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| 1 | Escort to get over ED?If your attractive enough to get multiple chances , you should be attractive enough to say your a virgin and still have sex. For ED , if you're using condoms, you want to jerk off with a condom. Almost exclusively. The smaller the better . You then want to cut out 99 % of porn. when your with a girl you want to build up to sex and give yourself time to relax. You should be able to overcome ED if it's purely mental by focusing on being touched and the methods above | /r/seduction | 21/03/25 04:37 AM |
| 1 | How many women do you approach at bars weekly?Honestly same. It's terrible ☹️ I have a bad habit of not approaching as much as I should when I'm out at clubs. I need to do better . | /r/seduction | 10/03/25 05:48 AM |
| 4 | Guys… you can be a caveman you knowYeah. I'll refine the messaging and say women are adults . Adults are generally ok with the concept that someone might want to sleep with them Some adults are emotionally stunted and react in extreme ways to someone presenting the idea of sleeping with them but most people will tell you no if they're not interested. | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 06:15 AM |
| 3 | How to purposefully date for sex?No offense if she feels MAJORLY unsafe or NEEDS a way out she probably won't come over in the first place. Women should feel like they can tell you no and go home or they should feel attracted enough to you that they disregard some of their safety I think you should probably turn her on before plainly talking about sex if possible but it's also possible to talk about sex in a way that turns her on. Either way it's a viable alternative. You'll have a lower success rate but you'll also end convers… | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Mentally scarred from going out aloneCollege clubs are rough because people can give you a bad reputation in that college . Id try to go to different clubs and avoid that place Once you do that, avoiding that crowd should be easier Then you should be able to convince yourself that those people's opinions won't cause much harm to you | /r/seduction | 29/01/25 11:44 AM |
| 1 | What keeps you going after all the L’s?It's still interesting to push past my flaws And I've had tastes of success I want to replicate ( unhealthy motivation but it's true ) Once it's not interesting to me I'll stop meeting new women | /r/seduction | 29/01/25 11:38 AM |
| 2 | What Spot's Work the Best for Cold Approaching?The next towns over Travel to different towns , cold approach at their bar / club scenes and their malls | /r/seduction | 05/01/25 06:42 AM |
| 4 | How to maximize approaches at mall/ other places?The ideas I’ve thought are just staying at a location for 30 min, getting numbers, dipping, going to next likely place with women my age, dipping, so on and so forth. Nah this is pretty much the best approach. It does look shadier but you are shady for less time . Also you're way less likely to get seen by the women that you already approached approaching other women If you go to the mall 6 pm everyday then you'll start to see the same people and get noticed. ( If it's a dead mall if it's busy a… | /r/seduction | 05/01/25 06:40 AM |
| 2 | What healthy advice do you have to not feel bitter and jealous of successful guys, especially ones who are younger than you?went to comic con and an anime con last year and saw so many beautiful nerdy girls in cosplays. I worry that even if a girl like that was in my bed, I wouldn't feel any sense of accomplishment, excitement, joy, and affection. Why ? | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Do women get turned off if you tell them you really like them?Hey, I just wanted you to know I really like you and I've enjoyed spending time together. I want to keep seeing you." It's a lil needy but if she likes you it won't matter. It could be a last straw if you're barely hanging on | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 02:15 AM |
| 7 | Extreme flakiness from girls on the appsI’m 27 and newly back on the dating scene. I’ve been using all the major apps (Bumble, Tinder, Hinge) and the common theme I encounter on all of them is that girls I match with either don’t reply, or stop replying after 1 message. These are pretty average girls too, if we were together physically in a room for a party I don’t believe I’d have this much trouble connecting with them at all. Yeah the app matches mean so much less now. You should focus on moving things off app ASAP without coming of… | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 02:13 AM |
| -2 | Euphemism for sleeping togetherWell at least on this sub People love to avoid directly talking about sex and want to sneakily suggest it in these coded ways. so it's not a dumb question. I just think it's not really that important. There are probably women that would only agree to have sex with you if you " just make it happen " without making them acknowledge outwardly they want to have sex but i think people ( on this sub and old pickup community people ) greatly exaggerate the number of women who operate this way. | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Where can I find some old courses of RSD or Old dating coachesGo digging on forums . Subreddit is too mainstream for pirates ( usually ) | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Does opener matter?Opener matters but if your " normal " in that environment ( which usually means above average in looks compared to other guys there. Top 40 % maybe ? Or assumed normal but virtue of you being there in the first place like a paid event or high end club. ) then you can say normal things to start a conversation . What you gave was an example of being normal. If you're not considered normal ,then each sentence will carry you to getting more and more seconds to prove yourself | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 04:31 AM |
| 0 | Why 'be yourself' is the best AND worst advice in your dating life.Nah " be yourself " means "Be a combination of attractive or desirable traits you can maintain over long periods of time " People who are schizophrenic are their raw authentic selves but being schizophrenic is unattractive so it doesn't translate to being good with women. But I will say it's better to be open about being schizophrenic if you can't appear normal for long periods of time. If you can just mask . Do it and tell people later down the line. | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 04:26 AM |
| -10 | You’ve got a better chance at a Rave than a Bar/clubIt's not borderline predatory it's straight up predatory You're taking advantage of an environment where people are on drugs and / or assume other people are on drugs. Women have their guards down because of the drug culture there. It's good if you just want to fuck but also good if you want to fuck and don't mind blurring the lines of consent or don't care about consent. It's also good if you want to rob or hurt people. 🤷🏿 I think your initial clarifying comment that drug culture is the main re… | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 04:21 AM |
| 0 | How to avoid asking questions that feels like an interview?The boring questions are fine. You just have to expand on them . Asking more " why " questions can help but it also can be intimidating. Honestly you're better off worrying about getting a date as soon as possible. The small talk is a bonus Especially on a dating app | /r/seduction | 29/12/24 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Feeling uncomfortable around women i find prettyI'm usually scared that i have to act differently to keep their company. Which is partially true but I'd rather be myself and lose them then try and be prim and proper while walking on eggshells all the time. When it comes to eye contact I'm " bad " at it but I usually tell them why I'm not looking at them instead of trying to play it cool | /r/seduction | 29/12/24 02:08 AM |
| 3 | I got 8 numbers but 0 dates ! WTF am I doing wrong ?If your getting a ton of ghosting with numbers then you pushed somebody to give you a phone number that was undecided or didn't like you in the first place. People are busy yes but not busy for people they like. Most people know how to show interest unless they're under 21 and extremely anxious. My personal issue was that I used to be pushing everybody to give me their phone number. Its technically better odds to have more phone numbers than less phone numbers but you'll end up with 10 - 20 phon… | /r/seduction | 14/12/24 01:51 PM |
| 2 | If you’re not the best at cold approach, find a wingman who is.If they are better at game and near your looks level then it's helpful for your game. Otherwise you're just gonna see girls react very positively to somebody over you. Going out with good looking guys is better for your results but YOU'RE the ugly friend. Don't think you magically got better being around them in group settings . You'll get more pussy by circumstance for sure tho. A better solution would be to hunt for wings while you're already out. Your mission would be to go to a social event … | /r/seduction | 04/12/24 06:46 AM |
| 6 | Did I just get the friendzone of the year?This was brutal to read. It's almost intentionally manipulative how much she says the exact things to make you feel like you had a chance while clearly demonstrating you don't have one. Im usually man bashing and calling men out for not being understanding but she contributed to both of you being in an unsafe situation. Im sorry but it is very human to feel extremely frustrated and dejected after getting rejected for sex 3 times in the same night with mixed signals . You wanting to leave is perf… | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Quick Visits to Bars, Does Staff Notice?What's the worst case scenario of staff not liking you in their establishment or girls not liking you ? | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 04:11 AM |
| 15 | If a girl wants a relationship but you want to have her as a fwb, how and most importantly when do you tell her ?looking for a relationship with the right person This means there is a chance if a relationship When I turned them down, sometimes they would get angry. And you basically said " I would like a relationship with somebody but not you. " Which hurts people's egos. It's a harder rejection because it's personal. Not in the " I know everything about your personality and it's bad " type of personal, just that whatever she has going on around that time doesn't make you want to be with her. Its almost be… | /r/seduction | 30/11/24 11:36 AM |
| 10 | What is being sassy as male and is it a turn off or a turn on for females?Online its usually used to make fun of men who argue or match the energy of rude women. It's a sexist framing for sure. In person you would definitely want to make sure they're not just trying to sneakily call you gay and insult you. If they're genuinely calling you sassy without the insult then it just means your stubborn or talk back Alot. | /r/seduction | 30/11/24 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Should Autistic Men Not Even Try?Really good observations. .I kinda see the trend | /r/seduction | 28/11/24 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Should Autistic Men Not Even Try?You sound like you have a debilitating form of autism which is well , debilitating Yes. You should give up on dating in the normal sense. You can find women in autism support groups or autism group homes but I wouldnt expect to find a partner through traditional methods . Focus on possibly getting better every year and doing less and less with assistance. Don't give up on easing the burden of your caretakers over time. If you can get your hygiene to a decent standard and you can hold down a job … | /r/seduction | 28/11/24 11:46 PM |
| 2 | What is too nice? Or what’s the difference between a nice guy and regular hood dudeHood dudes can be nice guys too. They just have their guards up sometimes | /r/seduction | 28/11/24 01:21 AM |
| 1 | How to get more girls and NOT be content with waiting to get luckySame day lays are overrated. It's just a numbers game. If you want the power to walk out of your house and bring a girl over for sex everyday then id give that dream up . You need extreme volume to even consider that If you're able to do 40 to 50 approaches a day then it's more realistic but still won't be an everyday occurrence. If you're talking about just being able to cold approach, you can start out making small talk with women a few times then you can ask them out nervously. Once you get u… | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 05:00 PM |
| 1 | How to be interesting? I'm starting to think this is the biggest missing puzzle piece for seductionMost context I've seen it used in has been really basic. The intent was to understand contrast. You can correct me if I'm wrong but I doubt it | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 08:05 PM |
| 2 | If your goal is to meet a woman and start a family in the near future, would your strategy change?Yeah id lead with the fact that your looking for a wife and go into screening for traits that make a good wife. In person. Id also try as much as possible to do traditional dating where you're paying for the woman's meal to attract the most traditional woman. The idea of " game " where you're doing specific actions to make yourself more likely to sleep with the other person should pretty much be avoided. You want to be as much of yourself as possible. | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 05:16 AM |
| 2 | Afraid I won’t find someone betterOh that's an actual deal breaker. I know I basically said men need to endure but someone else's kids are not something men should put up with just to be with someone. Parenting and children should be taken seriously and you should only co-parent under situations you're 1000% comfortable with. Women with kids are package deal. If you don't like the kids leave her. If you don't like her but you love the kids leave her. The alternative is to ask her to give custody of her kids to their father to co… | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 04:10 AM |
| 2 | How to be interesting? I'm starting to think this is the biggest missing puzzle piece for seductionYour correct. You have slightly interesting hobbies but the goal is to connect and find middle ground with the person . So many girls like reading and would want to go in depth with you about that. You can talk about why you like nature and the pros and cons | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 02:16 AM |
| 0 | How to be interesting? I'm starting to think this is the biggest missing puzzle piece for seductionReally basic comedy and story telling For example, exaggeration. You can say you almost died after eating taco bell You didn't almost die but it's funny to say that you did to emphasize how unpleasant the experience was. References You can refer to particular popular phrases or trends to show you are culturally aware . Example You could say they're eating the dogs and cats in a trump voice in response to someone saying they have a dog or cats Pua push pull In the old school days this was revolut… | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Afraid I won’t find someone betterNow I’m thinking, at this time, I need to be single for awhile. Being in a relationship is presenting some new challenges and I need space to think about them, or to be alone temporarily, while I formulate a plan and get on track. I need to work on myself in a few more areas. What challenges? Mental stuff ? Work related things ? But…I’m short, bald, and sort of broke. I don’t own a house, or have anything in savings. I have anxiety and so much awkwardness speaking with people. For these reasons … | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 01:13 AM |
| 1 | How many of you fake being into things like astrology and tarot cards to get laid?Not anymore. I stay silent when people mention dumb things. Otherwise I'd be arguing with everybody all the time about everything. It's not gender specific Edit : after reading the comments I'll admit that not liking astrology can be fun conversation because it's " manly " not to like it Playing on gender roles and a tiny bit of sexism is ok for most conversations | /r/seduction | 24/11/24 04:40 AM |
| 2 | Voice & Tonal lessonsYes. It'll be worthwhile. You can look up tutorials on YouTube for the basics and then get some coaching with a professional speech therapist. I used to say all the info is free but I have no idea if self help is a normal trait. It sounds like sarcasm but I don't know if regular people have the capability of training a skill without another person feeding them the answers and correcting their mistakes quickly. Or at least positive feedback in a community like setting. | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 06:32 AM |
| 2 | Anyone wanna send a pre-selection text?This sounds like a service that could be sold so I'd look into paying for it. | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Intimacy adviceJust be serious. Don't let them laugh their way out if it That sounds like super annoying dynamic so you'd want that to change at the end of the conversation. They have to agree to acknowledge your advances as advances and give a clear no or the relationship is over. At the very least. But the clear no could still be coded. It just has to be agreed upon Like if you both agree hand on the chest means no then it's that. | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 03:41 AM |
| 10 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?The most important thing is that it takes 2 dates to get laid. I agree. but, If it takes you talking to 300 women to get 2 dates and you're only talking to 2 to 3 women a day then it can take you 3 or 4 months . The most important thing is to not fumble the opportunities you have THEN the next is to try and see how you can increase the number of opportunities. Im asking questions to see where the issue is | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 03:34 AM |
| 55 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?3.5 months ? Sounds about right. You'll improve over time but it can take 4 months of work to get one lay 3 or 4 lays a year is probably what the average looking guy is capable of. About how maybe women have you talked to ? How do you look ? | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 02:49 AM |
| 3 | How to play it with a girl I datedOh. Then id probably give the clear the air girl 30 - 60 mins to talk then id leave for the other girl. Ex: If you block out 5 - 6 pm and she shows up 540 then give her until 6 then leave. | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 02:42 AM |
| 1 | How to play it with a girl I datedTo be clear you want advice on scheduling 2 dates back to back? In the same day ? | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Compliment on looks or compliment on her style/vibe?If you want more sex based relationship ( doesn't mean it can't be long term ) her looks. If you are screening for more of an emotional connection term, her style/vibe . But if you actually like her style , don't be afraid to comment that along with a looks compliment for more sex based arrangements | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 11:39 PM |
| 1 | How are you using frame control?I am but I'm not. I like arguing so I can argue with like 90 % of women in a fun bantery way. But that's legit my personality. I like confrontation. I could list out argumentation strategies but if you don't want a mouthy woman then it's not worth it. You're just gonna end up resenting her. Frame control is kind of a terrible way to describe having consistency in your statements and actions. This is important but I wouldn't describe it as a specific thing you do . It's a thing to keep in mind. F… | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 04:54 AM |
| 19 | What improved your first dates the most?Being autistic af. I wouldve said learning to touch was the best thing for me but honestly it's not being afraid to touch that's more important . You don't have to make risky touch moves if you don't want to If I don't understand what to do or I want to do something I'll just ask the girl. It's obviously less " sexy " but I think most women have enough legit bad experiences where some guy saying they want to put their hand on the leg isn't the worst outcome for them. If they like you they'll obl… | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 03:44 AM |
| 33 | Sex on the first dateThe Woman decides if you will have sex. It's usually a conscious choice that can be slightly influenced by your behavior. That's why I always say people need to find out if the women wants to have sex with them. Anything else is like frosting on the cake Alot of good cakes need frosting but it's not a cake without the baked part. | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Can approaching girls in the street lead to a relationship?Yes. But you have to approach with a relationship in mind. Best bet is to invite them to a formal date or take some time to text them to get to know them . | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 05:21 PM |
| 6 | Women Can Tell — Or Can They, Really?One thing I noticed lately is we men even believe that women have this spider sense that they can tell whether a guy is a creep or a weirdo. I don’t even know where this belief came from. Yeah this is dumb . Women like men who they like. People think women develop some sort of extrasensory perception as soon as they turn 18 but nope. Just like when you were kids , girls are biased and will handwave bad behavior from people they like while ignoring good behavior from people they dislike | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 05:18 PM |
| 22 | praising girlsLearn the difference between praise kinks and degradation kinks Girls aren't a monolith | /r/seduction | 18/11/24 01:41 AM |
| 4 | ALMOST got a THREESOME, ALMOSTMaking out is fine but at some point you gotta pull the trigger and ask them to come home with you. That's my 2 cents | /r/seduction | 17/11/24 06:13 AM |
| 6 | The girl my friend was pursuing chose me insteadYeah just seems like you made a hasty call that wasn't true . I understand if your friend is salty but you both learned from it | /r/seduction | 17/11/24 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Seeking advice about app that simplifies logisticsYour app can be replaced by typing " cheapest motels near me " on Google maps or they can set a custom filter in a hotel app but Men on this sub are lazy so id say go for it anyway. I think you can use Google API and people will still use the app. Can spend minimal time and attention working out logistics during the date (where you being distracted shopping for a hotel, or navigating the booking app, could cost you the pull) Why would sex be that time gated ? The only way I could see this happen… | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Some thoughts about Daygame and ways to make it easier?So this means my average close ratio is 5%, I need to approach 100 girls to sleep with 5. I don't know how to say this but you're doing fine. 5% close ratio is better than PUAs ( Guys on YouTube who coach men how to get women for a living. ) 5 percent is 1 out of 20 So all you have to do is talk to 80 women a month to sleep with about 4 women a month. This is not the average guys experience at all . Keep in mind 8 Dates Had sex with 5 of them, they were all at least a 9 and one was an 8. The num… | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 06:12 AM |
