleep. (The last guy seems hopeful though.)My painter was like, 4’8” or so, shorter than me, I am 5’3”. He has a gorgeous and tall wife! It is the mentality of these losers that won’t get them anywhere! The LADIES actually dodged a bullet by not dating these imbeciles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 04:25 AM |
| 111 | Women: Don't accept a single neg. Check out the dating advice men give each other.Brown men love to insult. My friend (we are all brown) was dating one and he would say things like, “you don’t deserve my love.” 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 03:44 AM |
| 113 | This is what you get if you act „low maintance”. You are worth less than a good PC setupYup, jewelry is not my thing. But watch me go and spend my money elsewhere. Always stay high maintenance 💅 the lady in the post may not like to spend money or request things, but when she finally does request something, she deserves it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 01:12 AM |
| 17 | Spotted in another sub. Subtle red flag that I (as a short-legged woman) have experienced too!I’ll use this method if my NV dad ever does it to me again. Or any other man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 01:05 AM |
| 102 | Spotted in another sub. Subtle red flag that I (as a short-legged woman) have experienced too!My NV dad does this. Walks like 10 feet in front of us and keeps screaming at us to hurry up with a scowl on his face. Even when there is no hurry. Once, I had to basically run after him in heels bc he was so ahead while he was yelling at me and it cut my heel. My mom and I are short. Complete red flag and it shows that he thinks he is better than you and does not care about your safety. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 01:03 AM |
| 242 | This is what you get if you act „low maintance”. You are worth less than a good PC setupGod, what a cheap **hole he is. His girlfriend basically helped nurse his worthless ** back to health and she’s STILL not worth a $10,000 ring to him. He should just be single and hoard his money for himself. But why would he if he can have a low maintenance live-in bangmaid? She needs to leave. He will repeat it on other important stuff and it shows that the marriage will be horrible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 12:55 AM |
| 19 | Is this Instagram activity acceptable in a relationship?Every guy I’ve ever known or liked I used to follow on IG and they always followed a huge amount of local women and they ALL posted bikini pics. A guy I liked for years in high school only used to like photos of women in our grade. It used to make me CRAZY. I used to cry because i did not have many followers like those girls, I did not have a bikini body, and i looked nothing like them. He had a thing for a white women. It is a major red flag to me and it will affect your mental health. He will … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Banned for one comment for “incel/redpill content” on a popular relationship subreddit. Ladies, only use your current account for FDS and nothing else. Scrotes can die mad!Me too, but I felt like this woman had to know. It popped up in my feed even though i don’t follow that sub anymore. Oh well, I tried. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/21 07:13 AM |
| 52 | Banned for one comment for “incel/redpill content” on a popular relationship subreddit. Ladies, only use your current account for FDS and nothing else. Scrotes can die mad!The funny thing is that most of the top comments are saying the same thing as me but I’M the redpilled incel. Scrotes see FDS posting history and go full maniac. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 11:19 PM |
| 122 | Banned for one comment for “incel/redpill content” on a popular relationship subreddit. Ladies, only use your current account for FDS and nothing else. Scrotes can die mad!The comment I posted was for a lady who was concerned because she found out that she was dating a married man and wanted to COmmUniCAte with him. I said, “block and delete him” and I was banned 🤣 now i’ve been banned from two popular subreddits for my “incel” content! Reddit really hates women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 10:40 PM |
| 22 | These NVM ain’t even trying to cover up what they really think anymore… it’s truly sad that their are women that will actually choose to match with these sick men.Ew, he sounds like such a catch 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Banned from r/dating?Yeah I’m actually celibate voluntarily now. Due to lack of good men. Used to be involuntary but I’m kinda glad now. Men will still call me names like I’m a prude. But it’s okay. I don’t wish for all men to suffer like male incels do towards women and society. I just live a peaceful life and don’t bother anyone. Thats the difference between us and male redpillers/incels | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 11:23 PM |
| 8 | Degrees don’t always equate to success. Be on the look-out for Dr. Hobo.The guy I dated last year was doing a hard science Ph.D and had no savings in his bank account bc he spent all the money he earned on his research, either partying or on clothes or something else stupid, and had tens of thousands of pounds of student loan debt. He was willingly broke. Had no plans to improve his financial situation or settle down. Like, ew. He was deadweight to me and I’m lucky he did not start asking me for money or something. Degrees do not equal intelligence or a man who is a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 11:17 PM |
| 3 | Banned from r/dating?I was banned from a very similar one which was also really popular. They go through your post and comment history and rip into you then the triggered moderators ban you for being a “female incel.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 09:53 PM |
| 20 | Grown man with a family asks “what am I left with?” if he can’t move across the country for a jobDespite my dad making six figures, he always had to control all our finances. He bought used clothes and got cheap haircuts and treated himself like a poor man. When me or my mom would splurge when i was a teen, he would shame and scream at me for buying $50 Nike shoes bc he did not buy stuff like that. I have really expensive taste now and i think that came about because my dad never let me have anything I wanted that was new. I was not even allowed to get a job as a teen bc of him that would h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 09:39 PM |
| 31 | This is why you don’t tell men you enjoy cooking 🤦♀️Yeah the ones that say, "WhAT dO YoU BrInG tO tHE TaBLe???" 🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 05:53 AM |
| 348 | Grown man with a family asks “what am I left with?” if he can’t move across the country for a jobMy dad decided to get married at 40 to my mom, their marriage was horrible. He never paid attention to me or my brother growing up - we hated him bc after work he used to yell at us, sit down with a beer and watch football. He hated his career but put all of his time into it and only to make tons of money. When we spent money, he would get extremely angry. Now he is retired, my mom left him and lives with us, and he was forced to move away. He has a debilitating disease and now wants my brother … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 07:14 PM |
| 117 | Response to 40+ yo men who want kids "someday"I don’t think many men have this realization. Majority i know (all LVM) deny needing therapy. They don’t think it will help them. I’m glad your friend realized that early, found help, and got his life on track. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 10:35 PM |
| 72 | Are we starting to see the slow decline of hookup culture? Sisters are waking up…uh oh scrotes 🤭I am not hot and I never had guys hit on me before. Like, not a single one in my 25 years. They all just stare at me like crazy stalkers from across the room. I am also single and celibate. But honestly, not by choice. I used to want to get into hookup culture but thanks to FDS, I don’t want to anymore. Men never approach me. I don’t smell, I am in good health, I look normal, and I’m fit. Idk what it is but, I think if men hit on me back in my pickme days, I def would have gone for them. Not any… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 10:28 PM |
| 270 | Response to 40+ yo men who want kids "someday"Yeah the guy i dated last year said the same thing (but he was 26), “if I have kids someday…” but he was financially irresponsible, wanted to live a backpackers life, had a community dick and had tons of emotional baggage. Like, he will be going after 20 years olds when he is done with his backpackers life at 40, balding, fat, broke, and mentally scarred from his childhood. No thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 07:02 PM |
| 33 | Scrotes flaunting being brokeEw, I work for $8.50 an hour and even I’m not that broke | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 05:03 AM |
| 5 | Stop fucking trying to cancel FDS because of the latest podcast episodeRight. We don’t have to agree with them but we are all women and this serves as a platform for women. I think everyone should keep an open mind when listening to someone. Again, you don’t have to agree with them, but just listen and don’t cancel someone just because you don’t agree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 07:34 PM |
| 80 | At what age did you realize male validation means absolutely nothing?The age I am now. I wasted my entire teens and my high school grades on boys. I had to go to a community college (which is not a bad place) and I watched while everyone else got into good colleges, knew their path in life, and are now in good careers. I got extremely good grades in college and graduated Summa Cum Laude (proving to me that eliminating men from my life allows me to focus on grades), but I still don’t know what my career path would be. My therapist says it is due to the trauma I ex… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 04:57 AM |
| 20 | I think this bad date has potential to go down in FDS history. Woman spends $160 on TACO BELL for bum ass scrote.Wow honestly this sounds like a story where she would be murdered at some point… never meet at a random guys house… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 04:44 AM |
| 5 | Why is it that the men you hoped to never hear from again keep popping up like Lestat from the swamp?Oh this movie traumatized me, so creepy and gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 08:37 PM |
