Found this on a BDSM related subreddit.
I'm a middle-aged woman who has had sub fantasies all my life. I suppressed them (even though they gave me the best orgasms) because I'm a feminist and thought it was politically incorrect; and I wrongfully assumed that every male Dom hated women, and that every sub woman hated herself, and that's why they all got into BDSM.
Recently I met a Dom guy who has taken me by the hand and gently led me into exploring my own sub limits, with love, trust and caring. My mind is blown. My sex drive is in overdrive. It's like he (and communities like YOU!) have given me permission to lose the guilt and shame around these urges. As a result, my orgasms are powerful, and at the moment I'm insatiable. I'm learning about the unexplored corners of my mind, and learning about BDSM in general. Thank you for being here. Thank you so much!
She has urges to do some fun sexual exploration, but what is stopping her? Feminism. Feminism is supposed to say what women can do, not what women can't do. I couldn't help but think of religious lgbt people who suppress their urges because some institution tells them it is wrong. (though this isn't nearly as serious)
This may not be a blatant example of wrongdoing but I think it is serious nonetheless because it shows that feminism isn't about women being sexually comfortable but rather about imposing a set of rules which say what is and isn't ok to enjoy.
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