| 1 | The Case for Dating AppsYeah you're pushing me in the generic profile direction. I was using a very explicit hookup profile and I think the algo killed my reach I can start tinder again in january so we'll see | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Got stood up by my managerCool. good luck | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Got stood up by my managerYeah. This is the awkward part of dating coworkers Just pretend it never happened and move on to someone else. As the employee you're allowed to give the cold shoulder to her | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 09:48 PM |
| 9 | For fast sex you need to be escalating fastThey basically expect you to be kinda funny and making jokes etc but otherwise pretty much emotionless towards them and basically just wanting them for sex. I agree 1000 percent. There are mature women that can handle a guy being nice and just wanting to fuck but for most women you have to be a lil cold to get the point across | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 08:20 PM |
| 1 | How do you gauge or respect someone else’s comfort level with touch? Are there ways you’ve found to make touch feel more consensual and comfortable?Just ask | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 07:24 PM |
| 16 | How to make the conversation more sexual?High disagree but I'm used to it on this sub. Everything outside of grabbing her ass/ boobs or kissing doesn't mean much in terms of touch if your trying to figure out if she's sexually interested in you. She could just be a touchy person or comfortable with your presence. You touchers ( I'm just trying to give a funny name for the type of people who think like this ) don't have good tools before kissing and touching the boobs / butt to differentiate these things. I don't count bringing her to y… | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 06:29 AM |
| 8 | How to make the conversation more sexual?Pretending the woman is sexually interested in you or an easy lay is the best way to start out. ( A hoe , floozy , dtf , sex girl etc... whatever word you use to describe promiscuous women who like to fuck different men ) You can adjust timing and language to come off more pleasant but ultimately it's best to accept that it's a conversation ender for women who aren't sexually interested in you. I might be too old but have you ever been in a community with a hoe ? It's sorta like that . Your stil… | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 06:16 AM |
| 11 | How do you know when a girl wants you to touch her or kiss her?i was dancing with a girl at a club, and she put my hands on her boobs. does that mean she would be open to more touching or kissing in the future? and that she was attracted to me? OOF buddy that's rough. I'm used to cringe but that was cringe to read. Yes a woman putting your hands on her boobs means she's open to touch because she initiated it. Rather aggressively i had a girl i was friends with and we talked a lot and hungout a lot, one time we were at my house and we were in a hot tub, and … | /r/seduction | 13/11/24 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Indian Guy Transforms His Profile To Get Massive ResultsBefore photos https://drive.google.com/file/d/1f6-adPtORT7X7MryZzW93a9Uvu1g1MKS/view?usp=sharing This profile is probably a 4/10. It’s not the worst profile on tinder but he doesn’t look great in these photos either. In addition, it gives off a very strong “FOB” “Indian” vibe. The gym photo and maybe the navy shirt photo are decent tbh not the worst . After Photos https://drive.google.com/file/d/1pWPZMMOGJgYzr_Sv-SSkqyNd6Ui3DUzd/view?usp=sharing Boom. His profile has been upgraded to an 8 or 9 /… | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 03:11 AM |
| 16 | Stop beating around the bush for that kissNext, sexual. The vibes are right, body language, proximity, simple. You don't have to ask to kiss her but it's fine to do it if you're unsure. One thing I might say as a gateway to kissing is "Now that we've exchanged numbers", we should move to the next step. A kiss on the cheek". I have never had this fail. Turn your head and let her kiss your cheek. After she does, just compliment the feeling of her lips and she'll be giddy. Then reciprocate a kiss on her cheek, ask her how it was. 9/10 time… | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 02:53 AM |
| 5 | How do you find hookups?Im not the best at hookups but basically you have to be sexually attractive to overcome the negative of only wanting sex. Women would rather have 100 male " friends " who cater to her every emotion , spoil her and flatter her ego than another dick to suck. Men would rather have 100 sex partners than a female friend. The interests aren't aligned so you have to be ok with the low number of hookups or manipulate women to get into their pants Usually by pretending to want a relationship but not offe… | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Where to meet at places I'm not shitting where I eatLiterally just go more miles away from where you live. Nothing much else you can do | /r/seduction | 09/11/24 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Random but does anyone know how to catch a whine in a club without being creepy (how to grind with a girl in a club)If I had to guess id say it's 33 percent only respond to physical dancing and will deny you if you use words 33 percent respond to words only and will run away if you just try to start dancing with them physically 33% being indifferent to either approach | /r/seduction | 09/11/24 09:14 PM |
| 5 | How To Sexually Escalate On A DateBoth of these can all be done simultaneously This is all correct info but verbal and physical escalation are more weakly correlated If your at a level 4 for one side then level 1 for the other one can be assumed If you are at level 5 then level 2 can be assumed If you're at the final level for physical escalation then level 3 for verbal escalation can be assumed | /r/seduction | 09/11/24 01:27 PM |
| 6 | Advice needed on How to get an ex freak to freak againSay you love her back and you just want to talk . Something like that. You both are toxic so she'll probably take the bait | /r/seduction | 09/11/24 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Has your desire ever clouded your judgement?Projection does exist and happens for a ton of guys. Its definitely a nice crutch to get guys to take risks but it's super short term. I think it's much better to focus on what you want and to communicate it plainly than focus on what the woman wants. The idea of "She was asking for it " is suboptimal thinking in general. There might be times where it's extremely obvious like she is pressing her butt against you or getting close to your face and licking her lips but those are rare For anything n… | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Has your desire ever clouded your judgement?Yep. Especially if your horny 😅 More guys should rely on verbal consent because men lean towards autism , social development delay , extreme feelings of horniness and young women lean towards expressing discomfort in suboptimal ways | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Should I work on my looks more before cold approaching? Anytime I get a weird reaction from a girl I just think I’m ugly, wtf.Yes. it's a thing. It's most common in men and autistic people but it's caused by a lack of expression on the face when talking. I'll try to give examples in the next comment | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 06:12 AM |
| 0 | How to talk to a guy?Did you even pretend to know how old the poster is before you gave this comment ? | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 05:59 AM |
| -9 | How to talk to a guy?Bro so if she was 9 you'd say " we need more women like you " ? I'm saying you haven't confirmed she's at least 17 / 18 before you said that. It just sounds weird to say that To someone who could be a minor But also on further inspection of the rest of comments you're probably the least offensive. My fault I saw yours first tbh | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 05:57 AM |
| 4 | How to talk to a guy?The way you word your post sounds like a high schooler or middle schooler so there's nothing you need to do in particular besides saying that you like him when you feel like you like him. Texting Alot at that age is pretty normal. There's no rush | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 05:50 AM |
| -11 | How to talk to a guy?Bruh y'all didn't even age check her before you started saying shit like this | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Should I work on my looks more before cold approaching? Anytime I get a weird reaction from a girl I just think I’m ugly, wtf.Mid tier to high tier normie . Your definitely not at your peak . But also you could have really bad autism face or shake uncontollably with nerves when talking to women so I can't say for sure. Id make a plan to improve your looks , work on your body language asap and then reassess | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 05:43 AM |
| 1 | How can I have my first make outOh my fault . I forgot to answer . No. I don't want to explain kissing in depth to you | /r/seduction | 06/11/24 11:27 PM |
| 5 | How can I have my first make outKissing can be learned but it's gonna be mostly a feedback thing . Technique is almost worthless until you figure out what's pleasurable. For example some people have really nice tongues and it's good to suck on them . You might have a top lip she likes to feel . In this case you have to alternate you sucking on her tongue and her using her lips to feel your top lip. With other stuff in between to keep it varied After you get the basic sensation down , then techniques like softening or relaxing … | /r/seduction | 05/11/24 05:00 AM |
| 4 | Can we always rely on women's body language and facial expressions?Lol . Is that how you know the stove is hot as a kid ? You just know? | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 06:50 PM |
| 5 | Can we always rely on women's body language and facial expressions?Smiling and laughing are the WORST Indicators of comfortability in women. I wouldnt care that much about it. It doesn't mean much | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 06:48 PM |
| 3 | What's the quickest time youve gotten a woman into the bedroom?Woman into my bedroom ? Maybe 40 mins. I had my shirt off and approached some chick near my place during the day . After talking for a bit ( I forget about what ) I invited her back to my place for sex . She declined and we kept talking and then maybe 3 mins later I invited her up to my room to " come up to my room " and she said yes. ( Was an old pua trick I learned. I wouldn't really use it nowadays but it can work ) She was really nervous and apologized for not being comfortable so we cuddled… | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 06:46 PM |
| 4 | What's the quickest time youve gotten a woman into the bedroom?When you have coke, clubs are the best . 🫡 | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 05:51 PM |
| 3 | How to transition from a first date to just a fuck buddy?I think most people lie by omission. You indirectly communicate you only want to hookup with the timing ( after 7 - 8 pm ) and venues ( your house ) of your meetups . Then if/when they call you out for only wanting sex with them you full out lie by giving bullshit excuses Or you basically ignore their concerns and say you want to talk about it in person at your house ( with the goal of getting them comfortable and turning them on so you can sleep with them without actually addressing their conce… | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Not attracted to women anymoreI guess I am somewhat looking to vent, but what kind of advice would you give to someone who played the game, ”won“ and would like to have a more fulfilling relationship with women in the future? So you're making most if not all of these woman orgasm ? Are you fulfilling any sexual fantasies you have ? In terms of emotional connection what are you looking for ? Are you so consistent that you can have a relationship in 90 days if you work on it? Are they the women you want ? Before you answer the… | /r/seduction | 03/11/24 10:40 PM |
| 1 | linguistic clarificationstrust generation respect generation attachment generation openness/consideration arousal/excitement Not how do you attract but how do you open a woman (not open a conversation with a woman but open a woman? how do you generate respect in her for you? Now I'm not saying one should be able to do any or all of these things with any given women you meat, having super skills. I'm simply saying we could replace the focus on 'getting attraction' to the extent we choose to have that focus in the front o… | /r/seduction | 03/11/24 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Scared of someone interveningNah it's a legit fear because it does happen from time to time. Whether the approach is going good or bad Don't approach near your friends and you'll adjust to white knighting after the first few times. | /r/seduction | 02/11/24 06:48 PM |
| 1 | My Limiting Belief: Girls Don't Want Me to Approach ThemCorrect. It's a slight net negative on the world as a whole . But if you average out the harm and benefit done to by an individual approaching women , I think it's better to cause the world to be slightly annoyed or a lil unsure about a situation than to deprive yourself of the possibility of a better sex life and slightly improved social life. Let's say you do 10,000 lifetime approaches That's like a small US town . Being a big too talkative or a lil annoying in a small town is fine. I would ne… | /r/seduction | 02/11/24 12:19 PM |
| 2 | Long phone calls“So, you’re in school…” • “What do you watch?” • “What do you normally do on a Thursday night?” I didn’t mean for it to turn into an interview, but there was so much silence after each question! He did ask, “What about you?” after I asked why he was on the app, which I appreciated. You have to give better space for him to answer fully. Open him up a bit. Honestly you can get away with random questions until something sticks but also you should add in assumptions and other things. Ex : " so youre… | /r/seduction | 01/11/24 01:06 PM |
| 85 | My Limiting Belief: Girls Don't Want Me to Approach ThemYour limiting belief is the truth of the matter but also ... these strangers wouldn't care if you lived or died . They wouldn't care if you had sex with sex dolls the rest of your life. They wouldn't care if you lost the ability to talk and played video games all day. They wouldn't care if you gained 400 pounds and had depression. Strangers don't care about you. Why should you care about their ( temporary ) slight discomfort with getting talked to for a few seconds ? If the approach goes bad eno… | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 02:15 AM |
| 5 | Girl contacted me through insta, fastest way to hit it?Small talk for a few sentences, light flirt, ask for her number. Say you want to hook up over text or FaceTime. Always keep in the back if your mind that some women will try to expose you so you have to keep the Instagram dms pretty tame. Once your off app being direct is probably fine as long as you're not too crass or too jokey. Crass and jokey - lemme suck a fart out ya butt 🥴 " | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Push pulled… now dead 🤷🏼♂️I disagree with your framing. There is an aggressive desperation that your hinting at that is a turn off but wanting pussy isn't a turn off if a girl wants your dick. That makes no sense. It's ok to want sex. It's moreso about setting realistic expectations between the people. Just wanting sex is not a turn off and not wanting sex isn't a turn on. | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 11:30 PM |
| 0 | Push pulled… now dead 🤷🏼♂️I said yeah ok whatever. I should’ve came back w/ some line to counter her statement. Anyone know what I could’ve said? If you ask a girl to go back to your place and she says no that's a date ender. Its politically incorrect but it's probably for the best for both of you because Made an excuse that “we just met, this that the other thing” Is a super red flag. That means her expectations aren't aligned with yours. made reservations @ a sushi restaurant which isn’t always a good idea. But I thoug… | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 11:13 PM |
| 1 | I'm a 23M, need advice to talk to Older Women.Give examples of dry conversations. My convos are pretty dry on the apps but I also try to get their number / social media ASAP | /r/seduction | 26/10/24 09:48 PM |
| 2 | If a woman brings up sexual topics by herself, could that be a signal that she is down to have sex?Later on on in the car she was telling me about how she did nude modeling. But I didn't probe further .Miss? Not concrete fumble. It could still be just a work experience thing she may or may not be proud of but is willing to share. Another woman spent a few hours with me in the mall and said she felt very comfortable with me. She also initiated topics about sex and masturbation, I did tease her about it but couldn't think of anything else to say. Her husband had died a few months ago so I didn'… | /r/seduction | 25/10/24 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Should I be honest about my dating experience (or lack of it)? Seeking real advice, no sugar-coating.MAYBE lie and say your fling was your girlfriend but that's about it. you should be fine even if you limit yourself to people with only one ex partner like yourself . You'll have plenty of young women to choose from | /r/seduction | 25/10/24 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Is there a specific group for this..Yes but you probably have to get vetted to join .which is probably for the best. You don't want feminists infiltrating to leak stuff. It's probably best if it's as underground as possible n | /r/seduction | 25/10/24 01:46 AM |
| 25 | Confessional: I’m a giant pussyHot take ,most guys are pussies and that's completely fine. Most men aren't cold approaching at high volume to meet partners. It's nowhere close to the highest ROI. if your meeting women by just existing while being hot that's fine. You can build towards other things if your concerned your look will fade to the point you can't coast ( Money , status in a community , fashion , gym etc.... ) I’ve been in multiple 2+ year long LTRs with wonderful girls. Most important thing honestly. If your sastif… | /r/seduction | 24/10/24 11:49 PM |
| 1 | The problem with pickup artistsThis is like saying bomb diffusers should have fun instead of being good at their job. Good Work is good whether you enjoy it or not. Having fun gives you the mental fortitude to push through negative experiences and sometimes gives you a clearer head But no . There are plenty of misogynistic depressed assholes who get laid. They just have the required tools and skills to get laid. There are plenty of racist greedy comedians who have fans because they know how to tell jokes. If your misogyny is … | /r/seduction | 24/10/24 03:54 AM |
| 2 | The problem with pickup artistsThis is like saying bomb diffusers should have fun instead of being good at their job. Work is good whether you enjoy it or not. Having fun gives you the mental fortitude to push through negative experiences and sometimes gives you a clearer head But no . There are plenty of misogynistic depressed assholes who get laid. They just have the required tools and skills to get laid. There are plenty of racist greedy comedians who have fans because they know how to tell jokes. | /r/seduction | 24/10/24 03:52 AM |
| 1 | What is KINO and how can it improve your dating life?. It should be pretty obvious to you if there is sexual tension in a situation you are in. I agree somewhat but we'd probably disagree on how to confirm that. I do have somewhat generic answer universal answer. If she is willing to talk about having sex with you or sex with a consideration of your wants as well theres a 90 % chance she's willing to have sex with you. Now it doesn't always materialize that day and there can be things that mess it up but it's very rare a woman will speak about tho… | /r/seduction | 23/10/24 01:35 AM |
| 2 | What is KINO and how can it improve your dating life?How do you a differentiate a woman being comfortable and sexual attraction? | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 09:22 PM |
| 2 | How do you feel about a girl calling you “adorable”?I learned my lesson by moving off of emotion in the past . I would just ask clarifying questions to ask what she means. Especially over text. | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 09:04 PM |
| 10 | Regret hookup during actIm not gonna lie id probably still penetrate because I use condoms but the smell has to be addressed next time I come over . Going home smelling like stinky pussy is no fun. If it's poopy smell , bad breath or sweat that can be addressed with a shower and making her use the bathroom That's something that this subreddit needs to teach as well that just because you can get laid from this person or that one doesn't mean you always should. Men need to vet too. Ehhh I get what you mean but if your st… | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 05:04 AM |
| 0 | Just Landed a Bartending Gig: How to Connect with Women?Honestly just practice flirting and making the women feel good even if you're not attracted . Worst case they just tip you more but best case they invite you back to their place or something. A good place to start is complimenting people man or woman in what they want to be complimented on and validating their ideas/ humor. You'll get a feel for what comes off as authentic after awhile. Then you can start very lightly joking with people in a very hr friendly type of way. After you get a sense of… | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 06:01 PM |
