Just a quick note - my friends are all serious pick-me’s. I am also a rehabilitated pick-me. I grew up believing that I should give up everything for my man, he can watch porn, he can have many female friends, he can earn less money than me, we can be 50-50, all of it. FDS turned all of my beliefs upside down, and changed me for the better.

I dated a porn-addicted scrote in 2020 long-distance, who was broke, mentally unstable, short, and manipulative. After posting a vomit-inducting pick-me post on Reddit, an FDS member copied my post and all the members ridiculed me and tagged me in it. I was humiliated and angry. I posted garbage about FDS for a while, but after lurking on FDS, their posts spoke to me, and hovered in my head. I slowly realized this guy was LV. I ended things with him, still offering to be friends, where he ghosted me soon after because he could not get sex or nudes out of me. FDS changed my life.

Since that experience I’ve deleted my dating apps and want to be single until my late 20s or possibly 30s. Don’t care about my biological clock. My friends can’t take it, I speak negative about men all the time. I have an abusive, nvm narcissist father. A lot of men in my family are lvm. My brother is slowly turning into a narcissist. I simply don’t see enough about good men. I don’t. Especially not in my personal life. I’ve been beaten, yelled at, ignored, laughed at, locked up and just plain abused by men in my life. I’m not a bad person, I believed I deserved the abuse for a long time. Until I joined FDS and realized… it’s just because of unstable and cruel men.

There are examples online and in history, but I’ve never met a good example - at least not well enough to confidently call them a HVM. So when my friends remind me “nOt aLL MeN” after crying about abusive boyfriends and fathers, I find it hard to believe them.

One friend even told me I was jaded. JADED. I’m jaded because I want to protect my womb, earn money, live peacefully, look beautiful and be FREE because I don’t want a deadbeat LVM latching onto me??? Wow. This friend lets men use and abuse her and it’s sad. She gets ghosted all time and cries about being single. She earns a lot and is very intelligent. When I talk about the depravity of men, she attacks me and tells me “not all men reeeeeee.”

I don’t know how my friends go about with their lives, constantly crying about some ugly guy on OLD they knew for a month who ghosts them. I don’t want to suffer with them. Yes, when I date again, I’ll have to sift through the garbage. But thanks to FDS I’ll be kicking them to the curb if I get the ick or see red flags.

To any scrotes reading this and laughing at me, saying I’m gonna be a spinster for the rest of my life - i don’t mind being one. I’ll earn money and be at peace without lvm. You won’t get your hands on me. My womb, my youth, and my life will never be yours to own and control. Die mad.