More tidbits from my DV class - "It's different when a woman hits a man because he isn't afraid."

typhonblue · 2012-11-09T00:19:29+00:00

Are you saying anything?

How do they know that men aren't afraid? Watch this:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mmnp4Qbbjcg&feature=relmfu&t=720s

At first he's laughing it off. But when the Judge takes his side the fact that he's actually somewhat freaked out starts to leak through.

If your only defence is to pretend something is less serious then it is, then you do that. Guys don't have anyone to take their pain or fear seriously so they pretend it's less serious than it is as a coping mechanism.

pcarvious · 2012-11-09T00:06:43+00:00

Is any of this being recorded?

Seriously, male victims, including the ones in your class should Sue. They're belittling victims of crime because of their personal biases. I would also talk to a lawyer yourself and see what they think.

DavidByron · 2012-11-09T00:23:11+00:00

It's because men are not real humans and have no emotions.

rapiertwit · 2012-11-09T10:23:03+00:00

Since when did the emotional state of the victim change the nature of the crime?

2012-11-09T01:07:31+00:00

What if the woman is larger than the man?
What if the woman uses an object, or has a weapon?
If a man is hit by another man, is he still not afraid?
Are all men suddenly incapable of fear; we are all so violent we welcome it on our persons?

rightsbot · 2012-11-08T23:36:19+00:00

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ForLoveOfHumanKind · 2012-11-09T00:19:09+00:00

What? That is NUTS!

actanonverba8 · 2012-11-09T04:23:02+00:00

DV training is feminist land big time. It would be more apt to just title the classes "We've Got You Evil Men By The Nuts and Are Gonna Make You Are Beitches and Lay Our Personal Dysfunctions and Senses of Entitlement on You All While Taxpayers Foot the Bill"

fondueguy · 2012-11-09T02:13:32+00:00

How is it that the idea of a woman hurting a man is a joke until we're talking about self defense? I mean it's self defense... when the confrontation is unplanned and the victim is at a huge disadvantage!

But somehow women can't hurt men when they are the aggressors.

SheriffBart42 · 2012-11-09T06:05:20+00:00

Why would a man be afraid when he spends a third of his day unconscious in a house full of weapons with another person capable of using said weapons? Wait, what....? You cut off his dick? YOU GO GIRL!!!

philosopherther · 2012-11-09T07:50:37+00:00

Sadly, I've abandoned someone who is still in a very abusive relationship. He was more-or-less a sociopath's bitch, and now he's dropped out of college, and is working at a local Walmart so that she can be with him.

She'd beat him. Viciously. It didn't matter where. She'd do it out in public, and pretty much everywhere, except when I was around, because I wouldn't stand for it. He would get defensive, and claim it was always his fault. He would get suicidaly depressed, and it would still always be his fault, while she was out cheating on him. I'm no longer friends with the bitch, because he went too far to backstab me for her, his best friend of 11 years.

I've talked with his mom twice since I've stopped looking out for him. His parents wanted him to stop the relationship, and he wouldn't. So... Now he lives in an apartment, all alone, with his abusive, abusive girlfriend. He sells drugs on the side, to keep a cash flow going.

C0CKPUNCHER · 2012-11-09T08:59:27+00:00

Clearly only violent men are actually men, other testicle wearers are merely chaff.

Feminism in this way encourages men to do bad things, punish men who don't, then profit complaining about the problem they created.

Nepene · 2012-11-09T01:11:39+00:00

That's pretty messed up. I can understand why they might say it. Some ex con hardcore druggie who had drug fueled rage against their partner probably didn't fear anything, or feel any pain when their partner fought back. This isn't very applicable to the average non drug using male.

For any who didn't read the previous post, his teachers are ex druggies and cons who beat their wives heavily and severely injured her.

2012-11-09T04:54:46+00:00

Unless of course he is afraid.

AvgGuy101 · 2012-11-09T08:39:54+00:00

Bullshit!!!

Exactly how did they reach this conclusion? Did they conduct any objective, unbiased scientific research that indicates this? Did they even talk to any male victims?

A few years ago, I was briefly involved with a woman who was abusive. I am a fairly big guy and she was a small woman but ithere were times that I was afraid and I would lock myself in another room. Compounding this situation was the fact that I knew that if I defended myself or the police were called, I would probably be the one who was arrested. There were times that I literally felt like I had no one turn to and no way out.

skintightmonopoly · 2012-11-09T23:37:37+00:00

Nothing wrong with a little domestic violence on a man.

ross2012 · 2012-11-09T16:45:10+00:00

What no one ever mentions is the 1,000,000 pound gorilla in the room - literally. Women in the U.S. have become HUGE - obese- monsterous- over half of them now- and incredibly BUTCH- very mannish in the way they carry themselves and their personalities, and ARE SCARY and can very easily beat men- even kill them with just their fists & with kicking. Our legal system & culture is about 30 years behind the times & it's WAY past time they caught up!

Once upon a time, a recent as the 80s, women were still fairly feminine & tried to make themselves look good- thin, etc., so 30 years ago & before, yes, it was even laughable that a woman could beat up a man, but now those times have changed - prob forever - now that U.S. women have become so mannish & butch and have let themselves go (obviously because they no longer care what men think-maintaining your physical appearence & hygiene & health to look good for men is 'oppressive') they are VERY frightening - in more ways than one. I wouldn't want to get close to any of the She-Beasts I see here in my office building or on the way to work- YIKES!

At least half of the women in the U.S. also suffer from mental illness which only adds to their inclination to be violent, psychotic & irrational.

Title	More tidbits from my DV class - "It's different when a woman hits a man because he isn't afraid."
Author	Theophagist
Upvotes	62
Comments	37
Date	November 8, 2012 11:35 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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