| 15 | Why are all dating coaches/PUAs are attractive?Funny how RSD Tyler himself said OBVIOUSLY looks are important . I'll admit he does flip flop sometimes depending on which speech you're referencing but his main point was yes looks are important but you should lift , eat right , wear nice clothes and shut the fuck up about how you look . There's no point constantly whining about being ugly especially if you're already out approaching | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Where Do You Find the Most Success Practicing Day Game?To answer the question bluntly, straight up predation has been the most successful for me. Being richer , more ahead in life , better dressed , better with hygiene more in shape and going after women who aren't where I'm at by those metrics. ( They're not morally bad people, they just are lower in those metrics.obviously there are poorer people that are way smarter, kinder , more virtuous, funnier etc... than me ) There's probably a nicer way to put it but the dynamic is still there. To answer t… | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 04:37 PM |
| 3 | 19F – How Can I Build Confidence and Make Him Chase Me?Honestly at 19 you need to be learning how to set boundaries and learning how to redirect men while still showing interest. Rad fems might tell you different but learning how to say no or not yet is a skill. Classic example is sitting down with a guy and he puts his hand on your leg. If you don't like the guy and you don't want his hand on your leg, you can take that moment as a cue to end the interaction soon . Either by telling him you're not interested in him or telling him you have to leave … | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 02:12 AM |
| 85 | An annoying thing other guys do in clubs/bars with regards to competitionIt's a trend upwards sure but white knights have been around for forever. You have neutralize the threat quickly or just ask the girl if she wants you to stay Every second dealing with a white knight is going to make you look worse to the girl. The easiest thing to do that would work 99 % of the time is to straight up school yard bully the white knights but that could lead to violence 1% of the time so try to just be humorous and underhanded. | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 12:43 AM |
| 1 | The meaning of “no spark”?Does that mean that they weren’t physically attracted to me? Yep Unless your conversation was Atrocious but that's on the rare side. You can be boring and still get laid | /r/seduction | 20/10/24 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Looking for WingmanBottom line is you are not creepy cause I met too many of those guy in the community and I don't vibe well with them. " I want to find the normal well adjusted guys that look up dating advice online and are willing to meet strangers online to approach other strangers " lol They are out there of course but this would be like going into a McDonald's and looking for healthy in shape people | /r/seduction | 19/10/24 02:37 AM |
| 7 | 95% cold approach rate and here's my takeI did not get their instagram or their number at first conversation. If they like me, they kept coming to the same cafe (or we greet each other in school) and I usually make a move on either second or third encounter. Women love mystery. So you warmed them up... It's not about mystery it's about you warming them up to know you a lil bit and talking over multiple conversations . Which isn't bad. It's just not cold approach which makes your title misleading It's no longer a cold approach at the po… | /r/seduction | 19/10/24 02:07 AM |
| 3 | Changing the way we engage in cold approachI agree with everything. Unfortunately Alot of things have to go wrong in your life to ask strangers on the internet how to talk to girls so the people they gravitate towards subs and asking questions have no other choice but to cold approach usually. Also, as problematic as wingman culture was , it definitely helped give you rewards outside of numbers and dates. You got to talk to men going through the same thing you were , you got to get some feedback , you got to enjoy group dynamics with wom… | /r/seduction | 19/10/24 01:35 AM |
| 0 | Is it a bad idea to ask my no contact situationship why he ghosted me?Yes. It's a good idea . Try to push whatever buttons you need to to make sure he's as honest as possible. Lie if you need to. ( " You couldve just told her you wanted to fuck. Id would've been down with that " ) Make him angry Call him out on his bullshit etc... Because maybe you can get some feedback if you actually did something wrong . Besides that I wouldn't fall for any lies or let him back in your life because you're worth a simple goodbye text. No second chances for ghosters. | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 03:00 AM |
| 3 | PSA: seduction =/= basic social skillsThat's not seduction; that's basic human functioning. If you're still struggling with that level of social interaction, you're in the wrong place. Agree and disagree. It's still talking to a stranger so it's not basic but not that difficult.. Quit clogging up this subreddit with questions that belong in a "How to Be a Human 101" class. Agree ish again. It's very easy to yap but not so easy to guide a conversation towards an intended goal through various pitfalls. Also as men dating women we can'… | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Dating as a gynaecologistHe's looking for the cat, he's a Coochie scout | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Dating as a gynaecologistBe funny about it But honestly I think it's better to ask women how to approach the topic. they're the ones with vaginas. It might make the dynamic weird tho so I understand not mentioning your work. Especially since you'll represent every gynecologist in their head if they get offended by something you say . Same reason some people don't mention theyre therapists. Ideas: Licensed pussy doctor so I've seen it all processional Vagician If you're not patient and you see this... No you didn't. Doct… | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 08:59 PM |
| 3 | "Hangout as friends" and "not looking to date" from cold approachI kinda miss the validation tho ngl. It looks so cool to constantly be on the phone or in person talking to women. It's cool to have a deep conversation and think your getting somewhere sexually. It feels nice . But time spent trying to friend your way into some pussy is time that could be better spent with women who like you right now . | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 02:43 AM |
| 1 | "Hangout as friends" and "not looking to date" from cold approachAnother instance is if you’re flirting with a girl & are trying to escalate by kissing her or touching her hands & she brushes that off, then take that as strike 1. You can keep talking to her & if she rejects you again then just excuse yourself, end the date & politely leave. Good ideas. Super like this idea Maybe they’re super shy but majority of the time, if they’re not reciprocating on your advances then they’re probably just not that into you. So move on after that. It's a fact of life for … | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 02:32 AM |
| 2 | "Hangout as friends" and "not looking to date" from cold approach. Clearly these girls are there for the conversation and attention and aren't going to sleep with you You're not reading body language correctly. Like I agree that there are such things as bedroom eyes and non verbal indicators of interest but I don't believe you have the discernment to know when to actually it's resistance / hesitancy vs a clear boundary. Abd if you do you, based on the way you describe your interactions , I just don't believe you. My problem now is girls who come on a date wit… | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 02:22 AM |
| 3 | When did women gain so much leverage?I get what you're saying but if you're the lunatic, I think you're happy to have the wife vs not having the wife. Nobody likes not being chosen. We also don't know if all men can level up . This is newer territory. Remember we used to make fun of 30 year old virgins. But now it might get really common if income requirements for relationships keep raising | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 11:56 PM |
| 56 | When did women gain so much leverage?Social media and women out earning men means women don't ever HAVE to get into a relationship to survive. They have more choice. When women had less choices, women put up with Alot more. I don't blame some men for feeling entitled to a girlfriend because they work a job because honestly that's probably how they're parents met. It used to be a man focused on his career and a woman came with it. | /r/seduction | 13/10/24 07:04 PM |
| 6 | Are same day lays possible in 2024?I was about to roast you but it was a click bait title. Well played. Usually how it goes is that You talk to her and check if she's horny or at least highly attracted to you. You establish some type of dirty talk. You invite her over to your place or her place to have sex. Sometimes she says no and that's when you get her number and give the general area where you're at in case she changes her mind . Sometimes she says yes but isn't free at that exact moment and she helps you plan when you meet … | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 11:35 PM |
| 63 | Should i seduce girls i’m not really into?Yes | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 02:53 AM |
| 2 | Reading people's facesGet better at reading faces AND/OR get better at assessing risk For the get better at reading faces part : It's a long process that involves looking at exaggerated Expressions over time and slowly looking at less excagerated expressions until you can tell the difference in micro movements. I just don't feel like explaining in this comment For the assessing risk part : If you're seen with a female( and I mean literally just a biological female so kids count too ) , you're seen as more safe. If yo… | /r/seduction | 10/10/24 04:57 AM |
| -8 | How to text for a hookup?On tinder it's a bit different. I have my profile set to short term relationships in my bio but I don't necessarily say let's fuck for the first sentence. I don't have the profile to pull off " let's fuck 😎 " followed by sending my address. I'm also a lil paranoid so I would never send out my address that casually. 😅 I know people do it tho. id prolly get banned I usually have some small talk and then I say want to hook up with them . The easiest way is to say " what are you looking for on here?… | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 11:47 PM |
| 15 | How to text for a hookup?Did you say you were looking to hookup before you texted her ? | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 10:48 PM |
| -19 | How to text for a hookup?Bro what ? If both of you are looking to hook up why do you have to lie to get her over your place ? Id only lie about wanting to hook up over text if she literally asked me too . Also if she tried to put a false rape allegation on you ,you'll need the texts to help your side of the story . How do you guys get std results from women if your lying about hooking up ? | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Love bombers that suddenly ghost youYou got played bruh. she clearly just wanted some dick Now you know from first hand experience why people use love bombing and ghosting in tandem. The love bombing make the person feel wanted and the ghosting leaves them yearning for that attention. You can love bomb and ghost ALOT of times before someone catches on. And by that point you probably already had sex a few times. If you're petty you can just do it to someone else to let it out of your system. If you want to be noble, you can refuse … | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Is inviting someone over on a first date a bad move?It depends on your style of communication and the girl .. If you're operating on the indirect socially normal style and she's a naive slut shamed girl , I think you're supposed to basically trick them into coming over. You want to white lie and give false pretenses so they end up in your apt drinking and then you want to make them comfortable enough to " let things happen " ( get them comfortable enough to be able to touch them and turn them on , kiss and progress to sex ) . It's preferred so th… | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 06:17 AM |
| 10 | Is inviting someone over on a first date a bad move?Read again. I think he's doing that | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 04:39 AM |
| 3 | How do I stop hesitating?But also in terms of hesitation I largely agree it's not a passive thing . It's active. You have to remind yourself constantly that hesitating makes things worse because it feels so much better to not approach or to hesitate. I go out solo so I constantly have to battle my tendency to want to either not approach , go home or wait until I calm down to say something. Honestly I do street approach so I have to focus on the steps to do a proper stop. For some reason it's easier to break it down into… | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 04:38 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop hesitating?Disagree with the positive vibes thing. You should not make any sudden movements. you should be smooth , connected predictable and probably a lil slow with your body language to appear non threatening. Then you should make sure your face is in an acceptable range of movement vs non movement. Leaning towards a bit stoic vs extremely expressive. If you're autistic you'll have to go through trial and error of reading close to 10,000s of facial expressions in motion to get a sense of correct express… | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 04:34 AM |
| 2 | I am 40 and starting to learn gameI was gonna say yeah you don't need much theory to connect with people in the exact place in life as you are. Lol It sounds like a matter of your dating pool being small rather than a matter of you not knowing enough game. Obviously it's good to put yourself out there more but dating in your age range sounds limited. | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 12:30 AM |
| 4 | I am 40 and starting to learn gameI'm curious do you actually have a hard time connecting with divorced or single women over 35 ? For me they are the easiest people to please and talk to | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 09:50 PM |
| 2 | How to ask out a girl who is in my book club, when I run the book club?You have to have a private conversation with her first at least. Then you have to find out if she is single. Once you establish those things just ask her out but keep in mind every woman in the class will know that you asked her out rather quickly whether you get accepted or rejected. Girls like the idea of the group leader " subtly flirting " in front of the class or an exchange of " saucy looks " but if I'm being real , it's not actual advice on what to do. It's moreso women projecting their f… | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Almost exclusively attracted to sporty or athletic women, advice?Gotcha . Yeah you'll be fine then. The athletics world is your oyster. Even in a row club it's rare your gonna meet someone that was actually a top rower in college. And again if the class has 20 guys you only have to be the 4th best | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Moving was the worst thing I have done that affected my game/sucess with womenIve experienced the same thing. People don't realize there is more competition in this new city (the men are more attractive, more successful), so I do not "stand out" as much. however, that does not explain my going out and seeing frumpy men getting chatted with by women. but there is probably some element of truth here Yes yes and yes. Your only as attractive to women as their options there is less of "Friendly neighborhood' demeanor here - interactions between strangers are muted, including I… | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Almost exclusively attracted to sporty or athletic women, advice?Be the top 20% performing male in a space made for athletes so gyms run clubs , combat sports, Pilates class , row clubs etc... if you do that you'll have easy pickings If your not one of the top guys in the space it'll be WAYY harder | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Why do i struggle to find women to date/sleep withOh yeah . You gotta risk being a lil creepy at first and more forward. If your 6 4 and jacked you'll probably get away with it more often than just guys. Ask more women to go home with you and sleep with you. Especially after a make out but even before a make out. Do it often enough to get comfortable. You will get harsh reactions every once in awhile but it's definitely worth it to get used to pushing things forward. | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Whats the simplest setup I can master to increase my cold approach confidence?That's awesome you figured it out. Genuinely. Know you have to plan for the future and figure out if your future jobs are gonna be full of people from your exact college . Then you have to figure out the gender balance. If the job is 99 % male and you're going to move out of the city your going to college in , you can metaphorically burn your college to the ground approaching and it won't matter. Most men don't care about guys having a creep reputation and it'll be unlikely you'll see those peop… | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Approaching women is not a big dealThat anxiety? It’s like that ridiculous surge of adrenaline you'd get from shoplifting a candy bar or making an illegal U-turn—totally unnecessary I agree on principle that anxiety is unnecessary but it comes from a reasonable place. You have a decent understanding of social expectations if you feel anxious approaching women you don't know She wants to be noticed, so whether she’s at a bar, out shopping, or grabbing a coffee with friends, it’s perfectly fine to strike up a conversation. The idea… | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 10:11 PM |
| 0 | Whats the simplest setup I can master to increase my cold approach confidence?Nothing simple. Self reflection on what your fears are is the only way forward. | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 08:35 AM |
| 1 | What are some things you look for in an apartment to maximize change of getting laid?Being in a luxury building definitely helps but outside idk if it matters much. If the building looks like a crack house then yeah that's bad but that's rare. You want a room to yourself and a pretty lax guest policy. You'd have to be dating someone thats materialistic to not have SEX with someone that's sexually attracted to you because you have roommates. Edit : also you're in downtown Toronto so the location is already taken care of | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 08:28 AM |
| 1 | When approaching a woman within a group of women…Yeah that makes sense. Sometimes if they look open to being approached you can just acknowledge the other people exist with eye contact or a single sentence and move on . | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 07:08 AM |
| 3 | What do you do to get over being embarrassed around an audience?Your experiencing what we call social and reputational awareness. These are good traits. You have to decide if you are ok with the negative consequences of getting rejected in front of your friends and family . You also have to decide if you're ok with being successful in front of them. I've done both and it's draining. People view you as toy they can push to go approach anybody at anytime. I don't like that expectation so I don't approach in front of friends and family anymore . Unless I can sn… | /r/seduction | 05/10/24 08:27 AM |
| 1 | I need advice on what I can doI'm going to see my girlfriend we've never had sex, just cuddling. Ask your girlfriend what she likes It's called fooling around for a reason Try some stuff | /r/seduction | 05/10/24 08:02 AM |
| 1 | How can I optimize my results from dating apps?Better pictures always does the trick for online dating Having a Bio is nice but won't save ugly. To get better pictures You have to get better clothes , better locations , and a better physique Also a better haircut This will probably take 1 to 3 years on average but the results can be worth it. You can spend 600 on better clothes and shoes and be set for years. You can literally monthly style boxes online and never have to think about it if you want. You can go to a tourist destination closest… | /r/seduction | 02/10/24 11:10 PM |
| 1 | A thought experiment: some dark-skinned Indian guys are black-passing(look like an African American), if they get muscular and change their race to black on Tinder, will it bring more matches? As the title says.Your attractive which means your ethnicity is just a cute lil anecdote that might be a conversation topic in the future . Most minorities don't have that privilege. | /r/seduction | 02/10/24 10:54 PM |
| 1 | A thought experiment: some dark-skinned Indian guys are black-passing(look like an African American), if they get muscular and change their race to black on Tinder, will it bring more matches? As the title says.You think they will magically change their mind when you show up and they can clearly tell you are indeed indian? Your assuming people can tell the difference. Most people only know black white , Mexican and Chinese . Any other race gets put into those buckets . I don't think racism is worth protecting so I don't care if someone " tricks " someone into sleeping with an Indian guy. The consequences of sleeping outside of your preferred race are non existent. | /r/seduction | 02/10/24 10:43 PM |
| 11 | A thought experiment: some dark-skinned Indian guys are black-passing(look like an African American), if they get muscular and change their race to black on Tinder, will it bring more matches? As the title says.It's super lame and corny but probably effective. Edit : to be clear being ambiguous about your race is really common and nobody needs to know that info unless they're planning on having a serious long term relationship with you. There are plenty of black girls that suddenly turn west Indian around white people and there are plenty of light skin Latina women that simply put white on their dating bio. If you go back far enough in Hollywood, people would change their name and features to pass as w… | /r/seduction | 02/10/24 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Give me your bestYou have to know your audience. Flirting with a shy guy by himself is very different than flirting with a micro celebrity in a private section. For me I lean low confidence / shy / and slightly autistic. To get past my defenses, you have to be very direct and carry the conversation for a good bit before I open up to take you seriously. Honestly I respond well to aggression as well as long as it's not cartoonish. Like if you pin your hand against a wall next to me and say " hey hot stuff " im not… | /r/seduction | 02/10/24 05:10 AM |
| 2 | What has your experience been with the state new jersey?🤯 | /r/seduction | 01/10/24 05:35 PM |