| 344 | If they want to scrutinize your relationships, then scrutinize theirs😂Yeah I’m getting asked that at 24 and I haven’t even figured out my career yet… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 03:42 AM |
| 94 | Never forget that many men live like this 🙊🧼🧹Oh god, looks like a squatter house more than anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 05:44 AM |
| 11 | After all these years he realizes at 57. So all those men realize this when they get old snd deserves appreciation for it? Instead they should have realized at their youth and keep his partner comfortable and loved?! Such a wasteMy mom developed cancer from staying with my NVM father for over 25 years. Only after she recovered did she consider separation because she realized that life is short and he was making her seriously ill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 01:32 AM |
| 116 | Sex without intimacy is boring and low value.I used to think that in my teens that i was a complete loser for not sleeping around. I swore that in college i was gonna be a “cool girl” and sleep around. Thanks god it did not happen for me. I am 24 and have no plans to lose it until i am married after extensive vetting thanks to FDS. I had a gyno actually shame me for being a virgin two years ago, like she legit scoffed at me. It’s so embedded in our western culture that i was brainwashed into thinking i was an ugly loser cause no guy wanted… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 01:22 AM |
| 24 | Repeat after me: WE DO NOT DATE MEN WITH FEMALE BESTIESSo I actually have a male friend and he is friends with most of my female friends. He is in our social circle. He has not slept with anyone ever (he’s a virgin) and he said himself he is waiting for the right lady in his life that he will date. He has never dated any of us in the circle. But right now he is focusing on his career and schoolwork. He sees us purely as friends, and he is never clingy. He is a true HVM. Never leads anyone on if he is not interested. His dad was never in his life and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 05:01 AM |
| 23 | Daily reminder: IF HE WANTED, HE WOULDWow, that is amazing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 04:25 AM |
| 57 | Repeat after me: WE DO NOT DATE MEN WITH FEMALE BESTIESYup. The only guy I ever “dated” last year called me his “FRiEnD.” Even though I was a pick-me, I was insulted. I quickly connected the dots as he wanted to sleep with me (he did not get any) and still called me his “friend” so the other women were hook-ups he kept around too. He had MOSTLY female friends and a female roommate too. He was circling them like his own personal harem. He had so many female “friends” and me trying to be the cool girl pickme early on when I met him was like, “he is al… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 01:53 AM |
| 262 | When are women ready to admit LTR don't mean shit? It's not soft marriage.Oh my god, this makes me feel sick. Absolute degenerates… all the better reason to build on yourself ladies and don’t let garbage into your life because these men are the exact definition of garbage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 01:29 AM |
| 22 | Scrote: I have $7.5 M in assets, my wife has cancer, we have three little kids, if I quit my job I might resent the fact that I never got to my arbitrary $10 M target, I'm thinking of leaving her because the stress is too much for meMy mom had cancer two years ago. It was h*** on earth for me because I had barely any help from my dad and brother. I had to balance college, work, and helping my mom. It was even worse for my mom, obviously. She lost tons of weight and would cry at night. My brother slept most of the time and my scrote dad kept yelling at her and me. My dad would say things to her like, “I can’t stand looking at you anymore.” He would grab her by the arm and haul her to the hospital forcefully for treatments. H… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 07:34 PM |
| 14 | Don't ever get trappedMy dad is financially abusive. Whenever I would buy something nice for myself, using money from my job, my bank account - he would yell at me using the excuse, “its not your money, its OUR money.” they always find a way to make you feel terrible even if you pay for yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 04:27 AM |
| 1 | If ever in doubt, ladies, read this.Poor chicken | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 02:07 AM |
| 312 | If ever in doubt, ladies, read this.These men are sluts, how can you be willing to have sex but not kiss her??? Make it make sense! Disgusting creatures. I’ll stay a virgin than have a guy like this come after me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 07:18 PM |
| 30 | 🙄🙄 let’s idolize a couple that’s clearly miserable!!!Yeah, he looked really upset. It’s hard to see someone look that crushed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 06:14 AM |
| 27 | this girl planned a party for her boyfriend, when it was actually her secret proposal party, and a South Asian dating site wants us to believe it’s romantic. thankfully girls are catching on to this low effort bsYeah, my dad is pretty well-off. Even though he made lots of money he is the stingiest man I have ever known. I never asked him for stuff like toys or games because he would yell at me. I am desi myself. He is the worst NVM. Porn addicted, misogynistic, narcissistic, horrible temper, the list goes on and on… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 04:09 AM |
| 50 | this girl planned a party for her boyfriend, when it was actually her secret proposal party, and a South Asian dating site wants us to believe it’s romantic. thankfully girls are catching on to this low effort bsBrown men have the audacity. I bet she paid for everything too. He better have gotten her like a $10k+ bougie ring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 03:16 AM |
| 14 | This guy I just met on bumble tried to invite himself over. He sent me a shirtless pic after this. 🤣The pornsick man I was dating long distance a year and a half ago was turned on by vibrator use, he needed to know ALL the details… it was disgusting, I felt icky replying to him… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 06:13 AM |
| 31 | Golddigging husband wants hardworking wife to buy him a new PC (so he can undoubtedly waste time playing video games). All the comments were praising him but god forbid if a woman does the same. Men just love to project.Yes. My boomer NV dad is pretty cheap but he always provided. He made six figures and I had a comfortable upbringing in the sense that I never had to worry about food, shelter, clothing, healthcare, or education. He was pretty miserable and angry all the time and took it out on us because he hated his career but at least he was never broke. I can’t imagine the terribleness of my life if he was broke as well as being a raging narcissist. Now that he is retired he still says he will provide. I thi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 06:09 AM |
| 3 | I did this in high school 🤡 and guess what? It did not turn out well. Never doing it again. If he wanted to, he would.“A concerned Redditor reached out to us about you.” mentions a suicide subreddit and that there are resources to help me, its a well meaning system of messages but being used as bullying by scrotes. I will report it as abuse. They actually let me do that, they don’t like people abusing this system! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 04:42 AM |
| 76 | The sign reads “Convince my boyfriend to propose to me.” Harry: How long have you guys been together? Her: 7 Years. Harry: I can’t help you.Oh dang! I might wanna read that. Why the heck did Hollywood turn it into a movie full of pickmes??? I guess that’s what they want us to be! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 04:33 AM |
| 1 | I did this in high school 🤡 and guess what? It did not turn out well. Never doing it again. If he wanted to, he would.Ohhhhh I had no idea! I got a Reddit Cares message today so scrotes are def lurking here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 04:32 AM |
| 2 | I did this in high school 🤡 and guess what? It did not turn out well. Never doing it again. If he wanted to, he would.It’s probably a scrote replying to your comment but he got banned immediately? That happens to me too. Says there are more comments on the post but they never show up. I think it’s people who have been banned from this sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 04:26 AM |
| 278 | The sign reads “Convince my boyfriend to propose to me.” Harry: How long have you guys been together? Her: 7 Years. Harry: I can’t help you.I just watched “He’s Just Not That Into You,” and Jennifer Aniston was in a forever girlfriend relationship for 7 years with deadbeat Ben Affleck (also a LVM in real life), who did not believe in marriage. She breaks up with him because she wants the marriage and then he comes back to her to help her with her sick dad (he was just washing dishes) and she is like, “Ben I want you back, you really care for me.” 🙄 They get back into a relationship and she says, “I don’t need the marriage part, you … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 03:37 AM |
| 4 | Men really out here thinking having a wife is being "romance scammed" in a thread about a "girl" on bumble potentially robbing a guy.My narcissist NV dad hates spending money. Would not buy my mom a thing. Would not let my mom buy plane tickets to see her parents. Me and my brother got stuff but it was always used and cheap from ebay. I learned very quickly on that I needed to buy things myself bc an LVM won’t do it for me. I wanted to get a job as a teen but he would not let me. It was financial abuse. If a man wants to spoil his woman then let it be. I’m all for it. There are other ways to show he cares too without spending… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 06:59 PM |
| 33 | I did this in high school 🤡 and guess what? It did not turn out well. Never doing it again. If he wanted to, he would.The only time I got asked out was for a walking date 💀💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 03:34 AM |
| 53 | Very young woman needs talking through to understand why she should dump older scrote and avoid them in general.She was born in 2001 or 2000 for context, that is a young child, the scrote was born in the early 90s, completely different stages of life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 03:24 AM |
| 28 | “My love language is PhYSiCal TouCh”LOLLLL i’m dead | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 03:14 AM |
