If a woman sleeps with you after you’ve been sexually unfaithful but she is not aware of the infidelity, that is Rape. Female blogger takes on game and MRA's.

Leprecon · 2010-01-16T23:31:25+00:00

This is how deception prevents anyone from making responsible decisions for themselves and why those who are intentionally deceived cannot be held responsbile for those decisions – only the person who is being deceptive is responsible.

I hate the whole PUA thing, but her definition of rape is way too wide. What if I had sex with someone and then a week later I find out that someone deals drugs. If I would have known this before I would not have had sex with that person. Is this rape then too ?

Revoking consent after the deed is a retarded concept. (though in cases of serious psychological abuse it is naturally acceptable)

a desperate attempt to justify the maltreatment, abuse, and domination of women.

Gah ! what is this. Could it be that anyone who disagrees wants to abuse women ? Yes, because people can't disagree without wanting to abuse women. Feminism; Join us, else you are a sexist who wants to abuse and dominate women.

Isn’t it interesting that those who claim to believe this celebrate men’s infidelities, domination, and rights to behave in those ways, yet find other “natural” aspects of women to be things they can’t deal with including but not limited to: * body hair

the human body’s need to excrete
menstruation
a woman’s decision-making abilities
a woman’s critical reasoning skills
a woman’s boundaries to determine who she does and does not want to sleep with

Thats just fucking great, now I am afraid of female body, think that women are stupid and cant make their own decisions, and ofcourse a woman cant decide who she can have sex with. Also, to top it all off, I don't allow women to poop. Thats right, people who believe that men deserve equal rights don't believe in the right to poop for women.

And to say that PUA's and MRA's have anything to do with eachother is very wrong. I for one dislike the whole PUA and game thing, its deception to use women for sex. I don't like that crap, but it should not be called rape, and it should never be a criminal offence.

2010-01-17T03:11:11+00:00

this women is immoral for using the word rape in this meaning. words have specific meaning, infidelity is not rape, it is infidelity. to use the word rape in this context is to make all those who have been victimised by actual rape: forceful penetration against one's will. one cannot just use words with very serious meanings just to make their argument have greater weight. she didn’t even use the word figuratively, like here article "raped" the meaning of rape, no she means that it is literally rape. IT WOULD BE LIKE if i said that she is just like Hitler. or reading her article was an act of rape

Gareth321 · 2010-01-17T03:04:01+00:00

Am I raped when my girlfriend stops taking her contraceptive?

Bascome · 2010-01-17T06:54:31+00:00

Well I guess most guys who have had girlfriends have been raped then, time to change the stats and support funding.

cynwrig · 2010-01-18T17:05:58+00:00

snorts coffee out of nose

What? Dishonesty = rape?

Oh no. Please Ms. Feminist, please don't open that door! Please don't throw us into that briar patch. Our worst nightmare! No! Don't do it! Don't call your legislators right now to make it so that anyone being deceptive wrt sex is a rapist! Its too horrible a fate for our wicked Men's rights agenda to fathom! Nooo!!!!

AltTab · 2010-01-17T00:19:25+00:00

For a feminist, any male sexual behaviour which conflicts with a woman's evolutionary reproductive interests, is rape.

BinaryShadow · 2010-01-17T06:45:15+00:00

Is it rape if I pick up a woman from a bar who consents to sex, but later on admits she's married? What about the potential threat of a pissed off husband busting down the door with a shotgun? Oh wait, that's HIS crime and she had NOTHING to do with it.

deadcat · 2010-01-17T04:50:39+00:00

What about if I sleep with a women after she has been sexually unfaithful and not told me? does that mean I was raped?

D_rock · 2010-01-16T23:31:55+00:00

Can we come up with something similar to Godwin's law for feminists?

Liverotto · 2010-01-17T11:56:52+00:00

"YOU DID SOMETHING WRRRONG" + Sex = Rape

blinderzoff · 2010-01-22T07:06:21+00:00

I try to not confuse feminism with the psychopaths that claim to be feminists. Their dementia doesn't necessarily reflect on feminism, though you'd think as a community they'd want to reign in the loons.

And as I've pointed out before, feminists can't seem to agree on what feminism is or what it means to be a feminist.

However here that isn't even the issue since this particular loon does not consider herself a feminist. She is just a nutjob.

Her blog is simply a window into the mind of a sociopath - just take a look at her posts filed under Revenge and Law - she's crazier than a shithouse rat!

As for Denise Romano, her cohort in this "War on Game", Will Rogers said it best:

"There is nothing so stupid as an educated woman if you get her off the thing she was educated in"

brunt2 · 2010-01-17T00:41:41+00:00

Feminism is so mind-warpingly absurd it's amazing there are so many mindless followers of it who can't see how corrupt it is, nor how misandristic its preachers.

etherspirit · 2010-01-17T04:11:02+00:00

That's retarded.

2010-01-16T22:39:56+00:00

That is the dumbest thing I ever read.

Sarcasticus · 2010-01-17T17:42:39+00:00

And clearly this applies the other way, right? If a woman sleeps with you after SHE'S been unfaithful, then SHE'S raping you!

2010-01-18T16:54:59+00:00

This person is a known troll. Please ignore.

kragshot · 2010-01-19T23:23:09+00:00

Social Dynamics is "...fake, scientific-sounding concept made up by an entertainer, not a psychology professional."

What the hell? Anything to dismiss any ideas that men come up with to balance the dating scales.

Personally, I don't agree with "Game" but I don't dismiss its effectiveness. It does work and I know it from experience of personal use as well as historical documentation; urban pimps have used game more effectively than those who employed violence, drugs, and other means to bring women in line with being prostitutes. However, I no longer choose to employ it as I consider it one of those "weapons of last resort" and it can be very dangerous if placed in the wrong hands.

With that being said, this blog is ridiculous and the premise that if a man commits infidelity and then has sex with his wife aftewards without revealing the infidelity is rape is horrific to boot. But then, I see the feminist lobby trying to make damn near everything rape.

Gareth321 · 2010-01-16T22:16:36+00:00

Well I'd have to agree; That is definitely rape.

Title	If a woman sleeps with you after you’ve been sexually unfaithful but she is not aware of the infidelity, that is Rape. Female blogger takes on game and MRA's.
Author	rmbarnes
Upvotes	27
Comments	32
Date	January 16, 2010 7:43 PM UTC (16 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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