| 5 | Hinge date says she wants to start as friends as she doesn't want to jump into romance.Did not read more than 3 sentences of what you wrote. Just say no to these offers. It usually means YOU're still dating her without any expectation of physical intimacy or other perks of dating from her end | /r/seduction | 01/10/24 05:34 PM |
| 1 | dealing with the 'manly' manYou shouldn't really confront him about things directly. You'd want to suggest and influence him without him noticing if possible. You'd also want to stroke his ego if you have no choice but to be direct such as suggesting the color of something. what are some traits that masculine men love in thier partners. I know he reall values looks and loyalty but what else? Keepin it all the way 💯 Servitude is the best way for the alpha traditional types. do stuff for him and make him not have to think. T… | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 05:04 AM |
| 6 | how do you organically transition from "friendly" to "sexual"?Practice. I mean you just gotta be willing to be awkward and over do it. Being smooth is a matter of repetition | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 01:32 AM |
| 1 | What happens to those guys who can easily get sex, but not a relationship?The entitled nerd in me wants to say they get passed up for good guys that are willing to get into a relationship but honestly they just keep having sex with women until they either 1. Find a woman who's willing to act like a wife and press the issue for long enough for them to settle down . Or they find a woman that's hot enough for them to want to settle down . There's almost no downside for a guy to be whore. Even wholesome Christian women can have a savior complex and " see them for the man … | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 03:44 PM |
| 2 | What do you say when a woman asks for clarification about what you'll do in your room?You say " Im going to try and touch your no no square " . . . . Obviously that was a pretty jokey response but if she's asking that question and she's over the age of like 19 she's just bantering. I don't think an adult genuinely expects to be on a guy's bed just to watch a movie . It's more of a playful tease to bring up the topic of sex . That's not to say a girl will want to sleep with you 100% of the time if they ask but it's a good sign. she might say something like " what if I say no ? " a… | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 03:31 PM |
| 2 | After 300+ Cold Approach Rejections. I think my Self-Confidence has gotten even WORSE (Self-Reflection and mini Vent)Sounds like the avg guy experience. I noticed on tik Tok and YouTube women are able to kinda just shoo guys away like flies. It might be a body language thing / permission thing I don't know how to correct it over text but there's something weak or passive about how you're saying the line. And you're probably being very polite. You kinda got to demand your time from women because otherwise they'll instinctively not want to give it. I don't even know if women register that they have their guard u… | /r/seduction | 22/09/24 04:30 AM |
| 1 | silence during meetingWhat's like on your mind in general ? What do you like ? Talk about that. I have plenty of conversation topics based on just the paragraph you put | /r/seduction | 21/09/24 07:18 AM |
| 4 | OLD doesn’t work for mePhoto shoot should be $250 US maximum you only want 1 or 2 professional looking photos with a professional looking camera. The rest should be taken on a phone . Maybe in cool locations but still on a phone | /r/seduction | 21/09/24 07:15 AM |
| 3 | OLD doesn’t work for meIf you're 100 % sure you're good looking then you just need better pictures. You can get them from dating specific photographers or do a planned candid photo shoot ( faux candid - fake candid - plannedid ) | /r/seduction | 21/09/24 07:09 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with "things" in your life not going so well? Do you just side-step topics that you know are going to be a downer, or just go on lock-down until you *are* feeling in higher spirits?Find good lies to tell or tell the truth in a self deprecating humorous way. There's no use pulling back from people because they might judge you for your social status. Itll probably make your mental health worse to isolate rather than dealing with some trivial gossip about your employment status . Now if your talking about girls and dating , you could put heavy emphasis on how much you were making at your old job. Girls don't mind an unemployed high income earner but dislike employed low incom… | /r/seduction | 21/09/24 06:59 AM |
| 2 | Hey, how do you stop being boring?Say random stuff at first then figure out more logical sentences later. | /r/seduction | 21/09/24 02:24 AM |
| 0 | Need advice: I’m a woman and a hopeless flirtAre you talking about in your extended friend group or strangers? | /r/seduction | 19/09/24 12:13 PM |
| -1 | What are your usual responses when women challenges you?It can be tough to know the difference between somebody being genuinely mean and somebody being difficult or ignorant in the moment. Some being genuinely mean just walk away or roast them back depending on your mood. If they're ignorant or just stating their opinion just have patience and explain yourself. That being said I don't trust it when men say women are challenging and the examples you described sound like basic ignorance and rudeness. I would address each one earnestly. She calls you ne… | /r/seduction | 19/09/24 12:04 PM |
| 1 | I need your worst pickup linesOh it was intended as a bad pickup line. | /r/seduction | 19/09/24 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Help an autistic learn to flirtWell if your asking for help online then I'm going to assume you don't have friends or family to correct your behavior Too many times in my life have I gotten too comfortable in a social setting and been my autistic self to a point where those around me clearly are emabressed for me And if this happens I'm assuming you couldn't read the room fast enough( unless your talking about being weird as a child . That doesn't matter as much ) so in your case I'd literally just tell girls " I'm autistic "… | /r/seduction | 18/09/24 04:46 PM |
| 1 | How do you kiss close at a nightclub?Can't add much.. this is it. If youre genuinely new to trying to kiss close tho , maybe practice in a club you don't mind getting kicked out from. Women are pretty chill about touch in the club if you're not just literally attacking them but you never know. | /r/seduction | 18/09/24 04:29 PM |
| 1 | I attract a lot of women but it never goes anywhereYour 19 . Middle school and high school attraction from girls counts but not really. After 18 girls are wayy less open to approaching men and way more wishy washy ,flakey , moody , picky etc... If your 100% sure your sexual female attention , then you just gotta show the girl or tell the girl you're interested in them sexually as well. Either say something like " are you down to hookup ? " ( Whatever phrase is used to indicate you want to sleep with each other in your generation) Or grab their a… | /r/seduction | 18/09/24 04:23 PM |
| 1 | I need your worst pickup linesI love lesbian porn. wbu ? | /r/seduction | 18/09/24 03:37 PM |
| 8 | Game doesn't mean overwhelm the girl with charmGame is a nebulous term ( probably intentionally so on the internet because it's easier to sell basic advice that way ) But I think it should be treated like the term sales or debating. Obviously everything helps with getting a sale like presentation, location , timing, volume etc.... But when we say someone is good at sales we're usually talking about specific techniques and frameworks that go beyond social skills and humor that can push somebody into buying something. A cashier isn't good at s… | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe that there are truly some people are unattractive and cannot become attractive?There are truecels but the incel movement is/ was a cancer. It turned what was supposed to be a support movement into a victimhood suicide cult that made helping people that actually have no access to sex almost impossible but am unable to find anyone, or even have the courage to approach, despite wanting to. Bro your the issue I was talking about . You don't even approach and your complaining about being attractive. You just want somebody to make you feel good about being lazy. Your not a victi… | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 06:17 PM |
| 1 | What makes you have a lust or sexual desire for someone, but not necessarily want to date them?For me If she's extremely materialistic, extremely far left or far right politically , race realist ( not just ignorant ) , Very pushy and aggressive around things I don't want to do especially sex stuff, Wants to talk on the phone every second of every day , Over 60 and under 20, Untrustworthy , Quick to anger and slow to take accountability, And Most importantly if she cruises through life without ever being challenged or overcoming anything we're probably not going to get along long term I'm … | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Going to a singles event with about 100+ women in attendance (and 100+ men). Any tips on sticking out of the crowd?I've lived in big cities and I've lived in midsized cities. If your at a bar or club , men are gonna be talking to women . Even in a store or on the street sometimes men will strike up a conversation. It's rarer but it happens. It might be only 60 % of guys but id still say most guys have talked to a woman. Even if they relied on liquid courage or choosing signals . | /r/seduction | 16/09/24 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Going to a singles event with about 100+ women in attendance (and 100+ men). Any tips on sticking out of the crowd?This is cope. Most guys aren't non verbal weirdos. They talk to girls . They don't talk to dozens of girls a night usually but your average guy can hold a conversation and they'll probably talk to 1 or 2 girls that give them a signal. Most guys are a lil shy sure but they are approaching women | /r/seduction | 16/09/24 03:16 AM |
| 11 | Going to a singles event with about 100+ women in attendance (and 100+ men). Any tips on sticking out of the crowd?I've been to a singles event with 50+ women and there is a lil bit of a paradox Women will seek out your attention if you're standing by yourself but you get through more women spam approaching . General advice would be to move on if nothing is clicking after 90 secs but stay and talk if you're getting signals that she is sexually attracted to you so you can confirm that interest. And don't be afraid to take a breather sometimes | /r/seduction | 16/09/24 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Any girls here? What are some tips on seducing men as an unattractive woman? 🤔Wear makeup , dress up fancy , hit on men when they're a tiny bit inebriated, provide resources like a bit of food , buy drinks , make the first move , and most of all be cooperative and compliant. You don't necessarily have to put out all the time but doing Alot of overt flirting and plan making takes a ton of pressure off men's backs. | /r/seduction | 16/09/24 02:50 AM |
| 4 | Constant negative reinforcementStop helping women . It'll save you so much confusion It kinda sounds like you were over extending conversations that they intended to be short. They didn't ask for help to have a longer conversation they were just making small talk while you finished the work. Throughout all of this it sounds like you were desperately seeking out positive reinforcement. Unfortunately that's counterproductive .Id probably try to be a tiny bit rude next time and talk to whoever you want without permission to brea… | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 07:26 AM |
| 2 | How much does occupation matter in regards to game?Yeah. Hit the nail on the head. Being" in between " good jobs is probably the way to sell it | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 02:34 AM |
| 1 | How much does occupation matter in regards to game?Status is more important than a dollar amount in your bank account. You could be a political activist making 15 bucks an hour and that would be more attractive than being a plumber making 50 dollars an hour. It helps to have an attractive job but if you genuinely like the work or need the money then dont do something you hate just to get a few more brownie points with women Edit : after looking through more comments employment status is the easiest thing to convince and salesman your way through… | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Chemistry doesn’t exist without physical escalation.Truly, words absolutely don’t mean shit if you don’t at least kiss or fuck. It’s so disappointing that regardless of the age, profession, what they say, it literally does not matter if you do not physically make a move I'm so confused did you guys talk about fucking each other without physical advances? Or are you saying you had an emotionally deep conversation without physical advances? | /r/seduction | 11/09/24 04:26 AM |
| 1 | How to transition into sex when in bedWhy do you care about " gaming " the girl into sleeping with you? I understand using tricks on the first approach to make sure she's giving you a fair chance but ultimately you guys sleeping together should be a collaborative effort . want to get new ideas because that seems to be too predictable. Any girl who complains about a guy being predictable in escalating should generally be ignored . Like it's nice to do fresh things but doing " boring " things is enough for ike 95 % of women who like y… | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal to approach women at shopping malls, stores and the street?Normal as in the average guy has done the action but The frequency at which you will do it probably makes it abnormal. As long as you're rotating out your stores , shopping malls and streets, you should be more or less unnoticable | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 01:04 AM |
| 10 | How long did it take you to become good at escalating?Your probably far away from them . Touching should be almost natural if you're close to them. If you're far away , the only thing you can do is ask for consent to do an action so they have some type of warning Ex : can I put my hand on your shoulder ? Can I come closer to put my hand on your thigh ? Let me see your hand. i want to hold it. | /r/seduction | 09/09/24 11:27 PM |
| 11 | Can people give me more ideas where to approach in NYC besides parks?Dawg. It's the most densely populated city in the world . Pick up your head and walk around | /r/seduction | 09/09/24 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Getting rejected by 200+ women in a row... now what?Not enough info What venues are you approaching at ? What's your game plan ? What are your physical stats ? | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 10:58 PM |
| -1 | Hinge prompt feedbackThat's a stupid ass rule. Especially if you're looking for hookups. You have to be coded about it because the apps are lame like that but sexuality is generally ok | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Hinge prompt feedbackIf it's one prompt then its whatever but you have to balance the physical features your looking for with your actual personality and SOME type of personality disqualifier A personality disqualifier could be something like no liberals please , no trump supporters please , no pen pals , no weebs etc.. so you can put Busty physical features As a prompt answer but you have to make sure your other prompts are some type of personality based answers Women don't mind a guy that is only looking for casua… | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 06:35 AM |
| 2 | What should I do if a guy hits on my GF at the gym?Let your woman handle it. If you see or hear about something that's obviously flirting like an instructor offering private lessons for free at his house then let her know why it's an issue. If she needs to call gym staff support her through that process OR For the answer internet tough guys will give, get in every guys face to establish dominance and say " back off my girl bro 😡 " anytime somebody tries to talk to your girlfriend. mark your territory loudly and aggressively at all times . Your g… | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Was Paul Janka a fraud?You're talking about anti game. I think people are talking about something outside of basic conversation skills when they refer to game. If you want to count not going into a diatribe about the different types of poop or something game then I guess it's game but it's a pretty broad definition Like you have to respond to a question when asked , you have to talk in full sentences and you have to have to ask questions in response to answer. These are elementary school conversation skills and I assu… | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Kiss closeUsually I'll say something like " I want to kiss you" or " can we kiss? " and then they say yes or they say no. This would be almost always after talking about some type of sexual stuff either over text before hand or earlier in the conversation. | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Where should i go practice game that has a steady flow of women my age ?The mall the next town ove,r festivals or other events. Your missing out on a ton of conversations by excluding people drinking alcohol. Id reconsider your position if the goal is to practice talking to women | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Its my senior year of high school tired of being antisocial and not talking to girls that look goodIf you are attractive, you don't want to ruin your chances with girls in your main classes or social group by being seen talking to someone else. If you have enough volume and you're sure it won't get back to your main social groups, go for a cold approach every once in awhile Otherwise just treat it like a warm approach and don't worry about getting her number or insta the first conversation. Also remember you have parties to talk to girls at too. It doesn't have to be at school | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Flirty smile when girls walk past youThe turn around trick is a good one. Id maybe add a decelerating of your walking pace to almost a stop when you say hi but that's about it. Otherwise just don't rely on the indicator of interest and approach who you want. | /r/seduction | 02/09/24 02:57 AM |
| 1 | In a girl's room right now but she's doing a lot of I wanna/I don't wannaYou can get very technical advice on how to read body language and subtle little tests but honestly you're better off saying this to her : ""Slightly confused, cuz this is the second night I'm in your room and on one side your giving me all the touch signs, arm leg knee. And then you'll just close off yourself like " I'm tired, just wanna sleep. " Are you just playing with me? Which more or less it seems like it. Because you get my attention and then you push me away. """ You should be at a poin… | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 11:56 PM |
| 1 | What questions can I ask girls when approaching?Where are you from? What do you like to do? How do you like this venue? Do you live around here ? How do you like it ? Weed or alcohol ? What was your strongest subject in school ? Sometimes being a lil random works when it comes to questions. It can help break up monotony of a small talk convo But Honestly your better of thinking of what responses you would give to girls rather than questions to ask Where are you from is fine ? Its a great starting point. Based on the responses you can go Alot … | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Any tips on how to Become the Confident, Social Guy Everyone Wants to Be Around at School? This can lead to seductionYou need to find ways to bring out the cool in other people and make them feel special. It doesn't have to be genuine but you should try to include quiet people and learn more about them . You can practice on almost anybody on campus. try starting a conversation and try to find out 3 unique things about the person. Once you are good at doing that you can bring the dynamic to group conversations and look for ways to include peoples interests in the convo. It could be as simple as noticing somebod… | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 11:26 PM |
| -1 | Do women purposely turn their back to you to give you the views?A 180 spin is wild. Lol I would give that a solid 50 / 50 chance she wants you to approach. | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 07:22 PM |
| 0 | Does direct opener in cold approach only build attraction within 7 seconds?Building attraction is a terrible mindset to have even though it's possible. You should never assume your non sexual traits will turn into sexual attraction. They're completely separate entities. Unless your like 6 4 and super jacked you rarely NEED to build comfort and show your humorous side. just worry if the direct opener will trigger an instant bipolar and she will put a permanent wall to stop me from building emotional connection Nah . Not really. Unless you say you are only looking to hoo… | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 05:04 PM |
| 235 | Do women sometimes purposely bend over to grab someone's attention?Women do bend over to get a guys attention but women also bend over to pick something up or adjust something on their shoes. Women stare at guy's they like. They also stare because they find you ugly or they were spacing out . Subtle hints are confusing so if it's a cold approach just approach with or without the hints to confirm their interest. It doesn't mean much. | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 04:53 PM |
| 0 | I lost the will for the game, what's wrong with me?Maybe focus on something else besides game . Are you the best lover you can be ? Are you giving any of your partners orgasms ? Do any of your partners like roleplay ? If game is boring , you can use it as a springboard to hone different skills. I only felt bored and calm with approaching after losing my virginity. I honestly put sex on too much of a pedestal and since I acquired what I wanted I got complacent . | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 06:14 AM |
| 3 | Does a very attractive and outstanding Asian guy make a differnece?Yeah | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 09:09 PM |
| 7 | Does a very attractive and outstanding Asian guy make a differnece?I know what you meant and it still applies . You do have to be more conventionally attractive if you're not white but once you are, your race ( as it should be if the world was more open minded ) is just a cute talking point of conversation topic . There are women that are genuinely racist but they're rare. What women usually mean is they deduct points on the looks scale if you're a certain race. | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Cockblock shouting and screamingScream back to assert dominance . . . . . . . . . . . Bro you can't reason with people acting that crazy . Best you couldve done is to try to get the blondes number in the moment or later on by staying in the same bar | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 08:18 PM |
