First of all, we just reached 200.000😍😍🥳🥳 It's amaizing!
Sadly, I need help for something not quite amaizing😤 One of my best friends has serious self esteem issue (family issues, body issues, very bad eating disorder). Basically, she is a mess, borderline suicidal. Our common friend and I have been helping her for more than a year. We found her a badass female doctor that is specialized in eating disorder. This doctor linked her to a psychiatrist and a therapist. So she is followed by three specialized people, therefore she is in good hands, although she only recently started therapy with the therapist (a month ago).
The problem is that since she gained a little bit of confidence to go out, she started meeting extreme LVM. I'm not talking about regular LVM, i'm talking about complete NVM that literally any girl could spot from a mile away (very ugly/short, no education, no charm, no nothing, some of them are even plainly rude). They are so painfully obviously awful, but she doesn't see it. They want her because they can see that she has zero self esteem. She is so easy to manipulate to get sex. It's like stealing candy from a kid.
She never ever listens to us and yet we are always right (they always end up using her for sex). What can I do to help? Her therapist tells her to get out there and go out with guys😭😭 How can a therapist not see that she is fresh meat for abusive/narcissistic/violent insecure guys? She should be telling her to not date until she at least has the means to tell if a guy is decent or not.
Right now she literally accepts any guy. For example, the last one was a 5'5 narcissist. He was extremely rude since the first moment he DM'd her. He was clearly so insecure that he made up this gigantic ego that he fed by tearing down every person that he knew.
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