I was skeptical about taking TRP, until tonight

christiefrontdrive · 2014-02-03T19:49:41+00:00

Remember that a lie is never impossible from either gender, but I'd say a woman you just kicked out is more likely to make up ridiculous shit than most people in most situations.

However, she probably was being at least a little honest in that moment. You said it yourself:

Mind you, this girl gives off every appearance of being a good girl (she also comes from a very conservative culture)

Often these girls are the biggest freaks. And it's not hard to imagine why: a typical girl with the freedom to experiment how she pleases from whenever she starts getting periods is (9 times out of 10, there are always exceptions) going to be more experienced but less wild in the back seat than a girl who's been repressed through family/religion/culture her entire life and then one day has the ability to do everything she wants. Sally Middleschool has a first kiss at 10, first make out at 11, first time she lets a guy feel her up at 12, and so on. A natural progression for most of us. Then there's Katie Catholic who is so controlled by her family and the culture surrounding her she doesn't even know what her own pussy looks like for fear of burning in hell, until one day those influences disappear and now she wants to experience a decade of running the bases in the time it takes to make a sandwich.

Picture the average middle class douche in a first-world country and what his attitudes are towards food: he has only ever known a world where grocery stores are overflowing with the stuff. He has never had to hunt, kill, gut, clean and cook his own meals (or that of his dependents). Compare this to some tribesman who leaves the Amazon and moves into a big city: that mafucka might just go nuts. Grocery stores everywhere? Food delivered to your house? Donut shops?. He might be a complete fat fuck before he knows what hit him. He came from a world of relatively little to a world of plenty, the same as a girl who's been repressed by this or that for her entire childhood into adultood, and then one day leaves the nest and has the freedom to unleash her vagina on to the unsuspecting world standing in front of her like a deer in the headlights.

You didn't ask for any advice but if you want some, remember it could always have been worse. You could've married this cunt before you found this shit out. You might've shot five kids into her and dropped $400,000 on a house for your family before you realized what happened. She lied to you and it's going to sting for a while but now you're a little older and a little wiser. And don't make the number one mistake: one cunt cheating on you is not a valid reason to swear off girls for the rest of your life. This girl cheated on you, therefore this girl is a lying skank. That doesn't mean the next girl you invite into your life will be.

TRPsubmitter · 2014-02-03T20:06:00+00:00

Yes, she is a cheater, but you also admitted you cheated. I personally view cheating as amoral. It's not right or wrong; it's only an indicator of something deeper, which is one party's needs not being met.

Cheating happens all the time...what makes this experience relevant to TRP is the reasoning behind it. In short, you weren't keeping her in her place and weren't giving her sufficient gina tingles. So she felt the need to go out, cut loose, got drunk and cheated on you with 4 dudes. She believed she had more value than you. If she was afraid of losing you and wanted to please you all the time, this doesn't happen. That's the tough truth.

Why? Because this is what women do when you don't give them an alpha frame; They seek out an alpha. So is she a bitch? Sounds like it due to her poor excuses when she got caught. But she's not a bitch just because she cheated per se. She cheated because she's a woman and it's in her nature to do so given the circumstances (every woman has her breaking point). So I challenge you to think deeper than the old "my gf cheated and is a slut!" idea.

For me, I have taken home girls from clubs as well as slept with tons of girls from couchsurfing who had bfs, fiances and even banged a few married women. These women want their "alpha fucks" (which they aren't getting from their bfs) and then they go back to their bf the next morning because they need their "beta bucks" too.

Just consider this a new beginning.

Evers89 · 2014-02-03T19:19:19+00:00

She might have made it up just to get you pissed off for breaking up with her. Then again, who knows.. You can't trust most women as they'll lie through their teeth better than a french spy.

tim1101 · 2014-02-03T18:58:09+00:00

< I can't believe how much time I've wasted with this stupid bitch, or any bitch that I was with in a relationship, for that matter.

View it as a learning experience.

deptii · 2014-02-03T19:30:15+00:00

Shit, get yourself tested. Condoms probably weren't the highest priority for a girl like that.

themasterof · 2014-02-03T19:42:17+00:00

Remember to cut all contact with this woman. No exceptions.

henry589 · 2014-02-03T18:33:33+00:00

they probably trained her bro.

Choo Choo!

Stayinghereforreal · 2014-02-03T21:20:18+00:00

The smart play is to never speak her name again.

Buuuuuuuut if you feel like having some fun with this, tell everyone you know that she admitted to a five person gang-bang when you broke up.

Don't take it as a strike against you in any way. Take the position that she is a mentally ill hose-beast who faked being a healthy, real person. Present her disclosure as a symptom of her real personality, and that you are seeing her as some sort of medical oddity now.

Play it off like you could not possibly care less. When telling people, laugh about it with full deep laughs. Make it like a circus tent "come look at the Bearded Woman and Jo-Jo the Dog Faced Boy" sort of story.

When you tell people, say, "I don't know if she was lying to hurt me or if she really did it, but man oh man, who in their right mind would date that gal? She is either insane or a medication and therapy-level tramp."

In short, blow apart her social standing by telling people what she told you.

She will deny it, of course, and certainly she will go nuts on you. Maintain frame, laugh calmly when she or others deny it, and say, "I will do any polygraph you pay for. Will she? But even more trustworthy, I am no liar and I am simply telling you what she told me."

Stick to the truth, tell it, and then watch the world burn.

HeadingRed · 2014-02-03T22:36:52+00:00

Even if she is lying about that (saying it just to give you a quick punch in the gut) it should leave you with this-

A woman has a black belt in verbal\emotional abuse. The more you take her words at face value, the more vulnerable you are.

redpillta · 2014-02-04T05:43:47+00:00

I've said it before and I'll say it again. Emotions are a woman's world. You broke up with her and smushed her ego so she went ape shit and tried to break your frame with....EMOTIONS! The second she said that to you I hope you shrugged and went "meh" and walked away.

Because if you got all pissed and mad you've fallen right into her trap. She wants you to get mad and emotional so you lose your cool and say something mean, which will cue her waterworks and make you feel like shit so you start backpedaling and trying to comfort her even though SHE'S the asshole to begin with.

I'm tellin you, don't break frame when girls get emotional. It was a hard lesson for me to learn first hand and I don't want to see anyone make the same mistake

TfahsNoriEht · 2014-02-03T19:05:46+00:00

so if she is capable of doing something like this, I think any woman has the propensity to do so. I always told myself that this girl was different, that there was something about her that was special.

Good then you learned something valuable:

All Women Are Like That

Title	I was skeptical about taking TRP, until tonight
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Date	February 3, 2014 6:24 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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