| 1 | How can I ask a girl out from work?If you're really unsure you can always take the easy road. Have a getting to know rapport building conversation with a tiny bit of glazing. Make her feel interesting by hyping up her interests and hobbies. Get her number and say you want to keep in contact or something else extremely vague and business sounding. Start a conversation over text or on the phone as soon as she's free and tell her what type of relationship you want with her. Both of you guys' main concern is the sex part so mentionin… | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Is it even worth learning night game?For you personally yes . You should t be leaving a club with 0 approaches unless there's like no single women there | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 06:22 AM |
| 2 | How to create sparks or build romantic connection on a date?My humor is silly humor. Gotcha that's fine then it's hard to get women on board with very technical topical humor so silly humor is good. My strength is actually humor itself. If your strength is humor then I would maybe say something seriously every once in awhile so she knows your a real person. I wanna attract dominant women. The most common way to do that is to beat them in something. Maybe have a serious debate on an underious topic and win the debate . I don't like this style but it works… | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 03:56 AM |
| 10 | How can I deal with disrespect from women who doesn’t care about youHonestly you have to play underhanded women games. Most people infantilize women so it's suboptimal to treat her as an equal when it comes to confrontation. I would focus on getting the other women in the group to like you and slowly turn them against her by mentioning how much X ( X is whatever the girls name is ) disrespects you for no reason . You want women to say " he's such a nice guy. It's probably X who is the issue " The other option is to treat her like an adult and disrespect her beca… | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 01:10 AM |
| 1 | How to seduce men who are on the autistic spectrum?There's not much you can do to make him " fall " for you. You kinda just have to ask him directly what he wants or ask directly how he's feeling | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 01:02 AM |
| -1 | How to get friends with benefits / casual hooks ups in big city as an average at best guyI agree that you have to lower standards But you should lower standards based on mainstream conventional standards. You can still find women that you like that are conventionally unattractive. Ex : beautiful tall women , beautiful women with a lazy eye , beautiful women , beautiful fat women , beautiful poor women etc... | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 12:58 AM |
| 2 | DE-escalationIf your talking about de escalating from mutual sexual attraction then not really . Your safest bet is making out with them then telling them after that you don't find them sexually attractive . If you do that , you have a confirming event that explains your lack of attraction | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 03:50 PM |
| 9 | How to not lose a git by missing signs and being too platonic on first dateI'm the literal worst when it comes to formal dates BUT I do know trying to talk about sex is usually a good way to figure out if a woman is interested in having sex with you. It's on the rarer side that a woman is genuinely turned off by sex talk with a guy they like. There are prudes out there tho so it's still possible. My contribution would be to turn the conversation sexual over the course of the night and see if she's willing to engage. There's nuance tho so it's possible shes not comforta… | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 03:40 PM |
| 61 | Video games are holding you backFor you personally, have you ever considered that you weren't getting laid when you played video games because you were spending too many HOURS playing video games ? Solitary hobbies are detrimental to socializing but the solution is to do those solitary hobbies in moderation. Not to cut out any alone time you have completely. You're technically correct about your assement but this is dog shit holistic advice. Can you get more women by doing hobbies women find attractive? Probably yeah But I thi… | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Motivation and volume in daygameI'm a solo guy myself. It's actually detrimental to me now but I usually let the womens looks and my attraction to them motivate me to approach I also figured out when I'm bullshitting myself by going out more and listening to my inner voice. This part is just an experience thing. If you want to create a reward and / or punishment system for yourself that can help too Ex : I can eat ice cream if I do 6 approaches tonight but I don't do any I cant go on Reddit for 3 days | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 03:09 PM |
| 1 | What do I do stop wondering what’s wrong with me?It works meaning that if the girl likes you you're probably going to be ok asking her to go home with you. Doesn't mean it'll be successful all the time just means that it significantly increases the chances of a women that wants to go home with you going home with you | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 02:53 PM |
| 4 | Guys with a reputation of being “that guy that only talks to girls”, how do you deal with it?You have to bury your bad reputation in good reputation. Find out what people value and give it to them In the gym , maybe it's doing heavy lifts or helping newbies . In local places almost all " reputation " can be reset if you spend 6 months away from the places. I would do a hard reset at local places and maybe be more helpful at the gym if you can. I know it's hard to stop going to the gym so I get if you can't do a hard reset . | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 05:00 AM |
| 2 | What do you guys do if YOUR doesn't fit?The vagina can stretch during intercourse so if you go slow you should be able to give her ease her into stretching. | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 04:55 AM |
| 2 | What do I do stop wondering what’s wrong with me?Oh have you tried autistic rizz? Just telling girls you want to take them home after some small talk ? | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 02:52 AM |
| 10 | I told a waitress she was prettyIt seems like you just want to practice talking so I think you did great! | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 02:13 AM |
| 1 | How to create sparks or build romantic connection on a date?How do I say this ? Technically yes but you have to do things that are easy for your personality type. What type of humor do you have ? What would you say your strengths are ? What type of women would you like to attract ? | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 12:23 AM |
| 2 | Motivation and volume in daygame4 to 6 is baby numbers. You can do that in one hour if you have the volume to support it I would use the length of time as a motivator to get it out of the way and not procrastinate | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 11:48 PM |
| 1 | "You are only one approach away from getting laid" is mostly wrongPretty much. It's not healthy to have a " just one more " mentality with anything as volatile as cold approach and potentially detrimental as cold approach | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Conventional wisdom that’s never worked for youMost conventional wisdom didn't work because I'm very literal and I most people don't describe behavior literally | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Conventional wisdom that’s never worked for youBe authentic is just a way to say " convincingly exhibit attractive behaviors that you can sustain over an extended period of time " It has nothing to do with who you are as a person fundemrntally | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 11:29 PM |
| 1 | What do I do stop wondering what’s wrong with me?Wait just to be clear your saying you do take girls home with you but it's sporadic or your saying you don't take girls home with you at all ? | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Intimidation from a stunning womanIf you have enough of your senses then you'll know if she wants to sleep with you and you can capitalize. As long as you are honest about it being awhile you should be fine | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 04:32 PM |
| 1 | What would you say or do at a run club?100 - 200 people ? That sounds dope! You should talk to people about running or working out while quickly transitioning to other stuff. When it comes to lukewarm approach , I try to be pessimistic and stick to a 10 % failure rate. Meaning if there are 100 girls at an event venue I'll talk to 10. if all 10 are uninterested or reject me then I'll leave the venue or stick to making male friends instead. This is pessimistic but it gives me enough volume to make something of the event while also keep… | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Everyone says to optimize instagram profile but how?You're absolutely right. I should've specified by saying women like men who do luxurious things regardless of their income but I was trying to make the point that being " interesting " costs a lot of money | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 01:13 PM |
| 3 | How do you transition from getting a girl’s number to sleeping with her when you're not looking for a long-term relationship?In that case, if we're going to be specific then you would want to give them the misleading impression that you'd want to get to know them by asking questions that lead to " deep " topics like astrology , family , work , spirituality etc... Assessing if someone is Genuine is an estimation based on patterns of behavior at the end of the day. it has nothing to do with knowing someone's internal thought process. So you can genuinely not care about someone's family history but still ask them about i… | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 07:56 AM |
| 2 | Everyone says to optimize instagram profile but how?I'm not saying you're wrong in what attracts women but I hate when people pretend what you're describing is simply " having an interesting life ". Bro most people would have to make high six figure to even begin to comfortably afford to do all that stuff. Women like a man who makes a lot of money.Traveling and doing multiple excursions shows you have a lot of money or your family has a lot of money. | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Everyone says to optimize instagram profile but how?Really easy. Copy an influencer and post like them If you have no idea what an influencer page looks like then you should pay somebody to get you an influencer like Instagram. I say this because there are 100s of influencer pages to copy on Instagram and if you can't figure it out by looking at their pages it'll be much easier to pay for help than to figure out all the nuance . | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 07:26 AM |
| 7 | How do you transition from getting a girl’s number to sleeping with her when you're not looking for a long-term relationship?Most people will tell you to lie by omission and that is the most effective way to sleep with women. There are ways to spin the narrative and justify it through different words but ultimately that's what it is. It is the most socially acceptable , most popular form of casual sex for a reason. It takes a REALLY mature women to prefer harsh truth over pleasant sounding lies. If you want to appeal to a higher sense of morality you would just tell them the truth BEFORE you have sex with them and let… | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 07:06 AM |
| 2 | Why don't I get horny around other people?Super random shot in the dark Do you feel like you lose control of yourself when you're horny ? Could you get through a conversation ok while horny ? | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Am I too old for this? 47 y/o trying to game girls aged 30-37That age range is not super online brained so I would say go for it. women over 35 are kinda chill about being approached. It's not their favorite thing in the world but they're not flabbergasted as to why a man wants to talk to them. | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Let’s flip to the other side of the coin, what have you found makes women approach you?Wow so instead of whining and complaining about how the opposite gender makes you feel bad sometimes you simply took action to better yourself in those situations? Unheard of . | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Let’s flip to the other side of the coin, what have you found makes women approach you?Also I'll flip this on you You think every guy is just supposed to fall in love and pledge exclusivity to you because they talk to you for 10 mins? People are allowed to start conversations for a variety of reasons because ynow it's a bar . If you don't want to be practice I guess let people know ahead of time . | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Let’s flip to the other side of the coin, what have you found makes women approach you?This is really insensitive. This is manipulation using the tools of ambiguity and vagueness But NOBODY cares if you are insensitive to people in a nightclub. This is an ethics issue but not a practical issue. I think this is the same level of insensitivity as farting on public transportation. Yes the people on the public transportation will care , yes they might even remember you specifically farted on public transit once or twice , but ultimately if they get a bad experience theyre going to eit… | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Let’s flip to the other side of the coin, what have you found makes women approach you?Minding my own business , being with other women , being in predominantly women's spaces , and when I was a kid wearing suits or super formal attire would have women start small talk conversations with me that could lead to a getting to know type of conversation If your purely talking about the act of getting women to say words to me having colored hair , wearing entertainment memorabilia of pop culture characters , wearing women's clothing having something hanging out of my bag Stuff like that … | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Is being cubby/fat that much of a deal breaker?That's a tough one. You do have to play the game a lil bit in order to get your foot in the door but once you're in a relationship you can let the weight go. Being fat is a deal breaker but being a lil chubby usually isn't. If youre on the shorter side tho you need to get fit | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 06:02 AM |
| 2 | Sex workers that try to blend in on dating apps are the worstSex workers are a blight on regular people trying to find connections. Report them as soon as they reveal themselves | /r/seduction | 08/08/24 04:10 PM |
| 4 | How does your approach to meeting women change when you're only looking for something casual and non-exclusive?Aside from lying or being a f*ckboy, is there a way to increase the likelihood of finding a casual relationship? You can look for promiscuous women. They're harder to identify but usually they'll be comfortable around men , more assertive and maybe on the more alt side in terms of dressing. You can learn dirty talk and seduction but in practice the opportunities won't come up too often. It helps tho you can go for poly / ethically non monogamous people to increase your odds as well. You can lead… | /r/seduction | 06/08/24 06:22 AM |
| 3 | Do you stop people who are walking?Walking stops are the hardest but The sidewalk becomes your domain .they can also come in handy in really big venues at night. Ultimately you don't need it but it's an nice option | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 11:08 PM |
| 2 | How do you respond when you get hit with the I have a boyfriend lineYeah it's better to work on your presentation for the next girl when this happens It's probably half and half of lies and truth but id only challenge it if you are getting obvious clear signs of raw SEXUAL interest ( not just friendly warmness ) The way you'd challenge it is by pointing out the signs of raw SEXUAL interest | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Slightly off topic but do you have friends that blatantly lie about how they seduce women?he’s quite shady on his social media. But he’s a good looking dude and he’s pretty fit. Have you considered this is 90 % of the battle ? | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 04:20 AM |
| 3 | Slightly off topic but do you have friends that blatantly lie about how they seduce women?I have had friends who " could've had her if they wanted to " but most don't make the mistake of outright fabricating women. That's more of a high school / middle school thing. | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Having 2 girls at same time ? 😅I reread what you're saying yeah your best bet is to not have sex with girl 1 while girl 2 is sleeping over. Even with oral sex you risk getting a hair in your pants and getting into a very awkward conversation that should be avoided. It just makes things so much easier and it's only 6 days of abstaining when you have 2 ( ? ) months with her. I would get std tested 3 times in the month ( I think it's a month I'm kinda lost tbh ) your seeing girl 1 and 2 to avoid obvious ethical concerns | /r/seduction | 04/08/24 06:50 AM |
| 7 | Strategies for closing some of the ladies at our photography meet-ups?Just be creepy . Commit to the fact your creepin on these women and taking advantage of your work relationship OR don't do it at all. Your only alternative is to be talkative in general and hope they're inappropriate with you first | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 10:51 PM |
| 7 | I realized I’m not afraid of approaching girls, the fear is something differentNowadays kids will just tell you their kids. It's a benefit of people being super sensitive to power dynamics nowadays . If you're really unsure just ask | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 10:06 PM |
| 8 | I realized I’m not afraid of approaching girls, the fear is something differentYeah I have social anxiety too not really approach anxiety. You have to be ok with people thinking your weird , creepy a pest etc.... Ive been white knighted , kicked out of places , had women pretend to talk to staff because if me You name it. The only thing that stopped it was proper body language and what helps with body language is a good mindset. You have to have relaxed loose body language and you can't be nervous about being nervous Part of that is being ok with looking bad at some points… | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Having 2 girls at same time ? 😅I just reread everything. This is an indefinite period of time ? I don't know if you got the chops to pull this off . I would focus on girl 2 and see girl 1 when the opportunity presents itself organically. Ex : girl2 goes some where for 8 hours then you can see girl 1 for 3 hours You can focus on girl 1 before girl 2 comes and let her know now you're gonna be busier than you thought for the first 2 weeks that girl 1 is there. | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 09:40 PM |
| 9 | should i be open to her about dating or talking to other woman often?I think you should think about it in the same category as complaining or politics. You can bring it up but you shouldn't dwell on it for too long. | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 09:12 PM |
| 5 | I have this girl at work, pls help me with rational adviceShe tries to hold your hand , she rubs your arm and snuggles you , she asks if you like anyone at the office , she smacks your butt, she asks you out to a date or lunch , stuff like that If she risks being inappropriate with you in a flirty (way at work , 90% of the time it's because she likes you. If that all sounds obvious that is because it is. You can increase your options a lil bit by being friendly to people but waiting for obvious signs increases your chances the most and it's the best th… | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 08:02 AM |
| 24 | I have this girl at work, pls help me with rational adviceYou've described basic friendliness. I don't think it's a great idea to shoot your shot with every friendly girl but some girls do " flirt " by being friendly . So I understand the confusion. Friendliness ( AT WORK SPECIFICALLY ) is not a good indicator of interest so I would wait for a stronger indicator | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Canary Isnalds Nude beach etiquette?Everybody like a decent conversation. You might have to join in groups which can be annoying to do. If you look around you'll notice how people interact and get the vibe . I would only suggest that you don't cruise ( walk around hoping somebody makes eye contact ) it's very aggressive even though it seems passive | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 03:07 AM |
| -1 | How to go about cold approach when you have a kind of intimidating appearance?Say something like " I'm not as mean as I look " " I noticed your not holding eye contact am I am intimidating you? " I think your ok just saying what's on your mind when it comes to this | /r/seduction | 02/08/24 04:06 AM |
| 0 | Tommorow I’m going to a carribean carnival. I’m going to attempt cold approach and test my luck. Any tips?I would try to initiate dancing by asking girls to dance. I would also observe how men fail to get a dance and succeed to get a dance and learn from that to see what's appropriate. You don't have to be a leader in your environment. It's ok to be a follower | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 11:57 AM |
| 1 | I want to approach 100 girls tomorrowOk . You should delete this comment but you have the population . You just need to be aware of the travel distance. you should start downtown and try to start from bus station / rail stations to sidewalks to maybe a restaurant to parks to near colleges to malls and cycle through . ( Pun intended ) Youd want to lock your bike to a pole ( with a strong chain nothing flimsy ) , stay within one or two blocks then walk back to your bike and move up. Alternatively you can walk with your bike but that … | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 11:37 AM |