| 36 | I did this in high school 🤡 and guess what? It did not turn out well. Never doing it again. If he wanted to, he would.As if we didn’t have enough on our plate as women - men want us to have a good job, do housework, rearing children, birthing them, cooking, have sex readily available, and look good for them. We also got to ask them out too?! Yeah, no thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 10:55 PM |
| 72 | I did this in high school 🤡 and guess what? It did not turn out well. Never doing it again. If he wanted to, he would.I have my narcissist dad’s name as my middle name and his last name, so does my mom. In our culture we kids (plus his wife) take the dad’s first name as our middle name. It actually reminds me of like, cattle branding or something… the man is in charge and his wife and kids are branded so as his property. I’ll remove it someday. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 10:07 PM |
| 66 | I did this in high school 🤡 and guess what? It did not turn out well. Never doing it again. If he wanted to, he would.Ugh that would be part of my deepest fantasies for a guy. My dream man has to do that just as well as me if not better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 09:59 PM |
| 57 | I did this in high school 🤡 and guess what? It did not turn out well. Never doing it again. If he wanted to, he would.Yup, not looking for any men right now. Those men were all LVM. Need to level up some more before I date. Who needs a scrote? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 09:56 PM |
| 41 | I did this in high school 🤡 and guess what? It did not turn out well. Never doing it again. If he wanted to, he would.Yeah girl, I feel that. It was a major cringe moment in my life and I will never repeat it. The guy moved out of the country so I never have to see him again and relive those memories. We both learned something and are on our way to becoming HVW. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 09:55 PM |
| 128 | I did this in high school 🤡 and guess what? It did not turn out well. Never doing it again. If he wanted to, he would.Exactly what happened to me (see my comment). He mocked me so much and spread the news everywhere. It was an ego trip for him. He had asked other girls out during high school with flowers and chocolates and all that, but I still did not get the hint and thought he was interested in me… he is not interested unless he makes an actual effort to ask you out and wants to get to know you. I’ve had so many men in my life appear “interested” but never went after me. I guess I am not the type of girl the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 09:08 PM |
| 434 | I did this in high school 🤡 and guess what? It did not turn out well. Never doing it again. If he wanted to, he would.I was like, “ohhhh he’s such a sweetheart, he is so ShY…” 🤡🤡🤡 he actually had no interest in me, told all of his friends and they would laugh at me as I walked by. He only liked blondes with big boobs. And now he is single af, balding, no job, and hit his peak in high school. I love karma 💅 Edit: I got a “redditcares” message, some scrote got really triggered! Turn off all messages and chats ladies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 07:25 PM |
| 72 | Stay away from damaged goods - porn addictsI dated an addict, three times a day he used to watch porn. Thank god it never went past 6 months and it was long distance so I was easily able to cut him off. I never sent him nudes like he requested and never even visited him in person, thank goodness. He used to twist everything I said into a dirty situation and reference pornographic situations. He even told me to watch porn. I once asked a pickme-like question on reddit about something he used to do and a pickme told to masturbate for him o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 04:44 AM |
| 230 | I think we can all guess how this went down-- Elon must've used his work travel as an excuse to have an "oPeN rElAtiOnShiP", a total slap in the face to Grimes after having his baby!!! Friendly reminder that most wealthy men are LVM who treat women as sex objects and incubators.I knew he would dump her and move onto another young woman, he did not want to marry Grimes and commit to her, just use her as another baby momma. He would not pay for her music career, so the relationship is probably 50/50 too. (Imagine 50/50 with a billionaire?!) Doesn’t he have like 6+ kids, with multiple women? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 11:35 PM |
| 112 | If this is what marriage is then I don't want itLol the scrotes are downvoting my post like crazy. There are some extra comments that won’t show up, so they must be ripping into me. I guess they like the “transactional” system this lady proposes. It only benefits the men. marriage is for the man’s benefit anyways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 10:12 PM |
| 26 | Look at how normalized it is to make ""jokes"" like this...1k upvotes 🤢I wish we could mate with ourselves like a starfish or something… I wish I was an asexual starfish… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 08:35 AM |
| 18 | Dear Nanobot Scientists: Please don’t help lazy Sperm reach our valuable eggs. Signed, Women.I thought the whole point was survival of the fittest? Why would we want a lazy sperm to succeed? Let it die out like nature intended!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 02:56 AM |
| 37 | This insta account is great to see the entitlement that LVM have. (She’s 28 and only matches with old men for science)Same girl, same. Its so thrown out there that i’d rather be extremely picky and find a special guy even if it takes forever. I’ll die a virgin before some disgusting NVM/LVM gets to me. Just buy a vibrator and its so much less hassle lol Also i live in a place where abortion is banned so i’d rather not take my chances… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 10:50 PM |
| 133 | Offered dating advice: now banned permanently from a popular subreddit because I follow FDSI was banned from the most popular relationship advice one, by a ton of men who ganged up on me and then a male mod banned me for “FDS bull**** propaganda.” 😂 i just use this account for purely FDS now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 10:39 PM |
| 114 | This insta account is great to see the entitlement that LVM have. (She’s 28 and only matches with old men for science)Yeah… i am a virgin at 24 and I honestly want to stay one for eternity at this point after joining FDS. I used to hate myself for being a virgin but i honestly think it has saved me a lot of trouble and heartache. My body is mine and I don’t want some LVM to have access to it ever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 08:47 PM |
| 26 | Women need to stop pathologizing themselves and start listening to their intuition with menSuch beautiful women in this world, with their short lives taken out by disgusting, ugly, abusive scrotes like this. She just wanted to travel with her van and live freely. And a scrote ruined it for her and her family. I hope he suffers. I really hope he did not kill himself so he can rot in jail for the rest of his life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 02:43 AM |
| 52 | Anyone notice guys get uncomfortable if you want to stay at home after kids?I have said exactly what you said here on another subreddit and ALL of the people who commented (probs men) called me a gOLdDiGGeR. If i do get to be married to a HVM and he earns good money and I decide to have one kid, I would want to be a stay at home mom. but i guess i’m called a gold digger… like taking care of kids and housekeeping is not work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 09:02 AM |
| 41 | Really worried about the Gabby Petito situation… ladies, please be careful out there.I am sorry you went through that. My ndad used to lock me in the dark garage when I would “misbehave.” Depraved men are everywhere and we are better off without them. I hope those cops suffer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 07:34 PM |
| 33 | I've decided to actively understand Zoomer's clothing styleI love the new oversized trend. It reminds me of the 80s and 90s. Back in the early 2010s I used to wear such tight, low-rise skinny jeans in high school and I don’t miss them. High rise ftw! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 07:30 PM |
| 162 | Really worried about the Gabby Petito situation… ladies, please be careful out there.Dear god, he’s a psycho. Ugly and abusive. Tired of seeing innocent and beautiful women getting abused and neglected by these low lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 09:16 AM |
| 119 | Really worried about the Gabby Petito situation… ladies, please be careful out there.He is actually 23 and nearly bald… disgusting specimen of a man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 09:13 AM |
| 48 | So we all know that men can’t stop talking about themselves, so I wanted to ask you ladies..Well he was not an ex, he was just a guy i dated, I’ve never had a boyfriend lol and I’m glad He said he used to jerk off so much to porn that one of his arms is now bigger than the other 🤮 Me at the time: “……………” He also thought it was hot when women mentioned period products, as if we get turned on by using a tampon, absolutely disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 08:36 PM |
| 68 | Female octopuses throw things at males that want to mate with them and harass them 🤣. This is such a mood.I mean, the male octopus leaves the lady octopus to care for the eggs alone, as once he mates he soon dies after… his sole purpose is to mate and then he dies and is useless. 😂 While the poor female octopus watches over the eggs she starves herself and may even eat her own tentacles and then she will die once the eggs hatch :/ The moral is the males are useless even in the octopus world - they only provide the mating part, but after that the lady goes through hell for her babies… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 06:11 PM |
| 12 | It's 2021 why is it still on women mostly to take birth control? 79% of men think it should be a "shared responsibility" its msyogynisyic that we still have to carry the burden as womenBut but… sHe WiLL TrY tO BabY TrAP YoU FoR 18 YeARS, STaY WoKe KInGssSss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 08:11 AM |
