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| 1 | FR: Gaining MomentumMy experiences with online game over the last 6 weeks: Basically I am a noob when it comes to online game. I have avoided it for a few years now because my initial attempts had such horrible results. I realize now though that this is an avenue worth pursuing and actually improves my IRL game as well. GETTING MATCHES This is obviously a huge potential barrier to entry into online game. If you don't get matches you can't talk to any girls. On Tinder I found that I started out getting a decent amou… | /r/seduction | 05/04/20 01:10 AM |
| 1 | FR: Gaining MomentumSome thoughts I have on sexual dynamics in relationships. I would really like to keep a sexual frame maintained during basically ALL aspects of a relationship. To me this is what keeps "the spark alive" and makes both of us continue to invest our energy. This is where chemistry comes into play. There needs to be a basic "reaction" between the two that can be elicited at any given time. This could be from a simple butt smack while you're walking to a tone of voice that really gets her going. Thes… | /r/seduction | 21/03/20 04:59 PM |
| 1 | FR: Gaining MomentumI'll admit I'm pretty annoyed right now that everything is shut down and I can't go to clubs this weekend. I had enough of a break over the winter and I just want to get to it. The only aspect of game I can work on for the foreseeable future is text game. I have difficulty with this because it's so counter to what I've spent the most time learning in game which is sub-communication. With text game the words are all that matters. In person I can just say "Hi" and it's on, with texting it's a whol… | /r/seduction | 20/03/20 10:22 PM |
| 1 | FR: Gaining MomentumThe whole dominant dancefloor tactic is something that I'd really like to get good at. I think it's so powerful because the sub communication is so clear. It's like, "I'm a Man, I deserve this and you should be grateful for the opportunity". The problem with this though is being congruent with it. Being sexual and being nervous are at complete ends with each other. Doing this approach should be with TOTAL confidence and assumed positive outcome. I would say keep trying playfully if she declines … | /r/seduction | 16/03/20 10:00 PM |
| 1 | FR: Getting back into itI'd also like to note how much of a turn off nerdiness is. I've been in a social circle with this really good looking girl that made me go... "damn!". I recently got the opportunity to talk to her and it was such a let down! She had a really nasaly voice and her vibe was very "sharp" and not girly at all. She had a pretty decent nerd posture going on as well which I had previously given a pass on. The reason I bring this up is to highlight the importance of qualifying. It helps to attract girls … | /r/seduction | 12/03/20 03:30 AM |
| 1 | FR: Getting back into itI'd say this is good advice for people who are advanced. Beginners and intermediates don't have the calibration or inner game to pull this off. | /r/seduction | 11/03/20 10:18 PM |
| 1 | FR: Getting back into itI'd also like to mention that I've been conciously trying to focus on the positive aspects of the night instead of the negative. Inevitably there will be parts of the night that didn't go so well but there isn't much reason to focus on them other than brief acknowledgement for calibration purposes. I think that focusing too much on the negative aspects will force you to assume a bad outcome when approaching. Focusing on the positive is much better because it makes you want to go out more. It's s… | /r/seduction | 09/03/20 02:31 AM |
| 1 | FR: Getting back into itI also wanted to add how awesome it is just to be around a party environment. It's such a mood booster. I was feeling kinda down both nights before I went out but came back feeling great. Today I feel so confident, my voice is clear and none of my problems seem like a big deal. Going to clubs really just makes life better. | /r/seduction | 08/03/20 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Ways I've Been Socially ConditionedCheers 🍻 | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 04:47 PM |
| 0 | Ways I've Been Socially ConditionedInteresting story! | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 04:46 PM |
| -1 | Ways I've Been Socially ConditionedThere is a small niche for Grandma porn so I would say to an extent it is a matter of taste, yes. | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 04:42 PM |
| 1 | My Progress in Game So FarI agree that there should be some level of education for social skills available. I don't think it should be because guys have to make the first move though. Education for social skills should be available for people who are on or near the autism spectrum. These people are also almost entirely men and end up having much more difficult lives than should be necessary. | /r/seduction | 02/01/20 10:27 PM |
