Equal contribution lol 🤣 | WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

Land_of_the_Losers · 2021-11-16T02:35:43+00:00

Of course. Your girlfriend is generously allowing you to pay for everything. That's worth far more than whatever filthy, venal money you're spending.

How much resentment comes from the fact that a hardworking wife has to watch her lazy husband relax on Sunday afternoons? He shouldn't get to relax just because he's been working his stupid full-time job the other 6 days. She needs to pour detergent into a plastic bottlecap and then pour the cap into the machine after putting laundry into it! That's three different tasks! It's doubled when you separate the lights and darks! No man could ever do such things.

Ok_Management4634 · 2021-11-16T05:15:58+00:00

Women are now told from birth that women are "oppressed" , do all the work, etc. So they grow up, already predisposed to think that life is "unfair" to them. Of course, I am not excusing their behavior, they should be able to step back and realize that it's not true. I also think women love to somehow justify they are some kind of victim.. they love complaining to their moms, sisters, female friends that they worked "so hard" doing 2 loads of laundry and microwaving dinner and then their husband comes home after working 10 hours and just wants to chill in front of the TV and decompress.. I swear, a lot of Stay at Home Moms think that a man's job is like a sitcom.. like "The Office", and the man plays practical jokes and just hangs out with friends all day.. They don't realize.. work sucks, if it was fun, they wouldn't have to pay people do it , people would do it for free it if was fun.

Impressive-Cricket-8 · 2021-11-16T03:01:41+00:00

As the wise Bill Burr once said... Any job that you can do in your pajamas is not a difficult job. Or something like that.

Flashy_Glove6208 · 2021-11-16T02:59:47+00:00

men are sick of dealing with entitled, unappreciative c***s who have laundry lists of demands, who offer little to no value, who think they're the ones contributing more

In many cases this is true however we need to be fair and acknowledge not all women are like this.

This subs is positive and helps men identify red flags and 1. choose good female partners and protect from laws stacked against men or 2. walk away from relationships and live happy single casual relationships or MGTOW life

The sad trend is the proportion of relationship material women gets smaller and smaller in the modern era.

InevitableOwl1 · 2021-11-16T07:16:17+00:00

Let’s not forget sex here. Women usually count that as something they are contributing but the man doesn’t get any points in his column for his side of this arrangement

No - in a relationship sex is something that is a gift from her to him and often has to be earned. Sometimes literally. My first girlfriend after about 8 months refused to have sex until I tried “romancing her” / “chatting her up”. She wanted to role play like we didn’t know each other. Initially at home but she wanted to take this into out into a bar where I would have approach her as if she were a stranger and convince her to come home with me

Consider among the many ridiculous points of this that this is not how we met - we knew each other and shared an interest for something like two years. And just thinking about it now made me realise that all women have both the desire and capacity to give it up instantly if someone they are really attracted to approached them.

Finally she knew exactly my personality and how unlikely this scenario was to me. I mean I was oblivious to her interest until a friend pointed it out. And apparently she pointed out that I was oblivious to other women being interested in me - apparently having witnessed it. Again, in hindsight it was likely what made her want me and then once she had me and it because apparent that the other women wanting me was either a really rare/uncommon occurrence or all in her head she cooled off massively and became difficult

(And I mentioned this as my first girlfriend for a reason - I put up with a lot of ridiculous stuff)

TitsAndWhiskey · 2021-11-16T15:11:32+00:00

It’s fascinating to me that women almost universally seem to regard sex as one of the perks men get from a relationship, as if having less sex overall with just one woman is something that men seek out.

It’s pure projection. Sex is a concession men are willing to make if the other advantages of the relationship are compelling enough.

Now, obviously, this isn’t a universal truth. I’m sure there are instances where a man is so thirsty that he’s happy to drink salt water. I’m sure there are women out there who don’t think this way, or are good enough and hot enough that it’s a better deal. But as a general rule, sex is a loss leader for men in a relationship.

Chgralac73 · 2021-11-16T11:13:00+00:00

when a woman complains you aint doing shit at home, give her a cleaning service cost flier. that shuts them up pretty fast

Bananas_Of_Paradise · 2021-11-16T13:14:52+00:00

I think this guy needs to expand on his theory, because I'm unconvinced. I think a woman would instantly understand that making $50k is worth more than a couple of house chores if she were the one who made $50k.

NoonTimeHoopsMVP · 2021-11-16T21:52:59+00:00

The only equal contribution in history is when Mickey Mouse and Bugs Bunny appeared in Who Framed Roger Rabbit. Their screen time was calculated down to the millisecond.

Anything else is a myth.

PopularBug5 · 2021-11-18T04:25:21+00:00

This reminds of how starting army cadets are drilled mercilessly on housekeeping tasks, but those are just the -foundation-, the -minimum- they have to do to function as a military unit. They don't mean squat in comparison to the actual things they have to do as soldiers.

But SAHMs think housekeeping makes them as significant as a primary breadwinner husband who still has to do housekeeping once he gets home from a double-shift job.

Title	Equal contribution lol 🤣 \| WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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Date	November 16, 2021 1:55 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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