| 3 | I want to approach 100 girls tomorrow100 is a really lofty goal You'd have to go out at least 10 hours . Abd you have to plan it out in advance. You don't have to doxx yourself but what type of city do you live in ? Major city , mid size , small town ? Do you have transportation to different places ? What's your schedule like ? To approach 100 women Id break it up into chunks and I would be prepared to spend money on fast food or bring food with you. Id create a route from one place to another You want to hit : Transportation hubs … | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 05:18 AM |
| 5 | At this point in my life, I think that most of this things are completely useless or just not effective at all unless she's into you.This led me to looksmaxxing and selecting vs trying to be a comedian or salesmen. It's much more freeing worrying about body language and appearance vs trying to micro manage every word to be precise and " winning " | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 08:00 PM |
| 4 | I am 40 years old but concerned about daygame...I went out with a 40 year old guy when wingmen were a thing and sometimes girls who weren't into him hurried or speed walked away from him. The girls that were into him were into him but the girls that weren't sometimes had big reactions. I would try to keep it moving and not stay in the same place for too long but besides that I mean you don't want a fear of looking creepy to keep you inside . At the end of the day , your not doing anything illegal and at most businesses can only tell you to le… | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 02:13 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with late bloomer tax?Controversial / evil take you need to get ahead by any means . If that means stringing along a 19 year old or fucking women you don't find that attractive to gain experience just do it. I would take advantage of the fact that you are fucking ugly women ( not really but we'll get to that ) to get consistent enough sex to cure the ED Also you never think about what you're providing to these women as well. You're the hot one in this situation. They are getting to sleep with a hunk . I can't imagine… | /r/seduction | 31/07/24 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Does cold approach just not work for an ethnic guy?Yes being ethnic ( and a lil short ) affects your success rate and you have to compensate in other areas to make up for it. You probably have to dress up a lot, have impeccable hygiene and get bigger muscles even if you're talking to women that wear jean shorts and a T-shirt. I would maybe get a fake watch or something to show that you have a lil bit of money as well. | /r/seduction | 30/07/24 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Do you think snapchat is worst to game a girl?Snap is for uhh quickly ascertaining sexual desire. Random dick pics are low yield and are generally turn offs Random shirtless selfies are not as bad but might be a turn off as well .what you want to do on snap is get a lil bit of an in and let her know what you look like asap. Opened by replying to her snapchat story where I playfully said that her fav colour is black. She agreed and then I told her red will suit her more as it aligns with her name too. She left on read. I followed up after a … | /r/seduction | 30/07/24 06:06 AM |
| 2 | What to do when women talk shit about themselves?Just say ok and move on. Treat them like attention seekerand don't give them attention | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Going "too far" sexually on first datesDid you ever talk about sex with that person during the first date ? | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Should you always approach even if you don't want to?You should try to talk to every girl that gives you IOIs yeah . | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 06:06 PM |
| 1 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?Oh your good then . Yeah it's body language I can't diagnose you over text but you have to be assertive without being overly threatening. Lean towards performatively threatening or angry body language , observe what you do to appear threatening ( ex: squint your eyes , ball up your fist etc.. ) then tone it down little by little until you get a balance. I Would do his in places away from your usual stomping grounds because it's going to come off bad in the short term . On another note you could … | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 06:02 PM |
| 77 | Was Dating a more even playing field before apps and social media?Dating is slightly harder because women have more access to the higher tier men in their area But dating is also easier for men because they can talk to more women and increase the distance they can interact with women . So if you're talking about dating it's a bit harder. For sex , men have it slightly harder because women can literally spend 10 mins texting a few guys to get sex if they want but since people are more online and insular the anti - app crowd will enjoy IRL approaches more. Doesn… | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 05:46 PM |
| 7 | Im possibly autistic, but prefer neurotypical women - am I screwed?You could also date an ADHD mami who's nuerodivergent but full of energy | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 03:21 PM |
| -1 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?You got a tiny bit of a blank / autism stare but I say you can fix your problem by fixing your body language . Also are you really short? | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Second date after no escalation on the firstIf it's an actusl date your probably fine. Just go for a kiss . If you're trying to get laid, You gotta speed it up a lil bit and see if she's sexually interested in you | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 02:55 AM |
| 1 | How do you distinguish between lack of game or lack of initial interest preventing game from working?Me personally I just work on my body language , appearance and delivery then just run the numbers . If you have a witty line it can help but it's mostly about seeing if they have Interest vs convincing | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 02:53 AM |
| 4 | Why not just become a Passport Bro?Passport bro ing can be a bit dangerous and for some people is unsustainable. Besides that it's up to the person on his they're their life. It's super hard to get a genuine marriage I'd a green card is involved but if your just looking to bang them it might not matter | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 12:32 PM |
| 2 | Break down deadbeat/hobosexual game for meAttractive man date unattractive girl. Attractive man offers nothing when asked or asks for things early . That's about it . | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 03:08 PM |
| 6 | Women I approached either married or have a boyfriend60 is not that high of a number of approaches . Most women are lying tho if you had that suspicion They just don't feel like saying no directly because they feel like you can't handle that level of honesty. For me it was because I was stuttering too much and my body was shaking. Once i stopped doing those things and appeared more confident people felt they could tell me no | /r/seduction | 23/07/24 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Women lose attraction when they start to know me. It is normal?That's a general life thing tho. It's nice to follow existing with other people thing. At some point you have to choose which rules you can consistently follow to your benefit and which rules you'd rather break in order to be happy | /r/seduction | 23/07/24 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Should I start hiring dating coaches?You should be able to learn from free sources online. If you're not able to understand or properly interpret free online stuff after extended research then just get coaching. ( At least 50 hours plus of research ) They're not going to tell you anything profound but they'll hold your hand and give you more personal advice in a language you can understand. If you do mastermind groups , they'll literally tell you what to say over text as well. | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 09:55 AM |
| 37 | Women lose attraction when they start to know me. It is normal?You're either attracting women that want their men to be masculine alpha robots or your humor is so strange and out of pocket it's off-putting. For the second one , I'm talking about pedo jokes and being gay with the homies type of off-putting. Either way, you should ask the women themselves IF they lose interest after meeting your friends and why that happens if they do. If the answer is something trivial don't change it but if you're twerking on your friends ( as an example ) then I'd say hold… | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 09:37 AM |
| 2 | First attempt at a two mans need helpThe two man mission is a delicate art form . You have to let the women lead a bit but you can't be passive. The phrases " if I'm being weird just let me know and we can always change the subject or do something else" and " you still good ? How you feeling ? " are two phrases you want to memorize and repeat throughout the day. That being said I would use the old pickup mindset of logistically escalating by bouncing around from venue to venue ( mall , park , parking lot , bus etc.. ) until you hav… | /r/seduction | 21/07/24 09:52 PM |
| 0 | Approach to going out alone with confidence?You should go to places where your mistakes will not be punished and you have excuses for any socially inappropriate behavior. Your local Clubs fulfill those conditions because there are tons of people , it's dark , and there is an excuse of alcohol. You also could be talking to drunk people as well and that makes them less aware of any mistakes. You could also just drive / train to places with lots of people in the age range you want that's a 40 - 60 min commute. You could also combine the two … | /r/seduction | 21/07/24 09:18 PM |
| 1 | The line between "White knight" and actually just helping with stuff you know about.Women weaponize incompetence ALOT so I think I end up scrutinizing them more. I'm almost never offering physical labor help unless they pay me or it's literally a 30 second thing I only ask to help people who are willing to help themselves so I have to see them unable to do something for an extended period of time in order for me to help regardless of gender. That's just my rulebook. if they are elderly under 15 years old or disabled the rules don't apply | /r/seduction | 21/07/24 09:06 PM |
| 0 | Got asked out by business partnerBasically treat her like a sexual predator but continue the relationship. Not joking. women can be a lil aggressive if they like you and you reject them but that's not really the point. The point is that you don't want to end up in a situation where she can spread lies about you or paint the picture as the feelings being mutual in any way. Don't book hotel rooms close to each other. Limit the amount of times you guys are physically in the same space by yourselves especially late night. Try to ke… | /r/seduction | 21/07/24 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Every bought a course to improve your online dating? How was it?Id say If you don't learn enough from free videos, your probably not intelligent enough to get meaningful results in dating without hand holding / extensive coaching. I would tell people not to bother with a product at all because theyd still have to interpret the info given. | /r/seduction | 21/07/24 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Is it better to live by yourself with bad logistics, or with your parents in a convenient area?If you move out , Look up 45 min commutes by train and or bus and limit your dating pool to those places . 60+mins is a lot for most people but if you're willing to make the trip just make sure they can host you. You can live with your parents but that might limit you to women who also live with their parents or women who have their own place to host you. | /r/seduction | 20/07/24 05:45 AM |
| 1 | What to say after what’s your name?Make basic small talk then tell them what you want. Date , sex , girlfriend Friend etc... | /r/seduction | 20/07/24 02:42 AM |
| 0 | How to make female friend/acquaintances not see me as friendly guy or excuse my cringe "beta" ?Be sexually attractive to them | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 09:13 AM |
| 1 | At what point can you actually be your genuine self in a relationship?I feel like your framing this the wrong way. Being genuine is not really most peoples real desire from their partner. They mostly want their partner to be consistent with their behavior and to do things that please them. Exaggerated example , most women don't care if a man genuinely LOVES giving head but most women would enjoy consistent head. It's understandable to fa What did you specifically do that the women didn't like ? What are you willing to compromise on ? If your not willing to comprom… | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 05:02 AM |
| 3 | Do you go on dates with people you aren’t into?Yeah . I think Alot of Men and women do it at some point. Not every woman's rebound or sloppy hookup is a giga Chad thunder cock. It's fine as long as the other person never finds out. | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 04:31 AM |
| 1 | You need to spend money to get laid!Can you quote why I brought that up? | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 09:29 PM |
| 1 | You need to spend money to get laid!Ah there we go . The " don't date until 30 paradox " that's keeping young men lonely. ( Get experience but don't date until you have a decent income🙃 ) Young woman under patriarchy undergo a similar paradox where they heed a husband at 25 but should only have a 1 to 2 person body count I don't even mind the idea of what your saying but lifestyle creep combined with the cost of living going up means people under your system might not start dating until their 25 - 30 with very little experience. I… | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 09:12 PM |
| 4 | You need to spend money to get laid!Yep. If you're going on a date once a month I'd say it's trivial but once you bump the numbers up to 2 or 3 times a month it can be a pain in the ass. It's like any other subscription really Everything is fine in a vacuum but if you add it all up it can eat at your budget and annoy you . | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 07:27 PM |
| 0 | You need to spend money to get laid!You need to talk to those commenters then. I said providing meals for a women is still the same thing as paying for a meal . You just happen to get the meals for free as a perk of your job. His labor directly contributed to the gross earnings of the restaurant. And money is just a representation of future labor. So he didn't literally cook the meal, He didn't literally give the company dollar bills in order to get the meal , but the value of his labor was used to purchase the food that the cooks… | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 06:55 PM |
| -1 | You need to spend money to get laid!I guess people have lucked out in life because I've dealt with people who would prey on you if you had a place with internet connection , a bed and food in your fridge . If you want to view things black and white , most people " want " you for your material possessions money , lifestyle etc. I bet most redditors aren't friends with people that don't have stable access to the Internet. I bet most of your friends and sex partners wear shoes on a consistent basis . I bet most of your friends are ab… | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 06:18 PM |
| 9 | You need to spend money to get laid!Literally providing free food tho. You're giving her something that has a dollar value attached to it in return for her time. And also getting her food when the weather is bad still counts as paying for her ( if your paying for the cafe meals ) If you were a multimillionaire getting her dinner might be virtually free to you but still hold value for her. That's like saying" I don't need money for pussy but if the women Im sleeping with ever need a car ride I'm always there " | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 05:17 PM |
| 11 | You need to spend money to get laid!He's paying with time , emotional labor , possibly drugs , his protection and whatever else comes with being a boyfriend. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Can general interaction be a sign I'm not as unattractive as I think I amYeah a lil bit. It means you're not disgustingly ugly. I would say it mostly means you don't have threatening body language. In my experience people aren't as shallow when it comes to general interactions as they are with their sexual partners. It takes a tremendously ugly person to have trouble getting people to generally interact and even then I would attribute it to body language for the majority of them. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Polarity without neggingEven non autistic men say dumb shit without realizing . Trying to teach an advanced concept like negging to more autistic leaning guys like us was not a good idea. | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 04:11 AM |
| 11 | Improving my game when I'm already an attractive guy?What is it with pickup guys and a ramble talk style of writing ? | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 04:03 AM |
| 3 | Improving my game when I'm already an attractive guy?You can practice telling the women who approach you first ( especially if they are trying to rizz you up ) that you're only looking for hookups or casual sex. How do you say it ? Somewhere in between 5 seconds and 5 minutes of talking with a female you say the words " I'm only looking for hookups or casual sex " . preferably within close proximity of the topic of sex or spending time together. You can improve your placement of the phrase over time and you can change the words to better match the… | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 04:01 AM |
| 4 | GUIDE: How to accurately assess how she feels about you during a date and know when to go for a kiss without being rejected (with applicable easy steps)I just ask to kiss her or tell her I wanted to kiss her and she usually says yes to kissing | /r/seduction | 12/07/24 03:24 AM |
| -23 | What’s everyone’s experience seducing women in Japan ?Asian racism is less than American white racism. | /r/seduction | 12/07/24 03:23 AM |
| 1 | What would you pay for personal advice?Yeah . One person helping 10 - 20 people at once is usually bad. It's ok to teach general theories but a back and forth with one to 3 people is probably much more productive | /r/seduction | 12/07/24 03:01 AM |
| 2 | What would you pay for personal advice?Not worth the public scrutiny. Coaches get to be semi anonymous and make similar money marketing underground on forums . Maybe if Kick ( Livestreaming platform ) had a Solid VOD program that would work but Kick is lagging behind YouTube in this sense | /r/seduction | 10/07/24 11:24 PM |
| 0 | What would you pay for personal advice?I would actually disagree. Live workshops are kinda a scam in terms of value for the participants. It's good for meeting people but lectures are pretty bad formats for dating advice | /r/seduction | 10/07/24 11:20 PM |
| 2 | What would you pay for personal advice?If I remember the old pickup blueprint correctly It was 100 hour for calls And then maybe like 200 for a 3 hour " INSERT STRONG SOUNDING NAME HERE " session Maybe about 300 a month for a weekly strategy development session with text support About 800 for 3 months of weekly strategy development and text support I think most people spend like 30 - 50 bucks on a night out drinking | /r/seduction | 10/07/24 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Are house parties overrated compared to bars/clubs when it comes to meeting women/hooking up? Or is it really significantly easier to pull at house parties?what do you mean by free sir ? 🤨 | /r/seduction | 10/07/24 03:42 AM |
| 0 | Girl im talking to say she wants me to be more vulnerable….Pretend to be vulnerable about ? Think of things you don't care about that other people care about and say you care about those things. Ex : let's say you know you have a big nose but you genuinely don't give a shit about it. Pretend you're insecure about how big your nose is. That way if she ever tries to attack you about your nose you can logically process she's trying to hurt you without the emotional pain | /r/seduction | 10/07/24 03:39 AM |
| 37 | Man FUCK I keep getting nauseaous before datesYou should go to a therapist / psychologist then . If it's not physical it's probably mental | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 05:31 PM |
| 6 | Setting the standard for OralI would bring up enthusiasm and see what the issue is around it. Maybe she just doesn't like giving head because it hurts her mouth , maybe she's lazy, maybe she has bad breath and gets self conscious or aybe she doesn't like to make much noise when giving head Also I would set the standard at something fair for both of you . If you like eating her pussy almost no matter what and she asks you to do it, you probably should do it even if it's imbalanced. If you're more moody the standard should be… | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 07:55 PM |
| 2 | is it better to be honest you only want sex or lie that you want romanceIt's better to be honest that you only want sex but it's not a good idea to put it like that in your first sentence. Women like pleasantries and small talk. They don't necessarily want a commitment just because they want those things . you can tell them you're only looking for sex or a casual relationship when they ask what you're looking for from them . Women are fragile but they are still adults . They can handle a man telling them they don't want a relationship with them . Some might have mor… | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 01:50 PM |
| 4 | is it better to be honest you only want sex or lie that you want romanceAmbiguous and vague . It's barely honesty. It's just technically not lying | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 01:28 PM |
| 2 | I can’t stop talking to women in my head. Pls help.Like redoing past conversations? | /r/seduction | 04/07/24 04:30 AM |
| 0 | Recording and uploading approachesWhy ? What do you gain from uploading approaches ? | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 02:42 PM |
| 26 | Why do women ghost after giving great vibes before hanging out?We call this flaking if she hasn't met you in person first. Girls flake because there are better options out there. Young girls especially think guys have just as many options as them therefore they think you won't notice or won't care that they flaked . Women who are confrontational and honest about how theyre feeling and are also considerate of others feelings are rare. | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 02:57 AM |