| 1 | How To Explain Game to the PublicSolid explanation! | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Building an awesome lifestyleAbout two weeks ago I just felt completely exhausted. I went into full recovery mode and I'm still there really. I stopped exercise, going to church, Meetup events, etc. The only social activities I'm still participating in are dance classes and hang outs with my closer circles. Since this has happened I booted back up my daily meditation practice. I gained a significant clarity of mind over the winter after attending two extended meditation retreats. I didn't have much motivation to practice da… | /r/seduction | 23/11/19 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on the FMAC ModelThanks! Where is the material where he goes over this model? | /r/seduction | 04/11/19 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on the FMAC ModelBefore you get into the things to say I would look at your non verbals first. If these aren't done properly everything you say will fall flat regardless of how good the material is. For example eyes too wide, leaning in, nodding head excessively, turning head too quickly, speaking too quickly, uncalibrated opens, etc | /r/seduction | 04/11/19 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on MasculinityI agree we don't exactly know what the social dynamics were in those times. This post isn't supposed to be a thorough scientific study. Who cares if some people think that many pre-agrarian human societies were matriarchal? Women don't respond sexually to men who are submissive. That argument isn't relevant to us because we know it doesn't get results. Science belongs in the lab. Players belong in the field. | /r/seduction | 27/10/19 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on MasculinityWell said! | /r/seduction | 27/10/19 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Beta GameI do both. Long game is good to have while you're working on short game to keep you from going dry. You can also learn how to apply each style to each other and refine your skills more. | /r/seduction | 26/10/19 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on Beta GameIf you're coming from the standpoint of someone who can reliably pull from clubs than yes, long game is a lot more work. If you're someone who isn't capable of pulling from clubs or has never before, then short game is a lot more work. | /r/seduction | 26/10/19 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on Beta GameI've never tried getting a coach. I have thought so far that the majority of my sticking points are inner game related which takes time to work on. Getting a coach doesn't seem like it would help with that. | /r/seduction | 26/10/19 02:51 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on Beta GameI've never heard those terms but fast vs slow sounds better for sure. A mix between alpha and beta is definitely best for long term. I'm sure there are people who are able to develop rapid attraction in less than years I just haven't met any. They are probably so rare that they should be considered outliers. | /r/seduction | 26/10/19 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on HumorI agree humor is good. The point I was trying to make was that you shouldn't TRY to make a girl laugh. It should just be a result of saying what's on your mind. The key to the joke you reference is that the guy is able to sexually escalate properly. If he was just funny you would have laughed a lot but not actually done anything. Inversely, a guy who knows how to sexually escalate but isn't overly funny will get laid regardless. Therefore sexual escalation is more important than being funny. | /r/seduction | 25/10/19 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on IdentityAspie stare definitely sounds bad. As you experiment with different styles you get a better idea of how it works. Ie looking away breaks tension, narrowing your eyes signals focus, looking over their shoulder shows disinterest. You can understand a lot about the other person by looking at their eyes as well. How big are their pupils? Do they blink a lot? How fast do they blink? Can they hold eye contact? Do they roll their eyes? Are they widened? Do they have the sparkle? There is an insane amou… | /r/seduction | 23/10/19 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on MeditationI'm very skeptical of people who say they practice mindfulness without any serious meditation experience. From my own practice I didn't have any real understanding of what was going on there until after the 5th day of straight practice on my first retreat. That was after I did 6 months of 20 minutes a day previously also. Maybe different people have a different "default" clarity of mind. Yes, that is a rudimentary understanding of how the practice I've done works. Your version of mindfulness sou… | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Building an awesome lifestyleWhat happened this week: I'm aiming to have at least ONE social occasion to attend every day of the week (outside of work and exercise). Currently I go to a board game night, salsa class, church discussion group, church sermon, and clubs on the weekend. This usually gives me around 4 of 7 days with an activity to participate in. Yesterday I sent out an application to join an axe throwing league so we'll see how that goes! I'm also trying to get something going involving ping pong. During the wee… | /r/seduction | 22/10/19 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Building an awesome lifestyleMy current situation: I go out to clubs on Friday and Saturday. My game is gradually getting better. I've tried a few different ways of talking to women, learned about body language, how to project different frames, voice tonality, dancefloor game, opening groups, the difference between high energy and low energy game, social media and sexual escalation to name a few. This has all improved my self esteem a LOT. I carry myself well now and actually look forward to social events now. Understanding… | /r/seduction | 17/10/19 11:17 PM |
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