| 23 | "Exclusive" is not a relationship status. You are either in a committed relationship or singleYes! This same thing happened to me but he was long distance so I did not do anything with him, but he was obsessed with sex and would keep mentioning it to me and what he would do to me🤮 I even had to bring up the “exclusive” talk and I was so happy when he agreed 🤡 (this was last year, June, before joining FDS) he would get jealous when I mentioned any guy, even a celebrity or just like a dude I knew… like ugh. I thought it was cute though back then 🤡🤡🤡 Yet he was seeing other girls without me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about Leonardo DiCaprio?Maybe his environmental activism is why celebrities like him? I mean he still has a yacht and private plane and mansions and stuff... so not sure... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Know how valuable you are, PLEASE!I once dropped my brand new iPhone 4 (it was fine) in front of my narcissist NVdad years ago and he YELLED at me so badly that I now grip my phone tightly around him so I don’t drop it... I am really careful with my stuff and never broke a phone screen before but I am clumsy too. glad you have that support, I have never had a man not yell at me before. The lady in OP’s post sounds like she is dating my ndad... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 03:11 AM |
| 147 | Destroy the concept that your teen years are supposed to be fun and once you hit 25, you’re old and it’s over. Some of us had to heal from trauma during our teen years and our 20s (30s, 40s, 50s and so on) and would like to begin a good life without constantly being told it’s too late.My teens were easily the worst times of my young life. I’m still navigating through life, the trauma of my childhood, and I’m now seeing a therapist. And would you believe me when I say that most of my issues in life came from my NV narcissist father and LVM from high school who treated me like dirt? Because of them I did not study, cried my eyes out and wanted to commit suicide multiple times, all while feeding into the narrative that my teens and 20s were supposed to be the “peak” of my life. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 04:33 AM |
| 3 | If a man has a female best friend it is a red flagThe LVM I was dating long distance last year (before I joined FDS) had a HAREM of “female-friends” and he even had a female roommate. ALL of them were super attractive. He would gush over every lady. I did not know it then, but now I know he slept with every single one of them or at least has/had them lined up for something sexual. Disgusting. He would not commit to me so he probably was lining me up too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 09:00 PM |
| 52 | What are some examples of imbalanced relationships that stand/stood out to you in media? I’m currently rewatching Harry Potter for the first time since joining FDS, and I’m finding Hermione’s relationship with Ron… a lot less endearing than I used to 🥴Yup, I wrote this same exact thing on a similar post a couple months ago. I would drop any guy for my dream job in Paris 😀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 03:53 AM |
| 45 | Ladies, we need to talk about this...I already was avoiding men and planning to for the near future but now I will certainly be avoiding them until I get out of Texas. I won’t be getting married here or even casually dating, that’s for sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 08:37 PM |
| 13 | Care to share examples of HV behaviour from the men in your life?-A man helping his wife cook and clean in the kitchen (my cousin) -taking her out to the mall and letting her buy whatever she likes on her birthday or for any reason (my cousin) -regular date nights and trips together (my neighbor) -listening and not talking over the person, deeply considering what she says (another cousin) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 08:28 PM |
| 79 | What's the thing with planning a pregnancy with your boyfriend and then complaining he hasn't proposed yet?The guy I dated once said, "F*** marriage." But he wants to screw every woman alive. Disgusting human being. If a guy ever says "screw marriage," run for the hills. He did not want to define anything either. They wanna run around and have no commitments to anything. He wanted to run away from everything in his life, especially his trauma from childhood instead of getting therapy. The man you describe and this man I dated are both for the streets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 04:01 AM |
| 323 | I…am speechlessLike women are the spawn of Satan or something. “just casually taking a bath in a pool of my own blood, come and join meeeeeee...” 👹👹👹 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 04:04 AM |
| 23 | Dropping truth bombs....I love this woman 👑Thanks to FDS, I actually WANT to be single for the first time in my life. I have been obsessing over being boyfriend-less since 2011 as a teen and it’s amazing to be free of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 02:35 AM |
| 23 | Skip the date rape and just move in. These scrotes actually believe porn can be reality while they capitalize on sky high rent prices and openly take advantage of naive young women. He's even gleefully admitting to not having thought the situation through. Wow.Ew | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 03:10 AM |
| 19 | I thought this exchange was funny. LVM gets triggered over a gif.It is similar to GME again. I am also investing in some of these stocks (a really small amount) but the amount of men who are saying, “I invested my child’s college money in this,” or “I spent mortgage money for this” is really scary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 10:33 PM |
| 47 | I thought this exchange was funny. LVM gets triggered over a gif.This is on a sub that is very bro culture-y, they constantly joke about their wives and their needy girlfriends and how they smuggled money to put into meme stocks without their significant other knowing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 07:46 PM |
| 23 | Had to share this 😩Why would I go on a date with a scrote if this will be the issue? I’d rather go by myself, at least I won’t have to put up with this garbage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 09:33 PM |
| 22 | FDS are female incels 🙄ThEY ObJEcTIfY MeNnNNNnN!!!!1!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 02:57 PM |
| 1029 | What's happening in Afghanistan at the moment is absolutely terrifying. We can never take our freedoms for granted.Taliban rules dictate that women may not wear high heels, makeup, nail polish and must only wear a burqa. All of these excite the men and they must not be heard or seen in society. They cannot laugh out-loud or talk aloud in public. Any pictures of women are banned, anywhere private or publicly. Women cannot even appear on the balconies of their own homes. They cannot leave the house without a male family member. And then of course, they cannot get an education or go to work, or own a business. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 09:15 AM |
| 13 | He’s dumb af if he thinks we won’t be able to pick him outThis guy is the absolute scum of society. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 08:55 AM |
| 47 | Learned the reality of male friends the hard way todayI was talking to a male “friend” where he then proceeded to send me nudes of himself and another woman!!! Like ewwww!!! He even sent me nudes of his then girlfriend too, like that was the most disgusting man I had ever known. He even admitted to me once: “I thought I was not your type, but I was interested in you.” Damn straight you are not my type, sicko. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 02:53 AM |
| 242 | I am so glad I was banned from this sub-reddit so I don’t have to see clownery like this anymore!Yessss, I had a moderator himself ban me. They all ganged up against me on there bc I posted on FDS. They said, “no wonder she is miserable, she follows FDS😂😂😂” I said something along the lines that pointed to me being unhappy with my career situation in a comment on that sub (what does my career dissatisfaction have to do with FDS?). Bad idea. They called me a female incel too. I purely use this account for FDS now and do not comment or post anywhere else. My messages and chat are off. We don’t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 11:29 PM |
| 12 | "Young men without hope, without a path, without anything meaningful to strive for become dangerous to the societies around them."Let’s play a sad song on the world’s smallest violin 🎻 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 09:55 PM |
| 141 | I am so glad I was banned from this sub-reddit so I don’t have to see clownery like this anymore!Girl, I know. sis, throw the whole man away! This was not as boss of a move as you think! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 09:46 PM |
| 22 | You don't need a man to live a fulfilling lifeHell to the yes, sister!!! For the first time in my life after joining this sub a year ago, I don’t desire to get married and want to be a financially successful homeowner by myself! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 09:44 PM |
| 5 | What's a Killer Supposed to Look Like? Matthew Taylor Coleman confessed to murdering his two children, and, of course, reports of the crime have to insist he was an otherwise good guySick, sick man. Those poor babies. Rest in Peace. As you put in the article, the media has a sick fascination with serial killers. I recently saw a YouTube video where it discussed that a lot of young women are going bonkers over serial killers, like Ted Bundy. A lot of teen girls are highly attracted to these men and it seems that the media plays a large role in glorifying serial killers, like for example, playing the handsome Zac Efron as Ted Bundy in a recent film. There was a recent story th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 05:10 AM |
| 26 | The "Rising Threat" of Incels - Daily MailThat’s very true. I don’t understand their definition. I hope it includes being kind to women and not perpetuating violence against us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 02:07 AM |
| 201 | The "Rising Threat" of Incels - Daily MailThe comments on the article itself are good, it’s men recognizing that these incels have a problem and are not real men. There are also women speaking about about the violence against women. One guy said “no wonder women don’t even want to touch them with a barge pole.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 11:28 PM |
