how do blue pill men justify and accept their dating failure?

dobermann333 · 2021-10-02T14:32:46+00:00

probably some pathetic drivel about how "the one" is out there and the stars will align so they meet when its right

ErrendeEbecee · 2021-10-02T14:30:06+00:00

They normalize failure.

sootlord · 2021-10-02T17:17:29+00:00

simple with the golden blue pill of them all

"Just keep trying bro, that one girl is out there for you 🙂"

Uglinessisreal · 2021-10-02T15:12:41+00:00

Blue pilled, or normie or whatever, men don't tend to think too much about relationships. They accept that they have to put in more effort to court their partner because that's just how things are.

The thing is, most people end up in relationships at some point. Sure the trend is moving away from that, but most people do still end up coupled at the moment, even ugly people.

wtknight · 2021-10-02T14:35:35+00:00

Most Blue Pill men don't have dating failure. They have girlfriends or are in between girlfriends.

As for sexless men, I think that most just internalize it in a way similar to "I guess I"m a loser", but not quite so harshly - more like, I guess I'm not good at attracting women. It's only a minority that "swallow a pill" and start blaming women instead.

spinsterchachkies · 2021-10-02T15:56:53+00:00

I have been trying to find a Blue Pilled guy since I was 15, so I don’t think they have failures. They are always taken. But the dating market is saturated with Red Pilled guys that no one wants and women have to weed through to find the one Blue Pilled guy they actually want

CloudBerryPunch · 2021-10-02T14:37:32+00:00

They are the ones in normal relationships. It's you guys that consider that a failure.

Orange_Paisley · 2021-10-02T14:39:16+00:00

They don’t have dating failure. Which is why they are blue pilled.

Slyfer_Seven · 2021-10-02T14:48:18+00:00

Evaluate, adapt, and get back at it

You focus on what you can control and don't worry about the rest.

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over348 · 2021-10-02T15:31:08+00:00

When they become 35 and become a beta bucks

Paliant · 2021-10-02T16:17:07+00:00

Astrology and horoscopes probably.

LowValueMail · 2021-10-02T18:39:48+00:00

That last one. We just blame the person actually responsible: ourselves.

I-Fail-Forward · 2021-10-02T17:10:10+00:00

We dont need to.

We get dates and have fun on them.

Title	how do blue pill men justify and accept their dating failure?
Author	StoicShaman
Upvotes	9
Comments	37
Date	October 2, 2021 2:27 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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