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This queen knows how to handle sleazy men

quasarbar

December 22, 2021
241 upvotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy

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Title This queen knows how to handle sleazy men
Author

quasarbar

Upvotes 241
Comments 20
Date December 22, 2021 11:52 AM UTC
(4 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/rm3ofa/this_queen_knows_how_to_handle_sleazy_men/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/this-queen-knows-how-to-handle-sleazy-men.1091188
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Comments

[–]Competitive-Tea4907 130 points131 points132 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Yes, quite a lot of people disagree with me on this one, but I don't think men generally want something casual. They want a woman to chase and pine for them while they stay casual. When a woman is not interested in anything more, they either throw a tantrum or start chasing. 🙄

[–]quasarbarFDS Newbie[S] 61 points62 points63 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep. It's basically narcissism. Their fragile egos want to be wanted, and when it doesn't work they go crazy and desperate.

[–]xximaclownFDS Newbie 153 points154 points155 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

I don't really get what the poster meant by the random-hook up option treatment ~ but I love the fact that she mirrored the guy's behaviour.

I have been doing that for ages now as a part of "i treat you the way you treat me" mindset my mom drilled into my sibling and I but it's always so funny to see how guys react when you talk and do the same things they do to you.

[–]Ocean417 68 points69 points70 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Literally carry this energy for everything you do! Would your boss be chill if you mirrored how he treated you? My favourite is when a guy suggest a threesome I immediately go ooh yes let’s do it with [insert name of his hot male friend].

[–]quasarbarFDS Newbie[S] 25 points26 points27 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Oh I love that! I'm guessing he immediately started backpedaling?

[–]quasarbarFDS Newbie[S] 101 points102 points103 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

She clarified in the thread that she did NOT mean she's still hooking up with him, and probably didn't express that well. She's not having sex with him or seeing him anymore.

[–]xximaclownFDS Newbie 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Thank you for clarifying it further to me, I was a bit confused :)

[–]quasarbarFDS Newbie[S] 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A lot of people in the original thread were also confused!

[–]Competitive-Tea4907 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A lot of men will decide they don't want to hook up at all, when they get the sense a woman has 0 interest in a relationship with them. It's pretty twisted.

[–]Colour_riotFDS Newbie 19 points20 points21 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I don't really get what the poster meant by the random-hook up option treatment

She's making him feel like that. There are NVMs who will pretend to be genuine and kind to chase a woman and get into her pants, and then effectively tell that woman that she's a hook up option for multiple reasons.

That's what that guy did here and she reverse uno-ed him, it drove him nuts. Basically he can't stand that she suddenly doesn't think that he's the shit.

[–]BrightIdeaGeneratorFDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol good for her. I'm going to remember this tactic if I ever get back out there.

[–]EricaeatscarrotsFDS Newbie 95 points96 points97 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Let’s stop labeling toxic actions as “bEiNg aN aDuLt.” No one is entitled to your time, respect, or body. How is mirroring someone’s actions not being an adult? I cannot stand it when I read on other subs or hear from people that “we are adults” when justifying terrible behavior. Watch my adult self ignore you and walk away

[–]LadiesOpinionFDS Newbie 66 points67 points68 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

FDS saved me from months, possibly years of disappointment and frustration with the "mirror their effort" strategy.

The second I thought about matching LVX's behaviour/effort, I realised: I wouldn't want to be in a relationship where the bar is that low. I don't want to stoop to their level, I don't want to be the one always giving giving giving, and they'll never rise to my level.

If mirroring behaviour is childish, then the behaviour you are mirroring is childish. I wouldn't mind it one second if my LVX had mirrored my behaviour!

[–]quasarbarFDS Newbie[S] 21 points22 points23 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree. I think what she did was the epitome of maturity.

She agreed with him. She gave him what he wanted!

[–]bullshitextinguisher 51 points52 points53 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Men are like literal toddlers. Throw their own toy in the mud but are craving the one of the baby next to them. Once they have that, they’ll throw it in the mud too.

Stay away from this toxicity.

It’s not your job to make him see your worth.

She’s a queen!

[–]millennialpink2000FDS Apprentice 22 points23 points24 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is AWESOME because he's gonna be spiraling about how bad he is in bed! HAHAHAHAH two days after they bone and suddenly she's tossing him to the curb. This was fantastic

[+][deleted] 4 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

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[–]xpressurself111FDS Newbie 16 points17 points18 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I know you’re being downvoted but the handbook says 3 months is the standard. And also I think the proper response to him would be “block and delete” anyway, 😃

[–]vforvendetta87FDS Newbie 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

From what she described it sounds like he deceived her into believing he wanted a relationship and then bailed after getting what he wanted. Very common tactic and very manipulative and abusive.

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