| 2 | For those that used to suffer (or still suffer) from Oneitis, what was your mindset like?I thought that every woman was a unique person that couldn't be matched therefore I had to have THIS EXACT person or id lose them forever. I also thought showing effort through subservience was the way to get women now my mindset is , each person is unique but not by much. There are certain combinations of traits that are appealing and unappealing and dating is mostly about figuring out what your non negotiables are and building something special within the range of women that are attracted to y… | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 02:45 AM |
| 95 | Myth: “Most women are busy on summer”Every woman is extremely busy until she's sexually attracted to you | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 02:27 AM |
| 6 | Why LOOKSMAXXING Will Get You NOWHERE!There's a threshold. You have to be talking to Alot of people even if you looksmax. Alot of looksmaxxers neglect the work part. I really can't separate inner game from basic psychological health so I'll say you probably shouldn't be a crazy delusional or self destructive person if you're trying to have casual sex or date. I think having avg to below avg social skills and below average to below avg mental health is probably good enough. B Let’s face it let’s say you are currently a 5 or a 6 (the … | /r/seduction | 26/06/24 10:33 AM |
| 0 | Not "attacking" on first two dates - is it bad or not?What are your goals with her? | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 10:11 PM |
| 2 | Not everyone can be a “high value” or top 10%. As more men improve competition does as wellYes / no . Let's say women want 6 6 6 6 feet 6 figures 6 pack If they go to a big city where the avg income is 6 figures And everybody works out , their standards might be raised a bit but the more likely consequence is that they're gonna start selecting for different things instead of chasing the richer fitter and taller.( Still happens of course but I would rather not date a woman who isn't satisfied with low six figures ) It's possible to be " high value " objectively and average . It's also … | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 02:45 PM |
| 0 | Do you think women need emotional conflict?People crave adversity and variation. Young people , especially women , tend to crave emotionally variable partners OR non emotional partners that make them question themselves. People usually seek their thrills in other ways after their first or second genuinely abusive partner | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 10:07 PM |
| 6 | Getting stopped when things get physical, foreplay tips?Pretty much She has to be comfortable with the idea of being intimate so talking about it first usually helps | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 04:40 PM |
| -3 | In Chicago tomorrow trying to get laid (24hr speed run)Try talking to 100 girls and move on from anybody that isn't too keen after a direct opener and/ a direct ask to hook up after 2 mins | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 01:22 PM |
| 1 | how do i create sexual tension over the phone?That's really easy in theory. Try to steer the conversation into talking about sex or sex acts . Then you can get into phone sex where both you guys are masturbating together. How do you do that ? Well that's what game is ( imo ) and you can make your whole life's mission to get better at it if you so choose . I would start out being over eager and over presumptuous then I would learn when and where it's appropriate to try and turn things sexual. Combine this with working on your tone and you'll… | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 12:44 AM |
| 1 | I wasted my 20s, now 30 year old - did I mess up my SMV & how to salvage it?Your dating options are limited by your age looks , and income but that's just life . You connect with people on similar life paths . I think you should try to look good if you can but otherwise your best bet is to be upfront with women about where you're at in life and let them decide. Some women don't mind dating a broke person that's ambitious and knows what they want . SMV is subjective tho . What does a high smv for a male mean to you ? What does high or low smv for a female mean to you? | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 10:12 PM |
| 0 | Would you try testing the waters with this older woman at work or let her do it?Huh? Do you plan to recruit her? Why are you bringing up the work convos ? | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Thigh orgasm? Weird or normal?Thank you so much ! | /r/seduction | 09/06/24 10:41 AM |
| 44 | Thigh orgasm? Weird or normal?You have to break down how he does it . Not because it'll help me answer your question but because I want to steal the trick 😂😂 To answer your question, if your boyfriend does something consensually to you with his body and you both find it pleasurable( not saying he's nutting from it but that he gets some type of satisfaction ) then it's always OK | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 09:52 PM |
| 2 | How can I be more emotionally unavailable as a Woman ? Any tips or advice pleaseCreate the habit . You just have to do it. You can set a texting timer to contrive more distance. You can not cook somebody pancakes or only cook them for yourself . You can say " hey I'm working on not being a mother hen ( making fun of yourself to let them know you find the behavior negative ) so If I accidentally ask you if you've eaten just remind me that I'm doing that " then you can take a second to pause and see if you are being a big ol mommy. What your trying to do is separate your emot… | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Best way to ask out, or give my number, to a shop workerIt's not about increasing the odds of success. it's about minimizing the effects of rejection. your asking out a worker in their workplace. There's a power dynamic at play that forces her to be nice and over accommodating. That's why most men read the signals wrong and go for the dumb play of asking out someone while they're at work with no other signals but " she's nice 🤓" In all actuality , rejection is like 99% likely so might as well not make it awkward and switch stores just in case. I unde… | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 08:40 PM |
| -1 | Best way to ask out, or give my number, to a shop workerI would switch coffee shops then ask her out directly. Maybe make up something about moving being the reason you haven't been around. | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 07:55 PM |
| 4 | does MODE 1 method by Alan Roger Currie actually work?Like most people you took the most exaggerated outlandish stories about HIM and applied it to you as a random internet guy don't know if alan rodger currie was up to date with the times today of the me too era and how it is today compared to lets say the 80s or 90s when he was in in his prime. It seems like today its easier to get in trouble for approaching girls. I also don't know if alan roger currie ever posted actual lay reports and I never saw him doing live field of what he does, of course… | /r/seduction | 05/06/24 02:37 PM |
| 3 | how do i get laid single male 38Hit up 1000 women Apparently being in a relationship is attractive so I guess you could try pretending to be married or pretending to be separated but not divorced | /r/seduction | 04/06/24 12:26 AM |
| -1 | Rejected at partyI would focus on body language/ vibe. Imo I have huge body language issues because of anxiety. the difference is night and day when I'm calm vs when I'm on edge. | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Asking for consentWhy do I need to explain myself ? She might literally be in the middle of having her mouth on me wym ? I've heard " get a condom silly " but I can't think of a single woman who would be weirded out by" let me go get " vs idk " I'm going to get " If there are , it's an micro optimization of speech that's dependent on the person and not worth caring about | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 11:27 AM |
| 3 | I'll go ahead and take a week off from work and meet strangers in a different city... What's your advice?I would go full creep/predator mode if you aren't going to be in that town for long By that I mean : Try to do 100+ approaches If you have 7 days you could theoretically do 200 Have 7 different cool outfits , have a fresh cut, try to carry around wet wipes for sweat and carry a tiny bit of cologne to re up If you have a car, drive around to different female dominated stores or the mall during the day and go out to different bars at night. You can also go to the downtown office area during lunch … | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 09:48 PM |
| 0 | Asking for consentA girl shouldn't get turned off because a guy she likes asks for consent. If she's on the fence about you, it might turn her off if you ask for something at the wrong time. But that has more to do with the timing than the act of asking. In my judgement, the type of women that thinks consent is gay usually likes to get drunk to have sex as well. Women that like to get drunk to have sex are risky people to hook up with I ask for consent for almost everything except penetration. I don't ask consent… | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Any of you guys on here deal with sexual performance anxiety ?If so what has your experience with it been like over the years ?Are you a fast finisher or is it hard to get up? | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 08:09 PM |
| 2 | I 30m simp don't know how to ask out the girl that works at the front desk of the gym.Oh nvm. Don't talk to her. I rescind my above comment lol There are absolutely no signs of interest | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 08:06 PM |
| 10 | I 30m simp don't know how to ask out the girl that works at the front desk of the gym.Don't ask her out unless you plan to move gyms if it doesn't go well. ( And by not go well I'm saying you could get her number at the gym and she could flake on a date with no explanation ) You're at a gym but she's earning a living there so asking her out will make her workplace uncomfortable if only for a few seconds | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 08:04 PM |
| 1 | 40s dating 20sIf you have good social skills your gonna Intuit Alot of things and avoid pitfalls. Only concrete advice I can give is to replace " my age " or " when I was young " to " in my experiences" People don't like to feel limited by their biology so that's why I would avoid saying things like " your young so you don't know X " or " I'm old so I know more about Y " | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 06:14 PM |
| 132 | Why is cold approach so addictive?Because cold approach has a variable reward schedule and variable reward schedules are addictive | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Will a guy expect sex if I invite him to a movie at my house?Yes he will. Don't invite him over unless you expect him to initiate , pressure and/or joke his way into your pants the entire night | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Those of you who successfully faked it till they made it with confidence. How did you do it?You should hit on women . It IS a net negative for society but it has so many positive benefits for you that it's worth it. If there was a hidden camera every time you approached and people were asked to average out your bad interactions with the good ones ( based on the woman's feedback ) , you'd probably be given a score of slightly annoying or slightly uncomfy over a longer period of time. That's what I mean by net negative. There are feminist women who will hate the audacity of a straight ma… | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Those of you who successfully faked it till they made it with confidence. How did you do it?You should hit on women . It IS a net negative for society but it has so many positive benefits for you that it's worth it. If there was a hidden camera every time you approached and people were asked to average out your bad interactions with the good ones ( based on the woman's feedback ) , you'd probably be given a score of slightly annoying or slightly uncomfy over a longer period of time. That's what I mean by net negative. There are feminist women who will hate the audacity of a straight ma… | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Those of you who successfully faked it till they made it with confidence. How did you do it?You should hit on women . It IS a net negative for society but it has so many positive benefits for you that it's worth it. If there was a hidden camera every time you approached and people were asked to average out your bad interactions with the good ones ( based on the woman's feedback ) , you'd probably be given a score of slightly annoying or slightly uncomfy over a longer period of time. That's what I mean by net negative. There are feminist women who will hate the audacity of a straight ma… | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Those of you who successfully faked it till they made it with confidence. How did you do it?You should hit on women . It IS a net negative for society but it has so many positive benefits for you that it's worth it. If there was a hidden camera every time you approached and people were asked to average out your bad interactions with the good ones ( based on the woman's feedback ) , you'd probably be given a score of slightly annoying or slightly uncomfy over a longer period of time. That's what I mean by net negative. There are feminist women who will hate the audacity of a straight ma… | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 12:44 PM |
| 1 | How to be polite about wanting casual?Yeah . Pretty much. Make sure she feels valuable. I would recommend driving separately. yeah | /r/seduction | 29/05/24 01:58 AM |
| 0 | How to be polite about wanting casual?Your lying by ommision What if she opens her legs to you because she thinks you're gonna be in a relationship? What if she has hangups about having sex with people that don't want a relationship ? You have to give her the option | /r/seduction | 29/05/24 01:19 AM |
| 2 | How to be polite about wanting casual?You have to get her to agree to a date first . If she agrees ,then mention you are looking for something casual either on the date or before the date. I would pay for the date , validate her constantly and make sure she leaves in an ok mood . For some reason , women take fuckzoning as hard if not harder than actual rejection so you have to be delicate. | /r/seduction | 29/05/24 01:18 AM |
| 3 | How to convince neighbour girl for hookup.There's not enough data to assume attraction. She could just be lonely. And you know where she lives so she's going to be WAYY more accommodating and nice to protect herself. I would wait for her to flirt with you and capitalize on that | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 12:10 PM |
| -1 | Short with handsome friend ? (Shitty title)Oh you described the problem. 1. Sarah is 2 inches taller than you 2. Your 5 4. that is an outlier height that does affect your daily life and dating success. I would just go to counseling for it honestly. I usually don't tell people they need to compensate but outliers definitely do. Work on yourself and improve not for women but for your own ego. Make as much money as you can to attract women 😅 you can spend some of it on yourself if you want. Gym should be about being healthy. Bigger muscles … | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 04:35 AM |
| 1 | How can I(25) tell if she(25) is flirting with me or not? I need genuine advice.Friend group? Doesn't mean much . Maybe you talk to her for 30 seconds by yourself to see how she feels but I wouldn't put more effort besides that | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 12:11 AM |
| 2 | How to become more arrogant?You're delusionally misguided. You can't be humble if you don't know your worth imo I would get an accurate account of your strengths and weaknesses based on feedback you get and go from there | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Seducing neighborif we're being honest most thrreesomes are 2 women having a good time and having the guy as a 3rd wheel so I would own up to that and send the wife to seduce her and see if she will oblige you | /r/seduction | 25/05/24 03:33 AM |
| 0 | Guys that are not "conventional ", how do you talk yourself out of disappointment?Do you have adhd ? That's my only explanation for having such high rejection sensitive dysphoria. Ive have extreme reactions to getting rejected when I was younger but through exposure therapy I got used to it. That's my only suggestion. Just don't get your hopes up and experience the full emotion of being let down | /r/seduction | 25/05/24 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Guys who get laid every time they go to a bar, what is your secret?Even 🍇ists don't have 99% batting average That's impossible | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Can women provide wrong signals when horny or PMSing?Oh ok Nvm then you mightve missed the chance to fuck her but maybe her sexual interest is still there. I would maybe bring up that day again , ask if she still feels the same way and move on if she doesn't | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 02:06 PM |
| 3 | Can women provide wrong signals when horny or PMSing?student teacher relationship ? So if your authority figures or boss found out you slept with her would you get in trouble? | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 11:37 AM |
| 0 | Not interested in relationships, do true FWB's exist?Maybe. But men still do it and women still fall for it because it does feel nice to be validated and listened to. To play devil's advocate, it's possible women with weird issues catch MORE feelings because you're emotionally unavailable but that's where your boundaries have to be solid. You have to outline the behavior that makes you uncomfortable and let her know you'll walk away if she continues it. | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 02:29 PM |
| 208 | Not interested in relationships, do true FWB's exist?I have a hot take . Women are capable of being fuck buddies but men don't know how to be friends with a woman without acting like their boyfriend She's not gonna fall in love because you talk about video games or rap music sometimes but she will fall in love if you're emotionally validating her , doing favors for her and being her free counselor etc... Stop acting like her husband and she'll stop trying to be your wife | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 02:00 PM |
| 1 | How many girls do you talk to at a time?2 to 4 Im not a big text guy but I add everybody to Snapchat and they pop in and out every once in awhile | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Approach even if she is wearing a headphonesFor headphones, I agree that you can just ask to talk but phone calls theres not much upside | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Daygame Statistics - My first 1000 ApproachesI mean I agree with what you're saying but that's a different ratio , no ? | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 10:04 PM |
| 6 | Daygame Statistics - My first 1000 ApproachesWhat i meant is getting a number doesn't mean anything until they are on the first date as you call it. I guess I should clarify the ratio of numbers to opens and the quantity of numbers is irrelevant If someone got 20 numbers but they slept with 10 girls id argue they're probably doing something better than the guy getting 200 numbers but only sleeping with 5 girls. If they opened the same amount of girls, the 20 number guy has a way worse open to number ratio. But who cares if he's getting lai… | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Daygame Statistics - My first 1000 ApproachesThat makes sense. If half of the girls you kiss go back to your place that's workable. Not great but workable I would still improve your kissing skills , cause why not , and work on getting rid of girls that aren't interested in sex with you quicker so that the ratio of girls you kiss come back to your place becomes like 80 / 20 or 90/ 10 | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 09:44 PM |
| 24 | Daygame Statistics - My first 1000 ApproachesOf those, 931 stopped when I spoke to them Pretty damn good. No need to change I got 125 numbers In my opinion it's totally irrelevant to get a number but it's nice to get some repetitions in texting to start out Of these, 59 responded to the first message This is pretty normal but you can raise the ratio of women responding by your first message slightly by not taking numbers from girls who aren't going to respond. I know it sounds obvious but you can sometimes tell when someone is giving a pit… | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Urgent: mutual interest between me (23M) and a girl (19) but idk what to doWhy is she clearly interested? Did she say she was clearly interested? How do you know shes interested vs just comfortable around you? | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 12:40 AM |
| 1 | How to follow contradictory adviceThese sound like nuanced opinions. Nuance exists. Idk what else to say . I didn't see a single contradiction | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Really been feeling like I'm never good enough as a 6'4" non-white dude in Canada.I'm not gonna sck your dk and the woman that will sCK your d**k won't care that much either Dont worry about it unless your talking to a barber or in a skin care store talking to an employee | /r/seduction | 20/05/24 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Really been feeling like I'm never good enough as a 6'4" non-white dude in Canada.I seen the picture. You're fine. especially at 6 4 Do you have a good looking face ? No . but you have a good enough face. Just continuously up your hygiene game over time , make sure your facial hair is growing and , keep it pushin. Also if you're the same 6 4 black guy from Canada that was worried about his hair , your fine. You can still style and grow out your hair a bit | /r/seduction | 20/05/24 04:30 PM |
| -1 | I'm tired of rejectionIf your 5 4 , your height significantly affects your life so I would honestly take whoever or whatever you can get. You have zero room to be picky about a womans looks. You can be picky about personality and character tho. I would lower your standards, go to therapy for the trauma you might experience as an extremely short person and keep it pushin EDIT : one last thing, cold approach might not be for you but going out and talking to girls who show you major interest first is fine. I would focus… | /r/seduction | 20/05/24 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Approached and got told to F offActing . You go through the motions of being confident on the surface while actually being nervous. And your practice acting through repetition , video recording yourself and in the field noticing your movements | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 11:47 PM |