| 54 | Violent deranged men be like...I just don’t getttt it- why do women stay away from me 😢Our primal instincts & creep radar goes off for solid reasonsDon’t worry girl, I almost fell for it myself. Luckily, he was long distance, so I got to see the red flags and learn from them without meeting him... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 07:59 PM |
| 176 | Violent deranged men be like...I just don’t getttt it- why do women stay away from me 😢Our primal instincts & creep radar goes off for solid reasonsAnd they say men are the logical sex and women are the emotionally unstable ones 😂 I dated a guy like this - he told me early on about how he was abused by his mom from an early age, he was told he was “a one night stand” and he never knew his real father. He was also kicked out of home as a teen and was homeless for sometime. And then a day after telling me that he was like, “can I see some sexy pictures? 😏” (i did not send any to him) also telling me he would jerk off to porn three times a day… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 07:34 PM |
| 454 | IMPORTANT SAFETY NOTICE: The Plymouth Shooter has complained about FDS. DO NOT DISCUSS FDS WITH MEN. These are males with murderous intentions who desire revenge on women.Wow, scary to see this. A shooting in England really surprised me. I guess if a guy is set on it he will find a way to do it. RIP to all the victims. this guy can go and rot in h***. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 07:28 PM |
| 6 | LVM doesn't want women to be happyNow THIS is what you call an incel... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 05:04 AM |
| 23 | Just some scrotes and pickmes raging against FDS on another extremely misogynistic and sexist sub that still exists (hopefully they are next)!She is also on a sub that constantly demeans women of all ages (like they literally pick apart women’s appearances and call them sexist names) and she has the audacity to say we at FDS hate women?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 07:22 PM |
| 77 | Just some scrotes and pickmes raging against FDS on another extremely misogynistic and sexist sub that still exists (hopefully they are next)!Exactly! I have never seen anything here in my one year of joining encouraging older women to go for a barely legal guy… this sub in the pictures just rips on women’s dating profiles and appearance - especially single mothers looking for a relationship or demanding a better guy. This sub says they are used goods and should not even try, whether it will be casual or serious relationship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 08:50 AM |
| 169 | Just some scrotes and pickmes raging against FDS on another extremely misogynistic and sexist sub that still exists (hopefully they are next)!I know... I can’t even look at a man romantically who is 5-10 years older than me let alone a 20+ year old middle aged man 🤮 she is soooo enlightened | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 06:00 AM |
| 13 | Yet another example of emotional abuse when girls under 20 get groomed and marry older men with significant age gaps. This husband threatens to cheat when he doesn’t get what he wants with his young wife. They have 2 kids…The second one! A moderator even banned me after a few commenters starting bashing me! The complaint by the moderator was, “FDS bullshit propaganda.” I was not even talking about anything FDS related, but all these people had a problem with my post history! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 04:59 AM |
| 40 | Yet another example of emotional abuse when girls under 20 get groomed and marry older men with significant age gaps. This husband threatens to cheat when he doesn’t get what he wants with his young wife. They have 2 kids…I got banned from this subreddit bc they saw I was posting on FDS. Tells you all you need to know with how they feel about women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 06:31 PM |
| 13 | Everyday I am reminded that not starting a family with a scrote was a good choiceEw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 07:39 PM |
| 6 | Well done Germany on blocking Pornhub. Hopefully other countries will follow their exampleWon’t people just find other ways to get porn then? I agree with this but there would still be a long way to go | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 10:34 PM |
| 2 | John Lennon was a horrible man.I wouldn’t be surprised. What song was it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 02:37 AM |
| 7 | John Lennon was a horrible man.Finding all of this out makes me wanna delete all the rock music in my playlist now… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 08:56 PM |
| 17 | John Lennon was a horrible man.Picasso has overrated art anyways. But yeah, you are exactly right. He was a nasty individual. I think these men are still glorified today because they dead? So they became like, immortalized? Ugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 08:43 PM |
| 3 | John Lennon was a horrible man.Well… the age of consent is 16 over in England (not sure if it was still back then), but yeah, it’s still totally wrong. Barely legal girls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 08:40 PM |
| 10 | John Lennon was a horrible man.Ah man. I really like The Beatles. That’s disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 05:11 PM |
| 8 | Lily Allen - Not Fair 🎵‘Smile’ is a great song too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 04:58 PM |
| 135 | John Lennon was a horrible man.Of course John had to think the song was about himself… ugh. Nice explanation I did not know! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 09:20 AM |
| 82 | John Lennon was a horrible man.🤮🤮🤮 I actually don’t know who Iggy Pop or Jimmy Page are and I am glad I did not! And in the last one, she looks like she is 10, no joke. I guess I need to keep looking into the 70s. Edit: is that Jimmy Page’s daughter? Does he have kids? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 09:02 AM |
| 38 | John Lennon was a horrible man.Just because Lennon wrote that song and confessed he used to hit women does not mean that his past behavior gets absolved. I don’t actually see any improvement in his character after this song/album was made. He continued cheating, taking drugs, abusing his son, and being a hypocrite. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 08:58 AM |
| 71 | John Lennon was a horrible man.oh what the heck, the caption on that photo is sick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 08:42 AM |
| 53 | John Lennon was a horrible man.Yes!!! I forgot to mention the specifics. But yeah, huge credit to Paul for that one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 08:34 AM |
| 57 | John Lennon was a horrible man.It's honestly not said much. He is so glorified that you kinda have to dig for all of this information. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 08:32 AM |
| 7 | Western Desi women marrying men from "back home"I am an American with relatives in the UK and I am also brown. I find that many brown women here marry an Americanized brown guy. In the UK, a lot more women and men looks towards their native country for a spouse. It’s a bit strange to me. Lots of people fresh off the boat there, too. I wanted to move to the UK but I would never marry a guy from India, I think they just would be interested in me bc of my American citizenship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 09:08 PM |
| 7 | Why do men leave yellow stains on the sheets?My sheets are yellow due to age, but I wash them every week... they are 10+ years old. The books and white t-shirts in my room are turning yellow as well, not even being used. I live in a hot and humid area and my dad hates the AC so it gets super hot and I get sweaty. He would not let me touch the AC... Buuuuuut when men have yellow stains it’s probably sweat and bacteria turning it yellow 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 05:26 PM |
| 26 | Coming to terms with my pick-me pastI agree. I guess I also stayed one bc I was afraid of my dad finding out as a teenager. I would still be afraid of that haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 07:32 AM |
| 10 | This is what happens when you marry a Scrote and do the 50/50 thingThe age gap too... ugh she is my age and she is doing 50/50 with an older scrote 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 06:35 PM |
| 164 | Sex should never put you in hospitalDear lord, society (porn) has really conditioned women into believing violence against women is normal and even sexy. Plus the fact that any man who would treat her well or kindly is just a “simp.” Men all berate their buddies if they treat a woman kindly as a “simp.” Porn turns their depravity into entertainment. Anyone liking “normal” stuff is “vanilla...” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 08:25 PM |
| 1 | What are some tell tale signs a man is into porn?I knew a guy who straight up admitted to me he watched porn at least three times a day and told ME to start watching it. It was vulgar. He always tried to make situations sexual and was asking me all kinds of uncomfortable questions. He referenced OnlyFans a lot and would make jokes about sex all the time. He had no shame and was proud of watching porn. He said he jacked off so much when he was a teen that one of his arms was bigger 🤮🤮🤮 I can’t make this shit up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 08:04 PM |
| 68 | Guy I was dating left me at 4 am alone in the middle of the city to go rescue his ex. WTF?Most dudes are hung up on their ex or “first love” or “the one that got away.” I don’t want to be second rate to anyone either. You did the right thing. They have the audacityyyyy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 12:20 AM |
| 161 | If he wanted to, he wouldI bought a Prada bag for myself, I was super excited about it and my brother scoffed at it and said it looked gross. nobody else will get it for me and that’s fine. But the LVM need to always bring you down a notch. This guy is great. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 06:18 AM |
| 31 | Men actually hate us. I found these comments on a video where they complain that women can’t find ‘economically desirable men’ and they tell men not to get married.Omg, I’m sorry. I now get relatives commenting that I am “next” to get married. They try to recommend ugly brown dudes for me to marry. (I’m brown too.) Hell to the nah. I guess it has begun. Many indian men just grow extremely ugly and old, sit on the couch with a beer watching tv and scream at their wife to cook something. My dad did this for thirty years and my mom just got up and left. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 05:07 PM |
