It is easy to be difficult!

katiekat0214 · 2021-09-25T23:01:25+00:00

Simply be female, live, breathe, and speak. Next level difficulty is not hiding your brain, showing intelligence, having opinions, having boundaries, refusing to let others violate those boundaries, being willing to get violent/mouthy if someone tries anything, centering yourself, your wants, your needs. I could go on.

hurtstobehuman · 2021-09-26T01:46:40+00:00

I am so tired for being villainized for asserting my boundaries. The last man I broke things off with called me stubborn, competitive (in a negative context) and grumpy.

I’m not fake laughing at anyone’s jokes anymore. I’m not letting anyone waste my time. I’m not putting a man I’m only dating, before my work, my friends, and my family.

I will gladly nope tf out everytime a man perceives me living according to my standards as difficult, stubborn, competitive or “grumpy.”

Boy, bye. 👋🏽

Determinedblonde · 2021-09-25T21:19:16+00:00

Very few “difficult men” out there…

onceuponasea · 2021-09-26T02:23:58+00:00

Jane<3

Winnie6 · 2021-09-26T15:36:42+00:00

Yep...that's why I "don't get a second date," lol. I let it all the feminism out and watch them squirm. It's hilarious 🤣. I don't want a second date with them, either but even if I did, they should know what they're dealing with up front. So I don't hold back. The patriarchy is mentioned numerous times and that's usually the un-deal clincher. I'd rather know if they're a scrote and not waste my time.

quirkypinkllama · 2021-09-26T07:02:10+00:00

And ain't that a shame? I think so

spinsterchachkies · 2021-09-26T17:26:18+00:00

I remember when I wasn’t “difficult”. I think it was harder to be the quiet and submissive type of woman. It was always a struggle hiding who I was and pretending to be something I wasn’t.

miss_peach94 · 2021-09-27T03:20:14+00:00

I'd rather be called difficult than easy. Anyday

Novemberinthechair · 2021-09-26T04:19:03+00:00

Truth.

Title	It is easy to be difficult!
Author	glendoraza
Upvotes	1271
Comments	15
Date	September 25, 2021 8:31 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/pvey6f/it_is_easy_to_be_difficult/
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