| -3 | Approached and got told to F offShe maybe noticed you staring at her on the train , heard you walking towards her and , unfortunately because of human nature , saw that you were nervous and thought she could get away with being aggro. It's a fact of life that people fuck with people that appear weaker than them. It doesn't get talked about because it's not very politically correct to say women can be aggressive towards men . You don't even have to do anything dramatic to lessen the likelihood of this happening. Have the body l… | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 07:41 PM |
| 2 | How do I pick up girls at my uniYeah but your environment isn't conducive to anonymity It's like asking how many people should you approach at your family reunion Technically you should be able to approach any single girl you're not related to but your risking your reputation by hitting on friends of the family . Even if you have a 500 person family reunion and 50 single women there I wouldn't suggest hitting on anybody at your family reunion unless they hit on you or flirt first . | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 05:26 PM |
| 0 | How do I pick up girls at my uniOh so you should be fine approaching 5 - 10 girls a year 😁 Yeah that's ridiculously small. I'm exaggerating a tiny bit but Im trying to convey that you shouldn't be approaching much if at all in that scenario | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 05:11 PM |
| 3 | How do I pick up girls at my uniYeah pretty much. Unfortunately to maintain a reputation in white collar spaces, it's better to make 300 acquaintances and get laid once rather than approach 100 women to get laid 10 times. | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 05:06 PM |
| 3 | How do I pick up girls at my uniBecause you don't want a reputation as an approacher? That can easily turn into a reputation of being a creep even if you don't say anything creepy or wrong. In the trades, they don't give af but he's literally in college so these are people that are going to be in white collar social circles where that reputation matters. | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Turning 30 soon and absolutely clueless and sexually frustated after attempting cold approach yesterday for the upteenth time. As a 6'4" slightly nerdy black dude who has embraced the blackpill and lives with his parents, finding women into me is near impossible...Ok. I was wrong about my assumption then . If your Double bald maxxing ( I just made up the word ) then of course that lowers your smv. If you go to a barber then they'll be able to tell you a good hairstyle for your exact hairline. I would focus on combinations of derma rolling , Hot oil treatments and OTC minoxidil treatments. Split ends are the death of really long curly beards so make you comb your beard while it's smaller and pick it out when it longer. Besides that I would maybe fashion ma… | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 03:45 PM |
| 29 | Turning 30 soon and absolutely clueless and sexually frustated after attempting cold approach yesterday for the upteenth time. As a 6'4" slightly nerdy black dude who has embraced the blackpill and lives with his parents, finding women into me is near impossible...It sounds like you took the victim complex of inceldom and applied none of the self help stuff from looksmaxxing. You're not blackpill. you're just a whiner looking for a way out. I'm prejudging you based on your post but most guys in your scenario have bad fashion, a boring unflattering haircut and don't go for trendy facial hair As a black man ,you can grow dreads, get braids and even wear different styles outside of collared shirts to upgrade your aesthetic. ACTUALLY take the blackpill and im… | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 03:04 PM |
| 2 | How do I pick up girls at my uniHow big is the Uni ? I wouldnt approach much if it's under 100k students I would join clubs or classes to make acquaintances. | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Is daygame/cold approach the best use of your time?Okie | /r/seduction | 18/05/24 04:14 AM |
| 3 | Is daygame/cold approach the best use of your time?Yeah. You have to be aware youre doing it. Most people understand they are transgressing social norms That's why approach anxiety exists for so many people If you were making these comments about 2012 pickup culture id agree with you but we're not back then | /r/seduction | 18/05/24 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Is daygame/cold approach the best use of your time?I disagree . You train yourself to not FEEL embarrassed which opens you up to focus on what the other person is feeling. And you do get rewarded SOMETIMES for ignoring the feelings of women but it's usually very small transgressions. ( Ex : a woman is on their way somewhere , their lost in thought, they're weren't planning to get picked up on the sidewalk etc... ) Approaching is a societal negative on the aggregate but it's 99.99 % percent of cases it's a woman feeling slightly uncomfortable bec… | /r/seduction | 18/05/24 04:11 AM |
| 6 | Is daygame/cold approach the best use of your time?If you sleep with half your dates ( assuming your goal is to have sex ) then a 2.5% closing ratio is pretty normal. You have to remember that's only 40 girls. It can take 8 hours to talk to 40 girls but you can find better spots and take less time the more you do it. You'll also find more optimal spots and get better at filtering out people who aren't interested the more you do it | /r/seduction | 18/05/24 04:03 AM |
| 1 | How do I approach and start a conversation with this woman I see in everytime in officeYou shouldn't. Wait for a conference or some outside of work event | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Sticking point of kissingI hate to be Captain obvious but this is the best answer with the least negative consequences | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Kiss close that’s works for meMy routine is I usually ask to kiss them and then if they say yes I go for the kiss | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Small City Adviceif you're in the US, the advantage of medium sized cites is that other medium sized cities are a drivable distance away. I would only approach when you're already out about in your city but to be specific I would keep it to less than 150 a year for daytime approaches. 200+ if you don't care about your rep I would drive / bus / bike to other cities and widen the range on dating apps . So up to 100 miles. I would also go to events and rotate to different scenes So maybe a goth night one night , a … | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Slept with 20 women in one year: Truing to deal with bad effectsYour conversions are good and you seem to understand what your bringing to the table so you don't have a huge ego . I would like to congratulate you on becoming an attractive guy 😁 This is " normal " life now . Sex is just another thing you are capable of having. This is the reality of attractive / wealthy men and the reality of being an average looking woman. Now it's time to either look for hyper efficiencies to leave unfruitful dates early or find another hobby lol | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 12:50 PM |
| 1 | How to battle ignorance at a Bar pickup?Not worth it. Just move on . | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 01:56 AM |
| 5 | Having greater power dynamics over the woman you're dating is GOODNo. It's a red flag and usually bad . It's just optimal to get what you want It's more fair to date women your height or taller to get rid of your physical advantage over them but women like men with a physical advantage 🤷🏿 Same with money , social status , looks , intelligence etc... | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 01:21 PM |
| 2 | Why you should record your infield footage and upload them to YouTubeOh yeah I was just saying you could attach a Google drive link or maybe a link to an obscure video sharing platform. YouTube has a lot of reach. If you change the video settings to " link only " ( instead of private or public ) I guess it's fine but there's no reason to make it public. That was my point. | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Why you should record your infield footage and upload them to YouTubeSo just send it to your boys ? Why make it public if it increases the chances of the girls seeing it ? Like your taking such an unnecessary risk for what ? Bragging rights ? YouTube comments ? | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Why you should record your infield footage and upload them to YouTubeOh . You're talking about uploading a private link of your stuff to YouTube ? That's a bit unnecessary but I guess you could do it . You might as well keep the videos on a hard drive or cloud storage service. Wayy less likely to be discovered | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 10:16 AM |
| -4 | Why i believe that daygame will always the best form of dating for the majority of men to meet new womenThe best rite of passage for a young man is to have lots of friends ( men and women ) as a teenager and continue to put effort into friendships as an adult. This is the best way to meet women The second best bet is going out with friends and talking to people who are also doing the same activity. Day or Night. Third is online game because you just need good pictures which MIGHT take you 1000 dollars . And depending on how unethical you are , you can just photo shop Daygame is the hardest but the… | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Do you think straight men can seduce lesbians or women who have been in exclusively female relationships?No. But girls can crave dick sometimes and choose to deal with a person with a penis . Sometime that person is a straight male | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 06:07 PM |
| 2 | If you're a straight man, going to gay bars to pick up women is the best decision you could makeInfiltrate queer spaces , lie about your sexuality and be social to hide your intentions to isolate women I'm not saying you're wrong about the results but this is literally predation by definition. lol Its just funny to see it spelled out so plainly EDIT: lying about being with your friend is also funny to see spelled out but it's more of a white lie. | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 06:03 PM |
| 4 | I need to help being more sexually appealing/how to turn my convos sexualThe biggest rule is that sexual conversation does not equal permission to touch. They are entirely separate things. You get permission to touch through asking. Or you just do socially normal / acceptable things. 2nd biggest rule is that you don't need to be brave and just go for it . It's perfectly fine to suggest something sexual , gauge her response , and then abandon the topic if she doesn't seem into it. i also don't think sexual jokes mean much either. Like if your describing giving someone… | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 04:48 AM |
| 4 | How many guys here actually approach?I knew it . Lol 8 to 16 hours is a TON of hours. No wonder your getting laid Alot. I know your not spam approaching but still. | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 06:55 PM |
| 0 | How many guys here actually approach?One day means absolutely nothing. You can do 100 approaches in one day. I think hours spent out is a better metric imo. | /r/seduction | 06/05/24 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Weird mixed signalsWell now you know that it's possible to be socially regarded. These type of interactions can constitute the majority of women's dating experience There wasn't any mixing of signals She thought your joke about seeing another guy was free reign to let you see other men . And this random dude is sending selfies because he's insecure and wants to intimidate you. Or he's also socially regarded and thinks it's" LOL XD " random | /r/seduction | 05/05/24 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Weird mixed signalsWe finally have confirmation that socially regarded women do exist. I never thought I'd see the day 🥲 | /r/seduction | 05/05/24 08:49 PM |
| 2 | I cant get a Girl to come overAre you a gigantic guy ? Maybe they're physically intimidated ? ?? If that's the case I would talk more over text about sex and / or video call then to get them horny . You can build comfort while talking about sex. | /r/seduction | 05/05/24 02:47 PM |
| 2 | So if it’s standard practice to get rejected in 99+% of approaches you make. What can you do to make your approaches more meaningful?Well if you genuinely need practice socializing with women I would switch to a super platonic approach to get your feet wet. If your socialized enough you can work on looksmaxxing, body language, then capitalizing on the convos you do get. | /r/seduction | 05/05/24 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Free infield coaching in NYC/Boston areaLegit I will do 5 - 10 mins as long as I'm filmed | /r/seduction | 04/05/24 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Free infield coaching in NYC/Boston areaJust need filming done for one or two approaches . Don't know if you do that for free | /r/seduction | 04/05/24 06:06 PM |
| 3 | Cold approaching in the work environment? Does it still count as practice?It's not cold approach because you have a position of authority over these people. They could report you to your boss but most people feel compelled to be nice to service workers. . You technically are the one at a disadvantage because you're under surveillance but people don't think like that | /r/seduction | 04/05/24 06:02 PM |
| 2 | How to get with a girl who are taller than meIf a girl is over 6 2 she's such an outlier that she's fair game . Besides that , you would want to go for tall women with a lot lower comparative looks to you. EDIT : oh she's only 2 inches taller. It's very tough to date taller but if she's lower in comparative looks you'll have a better chance | /r/seduction | 04/05/24 03:49 PM |
| 1 | In Bed Rejection!? 🥵I would plainly state or heavily imply in person and/or over text that you intend to have a sexual interaction before they agree to come to your place Let's cuddle and kiss Let's hook up Let me massage your back etc.. Given these circumstances, once they've agreed to come over you can MAYBE presume they want to cuddle if their body language is aligned with it it but I would wait on them to escalate after that . Its very rare a woman agrees to sexual activities , cuddles you and doesn't escalate … | /r/seduction | 04/05/24 12:07 AM |
| -3 | What do you think about mentioning a girl's race when talking to herYour giving advice for you specifically tho. And it's not even accurate wording Equally doesn't mean the same. People should be treated differently but never treated worse based on skin tone. As an example , Alot of black people don't say the Nword around white people but would say it around other black people. That doesn't mean the black people are treating the white people worse necessarily, there's just a different dynamic that plays out. Level one engagement with people is treating everybody… | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 07:06 PM |
| 0 | What do you think about mentioning a girl's race when talking to herI have. I get along with black women mostly because I know their culture/signals. I think black people have shared experiences and some shared cultures and if you can understand that you're well equipped to deal with them . But you don't have to , it's an extra layer of stuff that you can ignore and be ok in dealing with them | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 05:24 PM |
| -1 | What do you think about mentioning a girl's race when talking to herIt's stupid and probably not good strategy. But it's doable . Have you heard of pressure and release ? It's possible to have an opener that applies pressure as long as you release it. | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 05:14 PM |
| -4 | What do you think about mentioning a girl's race when talking to herYou're trying to speak on behalf of all black women. Isnt being treated like a monolith the opposite of what you would want? You want to be treated white but some people don't like the pretend to be colorblind approach. | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 05:11 PM |
| -1 | What do you think about mentioning a girl's race when talking to herThey would signal something to the effect of " yeah why are you asking ? " then I would have one sentence to recover before they leave the conversation | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 05:07 PM |
| -1 | What do you think about mentioning a girl's race when talking to herThat's a 50/50 but the person that would laugh at that probably has a great sense of humor lol | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 04:53 PM |
| -6 | What do you think about mentioning a girl's race when talking to herYour actually the type of woman I said would get offended in my post. Solve your inner turmoil before you start dating | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 04:42 PM |
| -2 | What do you think about mentioning a girl's race when talking to herEDIT : I answered the prompt but didn't answer the context For the specific context you provided, I would only bring up their blackness indirectly in a way that shows you want to learn and are willing to be corrected. " I've heard " " the black people I know from " " the only thing I know about black people is.. " That way they can set the pace and tone for the engagement. If they answer enthusiasticly you can maybe engage further but if they kinda give a half assed deflection you can drop the s… | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 04:41 PM |
| 5 | Logistics is just as important as gameLogistics are important for game but not as important just to get laid. If your plan is to make it as frictionless as humanly possible to invite women back to your place , then having a private room in 2 - 10 min walking ( or 2 - 10 min driving distance if you're in a more rural area ) distance from whatever venue you're starting from is needed. If your goal is to confirm a woman's sexual interest over the phone then schedule a hook up , you don't need to be SUPER close. I would say you have to … | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 04:24 PM |
| 7 | I can’t pick up women but succeed on Tinder datesWhere's your data besides for that ? The last study I checked showed 70 % of women enjoy compliments from strangers | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Lookmaxxing guideIf you save a YouTube playlist with all of your attributes and guides associated with them you'll be fine. Ex round face hairstyles , round face facial hair , sort leg pants guide , brown skin color guide etc... You can break the rules later | /r/seduction | 01/05/24 03:59 PM |
| 1 | What does “approaching” women mean to you?I do think cold approaching is like a slight societal harm on a mass scale but the benefits for the individuals are hard to ignore. Women and men who take the time to shoot their shot have the EASIEST pathway to learn so many skills and copes , and they sometimes meet great people! Id rather have a slightly annoyed society that has more relationships than a slightly more comfortable society where people only interact in communities. | /r/seduction | 01/05/24 03:40 AM |
| 1 | What does “approaching” women mean to you?Why would you fear rejection if you didn't have a goal in mind? Maybe you could be rejected from starting the Convo but that borders on anxiety | /r/seduction | 01/05/24 03:34 AM |
| 1 | What does “approaching” women mean to you?Approaching has to be an aggression of some kind. Otherwise we would describe it as joining or starting a conversation. Approaching requires having an intent of some kind. It's possible to be HEAVILY signaled that somebody wants to be approached but it's still on the person to start the conversation I think a good approach is one that allows you to confirm sexual or romantic interest as quickly as possible while doing the least amount of harm . That doesn't mean your first sentence has to be ask… | /r/seduction | 01/05/24 03:32 AM |
| 3 | Do women have one night stands sober/tipsy/drunk?Fair play. Can't argue with that | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 03:50 PM |
| 18 | Do women have one night stands sober/tipsy/drunk?Most are drunk / tipsy Women have lots of social and physical contact anxiety so they drink to ease their nerves. They like penetration and they like penetration with men who are physically bigger than them but the idea of letting a random man who is bigger than them close to them can be nerve racking. It's the same reason people might have to be drunk to dance in the club , . | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 04:16 AM |
| -26 | Do women have one night stands sober/tipsy/drunk?What's your data for this ? Most people go to bars in groups with their friends. If your talking about women going to the bar by themselves id agree | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 04:10 AM |
| 1 | How to handle disrespect guised under humour without being seen as butthurtAccents are funny to most people. If the accent is spot on, I would compliment the accent. if it's bad , I would say the accent is bad. That way, they have to try and understand and appreciate your culture if they want to make fun of it. If you storm off anytime someone is insensitive you'll lose the ability to interact with ALOT of people . If your a punching bag who dies inside being around people , you'll hate people overtime. You have to navigate it. Its unfair but it's the reality of being … | /r/seduction | 27/04/24 10:15 PM |
| 15 | Do repeated glances mean anything from a girl?They mean you're somebody she acknowledges ass a person. that's a start I guess | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 06:00 PM |
| 0 | What are some cheap, dirty tactics that work in seduction?Eternal hate seems to be a natural response to getting manipulated in a hard to point out way 😅 | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 09:24 AM |
| 0 | What are some cheap, dirty tactics that work in seduction?Guilt trippy creepy nice guy stuff counts as cheap and dirty to me People still do it because it works 🤷🏿♂️ | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 09:02 AM |
| 3 | Is it creepy to go to a club for the sole purpose of hooking up?Yes. Should you care ? Not really. You should keep in mind people might be with their friends or legit there to dance but that's about it. Saying " I'm here to hook up" might require some finesse in certain clubs | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 02:27 PM |
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