| 64 | Men actually hate us. I found these comments on a video where they complain that women can’t find ‘economically desirable men’ and they tell men not to get married.Girlll, that killed me! Sad little peanut hahahaha 🥜🤏🏽😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 02:58 AM |
| 128 | Men actually hate us. I found these comments on a video where they complain that women can’t find ‘economically desirable men’ and they tell men not to get married.I will be 25 in another year and I guess we are lucky in the sense that pedophilic men won’t be going after us anymore because we “reached our peak” 🤢🤢🤢 that man in that comment straight up admitted that most men like em’ barely legal. I’m surprised that he did not say 18-24 instead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 02:51 AM |
| 3 | Wife and mother is "starting to feel taken advantage of" by "exceptionally smart" husbandI have money in AMC and Gamestop - but not lifesavings or anything. If it pops, great. If it takes a while, I’ll hold and sell when I don’t lose money. The amount of men who are like, “I sold my entire portfolio and put it into GME but my wife was against it” or “I used my child’s college funds for this” or “I used my down payment money for this” is INSANE. They have developed a gambling addiction and it hurts their family. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 01:59 AM |
| 375 | Men actually hate us. I found these comments on a video where they complain that women can’t find ‘economically desirable men’ and they tell men not to get married.How is a woman who is 25 “over the hill?” But as a young woman, I’m supposed to consider a middle-aged year old man who is balding, has a beer belly, and divorced with grown kids. Apparently bc they “age like fine wine” and “don’t have a peak” like women? 😂 they are delusional! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 01:42 AM |
| 156 | Men actually hate us. I found these comments on a video where they complain that women can’t find ‘economically desirable men’ and they tell men not to get married.Too many comments to count complain about how many women want men who make over 100k and a lot of them are clearly angry because they do not. Thus, calling most women ugly gold diggers and “used goods” if they have standards and preferences. Also they are complaining that most women have let themselves go because of feminism and “wanting equality” and therefore, they don’t deserve to have a good looking man who earns a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 12:56 AM |
| 18 | As she should !A guy joked that I was gonna be an “escort” when I said a mentor on campus offered me a job at university. So sick. She has every right to be upset. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 12:39 AM |
| 40 | Red Flags that indicate he doesn't see you as a fully autonomous personMy dad did all these and more. He said I am bad with money, but then he would spend a ton of money on clothes, snacks, alcohol and other things. It’s the hypocrisy with narcs and the need to control every aspect of your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 07:17 PM |
| 1 | "If England gets beaten, so will she" when england loses a football match, the figure for domestic violence surges by 38%. Even if they win, it goes up by 26%.I was sad about the result. But regarding how toxic the English fans are, they really deserve to lose. Beating up women and throwing racist abuse at Marcus rashford and other young black players is not okay!!! The better team won. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 05:31 PM |
| 78 | In this thread: Hundreds of LVM and Pickmeishas squealing to the high heavens that an elite 23 y/o woman at a top tier university will NEVER find a high paying, traveling job post graduation, and should shut up and be a compliant wife and mother to boring old scrote who trapped her in her youth. 🥴🤮I dated a guy who just wanted to travel constantly. The difference here is that he wanted to be a broke backpacker and change his job every year in a different country. He did not want stability and wanted to spend his money all on travel and live in an RV. He did not want to settle down until he was old and ugly at 40 (what young woman would do that with him?! He will have no house or savings). He was just running away from his issues and he should have seen a therapist instead. I ended things … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 05:26 PM |
| 3 | The Four Tolkien LVM Characters and What We Can Learn from Them, Part 1Excellent analysis. I should read LOTR. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 04:58 PM |
| 25 | This just in: telling men to be productive family members makes them suicidal.My brother walked to the gym at 8 PM. Our gym is like 2 minutes away, so the walk is fairly short. By the time he walked back it was pitch black outside. I told him to take the car next time because it’s not safe. He mocked me and said, “we live in the safest neighborhood ever, why don’t you walk there?” I looked at him and said, “no way, not taking a chance.” He just scoffed at me. I’m 90 lbs and short, anyone could scoop me up and run away. The privilege that men have in situations like this i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 02:07 AM |
| 25 | THE LOWEST VALUE MEN ON TELEVISIONI noticed this before I joined FDS, I just hated the guy. When something bad happened to him, he was like, “hEy! i’M a NiCe GuYyYyY wHy dOeS thIS hApPen tO mEEEee” I thought he was pretty cute in the first two seasons (albeit a little spineless), and then once he and Rachael took a “break,” he became so disgusting and LV. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 07:08 AM |
| 104 | THE LOWEST VALUE MEN ON TELEVISIONI hate Ross from Friends. He’s the stereotypical “nice guy” who thinks he can do whatever he wants to any lady, screws over multiple women, and still gets Rachael in the end. SPOLIER: Rachael got a fancy job at Louis Vuitton after ALL her hard work in her dream career and she gave it up for ROSS?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 01:28 AM |
| 16 | We hit over 160k! Thanks for driving traffic here, scrotes.I got banned on a very popular subreddit because someone had an issue with my posting history on FDS. My post on that subreddit was not related to FDS in any way! And here’s the kicker - a moderator banned me!!! Angry scrotes exist everywhere, ladies. I won’t be shamed into giving up FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 08:48 PM |
| 44 | Let's keep going against the system Queens!This is a great movie!!! It’s called English Vinglish by the way. Against the odds, she learns english all by herself and proves her husband and other people wrong!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 01:07 AM |
| 9 | My aunt had FDS principles for decades. I used to think she was a crazy spinster. Now I realize that she is right about everything.I am vegetarian myself. I want to be vegan. Maybe I can be when I live on my own! Serious props to you! But yeah, there was one guy I knew who used to eat like a steak every day, and made fun of me for being vegetarian. He was seriously interested in me and I was so disgusted by him. He just ate red meat, cheese, drank beer and had a dad bod at 21 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 03:48 AM |
| 44 | Men Who Have Inconsistent Communication Will Eventually Ghost YouI dated a guy last year (the only guy i ever dated) who would take DAYS to reply to me. He would go 2-3 days without messaging me. He once went 6 days and it would drive me insane. NEVER. Again. NEVER. His excuse was that he was “with friends” or “traveling.” He never showed me to any of his friends or family after six months. I blocked him on every app after he did not respond for like a week and half. He ghosted me and he won’t get the chance to re appear. I bet he would’ve by now if I did not… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 02:57 AM |
| 14 | My aunt had FDS principles for decades. I used to think she was a crazy spinster. Now I realize that she is right about everything.She lives in the UK! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 06:48 PM |
| 1 | GUYS!! his girlfriend found FDS and left him‼️ 👑 😎Dear god... that’s vile and sickening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 04:15 AM |
| 15 | It’s lowkey empowering to embarrass old scrotes that try to approach you lol.I’m actually lucky because zero men approach me. Like, they never do at all. Old or young? I’m not complaining, I just wonder why? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 05:33 PM |
| 27 | I am losing faith in humanity, and by that I mean the “man” part of it.I can’t exactly remove all contact with him yet bc I am financially dependent on my father right now. But once I have a career, things will change. I do the grey rock technique a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 09:16 AM |
| 72 | I am losing faith in humanity, and by that I mean the “man” part of it.My dad is a full blown narcissist, but I still call him daddy. Idk, daddy is a term I called my father from a young age and nobody else gets that title. It’s just weird. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 08:04 AM |
| 93 | I am losing faith in humanity, and by that I mean the “man” part of it.That’s exactly right, I couldn’t understand why I was very creeped out by women saying it to their boyfriends (and not their fathers), but after I read your comment, I understand where it stems from and it all makes sense now. I once dated a guy who asked me if I liked to call men “daddy,” bc he thought it was really hot. (Surprise: he was a porn addict) I just stared at him bc I never thought of doing that and grossed me out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 05:34 AM |
| 493 | I am losing faith in humanity, and by that I mean the “man” part of it.I call my father “daddy...” and I’m in my twenties... I hate when women call their boyfriends or husbands “daddy,” it’s just so creepy, especially when I call my own father “daddy.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 05:24 AM |
| 103 | Indian scrotes discussing what they’d ask women before an arranged marriage. The audacity.I think even when I was 12 I was pretty hairy LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 10:40 PM |
| 195 | Textbook example of LVM we talk about here, I think we need to rescueShe has much more brains and self esteem than i ever had, especially if she is in her teens. I was a pickme supreme in my teens | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 07:19 AM |
