Man Receives Oral Sex, Ordered to Pay Child Support.

SuperCoupe · 2011-02-28T23:39:11+00:00

This started to become an epidemic for Pro Ball Players about a decade ago.

The save semen from a fellatio or dumpster dive for a condom after sex would get a surprise 9 months later. They actually have a section of the rookie symposium in most sports to inform entering players about the practice.

AnnArchist · 2011-03-01T01:05:14+00:00

sickening.

InfinitelyThirsting · 2011-03-01T16:19:46+00:00

Okay, my big problem with this case is that is is nothing but he-said-she-said. I've looked into it, because I wanted to use it as proof of how little control men have, but the problem is the woman claims they did have sex and conceived the old-fashioned way, and there is no proof either way.

And I really don't know which way Occam's Razor would go--that a woman is that crazy to have done it, or a guy would make up something so ridiculous.

This whole thing reeks of urban legend, is my problem. See SuperCoupe's "epidemic for Pro Ball Players" comment--it just doesn't have anything to back it up. I've googled for it plenty, and this case is the only thing that shows up about it. Feel free to link me if I've somehow failed completely, but this just doesn't happen.

Just like we can't believe allegations of abuse or rape without some kind of evidence, or tales of human trafficking, we can't believe this with no evidence.

silverprocess · 2011-03-01T01:13:45+00:00

"It's discrimination when women are treated like lying whores" I'm told at /r/feminisms:

http://www.reddit.com/r/feminisms/comments/fu9e8/the_kansas_paternity_testing_bill_presupposes/c1ipors

Of course paternity testing should be outlawed - all people are such upstanding and moral creatures!

kronso · 2011-03-01T02:53:30+00:00

As a lawyer, the way the law sees it, it doesn't matter how the child got conceived. The man pays child support, unless the woman doesn't have custody. The reasoning is that the child needs the support.

The problem is that very often "child support" money goes to improve the lifestyle of the mother.

As a legal reform, child support should be paid to the mother only in the form of food stamps, housing vouchers, or gift certificates at kids' clothing stores. That's it. No cash. But that isn't the law right now.

This is not legal advice. If you need legal advice, talk to a lawyer.

Fatalistic · 2011-03-01T04:17:23+00:00

THIS is why men are angry.

frodofish · 2011-03-01T08:47:57+00:00

I understand the line of reasoning that the child needs full support I'm just not sure why the mother isn't required to reimburse the father once the child is self sufficient in egregious cases of fraud such as this. Something along these lines would prevent the child from suffering without placing undue burden on the father for actions taken without his consent on the part of the mother.

Dalrock · 2011-03-01T16:41:15+00:00

New rule: Tickelfight after BJ.

NotSoSober · 2011-03-02T02:25:20+00:00

I ran this by my female assistant. She's intelligent, decently educated and seemed, up to this point, level headed. Her response frightened me.

Her response: Well, it's for the good of the child.

Every rejoinder I used (including the 'court enforced 20 years of child support; tatamount to court ordered slavery' argument) was responded to by the same 'good of child' response.

Once 'baby' was mentioned, 'baby' was the only thing that mattered. Apparently, men's rights aren't anywhere as important as 'baby', regardless of context. Talk about wearing blinkers.

Personally, I think the state should be providing child support (if anyone). The woman should also be placed on a sex offender list and be required to inform any male neighbours and any potential partners about her crime.

Title	Man Receives Oral Sex, Ordered to Pay Child Support.
Author	eyeofthestorm
Upvotes	23
Comments	40
Date	February 28, 2011 11:21 PM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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