I'm just going to come out and say it: I will never knowingly enter into a romantic relationship with a feminist. I do have some female relatives and acquaintances who are feminists (most notably my kid sister after she went off to college, though she's of the reasonable variety), and it's not like they all wear signs that proclaim I'M A FEMINIST. (Some do.)

Aside from obvious telltales (feminist bumper stickers, etc.) or outright asking them "Are you a feminist?", what are some discreet ways to ferret out a woman's views on gender activism without creating an awkward situation? Feminism is a minefield topic, and I certainly wouldn't broach the subject directly with a woman I've just started dating.

I know this is a damned odd question, but it's been ratting around in my brain for a week, and I now have r/MensRights to turn to when these weird sorts of question occur to me.