| 537 | Textbook example of LVM we talk about here, I think we need to rescueEDIT: She dumped him!!! I believe she is a very young woman. In an update on this same post! He said “you can’t just break up with me,” and she said, “you should have thought of that when you compared me to a porn star.” An actual QUEEN!!! She needs to join FDS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 04:37 AM |
| 98 | Textbook example of LVM we talk about here, I think we need to rescueI can private message you the post if you like | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 04:10 AM |
| 15 | Multiple red flags in the original post, but this follow up though..and they say we are the emotional ones 🤔I commented on this post. I don’t think she’ll see it but dear god, why are so many 18ish year olds going for men that are in their late 20s or older?? Age gap relationships freak me out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 01:44 AM |
| 17 | Anybody see thisI had no idea this existed. My faith in men was really low since I joined FDS but now it got lower... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 01:42 AM |
| 51 | Scrote's GF can't meet the same standards as his anime sex dollI SAW THIS and it just makes me cringe so hard | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 01:33 AM |
| 11 | They won’t listen when women say it but hopefully a man saying it will get the point across! Also so many losers in the comments upset about this!More men and male teens need to speak up about this. If they won’t listen to women about it then maybe their own? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 09:18 PM |
| 16 | Henry VIII's wives if they'd never met himHis last wife was married to an old, decrepit version of Henry who had oozing sores and disgusting body odor, plus he was one his death bed. I think their age gap was like 20+ years. Gag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 04:49 AM |
| 2 | Once again, from the horse’s mouthMen wash their face with body wash and use body lotion for their face and call it a day... some may not even moisturize their face... they would think skincare is “gay.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 10:06 PM |
| 19 | I felt this. Love and life are so much more than your relationship status.I LOVE this art!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 07:47 PM |
| 5 | (Not my post) but my own dad told me to use this strategy to weed out the losers, and here it is working!Jeez, how narcissistic can a person be??? He should be grateful he got any woman to talk to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 10:42 PM |
| 4 | Men are most attractive in their 20sHe keeps dating women in their early 20s... and he has a potbelly and double chin now...... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 01:22 AM |
| 1 | OnlyFans is an experiment in mass grooming teens into a Sex Work Pyramid Scheme, for which most of them will NEVER see more than $180Oh, I had no idea. I’ll look into it. I retract my statements. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 01:01 AM |
| 5 | OnlyFans is an experiment in mass grooming teens into a Sex Work Pyramid Scheme, for which most of them will NEVER see more than $180Bhad Bhabie or whatever her name is should not have become famous in the first place... she was a rotten teenager at the time and made millions with a rap career. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 03:19 AM |
| 29 | I hate Adam Sandler’s films.Yup, Adam Sandler portrays the typical LV male who feels that he deserves a hot woman, like a commodity. That’s what I wanted to show in this post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 06:31 PM |
| 35 | I hate Adam Sandler’s films.Seth Rogan is vile. So is Jonah Hill. I saw Superbad and had to turn it off half-way through. The only guy I thought was funny was the guy who was McLovin, he was hilarious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 06:25 PM |
| 6 | Of red flags and scrotes.Brown men are absolute garbage. I see this crap on Humans of Bombay all the time. These posts just make me wanna run so far from Indian men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Image being so addicted to porn that you associate winged eyeliner with being a c*msl*t... DisgustingMy dad said this to me many times when i would wear leggings... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 06:11 AM |
| 45 | If he walks faster than you in public, DUMP HIMMy dad does this to my mom and I - one of the biggest traits of a narcissist. And then he yells at us to catch up. Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 05:35 AM |
| 7 | How to be emotionally abusive 101Look at how many views and upvotes it has!!! Clearly some other degenerates are watching it and agreeing with him!! Sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 09:57 PM |
| 25 | YikesI wish i wasn’t straight | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 07:31 AM |
| 4 | The Peter Pan “momma’s boy” is a Narcissist tooThe LV guy I was dating last year had an abusive mother. She kicked him out of the house as a teen and verbally abused him. He seemed to be a sweet guy just down on his luck with a rough past. But he was porn addicted and did not want to commit to me, because of the “women who hurt him.” His ex dumped him too (good for her). He knew alllll the sweet words to say to me. And then he would disappear for 3-5 days and not even text me back. He sounds like he had this syndrome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 06:01 AM |
| 28 | Ladies, I present to you MENA menI was visiting the UK and I saw a lot of brown and middle eastern looking dudes (I’m also brown) emerging from a club early in the morning... I asked my aunt, “aren’t these guys not allowed to drink alcohol?” She said they have their “fun” like drinking, partying and sleeping around before its their time to get married... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 05:50 AM |
| 7 | That’s some ice water level refreshingDamn! I knew he only dated young girls, but 25 being the cutoff is really crappy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 09:49 PM |
| 270 | That’s some ice water level refreshingDang, a young guy saying something like this? You don’t see this much among guys in general, they literally all watch porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 05:36 AM |
| 11 | Honestly I need a full series of this: a modern Cell Block TangoI love this!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 05:23 AM |
| 9 | Ladies make sure you are stable before you go into the unstable dating world.I read somewhere that the more unstable you are with low confidence, poor self esteem, etc., You end up attracting men with negative energies that match yours - personally, I found this to be true, last year I attracted a garbage LVM who talked sweet words to me. Because of my low self esteem, he kept me around by telling me what I wanted to hear. Not dating until I get my shit together and bring high level confidence to the table ONLY. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 07:10 AM |
| 13 | A question to FDS members: why do you think there are women who are against FDS?I have a confession: I made a Pickme type post in February or so. FDS copied my post on here and tagged my name. The members of this group ROASTED me, and I was quite upset. But I started to look into the group some more, and by August, I had joined FDS and started thinking like a member. Sometimes it's denial. I denied that FDS was good in February especially after I got roasted that day. But after I started lurking, it opened my eyes. I needed that wake-up call. Sometimes, others need it too, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 01:02 AM |
| 9 | The lows you stoop to to get picked.I threw up in my mouth a little | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 12:48 AM |
| 11 | Y'all, they literally don't stop 😂 I've already posted here a couple days ago with a screenshot from their sub about the rings people are posting 🖕This is the most cancerous sub in existence. Honestly just a bunch of incels. Good on this lady for getting her dream car and traveling. Why do they have an issue with something like this? It’s such a silly reason | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 08:23 PM |
| 8 | Just let him goYou’d think a Ph.D STEM student at a reputable university in the UK would not be this stupid. But he was as stupid as stupid comes. At least freeloading in the Caribbean sounds more achievable lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 08:05 PM |
| 14 | Just let him goI’ve always wanted to go to Iceland, it looks beautiful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 08:00 PM |
| 10 | Just let him goHe told me when we met he just wanted to move to the US for one or two years to experience it. Then a few months later, it turned into “I wanna live in the US, Canada, Japan, Australia, Singapore...” etc. Good luck getting visas to stay in those countries, sweetie. Those are some of the hardest countries to move to. Especially if he jumps around from job to job each year. Nobody will hire him, lol. He only wants to work for specific companies as well. His head was up in the clouds. Plus he has a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 07:58 PM |
| 59 | Just let him goWow, that's crazy. He wants to travel the world even though he has 5 kids? he obviously is not taking any responsibility for them. What a deadbeat. I totally agree with you, I'd like to go on a vacation once a year or something with my husband and enjoy that way. I'd want stability. I don't blame the guy I was dating in a way for not wanting to join the 9-5 daily grind, but his idea was too extreme. He wanted to jump from one research job to another each year (was a Chem PhD student) and "do res… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 06:30 AM |
| 173 | Just let him goI have posted many times about myself dating a guy who wanted to travel the world for like, 10+ years. He wanted to be a single bachelor and probably screw with foreign women until he was 40, then return to his country to settle down, looking for a woman 10 years younger than him to have kids with him. He will be ugly, fat and broke by then. I knew the moment he said this, there was no future with him and that he was a completely immature idiot. Since then, I’ve been really weary of men who say … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 06:09 AM |
