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[–]ItsFreezenFDS Newbie 93 points94 points95 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
r dating admitting there "Not interested in keeping women safe".
[–]munissaFDS Newbie -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“Whoa whoa whoa, when was this ever about the safety of women? I only care about how I’m getting sex with the least amount of effort I can get by with.”
I’m pretty sure I’ve been banned by r / dating a longgg time ago for “spreading FDS ideals” or something like that but it seems like they removed FDS in their comments/reasons probably cause they realized that by doing so they are promoting our sub.
[–]shockingupdateFDS Newbie 32 points33 points34 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah, I got banned sometime last year. We’re just sooooo toxic and sexist over here, swapping notes to avoid abusers and gassing each other up
[–]XNjunEarFDS Newbie 78 points79 points80 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
never knew that sub existed. so anyway...
[–]naps-seductivelyFDS Newbie 152 points153 points154 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
This happened to me as well, some time ago. I had never participated in that sub, wasn’t even subscribed. But not 2 minutes after I commented on a post in FDS (something totally innocuous) I got banned from the above citing the same. There must be a mod from that page trolling FDS, just waiting for us to participate so they can ban us from their terrible sub. Must be nice to have so much free time on their hands 🥱
[–]TERFSareawesomeFDS Apprentice 46 points47 points48 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's hilarious. I'm glad I never spend any time in those stupid male dominated and sexist "dating subreddits", I'm sure they would love to ban me and many others but they'll never have the option. What pathetic clowns.
[–]TurquoiseCephalopodFDS Newbie 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I think I've posted there a few times. Howeverrrr I'll choose FDS over that sub any day. It works out for women tho! They'll ban us and it will become an echo chamber of tactics and advice that don't work 🤣
[–]Surrealisticslumbers[S] 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah, it was super weird, as I recall only making one post there and it wasn't "blackpill" or in any way controversial or inflammatory. I am subscribed to the FDS subreddit as well as subreddits dedicated to both the asexual and demisexual experience - again, not seeing how my involvement in these spaces equates to violation of r/dating's policies. I think the mods who run that subreddit just have their panties in a twist or something. It was just so bizarre and out of nowhere, and I feel I did absolutely nothing to warrant it.
[–]TurquoiseCephalopodFDS Newbie 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's because they're male moderated 🙄
[–]QueenAlice3FDS Newbie 40 points41 points42 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Did you try commenting on posts that the women need to coMmUnIcAtE? They really like that over there…
[–]Surrealisticslumbers[S] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Haha... I think I literally just asked advice on how to find compatible partners who were also interested in what I was interested in, which is a committed relationship. It wasn't phrased in an embittered or negative way at all. Short, sweet and to the point. Only like three users replied. So I have no idea what I did that warranted a ban. I am subscribed to this subreddit and some other subreddits dedicating to asexuality and demisexuality, but these aren't hateful groups? Personally I find the whole thing as humorous as it is bizarre.
[–]Suspicious_Bad_5178FDS Newbie 36 points37 points38 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, me too. Honestly I couldn't save anyone on that subreddit anyway so it's fine.
[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dating sub can’t handle the heat over here🔥🔥
[–]Catz10000FDS Newbie 36 points37 points38 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol! This made me laugh. How can they ban you from dating? Don't know why I took this literally...
[–]honestlyidkfrFDS Newbie 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Insert “oh no! anyway” meme. LOL all the main dating subreddits exist solely to pander to male feefees and peepees, you’re not missing out.
[–]OrangeyPandaFDS Apprentice 21 points22 points23 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Or generally sexist content"
looks at their subreddit
Lol ok.
[–]Khentiamentiu42FDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The male lifespan is conciderably less than a woman's, statistically, we are all going to die alone, might as well have fun getting there by not putting up with this bullshit.
[–]CoconutJasmineBombeFDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Meh, happed to me as well. Don’t really miss it.
[–]crapcakes0987FDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I was banned from a very similar one which was also really popular. They go through your post and comment history and rip into you then the triggered moderators ban you for being a “female incel.”
[–]TurquoiseCephalopodFDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Lmaoo nothing involuntary about the celibacy. We do it on purpose. Or...you could make the point that it's involuntary because there's no decent men around. Better than being attracted to all of them and still not getting any 🤣🤣 die mad scrotes
[–]crapcakes0987FDS Newbie 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah I’m actually celibate voluntarily now. Due to lack of good men. Used to be involuntary but I’m kinda glad now. Men will still call me names like I’m a prude. But it’s okay. I don’t wish for all men to suffer like male incels do towards women and society. I just live a peaceful life and don’t bother anyone. Thats the difference between us and male redpillers/incels
[–]TurquoiseCephalopodFDS Newbie 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't wish suffering on them, I try not to perpetuate it, but if they bring it on themselves I'm gonna enjoy the shit show 🤷♀️
[–]inlovewithaloserFDS Newbie 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ahh, yes. The ol’ ban from a sub you didn’t even know about. You are officially one of us now. 😹😹
[–]chinchaslythFDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’ve been banned too bc I subscribe to FDS. So lame.
[–]hdost34FDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yes I made some vanilla comment and was immediately banned. They’re banning people that are a part of this community. I would say that’s discrimination.
[–]_HEDONISM_BOTFDS STRATEGY COACH 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep. I’m banned from there and from the dating advice subreddit.
[–]LR_todayFDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same.
It's the same here, but with actual bad subs.
[–]pukubr 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
well you gotta remember reddit is predominantly male dominated, so our strategies are a "threat" and hate speech against them. I am just sad for the women who are censored from seeing FDS stuff as it can save them a lot of trouble.
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[–]XNjunEarFDS Newbie 78 points79 points80 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]naps-seductivelyFDS Newbie 152 points153 points154 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]TERFSareawesomeFDS Apprentice 46 points47 points48 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]TurquoiseCephalopodFDS Newbie 6 points7 points8 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Surrealisticslumbers[S] 4 points5 points6 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]TurquoiseCephalopodFDS Newbie 9 points10 points11 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]QueenAlice3FDS Newbie 40 points41 points42 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Surrealisticslumbers[S] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Suspicious_Bad_5178FDS Newbie 36 points37 points38 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]modernmedusaaRuthless Strategist 8 points9 points10 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Catz10000FDS Newbie 36 points37 points38 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]honestlyidkfrFDS Newbie 7 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]OrangeyPandaFDS Apprentice 21 points22 points23 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Khentiamentiu42FDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]CoconutJasmineBombeFDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]crapcakes0987FDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]TurquoiseCephalopodFDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]crapcakes0987FDS Newbie 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]TurquoiseCephalopodFDS Newbie 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]inlovewithaloserFDS Newbie 10 points11 points12 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]chinchaslythFDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]hdost34FDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]_HEDONISM_BOTFDS STRATEGY COACH 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]LR_todayFDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]pukubr 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link