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Why women disliking men is not the same as men disliking women

fknbtch

September 29, 2021
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Title Why women disliking men is not the same as men disliking women
Author

fknbtch

Upvotes 244
Comments 23
Date September 29, 2021 8:54 PM UTC
(4 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/py4h3z/why_women_disliking_men_is_not_the_same_as_men/
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Oh goody, yet another way men are entirely too happy to deceive you.

991 upvotes
October 22, 2021
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Oh goody, yet anothwr way men are entirely too happy to deceive you.

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October 22, 2021
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[–]CountingDownTheDays5FDS Apprentice 198 points199 points200 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

A lot of women's dislike for men is build upon long term societal abuse, and sexism via men. Also pure disgust and excuses they give. A lot of men really coin males as being uncontrollable human being, and they are NOT. Worse they make it seem like we have to teach basic sh*t too.

I literally just saw a man post in a subreddit for r- fantasies about Miya Marcano. Miya a 19 year old girl who is missing and was most likely murdered. It truly made me say men made me the f- sick. Why do have to teach men no means no, that fantasying about a missing teen is wrong, and calling the suicide hotline to jerk off is wrong. The fuck is wrong with men. TRULY WTF IS WRONG WITH THEM!!!

[–]DivineGoddess1111111FDS Newbie 255 points256 points257 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

When women hate men, they distance themselves from them. When men hate women, they abuse, rape and murder them.

[–]Japanese-SpaghettiPickmeisha™️ 72 points73 points74 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Bingo. They can’t live without us nor find their independent success, they want to leech off a woman like a life source, no matter how much that nearly kills or literally kills her

[–]Japanese_LasagnaFDS Newbie 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I’m just commenting because your username is similar to mine, but is Japanese Spaghetti a sushi roll like Japanese Lasagna or something else?

[–]Japanese-SpaghettiPickmeisha™️ 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Google it! It’s an interesting dish

[–]Toot--SweetFDS Newbie 25 points26 points27 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Exactly. And when scrotes are denied access to women, they cry it's a human rights abuse. They think being deprived of a girlfriend is justification enough to go on a killing rampage.

[–]MuffcakelordFDS Disciple 20 points21 points22 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What i would give for men to hate us like women hate men. If they distanced themselves from us, we would finally be free to walk anywhere.

[–]thethirdflowrisgreenThrowaway Account 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep.

All the more loathsome - they can’t see and understand this.

[–]Japanese-SpaghettiPickmeisha™️ 79 points80 points81 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I always saw boys and men hating on girls and women when they couldn’t earn their attention or have their dating/sex requests accepted, but I’ve only heard girls and women say they hate men because they are afraid for their safety and sanity. Men that hate women hate us because we are not their perfect submissive sex doll, women that hate men do so because they’ve been used and abused and no one, specifically no man, came to help and protect them.

[–]bookworm1896FDS Newbie 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's so true and so scary at the same time

[–]slayeroftruthFDS Apprentice 65 points66 points67 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

Men with their "good ole days" bullshit is nothing but fantasy. They were being slaughtered in war, worked very hard for very little as little boys and into adulthood if they were not killed from child labor from working in coal mines, factories ect..

Quit a few women worked. The women who were housewives had hard working husbands that's including the ones who worked on land. The man got up busted his ass on property. Wife did same in house and on property for food. Some housewives were upper middle class who had help (sometimes "help" did it all) with very nice life style to dress/style in beautiful trendy outfits and travel.

Man had to be social to get date. Women back then didn't go 50/50. You were thought to be loser if women paid.

Food wasn't nearly as convenient as it is now. Their was not multiple food chains for cheap date, their was no coffee date ect..In fact lots of things have been made "in the gold ole days" for convenience we have now. Men dressed up to look nice when going out. Some of their casual cloths were colorful. They also styled their hair as well. Their was no dad bod. They would HATE 'the good ole days" especially when they got drafted. The average man was not getting out of it either.

These non traditional men should adjust expectations. Traditional women are more rare than back in the day but they do exist. They will want man who at least makes decent money for family to live off of not some whiner who has zero masculinity and no traditional traits. Do these men who whine about this shit even have income family could live off of?

[–][deleted] 20 points21 points22 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Maybe we just don't get them and they love getting slaughtered in wars? Their crime rates may prove that. Perhaps they just love violence in a way we don't understand and truly miss those days. Plenty of them are pro-war violent nationalists too.

[–]blackmetalbettyFDS Newbie 81 points82 points83 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Women actually hate them for valid reasons. They hate you because you don't look or act the way they want you to, because you're not "background character"-ing the right way. I go street blocks and averted eyes out of my way to avoid them like the plague (you never know which ones gonna say some stupid shit to you), but they giggle and high five each other for every negative engagement they made with a woman, that week.

[–]Peak_TreeFDS Newbie 13 points14 points15 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lundy Bancroft says it best when he says "men learn their treatment of women FROM OTHER MEN" he himself mentions that growing up he encountered himself in masculine circles where there was a disrespect of women that bordered on hatred.

[–]LeyMioFDS Newbie 41 points42 points43 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Women disliking men is a passive response to long term oppression. It is a self-protecting and survival technique developed from fact and experience.

Men dislike women because they never see women as human beings. Many men have been brainwashed by patriarchal privileges and believe that they are born entitled to literally everything. The misogynists are causing actual harms to women and the society. Their hatred is the reason why more and more women decide to separate from men.

The misogyny can be compared to a pandemic. Men are the viruses. They are the cause of all the harms. Women are the doctors, scientists and whistle blowers who call out the existence of the plague and try to find a CURE.

[–]spinsterchachkiesFDS Disciple 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah remember the good ol days when women were property. Even the quote un quote average ones are like “if she don’t fuck in three dates I drop her” these days. It’s so hard to like them in general, and really hard to want to have sex with them. It’s a goddamn challenge. Then they bitch about their sexlessness and try to find tactics to get their dick wet. I can barely even tolerate them at this point.

[–]Jandi18FDS Newbie 86 points87 points88 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

It’s funny they keep saying they want the good old days! Can someone tell them they would have been fighting wars at 17 not jerking off to porn? Good old days where men hunted for their meat not grocery store beef? Can any of these scrotes lift a log of wood?

They cry about paying for everything but want to go back to the good old days. They want a 1950’s domesticated wife and a porn star liberal feminist.

[–]Apprehensive_Ad_7917FDS Newbie 58 points59 points60 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Where men unsuccessfully hunted for meat lmao they’ve discovered that women supplied like 90% of the food by gathering vs. the 10% men provided by hunting. Men haven’t been shit for most of history.

[–]gingerwabisabiFDS Apprentice 39 points40 points41 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I read once that the people in hunter gatherer societies who supplied the most calories per day were usually the grandmas - lolol, grannies have been feeding us forever!

[–]Jandi18FDS Newbie 18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

I have been hearing about this but haven’t seen any article on it. Can you link anything on it? I’m super interested to read this!! Like damn these men aren’t shit now and certainly weren’t shit then LMAO.

[–]Apprehensive_Ad_7917FDS Newbie 23 points24 points25 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This is one of the best I've seen! https://scroll.in/article/989275/ancient-men-were-hunters-and-women-were-gatherers-right-wrong

[–]Jandi18FDS Newbie 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks

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