| 5 | I love the “Here’s my hand with my new ring I bought myself” pics. This is my “here’s my hand with the keys to my new house I bought myself!” pic. Resolve to evolve, sis! Here’s to our new year!I’m only 23, and I have no career to speak of yet, but I’m gonna make it a goal of mine to be a homeowner by 35 bc of this post! ❤️ congrats! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 07:28 AM |
| 115 | Found this on Twitter, sooo many LVM mad in the commentsIt seems like every dude I find on Bumble either has a really bad job or is trying to become a youtuber/rapper. At least in my area, the guys with the careers at my age are far and few. I’d be called a gold digger for saying that too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 05:24 PM |
| 93 | Iggy Azaelea’s NVM picked videogames over being there for the birth of his child 🤡Playboi Carti is a garbage man with garbage music. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 07:26 PM |
| 4 | No this isn’t fucking funny- it’s an example of how LVM behavior is perpetuated within familiesYup, I wish I could. My parents force me to tie it for ”tradition.” He is one cheap mf, just like my dad. He’ll YOLO money on stocks but not give his poor sister 5 bucks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 09:05 AM |
| 4 | mAyBe hE’s JUsT tOo dEpReSsEd tO wIpEOh. My. God. 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 05:26 AM |
| 13 | I just realized that "nOT aLL mEN" includes male family members and I'm floored.This. My dad is the worst narcissist ever. My brother is also a LVM. Because of this, I tend to have a thing for the quiet men who are respectful to me - but just because they are respectful or just show a shred of decency does not mean that they are HVM. I am not dating bc I don’t want to put up with that garbage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 04:49 AM |
| 2 | No this isn’t fucking funny- it’s an example of how LVM behavior is perpetuated within familiesMy brother does the same thing. He won’t even give me a bit of money for a brother/sister ritual we have in august. I tie a bracelet around him and give him protection. in return, he’s supposed to give me some cash - he won’t even give me $5... my neighbor gives me $20 when I do it... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 04:41 AM |
| 5 | I really hope this isn’t real but it wouldn’t surprise me 🚨🚨🚨One of my mom’s friends’ ex-husband did the same thing - he would throw pebbles at her window to talk to her in the middle of the night because he was not over her divorcing him... she got a restraining order on him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 05:36 AM |
| 53 | 🤢🤢🤢It is in the r/AgeGapRelationship subreddit... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 07:27 AM |
| 7 | As soon as I hear he watches porn, I'm no longer interested nor attracted.The guy I was dating was pornsick as well. He had to turn every little thing sexual. He jerked off like two or three times a day and even told me to watch porn too. He said his ex broke up with him because she thought he was using her for sex. Makes sense, honestly. And he was a very educated, well-liked guy to many. Disgusting. Glad we never did anything together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 05:27 PM |
| 5 | Being single is okay!I feel this. I spent most of my life seeing other really pretty girls go out with their boyfriends and it made me feel so undesirable. To this day I feel sad about it and I’m nearly 24. I’d really like a boyfriend but with the amount of LVM out there, it’s really not worth it. I’d rather enjoy being single than crying and losing sleep over nervous attachment to some LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 06:48 AM |
| 52 | Sigh...... block and delete. She made a logical conclusion at the end and still wants to keep him around?!This happened to me (pre-FDS), a guy wanted nudes from me and I immediately told him no. He was a LVM for sure, but at least he backed down on it and never asked again. I thought it was disgusting and it bothered me everyday while I knew him, and whatever we had did not last long after that bc of a different and much worse reason. Imagine if someone threatens you for not sending nudes and makes you feel uncomfortable!!! - and you still wanna keep them around?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Lovebombing, money laundering, gaslighting, obsessiveness, and classic narcissism. These LV men will rob you blind and literally destroy your life if you let them.After this guy I stopped dating too. I need to focus on myself. No nervous attachment from me to some guy who gives no craps about me - I’ll pass. I agree with you, it’s common advice but FDS drills it into your head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 04:39 AM |
| 15 | Lovebombing, money laundering, gaslighting, obsessiveness, and classic narcissism. These LV men will rob you blind and literally destroy your life if you let them.Yeah - glad she decided to share her story so others reading it can understand what red flags look like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 06:16 AM |
| 24 | Lovebombing, money laundering, gaslighting, obsessiveness, and classic narcissism. These LV men will rob you blind and literally destroy your life if you let them.Each paragraph has a new red flag! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 06:12 AM |
| 11 | Lovebombing, money laundering, gaslighting, obsessiveness, and classic narcissism. These LV men will rob you blind and literally destroy your life if you let them.Yeah, I do feel bad for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 06:04 AM |
| 39 | More thoughts on OnlyFans—the lasting consequences of your choices > demanding everyone else agree with them (LONG)Plus, being a cam-girl has a shelf life. What other skills do you have once you inevitably get older and men start flocking to the younger cam-girls? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 04:35 AM |
| 2 | Facebook Dating Chronicles: Good men exist like Lawrence who feature a terrified woman about to be eaten by a monster male! I just CAN NOT, omg is this real life?! 🤣💀🤣What the actual f*** is this photo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 04:32 AM |
| 24 | What’s the worst pick-me song of all time?“Age Ain’t Nothin But a Number” by Aaliyah. Not sure if it’s pickme, but it sure is creepy considering R. Kelly wrote it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 05:50 AM |
| 2 | This is what I imagine who most of you ladies here have to deal with. "The sex" lolOkay, this has to be a troll! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 05:36 AM |
| 9 | This honestly is super toxic and I cannot believe all the comments are like, “this is true love ❤️❤️❤️” nah sis.she probably paid for everything too. I thought this Indian guy would love to move to Finland to reap the benefits of a Scandinavian spouse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 06:42 PM |
| 6 | This honestly is super toxic and I cannot believe all the comments are like, “this is true love ❤️❤️❤️” nah sis.dumping her while she was suffering with health issues and coping with living in a foreign country at the same time - the depravity of these narcissists knows no bounds... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 06:39 PM |
| 8 | This honestly is super toxic and I cannot believe all the comments are like, “this is true love ❤️❤️❤️” nah sis.girl, for real!!! If I made it to finland and got all the benefits of a Scandinavian first-world country, no crusty Indian man from across the world would take it away from me! (I'm Indian btw and and I don't need to leave my city to find an abundance of them) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 06:37 PM |
| 17 | This honestly is super toxic and I cannot believe all the comments are like, “this is true love ❤️❤️❤️” nah sis.The fact she flew to INDIA. Not to mention how expensive and long the flight is. I’m Indian myself and I would never drop everything to go to India for some Indian guy. Yuck! I can find a narcissistic love-bombing Indian man down the street! Oh yeah, she’s pregnant now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 05:11 PM |
| 22 | Do you think that a lot of women identify as asexual, demisexual, or are completely uninterested in sex is because of how male-centred and degrading sex is portrayed in society?Virgin here. Hookup culture has always bothered me. In high school I really wanted to “lose it” but could never bring myself to that point. It was good that no guys were actually interested in me otherwise I would have done some pick-me stuff. I was already a huge pick-me but I think just “getting it done with” would have really destroyed me. Porn is so sick and most men watch it. My dad even watches it. Disgusting. When I daydream its mostly about innocent things like holding hands and cuddling… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 05:57 AM |
| 17 | The comments are all declaring this as emotional abuse, but the girl who wrote this is not listening to any advice...Yeah... some comments were saying this could be a troll post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 11:17 PM |
| 5 | I don’t have much experience sexually, and I don’t trust men with that knowledge.That’s a good argument. Why does it matter? Who cares? I wish I didn’t have to have the label of “virgin” but it should not define me unless I let it. Virgin is used as such a detrimental word in media. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 07:12 PM |
| 2 | I don’t have much experience sexually, and I don’t trust men with that knowledge.I agree. I knew it would cause an unhealthy obsession if I choose to do it. This guy was chubby and he took his shirt off once and then he was like, “you know you like it.” 🤮🤮🤮 NO SIR | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 07:08 PM |
| 1 | I don’t have much experience sexually, and I don’t trust men with that knowledge.Hi, I feel the same exact types of insecurities when it would come to a first time scenario. However, if the person was high value, that stuff would not bother them, as if they were disgusted by you or something. Only a LV guy would treat a normal smell as disgusting or have an unhealthy fixation on body hair or something. I never planned on telling the guy I was a virgin. I didn’t even want to talk about anything sexual with him for a while. He brought it up so many times and really kept persis… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 07:29 AM |
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